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Legacy in Christian preaching often refers to the spiritual heritage and lasting influence one leaves behind, especially in faith and character (2 Timothy 2:2). Illustrations frequently use family relationships, last words, and personal testimonies to portray how a godly legacy impacts future generations and honors God (Psalm 78:4). This subject encourages believers to consider the eternal significance of their lives and choices.

The Motivation of A False Obituary

Luke 12:16

In "Is It Real When It Doesn't Work?" Doug Murren and Barb Shurin recount:

Toward the end of the nineteenth century, Swedish chemist Alfred Nobel awoke one morning to read his own obituary in the local newspaper: "Alfred Nobel, the inventor of dynamite, who died yesterday, devised a way for more people to be killed in a war than ever before, and he died a very rich man."

Actually, it was Alfred's older brother who had died; a newspaper reporter had bungled the epitaph.

But the account had a profound effect on Nobel. He decided he wanted to be known for something other than developing the means to kill people efficiently and for amassing a fortune in the process.

So he initiated the Nobel Prize, the award for scientists and writers who foster peace. Nobel said, "Every man ought to have the chance to correct his epitaph in midstream and write a new one."

Few things will change us as much as looking at our life as though it is finished.

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[see also HolwickID #23722 and 30088]

from Leadership · Rex Bonar via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database legacy

Father Leaves Racial Inclusiveness Legacy

John 1:46

A week after his cancerous right lung was removed, my father asked me over for an afternoon chat. That afternoon he told me his wishes regarding his funeral service. He never left anything to chance. Every action had a purpose and each sentence he spoke was planned to evoke a specific response.

He died two months later, after a four-year battle against colon cancer. His funeral wishes were simple. Someone of my mother’s choice would do the eulogy. A person of color would sing the hymn, “God Is.” Henry Webb, a co-worker at the Baptist Sunday School Board, would bring an evangelistic message and Olivia Cloud, a close friend and colleague, would end the service with prayer. His pallbearers must include three women and only two Anglos.

Dad’s life, as with his funeral service, reflected an unrelenting focus on inclusiveness and racial harmony and the basic thought that God is the reason for everything and everyone.

For Dad, racial reconciliation was biblical and multiculturalism was not just a catchword -- it was who he was. He believed it was important to be multicultural simply because one could not successfully share the love of Christ with a person of another culture without first knowing a little about his/her history, customs, laws or language.

No matter a person’s skin color, Dad simply treated others as he wanted to be treated. He always seemed to be watching out for the oppressed and enjoyed playing advocate for the downtrodden. His heroes had names like Martin Luther King Jr., Malcolm X, Caesar Chavez and Gandhi.

My sister and I became the direct beneficiaries of Dad’s relentless pursuit of a healthy cultural sensitivity. Our parents continuously exposed us to other cultures and beliefs outside our Anglo-European heritage. At times, Dad’s bent toward multiculturalism seemed almost obsessive, but he believed that if we learned a multicultural outlook as children, we would have no need for racial reconciliation later in our lives.

Whenever we were introduced to derogatory racial or gender-related stereotypes at school or in the media, our parents taught us the root of the stereotypes. Political and gender correctness were norms in our home for as long as I can remember. For instance, Pollock jokes and the use of racist words like blackmail, blacksheep, blackball or blacklist definitely were forbidden.

He had a knack for using everyday situations to teach us about racism and prejudice and the difference between the two. One such lesson came on a summer day, as I played baseball with other neighborhood children. We began choosing professional baseball players after whom we wanted to model our style of play. I chose my favorite, Willie McCovey, a strong, power-hitting, first-baseman for my hometown San Francisco Giants. I was quickly told that Willie McCovey was black and I couldn’t be him because I was white. I didn’t care that he was black; he was my favorite ballplayer. An argument ensued. Finally, insults were thrown and I was branded a “nigger-lover” and forced to pick a white player or not play at all. I didn’t exactly know what that meant, but I knew it wasn’t nice. So I picked up my Reggie Jackson bat and Willie Mays outfielders glove and went home.

That evening, I asked my father about the word I had heard. He told me the word was used mostly by Anglos as a derogatory term for anyone of dark skin. He explained to me the African etymology of the word and how it had been purposely distorted over the years to become an ugly racial slur.

Racism, a form of prejudice, was what my friends had shown toward Willie McCovey because of his skin color. Prejudice, on the other hand, was how my friends had treated me for my beliefs. I’ll always remember that talk because of what he told me at the end, “Son, it’s OK to be a nigger-lover.”

About the same time I was learning about prejudice on the baseball diamond, my family began visiting Emmanuel Baptist Church, a predominately black Southern Baptist church in San Jose, Calif. Visiting different churches each Sunday was not out of the ordinary for us since my father, as a home missionary, related to a large Southern Baptist constituency throughout the San Francisco Bay Area. On any given Sunday, Dad might be called upon to preach, share his testimony or conduct an evening Bible study.

However, Emmanuel was different. Soon our visits became regular and as a result of the friendliness and genuine Christian love we experienced, the church became our home.

For the next 11 years, Emmanuel played a vital role in my family. My father worked as a part-time minister of education and helped the church’s Sunday school grow into one of the state leaders in attendance. My mother taught Sunday school and my sister sang in the children’s choir. Church members also supported our family through prayer during my recovery from brain surgery in 1979. During our time at Emmanuel, we all developed strong friendships that last even today.

Because of the reputation he nurtured and earned while at Emmanuel, my father came to the Baptist Sunday School Board in 1987 to work in Black Church Development. At first Dad worked as a liaison between the section and Anglo leaders of state conventions. Soon he shifted his focus and began working directly with churches and pastors.

From the outset, many thought of Dad as the token white in a section dedicated solely to black church work. Some even questioned why he’d accept such a position. Wasn’t this a demotion? What were his qualifications? Did he actually think he could successfully work among African Americans, whose church style, culture and language were so different from mainstream Southern Baptists?

Many assumed his “calling” in life was to work with African Americans, just as a foreign missionary is called to work among non-Christians in far-off places like Africa, China and India. Some thought his job was to show black Southern Baptists how to “do” church the Southern Baptist way.

But nothing could be further from the truth. Really, we never discussed why he worked where he did. It was simply his job and what he loved to do. I know he felt comfortable in the black community and never found his skin color to be an obstacle.

Throughout his career, Dad constantly worked to broaden the racial sensitivity of others. Even while working at the Sunday School Board, he routinely confronted co-workers about their views of race in the workplace and in the Christian community. Although his entire career in Christian ministry seems dedicated to racial reconciliation, he had a somewhat critical view of the Racial Reconciliation Resolution adopted by the Southern Baptist Convention last June.

He thought, as do many black Southern Baptists who attended the SBC, that the resolution by itself will not change anything in the relationship between blacks and whites in the Southern Baptist Convention. Openness and a willingness to learn and understand -- qualities my Dad’s life exemplified -- will make a real difference.

He knew that racial reconciliation is more than just saying you’re sorry. It will come only when actions begin to speak louder than words.

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Copyright (c) 1995 Baptist Press

Success Means Being 'Available'

Job 2:3

Florida State head football coach Bobby Bowden told more than 200 Baptist men at the first-ever "Legacy Builders Rally" that all he's ever really done is made himself available to God and "he has just worked out everything."

Bowden, who led the Seminoles to the 1993 national title, said he'd never intentionally applied for any coaching job he ever got, including those at Florida State and, earlier, at West Virginia University.

"My objective always was to be a head coach at a major university," Bowden said, whose first opening came after the resignation of the WVU head coach in 1969.

"But my dad was over in Birmingham dying" after unsuccessful surgery, "so rather than stay around and campaign for the job, I took off for Birmingham," he said. "The next morning they called me ... they wanted me to take the head coaching job."

The March 11 rally in Duluth, Georgia, was the launch event for the Southern Baptist Brotherhood Commission's new emphasis on Men's Ministries.

"We wanted to communicate the objectives and share our new vision for what we believe can happen among men in their local churches," said Jim Burton, the agency's Men's Ministries director. "The rally itself is an outgrowth. The name Legacy Builders, for example, comes from our new Legacy Builders weekend retreat that will be available to local churches June 1."

Brotherhood Commission President James Williams said the rally is one result of dialogue with laymen, pastors and leaders in the men's ministry movement.

"It became obvious to us that we needed to capture attention and imagination of 'boomers and busters,' many of whom were not attracted to traditional Brotherhood programs," Williams said, adding the rally is one way to "capture the strength and help direct the energies of men outward, to a world desperately in need of the gospel."

The theme of "leaving a Christian legacy" for future generations was the focus of other rally session leaders, including Gary Rosberg, author of "Guard Your Heart," and Walter Mickels, a parental issues specialist from

Dallas.

Mickels called on the men to "scuba dive" in God's Word to glean the values they should be vocally teaching to their children.

"The Scriptures are absolutely covered with the idea of living a trustworthy life, an honest life, a life of integrity. They're just loaded with them," Mickels said. "They're the true source of all these values. And these commandments have to be 'on your heart' at all times."

Devotion to intensive daily Bible study is the foundation.

"We ski on the surface when we talk about Bible study," he said. "We have a five-minute quiet time, and we're on our way. Maybe you'll have a 15-minute Bible study. That's just snorkeling, guys. If you're really going to get into Bible study, you're going to have to go scuba diving. We're talking about experiencing God. We're talking about a good, solid Bible study program.

"I started studying characters, like Joseph, Moses, Daniel and Jonah. If you start looking and digging into their lives, you see who they really are. They're nothing more than men, just like we are, but guess what: They were able to get the power of the Holy Spirit on their side because they had committed themselves to him."

Rosberg offered his view of keeping life in perspective with an illustration of five small dots representing major events in a man's life -- including birth, marriage, the birth of children and death -- followed by a much longer line, representing eternity.

"We're living for the dot, when we should be living for the line," Rosberg said. "We're missing the call if we don't shift our focus toward eternity. We've got to be 'salt,' we've got to be different, and it's happening. It's

called revival."

The rally was co-sponsored by the Brotherhood Commission and the Georgia Baptist Convention's Brotherhood department and hosted by Pleasant Hill Baptist Church in suburban Atlanta.

The Brotherhood Commission's Burton said more agency-organized regional rallies in other parts of the country may be organized in 1996, but Georgia Brotherhood director Ray Newman said he already was considering repeating the event next year in his state.

"I have yet to receive a negative reaction," Newman said after the event. "Our exit evaluations were all positive and reaffirming. Our office has been flooded with calls from men across the state saying, 'We must do this again.' So, we are going to meet that expressed need in Georgia, and we've already planned smaller-scale rallies at the associational level."

Copyright (c) 1995 Baptist Press

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A Father's Legacy

What can a father leave his children that will last? A spiritual legacy:

1. A Dad of Prayer.

2. A Dad of Purpose.

3. A Dad of Patience.

4. A Dad of Play.

5. A Dad of Praise.

[basis of 6/16/96 sermon]

The Five P's of Patering (Dadding)

Sermon in Family series. Father's Day. Essentials of a Spiritual Dad.

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THE FIVE P'S OF PATERING

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I. Patering, a powerful calling.

II. Five P's of Dadding.

A. A Dad of Prayer.

1) Be a spiritual example.

2) Kids need to see that you honor God.

3) Your spiritual leadership will produce eternal fruit.

B. A Dad of Purpose.

1) "Hands on" participation.

2) Our lives need to be directed by a clear purpose.

C. A Dad of Patience.

1) Dictators and wimps.

2) Gentleness. Isa 40:11

D. A Dad of Play.

1) Our kids should remember us as dads who were fun.

2) Carefree time can be constructive time.

E. A Dad of Praise.

1) The power of acceptance.

2) Be positive more often than you are negative.

III. Legacies are forever.

A. Stuff doesn't matter. Our kids do.

B. How firm a foundation?

from Condensed sermon outline (handout) by Rev. David Holwick · Serm96t.pco via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database legacyexample

A Father's Legacy

Amos 7:2

Do you realize the profound impact you have on the lives of your children? All parents will leave something of themselves to their children, for better or worse. If you were to die today, what legacy would you leave your children?

Jim Carpenter is the father of two small boys, and that question became personal to him because of a tragedy that occurred near his home in Southern California. On February 19, 1979, a small plane crashed into Ontario Peak in the San Gabriel Mountains, and a ten-hour story of death, courage, and survival began.

The passengers of that Cessna 172 included the pilot, a young woman, an attorney, and his eleven-year-old son. The pilot and the attorney were killed in the crash. The boy said he knew his father was dead when he tried to rouse him and “he wouldn’t wake up.”

The boy and the young woman huddled in the snow near the plane for seven hours, hoping to be rescued. Finally they decided they must attempt the treacherous descent of the mountain or freeze to death.

Shortly after they began, the woman fell 350 feet to her death. The boy, all 75 pounds of him, was lost and all alone on a mountain in the freezing cold. Bloody and bruised, broken bones in both hands, his father lying dead a few feet away – what was he to do?

He never gave up. He slid most of the way down the mountain on the seat of his pants, clutching a stick in his fractured hands. Whenever he began to slide too fast, he wedged the stick in the snow as a brake. About 5 p.m. he was found near a village at the foot of the mountain and rushed to a hospital. Wet, bloody, and exhausted, he was still very much alive.

Before his release from the hospital there was a news conference. The boy encountered a barrage of questions about his ordeal. How did he find the courage to go on? Didn’t he feel like quitting? He answered simply, “I’M ALIVE TODAY BECAUSE MY DAD TAUGHT ME NEVER TO GIVE UP.”

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Commentary added to this story by Rev. Mark Brouer:

What a lesson for a young boy to have been given! Whenever I hear a story like that, I have to wonder as a parent, “What kind of lessons am I teaching my kids? What kind of a legacy am I leaving?”

I’ve recently been studying the life of Hezekiah, one of the most important kings in Israel’s history. His story is found in several books of the Old Testament, and has much to teach us about legacy-leaving, mostly in the form of a negative example. Hezekiah served as the king of Judah in the early 700’s B.C. He has gone down in history as one of the great kings in the Old Testament. He came onto the scene after a time of spiritual drift and political impotence, and reversed both trends. He strengthened Judah politically, and led the nation in a time of spiritual renewal.

At key crisis points in Hezekiah’s life, he turned to God in prayer. Whether facing a dangerous military situation (an Assyrian invasion), or devastating medical news (he was once told he had only a few days to live), Hezekiah pleaded with God ... and God heard his prayers, altered the course of events, and rescued the desperate king.

But some time later Hezekiah made an ill-conceived alliance with the nation of Babylon. The prophet Isaiah came to him with the news that this alliance would be the undoing of Israel, and that Hezekiah’s own children would either be killed or taken into captivity in years to come. It’s fascinating – and revealing – to see what Hezekiah does next.

Rather than express sadness, or pray to God and ask for something different to happen (like he’d done when he got sick), Hezekiah says: “The prophecy you have given is good.” What a strange thing to say! He said this, we’re told, because he thought to himself, AT LEAST THIS WON’T HAPPEN IN MY LIFETIME. He didn’t seem to care about what was going to happen to his kids. He accomplished great things for his own generation, but he left a terrible legacy for the next generation.

The measure of a society – or an individual person – is not simply what it does for itself, but the legacy it leaves for those who come after. Legacy-leaving is the true test of our character because it’s the ultimate unselfish act. We won’t be there to benefit from it. Hezekiah didn’t trouble himself with the future prospects of his family and nation ... AFTER ALL, he told himself, IF THIS DISASTER HAPPENS, AT LEAST I WON’T BE THERE TO SEE IT.

TAKING THE LESSON OF HEZEKIAH SERIOUSLY CHANGES HOW WE LOOK AT PARENTING.

Too many people take parenting for granted. The rewards of parenting are high, but doing it well causes us to confront our selfishness on an almost daily basis. Some people like the idea of HAVING children, but are looking for low demand ways of actually RAISING them. There are none. There are no short cuts. We can set our children up for success, but it takes an active, thoughtful approach to do it.

TAKING THE LESSON OF HEZEKIAH SERIOUSLY ALSO CHANGES HOW WE LOOK AT THE CHURCH.

The church is not simply an entity that reaches out to adults, and arranges child-care to make it more convenient for them to come. Our task is to help ALL people become followers of Christ, and grow to maturity in their faith ... and this task is for children and teenagers as well as adults. In fact, it’s MORE strategic for us to focus on children and youth ministry, because helping people come to faith at an early age will help spare them much heartache later on, and will help them live much more full and meaningful lives. Every person I know who came to faith in Christ as an adult says the same thing: “I wish I’d done this sooner.”

So let’s leave a legacy! I want – for myself and for the churches in this community – to not only provide a message of hope for people in our generation. I pray that we can also prepare the way and provide the training for people in the next generation to continue this good work.

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from Discipleship Journal · Jim Carpenter via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database fatherlegacyinfluence

Devoted Dads: How They Point Us To Christ

Luke 11:11

What do Dietrich Bonhoeffer, Albert Schweitzer, and G. K. Chesterton have in common?

All of them were prominent Christians of the last century. But these champions of our Heavenly Father had something else in common, as well: All had exceptionally close relationships with their earthly fathers.

In his new book, Faith of the Fatherless, psychologist Paul Vitz says he initially set out to examine the lives of prominent atheists of the last four centuries. He discovered that all had fathers who were weak, abusive, missing, or dead. But then he began to wonder: Was it possible that what appears to modern eyes to be defective fathering simply reflected the social conditions of the time?

To find the answer, Vitz compared the family conditions of prominent atheists to those of prominent theists from the same period. What he found is startling: Every theist he studied had a strong and tender bond with his father, or with a father substitute. And as adults, these men became known for taking on the intellectual forces of atheism.

For example, Blaise Pascal, the great French philosopher and mathematician, was home-schooled by his Catholic father. Their relationship was close and affectionate. As an adult, Vitz writes, Pascal wrote "a powerful and imaginative defense of Christianity."

John Henry Newman, the Catholic cardinal, also had a life-long, loving relationship with his father. Vitz notes that Newman developed a "clear and critical understanding of modernism," and wrote rational responses to it.

Alexis de Tocqueville, French aristocrat and author of Democracy in America, loved his father deeply. Tocqueville argued that religion is absolutely necessary in the public life of a nation -- a view that was, Vitz writes, "really quite unusual" at a time when atheistic views of culture "were becoming standard in Europe."

William Wilberforce is known as Britain's great Christian abolitionist, but few people know he was also a devoted dad. When his son Samuel was away at school, Wilberforce found time to write him more than 600 letters in which he poured out his love. Samuel later became a bishop who was "well-known as one of the major debaters in the conflict ... over Darwinian evolutionary theory," Vitz writes.

G.K. Chesterton, the Christian apologist, was deeply attached to his father, who was Chesterton's constant companion when he was a child.

Dietrich Bonhoeffer, the German theologian who was executed by Hitler, also came from a loving home. His father was a major presence in the lives of his children, whom he treated with respect and affection, Vitz writes.

The great missionary to Africa, Albert Schweitzer, called his father "my dearest friend." Karl Barth, the Swiss-German theologian, also enjoyed a close relationship with his father.

In light of Vitz's research, the importance of good fathering can hardly be overstated. His book helps us understand why scripture commands fathers to provide diligent spiritual leadership to their children -- and why, in Ephesians, fathers are specifically instructed to avoid provoking their children to anger.

Vitz's remarkable book, Faith of the Fatherless, will help you understand why some people become evangelists for atheism -- and why others become fervent followers of God.

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Copyright (c) 2000 Prison Fellowship Ministries. Reprinted with permission. "BreakPoint with Chuck Colson" is a radio ministry of Prison Fellowship Ministries.

from BreakPoint Commentary · Charles Colson via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database influencelegacyatheism

The Will of Henry Heinz

When the will of Henry J. Heinz, wealthy distributor of the famous "57 Varieties" line, was read it was found to contain the following confession:

"Looking forward to the time when my earthly career will end, I desire to set forth at the very beginning of this will, as the most important item in it, a confession of my faith in Jesus Christ as my Savior. I also desire to bear witness to the fact that throughout my life, in which there were unusual joys and sorrows, I have been wonderfully sustained by my faith in God through Jesus Christ. This legacy was left me by my consecrated mother, a woman of strong faith, and to it I attribute any success I have attained."

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Last Words

Acts 1:8

Last words are often recorded for posterity. We sometimes lay great store by last words. Some are amusing and some are not.

Apparently Oscar Wilde said, “Either the wallpaper goes, or I do.” Rudolph Valentino was supposed to have said, “Don’t pull down the blinds! I feel fine.” James Joyce: “Does nobody understand?” Dylan Thomas: “I’ve had eighteen straight whiskies. I think that is a record.” My favourite though is the American officer in the Civil War who said, “They couldn’t hit an elephant at this distance,” right before he was shot dead.

We lay great store by last words. We cherish them, we may even write them down somewhere. We certainly store them in our hearts.

In 1 Chronicles chapters 28-29 we have recorded for us the last words of King David. David has been on the throne for 40 years. Many of those years have been troublesome and now he looks back over his life and is about to speak to Solomon his son and successor and the people of Israel for the last time.

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Holwick: Some of these quotes are probably apocryphal or altered. Dylan Thomas has four different "last words" attributed to him. This one is the most popular (he died of chronic alcohol poisoning) but undoubtedly mythical. Credible sources say Wilde's last words were "My wallpaper and I are fighting a duel to the death. One or the other of us has to go." He died in a flophouse in Paris, which has since remodeled the room with luxurious Victorian wallpaper.

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from Kerux Sermon #26427 · Rev. Alan McCann via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

Place These Ashes On Your Heart

Acts 9:27

In 1580, a Dutch Protestant leader named Klaes was arrested and condemned as a heretic. Eventually he was burned at the stake. When the tragedy was over, his dear wife took their small son by the hand and walked thorugh the back streets of town to the hill where their loved one had perished as a Christian martyr. At the place of execution, the bereaved widow gathered up a few of the ashes, placed them in her satchel, and hung it around her boy's neck, saying,

"Son, I place these ashes on your heart, and on the heart of every

son of these Netherlands in all eternity. Whenever and wherever

in this world there is an injustice or wrong committed, these ashes

will beat on your heart and you will speak out without fear, even

at the fear of death."

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G. Curtis Jones, 1000 Illustrations for Preaching and Teaching, Broadman, 1986, p. 89

NORTH MARSHALL MESSENGER

Volume 421, March 21, 1999

from Illustrationsbyemail (8/29/99) · David Lemmons via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database couragelegacyinjustice

In My Hands

I went to the funeral home to pay my respects to an old acquaintance. Some thoughtful person had placed in her hands a well-worn Bible. It looked fitting and symbolic. I could see how her face used to light up as she'd tell others of the Lord. Yes, it was most appropriate.

Later I was thinking: What if someone put the thing that seemed most appropriate in our hands after we die? Would it be a cigarette? A paper? A bottle? A fishing pole? Car keys? A deck of cards? A golf club? A worn Bible? Or even a Bible not worn at all?

I just wonder what they would put in mine?

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Englewood (CO) Examiner

from Daily Bread (7/30/99) via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database legacybible

A Father's Legacy

Joshua 1

Frankly, most of us didn't know much about the space shuttle Columbia's amazing crew until the ship and the crew were lost in that awful re-entry tragedy. But then we began to learn what truly outstanding men and women these people were. Starting with their commander, Rick Husband. Hearing from his family and friends, it quickly became clear that he was a magnetic follower of Jesus Christ. He quoted from memory verses from Joshua 1 to prepare his crew the night before the launch. He prayed with his crew just before they met the press and boarded the shuttle. He molded his diverse crew into a bonded team. What touched me most was what Rick Husband did for his kids before he left. He made 17 videos for his daughter and 17 videos for his young son, each one a “devotional with Daddy” for each day he was scheduled to be gone - it was Daddy with the Word of God and Daddy praying with them. Can you imagine what a treasure that will be to them?

I'm Ron Hutchcraft and I want to have A Word With You today about “A Father's Legacy.”

The kind of gift a space shuttle commander left for his children is the kind of legacy God intends for every father to leave - a contagious love for Jesus, the teaching of God's words and God's ways, and a consistent life of Christ-like love and purity.

And just in case someone asks, “How do you know that's what a father's supposed to be doing?” we can just look at Ephesians 6:4, our word for today from the Word of God. It says, “Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.” There are some men who might say, “That's women's work.” A lot of men try to delegate to their wife the spiritual leadership for which God holds them accountable. Throughout the Bible - beginning with Adam - God makes it clear where the buck stops when it comes to spiritual leadership in a family. It stops with the man.

But that's not supposed to be a bad thing. It means that a man can leave a legacy for his children that can literally change their lives and last forever. And that's an exciting prospect! Rick Husband modeled this God-given assignment of being your children's spiritual coach when he left God's Word for his children along with hearing him talk with God on their behalf.

Some of us haven't really stepped up to building this spiritual legacy as we should. One reason might be fear of failure. You know, we men tend to only do things where we're pretty sure we won't look stupid. We ask out a girl only when we're pretty sure she won't shoot us down. We show up for a sport where we can look reasonably coordinated. We avoid sports we're not very good at. And because trying to lead our family in praying and exploring God's Word is unsure ground, we tend to shy away from it. Or we hide behind the fact that we think our wife is better at it. But God doesn't buy any of that. There's only one way you can be a failure in being a spiritual leader for your family - and that's by not stepping up! Just do it - however clumsy and unsure you may be at first.

When your children remember you, will they remember a praying man? Will they remember a Godly man? A man who loved and lived by the words of God? It's the greatest legacy you can give them. In the words of the psalmist, “We will tell the next generation the praiseworthy deeds of the Lord,” and will follow God's mandate that men should “teach their children, so the next generation would know ... even the children yet to be born, and they in turn would tell their children. Then they would put their trust in God...” (Psalm 78:4, 6-7)

We never know when our own mission on earth will end. Which means we can't waste another day in working on our spiritual legacy. The greatest gifts you will leave your children will not be in your will - they will be in your life. As you pass onto them your living faith in your living God!

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Copyright © Ron Hutchcraft Ministries, Inc., PO Box 400, Harrison, AR 72602. Used by permission. Written by Ron Hutchcraft. "Practical Answers to Real Life Issues"

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from A Word With You by Ron Hutchcraft #4248 · Ron Hutchcraft via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database legacyinfluence

A Father's Prayers That Had Been Prayed There

Gary Bowell tells of two men that lived in a country home in their boyhood, and they became rich men when they went away from home. They went occasionally to visit their father and mother living in the home. And finally the father and mother went to heaven.

The sons did not know what to do with this old home. One of them said to the other, “If you'll sell out your interest in it, I'll tear down the house and I'll build a summer home there, and let you come out to it when you want to.” Accordingly they took a trip out to the old homestead to tear it down.

Around that spot there swept many sacred memories. Then these two brothers, past middle life and rich, went into the house and looked around through it. One walked up and down in front of the old fireplace and the other sat down. Finally one said to the other: “You know, Bob, what I'm thinking about? I've changed my mind since I've been here. We're not going to tear down this old house. This house is going to stand here; it's not going to be torn down.”

“That is a strange thing,” the other brother said, “because when I was walking up and down in front of the fireplace, that is the same thing I was thinking about.” He looked at the chair in which his father used to sit. “Her is the old chair that father sat in when he read the Bible, when we had family worship... the chair around which we knelt as father lifted our hearts to God.”

They stayed there two hours to talk things over. They both go down on their knees by the old chair, repented, and wept their hearts out before God. They went back, saved men, and gave their money to God and lived for God. And the old house stands. Not a single thing was moved out. It was too sacred to touch because of a father's prayers that had been prayed there!

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Gary Bowell, “Stones with Fair Colors” p. 151, 152

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Lovest Thou My Son?

The story is told of a wealthy man who lost his wife when their only child was young. A housekeeper was hired to take care of the boy, who lived only into his teens. Heartbroken from this second loss, the father died a short time later. No will could be found; and since there were no relatives, it looked as if the state would get his fortune. The man’s personal belongings, including his mansion, were put up for sale. The old housekeeper had very little money, but there was one thing she wanted. It was a picture that had hung on a wall in the house -- a photo of the boy she had loved and nurtured. When the items were sold, nobody else wanted the picture, so she bought it for just a few pennies. Taking it home, she began to clean it and polish the glass. As she took it apart, a paper fell out. It was the man’s will, and in it he stated that all his wealth should go to the one who loved his son enough to buy that picture.

The legacy of heaven and the inexhaustible riches of God’s love belong to all who trust and love His Son.

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Leaving A Legacy of Faith

Proverbs 13:22

“I had a grandmother who was a believer,” a man once told me as he sat across from my desk, “and she was my favorite. I always wanted what she had. Do you think it's possible?” As we shared for a few more minutes, he became the beneficiary of his grandmother's legacy of faith.

There is no greater gift you can give to your family members than leaving them a legacy of faith.

When King Solomon stated that, “A good man leaves an inheritance to his children's children” (Proverbs 13:22), he was most likely referring to earthly wealth. That is good advice as far as it goes. It is unfortunate that in spite of leaving a sizable fortune for his grandchildren, Solomon was not in the end remembered for his faith. Sadly, the compromises of his latter years resulted in a divided family and a divided kingdom. Better for us all that he had focused on leaving a legacy of faith!

In his second letter to Timothy, the apostle Paul reminds his young protege that the “unfeigned faith” which he possessed resided first in his grandmother, Lois, and his mother, Eunice (2 Timothy 1:5). They had passed on to him a legacy of faith. It's impossible to give away something you don't originally possess. As personal as salvation is, there is a sense in which we receive it as a gift passed along from God to us by others. Paul was reminding Timothy of his spiritual “roots.”

One winter, while away from home on our annual time together, Jeannie and I had a serious talk about what we most desired to leave our children. We both decided that the most important treasure we could pass along would be a legacy of faith. In fact, these words are recorded in my journal: “My greatest desire is that I would be a living illustration of God's faithfulness to those who are simply willing take Him at his word.”

Before we returned home, we received word that our house had burned to the ground. We thought it interesting (in light of our discussion) that not one thing was lost in the fire that we felt it crucial for our children to inherit. We saw, in fact, that the manner in which we responded had the potential for even increasing the inheritance we wanted them to receive, a legacy of faith.

My grandfather was a preacher who in his early days was a hard-hitting, Bible-thumping, barnstorming, brush arbor exhorter of the brethren. Preaching up and down the border between Arkansas and Oklahoma, he often stirred such controversy that posses would be called out to protect him. On one occasion, in fact, the music for a revival was provided through instruments belonging to the “Anti-Horse Thief Band.” My grandmother, on the other hand, while a quiet and gracious lady, was the greatest soul-winner I ever knew, leading dozens to the Lord till the very year of her death.

When my grandparents were in their “eighties,” I began pastoring a small country church in a town near where they lived. Generally, as I made my way back to college on Sunday evenings, I would stop by their home with a carload of friends. There my grandparents would fix a late-night breakfast and talk about the Lord. It is impossible to relate just how formative those discussions were for my friends and me. We always left with full stomachs, prayer and encouragement. My grandparents were determined that their latest days would be their greatest days, and they were!

My youngest brother, Bill, is the gifted pastor of the dynamic Summit Church in Little Rock, Arkansas. He is also our family's poet laureate. This poem of his, read at a family reunion as a “charge” to our children, reveals the incredible impact of a legacy of faith:

God has done a wondrous work down through the family line,

as one by one,

He's called men out to walk with Christ through time.

And now the Lord has called your name, this heritage to share,

For He has passed this torch to you and on to those you rear.

Our God desires to multiply His work yet more and more,

Each generation gaining from the one that's gone before,

'Til growing tides of godliness like waves upon the shore,

Build tidal waves of praise to Him, both now and evermore.

And so your family from above watches from the heavenly stands.

The gathered wealth of all God's done is placed within your hands,

To run the race with faithfulness, with holiness, with truth,

'Til God's work is perfected, and our family's task is through.

The bottom line is this: Whatever you do, leave a legacy of faith and faithfulness.

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This article is excerpted from the book, “Letters to Lovers,” by Tom Elliff, Broadman & Holman Publishers. Elliff is pastor of First Southern Baptist Church in Del City, Oklahoma.

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Giving Your Family A Legacy of Faith

2 Timothy 1:5

It was one of those tense moments which ultimately became a turning point in the life of a young building contractor.

If he backed away from his request, he would lose any of the profit originally anticipated. What's more, it would cost him an additional amount sufficient to exhaust his resources and perhaps bankrupt his company. So now he had come to admit his mistake in drawing up the bid and ask for more money.

"Absolutely not!" was the terse reply as the signed contract was waved in his face. "This is your bid and your signature. We chose you over several others because of it. We trusted you to do your homework. You should have included a margin for cost increases. It's too late now to change. You gave us your word."

"It was that last statement that settled the issue for me," the contractor recounted. "He was right. I did give him my word and I had to keep it regardless of what it did to me or my company." Then he shared why keeping his word was of such importance.

"You see, I inherited this business from my father," he said. "On more than one occasion I have seen him eat his profits and, in fact, go in the hole in order to keep his word. Dad would remind me that all we had to trade on was our integrity, and if we sacrificed that, we could not depend on the Lord to bless us. To him, it was more than a matter of integrity, it was a matter of faith in God. He often told us that when he took Christ as his Savior he also made him the CEO of his company. He never wanted to do anything that would give his 'Boss' a bad reputation."

THE GREATEST GIFT YOU CAN GIVE YOUR FAMILY

There is no greater gift you can give to your family members than leaving them a legacy of faith. In his second letter to Timothy, the apostle Paul reminds his young protégé that the "unfeigned faith" which he possessed resided first in his grandmother, Lois, and his mother, Eunice (2 Timothy 1:5). They had passed on to him a legacy of faith. It's impossible to give away something you don't originally possess. As personal as salvation is, there is a sense in which we receive it as a gift passed along from God to us by others. Paul was reminding Timothy of his spiritual "roots."

One winter, while away from home on our annual time together, Jeannie and I had a serious talk about what we most desired to leave our children. We both decided that the most important treasure we could pass along would be a legacy of faith. In fact, these words are recorded in my journal: "My greatest desire is that I would be a living illustration of God's faithfulness to those who are simply willing take Him at his word."

Before we returned home, we received word that our house had burned to the ground. We thought it interesting (in light of our discussion) that not one thing was lost in the fire that we felt it crucial for our children to inherit. We saw, in fact, that the manner in which we responded had the potential for even increasing the inheritance we wanted them to receive ... a legacy of faith.

A POINT OF BEGINNING

Every legacy of faith has its point of beginning. I am blessed to be in a family which has in it several generations of preachers. At the most recent count there are 15 preachers spread across four generations. But as best we can tell, our family's legacy of faith stretches back at least two more generations. It was then that a young mother on a train headed back east fell seriously ill. It soon became evident she would die. Calling her unbelieving husband to kneel beside the bench where she lay dying, she made him promise to give not only himself but their new child to God. The next Sunday in a small country church, a rough, angular man stood to testify. Holding his small a child in the air, he said, "Brethren, I have given my life to God and have come today to be baptized." My father is named after that man whose wife's plea marks the beginning point for our family's legacy of faith.

"There was a beginning point for your faith," Paul reminded Timothy. "It dwelt first in your grandmother." With those words we are reminded that every legacy of faith has its point of beginning. Occasionally when telling our family's story, I am confronted by someone who laments, "But I didn't receive a wonderful heritage of faith."

That simply means you have the privilege of being the first in line, the beginning point, for generations to come. What an awesome privilege! Have you thanked God for the honor? Are you passing along the faith God has given you? Our family is thankful for that young mother who in her dying moment passed along a legacy of faith.

IT'S UNDER YOUR WATCH!

Timothy's grandmother made certain that the torch of her faith was passed to her daughter who then passed it to her own son. That is not always the case. On more than one occasion I have talked with parents whose own children "came to church faithfully" but have now "strayed from the faith." Admittedly, we cannot discount the power of personal choice. After all, remember the prodigal son. Neither can we "pass the buck" when it comes to nurturing a growing sense of spiritual heritage. Churches don't raise children ... parents do! How is your family's legacy of faith faring "under your watch?" Is it developing, or disappearing?

A legacy of faith is not "wished" into existence. It takes prayer, personal interest and participation. I sometimes get the impression that a few folks think they can just wake up in the morning, fall out of bed and pass along a legacy of faith. It requires much more than that! It requires what a friend of mine calls "finishing well." A legacy of faith is like a flame. It requires "tending."

INCREDIBLE IMPACT!

Timothy was the recipient of at least two letters penned by the apostle, Paul. Those two letters, inspired by the Holy Spirit, are some of the most significant letters in the New Testament. While we know little of Lois or Eunice, we know a great deal about Timothy. You cannot help but wonder if his mother and grandmother ever imagined that, one day, Paul would place his ministerial mantle upon Timothy. That's the incredible impact inherent in a legacy of faith.

Years ago, when Jeannie and I were just engaged, I took her to visit my grandparents on my father's side of the family. My grandfather took her hand in his, held it to his lips and kissed it. Then, with a twinkle in his eye, he said, "That's an old Elliff custom ... and I'm the old Elliff who started it!" But that's not all he and my grandmother "started."

My grandfather was a preacher who in his early days was a hard-hitting, Bible-thumping, barn-storming, brush arbor, exhorter of the brethren. Preaching up and down the border between Arkansas and Oklahoma, he often stirred such controversy that posses would be called out to protect him. On one occasion, in fact, the music for a revival was provided through instruments belonging to the "Anti-Horse Thief Band." My grandmother, on the other hand, while a quiet and gracious lady, was the greatest soul-winner I ever knew, leading dozens to the Lord even in the year of her death.

When they were in their 80s, I began pastoring a small country church in a town near where they lived. Generally, as I made my way back to college on Sunday evenings, I would stop by their home with a carload of friends. There my grandparents would fix a late-night breakfast and talk about the Lord. It is impossible to relate just how formative those discussions were for my friends and me. We always left with prayer, encouragement ... and full stomachs. My grandparents were determined that their latest days would be their greatest days ... and they were!

The BOTTOM LINE is this: Whatever you do, leave a legacy of faith and faithfulness.

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Life Or Death

The Pillsbury Doughboy died yesterday of a severe yeast infection and complications from repeated pokes to the belly. Doughboy was buried in one of the largest funeral ceremonies in recent years. Dozens of celebrities turned out, including Mrs. Butterworth, the California Raisins, Hungry Jack, Betty Crocker, the Hostess Twinkies, Capt. Crunch, and many others.

The graveside was piled high with flours, as longtime friend, Aunt Jemima, delivered the eulogy, describing Doughboy as a man who “never knew how much he was kneaded.”

Doughboy rose quickly in show business but his later life was filled with many turnovers. He was not considered a very smart cookie, wasting much of his dough on half-baked schemes. Still even as a crusty old man, he was a roll model for millions.

Doughboy is survived by his wife, Play Dough. They have two children and and one in the oven. The funeral was held at 3:50 for about 20 minutes.

TS - How will you be remembered? What will they say at your funeral? How will you be remembered.

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The St. Patrick You Never Knew

He didn't chase the snakes out of Ireland and he may never have plucked a shamrock to teach the mystery of the Trinity. Yet St. Patrick well deserves to be honored by the people of Ireland — and by downtrodden and excluded people everywhere.

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Some 1,500 years ago a teenage boy from what is now Great Britain was kidnapped and enslaved by marauders from a neighboring country. Not since Paris absconded with Helen of Troy has a kidnapping so changed the course of history.

The invading marauders came from fifth-century Ireland. The teenager they captured eventually escaped, but returned voluntarily some years later. In the meantime, he had become convinced that he was handpicked by God to convert the entire country to Christianity.

Apparently, he was right.

In the process of converting the primitive people of Ireland, however, the former slave experienced a conversion, too. In the years that followed, he not only shared God with the people of Ireland, but also grew in his understanding of God through them.

And so it was that a young Briton named Patricius died an Irishman named Patrick. And neither Ireland nor Christianity was ever quite the same. This conviction of Thomas Cahill, Catholic author of the best-selling book How the Irish Saved Civilization, was made clear in an exclusive interview for St. Anthony Messenger last August.

PATRICK IN MYTH AND HISTORY

No, Patrick never chased the snakes out of Ireland. Nor do we really know whether he used the shamrock to teach converts about the Trinity. But what we do know about St. Patrick is far more interesting than many of the legends that grew up around him.

And the fact that we know anything about him at all is as great a miracle as any that later traditions ascribe to him. For Patrick is literally the only individual we know from fifth-century Ireland or England. Not only do no other written records from Britain or Ireland exist from that century, but there are simply no written records at all from Ireland prior to Patrick's.

Surprisingly enough, however, scholarly debate about the authenticity of what Patrick left us is almost nonexistent. The chronology of his life is very confused. Indeed, we can't even identify for sure when he was born, ordained a bishop or died! Experts agree, however, that the two examples of his writing that we have are clearly written by the same man, the man we know as Patrick.

These two brief documents, Patrick's Confession and his “Letter to Coroticus,” are the basis for all we know of the historical Patrick. The Confession, because its purpose was to recount his own call to convert the Irish and to justify his mission to an apparently unsympathetic audience in Britain, is not a traditional biography.

And the “Letter to Coroticus,” apparently an Irish warlord whom Patrick was forced to excommunicate, is a wonderful illustration of Patrick's prowess as a preacher but doesn't tell us much by way of traditional biography either.

The uncontested, if somewhat unspecific, biographical facts about Patrick are as follows:

Patrick was born Patricius somewhere in Roman Britain to a relatively wealthy family. He was not religious as a youth and, in fact, claims to have practically renounced the faith of his family.

While in his teens, Patrick was kidnapped in a raid and transported to Ireland, where he was enslaved to a local warlord and worked as a shepherd until he escaped six years later.

He returned home and eventually undertook studies for the priesthood with the intention of returning to Ireland as a missionary to his former captors. It is not clear when he actually made it back to Ireland, or for how long he ministered there, but it was definitely for a number of years.

By the time he wrote the Confession and the “Letter to Coroticus,” Patrick was recognized by both Irish natives and the Church hierarchy as the bishop of Ireland. By this time, also, he had clearly made a permanent commitment to Ireland and intended to die there. Scholars have no reason to doubt that he did.

STRANGER IN A STRANGE LAND

Though Patrick's writings tell us little in terms of names and dates, they do reveal much about Patrick the man. But traditional biographies of Patrick, suggests Thomas Cahill, author and former religion editor for Doubleday, don't really do him justice.

“I think they missed a lot of what Patrick was about because they approached him as a kind of plaster-of-paris saint. Two things,” he says, “really shine through his Confession: his humility and his strength. That strength is what has been missing in the earlier biographies and portraits of Patrick.”

In fact, Cahill says, “The Patrick who came back to Ireland with the gospel was a real tough guy. He couldn't have been anything else — only a very tough man could have hoped to survive those people. I don't mean to say he wasn't a saint — he was a great saint — but he was a very rough, vigorous man.”

And he was his own man, writes Noel Dermot O'Donoughue, O.D.C., in his 1987 biography Aristocracy of Soul: Patrick of Ireland. When Patrick receives the vision that he believes calls him to evangelize the Irish, he doesn't hesitate, despite the fact that in 400 years no one had taken the gospel beyond the boundaries of Roman civilization. “He goes his own way following his own dreams and divine 'responses,'“ says O'Donoughue, even though by doing so he is challenging the structure and ordinances of the Church he serves.

It doesn't take a scholar to recognize how he was able to do this. Patrick was so certain that he had been specifically called by God to do exactly what he did — return to the land of his captivity and convert the barbarians to Christianity — that his Confession leaves even the modern reader little room for doubt. In this certainty, Patrick finds his strength — strength sufficient, in fact, to overcome every obstacle he will encounter in the remaining years of his life.

The first obstacle was his education. The six years Patrick was enslaved in Ireland put him permanently behind his peers in terms of his classical education. His Latin would always be poor. Later in life when he used Latin less frequently, it was practically unintelligible at times.

Despite the fact that Patrick would be self-conscious about his literary limitations to the end of his days, he was not uneducated. One suspects, however, that he was primarily self-educated. His use of biblical quotations, Cahill says, “is far more accurate and appropriate than many of the Fathers of the Church.”

And although almost any other qualification pales by comparison to Patrick's zeal for his mission, he must have set off equipped with an intellect both subtle and supple. For he not only decided, unilaterally, to do what no man in 400 years of Christian history had done before him — to carry the gospel message to the ends of the earth — but he also found a way to do it.

It's hard to grasp just what an accomplishment that was, says Cahill. When Patrick decided to “willingly go back to the barbarians with the gospel,” Cahill explains, “he had to figure out how to bring the values of the gospel he loved to such people. These were people who still practiced human sacrifice, who warred with each other constantly and who were renowned as the great slave traders of the day.

“That was not a simple thing. This was before courses were given to missionaries in what is now called inculturation — how to plant the gospel in such a culture,” Cahill says. “No one had ever even thought about how to do it; Patrick had to work his way through it himself.

“I know that Paul is referred to as the first missionary,” Cahill says, “but Paul never got out of the Greco-Roman world, nor did any of the apostles. And here we are, five centuries after Jesus, who had urged his disciples to preach to all nations. They just didn't do that. And the reason they didn't is because they did not consider the barbarians to be human.”

PATRON SAINT OF THE EXCLUDED

Patrick's enslavement as an adolescent had to have been a critical factor in the development of his unique attitude toward the Irish. Even in captivity, he must have come to know them as human, hence, deserving of the gospel. This set the stage for his call to convert them.

As a result of his enslavement, Cahill, whose particular interest is the “hinges of history,” says, “Patrick grew into a man that he truly would not otherwise have become. So you would have to say that Patrick's kidnapping was a great grace, not just for the people of Ireland, but for all of Western history.”

Had he never been kidnapped, it seems quite likely that it would have been decades, probably centuries, before Ireland was converted. It certainly would not have been in a position to “save civilization,” as Cahill so dramatically puts it in his book, when the Roman Empire crumbled and literacy was lost — lost, that is, by all but the Irish monasteries planted by Patrick and his successors.

Not surprisingly, his own experience in captivity left Patrick with a virulent hatred of the institution of slavery, and he would later become the first human being in the history of the world to speak out unequivocally against it.

“The papacy did not condemn slavery as immoral until the end of the 19th century,” Cahill says, “but here is Patrick in the fifth century seeing it for what it is. I think that shows enormous insight and courage and a tremendous 'fellow feeling' — the ability to suffer with other people, and to understand what other people's suffering is like.”

In fact, although he is renowned as the patron saint of the country and the people he evangelized, a better advocate than Patrick cannot be found for anyone disadvantaged or living on the fringes of society.

“He really is one of the great saints of the downtrodden and excluded — people that no one else wants anything to do with,” Cahill says.

Women find a great advocate in Patrick. Unlike his contemporary, St. Augustine, to whom actual women seemed more like personifications of the temptations of the flesh than persons, Patrick's Confession speaks of women as individuals. Cahill points out, for example, Patrick's account of “a blessed woman, Irish by birth, noble, extraordinarily beautiful — a true adult — whom I baptized.”

Elsewhere, he lauds the strength and courage of Irish women: “But it is the women kept in slavery who suffer the most — and who keep their spirits up despite the menacing and terrorizing they must endure. The Lord gives grace to his many handmaids; and though they are forbidden to do so, they follow him with backbone.” He is actually the first male Christian since Jesus, Cahill says, to speak well of women.

“The Fathers of the Church had the most horrible things to say — it's frightening to read what people like Augustine or John Chrysostom had to say about women. As remarkable as anything about Patrick is that in his writings there is never anything remotely like that.”

In fact, there are clear instances of him saying warm and appreciative things about women. O'Donoughue adds, “It is clear that the man who wrote the Confession and “Coroticus” is deeply and sensitively open to women and womanhood....But he does not take refuge in either 'the pretentious asceticism, nor yet in that neurotic fear of and contempt for the feminine' that has entered so deeply into the attitudes and structures of the Christian Church....In this respect he is a complete man.”

PATRICK THE MYSTIC

Modern Catholics might have a hard time reconciling the portrait of the rugged individualist that Cahill describes with the current notion of a mystic. Yet O'Donoughue says that in the Confession, “the main lines of Patrick's spiritual development show through, and they are unmistakably the lines of a mystical journey.” In fact, his biography of Patrick is the first in a series of works edited by Michael Glazier called “The Way of the Christian Mystics.”

So what makes Patrick a mystic?

First, as recounted in the Confession, most of the major events in Patrick's life are preceded by a dream or vision. The visions were usually simple — almost self-explanatory — but they were also very vivid and carried enormous emotional impact with Patrick.

The first vision, which he received after six years of servitude in Ireland, came by way of a mysterious voice, heard in his sleep. “Your hungers are rewarded: You are going home,” the voice said. “Look, your ship is ready.” Indeed, some 200 miles away, there it was. (Patrick was nothing if not tenacious.)

The second vision — the one that came to him after he'd returned home and that called him back to Ireland — was equally straightforward. Victoricus, a man Patrick knew in Ireland, appeared to him in this dream, holding countless letters, one of which he handed to Patrick. The letter was entitled “The Voice of the Irish.” Upon reading just the title, he heard a multitude of voices crying out to him: “Holy boy, we beg you to come and walk among us once more.” He was so moved by this that he was unable to read further and woke up.

But the dream recurred again and again. Eventually Patrick tells his dismayed family of his plans to return to evangelize Ireland and soon begins his preparations for the priesthood. What is interesting about this dream calling Patrick to his lifelong mission to the Irish is that it comes not as a directive from God, but as a plea from the Irish.

It is also significant, O'Donoughue says, that “the voices in the dream do not ask for preaching or baptism but only that Patrick as one specially endowed should come back and share their lives, come and walk once more with them.” In other words, at least according to his recollections decades later, Patrick wasn't commanded to bring civilization or salvation to the heathens. He was invited to live among them as Christ's witness.

When he finally returns to Ireland, he proceeds to treat the barbarians with the respect implicit in his dream. From the outset, Patrick feels humbled and honored that God has selected him to convert the Irish. Apparently he never doubted that he would be able to do so.

Patrick even came to see his own kidnapping as a grace, Cahill says. From the time Patrick sets off on his 200-mile journey to his “waiting ship,” he is convinced “once and for all that he is surrounded by Providence and that he is really in the hands of God. And that is what gets him through the rest of his life. That is what enables him to do the incredible thing that he does by returning to the barbarians.” And that closeness to God in no way diminishes as the years progress.

“Patrick was a mystic who felt the presence of God in every turn of the road,” Cahill says. “God was palpable to him, and his relationship to him was very, very close.” In fact, he says, it was very much like the relationship in the Bible that Jesus has with God the Father. “It is very familiar and comfortable, and that is how Patrick saw God at work in the world.”

PATRICK'S LASTING LEGACY

When Patrick looked back at the end of his life on his service to Ireland, Cahill says, he must have been pleased with his accomplishments.

By the time of his death, or shortly thereafter, “the Irish stopped slave trading and they never took it up again.” Human sacrifice had become unthinkable. And although the Irish never stopped warring on one another, “war became much more confined and limited by what we might call the 'rules of warfare.'

“I think that though he probably died knowing that he had succeeded [in his mission],” Cahill adds, “he also died hoping that success would be permanent and not temporary.”

In fact, Patrick's success couldn't have been more permanent. Not only had he accomplished what he'd set out to do — convert the nation to Christ — but in the process he'd retrieved from obscurity the primary objective set by Christ for his apostles: the spread of the gospel to the ends of the earth.

The inadvertent results of his conversion of Ireland, however, were equally astonishing and long-lasting.

First, as Cahill makes the strong case in How the Irish Saved Civilization, it is Patrick's conversion of Ireland that makes possible the preservation of Western thought through the early Dark Ages by the Irish monasteries founded by Patrick's successors. When the lights went out all over Europe, a candle still burned in Ireland. That candle was lit by Patrick.

Second, by converting the Irish pagans to Christianity without making any attempt to romanize them as well, he founded a new kind of Church, one that was both Catholic and primitive.

Third, with Patrick's introduction of Christianity to Ireland, Cahill says, the faith was introduced for the first time into a culture free of the sociopolitical baggage of Greco-Roman civilization. Prior to Patrick's gift of the faith to Ireland, to be Christian was to be Roman, or at least to be a product of Roman civilization.

The conversion of Ireland, however, sees the faith thrive in an entirely different environment — in a culture that celebrates rather than abnegates the natural, a culture in which, according to Cahill, there is a “sense of the world as holy, as the Book of God — as a healing mystery, fraught with divine messages.”

In this tradition, Cahill explains, “there is a trust in the objects of sensory perception, which are seen as signposts from God. But there is also a sensuous reveling in the splendors of the created world, which would have made Roman Christians exceedingly uncomfortable.”

As a result, Cahill says, “The early Irish Christianity planted in Ireland by Patrick is much more joyful and celebratory [than its Roman predecessor] in the way it approaches the natural world. It is really not a theology of sin but of the goodness of creation, and it really is intensely incarnational.”

And since it was the Irish monks who served as the bridge between classical Christianity and the Middle Ages, medieval Christianity tends to reflect the celebratory nature of Irish spirituality rather than the gloom and sin-centeredness of its classical predecessor.

Finally, Patrick gave the Irish himself — knowingly, willingly, joyfully, proudly. He did this despite the fact that, even at the end of his life, “after 30 years of missionary activity,” Cahill says, “he knows he's still living in a very scary place. You don't change people — people who offer human sacrifice and who war on one another constantly — you don't change them overnight.”

But change them he eventually did. And the example of his life — his courage, his intelligence, his compassion and his incredible, indomitable faith — made the lives of all Catholics, even those living 1,500 years later, just a little easier.

To millions of modern-day Catholics, an Ireland without Patrick is unthinkable. But so, too, Cahill says, is the prospect of modern life without saints like him. The saints are for the ages, and ours no less than any other.

“Life would be almost unbearable without such people,” he says. “I think it would be unbearable. The saints are for everyone — believer, unbeliever, Christian, non-Christian — it doesn't really matter. They are the people who say by their lives that human life is valuable — that my life is valuable — and that there is a reason for living. Without them, history would just be one horror after another.”

PATRICK AT THE JUDGMENT

There is no question that Patrick taught us by his example that all life is, indeed, precious. Yet it's hard to imagine that there isn't a soft spot in his heart reserved just for the Irish.

In fact, there is an old legend that promises that on the last day, though Christ will judge all the other nations, it will be St. Patrick sitting in judgment on the Irish.

When asked whether that spelled good news or bad news for the Irish, Cahill doesn't hesitate.

“That's great news for the Irish,” he says with a laugh.

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Anita McGurn McSorley is associate editor of The Leaven, newspaper of the Archdiocese of Kansas City, Kansas. Copyright © 1996-2003 St. Anthony Messenger Press. All rights reserved.

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Soldiers and Fathers

By profession I am a soldier and take pride in that fact, but I am prouder to be a father. A soldier destroys in order to build; the father never destroys. The one has the potentialities of death; the other embodies creation and life. And, while the hordes of death are mighty, the battalions of life are mightier still. It is my hope that my son, when I am gone, will remember me not from the battle, but in the home, repeating with him our simple daily prayer, "Our Father Who art in Heaven...."

-General Douglas MacArthur

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Grandma's Flowers

Psalms 78

Karen and I have the privilege of living in the farmstead that once belonged to Karen's grandparents. But it's not just their home we get to enjoy. Every Spring, some beautiful purple iris flowers bloom all over our front yard. I was touched when Karen told me she can remember when her Grandma planted those flowers - probably fifty years ago. Grandma's been in heaven for over twenty years - but what she planted is still beautifying our world.

Well, I'm Ron Hutchcraft and I want to have A WORD WITH YOU today about "Grandma's Flowers."

In many ways, the measure of the impact of your life is the fragrance that goes on long after you're gone. In Grandma's case, it was far more than flowers. For me, they're just a symbol of a larger legacy she left - a son who loved Christ, two granddaughters who are in the Lord's service - one of whom I'm married to ... and three great-grandchildren who are spending their lives serving Christ.

If God has entrusted you with a family of your own, I just want to encourage you to think legacy. That kind of perspective will determine your priorities, it will shape your decisions, and it will remind you every day of the most important things you have to do.

Thinking legacy is the passion of our word for today from the Word of God in Psalm 78, beginning with verse 4. The psalmist says, "We will not hide them from their children; we will tell the next generation the praiseworthy deeds of the Lord, His power, and the wonders He has done ... to teach their children, so the next generation would know them, even the children yet to be born, and they in turn would tell their children. Then they would put their trust in God and would not forget His deeds ... "

Those children of yours ... those grandchildren ... even those nieces or nephews - they are God's great trust to you. He's counting on you to plant in them the ways of God, the words of God, a love for God. And you just don't have anything more important to do. They are the legacy of your brief journey on this planet.

And how can you sow that seed most effectively? Deuteronomy 11:19 suggests that you will "teach them to your children" by "talking about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up." The transfer of a God-relationship from one generation to the next appears to happen through experiences more than through spiritual meetings or formal teaching. Children and young people need to see a real God doing real things in real life situations.

So, pray with them in ways where they can see specific answers to prayer. Look for ... pray for teachable moments where there are natural opportunities to teach something about the Lord. Dedicate each child to the Lord each new day. Take them with you to do acts of kindness in Jesus' Name. Go with them on family missions experiences. Make Jesus a natural part of the everyday life of your family. And if there are inconsistencies between your words and your life, please address those in Jesus' power - your legacy could be at stake. And if your efforts to date don't seem to have "taken," keep on sowing faithfully, believing that what you sow, you will reap, and "the one who sows to please the Spirit from the Spirit will reap eternal life." (Galatians 6:7,8)

Grandma's gone, but her flowers are still blooming. I pray that when you and I are gone, the beauty and fragrance of what we've sown in the lives of our children will still be beautifying another generation.

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Copyright © Ron Hutchcraft Ministries, Inc., PO Box 400, Harrison, AR 72602. Used by permission. Written by Ron Hutchcraft. "Practical Answers to Real Life Issues"

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The Legacies of Two Men

Proverbs 10:7

[Several versions are presented which differ mostly in the statistics. I suspect the research exhibits a fair amount of "selection bias" - Holwick]

Max Jukes [should be "Juke"] lived in New York. He did not believe in Christ or in Christian training. He refused to take his children to church, even when they asked to go. He has had 1,026 descendants -- 300 were sent to prison for an average term of 13 years each; 190 were public prostitutes; 680 were admitted alcoholics. His family thus far, has cost the state in excess of $420,000. They have made no contribution to society that is of any notable benefit.

Jonathan Edwards lived in the same state, at the same time as Jukes.

He loved the Lord and saw that his children were in church every Sunday, as he served the Lord to the best of his ability. He has had 929 descendants --of these, 430 were ministers [seems high: see below]; 86 became university presidents; 75 authored good books; five were elected to the United States Congress and two to the Senate. One was Vice-President of this nation. His family never cost the state one cent but has contributed immeasurably to the life of plenty in this land today.

How is your influence and what legacy will you leave with your children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren?

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Max Jukes had offspring that were known for their bad characters whose children plagued New York prisons. Max Juke's two sons fathered five generations who produced 709 descendants and 1.3 billion dollars of expense of crime dealings. An investigator named R. L. Dugdale found that: 1/5 were criminals, approx. 1/4 were paupers supported at government expense, 1/4 were born illegitimate, 1/6 of the women were prostitutes.

Jonathan Edwards was a minister and a strict moral leader. His tree produced “twelve college presidents, two-hundred sixty-five college graduates, sixty-five college professors, sixty physicians, one hundred ministers, seventy-five army officers, sixty prominent authors, one hundred lawyers, thirty judges, eighty public officers such as governors, mayors, and state officials, three congressman, two U.S. senators, and one vice-president of the United States.”

(adapted from G. M. Webb, Training Up A Child (Old Landmarks: Denver, 1977), 209).

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Many years ago a study was made on two families that lived about the same time. Jonathan Edwards was a well-known preacher in the early American Colonies. Out of 729 of his descendants, 300 were preachers, 65 were college professors, 13 were university presidents, 16 were authors, 3 were U.S. congressmen, and one was a Vice-President of the United States. None of Jonathan Edwards' family ever received any money from state institutions for the needy. Max Jukes lived at about the same time as Edwards. Max Jukes never cared about God, never believed in God, and never shared God with his family. Out of 1,020 descendants, 300 died prematurely, 100 entered penitentiaries for an average sentence of 13 years each, 190 were prostitutes, and 100 were drunkards. They cost the state an estimated $1,200,000, at a time when the dollar was worth far more than it is now.

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I quote from Al Sanders in "Crisis in Morality!" --

“Max Jukes, the atheist, lived a godless life. He married an ungodly girl, and from the union there were 310 who died as paupers, 150 were criminals, 7 were murderers, 100 were drunkards, and more than half of the women were prostitutes. His 540 descendants cost the State one-and-a-quarter million dollars.

“But, praise the Lord, it works both ways! There is a record of a great American man of God, Jonathan Edwards. He lived at the same time as Max Jukes, but he married a godly girl. An investigation was made of 1,394 known descendants of Jonathan Edwards of which 13 became college presidents, 65 college professors, 3 United States senators, 30 judges, 100 lawyers, 60 physicians, 75 army and navy officers, 100 preachers and missionaries, 60 authors of prominence, one a vice-president of the United States, 80 became public officials in other capacities, 295 college graduates, among whom were governors of states and ministers to foreign countries. His descendants did not cost the state a single penny. 'The memory of the just is blessed' (Prov. 10:7).

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In the year 1720 two young men began their careers in New York City. One of them, a 17-year-old Yale graduate named Jonathan Edwards, became the youngest Presbyterian minister in the history of the city. Over the course of his fifty-five years on this earth he developed into the finest theologian this continent has ever produced; he was a missionary to the first nations of Massachusetts; a preacher who inspired both an awe and dread which was instrumental in the great awakening of evangelical piety in America; and, last but not least, was the first president of Princeton University. Edwards was also a devoted family man, who cherished his wife and doted on his children. He taught them to pray and to regard their lives as a gift of God. The other man whose career began that same year was a publican named Max Jukes who didn't think much of Jonathan Edwards and even less of the God he served. In fact, he refused to let his children attend the church in which Edwards preached, even though they begged him to go. Their only fleeting connection to each other in New York was the mutual disapproval of their respective lifestyles.

These two men, Edwards and Jukes, became posthumously connected through research into the subsequent history of their families. The result of the research was surprising for the persistent genealogist. Jukes has had 1,026 descendants: 300 of whom were sent to prison for an average term of 13 years; 190 were public prostitutes; 680 declared bankruptcy due to alcoholism. As wards of the state, they have cost the Empire State several small fortunes. Edwards, on the other hand, has had 929 descendants: 430 became ministers; 86 were university professors, 5 served in congress and 2 became senators, one was a vice president. The Edwards' legacy has been a profound contribution to the spiritual and intellectual life, not only of the state, but of that nation.

(Sermon preached by Timothy Cooke on May 13, 2001)

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He refused to take his children to church, even when they asked to go. He has had 1,026 descendants; 300 were sent to prison for an average term of thirteen years; 190 were public prostitutes; 680 were admitted alcoholics. family, thus far, has cost the state in excess of $420,000. They made no contribution to society.

Jonathan Edwards lived in the same state, at the same time as Jukes. He loved the Lord and saw that his children were in church every Sunday, as he served the Lord to the best of his ability. He has had 929 descendants, and of these 430 were ministers; 86 became university professors; 13 became university presidents; 75 authored good books; 7 were elected to the United States Congress. One was vice president of his nation. His family never cost the state one cent but has contributed immeasurably to the life of plenty in this land today.

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James S. Hewett, Illustrations Unlimited (Wheaton: Tyndale House Publishers, Inc, 1988) p. 195. From Family Happiness is Homemade, Sep, 1986, Vol. 10, No. 9., bulletin insert published by Family Concern, J. Allan Petersen, Editor.

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The original study of the Juke family was done by Richard L. Dugdale in 1875 and expanded and published by Arthur Eastabrook in 1915. See http://www.disabilitymuseum.org/lib/docs/759.htm for the complete document. A relevant section:

Dugdale studied 709 persons, 540 being of Juke blood and 169 of "X" blood who had married into the Juke family. He estimated that the Juke family would consist of 1,200 persons were it possible to have traced all the lines of descent from the original 6 sisters. Of the 709 whom he studied, 180 had either been in the poorhouse or received outdoor relief to the extent of 800 years. There had been 140 criminals and offenders, 60 habitual thieves, 7 lives sacrificed by murder, 50 common prostitutes, 40 women venereally diseased contaminating 440 persons, and 30 prosecutions in bastardy. The total cost to the State of New York of this one group of mental and social degenerates was estimated, for a period of 75 years beginning in 1800, at $1,308,000.

I believe this is the origin of the Jukes-Edwards comparison:

Winship, Albert E. (1900) Heredity: A history of Jukes-Edwards families. Boston: Journal of Education. (This comparison was much trumpeted by proponents of eugenics)

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Comment by Forrest L. Bivens in “Practical Insights into the Minister’s Spiritual Growth,” by Forrest L. Bivens, Jan. 21, 2002. http://www.wls.wels.net/library/Essays/Authors/b/BivensGrowth/BivensGrowth.pdf

As I understand it, the study began when the New York Prison Commission employed a Mr. Richard Dugdale in 1874 to visit state prisons. Dugdale was surprised to find criminals in several prisons who were not only related to other prisoners, but (as shown by further investigation) were all descended from the same family unit, that of “Max Jukes” [not his real name], born about 1720. The study was subsequently expanded (at Yale and Princeton) to include about 1,200 of Jukes' descendents, as well as the sharply contrasting family of Jonathan Edwards, who was born in 1703. Nearly 1,400 descendents of Jonathan and Sarah Edwards were charted. The findings confirm what sociologists have called the “five-generation rule”: how parents raise their child influences not only the child but the four generations that follow. (In short, the Jukes family purportedly revealed 300 convicts, 27 murderers, 190 prostitutes, 509 alcoholics and drug addicts, etc., while the Edwards progeny had 430 ministers, 130 lawyers and judges, 99 college professors, 13 university presidents, 60 physicians, 11 congressmen and governors, etc.)

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Passing the Torch To Future Generations: Lessons From A Dictator

In August, President Fidel Castro celebrated his 75th birthday. The Cuban dictator came to power in 1959, after overthrowing former dictator, Fulgencio Batista.

On the eve of his birthday, Castro made a powerful gesture. He publicly handed a Cuban flag to the head of Cuba's communist youth organization. This was more than a photo op. The flag represented a "shining torch" to light the way of communism into the future.

Lucia Newman of CNN's Havana bureau wrote, "Castro was metaphorically enacting what he calls his most powerful dream -- that Cuba's younger generations take over from him once he's gone to keep his revolution alive."

The aging Castro knows that in order to keep his regime alive, he must pass the torch of communism to the next generation. He knows that if he fails to teach Cuba's children the communist worldview, his revolution will eventually die out. So Castro has been training his country's children to pick up the torch of communism and carry it into the future.

We wince at the thought of a strong new generation of young people working to keep communism in Cuba after Castro's gone. We've seen the sad results of communism in that country and in other parts of the world. And yet we can learn something important from Castro's symbolic gesture. We can learn that torch-passing is essential for us as Christians if we are to keep Christianity and a Christian worldview alive for future generations.

The torch of Christianity shines in the world today because of our dedicated elders -- parents, grandparents, pastors, theologians, teachers, youth leaders -- who taught Christian doctrine and Christian practice to this generation. Now we must be careful to do the same, to continue the work. Author Tim Kimmel writes, "Faith is the foundation of our legacy. It enables us to give one of the most significant gifts of all to our children."

This, however, goes beyond teaching our children Bible stories and right doctrine. We must teach them to think. The world is an increasingly complex place. We face questions in bioethics -- and now terrorism -- entertainment, career, and sexuality, to name only a few, that could not have been imagined a generation ago. What will today's infants or teenagers face when they're our age? If we merely teach them what to think about today's issues, we will not effectively prepare them to creatively think about tomorrow's. They need to learn first how to think -- specifically, how to think biblically about all the questions of life.

When we teach children the Word of God and its ramifications for life, we leave them a great inheritance. And children who are nurtured in the faith usually grow up to be adults who keep the faith.

What a challenge. And it's not only a challenge for Christian parents, but for all of us as we take advantage of opportunities to carry God's Word and a biblical worldview into the future.

Fidel Castro is working hard to make sure communism is passed on to a new generation of Cubans. How much more should we make sure that Christ and a biblical worldview will be passed on to a new generation here.

Sources:

CNN.COM: "Castro marks 75th birthday, firmly in charge," CNN Havana Bureau, from Lucia Newman, August 13, 2001.

Kimmel quote is from: KIDS CAN TALK TO GOD by Denise George, Birmingham, AL: New Hope Publishers, 1999.

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Copyright © 2001 Prison Fellowship Ministries. Reprinted with permission. 'BreakPoint with Chuck Colson' is a radio ministry of Prison Fellowship Ministries.

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A Man's Lasting Legacy

1 Timothy 3

My dad was a great man, and I still miss him, even though he's been gone for a lot of years now. And I'll often think about his laugh, his favorite sayings, his great personality, his fun sense of humor, his unconditional love and support for me. Because he's buried in a place where I don't often get to go, it's been quite a while since I've been able to visit his grave. But I did a few weeks ago. And I was impressed with the simplicity of what, besides the dates of his birth and death, was engraved on his gravestone. It just said, "John Hutchcraft, husband and father."

Well, I'm Ron Hutchcraft and I want to have A Word With You today about "A Man's Lasting Legacy."

I guess standing at my father's grave after all these years was sort of a values clarification reminder for me - and maybe for you. My dad held many titles in his life - he was chairman of our church board, he was chairman of the board of a youth ministry, foreman, plant manager. But other people held those titles before him and after him. He's the only husband my Mom ever had. He's the only father I ever had. His tombstone honors him accurately - it's what he did as a husband and a father that is the most lasting legacy of his life. That's something for any man to consider.

God seems to put a high priority on those life-roles, as well. You can see it even in His list of requirements for those who aspire to positions of spiritual leadership. In 1 Timothy 3, beginning with verse 2, our word for today from the Word of God, He says, "An overseer must be above reproach, the husband of one wife ... He must be one who manages his own household well, keeping his children under control with all dignity, (but if a man does not know how to manage his own household, how will he take care of the church of God?)." God seems to be saying here, "If he isn't being the right kind of husband and father, please don't spread the infection to the church!" But this isn't just about leadership credentials. It's obviously a statement about what God values in a man.

Tragically, too many of us men have fallen for lies about what will give our lives significance. We go after comparatively trivial pursuits - a promotion at work, the next rung on the ladder, an award, a higher income, the acclaim of our organization, our church, or some important person, just that bigger title. But there is no bigger title than husband or dad.

I have friends that I respect greatly because they've been offered some great promotions in their company, but they turned them down because they realized that it would hurt their family and it would make them less of a husband and less of a father. To be a hero at work or a hero at church and a zero at home is a price too high to pay. Sadly, even many women in our day have now fallen for the lies about significance that have literally been killing their men. And they've been chasing the same pursuits and finding the same lack of fulfillment we did there. God says there is nothing more significant, there is nothing more lasting, there is nothing more profitable you can do than the mark you make at home.

Those lives that you mark at home - whether it's by your involvement positively or your neglect negatively. That's the lasting legacy of your life; the major mark you will make on a future you will never see. And there is no greater legacy you can leave than to introduce them to the Father, the God who gave up His one and only Son so we could be His sons and daughters. Give your best to the legacy that will truly define the impact of your life.

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The Dress - A Legacy of Love

“Do you like my dress?” she asked of a passing stranger. “My mommy made it just for me.” She said with a tear in her eye.

“Well, I think it’s very pretty, so tell me little one, why are you crying?” With a quiver in her voice the little girl answered.

“After Mommy made me this dress, she had to go away.”

“Well, now,” said the lady, “with a little girl like you waiting for her, I’m sure she’ll be right back.”

“No ma’am, you don’t understand,” said the child through her tears, “my Daddy said that she’s up in heaven now with Grandfather.”

Finally the woman realized what the child meant, and why she was crying.

Kneeling down she gently cradled the child in her arms and together they cried for the mommy that was gone. Then suddenly the little girl did something that the woman thought was a bit strange.

She stopped crying, stepped back from the woman and began to sing.

She sang so softly that it was almost a whisper. It was the sweetest sound the woman had ever heard, almost like the song of a very small bird.

After the child stopped singing she explained to the lady, “My mommy used to sing that song to me before she went away, and she made me promise to sing it whenever I started crying and it would make me stop.” “See,” she exclaimed, “it did, and now my eyes are dry!”

As the woman turned to go, the little girl grabbed her sleeve, “Lady, can you stay just a minute? I want to show you something.”

“Of course,” she answered, “what do you want me to see?”

Pointing to a spot on her dress, she said, “Right here is where my Mommy kissed my dress, and here,” pointing to another spot, “and here is another kiss, and here, and here,”

“Mommy said that she put all those kisses on my dress so that I would have her kisses for every boo-boo that made me cry.”

Then the lady realized that she wasn’t just looking at a dress, no, she was looking at a Mother who knew that she was going away and would not be there to kiss away the hurts that she knew her daughter would get.

So she took all the love she had for her beautiful little girl and put them into this dress, that her child now so proudly wore.

She no longer saw a little girl in a simple dress, she saw a child wrapped in her Mother’s love.

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The Legacy of Jonathan Edwards

1 Corinthians 10:31

If the statistics hold true, my life is more than half over.

I'm 38 years old and the older I get, the better I was. It's not that I feel old; it's just that everyone else is starting to look younger and younger. I have become, contrary to my youthful wishes, my parents. I'm a little grayer, a little heavier, but hopefully a little wiser, too.

I've also come to realize the importance of my legacy. Webster's dictionary defines “legacy” as an “inheritance,” something left behind for others. Some of us leave money for our loved ones. Others leave property. All leave memories. We all have a legacy.

The great Puritan preacher Jonathan Edwards left a lasting legacy -- greater than his famous sermon, “Sinners in the Hands of An Angry God.” Born 300 years ago Oct. 5, Edwards has become a spiritual hero, influencing not only his immediate generation, but also those that followed. Fittingly, Edwards expressed great concern about his legacy even as a young man. Not yet 30 years old, he wrote, “I frequently hear persons in old age say how they would live if they were to live their lives over again. Resolved, that I will live just so as I can think I shall wish I had done, supposing I live to old age.”

Edwards died 35 years later but has been speaking to us ever since. Later in the 18th century, English Baptists looked to Edwards to provide the theological rationale that launched the “modern missionary movement.”

Without it, William Carey would have never left for India. Early Southern Baptists like Furman, Manly and Johnson echoed the writings of Edwards in their sermons and their theology as well.

Today another generation has “discovered” Jonathan Edwards. While most Baptists could not agree with everything he said, nor should they, there is a treasure trove waiting to be mined in his sermons and theological writings, a calling to greater godliness. Edwards lays before us a challenge to live a Christian life worth remembering.

Eavesdrop as Edwards counsels a young believer: “In all your course, walk with God and follow Christ as a little, poor, helpless child, taking hold of Christ's hand, keeping your eye on the mark of the wounds on his hands and side. From these wounds came the blood that cleanses you from sin and hides your nakedness under the shirt of the white shining robe of his righteousness.”

Does your faith exhibit that kind of trust?

Listen as he speaks about our loving God: “The more a true saint loves God with a gracious love, the more he desires to love him and the more uneasy is he at his want of love to him ... the more he thirsts and longs after God and holiness, the more he longs to long, and breathe out his very soul in longings after God ...”

Does that describe your love of God?

Read as he describes our relationship with God: “There are many reasons to think that what God has in view, in an increasing communication of himself through eternity, is an increasing knowledge of God, love to him, and joy in him. And it is to be considered that the more those divine communications increase in the creature, the more it becomes one with God; for so much the more is it united to God in love, the heart is drawn nearer and nearer to God, and the union with him becomes more firm and close, and at the same time, the creature becomes more and more conformed to God.”

Does your Christian walk reflect that closeness?

Jonathan Edwards was supremely concerned about the nature and content of the Christian faith. His works were not theological musings but biblical discipling. Ultimately, for himself, his legacy, and his spiritual progeny, Edwards had one great desire: the glory of God. The apostle Paul shared that same concern. “Whether, then, you eat or drink or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God” (1 Corinthians 10:31).

Is that your greatest concern as well? Is that the legacy that you seek to leave? If so, put yourself under the authority of Scripture, in communion with other faithful believers in the local church and under the tutelage of a wise teacher like Jonathan Edwards.

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Peter Beck, a master of divinity student at Southern Baptist Theological Seminary, spent a month at Yale studying Edwards in 2002.

His Prayers Affected Three Generations

In POINT MAN, Steve Farrar tells the story of George McCluskey.

When McCluskey married and started a family, he decided to invest one hour a day in prayer, because he wanted his kids to follow Christ. After a time, he expanded his prayers to include his grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Every day between 11 a.m. and noon, he prayed for the next three generations.

As the years went by, his two daughters committed their lives to Christ and married men who went into full-time ministry. The two couples produced four girls and one boy. Each of the girls married a minister, and the boy became a pastor. The first two children born to this generation were both boys. Upon graduation from high school, the two cousins chose the same college and became roommates.

During their sophomore year, one boy decided to go into the ministry. The other didn't. He undoubtedly felt some pressure to continue the family legacy, but he chose instead to pursue his interest in psychology. He earned his doctorate and eventually wrote books for parents that became bestsellers. He started a radio program heard on more than a thousand stations each day. The man's name was James Dobson. Through his prayers, George McCluskey affected far more than one family.

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Loyal J. Martin, Newton, Kansas. Leadership, Vol. 16, no. 4

Source: A Dose of Inspiration, http://www.quietstones.com/mydailydose

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Can Others Be Proud of Your Legacy?

Deuteronomy 6:6

Your spiritual legacy is the greatest possession you can leave to your kids -- or to anyone who knows you.

I was reminded of that recently when I received a letter from a lady living in California. She wrote: “I was a young girl living in Forester, Arkansas, and a young seminary student by the name of James Draper was the part time minister that rode the bus from Dallas every other Saturday to preach at the local church.... He'd usually stay at the Shuffield home and had to sleep with their young teenaged boy. Well this young teen later became my husband and we have celebrated our 65th wedding anniversary.

“The summer I was 12 years old, James Draper held a revival in Forester and I went forward and received Christ as my Savior. After the revival he baptized the converts in our local swimming hole. I am sure I was one of his early converts.”

She asked if I'm “related to a James Draper that led me to the Lord almost 70 years ago.” I proudly responded that I am his son.

The letter really doesn't surprise me. All my life I've heard stories from people about the way my dad impacted their lives. And although my dad died at age 52, his example to me of what makes a godly man shapes who I am today. My 52 years of ministry have been influenced by the legacy of his 36-year ministry.

That's the way it is supposed to be. When God told the nation of Israel to pass His precepts -- His teachings -- from one generation to the next, He established the definition of legacy. In Deuteronomy 6:6-25, God tells the parents of children to “teach them [the words of God] diligently to your sons and talk of them when you sit in your house and when you walk by the way and when you lie down and when you rise up.” God uses His people to build His Kingdom, and He wants each succeeding generation to know what He did and how they can be included.

I learned faithfulness from my dad. I learned how to be a gentleman. My dad took divided churches and brought them together. He was a consensus builder. He was kind and sensitive and he taught me how to deal with people out of kindness. He taught me how to outline a sermon. He was a man of integrity and character and I wanted to be like him. He always taught me to stand for what's right even if no one else is. My dad showed me I could, without compromise, stand against anything that was wrong, but still be nice in my opposition. I've not always succeeded in that, but I've tried.

I knew God led my dad and mother in the moves we made. They built into me the confidence to always trust the Lord's guidance.

One of the Apostle Paul's greatest concerns was the character and conduct of the older men and women in the church. Paul recognized the great influence and the abiding example of the older members in the congregation. But it is not simply the senior citizens in a church who have the opportunity to influence with their legacy. I love the way Mrs. Shuffield concludes her letter.

“We raised one son. He has two children and six grandchildren. Our grandson is a missions pastor in York, Pa. All have accepted Christ and are busy in their church... It all started by a young seminary student who I believe was your father.”

You never know how you will affect the life of someone else. Of course God had a plan for Mrs. Shuffield and her family, but he allowed my dad, who was just a young man at the time, to have a part in changing the spiritual legacy of that family. Only God knows the number of other families who have been touched as a result of the faithfulness of her family. This is how God empowers us to participate in His Kingdom's growth.

Whether your life is the first step in the spiritual legacy of your family or the next, God will honor that heritage and build on it.

And maybe one day your son or daughter will be as proud of your spiritual pilgrimage as I am of my dad's.

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The Mark You Leave Behind

2 Timothy 2:2

She thought she had gotten away with it. Francisca Rojas of Buenos Aires, Argentina, had murdered two of her own sons. In an attempt to deflect the blame, she had cut her own throat as well, then blamed the attack on a nearby ranch worker named Velasquez. Though the poor man proclaimed his innocence, he was arrested.

An Argentine police official named Juan Vucetich, however, had been experimenting with a new-fangled system of criminal identity -- fingerprints. It was 1891, and fingerprints had never been used in a criminal trial. Revisiting the scene of the attack, Vucetich studied the bloody handprint on the doorframe of Francisca’s house. It matched the prints of Francisca’s own fingers. As a result, Francisca became the first person in history to be convicted of a crime based on fingerprint identification.

Today the FBI’s Integrated Automated Fingerprint Identification System (IAFIS) electronically stores millions of known fingerprints. In this world of six billion people, every person leaves his own unique mark.

There’s another sense in which we leave our mark behind us. Every one of us leaves our fingerprints on the lives of other people, especially on our children. We don’t stay on earth forever; but after we’re gone, our imprint remains.

One of the most vivid examples is John Geddie, Canadian missionary to the New Hebrides. He found a wild tribe of cannibals. Violence, theft, and warfare were common. After he died, a commemorative tablet in his island church read: “In memory of John Geddie.... When he landed in 1848, there were no Christians here, and when he left in 1872, there were no heathen.”

You and I may not be responsible for converting an entire island, but the world will be different for our having lived a faithful life. What, then, can we do to leave our fingerprints behind us?

• The fingerprint of the Word

Our children see us spending hours before the television. But when was the last time your child found you pouring over God’s Word?

Ruth Graham once explained why she became a lifelong student of Scripture. “Each morning ... my father -- a busy missionary surgeon in China -- would be sitting reading his Bible. At night ... my mother would be doing the same. Anything that could so capture the ... devotion of those I ... loved the most ... must be worth investigating. So at an early age I began reading my Bible.”

• The fingerprint of honesty

It’s also important to live an honest life, for those closest to us (especially our kids) are quick to pick up on personal inconsistencies.

• The fingerprint of prayer

We must also leave a legacy of prayer. A young J. Wilbur Chapman was elected pastor of a church. On his first Sunday, an elderly man said: “I am afraid you will not make it as pastor here. This is a large church with great responsibility falling upon its pastor. We need a man with equally large experience. ... But I have resolved to pray for you every day ... and I have made a covenant with two other men to do the same.”

This prayer band grew to hundreds. Within three years, more than 1,100 people had professed Christ as Savior. All because one infirm, elderly man made up his mind to leave an imprint of prayer.

• The fingerprint of an enduring testimony.

Most of all, Christians must leave behind the imprint of an enduring testimony. Paul told Timothy, “The things that you have heard from me among many witnesses, commit these to faithful men who will be able to teach others also” (2 Timothy 2:2).

With almost her last breath, a mother confessed her decision to follow Christ and left the legacy of an enduring testimony that bore fruit more than two decades later when her son asked Christ into his heart. Don’t underestimate the power of sharing Christ. His Word does not return to Him void, and our work in the Lord is never in vain (Isaiah 55:11; 1 Corinthians 15:58).

Is your influence the kind that Christ can use to change the lives of others? What kind imprint are you leaving?

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from Baptist Press · Rev. David Jeremiah via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

The Second Generation Syndrome

John 15:5

Gary Inrig wrote a wonderful book entitled “Hearts of Iron, Feet of Clay” (Moody Press, 1979) which was a detailed study of the book of Judges. One of the issues he quickly raised in the book was what he called “The Second Generation Syndrome.” In that early chapter of his book he discussed the difficulty of passing on our vision and convictions to our children and grandchildren. It is a daunting and challenging task for any parent, and it is rare for the faith of parents to be handed down to succeeding generations.

The book of Judges in chapter 2 graphically describes this challenge: “The people worshipped the Lord throughout Joshua’s lifetime and during the lifetimes of the elders who outlived Joshua. They had seen all the Lord’s great works He had done for Israel.... After them another generation rose up who did not know the Lord or the works He had done for Israel. The Israelites did what was evil in the Lord’s sight. They worshipped the Baals and abandoned the Lord, the God of their fathers, who had brought them outd of Egypt.”

Inrig writes, “The second generation has a natural tendency to accept the status quo and to lose the vision of the first generation. Too often the second-generation experience is a second-hand experience. Church history is filled with examples of it, and sadly, so are many churches. The parent’s fervor for the Lord Jesus Christ becomes the children’s formalism and the grandchildren’s apathy.”

What caused the children and grandchildren to lose the vision of the parents? Inrig continues: “They knew about His deeds. But they did not know Him or acknowledge Him. They had lost touch with God. Here we come to the heart of the second-generation syndrome. It is a lukewarmness, a complacency, an apathy about amazing biblical truths that we have heard from our childhood, or from our teachers.”

This underscores to us the great difficulty in seeing succeeding generations follow in the spiritual footsteps of their first-generation Christian parents. To see godly children of godly parents is something that happens frequently, but to see generation after generation follow in that heritage of faith is difficult to discover.

I am a man most blessed of God as I look toward my approaching retirement on Feb. 1, 2006. My strong godly heritage goes back at least to my grandparents. My grandfather was a Baptist preacher for 54 years. He and my grandmother were married for more than 50 years. My father was a Baptist preacher for 36 years until his death at the age of 52. He and my mother were married 33 years. My parents had three sons. All three of us became Baptist preachers. Our marriages have been centered in the Lord and our children all have followed in the pattern of faith first revealed in my grandparents.

My oldest son, Randy, is a committed layman and often preaches in the pulpit of his church when his pastor is absent. My youngest son, Bailey, is a Sunday School teacher and faithful member of his church. Both are ordained deacons. My daughter, Terri, married a minister and they have served in local churches for the last 20-plus years.

Carol Ann and I have six grandchildren. All of them have a personal relationship with Jesus and they love the Lord. Our 22-year-old grandson, Kyle, and our 16-year-old grandson, Wes, have both surrendered to the Gospel ministry. What an incredible blessing it is to have experienced five successive generations walking in the grace and presence of our Lord Jesus Christ!

How did it happen? What has been the secret? I can only venture some observations about our family.

• The Bible was honored and revered in each generation as being the completely reliable and inerrant Word of God.

• Never have any of us ever heard our parents fighting, shouting at each other, or in any way mistreating one another. Love, kindness and grace were lived out before us and are present in each of these generations. Such things are “caught” more than “taught.”

• Regular involvement at all church services (and usually all activities) was a given in our lives. We never knew we had a choice, yet we never felt we were made to attend!

• We were taught compassion, kindness and generosity. Each of our homes has been havens for friends and others to whom we ministered. Tithing and much more was a practice in our homes. It truly is more blessed to give than to receive!

• Integrity, consistency and obedience to God have been the characteristics of each family. We all learned early on to stand for what was right and to oppose what was wrong. And we learned to do it in a strong and firm, yet kind, way. Convictions don’t have to brutalize others!

• Christian morality and biblical ethics were and are practiced and lived out in our homes. Consistency has always been a strong character trait in our families. “Do as I say and not as I do” has never worked! “What you see is what you get” is a good descriptive phrase for our families. We have never been good at putting on airs or pretending to be something we are not.

• Daily fellowship with the Lord and drawing strength from His Word continues to be a strong pattern in our lives. We can’t make it one day without Him! He said, “You can do nothing without me” (John 15:5).

• Forgiveness and grace has always been the pattern. All of us understand that we are frail and sinful and in need of forgiveness and grace, so we learned to forgive others as we ourselves need forgiveness. By keeping this at the forefront of our lives we have avoided family squabbles, disputes and divisions that are so often seen. Our family really enjoys being together.

• All of these things are wrapped up in our unswerving conviction that the Lord Jesus Christ has a plan for our lives and we have found our fulfillment in Him.

I am proud of my family and my family heritage. My dad once told me, “The debt we owe to the past is to leave the future indebted to us.” I am deeply indebted for the godly heritage I received and I pray that it will be passed on not just to two succeeding generations but many more.

God’s greatest gift to us is our families. Let each of us make sure we have continued or begun a legacy of faithfulness for our children and grandchildren.

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James T. Draper Jr. is president of LifeWay Christian Resources of the Southern Baptist Convention.

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Leave and Receive A Legacy Across the Generations

When you were a child, did your father ever hold you on his shoulders? Have you ever lifted your own child up to your shoulders? The view from a parent’s shoulders is clearer and the perspective bigger than it would be for a child simply standing alone.

God, our heavenly Father, wants people of every age to work together to lift each other up spiritually so that a legacy of blessing can flow across the generations.

Here are some ways you can leave a spiritual legacy for younger people and receive the legacy that older people want to leave for you:

Understand that those you carry on your shoulders are meant to bless you, not burden you. Ask God to give you His vision for your destiny, and the destinies of the younger people you want to mentor. Know that God has ordained you to carry along a vital chain of faith. Let those visions of the future motivate you to invest time and energy today into discipling others.

Pray regularly. Intercede for the young people you know regularly, asking God to meet their specific needs and develop specific character traits in them.

Model integrity in all areas of your life. Constantly ask yourself how Jesus would want you to act in any situation — at home, in the workplace, and elsewhere — and decide to act in those ways. Let a strong moral character give you credibility as you represent Christ to younger people.

Teach younger people to read and study God’s Word. Point younger people to the Bible when they ask you for advice, and explain to them how you prayerfully discern God’s will in your own life, using Scripture as your guide.

Introduce younger people to the Holy Spirit. Tell people about the Holy Spirit and pray for them to be able to discern God speaking to them through His Spirit.

Do the right things, even if you don’t do them right. Know that God is most concerned about whether or not you’re willing to try whenever He calls you to mentor someone. Know that God will give you all the grace you’ll need to do the right thing, even if the situation doesn’t work out the way you’d first expected.

Draw upon God’s strength rather than your own. Realize your limitations and commit your protege and your dreams for that person completely to God, trusting that He will work out His purposes in the person’s life no matter what happens. Especially when it comes to your own child, recognize that he or she is not merely your offspring, but, first and foremost, God’s child.

Let go of your personal agenda for those you mentor, and have the courage to follow God’s call rather than human desires for your own life. Realize that God has uniquely shaped each person to fulfill His purposes in unique ways. Don’t let family traditions, personal opinions or other pressures interfere with yourself or your proteges serving God in the unique ways He wants you all to do so. Ask God to replace pride with humility in your life. Seek to reproduce God’s likeness through your children and other proteges, rather than seeking just to reproduce something of yourself.

Hold regular meetings with your mentors or protegés. Discuss each other’s dreams, desires and destinies together and notice how God is intertwining them. Ask Him to continue to reveal more about how you can help each other keep growing.

Pass along passion, not just empty ritual. Ask God to renew your heart to give you a deep passion for Him. Follow Him out of love rather than merely a sense of duty. Explain why you’re faithful to God, and let others see firsthand how much you love Him. Remember that growing up in a Christian home doesn’t make you a Christian; everyone must repent of their sin, receive forgiveness from Christ and receive Him as their Lord and Savior.

Preserve memories of older generations. Record the testimonies of older people — such as through the written word, or audio or video – and save them to remind you and others in your generation of how they grew in their faith.

Let younger people join you as you serve. Allowing younger, more inexperienced people to serve alongside you will give them the confidence they need to start serving more themselves.

Know that we all succeed or fail in life together. Keep your team member mind set your whole life, always asking God how He wants you to relate to your other team members so that you all can win the race of life together.

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The Power of Legacy

Timothy was a young pastor in the ancient world. He had a personal relationship with one of the great celebrities of the church, Paul the Apostle, and gave us the opportunity to listen in on Paul's admonition and encouragement to him.

Paul tells him in the second letter. “As I remember your tears, I long to see you, that I may be filled with joy. I am reminded of your sincere faith, a faith that dwelt first in your grandmother Lois and your mother Eunice and now, I am sure, dwells in you as well. For this reason I remind you to fan into flame the gift of God, which is in you through the laying on of my hands, for God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control” (2 Tim 1:4-7).

At this time of year, when families gather round, it is important for us to reflect on those who have gone before us as examples of Jesus Christ. Even if we do not have a family who follows Christ, we do have those who come to mind that walked in his steps.

One who comes to my mind this Christmas season is my mother who departed the planet a little over a year ago. A personal irony of the verse above is that her name was Lois. It is at the family gatherings that she is missed the most. Her contributions to conversation, her stories, her generosity, her understanding, concern, warmth, and laughter, and her energetic, positive attitude made Christmas mean something more for me. Though the loss tugs at the tears in those moments of remembrance, there is something else that also tugs at the heart to carry on.

In a recent memorial service for a respected woman at my church, we were told of “the power of L.” First, was “the power of the Lord” to meet us in our needs. Second was “the power of Love,” not only from God, but from a worshipping community. These were needed statements to meet the family and those of us who miss her. Yet, again, something tugged at my heart that moved my mind: “The power of Legacy.”

Paul understood this, which is why he penned it in an inspired letter to Timothy. Remember, what your mother and grandmother stood for. Remember where they fixed their heart. Remember their sensitivity to spiritual things. Some of the things you appreciated about them most did not originate from them. They originated in God who gives the Holy Spirit freely to whose that will trust Him.

This power of legacy that originates in God and is played out in the hands and feet of His people encourage me. I may be separated from my mother for the duration of my earthy sojourn, but my confidence lies in carrying her legacy, which was empowered by the Holy Spirit.

As you turn your attention from the Christmas season to thoughts of the new year, reflect again on the Christ who came. It was for forgiveness, but also for holiness. It was for friendship, but also for apprenticeship. It was for love, but also for legacy. Our Lord of Glory has come to make disciples and leave us a legacy so that we may walk in his steps.

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Copyright © 2004 Ravi Zacharias International Ministries (RZIM). Reprinted with permission. "A Slice of Infinity" is a radio ministry of Ravi Zacharias International Ministries.

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What Legacy Will You Leave?

Psalms 71:18

The problem with being over the hill is that you pick up speed — time flies!

There’s a lot of renewed interest in outlawing guns. After David killed Goliath, I’m sure the Philistines would like to have outlawed rocks! Poor old Goliath — he really had rocks in his head.

Psalm 71:18 (NLT) caught my attention. “Now that I am old and gray, do not abandon me, O God. Let me proclaim your power to this new generation, your mighty miracles to all who come after me.” That brings to mind the word “legacy.” What is the legacy that we will leave for others to follow?

I hope we can all leave the legacy of joy and hope. Wouldn’t that be a nice way to be remembered by our family and friends. The legacy of joy and laughter is a great thing to pass on, but the legacy of joy because we have total hope in Jesus Christ is the greatest legacy of all. Read vs 18 again — “Let me proclaim … to all who come after me.”

Joy isn’t always accompanied by hilarity — it’s an inner warm feeling that says, “Thanks’.

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Ethical Wills

The use of ethical wills - a centuries-old practice of passing along beliefs, values and personal experiences to loved ones - has begun to re-emerge as catastrophic events underline the unpredictability of life and many see society as increasingly materialistic and transient.

The wills are not legally enforceable. But the founder of an elder law firm in Sarasota, Fla., said he suggests them to clients because they add more humanity to estate planning.

“When you focus strictly on transmitting wealth and property, it can make it a very cold and heartless process for everyone,” said Ira Wiesner of Advocates in Aging.

“People often feel invincible until they see cataclysmic events like 9/11 or the tsunami and realize that no one knows what will happen tomorrow and they better leave something to tell people who they were,” said Karen Russell, founder and executive director of the Los Angeles-based National Grief Support Services Inc.

“Even soldiers in Iraq are realizing this and writing their own forms of ethical wills through letters telling their family what to remember about them if they don't make it home.”

Dr. Barry Baines, associate medical director of Hospice of the Twin Cities, said the 75 hits or so daily on an ethical will Web site he began in 1999 jumped after the Sept. 11 terrorist attacks and now average about 800.

Baines, author of “Ethical Wills: Putting your Values on Paper,” said many contacting him are baby boomers who realize their parents' generation is disappearing and that they also are aging.

“More and more of them are deciding that they want and need to leave behind more than just money and possessions,” the Minneapolis doctor said. He became passionate about ethical wills while working with a hospice patient dying of cancer.

The patient grew concerned he had nothing to leave his family. Baines remembered reading a book that discussed Jewish ethical wills and suggested that the patient do one.

While anyone can jot down their thoughts for family and friends, the formalized ethical wills offer a document more likely to be preserved through the years.

Judy Neal hopes she instilled some of her values in her son. But just in case, she wrote it down.

“Try to see both sides of a story,” she wrote in her ethical will. “Look beyond the surface and the obvious. It took me a while to learn this.”

In Neal's case, her parents left no permanent record of their values and beliefs that could be passed on to future generations.

“There are so many things I won't ever know about their thoughts and experiences,” said Neal, 58. “I hope that my son has picked up some of my values and beliefs through the years, but I also want his children and their children to know who I was.”

The first examples of ethical wills recorded on paper began to appear around the 11th century, and much of the encouragement for writing the documents has come from the Jewish community with its emphasis on remembrance and legacy.

The Rev. Janice Ledford, chaplain at the Llanfair Retirement Community in Cincinnati, said the wills can add a needed dimension.

“When I do funeral services, I often give a story or a twist on a person's life that their kids never saw,” she said. “This way they can tell their children what they want them to know.”

Tom Weaver, 58, of St. Paul, Minn., persuaded his 94-year-old mother to write one a few years ago.

“I already knew a lot about her values, but the ethical will made it concrete and real. It's a representation of her lifetime that her children and grandchildren can keep always,” he said.

Martha Holstein, who teaches religious studies at DePaul University in Chicago, cautioned that if people have revelations such as an abortion when they were young, they need to be sure others are ready to hear it.

“Don't write what you don't want people to read,” she said.

There also is the danger of using wills to make others feel guilty or to try to script others' lives, Baines said, especially when the document isn't presented until after death.

More people are sharing the wills while they are alive, presenting them on special occasions such as births and marriages.

“All of us as humans have this feeling that our lives should be part of something larger than ourselves,” Baines said. “The ethical will lets us show that we were here.'

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See also: http://www.ethicalwill.com/

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from America Online News, Associated Press · Lisa Cornwell via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

A Legacy

Deuteronomy 11:18

I opened the closet and sighed. My New Year’s resolution to clean out all the clutter of my home suddenly seemed overwhelming. How do I begin to sort through all the stuff I have collected over the years?

As I lift a long forgotten box from the shelf, the dust scatters. Sneezing, I peek curiously into the cardboard container. Ahh! My children’s memories box! Crayon-colored cards, plaster molds of kindergarten hands, report cards, whisper recollections of their childhoods long past. Precious reminisces flood my mind as sweet tears spring to my eyes.

Sifting through the priceless cache, I feel the Lord nudge my heart with these questions, “What treasures are you leaving for your children to remember? Are you leaving a legacy for them to follow?”

Suddenly a new resolution springs to my mind. After I am gone, I want my children to find a legacy of faith when they divide my belongings. I begin to sing the lyrics of Find Us Faithful the old song by Steve Green.

May the footprints that we leave, lead them to believe and the lives we live, inspire them to obey.

Turning from the cluttered closet, I march to my own jumbled bedroom closet. Reaching to the top shelf, I grab down dusty volumes of my history with God. I begin to gather the spiritual souvenirs that will guide my children through my walk of faith. I dig out my old completed Bible studies, tear-stained and joy-filled prayer journals, favorite inspiring books, and dog-eared dilapidated Bibles. These records of my faith will reveal to my children the many moments of doubts, struggles, and heartaches, but more importantly, they will chart the years of God’s faithfulness in my life. They will provide an accurate and enduring map of my journey of learning to trust the heart of Jesus, even in the most difficult moments of my life.

Out of the corner of my eye, I spy an old cedar chest tucked in the back of the closet that holds old blankets. Hmmm.I decide the chestnut furniture will now become the safety deposit box that will guard the heritage my children will someday inherit. They will reveal a legacy of God’s never-ending love, mercy, and goodness in my life. As I carefully place collectibles of faith into the chest, I pray that my life will become a living inheritance to the goodness of God to all those who come after me.

My prayer for today:

Lord, let this year be one of remembering I am leaving a legacy for all those who come behind me. Help me to live a life that glorifies Jesus Christ. Lord, I pray that my life will encourage others to trust in you not only now, but in the upcoming days. Lord, let my legacy of faith inspire my children and future grandchildren. Amen.

Application steps:

Think about what legacy of faith your life can provide. As the New Year starts, begin to collect the various treasures of your faith. Keep them in a place where you can review them to encourage yourself and others.

Reflection points:

How can I ensure that others know about my devotion to Christ?

Whom would I like to know the details of my journey of faith?

Where can I keep the mementos of my faith, so that they will someday encourage others?

Power verses:

Deuteronomy 11:18-19

Deuteronomy 11:20-21

Deuteronomy 32:4

Joshua 24:15

Deuteronomy 12:7

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Leave A Spiritual Inheritance

Proverbs 13:22

“A good man,” Proverbs 13:22 says, “leaves an inheritance to his children's children.” Leaving a material and financial inheritance in a wise manner is good stewardship and can be a great blessing to your heirs. But have you considered ways to leave an inheritance to your family that will have a more direct spiritual impact on them?

Our spiritual lives aren't lived for ourselves only. We also bear responsibility to influence others spiritually, especially the members of our own families. To that end, here are a few items to leave as spiritual time capsules with the belief that they will bless many generations of your descendants.

PRAYERS. The beloved old Bible commentator Matthew Henry said somewhere that wise parents are more concerned about leaving a treasury of prayers for their children than a treasury of silver and gold. God can answer long after we are dead the prayers we bring to His throne today for our children and future generations. King Hezekiah's wicked son, Manasseh, repented and turned to the Lord many decades after Hezekiah died (see 2 Chronicles 33:12-19), but no doubt the father left behind a rich inheritance of prayers to God for his wayward boy. You may want to preserve some of your prayers for your descendants in letters or journals.

JOURNALS. One hundred years from now, quite possibly all that will be known of you will be from photographs or videos and from what you write. Despite your decades of life and labor, few, if any, of even your direct descendants a century from today will know anything about your spirituality. (What do you know about the inner life of your ancestors who, just 1,200 months ago, were as alive as you are now?) Leave your heirs a clear, written testimony of how you came to know God through Jesus Christ. Provide them with a record of answers to prayer, remarkable providences, significant spiritual events and other works of God in your part of their family history. Write letters to your descendants, urging them to trust Christ, to maintain a Christian heritage in the family, and to meet you in heaven. Make a list of books that have influenced you.

BOOKS. Leave a library -- especially of Christian books -- for your children and their children. The Lord may use the books to bring them to Christ and to give solid guidance to their spiritual lives long after you are gone. Collect good books for your children or grandchildren even before they are born. I often bought books (both Christian and general reading) for my daughter, Laurelen, years before she could enjoy them. In fact, I started buying books for her future children when she was just 6 years old. So if I find a bargain on boys' books, I'll buy them -- even though Laurelen will probably never read them -- in anticipation of having grandsons someday. Who knows whether some of the great old used books I find for them today will still be available or affordable by then?

DAILY PLANNERS. If you have the space, archive your daily planners. These reflect how you've spent your time and, combined with your journals, provide a fairly complete biography of your adult life.

Of course, your most immediate spiritual legacy is the life you live before the watching eyes of your children and grandchildren. However, some (all?) of your grandchildren or great-grandchildren may never know you personally. But if you leave them a rich spiritual inheritance, they may say of you, “He being dead still speaks” (Hebrews 11:4).

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Don Whitney is associate professor of biblical spirituality at Southern Baptist Theological Seminary in Louisville, Kentucky.

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Making Headlines

Matthew 6:1

Swedish chemist Alfred Bernhard Nobel was once largely known as a maker and inventor of explosives. In 1866 Nobel invented dynamite, which earned him both fame and the majority of his wealth. At one point in his life he held more than 350 patents, operated labs in 20 countries, and had more than 90 factories manufacturing explosives and ammunition. Yet today he is most often remembered as the name behind the Nobel Prize, the most highly regarded of international awards for efforts in peace, chemistry, physics, literature, and economics.

In 1888 a bizarre incident occurred, which seemed to have afforded Alfred Nobel an unlikely opportunity for reflection. Many believe it was this event that ultimately led to his establishment of the Nobel Prize and subsequent change in his reputation. When Alfred's brother Ludvig died while staying in Cannes, France, the French newspapers mistakenly confused the two brothers, reporting the death of the inventor of explosives. One paper's headline read: “Le marchand de la mort est mort.” — The merchant of death is dead.

I can't imagine reading the headlines of my life written at the hands of my harshest critic, but I do remember laboring over an assignment in middle school in which I was required to write my own obituary. Some of the class was given the task of writing it as if they died well in their eighties; others had to write as if they died that year. The assignment was meant to incite reflection — and at least in most of us it did, particularly those of us who were designated early deaths. Like Alfred Nobel my premature obituary suggested headlines I didn't want to live with — and I was the one writing them.

In a very real sense, I am still the writer of my own obituary. But I am not thinking about the words and headlines in the way I was thinking about them in middle school. As I struggled to find the words, it seemed I had so little to work with — no graduations, no accomplishments worth mentioning, no overarching purpose for my life. I was imagining all the things I hadn't done and feeling insignificant about the things I had. At that point in time, it seemed a few more years were necessary to make a meaningful headline.

Today I realize a life well lived is not about time. The writers of Scripture seem less concerned with the reputation we are leaving behind as they are with the reputation we are going to. “Be careful not to do your 'acts of righteousness' before men, to be seen by them. If you do, you will have no reward from your Father in heaven” (Matthew 6:1). There is the sense that our hearts hold the words of an obituary that no one here will see. “Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moth and rust do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also” (Matthew 6:19-21).

The headlines we write on earth are printed on pages that will eventually fade and crumble. But there is one who reads the words imprinted across our hearts. As he stood with his tempter high on a mountain taking in the kingdoms of the world and all of the splendor that was being offered to him, Jesus considered the reputation of God and not his own. As he hung on the Cross, scorning its shame, he took death instead of glory; he bore the disgrace of man instead of the splendor of God. His obituary was insignificant to all but a few. And then he rose from the grave, forever rewriting the headlines of those who would believe.

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Copyright © 2005 Ravi Zacharias International Ministries (RZIM). Reprinted with permission. "A Slice of Infinity" is a radio ministry of Ravi Zacharias International Ministries.

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Final Epitaphs

1 Kings 11:33

How would you like to be remembered after your death? Have you considered what the epitaph on your gravestone might read?

One headstone in Ribbesford, England, marking the grave of a woman named Anna Wallace, reads: “The children of Israel wanted bread, and the Lord sent them manna. Old clerk Wallace wanted a wife, and the Devil sent him Anna.”

Not the final words Anna expected, I'm sure. But as always those she left behind got the last word.

You have to cringe and wonder when you see the gravestone of a man from Plymouth, Massachusetts, named John McMahon. It says: “He Was a Failure As a Husband and Father.” How would you like that as your legacy?

But the saddest epitaph of all isn't found on a tombstone, it's found is the pages of Scripture. When faces with the task of memorializing the wise king Solomon, God had some sobering words. “Solomon has abandoned me and worshiped Ashtoreth, the goddess of the Sidonians... He has not followed my ways and done what is pleasing in my sight. He had not obeyed my laws and regulations as his father, David, did.” [1 Kings 11:33] Solomon was buried in the city of David, and in spite of all the good things he did, he will forever be remembered as the king who turned his back on God.

We would all do well do ask ourselves a simple question: If God were to write my obituary, what would he record?

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from Embracing Eternity by Tim LaHaye, Jerry B. Jenkins and Frank M. Martin (Tyndale) p 309

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My Inheritance

Titus 3:7

Ps 16:5: ‘The Lord is the portion of mine inheritance and of my cup.’

The principal thing in our salvation is that now we have God in our lives: Ps 73:25-26, 28

1. Paul speaks of salvation as an inheritance (Titus 3:7, Acts 20:32, 26:18, Rom 8:16-17, Eph 1:11-14

2. Peter emphasizes the eternal and future aspect of this inheritance, 1 Pet 1:4-5

3. Salvation is like an inheritance

a. death of the testator, Christ

b. a will is left: the New Testament, Heb 9:16-17

c. gifts were left for men, Eph 4:7-8

4. A basic difference

a. Men die and their families are bereaved

b. Christ is part of the legacy to the faithful

5. Some of the other parts of God's legacy for the believer

a. Peace, John 14:27

b. Rest, Matt 11:28

c. Living water, John 4:14

d. Bread of heaven, Jn 6:51

e. Eternal life, John 10:28

6. But, Most Important, 'God is the portion of mine inheritance'

a. as the Holy Spirit (Paraclete), John 14:26

b. as Christ the Son, Col 1:27, Eph 3:17-19

c. God the Lord Almighty dwells in them, 2 Cor 6:16-18

d. God becomes our Father, 2 Cor 6:18

e. Christ becomes our Advocate, 1 John 2:1, and our High Priest, Heb 7:22ff

from Old Devotional Notes · Garth Hutchinson via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

Sermon: Do It!

1 Chronicles 28:9

Sermon for church groundbreaking ceremony. 1 Chronicles 28:9-20

DO IT!

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I. It's jogging season.

A. Runners are all over the roads.

B. Solomon was starting his biggest project.

C. All of us face challenges in life.

II. Start with God.

A. Acknowledge God. 28:9

B. Serve God.

C. Seek God.

III. Put some muscle into it. 28:10

A. Where does human effort fit into God's plan?

B. Be strong.

C. Be guided by God. 29:19

D. Don't get discouraged.

IV. David never got to finish his tasks.

A. Neither have others.

B. There is always something to leave for the next generation.

from Condensed sermon outline (handout) by Rev. David Holwick · Rev. David Holwick, Serm08m.pco via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database accomplishmentlegacy

How Will Your Children Remember You?

An unusual obituary ran in a California newspaper in August.

It was an obit for 79-year-old Delores Aguilar in the Times-Herald of Vallejo, California. Her daughter Virginia Brown was the writer.

“Delores had no hobbies, made no contribution to society and rarely shared a kind word or deed in her life,” Brown wrote about her mother. “I speak for the majority of her family when I say her presence will not be missed by many, very few tears will be shed and there will be no lamenting over her passing.”

What a way to be remembered, huh?

A columnist from another local paper, John Bogert of the Daily Breeze, went searching to determine if the obit was legitimate or a hoax. Sadly, he verified its authenticity and even spoke to Brown about why she wrote what she did.

“I wanted to do the right thing, the honest thing,” Brown told Bogert. “When she died a co-worker gave me a copy of an obituary she wrote for her father as a kind of writing guide. What struck me was how my mother was none of the things I was reading. She was never there for us, she was never good and she left no legacy.”

The other day I picked up a copy of the book “A Nickel’s Worth of Skim Milk,” by Bob Hastings. Hastings was a Baptist minister and served for several years as editor of the Illinois Baptist newspaper. The book is the story of Hastings as a boy, growing up in Southern Illinois.

My childhood experiences differed considerably from his. He was a child of the Great Depression. I was a child of the 80s.

Still, there’s something warm about reading the stories of others as they were growing up -- especially if the memories they are sharing are fond ones. While reading his book, I delighted to experience the accounts Hastings told of his boyhood. His parents made life happy for him, despite the tough economic circumstances.

Some of the stories he told made me smile. He recalled how at Christmas every year, his father would kill one of their chickens. His mom would dress it and dry it, and then they wrapped the bird up securely and packaged it in a box. His dad then took the chicken to the post office and mailed it to Hastings’ sister in St. Louis.

“We sent what we could, and I always sensed that the package was tied by cords of love,” Hastings wrote.

Reading Hastings’ childhood stories made me appreciate the fact that over the next few years, I’ll be largely responsible for the memories my own children will be making. Those memories will accompany them throughout their lives.

Will the thoughts they conjure up 50 years from now be recollections that make them smile? I’m fairly confident their memories will never be as bitter as Brown’s are of her mother. But am I doing all I can to brighten their days and fill their lives with joy?

Too often I find myself tempted to shortchange my children to pursue my own selfish interests. Rather than playing with my son, it’s easier for me to plop down and watch a ballgame. Rather than reading a Winnie the Pooh book to my daughter for the 52nd time, it’s easier for me to piddle around on the computer -- doing stuff that I’d like to think is important.

As sad as Delores Aguilar’s obituary is, and as extreme of an example as it is, it’s a potent reminder nonetheless for those of us who are parents. What will our children say about us when we’re gone?

May my children never be tempted to say about me what Brown said about her mother at the obituary’s end: “There will be no service, no prayers and no closure for the family she spent a lifetime tearing apart. We cannot come together in the end to see to it that her grandchildren and great-grandchildren can say their goodbyes. So I say here for all of us, GOOD BYE, MOM.”

from Baptist Press · Tim Ellsworth via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

Bono Thinks About Death

Luke 1:79

Bono thinks a lot about death. The U2 singer’s preoccupation with his own mortality was triggered by the deaths of two musician friends and some near misses of hi sown. “The loss of David Bowie affected me profoundly,” says Bono, 57. “And Leonard Cohen.” Both singers were showered with glowing tributes after their deaths; Bono, who is mocked by non-fans as a sanctimonious, save-the-world celebrity, is worried he won’t be given such a warm send-off.

“At your funeral, nobody talks about what you achieved,” he sys. “They talk about whether you were funny or not. Were you kind to your kids? So I’m moving away from worrying too much about legacy, as regards U2 or my own work, to be more concerned about what my kids and friends think of me.”

Recently, he says, he’s taken a few “attempted knockout punches,” including a serious bicycle crash in 2014 that left him with a broken arm, eye socket, hand, and should; that and other brushes with death he won’t discuss have left Bono questioning his Christian faith. “Belief is preposterous, but I have it, and I thought, ‘I’m experiencing fear!’ It was near, and I realized I don’t want to die. I want to spend more time with my kids. There are songs I want to write, stuff I can be useful for. Then, when I admitted I was afraid, my faith returned.”

from The Week magazine · Jonathan Dean, The Sunday Times (United Kingdom) via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database funerallegacy

Sermon: Will You Finish Well?

2 Timothy 4:6

Sermon in 2 Timothy series. 2 Timothy 4:6-8

WILL YOU FINISH WELL?

I. Finishing can be hard.

II. Paul had a pretty good idea of his present situation.

A. He knew his end was near.

B. He says he has been poured out like a drink offering. 4:6

C. The time has come for his departure.

D. What is your present situation?

III. Paul takes time to reflect on his past life.

A. This is among the most famous passages in 2 Timothy.

B. He has fought the good fight.

C. He has finished the race.

D. He has kept the faith.

E. What do you want to be remembered for?

IV. Paul had confidence in his future.

A. Most honors are ephemeral.

B. His judge will be righteous.

C. The crown will be shared with others.

V. How well will you finish?

from Condensed sermon outline (handout) by Rev. David Holwick · Rev. David Holwick, Serm10ze.pco via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

She Apparently Triumphed - Maybe

Job 19:25

And old tombstone that is broken and laying on the ground in Scotch Plains Baptist Cemetery (New Jersey) reads:

“In memory of Sarah, wife of William McPhely,

who died July the 24th 1792.

Near the end of a long & very painful indisposition

she gave reasonable hope she was born again*;

and through the riches of sovereign Grace died

apparently triumphing in the prospect of Glory & immortality”

* tombstone spells it "agan"

This is a roundabout way of saying, "We hope she made it, but we're not really sure."

Nowadays people don't say much on tombstones and even if they do, they are not nearly this honest. Is your salvation evident enough that no one would dream of chiseling "apparently" in your epitaph?

[an image of the gravestone can be found at ]

What Will Your Obituary Say?

Hebrews 11

What would your obituary say if you were to die today? What would your legacy be? Would people remember your passion for Christ, your love for others, your heart for the outcasts? Or, would they remember your negative attitude, your short temper, your sharp tongue? What would your family say about you? Your friends? Your teachers?

These questions are ones I have often posed over the past few years to the teenage girls I have taught in my local church. I am convinced the reason many students (and adults, for that matter!) do not live consistently for Christ is that they do not think about the eternal impact their lives can have, and they do not think a single life can make much of a difference anyway.

For close to 15 years, I have watched students start their high school years so strong for Christ only to finish poorly, many even dropping out of church before they graduate high school. It breaks my heart as I watch my girls that once had a burning passion to impact their school for Christ get sidelined because worldly things took their focus off of the Lord. I remember one girl in particular that I led to the Lord when she was a freshman, had in Sunday School, and met with in a small discipleship group. She regularly brought lost friends to church. However, she started dating a boy her senior year who wasn’t a Christian, and that one decision to date a non-Christian took her down a disastrous path. She stopped talking about her faith and attending church because she didn’t want to alienate her new boyfriend.

So, a few years ago, I started having my students write their own obituaries at the end of their freshman year in high school so they would think about how important the choices are that they make on a daily basis. Then, I spent time with them walking through some famous “obituaries” found in Hebrews 11. These testimonies left behind in Hebrews help believers today realize that the legacies of their lives can last generations. In this day, we need more Hebrews 11 type of Christians. The point is not that our names would be known but that we would live in such a way that Christ’s name is known because of our lives.

The truth is, though, that it is not just high school students who need to examine their lives to see if they are building a legacy of faith. We all should be asking ourselves: If today was my last, would the legacy of my life be one that honored the Lord? Consider the “obituaries” of the people recorded in Hebrews 11:1-40:

1. They had a good reputation (vv. 2, 39). Both of these verses note that the people had a good reputation because of their faith. What is your reputation? Is it as someone who loves the Lord and cares for others? Or, do people know of you for less desirable reasons?

2. They were remembered by people who came after them (v. 4). One of the beauties of the Bible is that it records for us the lives of those who “though dead, still speak.” Women in Scripture like Ruth, Esther, and Lydia and women in church history like Amy Carmichael, Ann Judson, and Elizabeth Elliott spur us on because of their example of faith. My grandmother and my pastor’s wife were such women who, because of their lives, I am encouraged to live for Christ.

3. They were known as people who pleased God (v. 5). Someone who pleases God seeks to honor the Lord before any other. This is the type of girl who doesn’t seek popularity at the cost of her convictions, who doesn’t date boys who are unbelievers, and who seeks to honor God in the way she dresses and talks. She uses her time to deepen her relationship with God and makes daily time in God’s Word a priority.

4. They had confidence in God (v. 10). When you are bombarded daily by the message of the world, it can be hard sometimes to trust that doing things God’s way is best. However, when God says, “Do not have any other gods before me” (Exodus 20:3) or “be slow to anger” (James 1:19) or “honor your father and mother” (Ephesians 6:2) or adorn yourself “with proper clothing, modestly” (1 Timothy 2:9), do you have confidence and trust in His guidance for you?

5. God was not ashamed to be called their God (vv. 13-16). When one day in the future my family member sits down to consider my life and pen my obituary, this would be the one thing I want said of me -- that God was not ashamed to be called my God.

6. They resisted sin by keeping their eyes on God (vv. 24-27). The temptations to sin are ever present in your life and my life, but God has promised us in His Word that no temptation will be so great that a way out will not be provided (1 Corinthians 10:13). The challenge for us is to keep our eyes on Him in the midst of these temptations! One thing that has really helped me is memorizing Scripture for those sins I know I struggle with, and I have even put Scripture cards up in my car, on my TV, and in other places in my house to remind me. So, before I think of speeding in my car or getting angry at careless drivers, God’s Word greets me from the dashboard. Before I think about watching anything on TV that is unwholesome or that may cause me to sin in my thought-life, God’s Word beckons to me above the screen.

7. They were used by God in the midst of difficult circumstances (vv. 32-34). The phrase in this section that encourages me so much is that “their weakness was turned to strength.” In high school and early in college, I was terrified of public speaking and had difficulty sharing my faith. Yet, I remember time after time how God opened doors for me to witness for Him -- to entire classes through assigned speeches, to my principal in his office because he had questions about a Christian club I was president of, and to teachers and classmates with whom I had built relationships. In each instance, when I trusted Him instead of giving into fear, I was able see Him do great things.

8. They withstood persecution and ridicule for their faith (vv. 35-37). Today, all around the world, brothers and sisters in Christ are persecuted and killed for their faith. I read an article recently about a group of 26 Christians who were murdered in Cairo, Egypt during a demonstration. I often ask myself if I would have the conviction and courage to stand in the face of such circumstances. Maybe a more appropriate question, though, is whether I have the courage and conviction to live for Christ in my own context?

So, I ask again, what would your obituary say if you died today? Consider the eight characteristics found in Hebrews 11 and ask yourself which of those could describe your life. May we all be remembered as Hebrews 11 Christians!

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Candi Finch is a Ph.D. student and an adjunct professor in the Women’s Studies Program at Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary in Fort Worth, Texas. This column first appeared at BiblicalWoman.org, a blog of Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary.

Jay Leno's Transition and A Surprising Faith Fact

Psalms 87:7

Jay Leno was the star of “The Tonight Show” for 22 years. The comedian was famously forced off the show in January 2010 and hastily re-hired two months later after his replacement bombed in the role. This time, the transition has been much more positive. After leaving the show last Thursday, Jay immediately went back on the road as a traveling comedian. As he told the LA Times, “I’ve always been a stand-up comedian that had a day job.”

Transitions can be tough. After Satya Nadella was promoted to succeed Steve Ballmer as CEO of Microsoft last week, critics are already claiming that the company should have brought in an outsider to shake things up. J.C. Penney recently ousted CEO Ron Johnson 17 months after hiring him, returning his predecessor to the job.

Why are young people leaving religion

Corporate transitions, while important, are temporal. Faith transitions are eternal. Here the numbers are frightening: 7 in 10 Protestants ages 18 to 30 who went to church regularly in high school have quit attending by age 23. The Barna Group says that 6 in 10 young people leave church permanently or for an extended period starting at age 15. Young adults complain about the church’s intolerance and irrelevance. But there’s another factor at work as well.

Dr. Vern Bengtson is a pastor’s son and social work professor at the University of Southern California. After studying 350 families for 40 years across four generations, he learned much about the transmission of faith from parents to children. His major conclusion: to continue in the faith, children must be bonded emotionally with their parents, especially their father. “Fervent faith cannot compensate for a distant dad,” he discovered.

If we want our children to love Jesus, we must do more than pass on religious rules and responsibilities. After studying parents whose children followed them in the faith, Dr. Bengtson concluded that we need “the kind of passion these parents had for wanting their children to achieve the peace and the joy and the hope and the inspiration they had found for themselves.”

Be passionate about your Father and your children, and they will want the faith they see in you. New York Times columnist David Brooks recently quoted Rabbi Abraham Joshua Heschel: “Our goal should be to live life in radical amazement... get up in the morning and look at the world in a way that takes nothing for granted. Everything is phenomenal.... To be spiritual is to be amazed.”

Tragically, Heschel notes that for many of us, “faith is completely replaced by creed, worship by discipline, love by habit; when the crisis of today is ignored because of the splendor of the past; when faith becomes an heirloom rather than a living fountain; when religion speaks only in the name of authority rather than with the voice of compassion.”

The psalmist could sing to God: “All my springs are in you” (Psalm 87:7). Is your faith an heirloom or a living fountain today?

An Honest Obituary

Job 15:15

Leslie Ray Charping died, and his Galveston, Texas, family, dictated his obituary. “At a young age, Leslie quickly became a model example of bad parenting,” the obit says, with a “commitment to drinking, drugs, womanizing and being generally offensive.” He died at 75, “which was 29 years longer than expected and much longer than he deserved.” Further, “he will be missed only for what he never did; being a loving husband, father and good friend.” He did serve in the Navy, but “as part of a plea deal to escape sentencing on criminal charges.” On the positive side, “Leslie’s passing proves that evil does in fact die and hopefully marks a time of healing and safety for all.” The family did not hold a memorial service.

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KTRK Houston

from This Is True internet newsletter · edited by Randy Cassingham via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

Grieving Pastor Soothed By Notes Ancestor Wrote In 1940s Christmas Bible

Mark 5:22

Years after Ruby died at age 26 of scarlet fever, her mother Rebecca journaled grief and hope on blank pages of her Bible, a Christmas gift received in 1946.

“Dear children, when you read this and I am gone,” Rebecca wrote, “I want you to keep close to Jesus too. He is our only pure joy. It pays to serve Him. For like Ruby, this day is coming to all, and we all want to meet in heaven.”

Three-quarters of a century later, the Bible, now weathered and fragile, is in the hands of Rebecca’s great-grandson Erik Reed, a Tennessee pastor who Dec. 1, 2022, marked the third anniversary of the loss of his son Kaleb, who died at age 15 after lifelong health struggles.

“When we started reading some of these notes, it struck our hearts because we’d lost a child,” Erik, lead pastor of The Journey Church in Lebanon, said of himself and his wife Katrina. “So many of the things that she’s saying just resonated with us. As I read it to my wife out loud, we were both just in tears.”

Rebecca apparently found her daughter ill in bed one morning.

“She was still alive,” Erik said of his great-aunt, “but she was obviously having issues. And she ended up passing away.”

Rebecca journaled her feelings in poetry and prose at least a decade after Ruby’s death on June 11, 1937.

“She just talked about how much she missed her and how difficult it’s been without her,” Erik said. “She even writes about recounting the morning, but then she’ll immediately talk about someday all the tears will be gone.

“She says, ‘Sometimes I’m just so happy, but I can’t always stay happy. Lonely days come.’ So she’s just pouring her heart out. But you see a mixture of sorrow and faith through all of it.”

The Bible passed from the hands of Rebecca’s youngest daughter Dorothy to her son Sam, who loaned it to Erik.

“It really is just incredible,” Erik said.

Erik describes the Bible as a King James Version that was given to Rebecca as a Christmas gift by another of her daughters, Lorine, who was close to Ruby in age and spirit.

“The two sisters were super close,” Erik said. “They were strong believers. But the stories I’ve heard about my great-grandmother were about how strong her faith was.”

Rebecca attended Barton’s Creek Baptist Church, founded in 1849 in Lebanon and still active today.

“It’s not a charismatic church by any means, but she was known for shouting ‘amen’ and being just very vibrant in her faith,” Erik said. “I’d always heard those stories and of course, I knew she’d lost a child, but I’d never seen any firsthand things from her own heart and her own feelings.”

Erik is considering transcribing Rebecca’s notes to preserve them before returning the Bible to his cousin.

“It’s really meaningful to have a piece of history from my own family,” Erik said. “It’s just encouraging for me as someone who’s buried a son and lost a child. There’s not a whole lot of people who share that experience of a relative, of a great-grandmother. There’s a part of me that resonates with her life.

“I feel more than a blood connection to her. I feel a kinship in that we’ve both suffered a sorrow that many people never do and never want for sure.”

Erik’s son Kaleb battled lifelong health issues that began when doctors accidentally took his good kidney along with a kidney covered in cysts when he was two months old. Kaleb attended school, played and enjoyed games as kids do, but also endured several hospitalizations a year, crippling complications from fungal meningitis and a stroke before succumbing on Dec. 1, 2019.

Erik’s family, including daughters Kaleigh Grace and Kyra Piper, still deals with the loss, which he mentioned in a Nov. 22 Facebook post.

“It’s that time of the year for my family, where the shadow creeps in and the lingering presence of Kaleb’s death weighs heaviest,” Erik wrote. “The cold weather almost triggers the emotions. It’s wild how things imprint on our souls when we experience loss.”

Keeping a record of one’s faith can be an important legacy, Erik said, and we never know who will see such writings.

“I’m reading the words of a mother who is grieving, but I’m reading them now, and she’s not grieving any longer. She’s with the Lord, and she’s with her daughter, and the hope that we have in Christ, the promises we have in God’s Word, she has seen the fulfillment of those promises,” he said. “So now I can read them and remember the same. These sorrows will pass.

“There will come a day where to live is Christ, but to die is gain.”

His Prayers Affected Three Generations

In POINT MAN, Steve Farrar tells the story of George McCluskey.

When McCluskey married and started a family, he decided to invest one hour a day in prayer, because he wanted his kids to follow Christ. After a time, he expanded his prayers to include his grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Every day between 11 a.m. and noon, he prayed for the next three generations.

As the years went by, his two daughters committed their lives to Christ and married men who went into full-time ministry. The two couples produced four girls and one boy. Each of the girls married a minister, and the boy became a pastor. The first two children born to this generation were both boys. Upon graduation from high school, the two cousins chose the same college and became roommates.

During their sophomore year, one boy decided to go into the ministry. The other didn't. He undoubtedly felt some pressure to continue the family legacy, but he chose instead to pursue his interest in psychology. He earned his doctorate and eventually wrote books for parents that became bestsellers. He started a radio program heard on more than a thousand stations each day. The man's name was James Dobson. Through his prayers, George McCluskey affected far more than one family.

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Loyal J. Martin, Newton, Kansas. Leadership, Vol. 16, no. 4

Source: A Dose of Inspiration, http://www.quietstones.com/mydailydose

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[Original illustration here was a duplicate in HolwickID 25837-26027]

The Motivation of A False Obituary

Luke 12:16

In "Is It Real When It Doesn't Work?" Doug Murren and Barb Shurin recount:

Toward the end of the nineteenth century, Swedish chemist Alfred Nobel awoke one morning to read his own obituary in the local newspaper: "Alfred Nobel, the inventor of dynamite, who died yesterday, devised a way for more people to be killed in a war than ever before, and he died a very rich man."

Actually, it was Alfred's older brother who had died; a newspaper reporter had bungled the epitaph.

But the account had a profound effect on Nobel. He decided he wanted to be known for something other than developing the means to kill people efficiently and for amassing a fortune in the process.

So he initiated the Nobel Prize, the award for scientists and writers who foster peace. Nobel said, "Every man ought to have the chance to correct his epitaph in midstream and write a new one."

Few things will change us as much as looking at our life as though it is finished.

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[see also HolwickID #23722 and 30088]

from Leadership · Rex Bonar via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database legacy

Grieving Pastor Soothed By Notes Ancestor Wrote In 1940s Christmas Bible

Mark 5:22

Years after Ruby died at age 26 of scarlet fever, her mother Rebecca journaled grief and hope on blank pages of her Bible, a Christmas gift received in 1946.

“Dear children, when you read this and I am gone,” Rebecca wrote, “I want you to keep close to Jesus too. He is our only pure joy. It pays to serve Him. For like Ruby, this day is coming to all, and we all want to meet in heaven.”

Three-quarters of a century later, the Bible, now weathered and fragile, is in the hands of Rebecca’s great-grandson Erik Reed, a Tennessee pastor who Dec. 1, 2022, marked the third anniversary of the loss of his son Kaleb, who died at age 15 after lifelong health struggles.

“When we started reading some of these notes, it struck our hearts because we’d lost a child,” Erik, lead pastor of The Journey Church in Lebanon, said of himself and his wife Katrina. “So many of the things that she’s saying just resonated with us. As I read it to my wife out loud, we were both just in tears.”

Rebecca apparently found her daughter ill in bed one morning.

“She was still alive,” Erik said of his great-aunt, “but she was obviously having issues. And she ended up passing away.”

Rebecca journaled her feelings in poetry and prose at least a decade after Ruby’s death on June 11, 1937.

“She just talked about how much she missed her and how difficult it’s been without her,” Erik said. “She even writes about recounting the morning, but then she’ll immediately talk about someday all the tears will be gone.

“She says, ‘Sometimes I’m just so happy, but I can’t always stay happy. Lonely days come.’ So she’s just pouring her heart out. But you see a mixture of sorrow and faith through all of it.”

The Bible passed from the hands of Rebecca’s youngest daughter Dorothy to her son Sam, who loaned it to Erik.

“It really is just incredible,” Erik said.

Erik describes the Bible as a King James Version that was given to Rebecca as a Christmas gift by another of her daughters, Lorine, who was close to Ruby in age and spirit.

“The two sisters were super close,” Erik said. “They were strong believers. But the stories I’ve heard about my great-grandmother were about how strong her faith was.”

Rebecca attended Barton’s Creek Baptist Church, founded in 1849 in Lebanon and still active today.

“It’s not a charismatic church by any means, but she was known for shouting ‘amen’ and being just very vibrant in her faith,” Erik said. “I’d always heard those stories and of course, I knew she’d lost a child, but I’d never seen any firsthand things from her own heart and her own feelings.”

Erik is considering transcribing Rebecca’s notes to preserve them before returning the Bible to his cousin.

“It’s really meaningful to have a piece of history from my own family,” Erik said. “It’s just encouraging for me as someone who’s buried a son and lost a child. There’s not a whole lot of people who share that experience of a relative, of a great-grandmother. There’s a part of me that resonates with her life.

“I feel more than a blood connection to her. I feel a kinship in that we’ve both suffered a sorrow that many people never do and never want for sure.”

Erik’s son Kaleb battled lifelong health issues that began when doctors accidentally took his good kidney along with a kidney covered in cysts when he was two months old. Kaleb attended school, played and enjoyed games as kids do, but also endured several hospitalizations a year, crippling complications from fungal meningitis and a stroke before succumbing on Dec. 1, 2019.

Erik’s family, including daughters Kaleigh Grace and Kyra Piper, still deals with the loss, which he mentioned in a Nov. 22 Facebook post.

“It’s that time of the year for my family, where the shadow creeps in and the lingering presence of Kaleb’s death weighs heaviest,” Erik wrote. “The cold weather almost triggers the emotions. It’s wild how things imprint on our souls when we experience loss.”

Keeping a record of one’s faith can be an important legacy, Erik said, and we never know who will see such writings.

“I’m reading the words of a mother who is grieving, but I’m reading them now, and she’s not grieving any longer. She’s with the Lord, and she’s with her daughter, and the hope that we have in Christ, the promises we have in God’s Word, she has seen the fulfillment of those promises,” he said. “So now I can read them and remember the same. These sorrows will pass.

“There will come a day where to live is Christ, but to die is gain.”

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