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Christian preaching on priorities emphasizes ordering one's life according to God's will, valuing eternal truths over fleeting concerns. Illustrations often contrast worthy spiritual aims with trivial or worldly distractions, urging believers to seek first the kingdom of God (Matthew 6:33) and to set their minds on things above (Colossians 3:2).

The Christian's Choice

There's much truth in saying that every man is the architect of his own fate. Your choices affect your destiny. Out of a rough block of stone one man may make a beautiful statue, another, gravel. Both products are good and useful under certain conditions. But a statue can be immoral in conception, and gravel can be the grudging and punitive work of a criminal condemned to a rockpile. The point is, whether you are a gifted artist or a competent gravel maker, you can choose whether to use your abilities worthily or unworthily. In building a Christian life you have the same choice.

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The Story of A Fool

One day there was a little task

God wanted me to do.

I said, "Lord, You'll have to wait,

I've got no time for You.

I have this little child to raise

And prices are so high;

Besides we've found a house and lot

We thought we'd like to buy."

So I took on some extra work,

No church-I was too tired.

But I got up on Monday morning,

I had to-or get fired!

And so I went along for years

With never a thought of God;

Until one day my little child

Was laid beneath the sod.

The lovely home we'd bought for her

Seemed empty now-so bare.

In anguish then I turned to God

And cried, "It isn't fair.

That you should take my little one

And cause my wife these tears;

When we have been so happy here

These few, short, busy years."

'Twas then I heard the voice of God

Come ringing in my ear-"I called upon you once but then

My cry you would not hear.

Now in your grief you cry for Me,

'Why must this sad thing be?'

Your little child became your god,

She took the place of Me."

Oh my dear friend, find time for God

In everything you do

If not, you'll find that one day He

Shall have no time for you!

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A Christian First

The mother watched as her four-year-old daughter played while taking her bath. The little girl sang songs that she had heard and the mother was fascinated by her ability to remember the words and the tunes of the songs. As she watched and listened to her daughter she began to think to herself, "I wonder what she will be when she grows up?" And as most of us as proud parents would do, she began to think about all the things that she could be. "She could be a singer, an actress, a teacher...." After thinking about all the marvelous things her daughter might grow up to be she decided to ask her daughter what she wanted to be when she grew up. The little girl's response was, "A Christian first." The young mother said she was deeply humbled by the child's response. While she had been thinking in terms of a career, the little girl pointed out that first she wanted to be a Christian.

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PRIORITIES

(FAMILY)

Dear Heavenly Father, can you forgive me for hurting my children?

I came from a poor background so I thought that a big house would make my children feel important. I didn't realize that all it takes is my love.

I thought money would bring them happiness, but all it did was make them think that things were more important than people.

I thought spanking them would make them tough so that they could defend themselves. All it did was stop me from seeking wisdom so that I could discipline and teach them.

I thought that leaving them alone would make them independent. All it did was force my one son to be the father to my second son.

I thought that by smoothing over all of the family problems I was keeping peace. All I was teaching them was to run rather than lead.

I thought that by pretending to be the perfect family in public that I was bringing them respectability. All I was teaching them was to live a lie and keep the secret.

I thought that all I had to do to be a father was make money, stay at home and supply all their material needs. All I taught them was that there is more to being a dad. The problem is they will have to guess what being a dad really is.

And Dear God,

I hope you can read this prayer. My tears have smudged a lot of words.

Stories From The Heart

Alice Gray, Multnomah, p. 172.

The Years of Our Lives

Someone has figured that in the average life span of 70 years, we will spend our time this way:

Eight years in amusements

Six years at the dinner table

Five years in transportation

Four years in conversation

Three years sick or convalescing

Less than one year for God-that is if a person attends a 90-minute service every Sunday and prays every day for 10 minutes.

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Quips

Attitude

Cheerful people resist disease better than glum ones. In other words, the surly bird catches the germ.

-Hope Health Letter (4/96)

Authenticity

In Becoming a Contagious Christian, Bill Hybels and Mark Mittelberg tell this story:

A newly promoted colonel had moved into a makeshift office during the Gulf War. He was just getting unpacked when out of the corner of his eye, he noticed a private with a toolbox coming his way.

Wanting to seem important, he grabbed the phone: "Yes, General Schwarzkopf. Of course, I think that's an excellent plan." He continued: "You've got my support on it. Thanks for checking with me. Let's touch base again soon, Norm. Goodbye."

"And what can I do for you?" he asked the private.

"Uhhh, I'm just here to hook up your phone."

-Ron Willoughby

Augusta, Georgia

Marriage

A young bride complained to her friend, "My husband and I are getting along together fairly well, but he simply can't bear children."

"Oh well," a friend consoled her. "You can't expect men to do everything."

Men

In 1492, Columbus set out for the Orient and ended up in the Caribbean, thus setting a pattern that has continued for more than 500 years: Men still won't stop and ask for directions.

Patience

"Great message on patience, Pastor. I loved the way you illustrated by telling those kids to sit down and shut up."

Priorities

A woman bought a parrot to keep her company but returned it the next day. "This bird doesn't talk," she told the owner.

"Does he have a mirror in his cage?" he asked. "Parrots love mirrors. They see their reflection and start a conversation." The woman bought a mirror and left.

The next day she returned; the bird still wasn't talking. "How about a ladder? Parrots love ladders. A happy parrot is a talkative parrot." The woman bought a ladder and left.

But the next day, she was back. "Does your parrot have a swing? No? Well, that's the problem. Once he starts swinging, he'll talk up a storm." The woman reluctantly bought a swing and left.

When she walked into the store the next day, her countenance had changed. "The parrot died," she said. The pet store owner was shocked.

"I'm so sorry. Tell me, did he ever say a word?" he asked.

"Yes, right before he died," the woman replied. "In a weak voice, he asked me, 'Don't they sell any food at that pet store?'"

Sometimes people forget the main thing.

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Copyright(c) 1996 by Christianity Today, Inc/LEADERSHIP, journal.

Fall 1996, Vol. XVII, No. 4, Page 75

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A Family System That Works

Luke 9:59

A fully loaded mini van pulled into a campsite; four children leaped from the vehicle and began feverishly unloading gear and setting up the tent. The boys rushed to gather firewood, while the girls and their mother set up the camp stove and cooking utensils. A nearby camper marveled to the youngsters' father, "That, sir, is some display of teamwork."

The proud father responded, "I have a system!"

"Oh, really! What is it? I'd like to know."

"It's simple, no one goes to the bathroom till our camp is set up!"

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The Divine Art of Soul Winning

Mark 12:31

A passion for souls is rare among church members today. The great mass of Christian people feel not the slightest responsibility for the souls of their fellow men. It never so much as dawns on them that they are their brother’s keeper. If they can manage to save their own souls, that is the end of their concern. The reasons for this apathy are not far to seek.

I. ABSENCE OF CONVICTION THAT EVERY IMPENITENT SOUL IS UTTERLY LOST

There may be a willingness to subscribe to the orthodox creed concerning future punishment, but there is a world of difference between a creedal belief and a working faith.

Judge Mingins had been an infidel in his youth, and had lived with his infidel companions in Philadelphia. Some time after his conversion he was visiting one of them, who said: "George, I hear you are a Christian now. Is that so?"

"Yes," said Mr. Mingins.

"George, do you believe in God?"

"Yes."

"And do you believe in Hell, and that all who do not believe in God and in Jesus Christ will ultimately go to Hell?"

"I do, most certainly."

"Well, George," said he, "does Christianity dry up all the milk of humanity in one’s body as it has in yours?"

"Why," said Mr. Mingins, "what do you mean?"

"I mean this," he replied, "that here you have been living under my roof for three days and three nights, knowing and believing all this, and yet you never put your hand on my shoulder, or said one word to save me." How many of my readers are in the boat with Judge Mingins?

The case was put even more strongly by a gifted and noted infidel, who said: "Were I a religionist [i.e. a Christian], did I truly, firmly, consistently believe, as millions SAY they do, that the knowledge and the practice of religion in this life influences destiny in another, religion should be to me EVERYTHING. I would cast aside earthly enjoyments as dross, earthly cares as follies, and earthly thoughts and feelings as less than vanity. Religion would be my first waking thought and my last image when sleep sank me in unconsciousness. I would labor in her cause alone. I would not labor for the meat that perisheth, nor for treasures on earth, but only for a crown of glory in heavenly regions where treasures and happiness are alike beyond the reach of time and chance. I would take thought for the morrow of eternity alone. I WOULD ESTEEM ONE SOUL GAINED FOR HEAVEN WORTH A LIFE OF SUFFERING. There should be neither worldly prudence nor calculating circumspection in my engrossing zeal. Earthly consequences should never stay my hand nor seal my lips. I would speak to the imagination, awaken the feelings, stir up the passions, arouse the fancy. Earth, its joys and its grief, should occupy no moment of my thoughts; for these are but the affairs of a portion of eternity-so small that no language can express its comparatively infinite littleness.

"I would strive to look but on eternity and on the immortal souls around me, soon to be everlastingly miserable or everlastingly happy. I would deem all who thought only of this world, merely seeking to increase temporal happiness and laboring to obtain temporal goods-I would deem all such pure madmen. I would go forth to the world and preach to it, in season and out of season; and my text should be: ‘What shall it profit a man if he gain the whole world and lose his own soul.’"

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The Law of Small Potatoes

Galatians 6:7

Many years ago, Chinese farmers theorized that they could eat their big potatoes and keep the small potatoes for seed. Consequently, they ate the big potatoes and planted the small potatoes. As a result of this practice for many years, the Chinese farmers made the startling discovery: nature had reduced all their potatoes to the size of marbles.

A new understanding of the law of life came to these farmers. They learned through bitter experience that they could not have the best things of life for themselves and use the leftovers for seed. The law of life decreed that the harvest would reflect the planting.

In another sense, planting small potatoes is still a common practice.

We take the big things of life for ourselves and plant the leftovers.

We expect that by some crazy twist of spiritual laws, our selfishness will be rewarded with unselfishness. But we cannot eat the big potatoes and have them, too!

What size potatoes have you been planting spiritually? "Be not deceived; God is not mocked; for whatever a man sows, that shall he also reap" (Galatians 6:7).

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Jesus' Priorities - God's Priorities

As I flew Continental Airlines from Seattle to Orlando for a Conference, couldn’t forget that some years ago Continental was on the verge of bankruptcy and was in danger of folding.

As this thought came to me, I was handed a soft drink by the stewardess with a napkin. The napkin was very plain, and it said “Our priorities are simple – They’re yours.” This attitude is what kept Continental Airlines in business. Can we say that to our God?

The Lord gives visions to His people to accomplish His priorities through us. As I began thinking about how Joseph (a man of dreams and visions) was sold into slavery by his brothers, I wondered “What was Joseph’s trademark?” I needed to look no farther than that Continental napkin again: “Work Hard. Fly Right.” Joseph became a walking testimony – glorifying God in what he did, and in morality.

To receive the fullest blessings of God it’s simple; His priorities must be ours – and we must be diligent in obedience to be holy for He is holy.

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Throwing Heat and Fighting Fear

The reporters who cluster around John Smoltz's locker following a game ask whether he'll break the National League record for saves (53) or the Major League mark (57). Smoltz is close -- as of Sept. 15 he had retired the last opposing batter in a close contest 51 times. But what he really likes talking about is saving kids -- and the faith that impels Smoltz in his school-creating work has also made him a better pitcher.

Smoltz is serious enough to talk about Christian education for close to an hour while some of his teammates are playing cards and tossing towels into laundry bins, but intellectually playful enough to discuss evangelistic gambits.

"How's this for an icebreaker question?" he asked. "How many days in a row have you been happy?" Smoltz has been happy recently, and not only because he is pitching well. His happiest day last year, he said, did not come when he recovered from arm surgery and became the Braves' closer, but "when I walked in and saw our school opening. I almost broke down ... through Christ, we had overcome so much."

"Our school" is King's Ridge Christian School, which recently began its second year in Atlanta's northern suburbs largely because of Smoltz, according to headmaster Barbara Adler. "John was the inspiration, the catalyst," she said. "He said, 'We're going to start it, we can do it, we're going to do it.'" Unable to pitch in 2000 and during most of the 2001 season, Smoltz -- 35 years old and the father of four children between the ages of 2 and 10 -- poured himself into the project. "Building a school takes an incredible amount of time," he said. "In one sense, I'd rather have another surgery on my arm than go through all this again."

Hiring teachers, developing curriculum, enrolling students -- 300 this year -- and finding a place to meet ... all very hard but "very rewarding," according to Smoltz. The effort is vital, he said, because American society is in trouble and it's vital to "prepare kids for battles in life. ... Kids need the ability to differentiate between evolution and Christian understanding. ... They need the weapons to defend Christianity, to be able to understand and debate the differences between religions, to know what's happening in the world and how to compete."

Smoltz also spoke about his own education, starting with learning religious ritual and good principles of conduct in Michigan, but never having "a personal relationship with Christ" or a sense that God, a heavenly Father who cared for his children, was in charge of all that happened. Early in the 1990s, Smoltz felt guilty whenever he did anything wrong, and he worried that fans and writers who put him on a pedestal would soon knock him off it. In 1996, though, he came to "live without fear" as he came to understand that "whether I win or lose, God loves me just the same."

Smoltz pitched wonderfully in 1996, winning the Cy Young Award as the National League's best pitcher after posting a 24-8 record and a 2.94 earned run average. But arm trouble followed in the next several years: "God started stripping me of my control. My arm went. ... A lot of people have faith in the process until the process fails us. That's what I faced."

He recalled: "Baseball was God to me. It's God to most of the people here," he said, gesturing around the Braves' locker room and speaking intensely. But Smoltz's arm surgery, which left him unable to pitch but with time to start a Christian school, was "the greatest challenge and the greatest blessing. ... I realized I don't need baseball. I've gained total confidence that God is in control. No more fear."

Paradoxically but reasonably, Smoltz's new non-attachment to baseball success made him more successful. He explained that his new understanding "doesn't mean I won't put all my effort into the pitch -- God wants us to compete, hard. But being a baseball player is not who I am, it's a product of who I am, so I don't have to worry about losing my identity. Without fear of losing, I can concentrate all my attention on the moment. ... I've gained total confidence that God is in control. No more fear."

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Marvin Olasky is Editor of WORLD magazine

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The Important Ones Are Eternal

There are three huge gates that lead into the Cathedral of Milan. Over one gate there is an inscription in marble under a beautiful flower bouquet that says, "The things that please are temporary." Over the second gate, there is a cross with this inscription: "The things that disturb us are temporary." Over the central gate, there is a big inscription saying, "Eternal are the important ones."

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Follow Me-Now!

Luke 9:61

"And another also said, 'Lord, I will follow Thee; but let me first go bid them farewell which are at home at my house.'And Jesus said to him, 'No man, having put his hand to the plough, and looking back, is fit for the kingdom of God'" (Luke 9:61-62).

1. "I will follow You, Lord, but first let me see if my parents approve."

2. "I will follow You, Lord, but first let me go to a few more parties. And as soon as I get that out of my system, I will settle down."

3. "I will follow You, Lord, but first let me get married. As soon as I establish a home, I will follow you."

4. "We will follow You, Lord, but first let us raise our children.

They are so small now, and it is difficult to carry them along while following You."

5. "We will follow You, Lord, but first let us get our children through high school. We have to work six days a week to pay the bills, and the children are so busy with school activities that there just is not time to follow You."

6. "I would like to follow You now, Lord, but I must first see if my husband will come, too. I do not want to follow You alone."

7. "I will follow You, Lord, but first let me retire. Then I will have time to follow you."

8 "I would like to follow You, Lord, but it is too late now. I have not done it all these years, and You cannot teach an old dog new tricks."

Death comes at last, and the day of salvation is over. One is separated from God eternally because one put off following Christ until it was too late.

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Too Busy

Too busy to read the Bible, too busy to wait and pray

Too busy to speak out kindly to someone by the way!

Too busy to care and struggle, to think of the life to come.

Too busy building mansions, to plan for the heavenly home.

Too busy to help a brother who faces the winter blast.

Too busy to share his burden, when self in the balance is cast.

Too busy for all that is holy on earth beneath the sky;

Too busy to serve the Master, but not too busy to die.

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Is This Really Important?

One night a policeman heard loud noises coming from a phone booth on the corner. He found a man taking the phone apart! He had bought hammers, screwdrivers, mallets and can openers at a nearby store. He had spent two hours and thirty dollars. When they brought him before a judge the man explained, “I was trying to get my dime back.” Now, was it really worth it? [You should update this to "get my fifty cents back"]

In living, in making choices, in establishing priorities, there's one question we should ask over and over again: “Is this really important?”

Before we react or over-react, we should ask: “Will this be significant 100 years from now?” Before we make decisions we should ask: “How does this rank in the overall scheme of things?” Before we make a hasty judgment, we should ask: “Would I still be this concerned if my house was burning down right now? Would I still be this concerned if my child was in an intensive care unit? Is this really important?”

Once an experienced crew of trained pilots were flying a high-powered modern jet. Things went smoothly until they discovered a light out. Each of the men began to fumble around trying to fix it. As they became so distracted trying to find and replace a seventy-five cent bulb they got off course and eventually crashed.

That's unbelievable! They forgot the most basic principle of aeronautics: “Don't forget to fly the plane.” We must keep one criteria before us: “Is this really important?”

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Some Things That Have Helped Me Through the Years

These are some things that have helped me through the years:

1. Start small. Start with your room. Clean it, then keep it clean. When something is out of place, train yourself to put it where it belongs. Then extend that discipline of neatness to the rest of your home.

2. Be on time. That may not seem very spiritual, but it's important. If you're supposed to be somewhere at a specific time, be there on time! Develop the ability to discipline your desires, activities, and demands so that you can arrive on time.

3. Do the hardest job first. Doing that will prevent the hardest jobs from being left undone.

4. Organize your life. Plan the use of your time; don't just react to circumstances. Use a calendar and make a daily list of things you need to accomplish. If you don't control your time, everything else will!

5. Accept correction. Correction helps make you more disciplined because it shows you what you need to avoid. Don't avoid criticism; accept it gladly.

6. Practice self-denial. Learn to say no to your feelings. Occasionally deny yourself things that are all right just for the purpose of mastering doing it. Cultivating discipline in the physical realm will help us become disciplined in our spiritual lives.

7. Welcome responsibility. When you have an opportunity to do something that needs to be done, volunteer for it if you have a talent in that area. Welcoming responsibility forces you to organize yourself.

-- John MacArthur, Jr.

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Steps To Find You More Time

Here are some steps to help you find more time for getting things done in your life.

1. Use a “To Do” List. Write down everything that needs to be done. This is important! Let paper remember so that you can forget. List both personal as well as professional “to do’s.” This is a good way to help you decide what’s the best use of your time at any given time. Without this list, it’s too easy to concentrate on the immediate and not focus on what really needs to be done.

2. Always use a calendar. Choose a calendar that fits your needs and start using it. Use only ONE calendar. The process will enable you to keep track of how you’re investing your time. Each day, build in some flexibility to your schedule. Things won’t always go as planned. Choose your top priorities for the day. Do those things first and don’t fall into the trap of thinking everything on your list must be done today.

3. Give yourself a break! Keep a long-range perspective of what you’re doing. This philosophy is summed up in the following statement:

A hundred years from now it will not matter what my bank account was, the sort of house I lived in, or the kind of car I drove, but the world may be different because I was important in the life of another human being.

So there you have it. Three easy steps to “creating” more time so that you can get done what really needs to be done.

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The Personal Development Module of Ziggets

It’s hard to accomplish all the things in life that we have to do, and to do any of those tasks well. If you have a job and are trying to maintain a life outside that job (which you really should do), then you know that trying to meet deadlines, see your friends, have some fun, go to the grocery store, the cleaners and all the other little things, make life difficult. If you have a family, your mate and children need the love and attention they deserve, and that you want to give them.

Whew! It’s tiring just to think about everything we need to do, and that’s why most people are really struggling with how to balance all the demands in their lives.

The first key in balancing your life is knowing where you are today. The second key is knowing where you want to be. What we’re all striving for is balance. The third key is deciding which areas of your life are priorities and focus the appropriate amount of time and energy on those areas.

Focusing your time and energy is another way of saying you are setting goals in certain areas of your life. So now it’s important to make some decisions about your priorities or goals.

In which areas of your life are you most dissatisfied? Which areas are causing you turmoil? Once you decide where to focus your energy, your chances for a balanced life improve dramatically.

Of course, you might be saying, “Hey, where am I to get the time to pursue those areas? With kids playing soccer, taking piano lessons, with my household chores and my demanding job, how am I supposed to set goals and balance my life? I’m too busy!”

Yes, balancing your life takes hard work. But the rewards are significant. In a later training session we’ll talk about how to create more time in your life. For now, focus on setting goals so you know where you need to spend time and energy!

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Value of Time

I’m trying very hard not to put off, hold back, or save anything that would add laughter and luster to our lives. And every morning when I open my eyes, I thank Jesus and tell myself that every day, every minute, every breath truly is… a gift from God.

• To realize the value of ONE MONTH, ask a mother who gave birth to a premature baby.

• To realize the value of ONE WEEK, ask the editor of a weekly newspaper.

• To realize the value of ONE HOUR, ask the lovers who are waiting to meet.

• To realize the value of ONE MINUTE, ask a person who missed the train.

• To realize the value of ONE SECOND, ask a person who just avoided an accident.

• To realize the value of ONE MILLISECOND, ask the person who won a silver medal in the Olympics.

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Thanks For Your Time

It had been some time since Jack had seen the old man. College, girls, career, and life itself got in the way. In fact, Jack moved clear across the country in pursuit of his dreams. There, in the rush of his busy life, Jack had little time to think about the past and often no time to spend with his wife and son. He was working on his future, and nothing could stop him.

Over the phone, his mother told him, “Mr. Belser died last night. The funeral is Wednesday.” Memories flashed through his mind like an old newsreel as he sat quietly remembering his childhood days.

“Jack, did you hear me?”

“Oh, sorry, Mom. Yes, I heard you. It's been so long since I thought of him. I'm sorry, but I honestly thought he died years ago,” Jack said.

“Well, he didn't forget you. Every time I saw him he'd ask how you were doing. He'd reminisce about the many days you spent over 'his side of the fence' as he put it,” Mom told him.

“I loved that old house he lived in,” Jack said.

“You know, Jack, after your father died, Mr. Belser stepped in to make sure you had a man's influence in your life,” she said.

“He's the one who taught me carpentry,” he said. “I wouldn't be in this business if it weren't for him. He spent a lot of time teaching me things he thought were important... Mom, I'll be there for the funeral,” Jack said.

As busy as he was, he kept his word. Jack caught the next flight to his hometown. Mr. Belser's funeral was small and uneventful. He had no children of his own, and most of his relatives had passed away.

The night before he had to return home, Jack and his Mom stopped by to see the old house next door one more time. Standing in the doorway, Jack paused for a moment. It was like crossing over into another dimension, a leap through space and time. The house was exactly as he remembered.

Every step held memories. Every picture, every piece of furniture... Jack stopped suddenly.

“What's wrong, Jack?” his Mom asked. “The box is gone,” he said.

“What box?“ Mom asked.

“There was a small gold box that he kept locked on top of his desk. I must have asked him a thousand times what was inside. All he'd ever tell me was 'the thing I value most,'“ Jack said.

It was gone. Everything about the house was exactly how Jack remembered it, except for the box. He figured someone from the Belser family had taken it. “Now I'll never know what was so valuable to him,” Jack said. “I better get some sleep. I have an early flight home, Mom.”

It had been about two weeks since Mr. Belser died. Returning home from work one day Jack discovered a note in his mailbox. “Signature required on a package. No one at home. Please stop by the main post office within the next three days,” the note read.

Early the next day Jack retrieved the package. The small box was old and looked like it had been mailed a hundred years ago. The handwriting was difficult to read, but the return address caught his attention. “Mr. Harold Belser” it read.

Jack took the box out to his car and ripped open the package. There inside was the gold box and an envelope. Jack's hands shook as he read the note inside.

“Upon my death, please forward this box and its contents to Jack Bennett. It's the thing I valued most in my life.”

A small key was taped to the letter. His heart racing, as tears filling his eyes, Jack carefully unlocked the box. There inside he found a beautiful gold pocket watch. Running his fingers slowly over the finely etched casing, he unlatched the cover. Inside he found these words engraved:

Jack, Thanks for your time!

Harold Belser

“The thing he valued most... was... my time.” Jack held the watch for a few minutes, then called his office and cleared his appointments for the next two days.

“Why?” Janet, his assistant asked.

“I need some time to spend with my son,” he said.

“Oh, by the way, Janet... thanks for your time!”

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Secrets of Super-achievers

Readers' Digest carried an article called “Seven Secrets of Peak Performance” by Dr. Charles Garfield. He's the head of a research institute called Peak Performance Center. They studied 1,500 outstanding achievers in all walks of life - business, athletics, education, every area of life. They were looking for common denominators.

What is it that makes the difference between a person who's a super-success and another person who tries their best but they just get mediocre results? Are there any characteristics, common denominators of peak performance people?

Yes, there are seven of them. The number one characteristic of the top achievers in the world is that they lead a well-rounded life. They're balanced.

High achievers, we often hear, are extremists. They spend all their time on one thing. Garfield says that's a misconception. High performers, in contrast, are willing to work hard but within strict limits. For them, work is not everything.

When Garfield interviewed top executives in ten major industries he found that they knew how to relax and they could leave their work at the office. They also prized close friends and family life, and they spent a healthy amount of time with their children. They were balanced.

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from Sermon by Rev. Rick Warren: Balancing Life's Demands · Rev. Rick Warren via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database priorities

Lord, Look At My Shell Collection

Job 24:1

John Piper tells a story about four people. Two of them traveled together as a medical mission team in the Cameroons. They were elderly spinster ladies. They forsook medical practice in the United States, deciding not to do the American dream and settle back in a lifestyle of affluence and comfort but instead answered God's call and went onto the mission field to care for the poor in the Cameroons. And one day recently as they were traveling in their jeep from one village to the next and they had to go through this mountain pass, their jeep went off the road and down the mountain and they plunged into eternity. They were killed. And Piper asked his congregation, “Is that a tragedy?”

And then he told the story of two other people, a man and wife who made their lifelong goal that of amassing a fortune so that they could take early retirement. And they achieved both of those goals. And at this very moment they live in Florida on the coast where they sail their yacht and they play softball and they collect shells. And Piper says, “There is the tragedy. When those two elderly ladies plunged into eternity and stood before Almighty God and had to give an account for what they did with what God gave them. What they heard Jesus say was, “Well done, good and faithful servants!”

What will that other couple say, when one day they stand before God's savage grace? Asked to give an account, what will they say? “Lord, look at my shell collection."

God save me, by Your Savage Grace. Save me because I am every day tempted to collect shells.

What's Important At Thanksgiving

Luke 10:40

I love Thanksgiving because of the time my family spends together, especially as we head for the mad rush of the holiday season this year. But it's quite different for my wife and me this year. My family is scattered all over the country and the world, and I'm not sure who will be coming or where we will be going for Thanksgiving dinner.

This reality of “who's going where for Thanksgiving” seems to be a common phenomenon in today's rapid-paced American family. Thanksgiving is one of the busiest travel times of the year. It's easy to lose perspective of what's important and what we should be thankful for when we're stuck on the interstate with the thousand other cars headed to a family member's home. And when we get there, it's not so much that you lose your gratitude but you lose your perspective on what's important as you sit down, forget about all the awful things you said to the cars around you on the road, smile, pray and eat glorious Thanksgiving food.

What's important in the fast-paced lifestyles of our families? Adding to the challenge of this question, we have war in Iraq and the Middle East, the continuing effort in Afghanistan, social unrest in Africa and even, yes, division here at home. What is most important in life amid these challenges? How can we be grateful as a family?

Some parents have sons or daughters serving in the military today. Some are experiencing “division at home” in terms of divorce, a child's rebellion or financial problems. Some are feeling the effects of “spiritual burnout” when we can't just get our spiritual lives on track. Some of us are working, working, working so that we can take the few days off, again, to get in a car or a plane to go visit family for Thanksgiving. You're tired. You're a spiritual Sahara Desert and you wonder, “What's most important in life?”

I want to remind us that the most important things in life are really quite simple. The most important things in life bring life, not exhaustion. The most important things in life give peace, not turmoil. The most important things in life promote love, not hate. What am I talking about? The Bible gives us the answer. His name is Jesus.

Now, before you check out to this “too pat” of an answer, hear me out.

In the Gospel of Luke, chapter 10, we find Jesus visiting some friends. Their names are Mary and Martha. Martha invited Jesus and His disciples to stay with them, and Jesus gladly accepted the offer. But when we arrive at their home, Luke 10:40 describes the attitude of Martha, who was “distracted” by all the preparations that had to be made for Jesus and the disciples. On the other hand, Martha's sister, Mary, is sitting at the feet of the Lord, listening to every word that comes out of His mouth.

Martha says to Jesus (I paraphrase), “Lord, don't you care about me? Mary's sitting there doing nothing, and I'm slaving away trying to get things ready for You and Your disciples! Tell her to get in here and help me!!” I love Jesus' response: “Martha, Martha, you are worried and troubled about many things. But one thing is needed, and Mary has chosen that good part, which will not be taken away from her” (Luke 10:41-2, NKJV).

What is most important in this Thanksgiving season, amid the challenges at home and abroad? The most important thing for us is to sit at the feet of Jesus and listen to His every word. Worrying and becoming distracted about the issues of the day only cloud our focus on the Savior.

It's not that we retreat into a fantasy world of simple faith or we shy away from the challenges we face. Rather, we sit at Jesus' feet in an act of worship, waiting to hear Him speak words that will direct our steps, show us how to live, bring life, hope, peace and joy in the midst of confusion, death and division. By sitting at the feet of Christ, we will have chosen “that good part, which will not be taken away” from us.

Thanksgiving is a wonderful time of the year, even in today's challenges. Wherever my wife and I end up -- whether at home, in Virginia, in Texas, in England, or in Tennessee with family members -- I'm making it a priority to teach my family to sit at Jesus' feet. Only then will we know what true gratitude is in our lives. I want to challenge all of us to teach our family to sit at the Master's feet and not become distracted by all that is around us. Rather, at the Master's feet, the issues of the day will become clearer as He teaches us how to deal with them. What's most important in life? Sitting, listening and soaking in every word of the Teacher who gives us the sense to make sense of it all.

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Claude Thomas is pastor of First Baptist Church in Euless, Texas.

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What Has Morality Got To Do With Economics?

1 Corinthians 4:2

Americans are being battered by a variety of recent crises and concerns such as the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan, U.S. relations with North Korea and turmoil in the Middle East.

Add to that the continuing threat of terrorism, an increased unemployment rate, a rising trade deficit and a floundering economy, and it's no wonder many Americans are concerned about the future.

A recent survey conducted by the Barna Research Group reported that 65 percent of Americans are concerned about the future, with roughly 74 percent of those citing moral decay in America and in the world as their primary concern.

Economically, with the U.S. economy teetering between recession and slowdown, the financial well-being of a third of Americans is hanging in the balance. People are worried about not having enough money to pay normal monthly bills.

Needless to say, they are living so close to the edge financially that a prolonged economic downturn could put them in a serious financial squeeze. Yet, even though this has the potential of easily igniting a collapse in consumer spending and consumer confidence, it has not.

According to the same Barna poll, although consumers are very concerned, consumer spending has not dropped in proportion. In fact, there has been very little change in the percentage of their income that Americans spend. However, there has been a shift in how the funds are spent.

Less money is being saved or contributed to churches and charitable organizations, and more is being spent on credit card interest, recreation, alcohol, gambling (primarily through state lotteries) and pets.

This shift in spending focus has become especially noticeable in the wake of America's economic slowdown. However it's not a new trend, because there has been a steady and constant shift in spending habits for the past two decades.

God's Word says, “It is required in stewards, that a man be found faithful” (1 Corinthians 4:2).

How can we know if we're being “faithful”? Just as the buyer of a complex piece of machinery studies the manufacturer's manual to learn how to operate the equipment, we need to examine the “Creator's handbook,” the Bible, to find out how He wants us to handle His possessions.

Many Christian leaders feel that this shift is directly related to and can be traced back to the decline of America's and the world's moral standards. In fact, many feel that morality has such a direct relationship to economic stability that when moral character collapses the economic ramifications on a nation can be devastating.

THE BREAKDOWN

A collapse in morals also creates a financial collapse. A generation ago, marriage was the bedrock of family security. Today, 50-plus percent of all marriages end in divorce, and most failed marriages are the result of financial problems or unfaithfulness.

There are more than 11 million single-parent families in America with average annual incomes of less than $20,000 -- below the government's established poverty level.

Since the Supreme Court's 1973 decision that legalizes abortion on demand, there has been an average of 1 million surgical abortions and another 9 to 12 million mechanical and chemically controlled abortions annually.

This has caused a loss of more than 45 million consumers and taxpayers in America since 1973, with an estimated loss of over $430 billion in revenues, salaries and consumer sales, not including the $80 billion spent on medical costs for performing the abortions.

Since the onset of the HIV/AIDS epidemic -- a disease transmitted by infected intravenous paraphernalia or through sexual contact -- the virus has infected more than 50 million people in the world in the past 20 years. With more than 30 million deaths, HIV/AIDS is the fourth leading cause of mortality.

At the present spread rate of the disease, AIDS patients could occupy 70 percent of the available hospital bed space in America by the year 2010, leaving only 30 percent of the available space for the treatment of all other diseases, afflictions and accidents.

Despite what we know about the health effects of tobacco, Americans are still spending an average of $31 billion annually on tobacco products. In addition, $58 billion is spent on alcohol consumption and $586.5 billion on gambling. Then, on top of that, $250 billion is spent annually on the medical treatment of tobacco- and alcohol-related diseases.

THE SHIFT

This steady shift of the spending patterns of Americans has been very obvious in contributions to churches and charitable organizations.

The Barna Research Group reports that since 2000, 78 percent of American adults have contributed to a church, charitable organization or nonprofit organization at least one time. That is down from 90 percent between the years 1990 and 1999.

Sixty-one percent of those giving gave to a church -- also down from 77 percent 10 years ago. However, only 6 percent of adults gave 10 percent (a tithe) to the church, and less than 2 percent gave more than a tithe to such things as offerings, special projects and missions.

Total global church income in 2000 was $12.3 trillion. Of that amount, $213 billion was given to causes such as radio, TV, book publication, counseling and so on. Of the $11.4 billion given to missions, only 5.4 percent went to foreign missions. And 87 percent of that amount was for work among people who were already Christians. That left only 13 percent of foreign missions contributions to evangelize the entire non- Christian world.

Even though money to fund church operations and the Great Commission has declined steadily over the past decade, Americans have annually increased their spending on leisure, hobbies, entertainment, gambling and recreation.

Americans spent $21.3 billion in 2002 on pets -- almost twice the amount given to missions worldwide. Then $224 billion was spent to eat out, $67 billion for frozen dinners, $15 billion on junk food snacks, $25 billion on gardening, $22.1 billion on hunting and $191 billion on personal water craft.

This decline in moral standards and values not only has affected our spiritual and emotional welfare but also directly has influenced our value system, priorities, consumer spending and charitable contributions. Personal and national debt, government entitlement programs and how they are funded, insurance and healthcare, our overall economic well-being and the inability to recover from economic downturns can be traced to the moral decline of our nation.

TIME FOR A HEART CHECKUP

It's time that American Christians checked their hearts - “For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.... No one can serve two masters; for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and wealth” (Matthew 6: 21-24).

What has morality got to do with economics? Just about everything.

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from Baptist Press · Howard Dayton via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

The Unpredictable Weather, the Unmoving Lighthouse

Hebrews 13:8

There's just something fascinating about a lighthouse. I saw this feature on the evening news recently about a photographer who has decided he loves the seagull perspective on lighthouses. In this little customized aircraft, he flies over Maine's many picturesque lighthouses, shooting unusual aerial photos of them. They're beautiful; they're even inspiring. He's seen them and photographed them in all kinds of settings: sunshine, clouds, storms, high tide, low tide. He summarized what he's seen this way: “The lighthouse is always there. But everything else is changing.”

Well, I'm Ron Hutchcraft and I want to have A Word With You today about “The Unpredictable Weather, The Unmoving Lighthouse.”

I used to ask groups of teenagers to take four 3x5 cards and write the four most important things in their lives on those four cards. When they finished, I said, “A disaster has just come into your life and you're going to lose one of the most important things in your life. Except you choose which one. Drop a card.” After some thought, they dropped one.

I repeated that request another time, and again - this time with more resistance - they dropped one of the most important things in their life. Then, when they had only two cards, I said, “You can keep one, but only one. You're going to lose everything but the most important thing in your life. Drop one more card.” That was very hard. But when everyone was finally down to just one card, I said, “You're holding a card that represents that most important thing in your life. There's one question I want you to answer about it, is it something you can lose?” If what - or who - matters most to us is something we can lose, we can never be secure and never totally at peace.

We need, in essence, a lighthouse - something we can totally depend on when everything else is changing. Something, actually someone who is, as the photographer said about those lighthouses, “always there.” If you've already lost some of the cards that mattered most to you in your life, then you know how much we need something unloseable, something unmoving that will stand the unpredictable weather because the weather in our world, even in our lives, is becoming more and more unpredictable.

The lighthouse that never moves is beautifully described in our word for today from the Word of God from Hebrews 13:8, “Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever.” As relationships come and go, as jobs and houses and possessions come and go, as our health changes, our feelings, our family, Jesus Christ remains our personal Lighthouse that never moves, never changes - if we know Him.

In the verses preceding this statement, God makes this promise, “Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you.” Then it says, “Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever.” From the nursery to the nursing home to the funeral home, a Savior, a friend you can totally, totally trust and you'll never, never lose Him. Jesus secured the possibility of this relationship when He died on the cross to pay that death penalty for the sinning we've done. This unloseable relationship becomes yours when you grab Jesus in total trust to remove the sin-wall between you and God forever.

As the storm clouds darken and the surf becomes more turbulent, you may be ready for this Savior-security. It's the season of uncertain weather, but Jesus is that Lighthouse that will be “always there” for you. You grab His hand - and He will never let go.

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Copyright © Ron Hutchcraft Ministries, Inc., PO Box 400, Harrison, AR 72602. Used by permission. Written by Ron Hutchcraft. "Practical Answers to Real Life Issues"

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Our Super-sized Lives

Luke 12:13

“Mom's not going to look comfortable in that casket.”

That's the newest euphemistic phrase of the American funeral industry, according to an article in The New York Times this fall.

The carefully crafted phrase is a way to tell grieving family members that their loved one will require a larger-than-standard casket. And, according to The Times, funeral directors are saying it more and more. In fact, the article notes that a new industry is emerging around the widening waistlines of American corpses.

The Goliath Casket Company now designs and ships across the country triple-wide caskets, designed to accommodate up to 700 pounds. The Cremation Association of North America now has special training sessions on “the handling of obese bodies.”

And coffin builder David Hazelett tells The Times he sees no end in sight for this new feature of the old industry. “The economic opportunity exists until the country changes,” he notes. “We're just reacting to the super-sizing of America.”

In one sense, we ought to be thankful for the blessings of a super-sized society. We ought to reject the idolatry of thinness we see in contemporary American media. And there is nothing wrong with being happily pudgy.

But Goliath caskets aren't designed for the happily pudgy. They are designed for a growing number of Americans who are dangerously ravaged by an excess of food. This situation would be unimaginable to almost every human society preceding us in the history of this planet. Where most people scrape together food by the sweat of the brow, obesity is seen as a sign of tremendous opulence or royalty. One is drawn, for instance, to the Old Testament's description of the Moabite monarch Eglon, who took a sword to the belly and covered it to the hilt with his fat (Judges 3:12-23).

But, on the other hand, this problem is symptomatic of an affluence that can kill us -- physically, culturally and spiritually.

Moses speaks of the nation of Israel growing fat off of the milk and honey of the land inheritance (Deuteronomy 31:20). He speaks of it as a fatness that signifies a satisfaction with abundance, a lack of daily dependence on Yahweh and, thus, the foundation for idolatry.

Likewise, the Apostle Paul warns that when human beings turn from the Creator, they find a god in their own stomachs (Philippians 3:19).

The funeral industry's “size crisis” ought to rattle American Christians as to the unprecedented affluence of the culture we are seeking to claim for Christ. After all, how can a culture understand dependence on the Father for daily bread when we are already, quite literally, too fat for our graves?

And it is not only American obesity that reveals our priorities. It is also American thinness, as the other side of the spectrum seeks to hold back death by slavishly following the advice of the latest nutritional fad.

“I'm not sure if there's an afterlife,” one proponent of a drastic “calorie restriction diet” recently told the Nutrition Action Health Letter. “In the meantime, I'll hedge my bets and try to get as much life out of this universe as I'm able to.”

Christ Jesus revealed the peril of living in such abundance as this. Addressing a crowd of thousands, Jesus recounted the parable of a rich fool, who said to himself “relax, drink, be merry” (Luke 12:13-21). What the affluent one was not expecting, Jesus noted, was the certainty of death and the reality of judgment. In the end, Jesus warned, the pursuit of comfort and affluence might deaden our consciences to the certainty of death -- but it cannot stave it off.

For Paul, the reckless pursuit to satisfy the appetites is really a statement about resurrection. When a people no longer believe in the judgment and the glory to follow, they inevitably conclude, “If the dead are not raised, let us eat and drink, for tomorrow we die” (1 Corinthians 15:32, ESV).

Could it be that the unprecedented fatness of American society is not just about our material abundance, but about our spiritual poverty as well? A people who have lost hope in the age to come can only find comfort in satisfying our created urges -- so we are addicted to sex, to fame and even to food. We can't find what we're looking for so we “super-size” all that we have.

The answer to this is not more innovation from the funeral industry. Nor is it another “Christian” weight loss program. The answer to this hopelessness is instead churches fueled with a vision of the hope of the coming Kingdom of Christ.

To a contemporary society starving in its own fatness, our churches can herald the day when the Messiah will gather His people together for “a feast of rich food, a feast of well-aged wine” (Isaiah 25:6, ESV). To a contemporary society scared to death of what lies beyond the Goliath casket, our churches can point to the day in which our resurrected Messiah will “swallow up death forever” (Isaiah 25:8).

It is, after all, this messianic banquet for which we are all really longing. That banquet will finally put an end to super-sized fast food, fad crash diets and obesity police. But it will also put an end to the funeral industry.

And that's worth celebrating, maybe even with a good meal.

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Russell D. Moore is assistant professor of Christian theology at Southern Baptist Theological Seminary in Louisville, Kentucky.

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How Much To Spend On the Poor?

John 12:3

What happened at Jesus' anointing in Bethany has plagued the followers of Jesus from then until now. How much do we spend on ourselves and how much do we give to missions? Couldn't we do more good by giving all this money to the poor instead of spending it on, say, a new building?

In partial response to this question, my mind goes back to an experience of William Willimon, chaplain at Duke University. Willimon tells of the time the faculty of Duke was discussing a proposal to renovate the seminary chapel. They had received a modest proposal from the architect. But, would the chapel be renovated? No. “With all the poverty and hunger in the world,” said one faculty member, “how can we as Christians justify spending $50,000 to pretty-up our chapel?” Of course, this person failed to offer similar objections when faculty salaries were raised each year, (a figure that collectively exceeds $50,000) nor does he question the morality of the luxurious faculty lounge. Obviously the man was posturing, just as Judas was posturing. Even so, the problem is tough. How much should we give to others and how much should we reserve for ourselves?

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Built To Last

1 Corinthians 3

It's a ghost town now. But in the 1880s, she was one of the boomtowns of California - all because of some silver in the ground. When the price of silver soared, so did the fortunes and the population of this little town we visited not long ago. But when the price of silver crashed, well, so did the town. Back in some of her better days, a fire hit the town and it burned much of it to the ground. The only original buildings still standing there today had one thing in common - in a town of mostly wood structures, these were ones that were made of adobe. They've reconstructed some of those wood buildings, but hey, they weren't there long ago because they couldn't survive the fire.

Well, I'm Ron Hutchcraft and I want to have A Word With You today about “Built to Last.”

That ghost town actually tells a story - what survives is only that which was built with something lasting. After we take our last bow, sometimes just with the perspective of passing years, that's how your life and mine will be. All that will matter is what was really lasting. All that really matters now is what's going to last, and it's tragic how ultimately meaningless much of what we spend ourselves on really is. It could be that God has arranged it for someone to be listening right now who is pouring a lot into goals and stuff that really doesn't matter much. He's been trying to get a wakeup call through to you - so you can rearrange your priorities to make a far greater difference with the rest of your life than you've made until now.

In 1 Corinthians 3, beginning with verse 11, our word for today from the Word of God, He pulls back the curtain and shows us the view from the finish line of our lives. He says, “No one can lay any foundation other than the one already laid, which is Jesus Christ. If any man builds on this foundation using gold, silver, costly stones, wood, hay, or straw, his work will be shown for what it is, because the Day will bring it to light. It will be revealed with fire, and the fire will test the quality of each man's work. If what he has built survives, he will receive his reward. If it is burned up, he will suffer loss; he himself will be saved, but only as one escaping through the flames.” Now, that's a heartbreaking picture. You get to the end of the one life you had, and everything you did with it burns in a fire marked “meaningless.” Nothing to show for the one life I lived.

Now is the time to think about how lasting what we're doing and building really is; how eternally valuable it is. Then is too late. What we read from the Bible makes it clear that the only foundation for a life that matters forever is a personal relationship with Jesus Christ, the one who died so your sins could be forgiven, and walked out of His grave so you can live forever. If your life seems hollow and unexplainably empty, it may be because Jesus is missing. He's the one you were made by and made for. If you would place your life in His hands today, then today could be the end of the wasted years and the beginning of the greatest years of your life.

And if you belong to Jesus, be sure you are, as Jesus said, “seeking first the Kingdom of God” (Matthew 6:33) - not your own kingdom. A life that survives every fire and matters forever is built this way: by basing every decision you make only on what Jesus says. You make sure that the people in your life are what you put first, not the projects, not the business, not your entertainment, not even the church. The people are what's going to last when everything else has burned. And the most eternal legacy you could leave with your life is to introduce someone else to Jesus Christ - which means you have literally helped to change their eternal address from hell to heaven. There's no greater difference you could ever make.

What a tragedy - to be a winner here for this blink of an eye and be a loser there for all eternity. Spend what you've got on what lasts. And be sure you've placed your life in the only hands that can secure your life for all eternity. Be sure you belong to Jesus Christ.

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Copyright © Ron Hutchcraft Ministries, Inc., PO Box 400, Harrison, AR 72602. Used by permission. Written by Ron Hutchcraft. "Practical Answers to Real Life Issues"

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You Have To Take Your Shoes Off Before You Take Your Pants Off

Chris Widener was at a sports club getting ready to go work out. He was standing in the row of lockers talking to another guy, when he heard a couple of kids come in behind him. He didn't turn around, but it was obvious from their conversation that they were about five and three years old and they are going to go swimming.

Suddenly the older boy said to the younger one in a scolding voice, “Joey, you have to take your shoes off before you take your pants off.” Widener turned around and there was this three-year old sitting on the ground, trying to take his pants off over these huge waffle-stomper boots!

The guy Widener was talking to said, “That is good basic life instruction!”

Indeed: Always take your shoes off before you take your pants off. It made Widener think about how we often try to get so sophisticated in our quest for success and personal growth but isn't it really true that all success begins with the basics? In fact, perhaps the struggles we have are because we have gotten away from the basics.

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The Price of A Runner's High

Luke 10:38

My friend Bob is a pastor and a jogger. One day about a year ago, he went jogging and he came home and he started to do some work at his desk. He started to write his address, except his wife noticed it wasn't his address. That was his wife's first clue. It turned out that Bob had suffered a mild stroke while he was running. Now jogging really is good for you, but in this case, he had had a stroke and he didn't even realize it. He ended up losing a lot of speech and thought functions, and thankfully he pretty much recovered from that. But some of the sermon preparation he said, that used to take hours, can now take all week. It's amazing that in the middle of all this, Bob felt no pain when he was having a stroke. The doctor said, “You probably experienced a runner's high.” It's a mysterious euphoria that takes over and it actually covers up the pain. It's kind of scary. You can run so hard that you can't feel the damage being done.

I'm Ron Hutchcraft and I want to have A Word With You today about “The Price of a Runner's High.”

Our word for today from the Word of God comes from Luke 10, beginning at verse 38. As we read this, remember that image of a man running so hard he isn't able to feel the damage being done. All right, let's go to Martha. “Jesus came to a village where a woman named Martha opened her home to him. She had a sister called Mary who sat at the Lord's feet listening to what he said. But Martha was distracted by all the preparations that had to be made. She came to him and asked, 'Lord, don't you care that my sister's left me to do the work by myself? Tell her to help me!’ 'Martha, Martha,' the Lord answered, 'you are worried and upset about many things, but only one thing is needed. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.'“

Well, here's Martha, and boy can I identify with her. She's running hard. She represents so many of us absorbed in our busyness, our deadlines, our stress, our success, our responsibilities, our “to do” list. But Martha is running so hard she's unaware of the damage being done. She was missing her Lord, even though she was serving Him. She was missing her sister. She was showing her worst to the people she loved the most. Sound at all familiar?

Maybe you're running pretty hard right now. Be careful. There might be some damage you can't feel because of your runner's high. You may be unaware of a partner or a child who's being neglected and they're not yelling. They're not screaming for you. They're just quietly hurting and missing you. They've been left in your busy wake, and you can't feel it because you're running so hard. Maybe the people around you are getting stepped on, ignored, feeling used. Could it be that you've become a stress carrier without even being aware of it?

When you walk into a room or an office or church, or wherever you go, do you just bring stress with you and pretty soon the whole room is stressed? Maybe you've been missing Jesus in the process, or losing your love, your joy, your peace. Maybe you're losing someone you care about because you're running so hard. If you're pushing so hard that you can't feel the pain around you, you're pushing too hard.

It's time to hit the brakes isn't it, and pull over for a time of evaluation and getting your perspective back, getting in touch with your key relationships - beginning with Jesus. The price of a runner's high is too high for you to pay. Don't push past the things that really matter.

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Copyright © Ron Hutchcraft Ministries, Inc., PO Box 400, Harrison, AR 72602. Used by permission. Written by Ron Hutchcraft. "Practical Answers to Real Life Issues"

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Some Broccoli

2 Timothy 2:21

When we bought our first house, I roto-tilled a plot and planted a garden. Saturday morning at the farmers’ market, I bought various vegetable sets including broccoli, which we really like.

After I placed the vegetables in rows in the ground, I had one broccoli plant left. I put it in at the back of the plot. My garden thrived except for that broccoli at the back. It produced nothing except leaves that curled and wrinkled like a sick plant.

Why? Maybe it needs more fertilizer, water or spray for pests, I thought. But nothing helped.

Then it occurred to me: Perhaps I had it backward. Am I watering fertilizing and spraying too much? So one-by-one I quit watering, fertilizing, weeding and applying pesticides. But the broccoli didn’t improve, so I gave up. I had lots else to do — work, kids, chores.

When summer ended, like a good gardener I pulled up dried-up okra stalks and tomato vines. When I’d worked my way to the back of the garden, I saw that broccoli — covered with Brussels sprouts!

Somehow at the farmers’ market a Brussels sprout plant got mixed in with the broccoli set.

All summer long I’d thought something was wrong with the plant at the back of the garden. But those leaves wrinkled and rolled up because that’s what Brussels sprouts do.

I’d done everything trying to stop the plant from becoming what it was – Brussels sprouts. I tried to do what only God can do, change its basic nature.

Remembering that “broccoli” makes me wonder: Do I ever make wrong assumption about people or circumstances? Do I ever try to change individuals or situations from what God intended, instead of trying to be “an instrument for noble purposes, made holy, useful to the Master” (2 Timothy 2:21)? Do I do good things when what’s needed is the right thing?

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The Main Thing

Luke 11:2

Lee Iacocca once said, “The main thing in life is to keep the main thing, the main thing.” I don't know about you, but I often find it hard to stay focused and to not get distracted by secondary (and often good) things.

My own deficiencies and restlessness are challenged by things like John Piper's statement, “God is most glorified in me when I am most satisfied in Him” or Augustine's well-known quote, “You have made us for yourself and our hearts are restless until they find their rest in thee.” I am always learning to repose in God, and seek to go further in the more reflective or contemplative life by setting my focus on God Himself.

Eugene Peterson speaks of our initial coming before God with the language of adoration and love, which unfortunately often falls into disuse or to limited use. The language we develop is one less centered in adoration and often focused on the self. Yet the focus of the psalmist is always on God Himself, his character, qualities, attributes, and ways. The language is one of love, adoration, and appreciation even in the midst of uncertainty or trouble.

The psalmist reminds me of the necessity of setting my focus and priorities. In any given day, I have to challenge my thinking in terms of how little (or how much) I actively contemplate God for who He is, and not for an answered prayer, a need, or an ongoing concern. A.W. Tozer said the most important thing about us is our view of God.

In contrast to the very clear and pronounced weaknesses in worldly solutions to life's needs and challenges, the kingdom is a glorious possibility and presence. This is why we are here; it is what we seek to advance; it captivates our passion and our will. During a recent trip, I was reminded of the amazing contrast of the enduring kingdom versus the short-term shelf life of many of the “utopian” movements in history. The Nazis, the Communists, and any and all pretentious systems inevitably crumble before the unshakeable kingdom of God. I have to remind myself that I pray today with the church across the ages and around the world, “Thy Kingdom come.”

As we gather physically or otherwise with believers in our time and across history, we come as people in need and people with problems, wounds, issues, and concerns. And we are joined with other believers as people in process. The salvation and full redemption of our bodies is yet to come, and until then, we press on in faith, hope, and love, yet dependent on grace, mercy, ongoing-forgiveness, and spiritual help.

As we begin this day, let us consciously fix our minds and hearts on God, his glorious being, his dynamic kingdom, and his compassionate love, keeping the main thing the main thing.

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Copyright © 2005 Ravi Zacharias International Ministries (RZIM). Reprinted with permission. "A Slice of Infinity" is a radio ministry of Ravi Zacharias International Ministries.

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Narrow Banks

Luke 4:40

If you want to get into Manhattan from New Jersey, you have several choices. You can take a long bridge, one of two long tunnels, a ferry trip, or a long un-recommended swim. The Hudson River is really pretty wide when it reaches Manhattan, but it's not very powerful. If you could see the Hudson near its headwaters in upstate New York, you'd see it roaring along with a very strong current. Upstate its banks are confined and the force is greater. But by the time it reaches Manhattan, the Hudson is so spread out that its power seems almost gone. I know people like that.

I'm Ron Hutchcraft and I want to have A Word With You today about “Narrow Banks.”

Just like the Hudson River, we tend to get spread over too many commitments, and sometimes we don't have much power in any of them. We tend to accumulate commitments instead of making choices. We add new arenas without removing any old ones. Homework competes with extracurricular commitments, household responsibilities, youth meetings, friends. A business person says “yes” until his or her resume looks impressive, but their contributions in each area are insignificant. An overcommitted woman needs a valet just to manage all her hats: wife, mother, committee worker, volunteer, career person, creator, entertainer. By taking on more than we can possibly do well, we live in direct violation of God's command to “make it your ambition to lead a quiet life” (1 Thessalonians 4:11).

I battle all those pressures, just like you probably do. And the difference I make in each arena is in direct proportion to my use of that most powerful two-letter word - “No.” It was a word Jesus knew how to say.

Our word for today from the Word of God, Luke 4:40, “When the sun was setting, the people brought to Jesus all who had various kinds of sickness, and ... He healed them. At daybreak Jesus went out to a solitary place. The people were looking for him and they tried to keep him from leaving them.” Time out! Your circumstances probably are different from that of Jesus', but maybe you can relate to that feeling of being tugged on from all directions. The Bible goes on to say, “But he said, 'I must preach the good news of the kingdom of God to the other towns also, because that is why I was sent.'“ And the Bible says He left and did that.

There were still plenty of people left to heal, but Jesus said, “No.” He had settled the “I musts” of His life. In this case, preaching to the other towns. Having settled His non-negotiable “yeses,” He could say “no” to anything that would compromise them - no matter how worthy it was.

God may be asking you to take a time-out like Jesus did so often and sort out all those demands. He wants you to settle a handful of non-negotiables that no one can have - your “musts.” And then to make all your choices revolve around those non-negotiables because you want to stay powerful in the commitments you've made. Keep your life in narrow banks!

When you're facing choices like these, it helps to ask yourself some questions, “Could someone else do this? Is this something God has uniquely qualified me for? Is this something God has definitely called me to do? Is it something others could do?” Remember, it's better to make a big mark in a few places (like at home, for example) than a little mark in a lot of places.

That powerful two-letter word “no” gives you the blessed freedom to enjoy the commitments you've made and the concentrated power of a river in narrow banks.

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Driving Alone -- America's Commuter Society

According to the U. S. Census Bureau, the fastest growing group of American commuters are those who travel more than 90 minutes to work, and then another 90 minutes back home. For many Americans, life is increasingly lived behind the driver's wheel and the interior of the automobile is becoming the most familiar “living” space for many harried Americans.

In its May 1, 2006, edition, NEWSWEEK offers a unique perspective into the lives of what reporter Keith Naughton calls “extreme commuters.” These workers drive from 50 to nearly 200 miles each way, to and from their place of work. Most leave well before the break of dawn and many return well after the sun has set. After the Industrial Revolution itself, this revolution in the way Americans work and spend their time getting to and from work may represent the largest single transformation in the way many Americans live.

Naughton introduces his readers to commuters such as Dr. Bill Small, a Chicago physician who begins his two-hour commute into downtown Chicago at 6:00 a.m. The doctor has his entire commute planned, right down to the smallest detail. “Small's routine is so finely tuned that he won't stop for coffee if there are more than three cars in the drive-through. Today there are just two, and he picks up an extra-large. But there's no time for a bathroom break, so Small, 41, won't allow himself a single sip for nearly an hour.”

Dr. Small, who lives with his wife and children in St. Charles, Illinois, a town nearly fifty miles west of Chicago, says that he prefers living in St. Charles because, “It's a nice place to raise kids ... And it does feel like you're away.”

Similarly, 34-year-old Web designer Vincent Driscoll gets up at 4:00 a.m. to make his 55-mile commute from Pennington, New Jersey to Jersey City. In order for his system to work, Driscoll must catch a 5:15 a.m. train to Newark and then switch to another train which will deliver him to Jersey City, if everything goes on schedule, by 7:00. “By Friday night, I'm completely wiped out,” Driscoll laments. “My wife says I've become an old man.”

The phenomenon of extreme commuting did not emerge out of a cultural vacuum. For some time, economic and social pressures have driving workers further and further from their places of employment. In most cases, the pressure is probably financial. In order to purchase a family home, complete with yard and suburban neighborhood, employees, professionals, and other workers are now driving more than an hour to work. Indeed, almost ten million Americans now drive more than an hour to work, and that represents a jump of 50 percent from just 1990. According to NEWSWEEK, the average commute is now 25 minutes, up 18 percent from 20 years ago.

Interestingly, NEWSWEEK points to the phenomenon of “driving 'til you qualify,” as a primary factor. “New home prices have nearly tripled in the past 20 years,” NEWSWEEK explains, “and now average almost 300,000 dollars, according to the National Association of Home Builders. In places like southern California, each exit along the interstate saves you tens of thousands of dollars.”

As workers live further and further from their places of employment, the departure time in the morning gets earlier and earlier and the complications mount. The fastest-growing time for departure to work is now between 5:00 and 6:00 a.m. More Americans are leaving earlier and getting home later than ever before.

“This endless commute is becoming the defining characteristic of the 21st-century working stiff,” NEWSWEEK asserts. “So much of what we worry about today -- volatile real-estate prices, sleeplessness, our overstressed lives -- all merge together on the road, as we search for the elusive simple life in some suburban Shangri-La.”

Some wonder if the commute is worth it. “How much is it worth to own your own home if you end up spending four hours on the road and not playing with your kids, not sleeping enough, and rotting in traffic?,” asks Joy Mander, a nurse who drives 45 miles to work at Children's Hospital in Oakland, California.

Automobile designers and traffic engineers are scrambling to meet the challenge posed by so many long-distance commuters. NEWSWEEK reports that the automobile's dashboard “is becoming the nation's dinner table, and the drive-through its kitchen.” As Harry Balzer of NPD Group, a research firm, explains: “The fastest-growing appliance in America is not the microwave ... it's the power window.”

All this points to a tremendous cost in time and absence from home. The impact on family life can be obvious -- many fathers (and an increasing number of mothers as well) leave home before their children get up in the morning and return just as their children are getting ready for bed. Dad has simply missed out on the normal rhythm of family life, available only in emergencies or during cherished weekends.

A few years ago, a father involved in his own form of “extreme commuting” told me that his children were perfect angels. As he quickly explained, he saw them as angels because that's the way they appear while sleeping, and his main opportunity to see his children was as they slept in their beds when he returned home from work, and were still there as he left for work the next morning.

This separation of parents from children is now alarming public safety officials. John Brooks, an economic analyst in Palmdale, California, warns of the possibility of a real-life disaster. “We're really worried about what happens in an earthquake. All the parents are down below, and we've got tens of thousands of their kids up here to take care of.” The “down below” means Los Angeles and the “up here” means the exploding suburbs north of the L.A. basin.

The cost of the society is evident in the fact that so many parents are separated from the lives of their children, at school and in other activities, as well as at home. “With everyone stuck in traffic, it turns out there's no one around to coach Little League or volunteer for the PTA, not to mention get dinner on the table,” Naughton observes.

The impact of the commuting culture was noted by Robert D. Putnam in his much-respected book, BOWLING ALONE: THE COLLAPSE AND REVIVAL OF AMERICAN COMMUNITY, published in 2000. “Suburbanization of the last thirty years has increased not only our financial investment in the automobile, but also our investment of time,” Putnam noted. “Between 1969 and 1995, according to government surveys of vehicle usage, the length of the average trip to work increased by 26 percent, while the average shopping trip increased by 29 percent.”

Not only are Americans spending more time in their automobiles, they're spending most of this time alone. Two-third of all automobile trips are made alone -- a figure that continues to rise.

“One inevitable consequence of how we have come to organize our lives spatially is that we spend measurably more of every day shuttling alone in metal boxes along the vertices of our private triangles,” Putnam observes. In his analysis, the car and the commute are “demonstrably bad for community life.”

For many workers, the picture is getting even worse. Over the last thirty years, college-educated professionals have been working longer and longer workdays, even as their commuting time takes up even more precious hours. Maintaining their families in a suburban lifestyle means that many professionals are simply away from the family for almost all of the waking day, connecting only by telephone and precious weekends or days off.

Robert D. Putnam's concern is the contribution of the commuting culture to the breakdown of community. As citizens are spending more and more time driving automobiles to and from work, they have much less time to contribute to civic involvement.

Pastors are recognizing the same phenomenon. Hard-pressed families find themselves pulled in many directions, and connections to the vibrant life of the faithful local congregation are often interrupted or broken by the same stresses and strains that tear at family life. Workers who spend more and more hours behind the wheel have fewer hours to contribute to church activities and other Christian involvements.

The most immediate toll of all this is found inside those suburban homes workers are trying with such fervor to maintain, even if they spend most of their waking hours far away. The stresses on family life are obvious -- many wives feel almost abandoned by their husbands as they maintain domestic life and take care of the children while dad is away. “I feel like a single parent,” said Laura Neelley, whose husband, Chris, commutes 120 minutes to and from his job in Los Angeles. As the couple told NEWSWEEK, Chris leaves home just after 7:00 a.m. and returns after 8:00 p.m., when dinner is over and the children are in their pajamas.

The NEWSWEEK article acknowledges the pressures and patterns that have contributed to this phenomenon. The emergence of vast metropolitan areas, with far-flung suburbs existing as oases of affordable housing, has produced a context in which “extreme commuting” begins to make sense to many workers and their families.

Are there limits to further growth in commuting distance and the time involved in getting to and from work? The prospects do not look hopeful. Indeed, a different group of commuters is pushing daily travel to the extreme -- catching airline shuttles and trading daily time in the car for time on an airplane.

Christians must ask some basic questions about “extreme commuting” and what it means for family life. This is true even for those whose commute takes much less than 90 minutes each way. Have we reached the point that we have simply accepted cultural assumptions about the importance of work and the value of home ownership to the point that we are putting our own families and spiritual lives at risk?

There are no easy answers to this question. Those who call for a fundamental restructuring of the American economy are fighting patterns that have now been building for more than half a century and show no signs of abating. In any cultural or economic context, Christians must struggle to understand what faithfulness would demand in terms of family, home, church, and professional responsibilities. Anyone who suggests that navigating these waters in postmodern times is easy is simply denying reality.

Nevertheless, we must admit that it is all too easy to buy into the prevailing model of the American dream, and to trade family time and involvement for a vision of a larger home, a larger lawn, and a larger mortgage. Christians had better make some fundamental decisions about how much time we are willing to spend behind the wheel, in our cars, away from our families, churches, and communities. Otherwise, the automobile will soon represent, not only our dining rooms, but our bedrooms, living rooms, and sanctuaries as well.

The Real Question

Ecclesiastes 5:10

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Fear God and keep His commandments. – Ecclesiastes 12:13

If ever there is a time for euphoric celebration, college graduation ought to be it. So I was surprised at Corey’s obvious apathy during his own open house.

“I’m just not sure I made the right decision about my degree,” he said, trying to shrug off my inquisitiveness. So I asked him what he would do differently. He looked away distractedly and grimaced. “I’ll only top out at about $75,000 a year working in this field,” he replied. “That’s not going to get it.”

I didn’t dare tell him how little I made compared to his expectations. I was afraid he’d never stoop to speak to me again.

I wondered how Corey might feel if he were on the other end of life, looking back at what he had accomplished. Would he bemoan the fact that he hadn’t made more money? I doubt it. Plenty of aging millionaires in the world have nothing but regrets and a gnawing awareness that money holds no final answers. Money only helps us forget the real question.

So what is “the real question”?

An ancient Middle-Eastern wise man wondered about that too. King Solomon was a man who had it all but realized that it still wasn’t enough. He struggled to discover if life really had any meaning. He understood that the real question demands an eternally significant answer.

Solomon knew that money doesn’t hold the answer. “Whoever loves money never has money enough,” he observed (Ecclesiastes 5:10). “As a man comes [into the world without anything], so he departs, and what does he gain, since he toils for the wind?” (v.16). He concluded, “This is meaningless, a grievous evil” (6:2).

So what are we to pursue, if not financial success? And if we don’t worry about money, how will we ever accomplish anything?

“Here is the conclusion of the matter,” said Solomon. “Fear God and keep His commandments, for this is the whole duty of man” (12:13).

If we fear God first and obey Him, we’ll find that things like annual salaries and career choices have a way of working themselves out. The real question is: What are you living for? – TG

REFLECTION

• What are my career and financial goals?

• How can goals be a good thing? How might they cause me to lose sight of what really matters?

• Have I ever set any spiritual goals? What would they be? (Hint: Keep them simple.)

You cannot serve both God and Money. – Matthew 6:24

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Which?

Hebrews 11:25

"Choosing rather to suffer affliction with the people of God, than to enjoy the pleasures of sin for a season" (Hebrews 11:25)

A well-known merchant had a placard nailed to the desk in his office. It said, "WHICH? Wife or whiskey? The babies or the bottles? HEAVEN OR HELL?" To the question of a visitor, he replied, "I wrote that myself. Sometime ago I found myself falling into the habit of drinking an occasional glass with a friend. Soon my stomach got bad, my faculties dulled, and I had a constant craving for stimulants. I saw tears in the eyes of my wife and wonder on the faces of my children. One day I sat down and wrote that card. As I looked at it an awful revelation burst upon me like a flash. I nailed it there and read it many times that day. I went home sober that night and have not touched a drop since."

That man came to realize that he must treat his wife as his own personality or his own body. He must be as kind toward her as he would toward himself. Such love between parents will lead the entire home-life along in a serene, happy and wholesome way. It will not only double the joy, but will give strength in the hour of sorrow, dividing the griefs and burdens of life.

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Saving or Losing

Mark 8:35

Dr. Nansen, the legendary Norwegian explorer, was greatly honored in London. Seven thousand distinguished people gathered to cheer him, while the Prince of Wales presented to him the medal of the Royal Geographical Society. To Nansen what a contrast it must have seemed to the loneliness and cold and danger of the arctic solitude where this honor was earned. There is no easy way to greatness. That which is worth having costs heavily. This is true also in the spiritual world. How clearly Christ sets forth this truth: "For whosoever will save his life shall lose it: but whosoever shall lose his life for my sake, the same shall save it" (Mark 8:35; Luke 9:24).

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Whom Riches Make Happy

I knew a man to whom riches brought happiness. I do not believe he would have been happy without them. When he was a mere boy he had a fine head for business. He was wise, industrious, and had a wonderfully clear financial insight. But he wanted to be a preacher. He tried two years, and then said, "I can't do that, but I will give the Lord the one talent I have." So he became a stockbroker. He was fair, businesslike and painstaking. The result was that he prospered marvelously. He became noted for the high grade of his stock and for his remarkable sense of honor.

There were temptations, but he stood so firmly by his Christian faith that men never felt that there was anything incongruous about it when he stopped in the midst of a business transaction and talked freely to them of the greater riches. Never a needy soul that came in contact with him went away without realizing that here was a man to love and to honor.

Toilers in hard fields at home and abroad were able to work with better heart because he gave of his substance, though many of them never knew his name. He thought sometimes of his boyish dream of preaching the gospel. Still it seemed to him the greatest thing in the world, but he was happy because he knew that he was doing it. Riches had brought him happiness.

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Doing Things We Do Not Like to Do

Sir Edward Malet said of Abraham Lincoln that of all the great men he had ever known, Lincoln was the one who had left upon him the strongest impression as being a sterling child of God. Straightforward, unflinching, not loving the work he had to do, but facing it with a bold and true heart; mild whenever he had the chance, stern as iron when the public weal required it, following a bee-line to the goal which duty set before him. The test of life is not when we are doing the things we like to do. It does not require much courage to keep good-humored and patient when all our surroundings are congenial. But the true test of Christian manhood and womanhood is when we are compelled to face labor that is uncongenial to us and duties from which everything in us shrinks. To take up these uncomfortable burdens and go forward with a bold and patient face is the highest grace of the Christian character.

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The Well-Dressed Woman

John 16:22

What am I going to wear today? For most ladies this is a daily dilemma because we want to look our best. Some women consult the latest fashion magazines for hints on hairstyles, clothes and makeup. But, believe it or not, the Bible offers tips on fashions that never go out of style. Here are some of the requirements for the well-dressed Christian woman:

1. A gentle and quiet spirit (1 Peter 3:3, 1 Peter 3:4). This does not mean we must be silent or never speak our mind. It does mean that we should not be loud or boisterous, or call attention to ourselves by being bawdy or brazen.

2. Contentment (Hebrews 13:5). We may not have a big, fancy house or the latest car, but we need to remember to count the blessings we do have and to be content with them. Nothing is less attractive than a jealous spirit.

3. A smile. This is a reflection of a joyous heart. Christians have every reason to be happy because we have hope above all hope (John 16:22). Why would others desire to serve Christ if they see us wearing pained expressions on our faces? Don't forget that smile!

4. Inner peace (Romans 5:1). God gives us strength and peace in facing whatever we encounter everyday.

5. Confidence...not necessarily in ourselves so much as in Christ (Philippians 4:13). He is our strength and our refuge (Psalms 46:1, Psalms 46:2).

6. Kindness. Before we act, react or speak we should always consider the feelings of the other person. How would you feel if you were in their shoes (Matthew 7:2)? Treat them kindly, gently, with compassion.

If you remember to wear these things daily you still may not make Blackwell's Best Dressed List, but you will make Christ's list. Which is more important to you?

-Billie Hawks

Life Lines

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Suffocating the Soul

Not long ago, in the wall of an old castle in Italy where some repairs were being made, the workmen found a relic that told a tale of ancient barbarity and crime. Some baron of the old days put an enemy in a little niche in the wall, just large enough to hold a man, and then set the masons at work building the wall around him. Slowly the masonry crept up, as stone was laid on stone, until at last it arose and left the man standing there in his living tomb.

"Ah," you say, "such horrible forms of torture were only possible in days of darkness, when men exercised their ingenuity inventing new modes of cruelty." Shall I tell you of something worse that is modern? A man starts out to build a structure, which he calls "Success." Slowly, as the years pass, he walls in his soul. Duty calls, and he answers, "I cannot sacrifice my interests for you." Pity pleads, and he says: "I really cannot afford to do anything for you." Righteousness rings out with its prophetic demands, and he says: "It will injure the stock market if I join in these agitations."

Day by day, year by year, every lofty ideal, every summons of sympathy, every project of truth, every purpose of purity, finds him making the same old excuse: "Beware of going too far!" "Keep your eye on the main chance!" "Look out for number one!" "Be just good enough to gain your ends!" "Use men, use your city, use the world to advance those plans of material prosperity and commercial power that minister to your own self-aggrandizement!" So he builds his living tomb. So he suffocates his soul.

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A Near-fatal Accident Focused Him

Luke 10:39

An acquaintance of mine nearly lost his life in a flying accident a few years ago. I had breakfast with him some time after that accident, and I asked him how his accident and his lingering physical problems had affected him. He said, “Bill, I see life so much more clearly now. My relationship with Jesus Christ is now of supreme importance.” It hadn’t been before. “Now when I hold my wife and when I kiss my children, I realize what a treasure they are.” I remember sliding back from the table, thinking, that loss served this brother well. It simplified and clarified what really mattered in his life.

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Citation: Bill Hybels, “The Often-overlooked Benefits of Losing,” Preaching Today, Tape No. 80;

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We Do Have Choices

1 Peter 5:2

“Be shepherds of God’s flock that is under your care … not lording it over those entrusted to you” (1 Peter 5:2-3, NIV).

Em Griffin, author of “The Mind Changers,” tells about a good friend from the University of Michigan who went as a medical missionary to Bangladesh. When he arrived on the mission field, he was informed that he couldn’t keep his four children with him but that they would have to go away to boarding school. This was the policy of the mission and he didn’t have a choice.

He responded, “Sure I have a choice! Our kids need us. Evangelization in the home first, then on the mission field.” He then proceeded to raise more money, found a teacher, and established a mission school right on the hospital grounds.

Certainly we need to follow our God-given leaders. However, when they are in the wrong (as we often are), it is important to confront them in Christian love where necessary, and do what is right. As Peter pointed out, no leader has a right to control (lord it over) anybody else. When we do, we are playing the role of God and the Holy Spirit in their life.

Suggested prayer: “Dear God, please give me the serenity to accept the leadership of your servants when what they say is in harmony with your will, the courage and grace to stand against them when they are not, and the wisdom to know the difference. Gratefully in Jesus’ name. Amen.”

Do You Reverse the Order?

Luke 10:39

The founder of McDonald’s, Ray Kroc, was asked by a reporter about his order of priorities. "I believe in God, my family and McDonald’s," he said. Then he added, "When I get to the office, I reverse the order."

When many people enter the public arena their priorities change, and they put God on the shelf. He may be something of a priority on Sunday morning and truly a priority when they’re experiencing some serious problems, but otherwise, He is out of sight and out of mind.

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Unkempt the Church

Psalms 120:1

A family went to the theater on Saturday night in a modern cineplex with air conditioning, fine carpet and new reclining seats. They spent nearly $50.00 for a family of 5. On Sunday after church dad was complaining about how unkempt the church was and how the sound system was bad and the air conditioner was off. “The church could take a lesson from that theater.” But the son wrapped it all up when he said, “Dad, for that $1. 00 you put in the offering I thought the church put on a pretty good show.” Ouch!! Priorities will show.

Good old AOL (?) — somehow they deleted all the AOL addresses (100’s) on my mailing system, and I have no way of retrieving them. If you know of anyone with an AOL address who was receiving E-Cheer, please send me their address so it can be re-entered.

As a child of God, aren’t you glad that God doesn’t delete you? We used to sing a song, “Safe in the arms of Jesus”. It was considered a funeral song, but the concept is comforting to any believer who is going through difficult times. To know that God knows and loves you is a wonderful comfort zone.

Psa. 120:1 (niv), “I call on the Lord in my distress, and he answers me.” The answer may not be immediate, but God does not turn a deaf ear to His faithful children. Our part is to be faithful.

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Walking By Faith

Colossians 2:6

As you therefore have received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk in Him, having been firmly rooted and now being built up in Him and established in your faith (Colossians 2:6, 7).

Some Christians believe that walking by faith means being carried along by a mysterious, ethereal, indescribable inner sense called “faith.” But the walk of faith is much more practical and definable than that. Walking by faith simply means that you function in daily life on the basis of what you believe. Your belief system determines your behavior. If your behavior is off in a certain area, you need to correct your belief in that area because your misbehavior is the result of your misbelief.

“But how can I know what I really believe?” you may ask. Take a few minutes to complete the following statements as concisely and truthfully as possible.

I would be more successful if …

I would be more significant if …

I would be more fulfilled if …

I would be more satisfied if …

I would be happier if …

I would have more fun if …

I would be more secure if …

I would have more peace if …

Whatever you believe is the answer to these statements constitutes your present belief system.

Assuming that your basic physiological needs (food, shelter, safety, etc.) are met, you will be motivated in life by what you believe will bring your success, significance, fulfillment, satisfaction, happiness, fun, security and peace. If what you believe about these eight values does not line up with what God says about them, your walk of faith will be off to the same degree that your belief is off.

Father, enable me to grow in my understanding of Your Word today so my faith-walk will be strengthened.

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Dying To Win

Philippians 2:8

He humbled Himself and became obedient to death. — Philippians 2:8

It wasn’t exactly the Lakers versus the Pacers, but that didn’t matter to the sweat-soaked players on the court. Katy’s team had scrapped their way to the finals of the three-on-three basketball tournament with heart and hustle. In the championship game, however, they were clearly outclassed and had to settle for second place.

But Katy had noticed a clear injustice. She had seen the “big gun” on the victorious team playing on a boys’ team earlier in the day. It was against the rules to play on two teams.

Katy had a choice: Squawk loudly, or congratulate the other team and accept the second-place trophy.

She made a very mature decision. You see, the three-on-three tournament was part of an evangelistic outreach into her church’s community. Katy played on a team made up mostly of churchgoing kids. The winning team was made up entirely of visitors.

Katy quietly let the matter drop. Despite her competitive nature, she reminded herself that the bigger victory was in not detracting from the gospel message the players would hear soon after the awards ceremony.

We live in a competitive culture that thrives on demanding its rights. And genuine rights are a very good thing to defend. But the Christian life does not obsess about rights. In fact, to follow Christ means we may need to renounce certain rights.

The only truly good person who ever walked the earth gave up all His rights so that He could die for us. Paul wrote, “[Jesus], being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be grasped, but made Himself nothing, taking the very nature of a servant” (Philippians 2:6-7). Paul noted that our own attitude “should be the same as that of Christ Jesus” (v.5).

That same Jesus calls us to “lose our lives” so that we will be useful to Him. That’s the whole idea behind denying ourselves and taking up our cross, as Jesus instructed us to do in Matthew 16:24-28.

In a sense, Katy put her competitive nature to death for the benefit of others. The payoff, both for her and for the visitors who heard about Christ, could be vastly more significant than anything the Lakers and Pacers ever fought for. –TG

REFLECTION

• When was the last time I relinquished a “right” for the sake of Christ?

• Do I always demand what is rightfully mine? Should I?

• For further reading, see Genesis 26:12-22.

It’s not always right to demand your rights.

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Too Busy For Bing

In an affluent neighborhood in California, a family decided to go out on Christmas Eve and serenade their neighbors with carols. In one house where they stopped, there was hectic confusion with Christmas preparations and with rushing and tension; so the lady opened the door and said to the singers, “Not now, please; we’re too busy.” The gentleman leading the carolers merely said, “Yes, ma’am,” and they moved away. It was Bing and Kathy Crosby with their family.

If Jesus comes to our house and we say, “Not now, I’m busy,” He’ll move away, too.

Sermon: Crawling Out of the Hectic Hole

Isaiah 32:14

Sermon in the series "The Holes of Life" #3. Isaiah 32:14-20

CRAWLING OUT OF THE HECTIC HOLE

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I. Fitting Mother's Day into my series.

A. What life-sucking pit can I associate mothers with?

B. Moms have more on their plates these days.

II. Isaiah's day of disaster. Isaiah 32

A. The beginning of the passage describes a terrible invasion.

B. Then something dramatic happens.

C. Consider his description of a righteous (blessed) life: 32:17

D. Mothers can appreciate a final touch.

III. Hurry sickness.

A. Isaiah's quietness and confidence seems to elude us.

B. Signs you have hurry sickness.

C. It can even involve our prayer life.

D. Being under Satan's yoke.

IV. How can we handle hecticness?

A. Get ready, set, relax.

B. Can we be busy and spiritual at the same time?

V. Living Isaiah's vision now.

A. Don't slow down life, but reorder your priorities.

B. Get a handle on your time-sucking compulsions.

C. Leave special time for God, no matter how busy you are.

from Condensed sermon outline (handout) by Rev. David Holwick · Rev. David Holwick, Serm09o.pco via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

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