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101 Sermon Illustrations on Church Attendance

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Regular church attendance is often emphasized in Christian preaching as vital for spiritual growth, fellowship, and worship (Hebrews 10:25). Illustrations use everyday scenarios, statistics, and personal testimonies to highlight the benefits of gathering together and the challenges or excuses people face in attending. The subject frequently draws on images of community, commitment, and the contrast between secular and sacred priorities.

Why Do I Go To Church?

Luke 4:16

Lucy Maude Montgomery is best known for her novel "Anne of Green Gables" about life on Prince Edward Island. She was a devout Presbyterian and kept a detailed diary throughout her life. Her are some of her thoughts about her motivation to be religious:

August 23, 1901 [age 26]

I often ask myself why, after all, I go to church so regularly. Well, I go for a jumble of reasons, some of which are very good, and others very flimsy and ashamed of themselves. It’s the respectable thing to do -- this is one of the flimsy ones -- and I would be branded black sheep if I didn’t go. Then, in this quiet, uneventful land, church is really a social function and the only regular one we have. We get out, see our friends and are seen of them, and air out best clothes which otherwise would be left for the most part to the tender mercies of moth and rust.

Oh, you miserable reasons! Now for a few better ones!

I go to church because I think it well to shut the world out from my soul now and then and look my spiritual self squarely in the face. I go because I think it well to search for truth everywhere, even if we never find it in its entirety; and finally I go because all the associations of the church and service make for good and bring the best that is in me to the surface -- the memories of old days, old friends, and childish aspirations for the beautiful and sacred. All these come back, like the dew of some spiritual benediction -- and so I go to church.

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[Original illustration at this number was a duplicate of HolwickID #1491]

from Book: The Selected Journals of L. M. Montgomery · Lucy Maude Montgomery; edited by Mary Rubio & Eleizabeth Waterston via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database religion

Miss Church and Miss Out!

Luke 4:16

There are many benefits of faithful fellowship with God’s people. DON’T MISS OUT!!! GET TO CHURCH THIS SUNDAY!!!

Miss church, and you miss CHRIST’S POWER & PRESENCE. Christ promises to meet with us (Matt. 18:20). God’s manifest glory and power is at work when His people get together in obedience and fellowship (2 Chr. 7:2-3; 1 Sam. 4:21). Out of church you can lose power in your relationship with God through disobedience (Judges 16:20).

Miss church, and it will damage your WITNESS. A fellowshipping Christian can effectively invite the lost to hear the public, evangelistic preaching of God’s Word (Acts 15:7; 1 Th. 2:9). The witnessing Christian who is connected to a Spirit-filled, Biblical Fellowship collectively and actively reaching out to the lost (Acts 2:40,41) can be truly fruitful. Miss church and the effectiveness of your witnessing will be greatly hindered, and you will grow passive, neglectful, and sterile (2 Pet. 1:8).

Miss church and you will lack FRUIT. Joyful, loving believers are productive members of a fruitful, visible, local church (Col. 1:6, 10), exercising the Fruit of the Spirit, in regular interaction with God’s people, as Brothers and Sisters. Out of church you can tend to develop a bitter, critical spirit (Eph. 4:31; Gal. 5:15) and become isolated, and unrelated to the Family of God’s people.

Miss church and you miss FELLOWSHIP. In church you can relate and meet with other believers (Heb. 10:25), and can collectively help other saints to grow in their walk with the Lord, and in their understanding of the things of God (Acts 2:42). Out of church you may be cut off, unstable, ineffective in helping yourself or others in the faith, and you cannot grow in grace and love of the brethren (2 Pet. 3:16-18).

Miss church and you miss MINISTRY. In fellowship we are joined, as an effectual, working part of the Body (Eph. 4:16), exercising gifts and callings within the framework of Scriptural Fellowship. We can have opportunity to use our gifts and talents to the glory of God and the mutual edification of God’s people (Heb. 6:10; 13:21). Out of church you have severed yourself from the body, and are unable to effectively serve or use gifts and talents for the benefits and edification of others; you cannot be obedient to God’s call to serve one another (Gal. 5:13).

Miss church and it shows your lack of OBEDIENCE. You are failing to obeys God’s command to gather with the saints and be joined together in public assembly and in the receiving of godly admonition from God’s servant/s (1 Th. 5:12, 13). You will likely become apathetic, carnal, inactive; and will show by your works an open disregard to the clear and plain instructions of God in His Word (Titus 1:16).

Miss Church and you will miss HEARING GOD’S WORD. In church you can hear the Word of God read (1 Th. 5:27; 1 Tim. 4:13), and preached (Acts 13:44) and gain instruction - whilst you may not necessarily agree with all that is said (1 Cor. 1:21) by the imperfect human instrument, though that person is God’s vessel at that time (Acts 20:7) - whilst receiving it, you can “be a Berean” (Acts 17:11). Miss church and you’ll likely be rebellious, have closed your ears to the public preaching of God’s Word through God’s vessel at that time (Zech. 7:11-12; Acts 7:57); and are deliberately and disobediently dull of hearing (Heb. 5:11; Acts 28:27).

Miss church and you miss LEARNING. There is opportunity to be taught and receive exhortation - if you are receptive (Heb. 13:22). Without fellowship you will tend to be stagnant; stunted in spiritual growth, weak, not receptive, proud (Rom. 12:16), unteachable, and contentious.

Miss church and you miss GODLY RELATIONSHIPS, where you can interact scripturally (1 Th. 5:14) and build godly relationships; pray together, and learn together. You miss opportunity to encourage those who are weaker in the faith; and to exercise the fruit of the Spirit with those who are lacking in it. You miss opportunity to love the brethren (1 Th. 4:9); and to recognise the needs of others in order to be of some service or blessing to God’s family, in edification and love (Eph. 4:16). You will have limited in inter-relations with other believers, and you will tend to be divisive, cause strife, be carnal (1 Cor. 3:3); selfish, self-centred (Lk. 22:24), disobedient, and will not submit to scriptural authority (Heb. 13:17)

Miss church and you miss DOCTRINE where you can gather together to hear the teaching of God’s Word (Acts 2:42); as balanced Christians. You will tend to get off track, and become unbalanced and cultic (Phil. 1:15).

Miss church and you will miss RECEPTIVITY - being open to hearing from God and be able to exercise scriptural discernment (Heb. 5:14). You will tend to be faultfinding, picky (Jas. 4:11) and gainsaying.

Miss church and it will hinder your ATTITUDE. People who fellowship are more likely to be positive, productive, solid and faithful (Acts 14:22, 15:32; plus many Bible references to “faithful brother”). Those who don’t fellowship are likely to be negative, destructive and unreliable.

Miss church and you will hinder INVOLVEMENT - you will not be able to be active, or put faith into action. In church you can proactively participate (1 Cor. 14:26) and be a relevant, working part of God’s church (2 Th. 3:13), you have opportunity to serve God and man, and be an effectual working part in right relation to others (Eph. 4:16); striving together (Phil. 1:27), and always abounding in the work of the Lord (1 Cor. 15:58), with patient continuance in well doing (Rom. 2:7). You will likely have passive, dead faith (Jas. 2:14, 17); you cannot take part - or are deliberately idle - unwilling to work; in effect you have become a severed part from the local body of believers.

Miss church and you miss WORSHIP - the opportunity to join in the joyful corporate public worship of God in unity with other believers (Acts 2:47).

Miss church and you will fail in WITNESS TO COMMUNITY. You won’t show the world that we can be a shining light (Acts 2:47) and corporate public testimony (1 Pet. 2:12); as a glowing, visible, radiant witness. When believers fail to be a faithful part of the assembly in the local community it is destructive to the visible church of God. By not being part of the visible church they are effectively standing against it, and stand with the world and God’s enemies (Ex. 32:26).

Miss church and you fail in TESTIMONY - the opportunity to testify of the goodness of God in order to encourage and uplift others. Your testimony will be hindered; you will be a poor witness to younger believers, and can cause little ones to stumble (1 Cor. 8:12; Rom. 14:13).

Miss church and you show lack of COMMITMENT. True believers will be committed to the visible local church in the community, upholding the Word of God, in union with the people of God, to a lost and hell-bound world (throughout the Bible). Missing fellowship leads to lack of commitment and carnality (1 Cor. 3:3).

Miss church and you miss PRAYER. You miss joining in corporate prayer (Acts 4:31, 12:12). You cannot share needs and answers to prayer and be thereby encouraged (2 Cor. 1:11). By missing corporate prayer (Acts 1:14) you will not be able to minister as effectively to others by joining together in prayer with other believers, nor receive prayer for yourself.

Miss church and you miss EDIFICATION; the opportunity to edify the saints (Acts 9:31, Rom. 14:19, 1 Cor. 14:12) and extend your arms of friendship and love to other believers. You cannot give heed to godly edifying (1 Tim. 1:4); you are not able to edify yourself - or others, and will tend to become contentious (Prov. 26:21).

Miss church and you fail to GLORIFY GOD. Believers can assemble together and give Glory to God together (Rom. 15:6-7) and see His hand at work in the corporate gathering (Acts 4:31). Those who don’t assemble refuse to glorify God in the assembly (Jn. 17:10).

Miss church and you fail to EXPRESS UNITY with God’s people. God promises to bless the expression of scriptural unity (Ps. 133:1), as shown in being part of the local body of believers (Eph. 4:3; 1 Cor. 12:20, 1 Cor. 1:10). You will likely just murmur, complain (Jas 5:9); create schism (1 Cor. 12:25), or disunity and discord (Prov. 6:19).

Miss church and you miss BREAKING BREAD TOGETHER; you miss opportunity to join in corporate remembrance of what Christ has done for us in His work at Calvary (Acts 2:42, 2:46), and the keeping of the ordinances (1 Cor. 11:2). This is disobedience to Christ’s command.

Miss church and you miss the RESULTS of church-going; in terms of growth, and vibrancy of spiritual life

(2 Th. 1:3). You will tend to become stagnant, worldly, and backsliding.

Miss church and you lack ACCOUNTABILITY - You will not be a responsible part of a disciplined and God-ordained fellowship (Gal. 6:1), acting under authority (2 Cor. 10:8); receiving godly instruction, challenge and exhortation (1 Th. 2:9). You will likely become selfish, will lack submission to scriptural decency or order; and will not be in right Biblical relationship to God’s people or submission to godly leadership.

Miss church and you miss being able to show STEWARDSHIP - to faithfully (1 Cor. 4:2) support the visible expression of God’s work on the earth (Gal. 6:10), and its extension by Biblical preaching and ministry (2 Cor. 11:9) and giving (Rom. 12:13). You will fail to support a local expression of outreach or ministry in a scriptural manner.

Miss church and you fail to show CARE. The members should have care of one another (1 Cor. 12:25). You are called to love other believers (1 P. 1:22, 3:8), not please yourself (Rom. 15:1). If you miss church you are self-centred; you cannot effectively support the weak (Acts 20:35) and cannot effectively care for other believers.

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How To Be An Apatheist

Amos 8:5

In a world torn by religious zealotry, not caring much about other people's beliefs (or even your own) can be a virtue.

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It came to me recently in a blinding vision that I am an apatheist. Well, “blinding vision” may be an overstatement. “Wine-induced haze” might be more strictly accurate. This was after a couple of glasses of Merlot, when someone asked me about my religion. “Atheist,” I was about to say, but I stopped myself. “I used to call myself an atheist,” I said, “and I still don't believe in God, but the larger truth is that it has been years since I really cared one way or another. I'm” — that was when it hit me — “an ... apatheist!”

That got a chuckle, but the point was serious. Apatheism — a disinclination to care all that much about one's own religion, and an even stronger disinclination to care about other people's — may or may not be something new in the world, but its modern flowering, particularly in ostensibly pious America, is worth getting excited about.

Apatheism concerns not what you believe but how. In that respect it differs from the standard concepts used to describe religious views and people. Atheism, for instance, is not at all like apatheism; the hot-blooded atheist cares as much about religion as does the evangelical Christian, but in the opposite direction. “Secularism” can refer to a simple absence of devoutness, but it more accurately refers to an ACLU-style disapproval of any profession of religion in public life — a disapproval that seems puritanical and quaint to apatheists. Tolerance is a magnificent concept, John Locke's inestimable gift to all mankind; but it assumes, as Locke did, that everyone brims with religious passions that everyone else must work hard to put up with.

And agnostics? True, most of them are apatheists, but most apatheists are not agnostics. Because — and this is an essential point — many apatheists are believers.

In America, as Thomas Byrne Edsall reported in these pages recently, the proportion of people who say they never go to church or synagogue has tripled since 1972, to 33 percent in 2000. Most of these people believe in God (professed atheists are very rare in the United States); they just don't care much about him. They do care a bit; but apatheism is an attitude, not a belief system, and the over-riding fact is that these people are relaxed about religion.

Even regular churchgoers can, and often do, rank quite high on the apatheism scale. There are a lot of reasons to attend religious services: to connect with a culture or a community, to socialize, to expose children to religion, to find the warming comfort of familiar ritual. The softer denominations in America are packed with apatheists. The apatheism of Reform Jews is so well known as to be a staple of synagogue humor. (Orthodox rabbi to Reform rabbi: “One of my congregants says his son wants a Harley for his bar mitzvah. What's a Harley?” Reform rabbi to Orthodox rabbi: “A Harley is a motorcycle. What's a bar mitzvah?”)

Finally, and this may seem strangest of all, even true-believing godliness today often has an apatheistic flavor. I have Christian friends who organize their lives around an intense and personal relationship with God, but who betray no sign of caring that I am an unrepentantly atheistic Jewish homosexual. They are exponents, at least, of the second, more important part of apatheism: the part that doesn't mind what other people think about God.

I believe that the rise of apatheism is to be celebrated as nothing less than a major civilizational advance. Religion, as the events of September 11 and after have so brutally underscored, remains the most divisive and volatile of social forces. To be in the grip of religious zeal is the natural state of human beings, or at least of a great many human beings; that is how much of the species seems to be wired. Apatheism, therefore, should not be assumed to represent a lazy recumbency, like my collapse into a soft chair after a long day. Just the opposite: it is the product of a determined cultural effort to discipline the religious mindset, and often of an equally determined personal effort to master the spiritual passions. It is not a lapse. It is an achievement.

“A world of pragmatic atheists,” the philosopher Richard Rorty once wrote, “would be a better, happier world than our present one.” Perhaps. But best of all would be a world generously leavened with apatheists: people who feel at ease with religion even if they are irreligious; people who may themselves be members of religious communities, but who are neither controlled by godly passions nor concerned about the (nonviolent, noncoercive) religious beliefs of others. In my lifetime America has taken great strides in this direction, and its example will be a source of strength, not weakness, in a world still beset by fanatical religiosity (al Qaeda) and tyrannical secularism (China).

Ronald Reagan used to insist that he was religious even though, as President, he hardly ever entered a church. It turns out he was in good company. Those Americans who tell pollsters they worship faithfully? Many of them are lying. John G. Stackhouse Jr., a professor of theology and culture, wrote recently in American Outlook magazine, “Beginning in the 1990s, a series of sociological studies has shown that many more Americans tell pollsters that they attend church regularly than can be found in church when teams actually count.” In fact, he says, actual churchgoing may be at little more than half the professed rate. A great many Americans, like their fortieth President, apparently care about religion enough to say they are religious, but not enough to go to church.

You can snicker at Reagan and the millions of others like him; you can call them hypocrites if you like. I say, God bless them, every one.

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The Atlantic Monthly, May 2003

[see KeruxID #22848 for Charles Colson's review of this approach]

Pastor Pays Whites To Attend Church

Luke 14:16

Looking to make some extra spending money? A pastor in Shreveport, Louisiana, is offering white people money to attend services at his mostly black, 4,000-member church.

Bishop Fred Caldwell, the pastor, says he grew tired of looking down from the pulpit and seeing only black faces in his congregation. “Our churches are too segregated, and the Lord never intended for that to happen,” Caldwell told the Shreveport Times. “It's time for something radical.”

Caldwell said the idea for diversifying Greenwood Acres Full Gospel Baptist Church came to him during a sermon. He is paying whites $5 an hour for Sunday services and $10 an hour on Thursdays. The plan started Aug. 3, and 10 white people -- some glad for the money, some glad for the invitation -- showed up for the Sunday morning service.

While some critics say the worship-for-wages plan amounts to bribery, Caldwell said he just wants the kingdom of God on earth to look like it will in heaven.

Caldwell used the parable of the vineyard workers in Matthew 20 as a biblical context for his program. In the parable, no matter what time of the day the owner of the vineyard hired workers, he paid them all the same amount.

“This isn't just a good idea,” Caldwell said. “This is a God idea. I ain't got no better sense than to obey God.”

To get their money, white visitors must register before the service, and Caldwell pays them out of his pocket. His offer lasts through the month of August.

Members of the Greenwood Acres church have met Caldwell's challenge with enthusiasm. Torie Jenkins has attended for all of her 21 years. She told Associated Baptist Press she has enjoyed Caldwell's decision to invite whites to their church. “It has been very interesting,” Jenkins said. “We just love them [white people], and we open our arms to them.”

Jenkins said she doesn't know if the white visitors will continue attending Greenwood Acres after the payments stop, but she hopes they will. “I don't know, but I'll look and see what God's going to do,” Jenkins said.

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Why Christians Should Attend Church

Luke 4:16

For believers, there is no substitute for attending church. Besides something that pleases God, it is necessary for a believer's spiritual well-being. For shut-ins or invalids who aren't able to go to church, the ministries on radio or TV might be the only kind of fellowship or spiritual nourishment that they get. God certainly understands the circumstances of these people, and recognizes the sincerity of their hearts. However, it is a different matter for those who could attend church but are too lazy, or put other things such as entertainment and amusements before God, or who harbor bitterness or indifference toward other believers.

It is important to attend church for the following reasons:

(1) It is an Expression of our Love for God.

Going to church is a visible, tangible expression of our love and worship toward God. It is where we can gather with other believers to publicly bear witness of our faith and trust in God, something that is required of all Christians (Matt. 10:32-33) -- and it is where we can bring Him offerings of praise, thanks, and honor, which are pleasing to Him. The psalmist wrote, "I will declare Your name to My brethren; In the midst of the assembly I will praise You" (Psa. 22:22). People are often motivated toward church attendance for how it will bless themselves, however we should remember that the primary purpose of the corporate gathering is to bring "service" to the Lord as a blessing to Him (Psa. 134:2). Indeed, the Lord is deserving of our time and energy to honor Him with our service of devotion. "You are worthy, O Lord, To receive glory and honor and power; For You created all things, And by Your will they exist and were created" (Rev. 4:11).

(2) It builds up our Spiritual Strength.

Receiving the preaching and teaching of the Word of God increases our faith and builds us up spiritually. Every believer knows what it is to face spiritual conflicts to their faith, and must realize the importance of being fed spiritually so that they can overcome the challenges. Paul states that Christians face a wrestling match with the Devil and his evil spiritual forces, and warns that the church must put on spiritual armor for protection, as it will take everything at our disposal to stand (Eph. 6:10-18). How important that we take every opportunity available to receive ministry and strength from God's Word. "So then faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the word of God" (Rom. 10:17).

(3) It brings a special visitation of the Lord's Presence.

There is the promise of a special visitation of the Lord's presence whenever two or more gather specifically in the name of Jesus. By implication, this means whenever "Jesus" is the object of gathered prayer, worship, praise, preaching, etc. Even though Jesus resides within the heart of every believer, he honors a gathering in his name by coming in the "midst," with his power, awareness, and anointing. In such a gathering, Christ is able to do things in hearts that he may not at any other time. The scripture says that God inhabits the praise of His people (Psa. 22:3), and in such an atmosphere the Holy Spirit will often manifest spiritual gifts that minister to the body of Christ. "For where two or three are gathered together in My name, I am there in the midst of them" (Matt. 18:20).

(4) It provides fellowship with other Christians.

Gathering together also has compounded importance to the relationship of the Christian brethren. The Bible makes it clear that a right relationship with God requires a "vertical" and "horizontal" alignment - that is, we must have a vertical fellowship with God and a horizontal fellowship with other believers. It is not possible to love God and refuse to love the brethren. If you have a problem loving other Christians, you have a problem in your relationship with God. Scripture warns us that unforgiveness toward others will void God's forgiveness of our own sins (Matt. 6:15). John wrote, "He who says he is in the light, and hates his brother, is in darkness until now. He who loves his brother abides in the light, and there is no cause for stumbling in him" (1 John 2:9-10).

One of the most important reasons that we go to church is to practice love toward the brethren in the form of fellowship. The Bible clearly shows that if we have a right relationship with God, we have fellowship with others believers. "But if we walk in the light as He is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus Christ His Son cleanses us from all sin" (1 John 1:7). Keeping ourselves in love and harmony with other believers keeps us humble before God so that Christ's blood can continue to cleanse us from our sins.

(5) It is an act of obedience to God.

Not to be forgotten, going to church is also a matter of obeying God's Word. The writer of the Hebrew epistle tells us not to forsake assembling together, implying that continued absence can lead to willful sin. "And let us consider one another in order to stir up love and good works, not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as is the manner of some, but exhorting one another, and so much the more as you see the Day approaching. For if we sin willfully after we have received the knowledge of the truth, there no longer remains a sacrifice for sins," (Heb. 10:24-26). Once again, we are reminded that a great part of the purpose of the gathering is for the consideration of our brethren, coming together to help motivate and encourage one another. This is a responsibility charged to every believer. To reject church attendance, is a rejection of one of the sacred duties of the believer. "Therefore, to him who knows to do good and does not do it, to him it is sin" (James 4:17).

(6) It provides accountability to spiritual leadership.

More strong evidence that proves that we're to be a part of a church fellowship, is that we're told to submit to the authority of spiritual leaders (within the boundaries of God's Word). "Obey those who rule over you, and be submissive, for they watch out for your souls, as those who must give account. Let them do so with joy and not with grief, for that would be unprofitable for you" (Heb. 13:17). God designed this system of accountability for the progress and protection of His flock. Obviously, this really isn't possible unless we are a part of an organized fellowship which has identified elders, pastors, or leaders. It is easy to see that one cannot genuinely be under submission to a TV pastor who has never met you. Nor is it possible to be under submission by visiting a different church each week. The Bible tells us to know them that are over us in the Lord (1 Thes. 5:12). Submission necessitates a commitment and relationship to a local body of believers and to their spiritual leaders.

(7) It combines our spiritual strength in prayer.

The Bible indicates that agreement in prayer with other believers has special favor with God. "Again I say to you that if two of you agree on earth concerning anything that they ask, it will be done for them by My Father in heaven" (Matt. 18:19). There is multiplied strength in the combined faith of God's people, and it is clear that greater spiritual gains can be realized through corporate prayer and worship. This agrees with how God has historically blessed the union of His people in battle against their enemies. "Five of you shall chase a hundred, and a hundred of you shall put ten thousand to flight; your enemies shall fall by the sword before you" (Lev. 26:8).

(8) It honors the Lord's Day.

The fourth commandment of the law that God gave Moses was to set aside the seventh day of the week, Saturday, as a holy day to the Lord. "Remember the Sabbath day, to keep it holy" (Ex. 20:8). This was, and will always remain, the official Sabbath. However, after Jesus rose from the dead on the first day of the week, Sunday, the early Christians began meeting together on this day as well as with the Jewish community in the synagogues on the Sabbath. History indicates that due to the enmity of the orthodox Jews toward the Christian Jews in their midst, the Jewish Christians were eventually ostracized. And although they were no longer bound to a rigid code of laws (Gal. 3:10-11, Col. 2:16), it is believed that they came to view Sunday as a combined observance of the Sabbath and the resurrection day of Jesus (Acts 20:7, 1 Cor. 16:2). This day of Christian worship came to be called the Lord's Day (Rev. 1:10), a day to fellowship in celebration of the resurrection, to worship, pray and study the Word together.

Today, the Christian Jew or gentile, is free from the bondage of the old law. The indwelling of God's spirit has brought a new way for Christians to fulfill the desires of God through His love (Gal. 5:18, Rom. 13:8-10). However, the new covenant does not invalidate the relevance of the ten commandments as they pertained to God's wishes for His people. As much as it remains God's desire for man not to kill, steal or commit adultery, God is still very much pleased for believers to honor Him on a day reserved for Him, out of their love for Him and His people.

from www.victorious.org · Dr. Dale A. Robbins via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

'Twentysomething' Adults Are Less Committed To Church,

Millions of twentysomething Americans, including those who were active in the church during their teens, have not made a commitment to church a priority in their lives as they move beyond the college years and into the workforce, a recent study by the Barna Research Group indicates.

The study, released Sept. 24, also said twentysomethings are far less likely than older adults to donate to churches, serve as volunteers or read the Bible but do admit they pray to God often.

In an American culture focused on individualism, some of the most crucial decisions made by people from age 20 to 29 -- such as whether to finish college, what career to pursue, where to live, whether to get married -- are being influenced by people's desire to determine their own personal fulfillment and purpose in life apart from the traditional sources of Christian input, the study said.

Only 3 out of 10 twentysomethings attend church in a typical week, compared to 4 out of 10 of those in their 30s and nearly half of all adults 40 and older, Barna found. And just 22 percent of those ages 25 to 29 -- those most likely to have transitioned from education to the workforce -- attended church in the past week.

For those who were active in church as teenagers, from high school graduation to age 25 there is a 42 percent decrease in weekly church attendance and a 58 percent drop from age 18 to 29. The study said that represents about 8 million twentysomethings alive today who were active church-goers as teenagers but who will no longer be active by their 30th birthday.

“Christianity is not going to whither away among twentysomethings -- more than 10 million are active church-goers and very committed to the Christian faith,” David Kinnaman, vice president of the Barna Research Group and director of the study, said in a news release. “But the real issue is how churches will respond to the faithquakes that are reverberating through our nation's young adults. The notion that these people will return to the church when they get older or once they become parents is only true in a minority of cases.

“More importantly, that reasoning ignores the real issue: Millions of twentysomethings are crystallizing their views of life without the input of church leaders, the Bible or other mature Christians,” Kinnaman said. “If we simply wait for them to come back to church later in adulthood, not only will most of those people never return, but also we would miss the chance to alter their life trajectory during a critical phase. And, besides, what church couldn't use the infusion of energy, ideas and leadership that young adults can bring to the table?”

Only about 30 percent of twentysomethings donated to a church in the past year, compared to 61 percent of older adults who did so. In addition, Bible reading levels are about 33 percent less among twentysomethings than among older adults.

Just one-third of twentysomethings claims to be absolutely committed to Christianity, compared to more than half of all older adults, the research showed.

Twentysomethings also tend to feel overlooked as potential leaders in their churches, the study said, as just 4 percent of young adults currently serve as a lay leader at their church. Even so, people in their 20s and 30s are more likely than older adults to consider themselves leaders and are more open to the training which would make them better leaders. The research found that because young adults are busy, skeptical of churches and unwilling to commit to classroom-style training without hands-on leadership opportunities, mentoring is the most appealing method of leadership development for their age group.

Despite the decline in commitment to Christianity among twentysomethings, the Barna study found that more than 80 percent said their religious faith is very important in their life and nearly 57 percent claimed to have made a personal commitment to Jesus Christ that is still important in their life. The fact that 75 percent of twentysomethings surveyed said they had prayed to God in the past week indicates they have a desire for personal spiritual experience, the study said.

The data in the Barna study was collected from telephone interviews with several nationwide random samples of adults from January 2000 through May 2003. The research group interviewed a total of 14,091 adults, including 2,660 adults ages 20 to 29.

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Formed For God's Family

Acts 2:44

Purpose-Driven Life series, #3 1 John 1:1-4

FORMED FOR GOD'S FAMILY

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I. God is a family kind of guy. Ephesians 3:15

II. Second purpose of life - Love your spiritual family. 1 Peter 2:17

A. Why is it important?

B. God wants you to learn to love your family.

C. Misunderstandings about fellowship.

III. Four levels of Fellowship.

A. Membership: choosing to belong.

B. Friendship: learning to share. Acts 2:44

C. Partnership: doing my part.

D. Kinship: loving believers like family.

IV. Which level are you at?

A. Perhaps a need for a basic commitment - membership.

B. Always a need for a deeper commitment - involvement.

C. Our ultimate goal.

[Developed from the series by Rev. Rick Warren of Saddleback Church.]

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The Genuine Among the Counterfeits

One morning I was sitting in the lobby of a Winnipeg hotel waiting for a friend to come down from his room. As he left his key at the desk, the clerk said, “You are late to church this morning, aren't you?”

My friend replied, “You didn't go to church either.”

“No,” the man replied, “I never go to church any more. There are too many hypocrites there. So I just stay away.”

I thought my friend gave a very good answer: “But that's the reason I go to church. Where there are counterfeits, one usually finds the genuine.”

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Source: Our Times, Copyright (c) February 1947, Pacific Press, http://www.signstimes.com; submitted by Dale Galusha

The Number of Unchurched Mushrooms

Luke 4:16

The number of Americans who don't go to church has mushroomed from 39 million to 75 million since 1991 - representing more than one third of the U.S. adult population and a 92 percent increase.

According to the “startling statistics” discovered by the Barna Research Group's (BRG) latest study, the percentage of adults who haven't attended a worship service - other than a wedding or funeral, Christmas or Easter - during the past six months has risen from 21 percent 13 years ago to 34 percent today. Released Tuesday, the survey looked at 18 different religious factors, nine behaviors and nine beliefs, of the unchurched. The poll found that non-churchgoers are more likely to be young, male and single than born-again adults.

BRG president George Barna noted that to unchurched people, embracing church life is “both counter-cultural and counter-intuitive.” “The rapidly swelling numbers of unchurched people may be forcing existing churches to reinvent their core spiritual practices while holding tightly to their core spiritual beliefs,” he added. “It will take radically new settings and experiences to effectively introduce unchurched individuals to biblical principles and practices.”

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Twentysomethings Struggle To Find Their Place In Christian Churches

From age 20 to 29, most individuals face many life-shaping decisions: whether to finish college; what career to pursue; where to live; whether or not to get married; who to marry; if and when to have children –-among many other crucial choices. In our culture of hyper-individualism, those decisions are being increasingly shaped by people’s desire to determine their own personal fulfillment and purpose in life. For many twentysomethings, allegiance to Christian churches is a casualty of their efforts to “create their own version of fulfillment.”

A new study from the Barna Research Group of Ventura, California shows that millions of twentysomething Americans –-many of whom were active in churches during their teens –-pass through their most formative adult decade while putting Christianity on the backburner. The research, conducted with 2,660 twentysomethings, shows that Americans in their twenties are significantly less likely than any other age group to attend church services, to donate to churches, to be absolutely committed to Christianity, to read the Bible, or to serve as a volunteer or lay leader in churches.

Church-Going Softens

Perhaps the most striking reality of twentysomething’s faith is their relative absence from Christian churches. Only 3 out of 10 twentysomethings (31%) attend church in a typical week, compared to 4 out of 10 of those in their 30s (42%) and nearly half of all adults age 40 and older (49%).

The low level of twentysomething church attendance is not just due to the “college years,” when many young adults may not have easy access to a church. The research shows that church attendance bottoms out during the late 20s when the vast majority of students have transitioned from education to the workforce. Just 22% of those ages 25 to 29 attended church in the last week.

Many twentysomethings are reversing course after having been active church attenders during their teenage years. As teenagers, more than half attended church each week and more than 4 out of 5 (81%) had ever gone to a Christian church. That means that from high school graduation to age 25 there is a 42% drop in weekly church attendance and a 58% decline from age 18 to age 29. That represents about 8,000,000 twentysomethings alive today who were active church-goers as teenagers but who will no longer be active in a church by their 30th birthday.

Other Signs of Struggle

Two other religious activities take significant hits during the young adult years: donating to churches and Bible reading. Only 3 out of 10 twentysomethings donated to a church in the past year, which is half the proportion of older adults (30% to 61%). (While twentysomethings generally have smaller income levels than their older counterparts, this measure has nothing to do with how much the person donates, but whether they contribute financially at all to churches.) This reluctance to commit financially suggests that churches attracting an exclusively young adult audience will be especially hard-pressed to raise sufficient funds for ministry.

Likewise, Bible reading levels are about 33% less among twentysomethings than among older adults. Overall, only 30% of twentysomethings have read the Bible in the past week, compared to 37% of those in their 30s; 44% of fortysomethings; 47% of adults in their 50s; and 55% of those age 60 and above. David Kinnaman, Vice President of the Barna Research Group, and the director of the study, pointed out that twentysomethings are one of the first age cohorts to widely embrace postmodern philosophy. “Since the postmodern viewpoint emphasizes that an individual’s experience and personal insight are the prime sources of determining what’s important in life,” Kinnaman said, “the decline in Bible usage is another sign that many twentysomethings are trying to make sense of life without traditional sources of Christian input.”

Aside from religious activities, the research points out that young adults are also re-thinking the depth of their commitment to Christianity. Just one-third of twentysomethings (34%) claims to be absolutely committed to Christianity. That compares to more than half –-54% –-of all older adults who claim such absolute devotion, including more than 6 out of 10 adults who are age 50 and older.

Missing Leadership Link?

One of the reasons that many twentysomethings struggle to find their place in churches is that many young people may feel overlooked as potential leaders. The study showed that just 4% of young adults currently serve as a lay leader at their church; only 12% have been a leader at any time in the past two years. Older adults are three to four times more likely to serve as church leaders. The age group with the greatest number of church leaders are those in their 50s.

Despite that, young people do not lack confidence in their leadership capabilities. The study showed that people in their 20s and early 30s are actually more likely than are older adults to think of themselves as leaders –-and they are much more likely than mature generations to want additional training to become better leaders. Yet, young leaders were also the least aware of any leadership training opportunities provided by their congregation. Nevertheless, young leaders are a challenging target for leadership preparation since they are busy, skeptical of churches, and often unwilling to commit to such development, especially to classroom-style training without hands-on leadership opportunities. The research points out that mentoring is the most appealing form of leadership development for young adults.

Twentysomething Spirituality

While young adults are re-thinking their allegiance to the Christian faith, those in their 20s have certainly not discarded all traces of spirituality and faith. Instead, personal faith is but one of multiple sources of input which young people combine to create their own definition of personal fulfillment and meaning. More than 8 out of 10 twentysomethings (80%) said that their religious faith is very important in their life and nearly 6 out of 10 (57%) claimed to have made a personal commitment to Jesus Christ that is still important in their life.

The study also showed that young adults are only slightly less likely than older adults to pray, which reflects their appetite for personal spiritual experience. Three-quarters of young adults in their 20s (75%) said they had prayed to God in the past week.

Reactions to the Findings

Kinnaman pushed for a realistic view of the research implications. “Christianity is not going to whither away among twentysomethings –-more than 10 million are active church-goers and very committed to the Christian faith. But the real issue is how churches will respond to the faithquakes that are reverberating through our nation’s young adults. The notion that these people will return to the church when they get older or once they become parents is only true in a minority of cases. More importantly, that reasoning ignores the real issue: millions of twentysomethings are crystallizing their views of life without the input of church leaders, the Bible, or other mature Christians. If we simply wait for them to come back to church later in adulthood, not only will most of those people never return, but also we would miss the chance to alter their life trajectory during a critical phase. And, besides, what church couldn’t use the infusion of energy, ideas, and leadership that young adults can bring to the table?”

“Although it may come across as unwarranted skepticism, young adults are questioning their church experience in some legitimate ways,” Kinnaman said. “Their disenchantment has raised questions for churches related to relevance, discipleship, authenticity, the use of art and technology in ministry, relationships, music, learning styles and teaching, teamwork, leadership hierarchy, stewardship, and much more. On the flip side of the coin, young adults –-many who have grown up in unhealthy families –-struggle with character issues, with relational isolation brought on by their hyper-individualism, with Bible familiarity, and with being over-critical of their elders. Consequently, many of the legitimate questions young leaders ask get lost in the jumble of generational warfare.”

David Kinnaman –-a twenty-something himself — has been a Barna researcher since 1995. He speaks and writes about the postmodern ministry environment, teenagers, and young leaders.

Research Source and Methodology

The data described above are from telephone interviews with several nationwide random samples of adults conducted from January 2000 through May 2003. In total 14,091 adults were interviewed in studies that explored church attendance, spiritual beliefs and practices, and demographic correlates. The sample of twenty-somethings included 2,660 adults ages 20 to 29.

The maximum margin of sampling error associated with the aggregate sample is ±1.0 percentage point at the 95% confidence level; the maximum sampling error for the subgroup of twenty-somethings is ±2.0 percentage points. All of the interviews were conducted from the Barna Research Group telephone interviewing facility in Ventura, CA. Adults in the 48 continental states were eligible to be interviewed and the distribution of respondents coincided with the geographic dispersion of the U.S. adult population. Multiple callbacks were used to increase the probability of including a reliable distribution of adults.

“Theolographics” refers to the spiritual practices, beliefs and self-identification of individuals.

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One T In Dirty and No C In Skunk

He was not too well-educated and his manner was somewhat crude and rough, but he became a Christian and was on fire for the Lord. He constantly pestered his pastor to help him be of some genuine service to his church. In desperation, the pastor gave him a list of ten people, saying, "These are members who seldom attend services; some are prominent men of the city. Contact them any way you can and try to get them to be more faithful. Use the church stationery to write letters if you want, but get them back in church."

He accepted the challenge with enthusiasm. About three weeks later, a letter arrived from a prominent physician, whose name was on the list. In the envelope was a one thousand dollar check and a note:

Dear Pastor:

Enclosed is my check to make up for my missed offerings. I'm

sorry for missing worship so much, but be assured I am going to

be present every Sunday from now on and will not by choice miss

services again.

Sincerely, M. B. Jones, M.D.

P.S. Would you kindly tell your secretary that there is only one "t"

in dirty and no "c" in skunk."

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How Condi Came Back

Luke 15:11

President Bush's National Security Adviser Condoleezza Rice is a preacher's kid. She grew up in church. But in her mid-20s, she found she had drifted from her Christian faith.

Rice told this story at a Sunday school class at National Presbyterian Church in Washington, D.C. in August 2002:

Although I never doubted the existence of God, I think like all people I've had some ups and downs in my faith. When I first moved to California in 1981 to join the faculty at Stanford, there were a lot of years when I was not attending church regularly ... I was a specialist in international politics, so I was always traveling abroad.

[One] Sunday morning, I went to Menlo Park Presbyterian Church [in Palo Alto]. The minister that Sunday morning gave a sermon I will never quite forget. It was about the Prodigal Son from the point of view of the elder son.

It set the elder son up not as somebody who had done all the right things but as somebody who had become so self-satisfied; a parable about self-satisfaction and complacency in faith, that people who didn't somehow expect themselves to need to be born again can be complacent.

I started to think of myself as that elder son who had never doubted the existence of God but wasn't really walking in faith in an active way anymore.

I started to become more active with the church, to go to Bible study, and to have a more active prayer life. It was a very important turning point in my life.

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Source: Washington Times (8/27/02); submitted by Greg Asimakoupoulos, Naperville, Illinois

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America's Protestant Majority Is Disappearing

The United States will no longer be a majority Protestant nation in years to come, due to a precipitous decline in affiliation with many Protestant churches, a new survey has found.

Between 1993 and 2002, the share of Americans who said they were Protestant dropped from 63 percent to 52 percent, after years of remaining generally stable, according to a study released Tuesday by the National Opinion Research Center at the University of Chicago.

At the same time, the number of people who said they had no religion rose from 9 percent to nearly 14 percent, and many are former Protestants, the survey's authors said.

The study was based on three decades of religious identification questions in the General Social Survey, which the opinion center conducts to measure public trends.

The United States “has been seen as white and Protestant,” said Tom Smith, director of the General Social Survey. “We're not going to be majority Protestant any longer.”

Respondents were defined as Protestant if they said they were members of a Protestant denomination, such as Episcopal Church or Southern Baptist Convention. The category included members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and members of independent Protestant churches.

Among the reasons for the decline were the large number of young people and adults leaving denominations as the number of non-Protestant immigrants increased, comprising a greater share of the population. Also, a lower percentage are being raised Protestant, Smith said.

Smith said it is also possible that some former Protestants are now identifying themselves only as “Christian,” a choice on the survey.

The Roman Catholic population has remained relatively stable over the period, making up about 25 percent of the U.S. population.

People who said they belonged to other religions - including Islam, Orthodox Christianity or Eastern faiths - increased from 3 percent to 7 percent between 1993 and 2002, while the share of people who said they were Jewish remained stable at just under 2 percent.

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When Ball Becomes Baal

Hebrews 10:25

It's rare to see kids playing sports in the neighborhood anymore. We're now organized and “professionalized” -- including uniforms, state-of-the-art facilities, competitive coaches, equally competitive parents, all focused toward after-season tournaments.

It is also fun, and it can be instructive. I love to watch my kids play sports. In fact, they need to play -- some.

But it's not so easy as handing over 70 bucks and saying, “Sign up Johnny and Susie this year.” Making that decision means that you may be out four to five times each week during the season. Sports soon becomes all about calendarization and control of your life -- especially if you have more than one kid. Perhaps nothing outside of a change in your job has so much potential to turn the family schedule upside down.

“This man understands,” you say.

Now comes the part you won't like: “Behold, I say unto you, you have made sports the household god.” Too strong? OK, not everyone has done this. But the deification of sports is happening to many.

How does ball become Baal? Answer: When it controls you, and you give it devoted worship. It is around your god that you order your life -- and you can almost never say “no” to it.

Like athlete's foot on the hygienically challenged teenager, sports has taken over more and more of the life of believers. Almost overnight we have awakened to the sad fact that, in many communities, sports has even usurped the hours believers meet on the Lord's Day.

All too often members are saying to church leaders, “We'll be gone next Sunday because of the soccer tournament.” In turn, leaders are supposed to acquiesce humbly. After all, we can't afford to appear “legalistic”; everyone knows that the greatest crime a church can commit is to demand something of someone.

You'll hear, “But the team needs all the players. We can't let the team down.” It never occurs to them that the church body is being deprived of a necessary body part, or that God is marginalized and disobeyed. We are not to forsake the assembling of ourselves together, God states in Hebrews 10:25.

Devotion is the operative word. When the team says, “We need you,” we sacrifice to do it. But when it crosses the time allotted to spiritual edification and worship, the Ruler of the universe is often sent to the bench. In the process, we teach our children that devotion to sports is more important than both devotion to God and loyalty to our spiritual family. Have you considered that you may be teaching your kids to worship sports?

Here are some ways to put sports in the proper place:

First, decide beforehand that there will be no contest between the church's essential activities designed for your family's spiritual growth and what the team plans for your lives. If you will talk this over ahead of time with your child and then the coach, there will be no confusion. Through the years I've found that many coaches respect that decision. But it must be a prior decision, not one made on a case-by-case basis. When sports conflicts with Sunday worship or youth camp or a special spiritual activity, the decision has already been made.

Secondly, determine that your children cannot play every sport. There is a sanctity to the home life that must be protected. You need quiet evenings at home. You need meals together. Just let your children know that you are excited about sports but that there are limits. You then determine what those limits are. For us, we attempt to have only one sport per year for each child.

Finally, think about some creative choices. One of my sons played basketball, but the season was interminably long. I was traveling as well. So, I would go to a speaking engagement over the weekend, then when I was home, I was out sitting on the sidelines watching my son practice two or more nights.

It was not really “time together.” This wasn't going to work. The solution came to me after prayer. I asked him if he would be willing to learn golf in the place of basketball. We could play together, along with his brother, and we could do it whenever we wanted. We could enjoy this for the rest of our lives. I've paid some extra money, but I've bought back some time with my sons and some good exercise for me also. It's a bargain.

God Himself uses sports language in the New Testament. He's not against it, unless it steals the devotion belonging to Him. All other gods have to go!

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Putting Christians Back In Christmas

Luke 1:46

The Grinch has finally stolen Christmas. Funny thing is, it turned out to be an inside job.

Just weeks after Christians joined forces in a chorus of boos for retailers who refuse to acknowledge that Jesus is the reason for the season, churches across the country have decided to take the Christians out of Christmas instead. No, they’ve not given up on the holiday. They’re not refusing to say “Merry Christmas.” They’re certainly not buying “holiday” trees. They’ve just decided to stay home for Christmas.

Since Christmas falls on Sunday this year [2005] for the first time since 1994, many churches have decided to close their doors that morning. The rationale goes something like this: Our folks are busy enough on Christmas morning. They’ll have guests in town for the holiday. Attendance will probably be low anyway. Let’s just encourage everyone to spend the morning at home with family.

It’s not that I have a problem with spending time with my family. In fact, there’s very little else I’d rather do than spend time with my wife and kids. However, I do have a problem with canceling church on Christmas morning.

Such a decision not only keeps God’s people out of church, it keeps God’s praises off their lips. Most of those who decide to stay home that morning aren’t going to be singing a rousing rendition of “Joy to the World” at 10:45. Instead, they’ll do what they do every Christmas morning. They’ll get up. They’ll peek under the tree. Dad will get some coffee. Mom will get the camera. Let the festivities begin!

Yet, when you read the biblical accounts of the first Christmas, you see that it’s all about worship. Mary worships God when she’s told the wonderful news of the impending incarnation (Luke 1:46ff). An unborn John the Baptist worships in the womb. Zechariah worships at the birth of John (Luke 1:67-79). The Magi worship. The angels worship. The shepherds worship. Simeon worships. And Anna worships. Do we see a trend here?

Deciding to stay home on Christmas morning has spiritual implications. Rather than gathering as a body of believers to worship our God and Savior, many will spend the morning doing anything but that. Let’s not, in the name of family, join our unbelieving neighbors in denying God the praise He deserves on Christmas morning.

Such a decision also sets a bad precedent. Rather than driving home the biblical message of Christmas to our children, we’ll be staying home instead. Rather than emphasizing to little Suzie the importance of church and community, we’ll tell her that there are some things that are more important. Rather than training our children up in the way they should go, we’re telling them that, sometimes, it’s OK not to go at all. Is this the message that we want to send to our children?

Lest someone accuse me of saying that going to church is more important than family, I’m not. I believe that there are precious few things more important than family. However, I am saying that the worship of the one and true living God and His Son is one of those things. In fact, that’s what Jesus said. “The person who loves father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me; the person who loves son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me” (Matthew 10:37).

Why can’t Christians have both on Christmas Sunday? Church and family. They can. They can take their family to church on Christmas morning and worship God as a family with the family of God. Let’s show our children the true meaning of Christmas rather than just telling them about it.

Closing the church doors on Christmas day smacks of hypocrisy. Obviously that is not the intent of those who have chosen to do so. But what will the empty parking lots tell a watching world?

The media has made much of the Christian outcry over the removal of Christ from Christmas. Retailers have raised our ire. The President of the United States has not escaped our attention. We’ve boycotted. We’ve called. We’ve let our collective voice be heard. “Non-believers must know that Jesus is the reason for the season!”

We’ve won the day. Stores are allowing their cashiers to say, “Merry Christmas,” once again. There is, indeed, victory in Jesus. Now, we’re going to stay home and bask in the glory of our success?

If we’re not careful, our unbelieving neighbors may catch on. By our actions, not our words, they will sense that Christmas isn’t that important of a Christian holiday. In fact, their Christian neighbors appear to be doing the same thing on Christmas day that they are. Perception will become reality in their minds. They won’t be likely to forget that the next time you tell them how much church means to you.

Target has changed its corporate mind. It’s not too late for the church, either. We must save Christmas from ourselves this time.

The Grinch learned a hard lesson after he tried to steal Christmas. As he stood there on that frigid mountain, he realized that Christmas in Who-ville was going on without him, or perhaps in spite of him. Standing there with his Santa hat in hand, “the Grinch thought of something he hadn’t before!” “Maybe Christmas,” he thought, “doesn’t come from a store. Maybe Christmas ... perhaps ... means a little bit more!”

Let’s learn a lesson from the Grinch. Let’s not steal Christmas from ourselves. Let’s not steal it from our children. Let’s not steal it from our neighbors. Instead of staying home that morning, come to church with the sole intention of worshipping God. Bring your family. Bring your neighbors. Let them hear the Gospel. Let them meet the Christ of Christmas.

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Peter Beck is pastor of Kenwood Baptist Church in Louisville, Ky., and a Ph.D. student at Southern Baptist Theological Seminary, also located in Louisville.

Decline In Church Attendance By Generation

Consider these facts:

• The GI or Builder Generation is 9.7% of the U.S. population. Some 60% are members of a church.

• Boomers (born between 1946 and 1966) are 29% of the U.S. population. About 40% are affiliated with a church.

• Survivors or GenXers (born between 1967 and 1981) comprise 27.5% of the population. Only 18% are affiliated with a church.

• Millennials (born 1982 and after) are 21.4% of the population. Less than 10% affiliate with a church.

If nothing changes the current trends...

• By 2010 many of the Builder Generation will no longer be with us.

• By 2010 church membership will drop from 42% today to about 23%, and 15% or lower by 2020 - a decline of 65% in just 18 years!

I shudder when I think about the kind of nation the United States of America may become for our children and grandchildren if you and I fail to make the gospel real and relevant to this and future generations. Currently, the United States is the 3rd largest un-churched and un-discipled mission field in the world!

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Religion Takes A Back Seat In Western Europe

“I don't go to church, and I don't know one person who does,” says Brian Kenny, 39, who is studying psychotherapy and counseling at Dublin Business School. “Fifteen years ago, I didn't know one person who didn't.”

Church attendance in Ireland, though still among the highest in Western Europe, has fallen from about 85% to 60% from 1975 to 2004, according to the Dublin Archdiocese.

While it is still illegal for a woman to have an abortion in this mostly Roman Catholic country, Health Minister Mary Harney made front-page news in July when she said birth control pills should be available for girls as young as 11 in some circumstances. And for the first time, according to church records, not one priest will be ordained this year in Dublin.

Mary Haugh, who has gone to Mass here seven days a week for almost all of her 79 years, is saddened by these changes. “It's a Godless society,” she says.

Ireland is not an exception. Every major religion except Islam is declining in Western Europe, according to the Center for the Study on Global Christianity at the Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary in South Hamilton, Mass. The drop is most evident in France, Sweden and the Netherlands, where church attendance is less than 10% in some areas.

Last month, Pope Benedict XVI lamented the weakening of churches in Europe, Australia and the USA. “There's no longer evidence for a need of God, even less of Christ,” he told Italian priests. “The so-called traditional churches look like they are dying.”

The forces driving the decline include Europe's turbulent history, an increasing separation between the church and government - and perhaps ... most of all, the continent's unprecedented affluence.

“For most of history, people have been on the borderline of survival,” says Ronald Inglehart, director of the World Values Survey, a Swedish-based group that tracks church attendance. “That's changed dramatically. Survival is certain for almost everyone (in the West). So one of the reasons people are drawn to religion has eroded.”

Though many Europeans say they consider themselves Christians, far fewer actually attend services. One need only see the overwhelming number of gray-haired heads in church pews to know attendance will keep falling if something doesn't change dramatically.

Benedict, who visits Cologne, Germany, next week for World Youth Day, is expected to tell some 400,000 young people there that they are the future of the church. But the pope and other leaders of traditional churches admit that their struggle for souls in Western Europe is their greatest challenge.

The need to revive the Roman Catholic Church in Europe was among the main reasons Benedict, a German cardinal, was chosen to succeed Pope John Paul II. “Nobody is better informed than Pope Benedict on the European scene and the secularism of Europe,” British Cardinal Cormac Murphy-O'Connor told the Associated Press shortly after Benedict was named pope. “I think all of us ... are concerned about this question.”

ONE RESULT: FEWER CHILDREN

Among the most striking consequences of the decline of religion has been fewer children. The birth rate throughout much of Western Europe has fallen so drastically that the population in many countries is shrinking, indicating that women throughout Europe now routinely use artificial birth control, in defiance of the Roman Catholic Church's teachings.

“The biggest single consequence of the declining role of the church is the huge decline in fertility rates,” Inglehart says. With fewer people entering the workforce, countries like Italy, Germany and France won't be able to maintain the generous welfare programs that have given most workers a lifetime of economic security.

The waning influence of religion also has brought a change in attitudes and laws on issues such as divorce, abortion, gay marriage and stem cell research.

In June, for example, Spain became the fourth country in the world to legalize gay marriage, after the Netherlands, Belgium and Canada. The measure was supported by more than 60% of Spaniards, according to a poll in December by the Center for Sociological Investigation. In the USA, where religion and church attendance are comparatively stronger, 11 states voted last year to amend their constitutions to ban gay marriage.

Europeans debate whether these changes are positive or negative for society. But it is evident people feel freer to make decisions within their own moral framework.

“The declining (church) attendance is really dramatic, but what is even more important is that the churches are losing the ability to dictate to people how to live their lives,” Inglehart says.

The Roman Catholic Church still wields some power. In May, the Vatican helped defeat a referendum in Italy that would have made fertility treatments more accessible. The Vatican urged people not to vote. Because turnout was less than 50%, the results were invalid.

Nevertheless, slightly more than a mile from the Vatican, at the Sant' Anastasia church, there were just 28 worshipers at a recent Sunday Mass. The mostly gray-haired women sat in pews built to hold up to 400. “Now, it's only a wedding or maybe the funeral of someone important that can fill the whole church,” says Giovanna Lutti, 79.

In 1900, almost everyone in Europe was Christian. Now, three out of four people identify themselves as adherents to Christianity. At the same time, the percentage of Europeans who say they are non-religious has soared from less than 1% of the population to 15%. Another 3% say they don't believe in God at all, according to the Center for the Study of Global Christianity.

In 12 major European countries, 38% of people say they never or practically never attend church, according to the World Values Survey in 2000. France's 60% non-attendance rate is the highest in that group. In the USA, only 16% say they rarely go to church.

When the trend began varies from country to country. Wars and revolutions have played a decisive role in shaping faith in Europe. The spread of religion and the conversion of the masses often were bloody affairs - from the Crusades and the papal wars to the Spanish Inquisition and the Protestant Reformation. Uprisings against ruling religious powers were equally brutal, as was the 30-year conflict in Northern Ireland pitting Protestants against Catholics. That battle may only now be nearing an end with last month's promise by the separatist - and Catholic - Irish Republic Army to disarm.

When Gen. Francisco Franco seized control of Spain during the civil war in the 1930s, for instance, he worked with the clergy to spread a “National Catholicism” that enforced his social and political codes. Since Franco's death in 1975, Spain has become more secular. Socialist Prime Minister José Luis Rodríguez Zapatero, elected in March 2004, has eliminated the one-year separation period before a divorce, authorized stem cell research and is working on a bill that would make religious education in public schools elective.

The government initiatives are a response to a changing society, says Luis López Guerra, the undersecretary at the Ministry of Justice in charge of religious and social affairs. “Spain's a Catholic country in the sense that virtually everyone born here is baptized a Catholic,” he says. “But Spanish society has become much more open, more tolerant, more secular.”

NOT JUST THE CATHOLIC CHURCH

Andrew Greeley, a priest, professor at the University of Chicago and prolific author on Christianity, argues that despite the drop in church attendance, Christianity is not on the wane everywhere in Europe. “Religion declined abruptly in England and the Netherlands. It is stagnant in West Germany, and it is flourishing in Poland, Slovakia and Slovenia,” he says. “I get upset about the sweeping generalization about the decline in religion. Religion is always declining and always reviving.”

It is not just the Catholic Church that has seen its numbers fall; some Protestant churches have been affected. Among the most striking examples is the Swedish Lutheran Church. For generations, “You didn't become a member when you were baptized. You became a member when you were born,” says Carl Johan Lidén, a priest for the church in Stockholm.

In 2000, the church was separated from the state as part of the country's secular trend. People now can write to their local parish telling the vicar they no longer wish to be members and opt not to pay taxes to the church, which range from 2% to 3% of their income.

Although some 85% of Swedes are church members, only 11% of women and 7% of men go to church, the government says.

In Sweden, and throughout Scandinavia, the decline of the church also has been matched by a drop in the number of marriages. There is virtually no social stigma for unmarried parents. More than half of the children in Sweden and Norway are born to unmarried mothers, according to the European Union. In Denmark, it's 45%.

The separation between church and state in Europe is becoming standard. After vigorous debate, European leaders rejected any mention of the role of Christianity in a new constitution for the 25 European Union countries. Italy's nominee for justice minister of the EU, Rocco Buttiglione, was rejected because he was openly religious and condemned homosexuality.

Asked by USA TODAY about the consequences of the decline of religion, Buttiglione said, “If we ignore our pasts and try to create a Godless society where things like money or ambition or property are worshiped, then the society loses. ... It is a battle we are fighting at the current time.”

The battle is more apparent in Western Europe, where a half-century of peace has meant economic and political stability. World Bank data show the per capita gross domestic product in Western Europe has tripled since 1980.

It's a different story in Eastern Europe, where the economies are weaker - and citizens less secure. That partly explains why religion remains strong in countries such as Russia, Poland and Ukraine. “For the masses, religion provides a sense of certainty in an uncertain world,” he says. And since the collapse of communism and its anti-religious ideology, people in Eastern Europe are taking advantage of their new freedom to worship.

As Western Europeans have moved away from traditional worship, more people say they are “spiritual” rather than religious. Steve Hollinghurst, an Anglican priest, says, “It's very much what's appealing to people now - spirituality that works with my lifestyle. ... Faith and spirituality are now viewed as consumer products. And that's had an impact on the way people view institutional churches.”

“Materialism has taken over. It has replaced God,” says Haugh, the Dublin churchgoer.

But Kenny, the Dublin student, says he's merely typical of his generation. “I'm very spiritual,” he says. “I speak to an energy force I call God, and I get answers,” he says. “If you can get a spiritual connection without going to church, why go to church?”

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Church Attendance Rates In Europe

Luke 4:16

In Europe, the number of people who regularly attend religious services has steadily declined over the past few decades.

Meanwhile, the number of Muslims on the continent has tripled in the last 30 years.

Percentage who report worshipping at least once a week:

Ireland 56%

Poland 54

Italy 32

Portugal 29

Greece 26

Spain 20

Austria 19

England 13

Netherlands 12

Belgium 11

Switzerland 11

Germany 8

Norway 5

Sweden 5

Denmark 3

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Source: European Social Survey (2003), U.S. Department of State

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A Long Way Home From Church

Three elderly Baptist ladies took 24 hours to get home after they got lost on the way back from church. Alice Atwater, 72, and her friends Florence King, 86, and Ruthelle Outler, 84, had only traveled 20 miles to church from their home in Upson County, Georgia. But it took them 24 hours, including detours to Birmingham, Alabama, Atlanta and Macon to get home again, reports the Macon Telegraph.

“We tried to find our way home and the more we tried the farther we went,” said Mrs. Atwater. “I wasn't scared. We just locked the car doors and just rolled.”

The trio went to the Mount Moriah Baptist Church in Griffin more than 20 miles away from their homes to hear a particular preacher. Their disappearance caused friends, family and law enforcement to search the area as media outlets referred people with information to the police.

All that was news to Mrs. Atwater when she was pulled over by a Thomaston police officer Monday evening, she said. “He said, 'Did you know they have a APB [All Points Bulletin] on you?’ and I said 'no,'” she said.

Mrs. Atwater was cheerful but tired after driving for more than 24 hours without sleep. Alice Atwater's daughter, Suzette Atwater, said she was upset her mother did not call but relieved that she was safe.

The total distance driven was over 500 miles.

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Religion Makes You Rich(er)

Attending religious services may enrich the soul, but it also fattens the wallet, according to research released on Tuesday.

“Doubling the frequency of attendance leads to a 9.1 percent increase in household income, or a rise of 5.5 percent as a fraction of the poverty scale,” Jonathan Gruber of the economics department at Massachusetts Institute of Technology wrote in his study.

“Those with more faith may be less 'stressed out' about daily problems that impede success in the labor market and the marriage market, and therefore are more successful,” Gruber wrote in the study, which was released by the National Bureau of Economic Research.

Living in a community with complementary ethnic groups that share the same religion increases the frequency of going to a house of worship, he said in the paper titled “Religious Market Structure, Religious Participation, and Outcomes: Is Religion Good for You?”

Such visits correlate to higher levels of education and income, lower levels of welfare receipt and disability, higher levels of marriage and lower levels of divorce, the study said.

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Wide Angle: Live What You Believe

Matthew 7:21

A study by Baylor University on piety in America released this September reveals both good and bad news about the religious landscape. The good news is that Americans are still extremely religious. Nine out of ten Americans affiliate themselves with a congregation, denomination, or other religious group. In fact, less than 5 percent of Americans claim a faith outside of the Judeo-Christian mainstream.

But as the survey digs below the surface, the news begins to look much bleaker, and the need for training in biblical worldview begins to look much more urgent. For example, nearly a quarter of those surveyed would describe God as distant and not active in the world. They think of God as a cosmic force which set the laws of nature in motion, not as the engaging Father we find depicted in the Scriptures.

Among those who would label themselves as mainline Protestants, 22 percent believe the Bible is an ancient book of history and legends, another 22 percent never read the Bible, 12 percent never pray, and 14 percent never attend a weekly service.

It’s no wonder then that when George Barna did a similar survey in 2003, he found that only 4 percent of American adults have a biblical worldview as the basis of their decision-making.

The bottom line is that there is a huge disparity in the numbers of people who claim to be Christians and those who actually hold to biblical faith. This should not surprise us, I suppose, given Jesus’ warnings in Matthew 7:21 that not everyone who calls Him Lord will enter into the kingdom of heaven. But it ought to propel each of us to a deeper concern for the souls of those around us, even many in our own pews.

Christians need integrity. The word INTEGRITY actually means wholeness. In our culture there is such a tendency to compartmentalize faith. Like the designers of the Titanic, we believe that if we compartmentalize the hull, the rest of the ship won’t sink. That’s why the people in these surveys can say they believe in God, but then live lives of practical atheism. But understanding and applying a biblical worldview to all of life means integrating your faith into the nitty-gritty details of Monday through Saturday. It means there is integrity between what you believe and the actions that flow out of that belief.

As Rick Warren says, “Worldview is the most practical thing in your life.” I completely agree.

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Copyright (c) 2006 Prison Fellowship Ministries. Reprinted with permission. "BreakPoint with Chuck Colson" is a radio ministry of Prison Fellowship Ministries.

Church Not Important For Spiritual Growth, Americans Say

Luke 4:16

Almost three-fourths of Americans claim to be Christians, but only a small fraction consider church the place to deepen their faith, a new survey says.

Less than 20 percent of American adults believe participation in a congregation is critical to spiritual growth, and just as few agree that only through participation in a faith community will they reach their full potential, the Barna Research Group reported April 18, 2006.

Based on interviews with 1,003 adults from across the nation, the telephone surveys also found that as few as 17 percent of adults said “a person’s faith is meant to be developed mainly by involvement in a local church.” What’s more, only one-third of all evangelicals -- the group most likely to attend church -- endorsed the concept.

And while 72 percent of Americans claim they have personally committed themselves to Jesus Christ, less than 50 percent attend religious services on a weekly basis.

“These figures emphasize how soft people’s commitment to God is,” evangelical researcher George Barna said in the report. “Americans are willing to expend some energy in religious activities such as attending church and reading the Bible, and they are willing to throw some money in the offering basket, but when it comes time to truly establishing their priorities and making a tangible commitment to knowing and loving God, most people stop short.”

Barna also said the results should challenge church leaders to foster a “more positive community experience.” Instead of a generic church model, which emphasizes attendance and experience-driven services, Barna said, churches should try for relationships that are less fluid in nature.

“Jesus’ example leaves no room for doubt about the significance of involvement in a faith community,” he said, adding that a “biblical understanding of the preeminence of community life” takes strategic planning and time.

The survey, conducted in January, queried a random sampling of people 18 years and older living in the continental United States. The geographic distribution of survey respondents corresponded to that of the U.S. population.

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We Go Where Our Friends Are

Christianity is a social religion. It loses power whenever the social element is left out. I have heard many people say that they did not care to go to a certain church because the people were not sociable, but I have never heard anyone say yet that they stayed away from the church because the people were so friendly and sociable they could not stand it. Rich or poor, learned or unlearned, we all have a craving for fellowship.

The saloon has much of its power in this hunger of the heart to find some sort of fraternal greeting. I asked a man the other night why he went to the saloon and put himself in the way of drinking, when he really desired to stop it, and his answer was: "All the people who are willing to talk to me are there. I must go where my friends are."

Let us make the church so full of social kindness that the people who come in will find friends with us.

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Men Are Better Off Attending Church

Men avoid church, and they are worse off because of it. How do I know this? Statistics tell me so.

Men are more likely than women to be arrested, die violently, commit and be victims of crimes, go to jail, and be addicted. They die more often on the job, have more heart attacks, commit suicide in greater numbers, and live shorter lives than women. I could go on.

If men want to avoid these pathologies, they could go to church. One study found that churchgoers are more likely to be married and express a higher level of satisfaction with life.

Church involvement is the most important predictor of marital stability and happiness. It moves people out of poverty. It’s also correlated with less depression, more self-esteem, and greater family happiness.

Religious participation leads men to become more engaged husbands and fathers. Teens with religious fathers are more likely to say that they enjoy spending time with their dads and that they admire them.

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Holy Arson: Igniting Spiritual Formation In the Next Generation

Acts 7:17

When is the ABSENCE of fire a cause for alarm? When spiritual fire is crucial for inflaming passion for God and compassion for the world, but one generation ignores the ignition of biblical spiritual formation in the next, then sound the alarm.

Asaph sounded the alarm in his generation by writing Psalm 78, a sad history of one generation’s failure to pass the flame of faith to the next. The prophet-poet was inciting his generation to commit holy arson, to set fire to the household of faith by telling “the coming generation the glorious deeds of the Lord, and His might, and the wonders that He has done” and by teaching them to live out His laws of love “that the next generation might know them, the children yet unborn, and arise and tell them to their children, so that they should set their hope in God and not forget the works of God, but keep his commandments” (Psalm 78:4-7).

As in Asaph’s day, the spiritual formation of our next generation is in danger of being extinguished (see my article “Heavenly, Or Hellish, Creatures” in BREAKPOINT WORLDVIEW, September 2007 [Kerux illustration #34895]). Recent research published in books such as Barna’s REVOLUTIONARY PARENTING and The Fermi Project’s UNCHRISTIAN reveal that “we are failing to train children to become the spiritual champions that God intended them to be” (REVOLUTIONARY PARENTING, page 10). When “four out of five young churchgoers say that Christianity is anti-homosexual; half describe it as judgmental, too involved in politics, hypocritical, and confusing; one-third believe their faith is old-fashioned and out of touch with reality; and one-quarter of young Christians believe it is boring and insensitive to others,” it is clear we have left the next generation of Christians confused about the faith we have passed along (UNCHRISTIAN, page 33). My own work in local church ministry to middle-school through college-age students over the last 20 years leads me to conclude along with others that “only 20% of students who attended church regularly before college will attend church at all after two years in college” (COMMENT MAGAZINE, JUNE 2007).

EMBERS OF HOPE

Being a father of young ones myself, I am prone to spiral downward into parental despair in the face of such news. Apparently, I am not alone, considering “fewer than one out of every five parents of young children believe that they are doing a good job of training their children morally and spiritually” (REVOLUTIONARY PARENTING, page 10). But there is always hope. Our Father is working His plan to build His household into a place where He will delight to dwell (Ephesians 2:19-22). We must remember that He is the “faithful God who keeps covenant and steadfast love” with His children generation after generation (Deuteronomy 7:9; Psalm 105:8). Read Exodus chapters one and two, and you will see embers of hope glowing among a people who were almost convinced they had been forgotten by God. Never forget those fiery, faithful midwives whose trust in their covenant-keeping God rallied them to risk their lives to rescue the next generation of God’s people. Let the example of the parents of Moses, who feared God more than the surrounding culture and shrewdly fought for the life of their son, rekindle hope in you (Acts 7:17-22; Hebrews 11:23). How did the midwives and Moses’ mother and father come to have such fearless faith and pass it on to the next generation? The text does not explicitly say, but certainly during their own childhood they must have had parents and a community of godly adults who diligently told and showed them God’s ways (Deuteronomy 6:7). By faith, the midwives and Moses’ parents kept fanning the flame until Moses caught fire, and Moses was consumed by God (Hebrews 11:25-27).

INSTRUCTIONS FOR LIGHTING FIRES

Our Father is still faithfully passing the torch from generation to generation through the process of what the Apostle Paul might have called “spiritual parenting” (1 Corinthians 4:15-16). In 1 Thessalonians 2, he gives us a picture of this process from which we can learn to create communities that produce consumed Christians rather than Christian consumers. The church at Thessalonica is the only one that Paul commends for having all three marks of maturity in place: faith, hope, and love (1 Thessalonians 1:3). But how did the flame of faith get sparked, the fire of hope get stoked, and the fervor of love begin to spread light and life like wildfire in their world? Beginning in chapter two, the apostle reminds them how this happened and concludes his letter by encouraging them never to quench the Spirit’s fire in light of the imminent return of Christ (1 Thessalonians 5:17). I believe that a pattern emerges in chapter two that will be instructive for every Christian parent, grandparent, church leader, youth worker, Sunday School teacher, small group leader, and pastor. The pattern looks like this: Formation, Fortification, and Vocation.*

This pattern was illustrated for me recently as I built several fires during our family’s first camping trip. The first phase of fire lighting is FORMATION. In order to spark the flame and get the fire going I needed a combination of dry tinder, heat, and oxygen. Some dry twigs and paper, a lighter, and a make-shift fan did the job just fine. Once the fire was burning it was time for the FORTIFICATION phase. I began to slowly add bigger, weightier branches, and as the fire grew in size and intensity I was able to feed it with logs that kept it burning hot. Now the fire was ready to fulfill its intended purpose: to keep us warm, to help us boil water for coffee and cocoa, to cook our food (burgers and s’mores!), to light our campsite at night, and to provide a warm place for us to entertain our campground neighbors. These functions all happen in the VOCATION phase, which naturally flows from the formation and fortification phases.

FORMATION: SPARKING THE FLAME OF FAITH

In 1 Thessalonians 2:7-8, Paul describes the formation stage of discipleship as SPIRITUAL MOTHERING. This stage is characterized by the image of a mother nursing her own children, gently providing the context for a fresh, fragile new life. Paul continues the nursery imagery in verse 8: “So, being affectionately desirous of you, we were ready to share with you not only the gospel of God but also our own selves, because you had become very dear to us.” In this FORMATION STAGE the fire of faith combusts and is carefully kindled into a living flame. Notice the three ingredients needed to ignite this fire: the Spirit of God blows on the dry tinder of the Law as it meets the heat of the Gospel, sparking a relationship with the Father that burns with holy passion. Paul knew that the Spirit loves to blow faith into a soul that is given the CONTENT of the Gospel in the CONTEXT of a loving relationship with a Gospel-driven discipler (v. 8).

We must offer the students and children in our homes, neighborhoods, and churches the MESSAGE of the cross in the MIDST of loving relationships with people who are being shaped by that same message. In his modern classic on parenting adolescents, AGE OF OPPORTUNITY, Paul Tripp explains that our children must know that they live in a THEOLOGICAL community. We need to show and tell them that everything in life has to do with their relationship with God (the first great commandment: “love God”). They also must realize that they live in a SOCIAL community. We must explain and exemplify the truth that everything in life has to do with our relationships with people (the second great commandment: “love your neighbor”). They must learn and live in households and houses of God that help them see that they were made to love God and others, but that they, like us, miss the mark again and again. But we must never let them forget that they live in a REDEMPTIVE community (the Gospel: “repent and believe”).

When they discover that they are sinners and law-of-God-breakers, we must bring the glorious warmth of the Gospel of Jesus to bear on their tinder hearts, praying that the Spirit will blow and set them ablaze. We must teach them to be like Paul, who wrestled with sin and rested in Jesus, by encouraging them to take their sins to the cross again and again, embracing the Good News of Christ’s forgiveness as their own, stoking the flame of faith (Romans 7:21-25). Tripp highlights what should be true of every family and church family: “The key to the family functioning as a redemptive community, where the Gospel is the glue that holds the family together, is parents who so trust in Christ that they are ready and willing to confess their faults to their children . . . Parents who admit their sin will position themselves to model the Gospel for their children daily.” This is precisely what the Apostle Paul and his cohorts did for the Thessalonians and others (1 Thessalonians 2:8; 1 Timothy 1:12-17).

FORTIFICATION: STOKING THE FIRE WITH HOPE

In 1 Thessalonians 2:11-13, Paul describes the fortification stage of discipleship as SPIRITUAL FATHERING. Notice the words used here: EXHORTED, ENCOURAGED, CHARGED. This stage of discipleship requires strong, impassioned pleas for the disciple to walk worthily of God by way of the Word of God (vv. 12-13). Paul paints the picture of a father who comes alongside his child and uses the Word of God to point out a path that will lead this young one to follow God’s call to live in and for His kingdom and His glory (v. 12).

The fire is burning and the coals are hot, but in order for this fire to fulfill its purpose, it must be fed with bigger and weightier fuel. If I do this too soon, I will suffocate the flames. Here is where I think the Church gets the cart before the horse. All too often we think that if we just pile on Bible content, our kids will be sure to catch fire for Jesus. In doing so, we may smother their souls. We must not skip the formation stage. Yes, there is content there: the Law of God and the life, death, and resurrected life of Jesus. But there must be content in the context of prayer and a relationship that shows young folks how the Law convicts us with the truth of our sin and the Gospel convinces us of the grace of Jesus.

Even when our students are ready for fortification with the bigger and weightier truths of the kingdom of God and the whole counsel of Scripture, we need to teach these to them like Jesus taught His disciples: He walked alongside them, listened to the concerns and questions of their hearts, and then “beginning with Moses and all the Prophets, He interpreted to them in all the Scriptures the things concerning Himself” (Luke 24:27). This is how Paul, following the example of Jesus, fortified the Thessalonians with spiritual fathering. He built the Word of God into them, and they heard and accepted it “as what it really is, the word of God, which is at work in you believers,” undoubtedly producing the “steadfastness of hope in our Lord Jesus Christ” for which he commended them earlier (1 Thessalonians 2:13, 1:3; Romans 15:4).

VOCATION: SPREADING THE FERVOR OF LOVE

In 1 Thessalonians 2:14, Paul describes the vocation stage of discipleship as SPIRITUAL BROTHERING. Throughout 1 Thessalonians, Paul constantly refers to the believers as “brothers.” By the time they receive this letter these believers, who were once newborn babes and then children in Christ, are now full-grown adults in the faith, brothers to and co-laborers with Paul. How do we know they have achieved this level of maturity? Paul tells us that they are now “imitators of the churches of God in Christ Jesus that are in Judea,” suffering the same persecution that other congregations have suffered (v. 14). Timothy brought back a report of the love for God and others that was being produced in these disciples (1 Thessalonians 3:6; 4:1,9). They were fully grown, fulfilling their vocation to love God and others in the everyday, ordinary places where God had placed them (4:11-12).

This final stage of discipleship is what Paul elsewhere called “equipping the saints for the work of ministry” that they might be servant-hearted ministers to everyone around them (Ephesians 4:12). We want the next generation to aspire to loving service of the people in their worlds with the fire that is in them: offering the warmth of friendship with God and His people, the nourishment of soul that only the Word of God can give, the light of truth in a culture of darkened minds, and the life of the resurrected Jesus.

LESSONS LEARNED AROUND A CAMPFIRE

When my family camped together those few days in the mountains, I made a few observations that I think will apply to discipling the next generation as well. First, I HAD TO BE CONVINCED THAT I NEEDED TO LIGHT A FIRE. That did not take long. As the darkness and coldness increased, so did my desire to light the fire. Look around you, particularly at the next generation. Do you see the darkness of mind and coldness of heart growing? Ask Jesus to give you His heart for these young ones who are “harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd” (Matthew 9:36).

Second, I HAD TO DO WHAT I COULD WITH WHAT I HAD. I did not have all the latest in fire-starting equipment and material. I had what I needed to get started, but when I could I found people and places that would better equip me for the task. If you know Jesus, you have what you need to start discipling the next generation. Begin to walk alongside young people, getting to know them, praying for them, learning from them, developing a tender compassion for them. Take what little you know about the Law of God and the Good News about how Jesus saves us from sin to be His servants and talk about how God is using these truths to transform your life. Let them see you repent and believe the Gospel. Pray for the Spirit to blow. And when you can, read a book or ask someone with more experience to help you learn about how to disciple a young person.

Third, I HAD TO STAY ENGAGED WITH ALL THREE STAGES OF FIRE LIGHTING. Fires will burn out unless they are tended. In order to keep the fire hot and useful for its vocation, I have to keep forming and fortifying it. Grown believers still need the Law, the Gospel, and the Spirit to fan the flame of faith. They still need big and weighty truth from God’s Word to stoke the fire of hope. Without faith and hope, there will be no fuel for living out our vocation to spread the fervor of love for God and others (Galatians 5:6; Ephesians 1:17-20).

Finally, I NOTICED THAT MY KIDS WERE FASCINATED WITH AND RESPECTFUL OF THE PROCESS OF BUILDING A FIRE. If my children could have played with, poked, and prodded that campfire all day and night, they would have been happy campers. “Daddy, can I help you start the fire this time? I’ll be careful. Will you show me how?” What will happen if the young people in your world see you lighting fires in discipling relationships? They will be drawn to it. They will want to know how to do for others what you have done with them. And the fire will keep burning, one generation to the next.

Have you noticed the neglect of intentional spiritual formation for the next generation in your family, neighborhood, or church? Start committing holy arson in the household of faith, and then sound the alarm for others to wake up and join you.

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Jimmy Davis is an ordained teaching elder in the Evangelical Presbyterian Church. He and his wife, Christine, are currently planting RIVERSIDE CHURCH, a family of home churches, in the historic Hardin Valley community of Knox County, Tenn.

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* My thanks to Rev. John Wood of Cedar Springs Presbyterian Church for a conversation with the student ministry staff that sparked my understanding of this process several years ago.

The Lost Members of the Church

John 14:15

Baptists are a peculiar people. We insist that one make a profession of faith in Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior. We insist that they be baptized before they can join our church. And, yet, some of us insist upon nothing else once they’re members.

Equally peculiar is the fact that we Baptists claim to be a “people of the book,” putting the Bible before all else when it comes to defining and defending our faith. Yet, we ignore its teaching on church membership.

The writer of Hebrews paints a clear picture of what God expects of His children in His church.

“And let us be concerned one about another in order to promote love and good works, not staying away from our meetings, as some habitually do, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the day drawing near” (Hebrews 10:24-25).

Notice the three privileges/benefits that we enjoy as members of the church.

1) We are to promote love among ourselves. When we promote love among ourselves, love flourishes in the church, and we are loved ourselves. Jesus said that it is by our love for one another that the world would know that we are His disciples.

2) We are to promote good works. When we do this, the church’s ministries prosper and we may be blessed by someone else’s good works. Again, Jesus said you will know His people by their fruits, that is, their good works.

3) We are to encourage one another. We are to lift one another up and to be their support system in a hostile, sinful world. Sometimes we lift others up. Sometimes we are lifted up.

So far, so good. No Baptist would question the value of such benefits. However, here’s where it gets interesting. To receive the benefits of church membership, one must not only be on the rolls but also in the pews. We are not to be “staying away from our meetings, as some habitually do” (Hebrews 10:25). Doing so does not just limit our exposure to those benefits mentioned, it is a sin.

Christians who stay away from church for any reason other than health or travel are living in outright rebellion against the revealed will of God. They are out of communion with each other. They are out of communion with Christ. Worse, their absence may in fact suggest that they’re not really children of God after all.

Rather than accepting the fact that several million Baptists will be AWOL next Sunday, we ought to be alarmed. We have on our church rolls so-called members who don’t act like members and, as evidenced by this ongoing pattern of sin, they don’t act like believers, either.

Jesus said, “If you love Me, you will keep my commandments” (John 14:15). Those who rebel against the most basic of commandments concerning church membership reveal a dysfunctional relationship with Christ. It’s time we start treating those people like lost people, not lost children who’ve meandered a little too far into the woods. These people may never come out of the woods. We need to stop waiting for them to return, stop treating them like members, and start treating them like unbelievers. We need to share something more than good memories with them. We need to share the Gospel.

Join your church leadership in reaching out to “members” who are living like the world. Share your love and, more importantly, share your faith.

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Peter Beck is pastor of Kenwood Baptist Church in Louisville, Ky.,

It Finally Made Sense

John 11:25

I believe in Jesus. Growing up, every Sunday without exception, my family went to church. However, until one spring day in April, I never understood the point of attending. I was sitting in my family’s usual pew, paying attention as hard as any 7-year-old can, when I unexpectedly comprehended everything my pastor said. The message finally made sense to me. Jesus died so that I could live. He lived a perfect life and died sinless, so that I could spend eternity with him. The realization was amazing! Jesus sacrificed everything for me! I suddenly felt the urge to rise from my seat and go pray. Quietly, I snuck out of the room and had my first real conversation with God. I knew I was a sinner, but Jesus loved me enough to die for me. For him to live in my heart forever, all I had to do was ask for forgiveness. After praying to receive his gift of eternal life, I was overjoyed! I rushed back into the sanctuary and told my parents about my decision. After church, my family and I talked to my pastor and I was baptized the following week.

Since that milestone in my life, I have struggled with always living a Christian life, yet I am certain that my soul will go to Heaven when I die. By placing my life in God’s hands, I have faith that he will take care of me and lead me along his path of righteousness. As Jeremiah 29:11 says, God is in control, he has “plans to prosper [me] and not to harm [me], plans to give [me] hope and a future.” He has plans for your life too. Regardless of any sin you have committed or any sin you will commit in the future, he loves you. He, the creator of the universe, sent His one and only Son to die so that you may spend eternity with him. You just have to ask for His gift. Ask Him to be your Lord and Savior, to live in your heart and be the steering wheel behind your life. It was the best decision I have ever made, and I hope someday you make the same choice. God Bless.

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The Pastor Tripped Over the Beer

Mom and dad baptized the first three boys Methodist. The youngest of four boys wasn’t baptized at all. I’ve always envied my youngest brother a little for never being forced to be baptized

We grew up in a small farming area of Ohio not too farm from Columbus. Once I got in school I figured it was time to give this God thing a try. Actually if the truth be known I started going to the Baptist church because Lisa Maria Yutzy went there and I had a crush on her. Reverend Night was a nice man and all and I was genuinely giving this God thing, this belief thing a try.

My dad was a hard working man and he figured Levi’s work shoes, white sock and a tee-shirt were fine for work and play then they were fine for wearing to church also. Reverend Night didn’t see it that way and pointed out my dress one day in Sunday school in front of the whole class. I stopped going to church at that very moment.

Reverend Night decided to stopped over to our house one Saturday to see why I stopped going to church. When Reverend Night walked through the front door my dad was doing exactly what he did every Saturday during football season. He had two cases of Burger beer sitting by the couch and the game on. Reverend Night fell over the cases of beer.

Reverend Night spent the next twenty minutes telling my mother and father and all four of us boys how we were sinners and we were going to hell if we didn’t start living God’s plan.

Once Reverend Night was done I swore at him and told him that he was not welcome in our home and that I would never enter his church again.

From that point on I decided that God and belief in anything had to be a individual journey and a very personal experience.

I figured church and structured religion was just not the way to go about finding anything out, at least not for me. I have never regretted my decision.

If there were a line that was giving out the meaning of faith I would be the first one in line but here are no lines giving out faith and it takes at least fifty years of a life to finally figure out that faith is oneself is the only form of faith that will allow everything else to make sense.

A wise man is an older man that has lived through his mistakes. A fool is that same young man that died from those same mistakes.

from www.thisibelieve.org; National Public Radio, Morning Edition: This I Believe · Michael; Columbus, Ohio via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database rebukefool

I Don't Like Church

I have a confession to make: I don’t like church. I’ve been a Christian for thirty years (since I was six years old) and have attended services at churches that were Southern Baptist, Independent Baptist, United Methodist, Free Methodist, Presbyterian (both PCA and PC[USA]), Pentecostal, Assembly of God, and various denominations that call themselves ‘non-denominational.’

I’ve been in some churches were the preacher spoke in dulcet tones and others where he’d speak in tongues. I’ve been in churches were the congregation sits in the pews and others were they roll in the aisles. I’ve been in churches where people raise their hands in praise and others where they keep their hand on their wallet. I’ve been in everything from mega-churches in California to house churches in Japan. In other words, I’m no stranger to church.

But no matter where I go there is always one idiot who ruins the experience for me. They think they know more theology than the pastor or believe they would do a better job leading worship than the music minister. They are invariably unfriendly, judgmental, hypocritical, and more than a little bit smug. Every church I go to I find a fool like that and so I shop around trying to find one that won’t let someone like that join their ranks. But he’s always there. No matter what I do I can’t shake him. Because that guy is me.

So I have to admit that I don’t like church. I’d rather sleep in on Sunday mornings. I’d rather follow my own path. I’d rather excuse myself from public worship until I can “get right with the Lord.” But I can’t do that. Church is where I belong.

In a recent interview with CHRISTIANITY TODAY, Eugene Peterson explains why the church is necessary:

But many Christians would look at this church and say it’s dead,

merely an institutional expression of faith.

What other church is there besides institutional? There’s nobody

who doesn’t have problems with the church, because there’s sin in

the church. But there’s no other place to be a Christian except

the church. There’s sin in the local bank. There’s sin in the

grocery stores. I really don’t understand this naive criticism

of the institution. I really don’t get it.

Frederick von Hugel said the institution of the church is like

the bark on the tree. There’s no life in the bark. It’s dead

wood. But it protects the life of the tree within. And the tree

grows and grows and grows and grows. If you take the bark off,

it’s prone to disease dehydration, death.

So, yes, the church is dead but it protects something alive. And

when you try to have a church without bark, it doesn’t last long.

It disappears, gets sick, and it’s prone to all kinds of disease,

heresy, and narcissism.

In my writing, I hope to recover a sense of the reality of

congregation - what it is. It’s a gift of the Holy Spirit. Why

are we always idealizing what the Holy Spirit doesn’t idealize?

There’s no idealization of the church in the Bible - none. We’ve

got two thousand years of history now. Why are we so dumb?

Why AM I so dumb that I expect the church to be something it’s not? Why can’t I recognize that the trouble with the church is that it accepts sinners like me? If they excluded the people who could ruin it church might be a better place. But it would also be empty.

As Peterson says, there’s no other place to be a Christian. I may not like church but it’s where God wants me to be. And though I may be nothing more than deadwood in the pews, I’ll still be there, doing my part to protect the life of the Church within.

Faithful Aunt Effie (updated)

Luke 19:17

“Aunt Effie” Linquist attended the First Baptist Church in Keokuk, Iowa, regularly for the last 88 years. Since 1888, she hasn’t missed a Christmas or Easter service. During that time 15 different pastors have served her church. She has listened to over 8,000 sermons, attended more than 4,000 prayer meetings, and said over 29,000 bedtime prayers.

Mrs. Linquist taught Sunday school for over 50 years, and several of her former Sunday school students are now in the ministry.

-- Pulpit Pieces Weekly

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UPDATE: I read this in the February 6, 2007, edition of Wit&Wisdom. Since it was labeled "unverified" I decided to do some verification through the church. The pastor responded within an hour with this email:

Here is some information that I can verify for you about “Aunt Effie”. The information will run in reverse chronology, some of it is anecdotal, or close in date, from some of the clerk’s records and other things around the church.

Effie Mae (Aunt Effie) Linquist died on March 8, 1980 at the age of 97. She had been a member of First Baptist Church since 1895 (based upon recognition of 72 years membership in 1967) under the ministry of the Rev. J.C. Maple. She was a pillar of the church being recognized for starting the K.Y.B. (Know Your Bible) Sunday School class in 1942 and was the first teacher. It was in this time period that the church made a concerted effort to enlist people in Christian service. A goal of 18 people was set to honor the 18 members who had given their lives in the service during World War II. This was under the pastoral leadership of Rev. John Myers. By 1953, 11 men and women had been licensed, commissioned or ordained, some (number unknown) having come through the K.Y.B. class.

Aunt Effie was also recognized for more than 50 years of Women’s Work and currently has a Circle of the American Baptist Women-Ministries named for her.

We can only presume that her attendance (with regularity) began as she was brought to church at an early age, being born in 1883. The other statistics that are part of the illustration would be presumed, based upon her conviction of regular attendance, and spiritual fervor. Of those who remember Aunt Effie, there would be no doubt in their mind that these would be accurate figures, for she attended most every service (morning and evening Sunday) and Wednesday prayer meeting. She was one of those folks who would be at the church every time the doors were open. She and her husband, David, lived 2 houses down the street from the church. Of those I talked to, they could not remember if she had any children, and my recollection of conversations was that they did not. I think that this is partly why she got the nickname “Aunt Effie” for she was an aunt to the church family.

As for the number of pastors, at the time of her death, she would have had 16 called pastors and 4 interim pastors who led the church. I have a suspicion that the illustration may have been first submitted by Rev. Virgil Reeve, who was pastor from 1968-1978. He was one who was very creative with the use of illustration. He is currently retired in the Wheaton, Illinois, area. I think he may still be doing some pulpit supply.

I hope that this has been helpful to you.

Dale Thomas, Pastor

First Baptist Church, Keokuk, Iowa

Why Adults Change Churches [2 Stories]

Luke 4:16

Generally, adults who change churches for reasons other than moving are more likely fleeing their previous church rather than being drawn to another, according to a study listing the top 10 reasons for switching churches.

Fifty-eight percent of respondents to a study by the LifeWay Research arm of LifeWay Christian Resources said the greatest impact on their decision to switch churches was “my need/desire to leave my previous church.” The other 42 percent left because of a desire to join their current church, the study reported.

The study builds on LifeWay Research’s 2006 study of the formerly churched, which explored the reasons adults stop going to church. The current findings explain why people change churches and how these situations differ from those in which the individual does not resume church attendance at all.

Church switchers are defined as Protestant Americans who have attended more than one church regularly as an adult.

“There are two types of people who slip out through the back door of the church,” said Scott McConnell, associate director of LifeWay Research. “One group is probably leaving church permanently and the other group is going to find a new church.”

To understand why adults choose to change churches, 415 “non-mover” church switchers -- who changed churches for reasons other than changes to their residential location -- were surveyed in December 2006.

The top two specific reasons people leave their church have to do with their needs not being fulfilled by their previous church.

Of all reasons churchgoers choose to leave their previous church, the top specific reason is because the “church was not helping me to develop spiritually,” encompassing 28 percent of non-mover church switchers.

Another 20 percent of respondents said they left because they “did not feel engaged or involved in meaningful church work.”

A common element among church switchers is disenchantment with church members. Eighteen percent of respondents indicated “church members were judgmental of others” as a specific reason for switching.

Other member-related reasons for switching were “members seemed hypocritical” (15 percent), “church didn’t seem to be a place where God was at work” (14 percent) and “church was run by a clique that discouraged involvement” (14 percent).

Disenchantment with the pastor also is a common reason churchgoers switch. Sixteen percent cited the “pastor was not a good preacher” as a specific reason for leaving their previous church. Also in the top 10 were “pastor was judgmental of others” (14 percent) and “pastor seemed hypocritical” (13 percent).

Sixteen percent of survey respondents said too many changes in general drove them to switch churches.

One respondent said, “The pastor of my previous church left and the new pastor was radically different, and the music switched from traditional to rock music.”

McConnell said such church switchers leave “because they are unhappy with changes in the overall direction of the church. Respondents had the opportunity to select specific changes they did not like, such as worship style, teachings or a staff member leaving, but the largest proportion selected too many changes in general -- the culmination of many changes in the previous church they did not like.”

Church switchers’ disenchantment and disappointment with their previous church’s failure to meet their needs differ from those who do not return to church.

The prior LifeWay Research study of formerly churched adults indicated that the primary reasons given for leaving the church are changes in life situation. While 59 percent of the formerly churched cited this category of reasons, only 21 percent of church switchers leave their previous church because of life changes (excluding moving).

Brad Waggoner, LifeWay’s vice president of research and ministry development, expounds on the church switcher study in a companion article available at lifewayresearch.com and offers suggestions for church leaders who desire to build stronger, healthier churches.

“Of all of the reasons for leaving the church, the top two are ‘the church was not helping me to grow spiritually’ and ‘I did not feel engaged/involved in meaningful work in the church,’” Waggoner writes. “These are actually very encouraging findings. The fact that the majority of church switchers express a desire to grow spiritually and become active in service should strike a chord of optimism for leaders.

“...[T]he most helpful response any leader can make to this study is to allow these findings to fuel the desire to disciple and involve every church member,” Waggoner adds. “With few exceptions, a pastor who possesses solid leadership skills and a passion to disciple and involve others will see this happen in the church.”

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DISSATISFACTION MAKES CHURCHGOERS SWITCH

By Cathy Lynn Grossman, USA Today

April 23, 2007

The faithful are restless, a new study of Protestant churchgoers suggests.

They’re switching from church to church, powered by a mix of dissatisfaction and yearning, according to the study by LifeWay Research. The organization is part of the publishing arm of the Southern Baptist Convention, the nation’s largest Protestant denomination.

Most of the switchers who changed their house of worship without making a residential move (58%) say their old church failed to engage their faith, or put their talents to work, or it seemed hypocritical or judgmental.

But 42% of the people say they switched because another church offered more appealing doctrines and preaching or the preacher and church members’ faith seemed more “authentic.”

“We may believe in the same doctrine, the same God and study the same Bible, but we are also imperfect human beings who mess up, who are not always living out those beliefs,” says Scott McConnell, associate director of LifeWay Research. He adds in the rise of “consumerism and narcissism” - when people expect to customize every experience to personal taste.

More than half (54%) of switchers changed denominations as well. Fewer than half (44%) said denomination was an important factor in choosing a new church.

The study, conducted in December, surveyed 632 Protestant adults who said they switched churches. For findings on the 415 people who had not made a residential move, the margin of error is plus or minus 3.9 percentage points.

The study follows LifeWay’s 2006 research on 469 “formerly churched” Protestants who quit church altogether.

Of the switchers, 76% call themselves “devout Christians.” Only 19% of the quitters said the same.

The nation’s largest denomination, the Roman Catholic Church, sees similar trends.

“The boundaries that once kept people in one faith, one church, have become more permeable,” says Mary Gautier of the Center for Applied Research in the Apostolate at Georgetown University.

The number of new converts to Catholicism leveled off at about 150,000 a year for the past decade, while IMMIGRATION from Catholic countries in Latin America, Asia and Africa has pushed the tally of U.S. Roman Catholics to 64 million. But the church has no mechanism for tracking who washes out of the pews unless they’ve died, been excommunicated or publicly renounced their faith.

“Catholics are very sticky. They may not go to church but they still stick to that identification,” Gautier says.

Although the LifeWay research finds most switchers move to larger churches, don’t blame megachurches for poaching the sheep, says Scott Thumma of Hartford Theological Seminary, author of an upcoming book, Beyond Megachurch Myths, based on several studies of churches.

“The 1,200 or so megachurches (defined as churches where 2,000 or more people attend weekend worship) are only one-half of 1% of all U.S. churches and account for only 5% of all weekend worship attenders,” Thumma says.

“And my sense, after years of examining megachurches, is that 80% of the people who join, including those who go through new member classes, are gone within the first two years.”

Says Brad Waggoner, LifeWay’s vice president of research and ministry development: “There’s no simple answer why people are so restless.”

Decades ago, American culture supported church loyalty out of respect for the church, obligation to family, or social expectations. Now, he says, that culture has shifted.

Waggoner also sees other factors at work, such as increased skepticism or cynicism in the wake of clergy sexual abuse or financial scandals. And some are turned off by divisiveness in denominations over doctrine and practice, he says.

The Southern Baptist Convention, he says, still feels the effect of a revolution in leadership in the 1980s that restored theological conservatives to power. The Episcopal Church is struggling now with dissention over views of the Bible and the role of gay clergy.

Though individual churches and pastors can’t erase those overarching concerns, the survey suggests there is a great deal they can change or do to stem the restless tide of switchers and dropouts, Waggoner says.

“We have a biblical responsibility to care for every person in our flock.”

Believing Without Belonging

Luke 4:16

The concept of spirituality as a lone personal quest is hardly new to Christian history. Nevertheless, the development of this pattern into a massive cultural movement is a new development -- and one that is reshaping many churches.

The trend has caught the attention of the BBC. Writing in the BBC NEWS MAGAZINE, Denise Winterman reports:

Births, deaths and marriages. They’re the only events that get

most people in the UK through church doors these days and even

that is too often for some.

But this doesn’t stop the majority of us calling ourselves

Christian. More than half of British people say they believe in

God despite only one in seven actually attending a Christian

church service each month, says a new study.

It seems that while people find the church thing a little bit

difficult, they are willing to recognise God. There’s even a

cute catchphrase for this absent majority - believing without

belonging.

“Believing without belonging” is indeed a catchphrase, but there is no reason for confidence that the “believing” here has anything to do with biblical Christianity.

More from the BBC report:

In today’s “post-modern society” people want everything on their

own terms - that includes Christianity, says Dr. Elaine Storkey, a

Christian academic, broadcaster and president of Christian

charity Tearfund, which commissioned the study.

“People are used to instant gratification, they are used to

having what they want, when they want and without putting in too

much effort. Some view religion in the same way.”

Having a connection with Christianity is not a problem for most

people, it’s when something is asked of them that they start to

struggle, she says.

“The first step to get people involved in the church is getting

them to consider God. A lot of people identify with Christianity

even if they don’t attend church. Often when the chips are down

they fall back on the Christian faith.

“The second step is getting them to consider how much their faith

will cost them. That’s a huge leap for most people, that’s when

they have to start giving something back.”

Some sort of “vague Christianity” acts as a way for people to

keep their options open, they don’t have to think too hard about

life and aren’t pushed outside their comfort zone, says

philosopher Dr Julian Baggini.

“It’s easier than going in the other two directions. If you take

religion fully on board you have to believe some strange things.

Discarding it totally means you have to really think through the

consequences, that death really is the end and many people find

that worrying.”

So “having a connection with Christianity” is what these persons want, not Christianity itself. When something is demanded of them, they feel imposed upon. Taking the theological and discipleship claims of Christianity “fully on board” means “you have to believe some strange things” that these persons would rather not believe.

The BBC report picks up on the fact that many persons want to consider themselves Christians without taking on Christianity -- without believing its doctrines, accepting its morality, following its disciplines, or joining a congregation.

This last dimension may be the key to understanding the others. Christianity is an ecclesial reality -- not a lone quest. The life of an authentic congregation is vital to Christian faithfulness.

Put simply, there is no true “believing without belonging” in Christianity. Christianity is, by definition, a belonging -- a belonging to Christ and a belonging to Christ’s people. Christ’s people, belonging together in local congregations, believe together, hear the Word together, sing together, pray together, hold each other accountable together, grow together, grieve together, celebrate together, and evangelize together. The key word here is TOGETHER.

In terms of the theological confusions of the “believing without belonging” movement, what can be expected of an approach that cuts the faith down to my desires and demands? The church of Me involves my conversation with myself -- nothing more. The “together” dimension of Christianity extends, very importantly, to the fact that we embrace the orthodox Christian faith TOGETHER with believers long dead. They, though dead, yet speak.

The problems with “believing without belonging” are many, but the greatest problem may be that some believe this to be compatible with biblical Christianity. It is not.

Study: Church Benefits Children

Church is good for children.

That’s the message of a new study that says young children of churchgoing parents fare better behaviorally, emotionally and cognitively than do children of parents who never attend church. In fact, the more often the parents attend, the better off the kids are.

The study by sociologist John P. Bartkowski and a team of researchers at Mississippi State University examined data from the nationwide Early Childhood Longitudinal Study, which evaluated first-graders by interviewing parents and teachers. In the data Bartkowski used, some 9,500 parents and 8,800 teachers were interviewed. The ECLS study was sponsored by the U.S. Department of Education’s National Center for Education Statistics.

Examining the ECLS data, Bartkowski and his team concluded it is “quite clear” that religious attendance impacts children positively. His research -- which claims to be a “first of its kind” study on the subject using “nationally representative data” -- will be published in the journal Social Science Research.

“[R]eligion does seem to be good for young children,” the study says. “The religious attendance of parents and a cohesive religious environment in the home yields significant benefits for children’s behavioral, emotional, and cognitive development, and such outcomes are most pronounced when both partners attend services frequently.”

“Religion” in the study includes all religions -- the ECLS survey did not ask specific faith questions -- so there is no way of knowing if there are differences among, say, Baptist, Catholic or Jewish families.

But Bartkowski’s study did determine that while church attendance is good for children, parental debate over religion is not. In fact, the study found that when parents argue about religion, it can “significantly undermine” a young child’s development. However, when they are in agreement, it can be very beneficial. The study also said parent-child discussions about religion “often yield positive affects on child development.”

Regularity in attendance can make a difference, too.

“In many of the developmental domains featured here, the children who are doing the best are in households where both parents attend worship services frequently,” the authors wrote.

The frequency of attendance may make a difference, the study says, because it gives other adults -- for example, in Sunday School settings -- the opportunity to “reinforce parental values” taught at home.

The Importance of Your Local Church

Luke 4:16

Today millions of Americans carry a Triple-A roadside assistance card. It’s worth its weight in platinum when you blow a tire or run out of gas on a darkened road. The church also exists, in part, so its members can encourage each other by lending a hand. God planned for His local churches to offer roadside assistance.

The church does that primarily by providing the uplift of worship. In the Gospels, the disciples gathered behind locked doors on the evening of the first Easter, insecure and uncertain. But Jesus suddenly appeared among them, and they saw Him with 20/20 vision; for John 20:20 says, “Then the disciples were glad when they saw the Lord.”

“Glad” is a great description of the church in worship. The psalmist said, “I was glad when they said to me, ‘Let us go into the house of the Lord’” (Psalm 122:1).

When we walk through the doors of our church, we’re there to focus on who Jesus is. He’s alive, and we are glad. We can be joyous people, worshippers who stand and sing His praises, and who sit at His feet to hear His word.

That’s why there’s exuberance in our services. Sunday morning is a time of celebration. The church is a house of happiness, rejoicing because Jesus is among us and we are glad. It’s not manufactured joy, but a natural, normal response to who He is. We lift up Jesus first and foremost, and when we lift Him up, we get excited and we can’t help but rejoice.

As we lift Him up, we receive the uplift of praise. We encourage one another with the contagious joy of the Spirit. We dare not miss that. Hebrews 10:25 warns against neglecting “the assembling of ourselves together.” The book of Acts says the early Christians gladly received the Gospel, were baptized, were added to the church, and “they continued steadfastly in the apostles’ doctrine and fellowship, in the breaking of bread, and in prayers” (Acts 2:41-42).

FRIENDSHIP

That suggests another element of roadside assistance: friendship and fellowship. The church is a place where people get together -- they assemble. The very word “church” is a translation of the Greek term “ecclesia,” meaning those who have been “called out” of the world and into a gathering of God’s people where we can assemble and find commonality.

If we’re going to have congregations that make a difference, we must focus more on people than on programs, and more on relationships than on rituals. We’re going to have to find ways of bringing people together in small groups, support groups, Bible studies, ministry teams and fellowship circles.

The church needs to be a place that knows how to hug. Love is manifested and relationships are built in church.

PARTNERSHIP

The church also assists us by providing opportunities to partner with Christ in accomplishing the greatest work in the world. It’s a place where you can influence others for Christ. We can change the world one person at a time.

One of the problems with today’s church in America is that we’ve become consumer-based. We want to take in, but we’ve forgotten that the purpose of getting is to give out. Yes, the church is here to meet our needs, but if we turn our attention simply on ourselves and are always thinking about what we can get out of church, then our whole philosophy and purpose is wrong.

We’re called to be partners together with God, and sometimes that involves hard work. God has a ministry for you in His church, and finding it adds a sense of purpose and fulfillment to your life.

Cities and societies are built up and torn down, but the church remains steadfast through the ages to assist God’s people along the road of life.

Don’t neglect your roadside assistance. Don’t forsake the assembling of yourselves together. Be in church Sunday and discover the worship, fellowship, and partnership of being part of a group that says, “I was glad when they said to me, ‘Let us go into the house of the Lord.’”

The Christian Girl Set Him Straight

Luke 4:16

Back in the 1950s, D. James Kennedy was an Arthur Murray dance studio instructor. It’s hard to believe it now. But back then, Dr. Kennedy was a drunk. He slept around. And he lived a very worldly life. When he started dating a Christian girl, she asked him, “Where do you go to church?” And he said, “Nowhere. You don’t have to go to church to be a good person.” Then, with an air of arrogance, he said, “You can be a good Christian WITHOUT going to church!” And the girl said, “No you can’t!”

Years later, Kennedy said, “That was the first time anyone had ever challenged my little pet saying. I was taken aback. And it made me rethink everything I believed.”

A week later, Kennedy was sleeping in bed in a drunken haze. When he woke up, he heard a preacher on the radio. He got up to turn it off. But before he got to the radio, he heard the preacher say this: “Suppose that you were to die today and stand before God. And he asked you, ‘What right do you have to enter my heaven?’ what would you say?”

The question stopped Kennedy in his tracks. He sat back down on the bed. And listened as Dr. Donald Barnhouse shared the gospel message. That Jesus died for our sins. And rose from the dead. And that if we surrender our lives to him, all our sins would be forgiven. And we would get to be with Jesus in heaven forever. And right then and there, Kennedy completely surrendered his life to Christ.

The next day, as he was shaving, he kept looking at himself in the mirror. And saying, “I’m forgiven! I’m completely forgiven! I’m going to spend eternity in paradise with Jesus!” And he was so happy. And so grateful. That he decided right then and there, “I want what happened to me to happen to as many people as possible.”

And he started going to church with his new Christian girlfriend. They dated for three more years. And they never slept together even once until his wedding night. That’s how much the power of Jesus Christ changed him. And for the last 45 years, Dr. Kennedy has shown his appreciation for Jesus Christ by living a life of loving service to Him.

from Kerux Sermon #26078, The Cure For Arrogance, by Rev. Don Jones via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database repentanceconversion

America's Religious Landscape Is In Flux

Mark 2:1

The U.S. religious marketplace is extremely volatile, with nearly half of American adults leaving the faith tradition of their upbringing to either switch allegiances or abandon religious affiliation altogether, a new survey finds.

The study released by the Pew Forum on Religion and Public Life is unusual for it sheer scope, relying on interviews with more than 35,000 adults to document a diverse and dynamic U.S. religious population.

While much of the study confirms earlier findings -- mainline Protestant churches are in decline, non-denominational churches are gaining and the ranks of the unaffiliated are growing -- it also provides a deeper look behind those trends, and of smaller religious groups.

“The American religious economy is like a marketplace - very dynamic, very competitive,” said Luis Lugo, director of the Pew Forum. “Everyone is losing, everyone is gaining. There are net winners and losers, but no one can stand still. Those groups that are losing significant numbers have to recoup them to stay vibrant.”

The U.S. Religious Landscape Survey estimates the United States is 78 percent Christian and about to lose its status as a majority Protestant nation, at 51 percent and slipping.

More than one-quarter of American adults have left the faith of their childhood for another religion or no religion at all, the survey found. Factoring in moves from one stream or denomination of Protestantism to another, the number rises to 44 percent.

One in four adults ages 18 to 29 claim no affiliation with a religious institution.

“In the past, certain religions had a real holding power, where people from one generation to the next would stay,” said Penn State University sociologist Roger Finke, who consulted in the survey planning. “Right now, there is a dropping confidence in organized religion, especially in the traditional religious forms.”

Lugo said the 44 percent figure is “a very conservative estimate,” and more research is planned to determine the causes.

“It does seem in keeping with the high tolerance among Americans for change,” Lugo said. “People move a lot, people change jobs a lot. It’s a very fluid society.”

The religious demographic benefiting the most from this religious churn is those who claim no religious affiliation. People moving into that category outnumber those moving out of it by a three-to-one margin.

The majority of the unaffiliated -- 12 percent of the overall population -- describe their religion as “nothing in particular,” and about half of those say faith is at least somewhat important to them. Atheists or agnostics account for 4 percent of the total population.

The Roman Catholic Church has lost more members than any faith tradition because of affiliation swapping, the survey found. While nearly one in three Americans were raised Catholic, fewer than one in four say they’re Catholic today. That means roughly 10 percent of all Americans are ex-Catholics.

The share of the population that identifies as Catholic, however, has remained fairly stable in recent decades thanks to an influx of immigrant Catholics, mostly from Latin America. Nearly half of all Catholics under 30 are Hispanic, the survey found.

On the Protestant side, changes in affiliation are swelling the ranks of nondenominational churches, while Baptist and Methodist traditions are showing net losses.

Many Americans have vague denominational ties at best. People who call themselves “just a Protestant,” in fact, account for nearly 10 percent of all Protestants.

Although evangelical churches strive to win new Christian believers from the “unchurched,” the survey found most converts to evangelical churches were raised Protestant.

Hindus claimed the highest retention of childhood members, at 84 percent. The group with the worst retention is one of the fastest growing -- Jehovah’s Witnesses. Only 37 percent of those raised in the sect known for door-to-door proselytizing said they remain members.

Among other findings involving smaller religious groups, more than half of American Buddhists surveyed were white, and most Buddhists were converts.

More people in the survey pool identified themselves as Buddhist than Muslim, although both populations were small -- less than 1 percent of the total population. By contrast, Jews accounted for 1.7 percent of the overall population.

The self-identified Buddhists -- 0.7 percent of those surveyed -- illustrate a core challenge to estimating religious affiliation: What does affiliation mean?

It’s unclear whether people who called themselves Buddhists did so because they practice yoga or meditation, for instance, or claim affiliation with a Buddhist institution.

The report does not project membership figures for religious groups, in part because the survey is not as authoritative as a census and didn’t count children, Lugo said. The U.S. Census does not ask questions on religion.

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Copyright 2008 The Associated Press.

The Number of Nonbelievers Is Rising In the United States [2 Articles]

A wide-ranging study on American religious life found that the Roman Catholic population has been shifting out of the Northeast to the Southwest, the percentage of Christians in the nation has declined and more people say they have no religion at all.

Fifteen percent of respondents said they had no religion, an increase from 14.2 percent in 2001 and 8.2 percent in 1990, according to the American Religious Identification Survey.

Northern New England surpassed the Pacific Northwest as the least religious region, with Vermont reporting the highest share of those claiming no religion, at 34 percent. Still, the study found that the numbers of Americans with no religion rose in every state.

“No other religious bloc has kept such a pace in every state,” the study’s authors said.

In the Northeast, self-identified Catholics made up 36 percent of adults last year, down from 43 percent in 1990. At the same time, however, Catholics grew to about one-third of the adult population in California and Texas, and one-quarter of Floridians, largely due to Latino immigration, according to the research.

Nationally, Catholics remain the largest religious group, with 57 million people saying they belong to the church. The tradition gained 11 million followers since 1990, but its share of the population fell by about a percentage point to 25 percent.

Christians who aren’t Catholic also are a declining segment of the country.

In 2008, Christians comprised 76 percent of U.S. adults, compared to about 77 percent in 2001 and about 86 percent in 1990. Researchers said the dwindling ranks of mainline Protestants, including Methodists, Lutherans and Episcopalians, largely explains the shift. Over the last seven years, mainline Protestants dropped from just over 17 percent to 12.9 percent of the population.

The report from The Program on Public Values at Trinity College in Hartford, Conn., surveyed 54,461 adults in English or Spanish from February through November of last year. It has a margin of error of plus or minus 0.5 percentage points. The findings are part of a series of studies on American religion by the program that will later look more closely at reasons behind the trends.

The current survey found traditional organized religion playing less of a role in many lives. Thirty percent of married couples did not have a religious wedding ceremony and 27 percent of respondents said they did not want a religious funeral.

About 12 percent of Americans believe in a higher power but not the personal God at the core of monotheistic faiths. And, since 1990, a slightly greater share of respondents — 1.2 percent — said they were part of new religious movements, including Scientology, Wicca and Santeria.

The study also found signs of a growing influence of churches that either don’t belong to a denomination or play down their membership in a religious group.

Respondents who called themselves “non-denominational Christian” grew from 0.1 percent in 1990 to 3.5 percent last year. Congregations that most often use the term are megachurches considered “seeker sensitive.” They use rock style music and less structured prayer to attract people who don’t usually attend church. Researchers also found a small increase in those who prefer being called evangelical or born-again, rather than claim membership in a denomination.

Evangelical or born-again Americans make up 34 percent of all American adults and 45 percent of all Christians and Catholics, the study found. Researchers found that 18 percent of Catholics consider themselves born-again or evangelical, and nearly 39 percent of mainline Protestants prefer those labels. Many mainline Protestant groups are riven by conflict over how they should interpret what the Bible says about gay relationships, salvation and other issues.

The percentage of Pentecostals remained mostly steady since 1990 at 3.5 percent, a surprising finding considering the dramatic spread of the tradition worldwide. Pentecostals are known for a spirited form of Christianity that includes speaking in tongues and a belief in modern-day miracles.

Mormon numbers also held steady over the period at 1.4 percent of the population, while the number of Jews who described themselves as religiously observant continued to drop, from 1.8 percent in 1990 to 1.2 percent, or 2.7 million people, last year. Researchers plan a broader survey on people who consider themselves culturally Jewish but aren’t religious.

The study found that the percentage of Americans who identified themselves as Muslim grew to 0.6 percent of the population, while growth in Eastern religions such as Buddhism slightly slowed.

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From CNN.com on the same day:

America is a less Christian nation than it was 20 years ago, and Christianity is not losing out to other religions, but primarily to a rejection of religion altogether, a survey published Monday found.

Seventy-five percent of Americans call themselves Christian, according to the American Religious Identification Survey from Trinity College in Hartford, Connecticut. In 1990, the figure was 86 percent.

William Donohue, president of the Catholic League said he thinks a radical shift towards individualism over the last quarter-century has a lot to do it.

“The three most dreaded words are thou shalt not,” he told Lou Dobbs. “Notice they are not atheists -- they are saying I don’t want to be told what to do with my life.”

At the same time there has been an increase in the number of people expressing no religious affiliation.

The survey also found that “born-again” or “evangelical” Christianity is on the rise, while the percentage who belong to “mainline” congregations such as the Episcopal or Lutheran churches has fallen.

One in three Americans consider themselves evangelical, and the number of people associated with mega-churches has skyrocketed from less than 200,000 in 1990 to more than 8 million in the latest survey.

The rise in evangelical Christianity is contributing to the rejection of religion altogether by some Americans, said Mark Silk of Trinity College.

“In the 1990s, it really sunk in on the American public generally that there was a long-lasting ‘religious right’ connected to a political party, and that turned a lot of people the other way,” he said of the link between the Republican Party and groups such as the Moral Majority and Focus on the Family.

“In an earlier time, people who would have been content to say, ‘Well, I’m some kind of a Protestant,’ now say ‘Hell no, I won’t go,’” he told CNN.

Silk also said the revelation that some Catholic priests had sexually abused children -- and senior figures in the church hierarchy had helped to hide it -- drove some Catholics away from religion.

And, he said, it is now more socially acceptable than it once was to admit having no religion.

“You’re not declaring yourself a total pariah. The culture has changed in a way that makes it easier to say, ‘No, I don’t have a religion. Even in the past year, Mitt Romney and Barack Obama feel obliged to talk about ‘those of no faith,’ “ he pointed out. Obama mentioned people without faith in his inaugural address in January, making him the first president to do so.

In the survey, one in five Americans said they have no religious identity or did not answer the question, and more than one in four said they do not expect to have a religious funeral.

The rise in what the survey authors call “nones” is the only trend reflected in every single state in the study, Silk said.

“We don’t see anything else in the survey that is nationwide,” he told CNN.

Still, Tony Perkins, the president of the Family Research Council, remained hopeful that people will return to their faith, noting there was a less dramatic decline in those affiliating themselves with a religion this decade than in the 1990s.

Perkins told Lou Dobbs he sees that decline easing, and he thinks soon religion will be an even greater part of people’s lives.

“If this poll is taken next year will the outcome be different?” he asked. “As the economy goes downward, I think people are going to be driven to religion.”

Other findings include:

• The percentage of Catholics in the United States has remained steady at about one in four since 1990, while the percentage of other Christians has plummeted from 60 percent to 50 percent.

• The percentage of Muslims has doubled since 1990, but remains statistically very small, only 0.3 percent in the original survey and 0.6 percent today.

• Mormons have remained steady as a percentage of the population, even as the number of people in the United States has grown. They make up 1.4 percent of the population.

• The number of Jews in the United States is falling if the category includes only those who define themselves as Jews religiously, but has remained the same if the category includes people who consider themselves ethnically Jewish.

When To Leave Your Church

Acts 17:2

Last year our church focused on the Bible’s instruction to love harmony and unity. As the Bible says in Philippians 2:2, “Make my joy complete by being of the same mind, maintaining the same love, united in spirit, intent on one purpose.” We tried to teach our church members that the laissez-faire commitment to church membership which characterizes our times is not God’s way of thinking.

In response, I occasionally heard a question like this, “OK, I get it that we shouldn’t just up and leave our church, but is there ever a time to leave?” The answer is “yes, there are times one should leave a church.”

Let me suggest some cases in which a person should change churches:

• False teaching. In Jude 3b, the Bible says “...I felt the necessity to write to you appealing that you contend earnestly for the faith which was once for all handed down to the saints.” God’s people must “contend” for the faith clearly revealed in the Bible. When God’s church ceases to teach/preach faithfully the Bible, it loses the anointing of God and all spiritual authority. It’s expected that well-meaning believers may have minor points of difference in interpreting God’s Word. That’s not the point. When the pastor and Sunday School teachers distort the obvious meaning of the Word for some preferred idea, they must be confronted. If they will not repent and return to God’s Word, get out (2 John 9-11).

• Unaddressed sin. If there is open sin, especially among the pastors, the church is in danger. If the pastors are the offenders, then deacons or other mature leaders in the church must confront them and call them to repentance (1 Timothy 5:19-20). When others are the offenders, those same leaders must join the pastors in confronting offenders (Matthew 18:15-17). God’s blessing will not last for long on the church that will not confront open, unrepentant sin. If the church leaders will not confront the sin, you should shake the dust off your shoes as you go out the door.

• Dysfunctional church life. As with families, churches can become dysfunctional. Sadly, the landscape of American church life is littered with people meeting in church-type buildings that long ago ceased to be church. When the vision dies, the agenda degrades to how we pay the bills, what we need to do to keep people happy, or arguing over who’s in charge of the operation. In this state, God’s church usually divides into little “fiefdoms” with people fighting over control and power. It’s ugly. A church almost never recovers from this point. One must be cautious in calling a church “dysfunctional,” as only God ultimately knows when He’s done with a church. But when a believer finds himself/herself in that kind of church, he/she should move on to a church in which God is working. One cannot expect a perfect church but one can expect a church with evidence of God’s presence (1 Corinthians 1:10-11).

In addition to these negative reasons a believer might need to leave his/her church, there are other circumstances that may lead a believer to do so that are not negative. For instance:

• Moving. If the will of God leads one to move too far away to have meaningful involvement in one’s church, he/she must move on to another church (Hebrews 11:25). Believers need to think twice about how leaving a good church might affect their walks with God when considering a move. Some should choose not to move so as to remain in the fellowship of one’s church. At other times, God’s leading is clear and the commute would be unwise or impossible.

There’s a related application to this point: When a church member marries a believer from another church, one of them must leave his/her church and move to the spouse’s church. Though the Bible doesn’t specifically address this scenario, my experience points toward holding the wedding service with the woman’s church. She then leaves her church to join his since he is responsible as the spiritual leader of the home. On occasion, God will direct the new family to stay in the woman’s church.

• Mission. Sometimes God calls a believer to a mission that will mean he/she must leave the church (Acts 17:2). Our church is working to plant a church, and we expect God will call believers from our church to join in that mission. We shall give our blessing to those going to serve in the planting of a new church.

There may be other reasons to leave one’s church. If so, I think they would fall into one of these broader categories. The point is, many American believers who change churches do so for the wrong reasons.

When people leave churches often it is over relationship issues -- too often it’s with the pastor. We need to work through any brokenness in relationships so they may be healed. We cannot forsake truth or morality just to “keep the peace” but we surely can lay aside grudges, bitterness or lack of forgiveness.

As Paul admonished Euodia and Syntyche in Philippians 4:2, “Live in harmony in the Lord.” May it be so in your church!

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Bob Carpenter is pastor of Cedar Street Church in Holt, Mich., and a member of the Southern Baptist Convention’s Executive Committee.

Ways To Make Guests Feel Unwelcome

April Fool’s Day is behind us, but it is still close enough for some people -- like me -- to slip in some tongue-in-cheek jesting. So in honor of April Fool’s Day, this list is for all those churches who really would rather people just leave them alone.

Got too many people visiting your church? Need to do some things to discourage them from coming back a second time? Here are a list of ways to make guests feel unwelcome should they show up at your church or class. You don’t even need to do all of them. But be careful -- if you do the opposite of even six or seven of the items on this list, you might discover that guests are returning for a second visit. Do the opposite of eight or nine of them, and you could discover that they come back a third or fourth time. Some will even enroll in your Sunday School or join the church. To keep people away, try a few of these ideas:

• Make parking for first-time guests inconvenient. This is probably your best first line of defense against visitors, particularly first-time guests. Welcoming churches have parking spaces close to the main entrance of the building marked clearly “For First-Time Guests.” Some even have a special team of volunteers whose job is to warmly greet first-time guests and give them immediate directions, perhaps even providing a map and marking the parking area on it. Some churches have a sign at the entrance that reads “First Time Guests: Please Flash Your Lights,” with volunteers in the parking lot to direct them to the special parking area.

• Get grouchy greeters. A friendly smile and a warm handshake at the door goes a long way to make guests feel welcome. You could just get rid of greeters altogether of course, but if you’re trying to make guests feel unwelcome, it is actually more effective to have grouchy greeters. Train them to carry on conversations with other greeters, and sort of just grunt at people they don’t recognize. And make sure they don’t direct guests to a welcome center.

• Forego a welcome center. Even a clearly marked table or desk exclusively for guest information can make a really big positive impression. Especially if there is clear information about classes.

• Treat guests like a doctor’s office treats new patients. Here’s a tricky one. Go ahead and staff a welcome desk, but make sure the experience is as close to that of a new patient as possible. Ignore the guest for a few minutes. Act like the guest has been there before and knows what to do. Post a lot of signs. And best of all, hand them a clipboard and demand they fill out some forms. On the other hand, good churches do get the guest’s information; they’re just nice about it.

• Don’t escort guests to their classrooms. Really welcoming churches don’t send people to their classrooms. They escort them. Starting with the youngest child (if there are children), a family is dropped off one-by-one at their classes, with the last stop being the adult class. So, just cut out this whole step if you want guests to feel unwelcome.

• Make finding a seat really hard. All members can participate in this one. Just “save” all the seats at the back of the room or on the aisles. This works in the worship center and in the student or adult classroom. If you want to do more, make sure the chairs face the door, so everyone can stare at a newcomer as soon as they reach they door. If you can make a guest come to the front of the room, or crawl over several people to find a seat, you’ll almost guarantee they’ll feel unwelcome.

• Have guests stand up while everyone else sits, or sit while everyone else stands. I am not sure which of these works better to run people off. I almost think the practice of having guests remain seated while everyone around them stands is better if you want to make guests feel unwelcome. It is sort of like being a little baby in a crib surrounded by doting relatives. In a Sunday School class, it feels much better to a guest if they are acknowledged, and someone else introduces them.

• Randomly call on people to read or pray. You don’t even need to pick on guests. Just call on random members to pray or read Scripture. That will serve to create anxiety in your guests that they may be next. Wise teachers always ask members ahead of time if they will read from the Bible, perhaps handing them the “address” of the verses on an index card so the member can mark his Bible and familiarize himself with the passage. Likewise, they ask a member before class if she would be willing to lead in prayer. Then during class, they make it clear by saying, “I have asked Kim to lead us in prayer after we’ve taken requests for about 5 minutes.” Or, “Who did I ask to read verses 35-38?”

• Don’t wear name tags. There is nothing that makes a guest feel more welcome than a room full of people wearing name tags. Absolutely nothing. Wearing a name tag is an act of faith. It says, “I’m expecting God to send someone to our class today who doesn’t yet know us.” The stick-on kind works fine. I remember how welcome I felt the first time I visited Hope Fellowship Church in Cambridge, Mass. As soon as I walked into the tiny foyer, some young people –- probably students at nearby Harvard or MIT –- invited me to stick on a name tag. They were all wearing them, too. Everyone was calling me by name, and I them. At a new church meeting in a middle school in Wake Forest, N.C., everyone wore name tags, and many stopped dead in their tracks to greet me. I discovered the next day that I had been handed a name tag with a subtle red border. Members knew to wear a name tag with a green border. Regular attenders wore yellow. It was like a conspiracy -– a whole church full of greeters anticipating newcomers each week. So, if you want to make guests feel unwelcome, by all means do not wear name tags!

from Baptist Press · David Francis via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

God Still Isn't Dead

The decline of religion in America has been predicted again and again.

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America was famously founded by companies and churches. The woes of American capitalism are well known: Wall Street is a synonym for excess and greed around the world, and Detroit is tottering on the edge of bankruptcy. But just as its temples to Mammon are under fire, so suddenly are its churches to God.

Easter week upon us, Newsweek’s April 13 [2009] cover proclaims “The Decline and Fall of Christian America.” The new American Religious Identification Survey (ARIS) shows that the proportion of Americans who claim to have no religion has increased to 15% today from 8.2% in 1990. The Christian right has lost yet another battle, this time in the heartland state of Iowa, with its Supreme Court voting unanimously to legalize gay marriage. The proportion of Americans who think that religion “can answer all or most of today’s problems” is now at a historic low of 48%.

America has long stood out among developed countries for its religiosity. This has less to do with innate godliness than with the free market created by the First Amendment. Pre-Revolutionary America was not that religious, because the original Puritans were swamped by less wholesome adventurers -- in Salem, Massachusetts, the setting for “The Crucible,” 83% of taxpayers by 1683 confessed to no religious identification.

America became religious after the Constitution separated church from state, thus ensuring that religious denominations could only survive if they got souls into pews. While state-sponsored religion withered in Europe, American faith has been a hive of activity: from the Methodists, who converted close to an eighth of the country in the half century after the Revolution, to the modern megachurches.

Has this model really run out of steam? Betting against American religion has always proved to be a fool’s game. In 1880, Robert Ingersoll, the leading atheist of his day, claimed that “the churches are dying out all over the land.” In its Easter issue in 1966, Time asked “Is God Dead?” on its cover. East Coast intellectuals have repeatedly assumed that the European model of progress, where modernity equals secularization, would come to the U.S. They have always been wrong.

Look closer and the new poll numbers are not quite as simple as headlines suggest. For one thing, they show that America remains remarkably religious by the standards of other advanced countries -- with three-quarters of the country still firmly Christian. And a significant number of Americans are becoming more godly, not less so: The increase in the number of atheists is going hand in hand with ever more conservative Christians and Pentecostals.

Religion, like everything else, is polarizing, with the faithful more willing to call themselves “born again” and doubters more willing to call themselves unbelievers or atheists. George W. Bush may have been a factor: Many of the unbelievers are less worried about religion per se as about the fusion of religion and political power in the form of the new right. A fifth of the “atheists” in a recent Pew Survey said that they believed in God, a semantic confusion rich in meaning.

The polling numbers actually underline the strength of the nation’s pluralism. More than one in four Americans have swapped religions. Americans harbor a powerful distaste for religious establishments, seeing faith as something that they should choose rather than inherit. More than ever, they mix and match spiritual traditions. In other words, the forces that made America such a uniquely religious country, competition and choice, are working as powerfully as ever. In the American model, modernity goes with pluralism.

Most of the evidence from the ground indicates that the American religious marketplace remains vibrant. The biggest megachurches attract tens of thousands of people. There is plenty of data to show that the turmoil of modernity stimulates demand for religion. The churches act both as a storm shelter for people who feel overwhelmed by social change and a community for people who feel atomized. Above all, there is the search for spiritual meaning that has haunted man through the ages. The forces that drove the young Barack Obama to find purpose in a Chicago church will keep on occurring.

Meanwhile, the supply seems as plentiful as ever. Religion, no less than software or politics, is a competitive business, where organization and entrepreneurship count. Religious America is led by a series of highly inventive “pastorpreneurs” -- men like Bill Hybels of Willow Creek or Rick Warren of Saddleback. These are far more sober, thoughtful characters than the schlock-and-scandal televangelists of the 1970s, but they are not afraid to use modern business methods to get God’s message across.

Mr. Hybels’s immaculately organized church employs several hundred staff, and the church has both its own mission statement and its own consulting arm. Mr. Warren’s book “The Purpose Driven Life” has sold almost 30 million copies, with the author comparing his purpose driven formula to an Intel operating chip that other churches can use.

The real strength of religious America lies in its diversity. There are more than 200 religious traditions in America, with 20 different sorts of Baptists alone. Religious America is remarkably good at segmenting its customer base: There are services for bikers, gays and dropouts (the Scum of the Earth Church in Denver); Bibles for cowboys, brides, soldiers and rap artists (“Even though I walk through/The hood of death/I don’t back down/for You have my back”); and even theme parks for every faith. This Holy Week you can visit the Golgotha Fun Park in Cave City, Kentucky, or the Ave Maria Grotto in Cullman, Alabama, which includes a mini-version of St. Peter’s Basilica in Rome.

Looked at from a celestial perspective, the American model of religion, far from retreating, is going global. Pastorpreneurs are taking their message around the world. In Latin America, Pentecostalism has disrupted the Catholic Church’s monopoly. Already five of the world’s 10 biggest churches are in South Korea: Yoido Full Gospel Church, which has 800,000 members, is a rival in terms of organization for anything Messrs. Warren and Hybels can offer. China is the latest great convert. There are probably close to 100 million Christians in China, most of them following a very individualistic American-style faith. Already more people attend church each Sunday than are members of the Communist Party. China will soon be the world’s biggest Christian country and also possibly its biggest Muslim one.

The Christian right has certainly stirred up an angry reaction to its attempt to marry religion to political power. But it would be a mistake to regard this reaction as evidence that America is losing its religion.

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Mr. Micklethwait is the editor in chief of the Economist. Mr. Wooldridge is its Washington bureau chief. They are the authors of “God is Back: How the Global Revival of Faith is Changing the World,” published by Penguin Press.

The Church Hound

In my church in New Jersey a member noticed that a regular attender had stopped coming.

The member knew this person was having a rough time. There were financial problems, and grief over the loss of a young son. After she missed for two Sundays, the member called her. There was no answer, no return call. She called again. Then she went to her house. No one was home so she left a note.

Francis Thompson once wrote a famous poem about “The Hound of Heaven,” about how God wouldn’t let him go but sought after him. This member was our church’s Hound!

And God blessed her efforts - a short time later she received a beautiful letter from the woman. It explained how she was feeling so low and was even bitter toward God, but she appreciated the member’s concern. On the following Sunday, she was back in church!

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[Original illustration at this number was a duplicate of HolwickID #66576]

Why Young People Leave the Church — and Why They Stay

Mark 4:14

You know what I’m happy to leave behind in the 2010s? The headlines about how Millennials are killing everything. “Millennials are killing mayonnaise,” “Millennials are killing golf,” and “Millennials are killing real estate because they spend all their money on avocado toast.” Those are real headlines.

Sadly, there’s at least one Millennial-related headline we can’t leave in the last decade: Millennials are killing churches.

According to Pew Research, four in ten Americans between the ages of 23 and 38 now say they are religiously unaffiliated. This is the biggest drop in religiosity between generations ever recorded.

While part of the hemorrhaging is explained by the forty-year decline in mainline Protestant bodies, evangelicals are not off the hook. We cannot say that conservative theology, in and of itself, is enough to shrink-proof your church. The Southern Baptist Convention, for example, America’s largest evangelical denomination, just hit a 30-year membership low.

Young people have left evangelical churches and are still leaving, and new data can fix some of our wrong thinking about it.

For instance, I’ve heard for years that young people who leave church in their college years will come back, as if nothing can or should be done about it. Let’s set aside for a moment what should be obvious: that we should never be okay with anyone ever rejecting Christ or His church. According to a study by the American Enterprise Institute, Millennials who drop out of church often end up staying away permanently. Maybe in the past, young adults who wandered away tended to become religious again when they got married and had kids. But things have changed, and there seem to be three main differences.

First, many young adults today who leave the church never had strong religious ties to begin with. Whether their parents didn’t attend services regularly or they were passed back and forth between homes with different beliefs, these young adults weren’t raised with God or His people at the center of their lives.

Second, those who drop out and have gotten married tend to have a spouse who is also not religious. For obvious reasons, this makes them less likely to go through the effort of making it to Sunday services or raising their families in the faith.

Finally, Millennial church dropouts are unlikely to view religion as a necessary part of teaching their own children morality. This is quite a change from past generations, which often returned to church after a youthful rumspringa because they had kids and wanted them to grow up to be good people.

Another claim I often hear these days is that growing numbers of dropouts is actually a good thing because it is separating true believers from cultural Christians. I get the spirit behind this claim, but it’s misguided in two ways. First, God often uses the culture we are born in to introduce us to Christ. Think about it: Are you more likely to hear about your need for Jesus in a culture with a church on every corner or in a culture in which churches have been turned into bars? And second, the Gospel still has an effect on those who come to church for the wrong reasons, like social acceptability.

So what lesson can we take from this new data? First the bad news: We really are losing a generation of young churchgoers, and they’re probably not coming back — at least not if we stay our current course.

The good news: We now know with even greater clarity the difference parents make, and we can apply that with members of Generation Z. Parents who prioritize church as a central part of their family life, who teach their children to take Christianity seriously, and who encourage them to marry fellow believers, have the best chance of seeing not only their children but also their grandchildren in the pews beside them.

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A version of this commentary first aired January 7, 2020.

Resource

"Millennials Are Leaving Religion and Not Coming Back," by Daniel Cox and Amelia Thomson-DeVeaux, FiveThirtyEight, December 12, 2019.

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Copyright (c) 2020 Prison Fellowship Ministries. Reprinted with permission. "BreakPoint" is a radio ministry of Prison Fellowship Ministries.

Reaching the 'Dechurched'

Luke 4:16

It is becoming increasingly important for the church to talk about reaching the “dechurched” in their communities -- people who were at some point either briefly or for a long time involved in a local church but have not been active for several years.

To reach the dechurched, we have to understand them. As I see the dechurched, there are two main groups -- the open and closed. How we seek to reach a dechurched person should be determined, in part, by which group they’re from.

Ministering to dechurched people who are open is relatively easy as there is a level of comfort in discourse. These are people who have left the church but aren’t aggressively antagonistic to it. They could have stopped attending after a move when they “never quite found the right church.” Nothing against God or churches; they simply stopped attending.

The closed dechurched, however, are generally closed because of a negative or hurtful experience that has driven them away from the church. They tend to be antagonistic toward returning to church, and sometimes to the subject itself.

Some of the hurt may be superficial and, for others, it may run deep. I saw this a few years ago in an airport where I noticed someone using sign language. Because I know sign language (less now than back then), I started a conversation with him which quickly turned to matters relating to the church.

He was a pastor’s kid who grew up in an evangelical church. His dad had treated him poorly and, as a result, the son decided the church was not a place for him. As I learned his story I found a profound and deep sense of brokenness. He was closed to the church because he was hurt.

Because the church is not perfect and imperfect people can do misguided things, collateral damage often can impact later generations -- or even outside observers as they watch from the sidelines. Some make instant decisions based on the hurt and mistreatment they see and are dechurched for something they were not directly a part of.

Some of the hardest people to reach are people who have been reached and are now unreached for some reason. It’s not just that they’re inoculated; it’s that many are closed toward the things of the Christian faith due to their experiences or observations.

What can we do to better reach the dechurched?

First, people are generally going to be reached by churches unlike the one that, in their view, caused the hurt.

If you got burned in a Pentecostal church, you might hear the Gospel in an Anglican church. If you got burned in an Anglican church, you might hear the Gospel in a Baptist church.

Diversity and multiplicity of churches present a greater opportunity for Gospel impact. This is one of the reasons we should not be inclined to see other churches as our competitors, but as our teammates in reaching our community, particularly when someone has left a church in a hurtful situation.

Second, we should give them permission to feel and express their pain. I saw a friend witness to someone who was sharing their experience of hurt in church and explaining why they were dechurched. My friend replied, “I couldn’t follow a God like that either.”

Disavowal of a wrongful action done in the name of God can open doors to dialogue and lead to sharing about the God of the Bible, the God in whom Christians actually believe.

We should help people overcome the perception that true Christianity is what hurt them. Often it was a judgmental person or a harsh tone that caused the problem, not the Gospel itself. They may be turned off to genuine Christian belief because they’ve never been exposed to it as “good news.”

We can and should take the time to communicate the Gospel lovingly and graciously. Not only what we say, but how we say it is exceedingly important.

This process takes time.

I think of a friend who was burned in a church and also has a different view than our church on an issue that’s biblically significant. This makes for a complex relationship and tough conversations as I find how deeply her hurt affects the way she sees church.

As a family, we have been intentional about loving her and being her friend. We watch her kids. We invite her over for dinner. And we invite her to Easter services and make an effort to connect with her in every way possible.

But we’re recognizing it takes a long time, so everything done needs to be tempered with love and perseverance.

Intentional relationships can yield a positive outcome for the Kingdom. Let us keep reminding ourselves as Christians that we need to reflect on the many ways that our structure, words and deeds can lead to hurt in the lives of others. We should recognize the collateral damage church life sometimes brings.

We are called to a greater mission and we serve the greatest master. We need to ensure that we keep people in our sight and the Gospel in our purview as we engage our world in meaningful and loving ways.

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Ed Stetzer is executive director of LifeWay Research. This column first appeared at his website, www.edstetzer.com.

from Baptist Press · Ed Stetzer via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

Teaching Your Kids Not To Follow Christ?

Christian parents, are you looking for some easy suggestions on how to help your children grow up to be heathens?

Interested in helping them slide down the path to moral relativism and depravity? Needing some tips on ways to lead them to be lukewarm Christians at best? You have come to the right place!

Here are some simple tips on how to teach your children not to follow Christ:

1. Skip church at the drop of a hat.

Make sports and other activities more important than worshiping the Almighty. Attend church only if it is convenient. Let them stay at home on Sunday mornings because they are “sick” but then attend events on Sunday afternoons. Never ask them to bother to plan ahead or set an alarm or anything else so dreadful. Don’t let your family dream of attending church if the weather is bad or good -- or might be bad or good. If they attend church each week they might learn about God’s plans and actually begin to follow Him. Bonus points if you talk about church attendance as “legalism.”

2. Never read the Bible or pray with them.

You don’t want to risk your kids thinking Bible study and prayer is important so don’t ever do it with them. Remind yourself that spiritual matters are “personal.” Tell yourself they can learn about the Bible at church -- unless the weather is bad or good, etc. Don’t let them think spiritual matters are important anywhere outside of church on Sunday mornings. If they catch you praying or reading your Bible or talking about the Lord, they might begin to think Christianity actually matters deeply and eternally. Can you risk that?

3. Live out some blatant hypocrisy in front of them.

Nothing will aid your little ones on their journey into paganism more than some good old-fashioned hypocrisy in their Christian parents. Let your actions contradict your profession of faith. Be sure to fake perfection publicly. Nod politely at church and then gossip and belittle fellow believers on the way home. Don’t forget to talk about the importance of your children doing what you say instead of what you do. And especially remember this: Seeing humble repentance from you could cause irreparable damage to your endeavor to sabotage their faith.

4. Don’t give them any parameters or tell them “no.”

Do you want your children to think God means it when He talks about obedience and holiness? Better not to chance it. Let you kids do what they want instead of what you know to be best for them. Let your “no” mean “try harder and I will give in to your every whim.” Help them learn to argue with God instead of listening to Him. Teach them that their feelings are more important than their holiness. Help them see that God’s commands are better seen as some mild suggestions.

5. Help them take the easy way out of everything.

This one is important. You don’t want your children to actually grow up to take up their cross and follow Jesus. You don’t want them to learn sacrifice and self-denial. Train them instead to take the easy way out. Better yet, remove every obstacle that stands between them and learning the hard lessons of life. Don’t ever make them work or stretch beyond their own comfort. Blame all their mistakes and failures on someone else. Help them follow the popular and downhill road to waste and ruin.

Now, if your parenting goals are something other than the eternal depravity of your offspring, you might have to make some adjustments. You might find that you have to stop caving to the ways to the world and start doing what God wants you to do as a parent. You might have to buck up and get serious about faith yourself. You might want to include the help of a Bible-teaching church that calls you to follow Jesus fully. Maybe you will have to acknowledge your own imperfections and inadequacies and begin to seek the help and power of the Lord instead.

Now that I think about it, Christian parent, maybe you should ask your heavenly Father what He wants your parenting goals to be. If only He had given us a book to help us! Oh, wait.…

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Doug Munton is senior pastor of First Baptist Church (SBC) in O’Fallon, Illinois.

Keep the 'mas' In Christmas

The year 2016 offers a unique opportunity in that Christmas falls on a Sunday. Years ago, a non-denominational megachurch publicly decided to cancel its worship services when Christmas fell on a Sunday, citing families’ needs to spend time together that day and the church’s inability to get enough volunteers together to make services work.

This move, perhaps unintentionally, showed a great misunderstanding of Christmas. You see, it not only takes Christ out of Christmas, it takes that ‘mas’ out of Christmas. What do I mean?

The very word Christmas is an Old English compound word for “Christ’s Mass,” the Christian annual worship festival commemorating the birth of Christ. In other words, Christmas is primarily a “mass” (not exclusively in Anglican or Catholic sense) worship service to celebrate and commemorate Christ’s birth during the season of Advent. Having a worship service, therefore, gets at the very heart of Christmas.

Christians frequently (and rightly) decry the commercialization of Christmas. From department stores to holiday movies, you could go almost the entire Christmas season without thinking about Jesus.

In the famous “A Charlie Brown Christmas” special, Charlie Brown says, “Isn’t there anyone who knows what Christmas is all about?” And Linus, by quoting the Gospel of Luke, explains the Christmas story. It’s a beautiful scene that quotes a beautiful passage of Scripture.

Wouldn’t it be a shame, though, if people could only hear this biblical passage recited on TV watching Charlie Brown? What if, instead, every community and town would have a Christmas-day church service in which people can hear this Gospel passage recited by children in the local church congregation, amid the singing of carols, hymns, and a Gospel-centered sermon?

If your church is paring back for Christmas, I would encourage the opposite. Use Christmas falling on a Sunday as a chance to ramp up what you offer. Do this for the glory of Christ and as a means to reach out to the lost.

According to Thom Rainer of LifeWay Christian Resources, Christmas is the single most likely time a year when un-churched people will come to church. Churches can harness Christmas falling on a Sunday as a great opportunity to reach out to neighbors, inviting them to church.

There will be plenty of time for people to open Christmas presents, eat sugar cookies, drink egg nog and watch Christmas movies. Invite people -- church members and non-church members alike -- to spend the first fruits of the Christmas day hours, gathered with God’s people, worshipping the Savior of the World.

In this special way, we truly can keep Christ and keep the ‘mas’ in Christmas!

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[The original illustration at this number was a duplicate of HolwickID #18105]

Liminal Christians: Christianity Without the Church?

In his 1985 book, Habits of the Heart, Robert Bellah and Richard Madsen introduced the world to “Sheila Larson.” Sheila described her belief system this way: “I believe in God. I’m not a religious fanatic. I can’t remember the last time I went to church. My faith has carried me a long way. It’s Sheilaism. Just my own little voice ... It’s just trying to love yourself and be gentle with yourself . . .”

Bellah and Madsen called “Sheilaism” a “perfectly natural expression of current American religious life.”

A quarter century later, there’s another word that those seeking to understand American religious life should add to their lexicon: “liminals.” That’s the phrase used by Robert Putnam and David Campbell in their book, American Grace.

Putnam is best-known for his 2000 book “Bowling Alone,” which described the decline of civic and social engagement in American life. The title came from the observation that while the numbers of bowlers had risen, the number of people participating in bowling leagues had declined. Putnam saw this as a metaphor for how Americans were increasingly going their separate ways.

This individualistic approach to American life depleted what he called “social capital” — the trust and willingness to cooperate that makes strong communities possible.

In American Grace, Putnam and Campbell examine the increasing reluctance of younger Americans to identify with a particular church or religious tradition. Contrary to what you may have heard, these people are not atheists nor agnostics: many claim to believe in a “higher power” and even a personal God. A quarter of them want a religious funeral!

What’s more, many of them have belonged to churches in the past, and may belong to one again. Putnam and Campbell call these people “liminals,” from the Latin word for “threshold.”

“Liminals,” in their words “seem to stand at the edge of some religious tradition, unsure whether to identify with that tradition or not.” As Putnam and Madsen told the Hedgehog Review, if you ask liminals one day what they are, they will say Catholic or Methodist. If you ask another time, they will say, well, they’re really nothing.

What we are seeing is not so much a march towards secularism as it is yet another example of Americans’ increasing preference to “bowl alone.” Liminals want the benefits of a tradition or community without putting in the work, including the willingness to subordinate your desires to a larger whole, which is what makes community possible.

This may be American as apple pie, but there’s nothing Christian about it.

Christ cannot be known apart from His Body, the Church. As Martin Luther said, “he who would find Christ must first find the Church.”

From Jesus’ analogy of the vine and branches to Paul’s discourse on the parts of the body in 1 Corinthians, it is clear that we belong to something much bigger than ourselves. We cannot answer the question “how now shall we live?” on our own.

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Copyright (c) 2012 Prison Fellowship Ministries. Reprinted with permission. "BreakPoint" is a radio ministry of Prison Fellowship Ministries.

from BreakPoint Commentary · Chuck Colson via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database religious decline

Top Ten Ways Churches Drive Away First-Time Guests

John 13:34

If you attend a church regularly, you’ve probably noticed the phenomenon. A guest shows up for a worship service, but he or she never returns. It is, unfortunately, a common issue in many churches.

I did a Twitter poll to ask these first-time guests why they chose not to return to a particular church. While some of the responses were anticipated, I admit being a bit surprised with some of them.

Though my poll is not scientific, it is nevertheless fascinating. Here are the top ten responses in order of frequency.

Having a stand up and greet one another time in the worship service. This response was my greatest surprise for two reasons. First, I was surprised how much guests are really uncomfortable during this time. Second, I was really surprised that it was the most frequent response.

Unfriendly church members. This response was anticipated. But the surprise was the number of respondents who included non-genuine friendliness in their answers. In other words, the guests perceived some of the church members were faking it. [see HolwickID #64620]

Unsafe and unclean children’s area. This response generated the greatest emotional reactions. If your church does not give a high priority to children, don’t expect young families to attend.

No place to get information. If your church does not have a clear and obvious place to get information, you probably have lowered the chances of a return visit by half. There should also be someone to greet and assist guests at that information center as well.

Bad church website. Most of the church guests went to the church website before they attended a worship service. Even if they attended the service after visiting a bad website, they attended with a prejudicial perspective. The two indispensable items guests want on a website are address and times of service. It’s just that basic.

Poor signage. If you have been attending a church for a few weeks, you forget all about the signage. You don’t need it any more. But guests do. And they are frustrated when it’s not there.

Insider church language. Most of the respondents were not referring to theological language as much as language that only the members know. My favorite example was: “The WMU will meet in the CLC in the room where the GAs usually meet.”

Boring or bad service. My surprise was not the presence of this item. The surprise was that it was not ranked higher.

Members telling guests that they were in their seat or pew. Yes, this obviously still takes place in some churches.

Dirty facilities. Some of the comments: “Didn’t look like it had been cleaned in a week.” “No trash cans anywhere.” Restrooms were worse than a bad truck stop.” “Pews had more stains than a Tide commercial.”

There you have it. The top ten reasons first-time guests said they did not return to a church. I can’t wait to hear from you readers. You always have such good additions and insights.

Should Churches Have Stand-And-Greet Times?

Ruth 2:4

I conducted a Twitter poll (not scientific, I assure you) asking first-time church guests what factors made them decide not to return. In listing the top 10 in order of frequency [see HolwickID #64519] I was surprised that the number one issue guests don’t like is a time to stand and greet one another.

So what is it about a stand-and-greet time that many guests don’t like?

Here are the several of the most common -- although, again, unscientific -- responses, listed in order of frequency.

1. Many guests are introverts. “I would rather have a root canal than be subjected to a stand and greet time.”

2. Some guests perceive the members are not sincere during the time of greeting. “In most of the churches it should be called a stand and fake it time. The members weren’t friendly at all except for ninety seconds.”

3. Many guests don’t like the lack of hygiene that takes place during this time. “Look, I’m not a germaphobe, but that guy wiped his nose right before he shook my hand.”

4. Many times the members only greet other members. “I went to one church where no one spoke to me the entire time of greeting. I could tell they were speaking to people they already knew.”

5. Both members and guests at some churches perceive the entire exercise as awkward. “Nowhere except churches do we have times that are so awkward and artificial. If members are going to be friendly, they would be friendly at other times as well. They’re not.”

6. In some churches, the people in the congregation are told to say something silly to one another. “So the pastor told us to tell someone near us that they are good looking. I couldn’t find anyone who fit that description, so I left and didn’t go back.”

7. Not only do some guests dread the stand and greet time, so do some members. “I visited the church and went through the ritual of standing and greeting, but many of the members looked just as uncomfortable as I was. We were all doing a required activity that none of us liked.”

There are strong comments at the post on both sides of the issue of whether a stand-and-greet time is helpful in reaching guests -- enough to prompt churches to ask themselves whether it’s effective in their community.

from Baptist Press · Thom S. Rainer via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

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