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Obedience in Christian preaching emphasizes prompt and wholehearted submission to God's commands, motivated by love rather than fear or legalism (John 14:15). It is portrayed as the gateway to deeper knowledge and spiritual growth, requiring self-discipline and full compliance from the outset (Hebrews 5:9). Illustrations often use everyday scenarios like timing, discipline, and childlike submission to highlight its challenges and blessings.

Implicit Obedience

True obedience trusts God's wisdom fully, even when commands seem difficult or unclear.

"John Cassian makes mention of one, who willingly fetched water near two miles every day for a whole year together, to pour it upon a dead, dry stick, at the command of his superior, when no reason else could be given for it. And of another it is recorded, that he professed that if he were enjoined by his superior to put to sea in a ship which had neither mast, tackling, nor any other furniture, he would do it, and when he was asked how he could do this without hazard of his discretion, he answered, The wisdom must be in him that hath power to command, not in him that hath power to obey." These are instances of implicit obedience to a poor fallible human authority, and are by no means to be imitated. But when it is God who gives the command, we cannot carry a blind obedience too far, since there can be no room for questioning the wisdom and goodness of any of his precepts. At Christ's command it is wise to let down the net at the very spot where we have toiled in vain all the night. If God bids us, we can sweeten water with salt, and destroy poison with meat, yea, we may walk the waves of the sea, or the flames of a furnace. Well said the Blessed Virgin, "Whatsoever he saith unto you, do it." My heart, I charge thee follow thy Lord's command without a moment's question, though he bid thee go forward into the Red Sea, or onward into a howling wilderness,

Fear, Fatal

Fear of hurting God motivates obedience more than fear of punishment.

A little boy was tempted to pluck some cherries from a tree which his father had forbidden him to touch. "You need not be afraid," said his companion; "for, if your father should find out that you have taken them, he is too kind to hurt you." "Ah!" said the little fellow: "that is the very reason why I would not touch them; for, though my father would not hurt me, yet I should hurt him by my disobedience."

from New Cyclopaedia of Prose Illustrations · Elon Foster fear of god

Forgetfulness, Danger of

Delaying obedience can cause harm, teaching the importance of prompt action.

A mother directed her little daughter to pick up some pieces of broken glass which lay in the yard. She replied, "Yes, in a minute," but soon forgot it. The same day, a scream caused the girl to run to the yard, where she found her mother bleeding from wounds caused by the glass which she forgot to pick up. It taught the girl not to delay, and not to forget.

from New Cyclopaedia of Prose Illustrations · Elon Foster

Obedience, Final

A son's faithful obedience despite neglect shows disciplined commitment and trust.

During Havelock's stay in England, a gentleman went one evening to the house of the colonel, in compliance with an invitation. In the course of conversation, Mrs. Havelock turned suddenly round to her husband, and said, "My dear, where is Henry?" referring to her son, whom she had not seen during the whole afternoon. The colonel started to his feet. "Well, poor fellow! he's standing on London Bridge, and in this cold too! I told him to wait for me there at twelve o'clock to-day; and, in the pressure of business, I quite forgot the appointment." It was now about seven o'clock in the evening. The colonel at once rose, ordered a cab to be called; and, as he went forth to deliver his son from his watch on London Bridge, he turned to excuse himself from his visitor, saying, "You see, sir, that is the discipline of a soldier's family." In the course of an hour, he returned with poor Harry, who seemed to have passed through the afternoon's experience with the greatest good humor.

from New Cyclopaedia of Prose Illustrations · Elon Foster discipline

Obedience, Importance of

Action and obedience are foundational to authentic Christian life and witness.

When Domesthenes was asked what was the first part of an orator, what the second, and what the third, he answered, "Action." The same may I say. If any should ask me what is the first, the second, the third part of a Christian, I must answer, "Action." Luther says, that he had rather obey than work miracles. Obedience is better than sacrifice. T. Brooks.

Obedience, Motive in

True love for God is demonstrated by obedience, not just good intentions.

Nothing can be love to God which does not shape itself into obedience. We remember the anecdote of the Roman commander who forbade an engagement with the enemy, and the first transgressor against whose prohibition was his son. He accepted the challenge of the leader of the other host, met, slew, spoiled him; and then, in triumphant feeling, carried the spoils to his father's tent. But the Roman father refused to recognize the instinct which prompted this, as deserving of the name of love. Disobedience contradicted it, and deserved death.

— F. W. Robertson

from New Cyclopaedia of Prose Illustrations · Elon Foster love for god

Obedience, Our Duty

Committed obedience means doing whatever God commands, regardless of difficulty.

A negro preacher once said, "Brethren, what eber do good God tell me to do in dis blessed book, dat I'm gwine to do. If I see in it that I must jump troo a stone wall, I'm gwine to jump at it. Goin' troo it belongs to God—jumpin' at it 'longs to me."

Obedience, Prompt

Prompt obedience, even when it means stopping action, is the highest form of discipline.

A story is told of a great captain, who, after a battle, was talking over the events of the day with his officers. He asked them who had done the best that day. Some spoke of one man who had fought very bravely, and some of another. "No," he said: "you are all mistaken. The best man in the field to-day was a soldier who was just lifting up his arm to strike an enemy, but, when he heard the trumpet sound a retreat, checked himself, and dropped his arm without striking the blow. That perfect and ready obedience to the will of his general is the noblest thing that has been done to-day."

— Oxendon

from New Cyclopaedia of Prose Illustrations · Elon Foster discipline

Obedience, Rare

Obedience to parents is rare and highly valued, even more than other skills.

A tradesman advertised for a boy to assist in his shop, and go on errands. A few hours after the morning papers were circulated, he had his shop thronged with all kinds of boys; and, not knowing which to choose, he advertised again, as follows: "Wanted, to assist in a shop, a boy who obeys his mother." In reply to this, there were only two boys who ventured to apply for the situation. Date.

from New Cyclopaedia of Prose Illustrations · Elon Foster family values

Obedience, Safety of

Immediate obedience to a warning can prevent disaster and bring unexpected reward.

A pointsman in Prussia was at the junction of two lines of railway, his lever in hand for a train that was signalled. The engine was within a few seconds of reaching the embankment, when the man, on turning his head, perceived his little boy playing on the rails of the line the train was to pass over. "Lie down!" he shouted to the child; but, as to himself, he remained at his post. The train passed safely on its way. The father rushed forward, expecting to take up a corpse; but what was his joy on finding that the boy had at once obeyed his order! He had lain down, and the whole train passed over him without injury. The next day the king sent for the man, and attached to his breast the medal for civil courage.

from New Cyclopaedia of Prose Illustrations · Elon Foster trusting god

Obstinaoy, Conquered

Humility and example can break stubbornness and lead to obedience and gentleness.

It is said that Robert Raikes, the founder of Sunday schools, one day visited a family in which was a bad-tempered child, who made her mother very unhappy by her obstinacy and sulkiness. Every effort for her improvement was fruitless. Mr. Raikes talked seriously with her, and told her that her first step must be to kneel down and ask her mother's pardon. She resisted all entreaty, and he proposed to humble himself for her. Kneeling before the mother, he asked her forgiveness. The stubborn girl, seeing Mr. Raikes on his knees on her account, burst into tears, fell upon her knees, and asked her mother's forgiveness for herself. From that hour, she became an obedient and gentle child.

from New Cyclopaedia of Prose Illustrations · Elon Foster brokenness

The Children'S Answers

Children described angels doing God's will immediately, diligently, always, and wholeheartedly.

A Sabbath school teacher, instructing his class on that petition of the Lord's Prayer, "Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven," said to them, "You have told me, my dear children, what is to be done—the will of God: and where it is to be done—on earth; and how it is to be done—as it is done in heaven. How do you think the angels and the happy spirits do the will of God in heaven, as they are to be our pattern?" The first child replied, "They do it immediately:" the second, "They do it diligently:" the third, "They do it always:" the fourth, "They do it with all their hearts:" the fifth, "They do it all together." Here a pause ensued, and no other children appeared to have any answer; but, after some time, a little girl arose, and said, "Why, sir, they do it without asking any questions." 104. 109

1. The money thus collected is to be appropriated to a most noble purpose. 2. It would make people, and especially the members of every family, more circumspect, and watch with more diligence and care over that little member which no man can tame; and thereby prevent much slander and evil speaking, which is the cause, no doubt, of half of the broils and animosities which occur in families and neighborhoods.

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from Cyclopaedia of Moral and Religious Anecdotes · Kazlitt Arvine holy obedience

Salvation, Coming short of

Matthew 13:1

True wisdom involves hearing, heeding, holding fast, and seeking more light from God's Word.

Hearing but not heeding the Word (4, 19). Heeding for a time but not holding (5, 20). Holding but not hoeing out (7, 22). Wise hearers understand, heed, accept, hold fast, and pray for more light (v. 9)

from Sermon Illustrations of the Bible, Topically Arranged · Keith L. Brooks

Acts 9:6; John 2:5; Ephesians 5:17

Obedience requires doing what God commands, whether preaching or everyday tasks.

Whatsoever He tells you to do, do. But be sure He says it. Don’t take your ideas. Go and live right at home, go and treat your wife and children right, pay your debts, and do some things of that kind.

One man said he had seen a sign; he said it read, “G. P. C.,” and he understood it to mean, “Go preach Christ.”

Another man got up, and said. “No, that ain’t it; it is ‘Go pick corn.’”

If it is preach the gospel, go preach the gospel; and if it is pick corn, then pick corn.

Ephesians 6:1; Proverbs 22:6; 1 Samuel 15:23

Persistent discipline in childhood leads to lifelong obedience and prevents heartbreak.

A mother told me up in Minnesota that she had a little child who took a book and threw it out of the window. She told him to go and pick it up. The little boy said, “I won’t.”

She said, “What?”

He said again, “I won’t.”

She said: “You must. Go and pick up that book.” He said he couldn’t do it. She took him out, and she held him right to it. Dinner-time came, and he hadn’t picked up the book. She took him to dinner, and after it was over she took him out again. They sat there until tea-time. When tea-time came she took him in and gave him his supper, and then took him out and kept him there until bed-time. The next morning she went out again and kept him there until dinner-time. He found he was in for a life job, and he picked the book up.

She said she never had any trouble with the child afterward. Mothers, if you don’t make your boy obey when he is young, he will break your heart.

THE LIBERTY OF OBEDIENCE

True freedom comes from being bound to God's rules, like learning to ride a bicycle.

I know it would seem strange if I told you that every boy and girl has to be tied to something in order that he may be free. And yet that is the exact truth. The majority of you no doubt know what the multiplication-table is, and I am sure you have thought it a pretty disagreeable thing. Perhaps you have wondered why seven times eight is always fifty-six, and why your teacher insists that it shall be that every time. You don't see why it can't be fifty-five just once, or possibly fifty-seven. But, no, sir; it is always fifty-six. When you get farther along in life I believe you will be glad to know that seven times eight is always fifty-six, whether you meet it in the grocery-store, or in the bank, or in New York, or in Philadelphia, or in China; for it will be a comfort to know that the multiplication-table does not change, like many other things, as you go from place to place. Whenever or wherever you meet it, it is always the same. Now, because you were tied to that table as a boy or girl, you will be free to go where you like with it in after-life. The same is true about riding a bicycle. You know that in order to be free to ride a bicycle you must obey the rules of riding it; that is, when you are in danger of falling to the right you must turn the front wheel to the right. If you do not, you will fall off. Here again, you see, you must be tied in order to be free. You will find that a rule all through life. That is why your parents and teachers lay down so many rules for you. It is not because they want to hedge you in and torment you, but that you may be free men and women later. Boys and girls who are never tied up, sooner or later find that as men and women they are not free. Marie Antoinette, Queen of France, would not be tied up to any rules as a girl. She was wilful and wild, so in later life she caused the death of her husband and herself. That same rule is even true of stars. Comets are tramp stars. They refuse to be tied up, and they ramble about all over the sky. So they never have trees and flowers on them. Our earth, on the other hand, is tied up to the sun and goes round it like a horse round a racetrack, and so it is bound by seasons and brings forth beautiful trees and flowers. Among other disadvantages of being a comet is that comets are in danger of losing a great part of their substance every time they approach the sun. Halley's comet, which used to be such a wonderful sight, has dwindled away to a very great extent. When it came a few years ago scarcely any one saw it. So it is always: to be really free and to grow you must be tied; and I hope that none of you children will ever be fretful when your parents and teachers make rules that you do not see the meaning of, but which are for your good.

Obedience

True honor lies in disciplined obedience, not just courage or bravery.

When the Duke of Wellington received a very intrepid battalion returning from a bloody campaign it was observed that he said nothing of their courage, praising only their discipline and subordination to command. Civilians were surprized. The field marshal’s reason was ready--Englishmen are expected to be brave, but obedience is a higher honor. War itself, as a science of slaughter, is not a lofty kind of work, as the most courageous warriors in later days always admit. Yet the military profession is an elevated one in civilized countries, because it is a discipline of character in the principle of authority.--BISHOP HUNTINGTON, _The Forum_.

Obedience

Obedience to rightful authority is a rare virtue foundational to society and God’s kingdom.

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Hon. Richmond P. Hobson, in relating some of his experiences after he and his men were captured by the Spanish, tells the following story:

The next day, when it seemed uncertain whether or not a remnant of the Inquisition was to be revived, when the enemy did not know whether it was his fault or ours that a ship had been sunk, and rather inclined to the belief that he had sunk an American battleship and that we were the only survivors out of several hundred, the men were taken before the Spanish authorities and serious and impertinent questions put to them. Remember, they did not know what it might cost them to refuse to answer, Spanish soldiers of the guard standing before them, making significant gestures with their hands edgewise across their throats. Our seamen laughed in their faces. Then a Spanish major questioned Charette, because he spoke French, and asked him this question: “What was your object in coming here?”

And so long as I live I shall never forget the way Charette threw back his shoulders, proudly lifted his head and looked him in the eye as he said:

“In the United States Navy, sir, it is not the custom for the seamen to know, or to desire to know, the object of an action of his superior officer.”

Obedience to the right, is an all too rare virtue, yet upon it depend the foundations of society and the spread of God’s kingdom. We are privileged to know and also to obey.

from Cyclopedia of Illustrations for Public Speakers · Robert Scott and William C. Stiles couragefaithfulness

Obedience

Children’s obedience honors parental authority even when tempted by others’ permission.

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The Princess of Wales, according to _The Youth’s Companion_, has trained her children so carefully in habits of obedience and veracity that they are nearly models of what children should be in those particulars. Upon one occasion, however, they were sorely tempted. This was when their loving and beloved grandmother, Queen Alexandra, brought them a big box of bonbons. But when the sweets were offered to them, one child after another reluctantly but firmly declined to take any.

“We like them, but mother has forbidden us to eat them,” explained the eldest prince.

“You can have the sugar-plums if I say you may,” said the indulgent Queen. “I will tell mama all about it when she returns.”

Prince Eddie wavered momentarily, then reiterated his refusal.

“We’d like them,” he sighed, “but that’s what mother said.”

The Queen was slightly annoyed by this opposition.

“But if I say you may--” she said.

Prince Eddie stood his ground, a hero between two fires--the wishes of his adored mother and those of his equally adored grandmother. His sisters and his brothers followed his lead. When the Queen went away she put the bonbons on the nursery table and there they stayed for months untouched, a handsome monument to the thoroughness of the princess’s training and the respectful love and devotion of her children. (Text.)

Obedience, A Type Of

Obedience is crucial and must be prompt, as shown by Admiral Dewey's strict discipline.

Admiral Dewey served through the Civil War, and had the fortune to get always into the thickest of the fight. When in command of the _Dolphin_, he exhibited his ideas of obedience. One of his “Jacks” refused to obey an order of his lieutenant and was reported to Dewey. “What!” said Dewey, “you refuse? Do you know this is mutiny?” The man still remained stubborn. Thereupon Dewey told the captain to call the guard. He stood the obdurate seaman on the far side of the deck, and ordered the marines to load. Then he took out his watch and said, “Now my man, you have just five seconds to obey that order,” and began to count the seconds. At the fourth count the man moved off with alacrity to obey the order. The admiral was a man to be trusted implicitly to carry out orders, which fact had become a byword at the Navy Department, and he won fame from the custom he had formed of doing the thing expected of him.--JAMES T. WHITE, “Character Lessons.”

from Cyclopedia of Illustrations for Public Speakers · Robert Scott and William C. Stiles

Obedience And Greatness

Greatness follows obedience to God's laws, like the moon's influence on tides and dust.

The moon calls to the Atlantic and the mighty seas lift themselves in great tidal waves as they follow their mistress round the globe. It calls with equal insistence to the wayside pool and this passing reminder of yesterday’s shower yields not an inch. The dust speck dances in the sunlight impudently or ignorantly defiant of the law which holds the earth with a grip of steel as it goes bounding along through a wilderness of stars held steady by the same hand. Be it big enough and noble enough, it knows how to obey.

— JOHN H. WILLEY

from Cyclopedia of Illustrations for Public Speakers · Robert Scott and William C. Stiles

Obedience In Spirit

True obedience follows the spirit of commands, pleasing God beyond mere letter compliance.

It is told of an Eastern king how, planning to visit a remote part of his kingdom, he sent ahead a trusted minister to build for his royal master a suitable palace to live in. When the royal courier reached the end of his journey he found a plague raging and the people dying by thousands. So instead of building the contemplated palace, he took the money and spent it in medicine and bread for the poor sufferers, dug graves and buried the dead, and bought clothing to protect the living. When the king came on and found what was done, instead of punishing his minister he commended him, saying, “Oh, faithful servant, you have builded for me a palace in the hearts of my people--built it out of the tombstones which you have erected over the graves of the dead; jeweled it with the tears you have wiped away, made it echo with songs out of the sobs which you have stilled.”

These servants followed the spirit of the king’s command, not the letter. Will not God be well pleased with a similar obedience from His children? (Text.)

from Cyclopedia of Illustrations for Public Speakers · Robert Scott and William C. Stiles

Discipleship

Mark 13:29

On June 6, 1981, Doug Whitt and his bride, Sylvia, were escorted to their hotel's fancy bridal suite in the wee hours of the morning. In the suite they saw a sofa, chairs, and table, but where was the bed?

Then they discovered the sofa was a hide-a-bed, with a lumpy mattress and sagging springs. They spent a fitful night and woke up in the morning with sore backs. The new husband went to the hotel desk and gave the management a tongue-lashing.

"Did you open the door in the room?" asked the clerk.

Doug went back to the room. He opened the door they had thought was a closet. There, complete with fruit baskets and chocolates, was a beautiful bedroom!

Opening all the doors in a honeymoon suite is like obeying all the words of Jesus. Discipleship is the door to happiness.

from Leadership · Cynthia Thomas via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database discipleshipobedience

Don't Let Me Shoot Anyone

Adolf Zinsser was drafted into the German army and sent to Normandy. His parents were very godly people but Nazis broke up their independent church so they were forced to worship in their flour mill. Zinsser began to see that Hilter wanted to be worshipped. For example, the Hitler Youth met on Sundays during church. (Hilter had started out sounding pious.)

Zinsser did not want to shoot anyone. His prayer was, “Lord Jesus, let me never kill a man for a government that makes people hide to worship You.” He slept on his rifle and one day he could not find it. That day they saw action; he was put in charge of the horses and was captured. His parents also survived the war. God had answered his prayer that he not shoot anyone.

Robin Hud

Acts 5:29

"We should obey God rather than men." (Acts 5:29)

Marilyn Louise Harrell loved this verse. She worked for the government agency Housing and Urban Development and ripped off $5 million. She said she gave most of it to poor people, but the government claimed she kept a lot in her own pocket. She was given the nickname "Robin HUD."

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edited version from The New York Times:

http://www.nytimes.com/1990/06/23/us/robin-hud-given-a-stiff-sentence.html

‘Robin HUD’ Given A Stiff Sentence

By Jason DeParle, June 23, 1990

“Robin HUD,” a former real estate agent who said she stole from the Government to give to the poor, was sentenced to serve almost four years in prison and pay $600,000 in restitution.

The agent, Marilyn Louise Harrell, drew national attention with one of the more flamboyant stories of abuse at the Department of Housing and Urban Development during the Reagan Administration. As part of a plea agreement, she pleaded guilty to stealing millions of dollars in Government property and lying on her tax forms.

Part of the unusual nature of Ms. Harrell’s case has been her public contrition, apparent as well today. “I have never said that what I did was right,” she said, weeping, in Federal District Court in Baltimore. “In fact, if a person steals five cents, then they should be done with whatever the court sees fit.”

In handing down the stiffer term, Judge Murray said many of Ms. Harrell’s actions had been taken for her own enrichment. “Some of the funds used were admittedly for good purposes,” he said. “But a substantial amount of the whole sum went to you or members or your family.” Attorney General Dick Thornburgh has called Ms. Harrell’s actions the largest individual theft of United States Government funds in history.

Ms. Harrell’s unusual story began in the fall of 1985, when she first began stealing Government money. Under a program begun by the Reagan Administration, private agents like her were hired to handle the closings when the housing department sold foreclosed properties. By letting private agents perform a function previously done by Government employees, the Administration pledged to improve efficiency.

Over the next three years, prosecutors say, Ms. Harrell stole the proceeds from the sale of 99 homes, simply failing to forward the money. Prosecutors said the total theft was $6.1 million. An investigation began in September 1988, when Ms. Harrell bounced $1.2 million in checks to the housing department.

Ms. Harrell said that $5.1 million of the theft went to the needy, but prosecutors said they could find evidence of only $1.1 million in charitable donations. Prosecutors said that the rest was squandered on failed businesses for herself, family and friends and that Ms. Harrell was now indigent.

Four witnesses testified today on Ms. Harrell’s behalf, backing her portrayal of herself as a friend of the deprived. “Marilyn saw that I’d have everything that I needed,” said Carol Ann Swift, a double amputee who lived with a woman supported by Ms. Harrell. “She gave me a home. She went and got me clothes, furnished transportation and paid all my doctor’s bills and medication bills.”

A minister from Prince George’s County, Maryland, outside Washington, where Ms. Harrell lives, said that Ms. Harrell gave $10,000 for a down payment on a rescue mission and treated needy families to groceries at the Giant supermarket. The minister, the Rev. Henry Studer, said Ms. Harrell would “sometimes take two and three familes at a time to Giant at $200 a pop.”

Rescue Theology

Protestors are divided over whether to practice civil disobedience. Some see it as permissible because a law allowing the murder of the unborn is unjustice; it is not illegal to break an unjust law. Others say God’s law is higher than man’s law. Some are even advocating violence. The success of the rescue movement justifies it to some.

Who Was Joseph?

Luke 2

[Used at Christmas Eve service 1989] A summary of the attributes of Joseph, Jesus' earthly parent. Verses back up each attribute:

1. Godly.

2. Compassionate.

3. Law-abiding.

4. Obedient to God.

5. Courageous.

6. Sensitive and unselfish.

from Fundamentalist Journal · Jerry Falwell via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database obedience

Who's In Charge Here?

Acts 18:27

Sermon for Rev. Wetzel's installation as Pastor Emeritus.

1. How churches fall apart.

a. Quarrels.

b. Cliques.

1> Corinthians were spiritual babies.

2. How churches can stay together and grow.

a. Role of leaders.

b. Role of God.

c. Role of church.

3. Jesus as Lord.

from Condensed sermon outline (handout) by Rev. David Holwick · Serm90u.doc (but In Pc-outline Format) via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database obediencechurch

How Does Holiness Come?

John 15:5

Does holiness come by striving after it or by resting in God?

1. The Mystery of Sanctification.

No Christian who treats the Word of God with casual indifference or

approaches it only sporadically and haphazardly will progress much in

holiness.

2. Renewing Our Minds.

3. Watching Against Temptation.

4. Choosing Obedience.

5. Praying for Holiness.

6. Final Dependence.

Always Glad - When We Are Not Divided

Mark 10:29

Experiencing God's joy requires our obedience.

Quote by 17th-century mystic, Francois Fenelon:

"Those who are God's are always glad,

when they are not divided,

Because they only want what God wants,

and want to do for him all that he wishes.

Peace of conscience, liberty of heart, ... freedom from

the fears and lusts of the times,

Multiply a hundredfold the happiness which the true

children of God possess...

... if they are faithful."

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Article: "I've Finally Got It Together ... Why Don't You?"

from Discipleship Journal · Francois Fenelon, "Spiritual Disciplines" via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database obedience

Obeying Dear Old Dad (Authority and Obedience)

Father's Day sermon on authority of a father.

1. Society downgrades authority of father.

2. Bible says children should obey fathers.

a. Why they should submit.

b. How they should submit.

3. Fathers should be worthy of authority.

a. Families need a strong leader.

b. Discipline is necessary.

4. Fathers model God.

5. The limits of authority.

a. Only God deserves ultimate trust.

Have You Obeyed the Truth?

John 8:32

Tract passed out at Billy Graham crusade by fundamentalist group. They believe genuine Christians must produce works of righteousness to be saved.

Tract begins by showing how Christianity is true and other faiths are wrong. To be a Christian we must obey the truths of the gospel. There are four steps to salvation:

1. Have faith.

2. Repent of your sins.

3. Confess with your mouth.

4. Be baptized to wash away your sins.

In the Bible, converts are never asked to pray to receive forgiveness of sins. When the crowd at Pentecost asked what to do to be saved, Peter didn't tell them to pray a "sinner's prayer" but to repent and be baptized. Only believers can pray for forgiveness of sins, not seekers.

Water baptism is a condition of salvation. Remission of sins always follows baptism, it doesn't precede it. Mark 16:16 shows the proper sequence. Baptism is not a public testimony to the world that you are saved.

Paul's conversion was not on Damascus road where he called on the name of the Lord, but in the city three days later when he was baptized (Acts 22:16). His sins were not washed away until he was baptized. Baptism is the only way to have the death of Jesus applied to you.

Care For Her As Christ Does the Church

Ephesians 5:25

1,400 years ago the great Christian preacher named Chrysostom (golden mouth) made this comment on Ephesians 5:25-33:

“Have you seen the measure of obedience? Hear also the message of love. Do you want your wife to obey you as the Church does Christ? Then care for her as Christ does the Church. And if it becomes necessary that you should give your life for her, or to be cut to pieces a thousand times, or endure anything whatever, don't refuse it... Christ brought the Church to his feet by his great care, not by threats or fear or anything else; so should you conduct yourselves toward your wife.”

from Old sermon by Rev. David Holwick · St. Chrysostom via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database obediencemarriage

Holiness In the Old Testament

A major theme of Leviticus and the entire OT is "holiness."

• "Holy" is what is set apart for God in a special way.

• "Common" is what is ordinary. It is the converse of what is holy.

If something is not holy, then it is common.

Common is divided into clean and unclean.

• "Clean" objects can become holy when they are sanctified.

• "Unclean" objects cannot be sanctified.

HOLY COMMON

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<---- sanctify <---- <---- cleanse <----

holy clean unclean

----> profane ----> ----> pollute ---->

Cleanness is a state intermediate between holiness and uncleanness. Cleanness is the normal condition of most things and persons. The basic meaning of cleanness is purity, but the broader concept approximates our notion of normality. Uncleanness is contagious and incompatible with holiness. Some is permanent (lobsters), some is temporary.

Holiness:

1. Holiness characterizes God.

2. Anyone or anything given to God becomes holy.

3. A person dedicated to the service of God is holy.

There are two aspects of sanctification, a divine act and human actions. Keeping the law is one of the most important duties to demonstrate holiness. Holiness means more than separation to divine service - it means wholeness and completeness.

The New Testament makes full use of the idea of holiness. All Christians are holy, i.e., "saints." This state of holiness must find expression in holy living. Sanctification is expressed through obedience to the standard of teaching. The imitation of God is a theme that unites the ethics of the Old and New Testaments.

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Obedience

Luke 11:28

In July 1976, Israeli commandos made a daring raid at an airport in Entebbe, Uganda, in which 103 Jewish hostages were freed. In less than fifteen minutes, the soldiers had killed all seven of the kidnappers and set the captives free.

As successful as the rescue was, however, three of the hostages were killed during the raid. As the commandos entered the terminal, they shouted in Hebrew, "Get down! Crawl!" The Jewish hostages understood and lay down on the floor, while the guerillas, who did not speak Hebrew, were left standing. Quickly the rescuers shot the upright kidnappers.

But two of the hostages hesitated - perhaps to see what was happening - and were also cut down. One young man was lying down and actually stood up when the commandos entered the airport. He, too, was shot with the bullets meant for the enemy. Had these three heeded the soldiers' command, they would have been freed with the rest of the captives.

Salvation is open to all, but we must heed Christ's command to repent and make him Lord. Otherwise, we will perish with the judgment meant for the enemy.

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God's Perspective

John 16:30

In "How Life Imitates the World Series," Dave Bosewell tells a story about Earl Weaver, former manager of the Baltimore Orioles. Sports fans will enjoy how he handled star Reggie Jackson.

Weaver had a rule that no one could steal a base unless given the steal sign. This upset Jackson because he felt he knew the pitchers and catchers well enough to judge who he could and could not steal off of. So one game he decided to steal without a sign. He got a good jump off the pitcher and easily beat the throw to second base. As he shook the dirt off his uniform, Jackson smiled with delight, feeling he had vindicated his judgment to his manager.

Later Weaver took Jackson aside and explained why he hadn't given the steal sign. First, the next batter was Lee May, his best power hitter other than Jackson. When Jackson stole second, first base was left open, so the other team walked May intentionally, taking the bat out of his hands.

Second, the following batter hadn't been strong against that pitcher, so Weaver felt he had to send up a pinch hitter to try to drive in the men on base. That left Weaver without bench strength later in the game when he needed it.

The problem was, Jackson saw only his relationship to the pitcher and catcher. Weaver was watching the whole game.

We, too, see only so far, but God sees the bigger picture. When he sends us a signal, it's wise to obey, no matter what we may think we know.

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Father's Day

A grown man awaiting surgery in the hospital was talking with his father. "Dad" he said, "I sure hope I can be home for Father's Day. I felt awful years ago when I was 10, because I never gave you a gift that year."

The father replied, "Mark, I remember that Saturday before Father's Day. I saw you in the store. I watched you pick up the cigars and stuffed them in your pocket. I knew you had no money, and I was sad because I thought you were going to run out of the store without paying. But as soon as you hid the cigars, you pulled them out and put them back.

"When you stayed out playing all the next day because you had no present, you probably thought I was hurt. You're wrong. When you put the cigars back and decided not to break the law, Mark, you gave me the best present I ever received."

Fatigue

Luke 11:28

In the eleventh century, King Henry III of Bavaria grew tired of court life and the pressures of being a monarch. He made application to Prior Richard at a local monastery, asking to be accepted as a contemplative and spend the rest of his life in the monastery.

“Your Majesty,” said Prior Richard, “do you understand that the pledge here is one of obedience? That will be hard because you have been a king.”

“I understand,” said Henry. “The rest of my life I will be obedient to you, as Christ leads you.”

When King Henry died, a statement was written: “The king learned to rule by being obedient.”

When we tire of our roles and responsibilities, it helps to remember God has planted us in a certain place and told us to be a good accountant or teacher or mother or father. Christ expects us to be faithful where he puts us, and when he returns, we’ll rule together with him.

Honor -My- Parents?

John 8:49

Parents don't always deserve honor, but when we give it to them anyway we obey God and reap benefits.

I. Honor is the highest form of love.

A. Attach value to them and treat them like valuable treasures.

B. The only way to achieve real freedom from the effects of a

dishonoring parent is to honor that person.

II. The high price of dishonor.

A. Every time we dishonor our father, we lower our own sense of

self-worth.

B. Rejecting our parents robs us emotionally, but also physically.

C. We rob ourselves of an intimate relationship with God.

III. The way to honor.

A. We honor our parents when we listen carefully to their counsel.

1) Not "obedience no matter what."

B. We honor our parents when we praise them. Prov 20:20

C. When honoring our parents, we must still maintain healthy

boundaries.

IV. Finding freedom in honor.

A. When we choose to bestwon honor, even when it isn't deserved,

we liberate ourselves.

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The Heart of Obedience

Luke 17:12

Is obedience what pleases God most? In the account of the ten lepers, nine of them obediently followed obeyed Jesus' command to go to the priest yet they were not commended by Jesus. The one who came back to express gratitude was the one commended.

True obedience is a response of gratitude toward the giver of the gift. It is gratitude in action. God's obedience is obedience that acts because the follower loves God and is not deathly afraid of him. The obedience that pleases God comes from the followers who know whom they love.

Natural Born Sinners, Part 2 [Part 2 of 2]

Luke 9:51

Continuation of article on how we evade responsibility:

8. AMUSING OURSELVES TO DEATH.

If we had no other barometer of American interest in amusement, we could

measure it by the salaries of professional athletes and other entertainers.

By this barometer, we value amusement more than good law, medicine,

government, ministry, education, architecture, or scientific research. For

these are all salary- or fee-compensated professions in which, very often, the

financial rewards pale by comparison with those for baseball players, rock

singers, and talk-show hosts. In a capitalist culture, money is how you keep

score, and in the professions, such as medicine and football, salaries and

fees separate the winners from the also-rans. Thus, the orthopedic surgeon

who examines the anterior cruciate ligament of a bench-sitting guard for a

professional basketball team is looking, and likely looking up, at his

cultural superior.

And, of course, jocks and clowns are important people. We need them and what

they do. Who doesn't need and relish amusement now and then? Who doesn't

need a partly playful attitude toward her own work? Isn't it the sin of

pride that turns so much of human life gray with earnestness? Isn't grace,

not achievement, the light of the gospel and the center of the Reformation?

Still, the value we place on entertainment suggests that it has become a

diversion not only in the sense of a playful relief from the main business of

life, but also in the sense of a distraction from it, an evasion of it, a

sometimes grim, big-business alternative to it.

When people begin to focus their lives more on amusement than on doing their

work well, raising their children securely, gaining an education, and helping

those in need, they begin to evade responsibility. The problem is that the

evasions are lots of fun and therefore very tempting to all of us. It takes

strength to resist them. When we fail, when a whole society fails to resist,

life turns around in such a way that consumerism and the hunger for unreality

converge and the spending of one's leisure becomes one's occupation. Being a

deft and knowing consumer of clothes (ones that make a statement), films,

sports events, pro wrestling, concerts, tapes, compact disks, and video

games-and especially of the entertainment products in which these things

combine-becomes a main goal of one's life and a measure of its success.

Even Christian worship has been affected by the national obsession with

amusement, perhaps in part because worshipers watch a lot of television and

some of them watch a lot of televised worship. But worship does not fit the

television medium very well, just as the music of a string quartet does not

fit well into the warm-up events of Saturday night auto races. The reason,

as Neil Postman observes, is that we cannot consecrate the space in which we

experience TV religion -- it is the same room and the same screen we

associate with sitcoms, hockey games, and cartoons. Moreover, we are able,

and we know we are able, to change channels on anything, including a prayer

that lacks pizzazz. Everything about our experience of TV tells us that it

is an entertainment medium; everything about our experience of TV religion

tells us that its producers know this at least as well as we do. After

watching many hours of Robert Schuller, Oral Roberts, Jimmy Swaggart, and

others, Neil Postman reports what every sober viewer can see with her own

eyes. On TV, "everything that makes religion an historic, profound and

sacred human activity is stripped away; there is no ritual, no dogma, no

tradition, no theology, and, above all, no sense of spiritual transcendence.

On these shows, the preacher is tops. God comes out as second banana."

These developments remind us that corruptions of true religion generally

proceed in the same direction as corruptions of the general culture, and that

our contemporary religion, to borrow some words from John Henry Newman, would

therefore benefit from becoming "vastly more superstitious, more bigoted,

more gloomy, more fierce" -- not because these qualities are desirable, but

because they would serve as an antidote to our superficial cheeriness,

because they would shorten the grins on the happy faces of show-biz religion.

DERELICTS

At the heart of all such evasive maneuvers lies a more fundamental evasion,

or perhaps two others. The sinner who abandons his children, or who goes on

permanent safari within his own psyche, or who shuffles back to bed instead

of helping someone who is being stabbed in the street has turned his back not

only on his neighbor, but also on God, and even, in some way, on himself. By

refusing his calling he extracts his own core, hollowing himself out to a

shell of a human being, without weight or substance.

How so? Our neighbor is God's child just as we are: to sell a neighbor short

is therefore to sell God short and to fail a brother or sister. We ourselves

are God's children: to fail God and our brothers and sisters is to shrink our

own role in the great drama of redemption and to cut some of the lines that

attach us to its center. The gospel, after all, is a portrait of the courage

of Jesus Christ -- the one who "set his face like flint" to go to Jerusalem

and meet its terrors, the one who gathered himself to undertake there the one

piece of work that was harder than the creation of the world.

The gifts of God -- vitality, love, forgiveness, courage against evil, joy at

our depths, and everything else that flows from the terrible work of Christ --

may be found only in the company of God. And we keep company with God only

by adopting God's purposes as our own and following through on them even when

it is initially difficult or painful to do so. To place ourselves in range

of God's choicest gifts, we have to walk with God, work with God, lean on

God, cling to God, come to have the sense and feel of God, refer all things

to God. Contrary to our self-interested impulses, we have to worship God

with a disciplined spirit and an expectant heart.

Despite certain modern assumptions, life with God isn't mainly a matter of

knuckling under to our superior, the image that modernity so much detests.

We do have to trust and obey, not first of all to be "happy in Jesus," but

rather to rise to the full stature of sons and daughters, to mature into the

image of God, to grow into adult roles in the business of redeeming the

world. God wants from us not numb obedience but devoted freedom, creativity,

and energy. God wants not slaves but intelligent, grownup children who show

enthusiasm for the family business.

In short, we are to become responsible beings: ones to whom God may entrust

deep and worthy assignments, expecting us to respond by making something

significant of them -- expecting us to make something significant of our

lives themselves. No one of our lives is an accident. None of us simply

finds herself here in the world. We have been called into existence,

expected, awaited, equipped, and assigned. We have been called to undertake

the stewardship of a good creation, to create sturdy and buoyant families

that pulse with the glad give-and-take of the generations. We are expected

to show hospitality to strangers and to express gratitude to friends and

teachers. We have been assigned to seek justice for our neighbors and,

wherever we can, to relieve them from the tyranny of their suffering. Some

of us have been called, in imitation of Christ, to bear unusual suffering of

our own.

But we have also been called, and graced, to delight in our lives, to feel

their irony and angularity, to make something sturdy and even lovely of them.

For such undertakings, we have to find emotional and spiritual funds from the

very God who assigns them, turning our faces toward God's light so that we

may be drawn to it, warmed by it, bathed in it, revitalized by it. Then we

have to find our role within God's big project, the one that stretches across

the border from this life into the next. To be a responsible person is to

find one's role in the building of shalom -- the rewebbing of God, humanity,

and all creation in justice, harmony, fulfillment, and delight. To be a

responsible person is to find one's own role and then, funded by the grace of

God, to fill this role and to delight in it.

The alternative is more hopeless than we ever imagined on the rainiest Monday

morning of our lives. For when we flee responsibility, we turn our backs on

God's presence and blessing, we walk out on the one work project that will

outlast every recession, and we begin the slow process of converting

ourselves into derelicts. We "hate the light and do not come to the light."

Instead, we gather all we have and make our way toward a far country, toward

the outer darkness, toward a place of self-deprivation, a place of our own

making.

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Cornelius Plantinga, Jr., is professor of systematic theology at Calvin

Theological Seminary in Grand Rapids, Michigan, and the author of "Assurances

of the Heart" (Zondervan). This article is adapted from the preface and

concluding chapter of "Not the Way It's Supposed to Be: A Breviary of Sin," to

be published next month by Eerdmans.

Copyright (c) 1994 Christianity Today, Inc./CHRISTIANITY TODAY Magazine

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Your Baby Has Bents!

Susannah Wesley (1669-1742) was a London pastor's wife and the mother of nineteen children, including hymn writer Charles Wesley and John Wesley, evangelist and founder of Methodism. In his journal, John Wesley recorded his mother's rules for the family [paraphrased]:

1. Fear of punishment often leads children into lying, till they get

accustomed to it and cannot stop. To prevent this, my mother made a rule

that whenever someone did something wrong, if they would sincerely

confess it, and promise to change their behavior, they would not be

punished.

2. No sinful action, such as lying, stealing, playing in church, being

disobedient, fighting, etc., would ever go unpunished.

3. No child should be punished twice for the same error, and if they change

their behavior the error should never be mentioned again.

4. Every act of obedience, especially when it went against their nature,

should always be complimented, and frequently rewarded.

5. If any child was obedient or tried to please the parents, even if it

wasn't done that well, the obedience was kindly accepted and the child

encouraged to do even better in the future.

6. The property of the children would be respected, even the smallest object,

and not taken away from them unless they agreed.

7. Promises should be strictly kept. Once a gift is given it could not be

taken back, unless it was a conditional gift and the agreement it was

based on was violated.

From "The Heart of John Wesley's Journal"

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Below is a version found on the Internet, May 27, 1998:

Over 200 years ago a lady named Suzanna Wesley reared 19 children. She was devoted to the task and had 16 rules. They are as follows:

(1) Eating between meals not allowed.

(2) As children, they are to be in bed by 8 PM.

(3) They are required to take medicine without complaining.

(4) Subdued self-will in a child working together with God to save the

child's Soul.

(5) Teach a child to pray as soon as he can speak.

(6) Require all to be still during Family Worship.

(7) Give them nothing they cry for, and only that which they ask for

politely.

(8) To prevent lying, punish no fault which is first confessed and repented.

(9) Never allow a sinful at to go unpunished.

(10) Never punish a child twice for a single offense.

(11) Commend and reward good behavior.

(12) Any attempt to please, even if poorly performed should be commended

(13) Preserve property rights, even in smallest matters.

(14) Strictly observe all promises.

(15) Require no daughter to work before she can read well.

(16) Teach children to fear the Lord.

Standing On the Promises Without Losing Your Footing

Mark 6:5

How concretely can we trust God?

I. God's promises can be problematic.

A. What he seems to promise doesn't always come true.

B. Despite his promises of protection, Christians still get hurt.

II. The nature of the promises.

A. Requirements of promises.

1) Some are conditional upon our obedience.

2) All require our faith.

B. General promises. John 3:16; Phil 4:19

1) For many people, of all times.

C. Specific promises.

1) To certain individuals, for unique situation, at a given time.

2) The Holy Spirit impresses them on our hearts.

a) Claim them carefully.

1> Don't read your own wishes into them.

b) Read them rightly.

1> Look at the context.

2> Don't be purely subjective.

3) Daniel's example.

a) He comes across God's promise through Jeremiah.

b) He prays about it.

1> Opens with confession.

2> Reviews with God the situation they are in.

3> Reminds the Lord of his character.

c) He makes his request based on what God has promised.

1> He requests, but does not demand.

III. Unfulfilled promises.

A. Obedience on our part is required.

B. Undermined by unbelief. Mark 6:5-6

C. Our lack of patience.

1) We need the proper heart attitude for claiming the promises.

IV. The nature of the Promiser.

A. When God says "no" He has a reason.

1) The prayer of Gethsemane received a "no" answer.

a) Not because Jesus was sinful or request invalid.

2) He let his Son die on the cross for a higher goal.

B. We must submit to a higher will than our own when we pray. Mk 14:36

1) "God's will is what you would choose if you knew everything

He knows."

V. Standing on the promises. Psalm 119:140

A. God's promises demonstrate his goodness and faithfulness.

1) They also glorify himself.

B. Whether God grants them or not, our deep confidence is that his

perfect will, founded in his love for us, is working

itself out.

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Everyday Ways To Build Your Faith

2 Timothy contains everyday ways to build your faith.

1. Seek faith-inspiring models. 2 Tim 1:5

2. Immerse yourself in the Bible. 2 Tim 3:15

3. Remember God's past faithfulness. 2 Tim 2:8

4. Stretch beyond your comfort zone. 1 Tim 4:12, 2 Tim 1:7, 1 Cor 16:10f

5. Cultivate a lifestyle of obedience. 2 Tim 3:1-9

6. Grow continually. 2 Tim 3:14

Faith Under Fire

John 7:5

The prophet Jeremiah learned to surrender to God even when His plans seemed to lead repeatedly to disaster.

1. He surrendered his future.

a. His very purpose in life was put on the line.

b. His first lesson in faith was to receive God's plans without fear.

c. His calling will not be an easy one.

2. He surrendered his family.

3. He surrendered his reputation.

a. He faced ridicule.

4. He surrendered his life.

a. He is beaten and imprisoned.

5. He surrendered his hope.

a. The destruction of Israel was his greatest test.

b. Yet he emphasized God's promises.

c. He never lived to see the restoration of the nation.

Jeremiah stands as a model of faith.

1. He had a certainty of purpose.

2. He knew God's promises, believed them, and asked God to fulfill them.

3. Jeremiah understood obedience.

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The Fox Who Had Lost His Tail

A FOX caught in a trap escaped, but in so doing lost his tail.

Thereafter, feeling his life a burden from the shame and ridicule to

which he was exposed, he schemed to convince all the other Foxes that

being tailless was much more attractive, thus making up for his own

deprivation. He assembled a good many Foxes and publicly advised them

to cut off their tails, saying that they would not only look much

better without them, but that they would get rid of the weight of the

brush, which was a very great inconvenience. One of them interrupting

him said, "If you had not yourself lost your tail, my friend, you

would not thus counsel us."

Satan too lost his "tail" when he rebelled against God. Now, he is

advising the human race to get rid of their reliance upon God since

they will be so much happier. Unfortunately, too many souls listen to

Satan without realizing that they are losing their opportunity to

enjoy eternal life. Don't let this happen to you.

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Too Busy To Obey

When you cling to your own agenda, you can miss God's gentle nudges.

Jesus lived the antithesis of what we are taught about programs, plans, priorities, and schedules.

God tailors unique opportunities for each of us to obey His word, to love Him, and to love others.

1. Ignoring God.

2. If I could Just Manage My Time.

3. Beyond Programs.

4. Growing in Obedience

a. Practice listening.

b. Be honest.

c. Be willing to be weird.

5. One moment at a Time.

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Where Are You?

"One of the oldest human needs is having someone wonder where you are when you don't come home at night."

Margaret Mead (1901 - 1978)

Anthropologist

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"You know your children are growing up when they stop asking you where they came from and refuse to tell you where they're going."

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Necessity of it

Suppose you looked out your window and saw a tornado coming for your house. T.V. is telling everyone in your area to go to basement, go to west wall, get under heavy object. Would you reason: "A tornado hit my parent's home years ago; they didn't go to the basement and they're o.k. I'm not going either!" Or, "My neighbors don't even have a basement and they're good people. If they can't go then I'm not going to either." NO! Go to basement--go to west wall--get under object and then, if there's enough room, you might let your

wife and children under!

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