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The Beauty of Ruth
Elimelech and his family in Moab
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A. Last week we looked at chapter 1, verse 1 of the book of Ruth:
1. “And it came to pass in the days when the judges were ruling, there was a famine in the land; and a man went from Bethlehem of Judah in order to sojourn in the Plains of Moab; he, and his wife and both his sons.” (RGH)
2. Deuteronomy 2:9 tells us that the Plains (or Fields) of Moab, also known as the land of Ar, had been given to the descendants of Moab, Lot’s son, by God: “Then the LORD said to me, ‘Do not harass Moab, nor provoke them to war, for I will not give you any of their land as a possession, because I have given Ar to the sons of Lot as a possession.’” (2:9 NAS)
3. So, God’s command was that His people, Israel, were not to dwell there.
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Review of last week
A. This happened in the time of the judges
B. During this time God used oppression and hardship to judge the people of Israel when they forgot Him
C. There was a famine and a man left Bethlehem in Judah to go and live in Moab with his wife and 2 sons
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A. We found that this happened during the period of the judges, after the land had been divided among the twelve tribes and Joshua was dead. It was during the earlier part of that 320 years, probably in the first century, possibly in the period just before Gideon became judge; probably not in the period before Ehud because at that time Moab, under King Eglon, was the oppressor of Israel.
B. During the period of the judges there are 7 cycles in which
1. the people forget God
2. God brought hardship upon them in the form of foreign oppressors and, at least in the time of Gideon, food shortages
3. the people cried out to God
4. God raised up a judge to deliver
5. there was a period of peace.
C. This man apparently had the means (we will note the indications of this in the book) to pick up and leave to go to Moab where life was easier; but Israel was not to have concourse with Moab because of Moab’s actions when Israel came from Egypt (hiring Balaam – we will return to this in a few minutes), so
1. Although this was a natural action for a father in looking after his family, it was not an act of faith:
2. It was disobedient to God (Israel was not to have possession in land of Ar, was not to consort with the Moabites)
3. It was an act of independence rather than the response of repentance which God sought
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The story of Elimelech unfolds
A. In Ruth 1:2-5, we are given more information
1. The name of the man and his wife
2. The name of their 2 sons
3. How long they lived there (roughly)
4. The death of the man
5. The marriage of the two sons
6. The death of the sons
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A. Here is the next part of the story, Ruth 1:2-5 (RGH): 2 The name of the man was Elimelech, and the name of his wife, Naomi, and the names of his two sons, Mahlon and Chilion; Ephrathites, from Bethlehem of Judah; and they came to the Plains of Moab, and they stayed there. 3 And Elimelech, the husband of Naomi, died; and she was left bereft, she and her two sons. 4 And they took to themselves wives, Moabitesses, the name of the first, Orpah, and the name of the second, Ruth; and they dwelt there about ten years. 5 And both of them, Mahlon and Chilion, died also; so the woman was bereft of both her boys as well as of her husband.
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Considering Elimelech
A. Name means ‘My God is king’
B. Was Elimelech’s taking his family to Moab blatant rebellion against God?
C. How did Elimelech personally fare as result of his decision?
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A. Name also translated, ‘His (i.e.., Elimelech’s) God is King’, ‘God is King’, and ‘God shall be King’
B. Elimelech’s action
1. Is not specifically criticized or condemned in the book of Ruth
2. Was a natural action for a father to care for his family
3. It seems even commendable given Paul’s words, “But if anyone does not provide for his own, and especially for those of his household, he has denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever.” (1 Timothy 5:8 NAS)
4. Differed in degree from the murmurers against Moses in the wilderness who were slain
5. But was disobedient to what God commanded to His people Israel
a. Not to take possessions in Moab
b. Not to consort with Moabites
6. So, Elimelech failed to live up to the name that he bore
C. There is no record of how much time passed, but the indication is that it was in a relatively short period that Elimelech died; so any benefit from his action was relatively short-lived.
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Lessons from Elimelech
A. What lessons can we as Christians learn from this?
1. The commandments of God are not to be treated lightly (John 15:10, 1 Corinthians 11:1)
2. Our lives and actions affect the meaning of Christ and Christian to those around us (2 Thessalonians 1:11-12)
3. Despite means and endeavours, you cannot outrun death.
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A. Lessons for the Christians
1. Christ told us, His disciples, this:
a. “If you keep My commandments, you will abide in My love; just as I have kept My Father’s commandments, and abide in His love.” (John 15:10 NAS)
b. Showing that He is our example as Paul also confesses, “Be imitators of me, just as I also am of Christ.” (1 Corinthians 11:1 NAS)
2. We may reflect either poorly or well on the names of Christ and Christian
a. “Christians who are slaves should give their masters full respect so that the name of God and his teaching will not be shamed.” (1 Timothy 6:1 NLT)
b. “To this end also we pray for you always that our God may count you worthy of your calling, and fulfill every desire for goodness and the work of faith with power; in order that the name of our Lord Jesus may be glorified in you, and you in Him, according to the grace of our God and the Lord Jesus Christ.” (2 Thessalonians 1:11-12 NAS)
3. Many live as though their lives would never end, that they would never be called into account: “We think all men mortal save ourselves”
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Consider Mahlon and Chilion
A. What three things happened to the two sons
1. They came to a marriageable age
2. They took wives from among the people of Moab
3. They died without children
B. How did the two sons fare as a result of Elimelech’s decision?
1. Every indication is that they really did not prosper!
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A. During this period, the two sons became of marriageable age
B. The names mean
1. Mahlon – ‘sick, sickly’ – husband of Ruth (4:10)
2. Chilion – ‘pining, languishing’ – hence, husband of Orpah
3. There is an unlikely Jewish supposition that their real names were Joash and Saraph, based upon the genealogy of the descendants of Judah given in 1 Chronicles 4:22.
4. Whether this be true or not, these names here may have been descriptive epithets given to them later as they sickened and died
5. In any event, this was not a prosperous result!
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The matter of their marriage
A. “Furthermore, you shall not intermarry with them; you shall not give your daughters to their sons, nor shall you take their daughters for your sons.” (Deuteronomy 7:3 NAS)
B. “No Ammonite or Moabite shall enter the assembly of the LORD; none of their descendants, even to the tenth generation, shall ever enter the assembly of the LORD,” (Deuteronomy 23:3 NAS)
C. Bible interprets itself: Nehemiah 13:1-2, 23, 25, 27
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A. The first of these passages applied particularly to the Israelites marrying the people of the land of Canaan, the 7 nations that God would have them drive out
B. The second is was the separation that was to be maintained from Ammon and Moab on account of their hiring Balaam to curse Israel
C. These verses are particularly applied by both Ezra (9:2) and Nehemiah:
1. “On that day they read aloud from the book of Moses in the hearing of the people; and there was found written in it that no Ammonite or Moabite should ever enter the assembly of God, because they did not meet the sons of Israel with bread and water, but hired Balaam against them to curse them. However, our God turned the curse into a blessing.” (Nehemiah 13:1-2 NAS)
2. “In those days I also saw that the Jews had married women from Ashdod, Ammon, and Moab.” (Nehemiah 13:23 NAS)
3. “So I contended with them and cursed them and struck some of them and pulled out their hair, and made them swear by God, “You shall not give your daughters to their sons, nor take of their daughters for your sons or for yourselves.” (Nehemiah 13:25 NAS)
4. “Do we then hear about you that you have committed all this great evil by acting unfaithfully against our God by marrying foreign women?”” (Nehemiah 13:27 NAS)
D. Therefore, Jewish writers say that the early deaths of both the young men were divine judgments inflicted on them for those unlawful connections, that the consorting of Elimelech and his sons with Moab was an act of unfaithfulness to God.
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Lessons from Mahlon and Chilion
A. What lessons can we learn as Christians from what happened to these two sons?
1. Wrong or poor decisions that we make will have bad effects upon others
2. Do not underestimate the power of being either a good or a poor example
3. For the Christian, the matter of relationships is important, too (2 Corinthians 6:14)
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A. Resulting from Elimelech’s decision
1. We see his boys thrown into acquaintance with wrong people, wrong ideas, wrong actions; how we as parents pay for how we fail to protect our children in this respect!
2. Yet, we cannot put a wall around our children – we may try, but eventually the right way of living must come from the Holy Spirit’s work inside them – so our example should be a means of guidance; “Train up a child in the way he should go, Even when he is old he will not depart from it.” (Proverbs 22:6 NAS) … but between youth and maturity there may be side excursions.
3. “Do not be bound together with unbelievers; for what partnership have righteousness and lawlessness, or what fellowship has light with darkness?” (2 Corinthians 6:14 NAS)
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Consider Naomi
A. The meaning of the name Naomi is ‘fair’, ‘pleasant’ or ‘pleasantness’; How does her name compare with her situation?
B. How did Naomi fare as a result of Elimelech’s decision?
C. In practical terms, what has God done to Naomi?
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A. Remember the meaning of this name, because Naomi later will ask people to call her by a new name. Also, as opposed to her situation, keep your eyes open for how Naomi’s name compared with her real character.
B. She is left bereft in a foreign land with 2 foreign daughters-in-law; apparently without means of support other than any accumulated savings; the prophecy of Isaiah against Judah is similar:
1. “But these two things shall come on you suddenly in one day: Loss of children and widowhood. They shall come on you in full measure In spite of your many sorceries, In spite of the great power of your spells.” (Isaiah 47:9 NAS)
2. “These two things have befallen you; Who will mourn for you? The devastation and destruction, famine and sword; How shall I comfort you?” (Isaiah 51:19 NAS)
C. God has removed …
1. … everything that would give her independence: in that society, a husband and / or sons were the providers and the mark of blessedness and success
2. … every tie that would hold her in the land of Moab where she did not belong
3. … apparently, every human helper (what can she expect from these young women, kind as they have been); in an agrarian, patristic society, without the benefit of Israel’s God-given social laws, the widow without means was in a terrible situation
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Lessons from Naomi
A. What lessons can we as Christians learn from Naomi as she finds herself in this situation?
1. God is still on the throne, Psalm 47:8, regardless of where we may find ourselves through either our own wilfulness or the actions of others
2. God will work out His plans and purposes despite us (Isaiah 46:10-11, Ephesians 1:11)
3. What God does he does for our good (Romans 8:28)
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A. When we find ourselves experiencing the same situation as Naomi, what are some truths that we need to call to our mind (we do not yet see these being true for Naomi but we will)?
1. “God reigns over the nations, God sits on His holy throne.” (Psalms 47:8 NAS)
2. God is working out His plans
a. “Declaring the end from the beginning And from ancient times things which have not been done, Saying, ‘My purpose will be established, And I will accomplish all My good pleasure; Calling a bird of prey from the east, The man of My purpose from a far country. Truly I have spoken; truly I will bring it to pass. I have planned it, surely I will do it.’” Isaiah 46:10-11 NAS)
b. “also we have obtained an inheritance, having been predestined according to His purpose who works all things after the counsel of His will,” (Ephesians 1:11 NAS)
3. God works these plans out for our benefit, “And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose.” (Romans 8:28 NAS)
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Next week, Ruth 1:6-18
The characters of three women
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A. We have a longer passage for next week
1. We will look at the relationship between Naomi and her two daughters-inlaw
2. And each of their characters
B. We may finish that passage or not, but, Lord willing, in any case we will look at the final few verses from another perspective in a subsequent lesson