Holy Arson: Igniting Spiritual Formation In the Next Generation
Acts 7:17When is the ABSENCE of fire a cause for alarm? When spiritual fire is crucial for inflaming passion for God and compassion for the world, but one generation ignores the ignition of biblical spiritual formation in the next, then sound the alarm.
Asaph sounded the alarm in his generation by writing Psalm 78, a sad history of one generation’s failure to pass the flame of faith to the next. The prophet-poet was inciting his generation to commit holy arson, to set fire to the household of faith by telling “the coming generation the glorious deeds of the Lord, and His might, and the wonders that He has done” and by teaching them to live out His laws of love “that the next generation might know them, the children yet unborn, and arise and tell them to their children, so that they should set their hope in God and not forget the works of God, but keep his commandments” (Psalm 78:4-7).
As in Asaph’s day, the spiritual formation of our next generation is in danger of being extinguished (see my article “Heavenly, Or Hellish, Creatures” in BREAKPOINT WORLDVIEW, September 2007 [Kerux illustration #34895]). Recent research published in books such as Barna’s REVOLUTIONARY PARENTING and The Fermi Project’s UNCHRISTIAN reveal that “we are failing to train children to become the spiritual champions that God intended them to be” (REVOLUTIONARY PARENTING, page 10). When “four out of five young churchgoers say that Christianity is anti-homosexual; half describe it as judgmental, too involved in politics, hypocritical, and confusing; one-third believe their faith is old-fashioned and out of touch with reality; and one-quarter of young Christians believe it is boring and insensitive to others,” it is clear we have left the next generation of Christians confused about the faith we have passed along (UNCHRISTIAN, page 33). My own work in local church ministry to middle-school through college-age students over the last 20 years leads me to conclude along with others that “only 20% of students who attended church regularly before college will attend church at all after two years in college” (COMMENT MAGAZINE, JUNE 2007).
EMBERS OF HOPE
Being a father of young ones myself, I am prone to spiral downward into parental despair in the face of such news. Apparently, I am not alone, considering “fewer than one out of every five parents of young children believe that they are doing a good job of training their children morally and spiritually” (REVOLUTIONARY PARENTING, page 10). But there is always hope. Our Father is working His plan to build His household into a place where He will delight to dwell (Ephesians 2:19-22). We must remember that He is the “faithful God who keeps covenant and steadfast love” with His children generation after generation (Deuteronomy 7:9; Psalm 105:8). Read Exodus chapters one and two, and you will see embers of hope glowing among a people who were almost convinced they had been forgotten by God. Never forget those fiery, faithful midwives whose trust in their covenant-keeping God rallied them to risk their lives to rescue the next generation of God’s people. Let the example of the parents of Moses, who feared God more than the surrounding culture and shrewdly fought for the life of their son, rekindle hope in you (Acts 7:17-22; Hebrews 11:23). How did the midwives and Moses’ mother and father come to have such fearless faith and pass it on to the next generation? The text does not explicitly say, but certainly during their own childhood they must have had parents and a community of godly adults who diligently told and showed them God’s ways (Deuteronomy 6:7). By faith, the midwives and Moses’ parents kept fanning the flame until Moses caught fire, and Moses was consumed by God (Hebrews 11:25-27).
INSTRUCTIONS FOR LIGHTING FIRES
Our Father is still faithfully passing the torch from generation to generation through the process of what the Apostle Paul might have called “spiritual parenting” (1 Corinthians 4:15-16). In 1 Thessalonians 2, he gives us a picture of this process from which we can learn to create communities that produce consumed Christians rather than Christian consumers. The church at Thessalonica is the only one that Paul commends for having all three marks of maturity in place: faith, hope, and love (1 Thessalonians 1:3). But how did the flame of faith get sparked, the fire of hope get stoked, and the fervor of love begin to spread light and life like wildfire in their world? Beginning in chapter two, the apostle reminds them how this happened and concludes his letter by encouraging them never to quench the Spirit’s fire in light of the imminent return of Christ (1 Thessalonians 5:17). I believe that a pattern emerges in chapter two that will be instructive for every Christian parent, grandparent, church leader, youth worker, Sunday School teacher, small group leader, and pastor. The pattern looks like this: Formation, Fortification, and Vocation.*
This pattern was illustrated for me recently as I built several fires during our family’s first camping trip. The first phase of fire lighting is FORMATION. In order to spark the flame and get the fire going I needed a combination of dry tinder, heat, and oxygen. Some dry twigs and paper, a lighter, and a make-shift fan did the job just fine. Once the fire was burning it was time for the FORTIFICATION phase. I began to slowly add bigger, weightier branches, and as the fire grew in size and intensity I was able to feed it with logs that kept it burning hot. Now the fire was ready to fulfill its intended purpose: to keep us warm, to help us boil water for coffee and cocoa, to cook our food (burgers and s’mores!), to light our campsite at night, and to provide a warm place for us to entertain our campground neighbors. These functions all happen in the VOCATION phase, which naturally flows from the formation and fortification phases.
FORMATION: SPARKING THE FLAME OF FAITH
In 1 Thessalonians 2:7-8, Paul describes the formation stage of discipleship as SPIRITUAL MOTHERING. This stage is characterized by the image of a mother nursing her own children, gently providing the context for a fresh, fragile new life. Paul continues the nursery imagery in verse 8: “So, being affectionately desirous of you, we were ready to share with you not only the gospel of God but also our own selves, because you had become very dear to us.” In this FORMATION STAGE the fire of faith combusts and is carefully kindled into a living flame. Notice the three ingredients needed to ignite this fire: the Spirit of God blows on the dry tinder of the Law as it meets the heat of the Gospel, sparking a relationship with the Father that burns with holy passion. Paul knew that the Spirit loves to blow faith into a soul that is given the CONTENT of the Gospel in the CONTEXT of a loving relationship with a Gospel-driven discipler (v. 8).
We must offer the students and children in our homes, neighborhoods, and churches the MESSAGE of the cross in the MIDST of loving relationships with people who are being shaped by that same message. In his modern classic on parenting adolescents, AGE OF OPPORTUNITY, Paul Tripp explains that our children must know that they live in a THEOLOGICAL community. We need to show and tell them that everything in life has to do with their relationship with God (the first great commandment: “love God”). They also must realize that they live in a SOCIAL community. We must explain and exemplify the truth that everything in life has to do with our relationships with people (the second great commandment: “love your neighbor”). They must learn and live in households and houses of God that help them see that they were made to love God and others, but that they, like us, miss the mark again and again. But we must never let them forget that they live in a REDEMPTIVE community (the Gospel: “repent and believe”).
When they discover that they are sinners and law-of-God-breakers, we must bring the glorious warmth of the Gospel of Jesus to bear on their tinder hearts, praying that the Spirit will blow and set them ablaze. We must teach them to be like Paul, who wrestled with sin and rested in Jesus, by encouraging them to take their sins to the cross again and again, embracing the Good News of Christ’s forgiveness as their own, stoking the flame of faith (Romans 7:21-25). Tripp highlights what should be true of every family and church family: “The key to the family functioning as a redemptive community, where the Gospel is the glue that holds the family together, is parents who so trust in Christ that they are ready and willing to confess their faults to their children . . . Parents who admit their sin will position themselves to model the Gospel for their children daily.” This is precisely what the Apostle Paul and his cohorts did for the Thessalonians and others (1 Thessalonians 2:8; 1 Timothy 1:12-17).
FORTIFICATION: STOKING THE FIRE WITH HOPE
In 1 Thessalonians 2:11-13, Paul describes the fortification stage of discipleship as SPIRITUAL FATHERING. Notice the words used here: EXHORTED, ENCOURAGED, CHARGED. This stage of discipleship requires strong, impassioned pleas for the disciple to walk worthily of God by way of the Word of God (vv. 12-13). Paul paints the picture of a father who comes alongside his child and uses the Word of God to point out a path that will lead this young one to follow God’s call to live in and for His kingdom and His glory (v. 12).
The fire is burning and the coals are hot, but in order for this fire to fulfill its purpose, it must be fed with bigger and weightier fuel. If I do this too soon, I will suffocate the flames. Here is where I think the Church gets the cart before the horse. All too often we think that if we just pile on Bible content, our kids will be sure to catch fire for Jesus. In doing so, we may smother their souls. We must not skip the formation stage. Yes, there is content there: the Law of God and the life, death, and resurrected life of Jesus. But there must be content in the context of prayer and a relationship that shows young folks how the Law convicts us with the truth of our sin and the Gospel convinces us of the grace of Jesus.
Even when our students are ready for fortification with the bigger and weightier truths of the kingdom of God and the whole counsel of Scripture, we need to teach these to them like Jesus taught His disciples: He walked alongside them, listened to the concerns and questions of their hearts, and then “beginning with Moses and all the Prophets, He interpreted to them in all the Scriptures the things concerning Himself” (Luke 24:27). This is how Paul, following the example of Jesus, fortified the Thessalonians with spiritual fathering. He built the Word of God into them, and they heard and accepted it “as what it really is, the word of God, which is at work in you believers,” undoubtedly producing the “steadfastness of hope in our Lord Jesus Christ” for which he commended them earlier (1 Thessalonians 2:13, 1:3; Romans 15:4).
VOCATION: SPREADING THE FERVOR OF LOVE
In 1 Thessalonians 2:14, Paul describes the vocation stage of discipleship as SPIRITUAL BROTHERING. Throughout 1 Thessalonians, Paul constantly refers to the believers as “brothers.” By the time they receive this letter these believers, who were once newborn babes and then children in Christ, are now full-grown adults in the faith, brothers to and co-laborers with Paul. How do we know they have achieved this level of maturity? Paul tells us that they are now “imitators of the churches of God in Christ Jesus that are in Judea,” suffering the same persecution that other congregations have suffered (v. 14). Timothy brought back a report of the love for God and others that was being produced in these disciples (1 Thessalonians 3:6; 4:1,9). They were fully grown, fulfilling their vocation to love God and others in the everyday, ordinary places where God had placed them (4:11-12).
This final stage of discipleship is what Paul elsewhere called “equipping the saints for the work of ministry” that they might be servant-hearted ministers to everyone around them (Ephesians 4:12). We want the next generation to aspire to loving service of the people in their worlds with the fire that is in them: offering the warmth of friendship with God and His people, the nourishment of soul that only the Word of God can give, the light of truth in a culture of darkened minds, and the life of the resurrected Jesus.
LESSONS LEARNED AROUND A CAMPFIRE
When my family camped together those few days in the mountains, I made a few observations that I think will apply to discipling the next generation as well. First, I HAD TO BE CONVINCED THAT I NEEDED TO LIGHT A FIRE. That did not take long. As the darkness and coldness increased, so did my desire to light the fire. Look around you, particularly at the next generation. Do you see the darkness of mind and coldness of heart growing? Ask Jesus to give you His heart for these young ones who are “harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd” (Matthew 9:36).
Second, I HAD TO DO WHAT I COULD WITH WHAT I HAD. I did not have all the latest in fire-starting equipment and material. I had what I needed to get started, but when I could I found people and places that would better equip me for the task. If you know Jesus, you have what you need to start discipling the next generation. Begin to walk alongside young people, getting to know them, praying for them, learning from them, developing a tender compassion for them. Take what little you know about the Law of God and the Good News about how Jesus saves us from sin to be His servants and talk about how God is using these truths to transform your life. Let them see you repent and believe the Gospel. Pray for the Spirit to blow. And when you can, read a book or ask someone with more experience to help you learn about how to disciple a young person.
Third, I HAD TO STAY ENGAGED WITH ALL THREE STAGES OF FIRE LIGHTING. Fires will burn out unless they are tended. In order to keep the fire hot and useful for its vocation, I have to keep forming and fortifying it. Grown believers still need the Law, the Gospel, and the Spirit to fan the flame of faith. They still need big and weighty truth from God’s Word to stoke the fire of hope. Without faith and hope, there will be no fuel for living out our vocation to spread the fervor of love for God and others (Galatians 5:6; Ephesians 1:17-20).
Finally, I NOTICED THAT MY KIDS WERE FASCINATED WITH AND RESPECTFUL OF THE PROCESS OF BUILDING A FIRE. If my children could have played with, poked, and prodded that campfire all day and night, they would have been happy campers. “Daddy, can I help you start the fire this time? I’ll be careful. Will you show me how?” What will happen if the young people in your world see you lighting fires in discipling relationships? They will be drawn to it. They will want to know how to do for others what you have done with them. And the fire will keep burning, one generation to the next.
Have you noticed the neglect of intentional spiritual formation for the next generation in your family, neighborhood, or church? Start committing holy arson in the household of faith, and then sound the alarm for others to wake up and join you.
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Jimmy Davis is an ordained teaching elder in the Evangelical Presbyterian Church. He and his wife, Christine, are currently planting RIVERSIDE CHURCH, a family of home churches, in the historic Hardin Valley community of Knox County, Tenn.
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* My thanks to Rev. John Wood of Cedar Springs Presbyterian Church for a conversation with the student ministry staff that sparked my understanding of this process several years ago.
