Vision
Acts 24:16Soon after the completion of Disney World, someone said, "Isn't it too bad the Walt Disney didn't live to see this?"
Mike Vance, creative director of Disney Studios, replied, "He did see it -- that's why it's here."
Effort in Christian preaching highlights the diligent and faithful application of one's abilities and resources in service to God, emphasizing perseverance and wholehearted commitment (Colossians 3:23). Illustrations often use images of persistent labor, continuous striving, and overcoming challenges, reminding believers that success and spiritual growth come through consistent, earnest endeavor (Galatians 6:9).
Soon after the completion of Disney World, someone said, "Isn't it too bad the Walt Disney didn't live to see this?"
Mike Vance, creative director of Disney Studios, replied, "He did see it -- that's why it's here."
Sermon: SWEET OR SWEAT? THE CHRISTIAN VIEW OF LABOR
I. People hate to work.
II. Biblical view: Work is good.
A. God is a worker (Creation). Genesis 2:2
B. Work produces benefits.
C. All work should be done as unto the Lord. Col 3:17,20-24
III. Work is hard.
A. After his sin, Adam's work became sweaty toil. Gen 3:17-19
B. Because of its hardness, Christians need dedication.
C. Dangers in work:
IV. Our society needs to rediscover the Christian work ethic.
A. Commentator on Soviet Union disintegration:
B. Impact of Methodism in England.
C. America needs to find its work ethic once again.
When Bill Veeck, perhaps the most creative promoter that baseball has ever seen, bought the Chicago White Sox in 1975, he hired as coach Minnie Minoso, who starred for the Sox as well as other teams in the 40's, 50's and 60's. Always one for crowd-pleasing events, Veeck decided a year later to play Minoso, who was in his fifties, in several games.
Mike Veeck, Bill's son, recalls seeing Minoso bat in one of those games. "He hit a ground ball, a pitiful, routine, groundball with such a passion, with such a pride. It was stirring, inspirational, just to see him run. The fans gave him a standing ovation."
Minnie Minoso gave it his all, and in so doing made a ground out more inspiring and more significant for others than a home run.
Exerpts from Henry David Thoreau's book WALDEN, written in 1845:
Be not simply good; be good for something.
In the long run, men hit only what they aim at. Therefore ... they had better aim at something high.
I know of no more encouraging fact than the unquestionable ability of man to elevate his life by conscious endeavor.
I learned this, at least, by my experiment: that if one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he had imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours.
At one time a group of men were attempting to raise an obelisk in Egypt to its base, and the work was under the supervision of a very exact and careful engineer. They had raised the great mass of granite to within a few inches of the level of the base and then were unable to lift it further. They could not get it up to the level of the pedestal by their utmost efforts. But there was a secret in nature that they did not know. There was a sailor there who knew all about it. He shouted, “Wet the ropes!” As they did so, the ropes began to groan, and strain, and shrink, and the great mass rose, and rose, till it came to the level of the base, and they could push it over and establish it firmly on its pedestal. It was a little secret, but it was an effective one. The men had pulled at the cordage and strained away at it, but the obelisk was in mid-air, and there it hung until the cry came to wet the ropes.
The instant you let the Holy Spirit saturate your soul, the Lord Jesus Christ brings into it all His infinite forces of love and power. One touch of God will do all that your tugging and struggling could not do.
“Natural abilities are like natural plants; they need pruning by study.”
--Francis Bacon
“Consider the postage stamp: its usefulness consists in the ability to stick to one thing till it gets there.”
--Josh Billings
“Ability is of little account without opportunity.”
--Napoleon Bonaparte
“It is almost as presumptuous to think you can do nothing as to think you can do everything.”
-- Phillips Brooks
“The average person puts only 25% of his energy and ability into his work. The world takes off its hat to those who put in more than 50% of their capacity, and stands on its head for those few and far between souls who devote 100%.”
-- Andrew Carnegie
“The question ‘Who ought to be boss?’ is like as ‘Who ought to be the tenor in the quartet?’ Obviously, the man who can sing tenor.”
--Henry Ford
“The wind and the waves are always on the side of the ablest navigators.”
--Edward Gibbon
“There is something that is much more scarce, something finer far, something rarer than ability. It is the ability to recognize ability.”
--Elbert Hubbard
“I consider myself an average man, except in the fact that I consider myself an average man.”
-- Michel de Montaigne
“Ability hits the mark where presumption overshoots and diffidence falls short.”
--John Henry Newman
Executive ability is deciding quickly and getting somebody else to do the work.”
--John G. Pollard
“I am only an average man but, by George, I work harder at it than the average man.”
-- Theodore Roosevelt
“A jury is a group of twelve people of average ignorance.”
-- Herbert Spencer
“Use what talents you possess: The woods would be very silent if no birds sang there except those that sang best.”
-- Henry Van Dyke, Bits & Pieces, March 31, 1994, Page 16
“They are able because they think they are able.”
--Vergil
“Men are often capable of greater things than they perform. They are sent into the world with bills of credit, and seldom draw to their full extent.”
--Horace Walpole
“Not doing more than the average is what keeps the average down.”
-- William M. Winans
“Ability is what will get you to the top if the boss has no daughter....”
-- (unknown)
“Ability will enable a man to get to the top, but it takes character to keep him there.”
-- (unknown)
“It’s not what you’ve got, it’s what you use that makes a difference.”
-- Zig Ziglar
TRY SOMETHING DIFFERENT
I'm sitting in a quiet room at the Milcroft Inn, a peaceful little place hidden back among the pine trees about an hour out of Toronto. It's just past noon, late July, and I'm listening to the desperate sounds of a life-or-death struggle going on a few feet away.
There's a small fly burning out the last of its short life's energies in a futile attempt to fly through the glass of the windowpane. The whining wings tell the poignant story of the fly's strategy: Try harder.
But it's not working.
The frenzied effort offers no hope for survival. Ironically, the struggle is part of the trap. It is impossible for the fly to try hard enough to succeed at breaking through the glass. Nevertheless, this little insect has staked its life on reaching its goal through raw effort and determination.
This fly is doomed. It will die there on the windowsill.
Across the room, ten steps away, the door is open. Ten seconds of flying time and this small creature could reach the outside world it seeks. With only a fraction of the effort now being wasted, it could be free of this self- imposed trap. The breakthrough possibility is there. It would be so easy.
Why doesn't the fly try another approach, something dramatically different? How did it get so locked in on the idea that this particular route and determined effort offer the most promise for success? What logic is there in continuing until death to seek a breakthrough with more of the same?
No doubt this approach makes sense to the fly. Regrettably, it's an idea that will kill.
Trying harder isn't necessarily the solution to achieving more. It may not offer any real promise for getting what you want out of life. Sometimes, in fact, it's a big part of the problem.
If you stake your hopes for a breakthrough on trying harder than ever, you may kill your chances for success.
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By Price Pritchett from Chicken Soup for the Soul, Copyright 1993 by Jack Canfield & Mark Victor Hansen
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"Thinking is the hardest work there is, which is probably the reason why so few engage in it."
-- Henry Ford, cited in The Best of BITS & PIECES (B&P)
"The real danger is not that computers will begin to think like men, but that men will begin to think like computers."
-- Sydney J. Harris (1917 - 1986), syndicated columnist, B&P
"Few people think more than two or three times a year. I have made an international reputation for myself by thinking once or twice a week."
-- George Bernard Shaw, from QUOTES FROM THE MASTERS (QFTM)
"The heart has its reasons which reason knows nothing of."
-- Blaise Pascal (1623-1662), physicist and philosopher (B&P)
“It’s easier to act your way into a new way of thinking than to think your way into a new way of acting.”
— Millard Fuller (founder of Habitat for Humanity)
“You are what you think about all day long.”
— Dr. Robert Schuller
“What the mind of a man can conceive and believe the mind of a man can achieve.”
— Napoleon Hill
“Both poverty and riches are the offspring of thought.”
-- Napoleon Hill
“Men are not prisoners of fate, but only prisoners of their own minds.”
— Franklin Delano Roosevelt
“You are today where your thoughts have brought you; you will be tomorrow where your thoughts take you.”
— James Allen
"The biggest lesson I have ever learned is the stupendous importance of what we think. If I knew what you think, I would know what you are, for your thoughts make you what you are; by changing our thoughts, we can change our
lives."
-- Dale Carnegie, QFTM 6/7/03
"Nurture your mind with great thoughts; to believe in the heroic makes heroes."
-- Benjamin Disraeli, QFTM 6/7/03
“It takes but one positive thought when given a chance to survive and thrive to overpower an entire army of negative thoughts.”
-- Robert H. Schuller
“He that cannot reason is a fool. He that will not is a bigot. He that dare not is a slave.”
-- Andrew Carnegie
[Article by an entrepreneur which can be used in Christian applications.]
The mark of the superior thinker is his or her ability to accurately predict the consequences of doing or not doing something. The potential consequences of any task or activity are the key determinants of how important it really is to you and to your company. This way of evaluating the significance of a task is how you determine what your next frog really is.
LONG TIME PERSPECTIVE
Doctor Edward Banfield of Harvard University, after more than 50 years of research, concluded that "long-time perspective" is the most accurate single predictor of upward social and economic mobility in America. Long time perspective turns out to be more important than family background, education, race, intelligence, connections or virtually any other single factor in determining your success in life and at work.
Your attitude toward time, your "time horizon," has an enormous impact on your behavior and your choices. People who take the long view of their lives and careers always seem to make much better decisions about their time and activities than people who give very little thought to the future.
THINK ABOUT YOUR FUTURE
Successful people have a clear future orientation. They think five, ten and twenty years out into the future. They analyze their choices and behaviors in the present to make sure that they are consistent with the long-term future that they desire.
In your work, having a clear idea of what is really important to you in the long-term makes it much easier for you to make better decisions about your priorities in the short-term.
DETERMINE THE CONSEQUENCES
By definition, something that is important has long-term potential consequences. Something that is unimportant has few or no long-term potential consequences. Before starting on anything, you should always ask yourself, "What are the potential consequences of doing or not doing this task?"
The clearer you are about your future intentions, the greater influence that clarity will have on what you do in the moment. With a clear long-term vision, you are much more capable of evaluating an activity in the present and to assure that it is consistent with where you truly want to end up.
MAKE IT A TOP PRIORITY
If there is a task or activity with large potential positive consequences, make it a top priority and get started on it immediately. If there is something that can have large potential negative consequences if it is not done quickly and well, that becomes a top priority as well. Whatever your frog is, resolve to gulp it down first thing.
KEEP MOTIVATED
Motivation requires motive. The greater the positive potential impact that an action or behavior of yours can have on your life, once you define it clearly, the more motivated you will be to overcome procrastination and get it done quickly.
Thinking continually about the potential consequences of your choices, decisions and behaviors is one of the very best ways to determine you true priorities in your work and personal life.
ACTION EXERCISES
Review your list of tasks, activities and projects regularly. Continually ask yourself, "Which one project or activity, if I did it in an excellent and timely fashion, would have the greatest positive impact on my life?"
Whatever it is that can help you the most, set it as a goal, make a plan to achieve it and go to work on your plan immediately. Remember the wonderful words of Goethe, "Just begin and the mind grows heated; continue, and the task will be completed!"
There was once a dog who boasted to his canine friends that he could run faster than anyone. One day he chased a rabbit and failed to catch it. His friends ridiculed him.
"All right," said the dog, "I did not make good on my boast. But remember, the rabbit was running for his life and I was only running for my dinner."
Incentive is all-important in motivation.
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Cited in The Best of BITS & PIECES
Gary Parsons trotted into Brisbane, Australia, after a run of 19,030 kilometers. The effort earned him sole possession of world record for a continuous run. The previous record of 17,071 kilometers, was held by Robert Sweetgall, an American, December 1999.
Under the rules, Parsons could not miss a single day of running; and a minimum of 20 kilometers must be run each day. The Australian ran for over a year to achieve his record and "wore out about a dozen pairs of running shoes", resoling some shoes up to forty times. He also suffered from dehydration and a bout with a virus.
Application: Christians are not required to do anything to earn their reward. We don't have to run continuously or even win the race, only to "run as if to win." [1 Corinthians 9:24b] Nonetheless, we're told to "run with endurance the race that is set before us, fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of faith." Hebrews 12:1b,2a
Source/Attribution: John Gillmartin
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Jesus watched a woman break an expensive jar of ointment and pour it on His head. Many criticized this “extravagance,” but Jesus said, “She has done what she could” (Mark 14:8). It may have been her most expensive gift, and she gave it in deep gratitude to Jesus, who had made such a difference in her life.
In the life of Jesus, many simple and ordinary people assisted Jesus: the women who accompanied Him and provided for His needs; the man who opened his “upper room” to Jesus; Matthew, who entertained Jesus and his friends with a meal; and Joseph of Arimathea, who gave his new tomb to bury Him.
So today, every one of us can do what we can to assist in the work of God: a financial gift; hosting a supper; doing some typing; volunteering to help in a youth or mission trip; making things comfortable for a special meeting of God's leaders who are discussing eternal matters; being kind, gentle and thoughtful. All of us need to look and see what we do have and release it in love. God Himself will put His “value” on it.
This woman did not realize at the time the significance of “doing what she could.” Yet Jesus put God's response on this woman's generous gift: “Assuredly, I say to you, wherever this Gospel is preached in the whole world, what this woman has done will also be told as a memorial to her” (Mark 14:9). You may feel that you have so “little” to offer from your life as you live it out in the marketplace. Perhaps you don't feel that you can speak effectively, or you are very shy. While you may think that what you can do is not very important, from God's perspective it can be eternally significant!
Don't withhold what you can do. Do it as unto God, and not as unto men, and God will receive it and use it thoroughly (Col. 3:23-24).
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[Original illustration at this number was a duplicate of HolwickID #4276]
Sir Winston Churchill took three years getting through eighth grade because he had trouble learning English. It seems ironic that years later Oxford University asked him to address its commencement exercises. He arrived with his usual props. A cigar, a cane and a top hat accompanied Churchill wherever he went. As Churchill approached the podium, the crowd rose in appreciative applause. With unmatched dignity, he settled the crowd and stood confident before his admirers. Removing the cigar and carefully placing the top hat on the podium, Churchill gazed at his waiting audience. Authority rang in Churchill's voice as he shouted, "Never give up!" Several seconds passed before he rose to his toes and repeated: "Never give up!" His words thundered in their ears. There was a deafening silence as Churchill reached for his hat and cigar, steadied himself with his cane and left the platform. His commencement address was finished.
Bob Wieland finally crossed the finish line on Thursday, November 6, 1986, the New York City Marathon's 19,413th and final finisher . . . and the first to run a marathon with his arms instead of his legs! Wieland is a 40-year old Californian whose legs were blown off in a Vietnam battlefield 17 years ago. He recorded what race officials said was the slowest time in marathon history: four days, two hours, 48 minutes, 17 seconds. But he was greeted like a champion by race director Fred Lebow, who had written Wieland off as a dropout.
When he finished, Wieland shouted, "We love New York!" and repeatedly pumped his arms in the air. He claimed his finisher's medal and explained why he did it: "For the same reason as 20,000 other people. It's the greatest marathon in the country." He also cited three specific reasons: to show his born-again Christian faith; to test his conditioning and to promote the President's Council on Physical Fitness, of which he is a member.
He said, "Success is not based on where you start, it's where you finish, and I finished. The first step was the most difficult, after that, we were on our way home. The joy has been the journey."
Wieland started Sunday at 8:23 a.m., more than two hours before the main body of runners. But, moving at an average speed of about one mile an hour, his lead soon vanished; the champion, Gianni Poli, ran the entire race in the time it took Wieland to cross the Verrazano Bridge. Wieland runs in a sitting position, using his muscular arms like crutches to lift his torso and swing it forward. He sits on a 15-pound saddle and covers his clenched fists with pads he calls "size 1 running shoes."
Paul the Apostle said it like this, "Let us run with patience the race that is set before us."
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Adapted from an Associated Press story in the Denver Post, Nov 7, 1986. Submitted by Robert Strand, First Assembly of God, Grand Junction, Colorado.
Subject: A Matter of Due Diligence
Date: For the Week of July 5, 1999
It's an old story that bears repeating. A country parson was making his rounds, visiting the souls under his care. As he neared the farm of one of his newest members, he could not help noticing the improvements the hardworking man had already made in what had once been a poor piece of farm acreage.
Where there had been dilapidated outbuildings, there were now a new shed and a freshly painted barn. All the equipment was obviously being maintained well. The animals were healthy, and the fields were under cultivation. The place could hardly have looked better. So the preacher was determined to praise the farmer's hard work -- being careful, of course, to acknowledge the hand of the Lord in it all.
"Russell, you and the Good Lord have worked wonders with this place!" he allowed. "I've not seen a better looking farm anywhere in the county this spring."
"Thank you kindly, parson," said Russell, "but you should have seen the place when the Lord had the whole thing to himself. It was a disaster."
The fellow meant nothing irreverent by his comment. He took his partnership with God seriously, believing that it really mattered -- and affected the outcome.
By his precious grace, God gives human beings the power to identify with him in exercising sovereignty over Planet Earth. And he wants us to be as earnest in our part of the task as he has been in his. Thus the Bible's Book of Proverbs is filled with counsel about diligence. "Lazy hands make a man poor, but diligent hands bring wealth" (10:4). "The sluggard craves and gets nothing, but the desires of the diligent are fully satisfied" (13:4). "A sluggard does not plow in season; so at harvest time he looks but finds nothing" (20:4).
Work is not a curse, but unemployment or idleness is. Adam was to tend, subdue, and master the Garden of Eden. Yes, sin made Adam's task harder by virtue of the "thorns and thistles" it introduced into his environment. But work was part of the original and ideal arrangement of paradise.
Cervantes said, "Diligence is the mother of good fortune." In spite of the pronounced tendency in our time to doubt such a maxim, it is true nonetheless. Rather than envy the person who somehow manages to get by without hard work, pity him instead for having failed to develop a primary habit that is necessary to virtue.
God saves us by his lavish grace; that affirmation is good theology. People saved by grace partner with God in productive work; that behavior is noble character.
IT COULD NOT BE DONE
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Someone said that it couldn’t be done
Be he said with a chuckle replied
That maybe it couldn’t be done, but he would be the one
Who wouldn’t say no till he’d tried.
So he buckled right in with the trace of a grin.
On his face, If he worried he hid it
He started to sing as he tackled the thing.
That couldn’t be done, and he did it.
Someone scoffed. “Oh, you’ll never do that.”
At least no one ever has done it.
But he took off his coat and he took off his hat
With the lift of his chin and a bit of a grin
Without any doubting and quit it.
He started to sing as he tackled the thing
That couldn’t be done and he did it.
There are thousands to tell you it cannot be done,
There are thousands to prophecy failure;
There are thousands to point out to you, one by one,
The dangers that wait to assail you.
But just buckle in with a bit of a grin,
Just take off your coat and go to it,
Just start to sing as you tackle the thing
That cannot be done, and you’ll do it.
Arthur Brisbane, the newspaper editor, was heard telling his best cartoonist, Windsor McKay, that he was the second greatest cartoonist in the world.
A reporter standing nearby, his curiousity aroused, asked Brisbane who was first.
"I don't know," said Brisbane. "But it keeps McKay on his toes."
-Bits & Pieces Tan 5257
Good prayer and good works go together. It is said of Deacon Dan Towler, the former Los Angeles Rams hard-running fullback, that he prayed before every game. This husky 6-foot 2-inch, 226-pound athlete and ministerial student used to say, “I pray as if everything depends on God; then go out and play as if everything depends upon me.”
This is much different from the way a fellow student of mine used to do. He played instead of studying and then prayed just before exams. Needless to say, he flunked. Play, if substituted for work, does not go well with prayer.
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[Holwick: Towler did not originate the saying, which has been attributed to everyone under the sun, including Cardinal Francis J. Spellman, Jesuit founder St. Ignatius Loyola, St. Benedict and even Saint Augustine.]
Singer Johnny Cash says religion has kept him inspired during his 36-year career. “I make my daily commitment to God. And so long as I keep the commitment, the day goes really good,” said Cash. “If I try to break it and run everything myself, I usually mess it up.” The 59-year-old country singer was addicted to drugs in the 1960s and was jailed several times. Cash says he overcame his addiction by renewing his faith.
He tells how a shoeshine man taught him a lesson for living back in 1956. “I was expecting a fast, snappy job like the young folks do, and he was going real slow, and I said, ‘You don’t seem to be doing too much snapping.’ He said, ‘That’s the problem with the world today -- there’s too much snapping and not enough shining.’”
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Columbus Dispatch
When the call for service comes, too often we give the excuse of weakness, inability, or lack of training. Christians fail to count on the omnipotence of God to take their small talents and use them for the accomplishment of His purposes.
D. L. Moody told the story of a passenger on an Atlantic steamer who lay in his bunk during a raging storm with a severe case of seasickness. Suddenly he heard the cry, "Man overboard!" "May God help that poor fellow," he prayed, "but there's nothing I can do."
Then he thought, "I can at least put my lantern in my small window," and with an effort he did so. The man was finally rescued. In recounting the story the next day, he said, "I was going down in the darkness for the last time when someone put a light in a porthole. It shone on my hand, and a sailor in the lifeboat grabbed it and pulled me in."
Weakness is no excuse for not putting forth the little strength we have. Who can tell how God will work?
Some years ago in Northwestern University, near Chicago, a rescue crew was organized. Their purpose was the rescue of the drowning on the lake. One day the news came that a magnificent vessel was wrecked just off the shore. The young men hurried at once to the scene of the disaster, and plunged into the angry waters to rescue those who were going down. Soon they all returned, but one. Finally he came in bringing one man with him. Immediately he returned, and soon brought another, and then another, and so on until he had rescued ten. During this time his mates had built a fire and were warming themselves, all the time trying to persuade the young hero against his conviction of duty.
By the time he had brought the tenth man he was completely exhausted, and had to rest for a while. Regaining sufficient strength, he again plunged into the water and brought another man. Now he was completely overcome. During the night he lay dying from exposure. It was a sad scene. While friends stood around weeping, and his fellow students were regretting that they had not forced him to do as they had, he called one of them to his bedside, and said in a low subdued tone, just before he died:
"Did I do my best?"
Instantly his friend said: "Yes, I should think you did do your best. You saved eleven, but you have lost your life."
"But," said he, "did I do my best, my dead level best?"
"Yes, you did your dead level best."
Then a smile seemed to come over his face as if to say: "Then I am satisfied to die."
Oh, my friends, this will be something of our experience when we are in the presence of God in eternity! "Did I do my best, my dead level best?"
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L. G. Broughton
"It is the greatest of all mistakes to do nothing because you can only do a little. Do what you can."
Sydney Smith (1771 - 1845)
Clergyman and writer
Cited in BITS & PIECES
AVOIDING TEMPTATIONS
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AVOID THE TEMPTATION to get rich quick.
Everybody wants everything instantly - instant rice, instant pudding, instant success - served in pabulum form. My father was from Germany, and he said, "Always take time to be an apprentice and learn the whole job." I did this ... and it worked!
AVOID THE TEMPTATION to take shortcuts.
Taking shortcuts cutting corners is a character flaw. You will be building on sand, and it will surely collapse. It always has. It always will.
AVOID THE TEMPTATION to believe that "The grass is greener on the other side of the fence."
We need to stay focused on where we are now, what we are doing now, our present opportunity, our present job, our present activity. We need to be able to make our present responsibilities work, whatever price we have to pay.
AVOID THE TEMPTATION to quit too soon.
History books, story books, and movies are filled with illustrations and parables of people who quit "three feet too soon digging for gold." Just one more try to complete an invention; just one more call to make a sale.
COLLECTIVELY WHAT DO ALL THESE TEMPTATIONS CAUSE?
They cause you to ...
Lose sight of your goals,
Develop a lack of confidence, and
Suffer from an eroding self-esteem.
HOW DO YOU AVOID THIS?
1. Commit to a singleness of purpose.
2. Set and put into writing specific and clearly defined goals.
3. Outline exact action steps you must take to achieve your goals.
4. Repeat daily affirmations to support your goals.
5. Form a support group of your spouse, friends, associates, and
work partners.
6. Create an accountability factor.
I don't have enough paper to write or tell you the thousand sad stories I know about from my lifetime of all the educated, gifted, and talented people who fell into the temptation to get rich quick, looked for something for nothing, ceased to persist and do, believed false promises, and took a shortcut.
It is very sad to watch people chase false dreams - or their tails, the wind, and rainbows.
A solid life of personal success, family success, and business success is built more like climbing stairs than by mounting a rocket ship.
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Paul J. Meyer Copyright (r) 1999 Paul J. Meyer ALL RIGHTS
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"The potential of the average person is like a huge ocean unsailed, a new continent unexplored, a world of possibilities waiting to be released and channeled toward some great good."
-- Brian Tracy
"A ship in harbour is safe, but that is not what ships are built for."
-- William Shedd
"Life is no brief candle to me. It is a sort of splendid torch which I have got a hold of for the moment, and I want to make it burn as brightly as possible before handing it on to future generations."
-- George Bernard Shaw
"One can never consent to creep when one feels an impulse to soar."
-- Helen Keller
"We must learn to reawaken and keep ourselves awake, not by mechanical aids, but by an infinite expectation of the dawn, which does not forsake us even in our soundest sleep."
-- Henry David Thoreau
"There is great treasure there behind our skull and this is true about all of us. This little treasure has great, great powers, and I would say we only have learned a very, very small part of what it can do."
-- Isaac Bashevis Singer
"You see things; and you say 'Why?' But I dream things that never were; and I say 'Why not?'"
-- George Bernard Shaw
"Start by doing what's necessary, then what's possible, and suddenly you are doing the impossible."
-- St. Francis of Assisi (1181-1226); founder of Franciscan Order of
Priests; Bits & Pieces, 3/15/02
"True life is lived when tiny changes occur."
-- Count Leo Tolstoy
"And life is what we make it. Always has been, always will be."
-- Grandma Moses
"Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself."
-- George Bernard Shaw
"The better I get, the more I realize how much better I can get."
-- Martina Navratilova, retired tennis player, Even More of...The Best
of BITS & PIECES
"What we have done has barely scratched the surface. It turns out that there is, in fact, unlimited juice in that lemon. The fact is, this is not about squeezing anything at all: It is about tapping an ocean of creativity, passion, and energy that, as far as we can see, has no bottom and no shores."
-- Jack Welch, CEO, General Electric, BITS & PIECES
"The 'what should be' never did exist, but people keep trying to live up to it. There is no 'what should be,' there is only what is."
-- Lenny Bruce (1925-1966), comedian
"Most people see what is, and never see what can be."
-- Albert Einstein (1879-1955), physicist
"For all sad words of tongue and pen, the saddest are these, 'It might have been'."
-- John Greenleaf Whittier
"No one has yet fully realized the wealth of sympathy, kindness, and generosity hidden in the soul of a child. The effort of every true education should be to unlock that treasure."
-- Emma Goldman (1869-1940), social activist
"We know what we are, but know not what we may be."
-- William Shakespeare
"Make the most of yourself, for that is all there is of you."
-- Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803-1882), philosopher and writer, B&P 10/15/02
"Things turn out best for the people who make the best out of the way things turn out."
-- Art Linkletter, television and radio personality
"The mind is not a vessel to be filled but a fire to be kindled."
-- Plutarch, QFTM 2/15/03
"An optimist thinks this is the best possible world.
A pessimist fears this is true."
-- author unknown
“There is no sadder sight than a young pessimist.”
-- Mark Twain
QUOTES ON ACTIVITY/LABOR
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“There should be less talk. What do you do then? Take a broom and clean someone’s house. That says enough.”
-- Mother Teresa
“Don’t judge each day by the harvest you reap, but by the seeds you plant.”
-- Robert Louis Stevenson
“Well done is better than well said.”
-- Ben Franklin, QFTM 11/15/02
“You see, in life, lots of people know what to do, but few people actually do what they know. Knowing is not enough! You must take action.”
-- Anthony Robbins
“One of the marks of superior people is that they are action-oriented. One of the marks of average people is that they are talk-oriented.”
-- Brian Tracy
“Inspirations never go in for long engagements; they demand immediate marriage to action.”
-- Brendan Francis
“The most drastic and usually the most effective remedy for fear is direct action.”
-- William Burnham
“What you do speaks so loudly that I cannot hear what you say.”
-- Ralph Waldo Emerson
“The path to success is to take massive, determined action.”
-- Anthony Robbins
“God gives every bird its food, but He does not throw it in the nest.”
-- unknown, cited in More of… The Best of BITS & PIECES
“For all sad words of tongue and pen, the saddest are these, ‘It might have been’.”
-- John Greenleaf Whittier, Quotes From the Masters, 2/26/02
“Words without actions are the assassins of idealism.”
-- Herbert Clark Hoover, Quotes From the Masters, 2/26/02
“Do what you can, with what you have, where you are.”
-- Theodore Roosevelt, QFTM, 3/15/02
“How can you come to know yourself? Never by thinking; always by doing. Try to do your duty, and you’ll know right away what you amount to. And what is your duty? Whatever the day calls for.”
-- Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe (1749-1832), poet and philosopher, BP 7/30/02
“Life is a compromise of what your ego wants to do, what experience tells you to do, and what your nerves let you do.”
-- Bruce Crampton, professional golfer, B&P 9/26/02
“Work is effort applied toward some end. The most satisfying work involves directing our efforts toward achieving ends that we ourselves endorse as worthy expressions of our talent and character.”
-- William J. Bennett, QFTM 11/15/02
“All labor that uplifts humanity has dignity and importance and should be undertaken with painstaking excellence.”
-- Martin Luther King, Jr., QFTM 11/15/02
“Women now have choices. They can be married, not married, have a job, not have a job, be married with children, unmarried with children. Men have the same choice we’ve always had: work, or prison.”
-- Tim Allen (http://www.bigwacko.com/)
“Inspiration usually comes during work, rather than before it.”
-- Madeleine L’Engle, Wit & Wisdom 4/26/04
"Resolve that whatever you do, you will bring the whole man to it; that you will fling the whole weight of your being into it."
-- Orison Swett Marden
"Unless you are willing to drench yourself in your work beyond the capacity of the average man, you are just not cut out for positions at the top."
-- J.C. Penney
"There has never yet been a man in our history who led a life of ease whose name is worth remembering."
-- Theodore Roosevelt
"The great composer does not set to work because he is inspired, but becomes inspired because he is working. Beethoven, Wagner, Bach, and Mozart settled down day after day to the job in hand. They didn't waste time waiting for inspiration."
Ernest Newman
Writer
Cited in BITS & PIECES
I'm not really excited about telling you this frankly - but, then again, maybe you were as psycho about trying to get out of school as I was sometimes. There were just days when, well for one reason or another, I just didn't want to go. Which meant, of course, that I had to be sick. Which I wasn't - at least physically. And at our house, being "sick" meant having a fever. Which I didn't. But I thought I could change that. I sat on a radiator. There - I said it. Now, in case you weren't alive during the Ice Age, radiators were these iron structures that sat on the floor and radiated steam heat into the room. And, of course, they became very hot in the process. And, yes, I sat on one. Did I get a fever? No. Did I get blisters where I sit? Yes. Did I need my head examined? You decide.
I'm Ron Hutchcraft and I want to have A Word With You today about "Making It Happen, Making It Worse."
Now, that's what happened to me. I tried to make a school absence happen. Instead, I made some pain happen - and I still had to go to school. I wish that was the only time in my life when I tried to make something happen and only made a mess instead. Maybe you know the feeling.
It is, in fact, a mistake repeated all too often, even in the pages of Scripture. And we have a lot to learn from the "make it happen" choice Abram made many years ago. It's recorded in our word for today from the Word of God in Genesis 16, beginning in verse 1. It comes in the context of Abram and his wife Sarai being promised a son in their old age - a promise that was pretty hard to believe for a couple far beyond their childbearing years. It was all part of God's promise that he would raise up a nation through Abram - a man who at the time had no children. Well, they'd been waiting a while, and the son God promised had not come.
So, the Bible says, "Sarai, Abram's wife, had borne him no children. But she had an Egyptian maidservant named Hagar; so she said to Abram, 'The Lord has kept me from having children. Go, sleep with my maidservant; perhaps I can build a family through her.' Abram agreed to what Sarai said ... He slept with Hagar and she conceived. When she was pregnant, she began to despise her mistress." Well, of course that was only the beginning of hostilities. Hagar gave birth to Ishmael. Thirteen years later, Isaac, the child God had promised was born to Sarai. And the sons of Sarai - the Jewish people, and the sons of Hagar - the Arabic people - have been fighting it out ever since. Our world is still torn apart by it. The world has paid the price for Abram and Sarai's "make it happen" scheme for 4,000 years.
The story is a mirror for you and me - especially for those of us who have a tendency to be "make it happen" people. You may be there right now -scheming, pushing, manipulating, organizing - doing your best to make sure the "right thing" happens. But when it's not God's time ... when it's not God's way ... when it's not God's will, you're "making it happen" will ultimately make a mess that may take a lifetime - or more - to clean up. Trying to make it happen - romantically, financially, parentally, organizationally, relationally, spiritually - may keep it from ever happening.
Wait for God to do it His way, in His time. Trying to make it happen just makes it worse.
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Copyright © Ron Hutchcraft Ministries, Inc., PO Box 400, Harrison, AR 72602. Used by permission. Written by Ron Hutchcraft. 'Practical Answers to Real Life Issues'
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It was one of those steamy, 3-H summer days - you know ... hazy, hot, and humid. I was just finishing doing about, oh, eight miles on my bike, feeling like Mr. Fatness - uh, Fitness. Then I passed Tim. He was doing all 10 1/2 miles around the lake - running, not riding. Well, I later learned he did that every day. Now, that year Tim was in the sports headlines at home a whole lot. He was, as always, one of the county's champion track stars. But that sweaty day at the lake, there were no coaches, no reporters, no spectators watching. I said, "Hey, no time off for vacation, Tim?" He reminded me that running is a 12-month sport. See, champions aren't made the day of the race with the crowd applauding - they're made on a thousand invisible mornings.
Well, I'm Ron Hutchcraft, and I want to have A Word With You today about "A Thousand Invisible Mornings."
I've never understood people who get involved in a sport or an activity or in anything and settle for mediocre. If you're going to get into it, aim to be all you can be. Now if that's true in sports, it's really true when it comes to serving the King of Kings, the Lord Jesus Christ.
You probably can think of someone that you consider to be a spiritual champion. And you think to yourself, "I'd like to be used by God that way, to make a big difference, to influence people for Christ." You probably see or hear that person in a public setting - maybe behind a pulpit, on radio or TV, through the books they write, maybe at a concert or through their music. But the ministry you see in a spiritual champion is because of something you don't see. Just like that championship runner chugging out the miles on back roads where no one sees.
Which leads us to our word for today from the Word of God in Isaiah 50:4 - a behind-the-scenes peek at a major secret of spiritual greatness. Here's what it says. "The Sovereign Lord has given me an instructed tongue to know the word that sustains the weary. He wakens me morning by morning, wakens my ear to listen like one being taught." Now, the prophet describes here a morning-after-morning meeting with the Lord Himself, this intimate get-together that no one sees and no one is checking up on. When you see a life that seems to radiate spiritual authority and sensitivity, you know what you're seeing? That's the public overflow of what has been going on daily between that person and their Lord in private.
While others are resting or wasting time, the champion is in God's Word listening to Jesus teach Him. He or she is on their knees. They're praying throughout their day, not just in one isolated binge of prayer. God's champion speaks with a God-instructed tongue because he or she shows up for class every morning. And the only glory you see in that person is the glory of Christ's personal presence made real in someone's life by regular time with Him.
Anything that I or any other servant of God has ever said that has ever touched anyone has been because God touched His servant in private first. And He wants to do that for you, for all His kids. I believe deep in your heart you want to be used greatly by your Lord. Well, then waken each morning and let Him teach you before you leave. Love Jesus in a place alone with Him. Then you let your work, your service just be the public overflow of what's happening between you and Jesus in private.
That young track star embodies any of us who would be God's champion - a winner being built through the training of a thousand invisible mornings.
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Copyright © Ron Hutchcraft Ministries, Inc., PO Box 400, Harrison, AR 72602. Used by permission. Written by Ron Hutchcraft. "Practical Answers to Real Life Issues"
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[This is a motivational piece for salespeople but can be adopted by pastors]
First of all, I am not a psychologist. However, I am something better - I have over 50 years experience from:
Watching,
Asking questions,
Taking risks,
Facing obstacles ...
Plus the most important thing:
Praying and asking God for WISDOM & UNDERSTANDING!!
From this lifetime accumulation, I have learned the following to be ABSOLUTES concerning people:
1. People act in their own self-interests! I have never perceived this as bad. I believe we are inherently made that way.
2. There are only TWO REASONS that ninety-nine percent of the time anyone does anything:
a) Either to gain a benefit, or
b) To avoid a loss.
3. There is no Santa Claus! (He isn't coming!) And yet, it's sad to say, so many people are sitting around in their offices procrastinating, making excuses, thinking that something magical is going to appear.
4. There isn't a free lunch! Too many young people have developed a "lottery mentality" - If they could just hit the BIG one! The truth is, we are only going to get what we go after ... inch by inch ... step by step ... day by day.
5. Everybody has a hot button! The only way we, as sales people, know where it is and what it is, is to ask questions, listen, and be empathetic, seeing things from their point of view. What is your hot button?
6. People respond to those who have "SERVICE ATTITUDES." All sales people should possess a service awareness, a service consciousness, a servant's heart ... conveying a subliminal message that says, "Your needs and wants are my purpose of calling you and making this presentation."
Abraham Lincoln said:
"If you want to win a man to your cause, you must first convince him that you are his true friend."
7. You must be sensitive and empathetic. Empathy is the imaginative projection of yourself in the other person's shoes.
People respond to those who have loving attitudes. This means thinking more highly of others than yourself ... putting other people first.
"ACHIEVE SUCCESS BY USING THE GOLDEN RULE PHILOSOPHY!!"
If you can master the above, and go out of your way to articulate and communicate it, with a golden-rule philosophy ... doing unto others as you would have them do to you ... then I promise you that the world will become your cornucopia and you will set records you didn't try to set! You will achieve goals beyond your wildest expectations!
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"The spirit, the will to win, and the will to excel are the things that endure. These qualities are so much more important than the events that occur."
-- Vince Lombardi, football coach
"Let us not be content to wait and see what will happen, but give us the determination to make the right things happen."
-- Peter Marshall, minister, QFTM 6/28/03
Genius is only the power of making continuous efforts. The line between failure and success is so fine that we scarcely know when we pass it: so fine that we are often on the line and do not know it. How many a man has thrown up his hands at a time when a little more effort, a little more patience, would have achieved success. As the tide goes out, so it comes clear in. In business, sometimes, prospects may seem darkest when really they are on the turn. A little more persistence, a little more effort, and what seemed hopeless failure may turn to glorious success. There is no failure except in no longer trying. There is no defeat except from within, no really insurmountable barrier save our own inherent weakness of purpose.
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Source: Light from Many Lamps by Lillian Eichler Watson (Editor)
This past weekend [January 2002] "Super Bowl"-number-whatever was won by fourteen-point underdogs, the New England Patriots.
Nine years ago, January 3, 1993, another team, the Buffalo Bills, won by a field goal in overtime against the Houston Oilers. At half-time the score was - Oilers 28, Bills - 3; nine minutes into the third quarter the Oilers intercepted a Bills pass and went out 35 - 3. But at the end of the game, 21 minutes later, in overtime, the Bills kicked a field goal to win 38 - 35.
On the Monday following this week's Super Bowl, a high school coach reminded Rush Limbaugh of a truth most coaches have known for ages: it makes no difference who is ahead at the end of the first quarter, who is ahead at half-time, who is ahead at the end of the third quarter, or even who is ahead at the two-minute warning in the fourth and final quarter ... it only matters who is ahead when the game ends. At the end of the first, second or third quarters no one knows who is going to win. Not even at the two minute warning is anyone "certain" of who will win. Athletes ought to be brainwashed with that truth -- those that are win more games and play much better whether ahead or behind.
This truth reminds athletes of what Paul told the Corinthians long ago, it ain't over till it's over, "run in such a way that you may win." [1 Corinthians 9:24b]
In our world today, it may appear the enemy is ahead in points. Perhaps this is the fourth quarter or even beyond the two-minute warning ... but it doesn't matter, because we all know who will be the winner when the game of life ends - the Lord Jesus Christ!
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The Japanese word is gambate. It means, roughly, "Try with everything you have." ABC missionary Kari Davidson says the expression is used "in just about any situation, from toilet training your kid to making a lovely swan from a small square of origami paper."
Kari says the idea of "trying hard" is a cultural norm "so engrained that you stick out like a sore thumb if you're not, say, a businessman who stays at the office for 12 to 16 hours a day or a mom who spends hours painstakingly making beautiful boxed lunches for her children." She adds that there are both strong group expectations and a sense of personal perfectionism that are intense in almost every area of life.
"One of the most valuable things God has taught our little family is to keep right on laughing at ourselves," she says. They may not be able to blend in with Japanese culture, but "there are ways to meaningfully relate to people who have been informed by radically different ideas about what's 'normal.'"
Karen and I have always enjoyed going to a county fair together. But when we went to our most recent local county fair, we had an extra reason - a personal reason to enjoy it. There's one exhibit hall that is filled every year with various entries that have received awards; cooking entries, produce, sewing, art, photographs. Of course, they only display the ones that have been judged the best. But there was one unique display in that hall and that's the one we wanted most to see. Our daughter and son-in-law's church had a display of pictures that had been drawn by their four-year-old Sunday School kids. Each one had been asked to draw a picture of their family. And they displayed every one of those pictures, no matter how much of a Rembrandt or an un-Rembrandt they were. Our grandson is in that class. So, needless to say, we went looking for his picture in particular. And his picture had a blue ribbon on it. But, then, so did all the other pictures.
I'm Ron Hutchcraft and I want to have A Word With You today about "Blue Ribbon Performance."
What the church did was so cool - they gave every child a blue ribbon. They rewarded their effort, not their performance. That's how their Boss does rewards - not their pastor - their Master, Jesus. And if you've been feeling that you don't measure up, that you're a loser compared to some winners you know, you need to look at yourself through your Lord's eyes for a while and see what He sees when He looks at you.
Let's start by hearing His words in Colossians 3:23-24, where we find our word for today from the Word of God. "Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men." So who are you working for? Your boss? Your pastor? The folks at church? The people you want to please? Well, you're looking the wrong direction for your approval and your rewards then. The Bible continues: "Working for the Lord, not for men, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving."
And aren't you glad He's the One whose in charge of your rewards? Maybe you're in an environment right now where a person's worth is based on their grades, or their looks, maybe their income, or their clothes, or their personality, or their performance. Thank God, He doesn't care about any of that stuff! His rewards are based on "Well done, good and faithful," not "Well done, good and successful."
And unlike life's "county fair" where the awards are based on comparing one to another, God doesn't compare you with anybody! He created a unique "you" with a unique plan for your life. So when you try to base how you're doing on how you compare with someone else - usually someone you think is better - you're playing it man's way, not God's way. 2 Corinthians 10:12 says, "When they compare themselves with themselves, they are not wise."
So you may be unappreciated here, but if you're faithful to your Lord, you're going to receive extravagant awards there. "You have been faithful with a few things," Jesus says, "I will put you in charge of many things." (Matthew 25:21) And God says, "Stand firm. Let nothing move you. Always give yourself fully to the work of the Lord, because you know that your labor in the Lord is not in vain." (1 Corinthians 15:58)
Jesus is watching your faithful effort, no matter how it compares to someone else's. And He doesn't give anything but blue ribbons to every child who is simply faithful to Him ... who does whatever they do with all their heart.
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Copyright © Ron Hutchcraft Ministries, Inc., PO Box 400, Harrison, AR 72602. Used by permission. Written by Ron Hutchcraft. "Practical Answers to Real Life Issues"
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When you're five years old, you have a number of those milestone experiences - lots of “firsts.” Like your first soccer game - which our five-year old grandson had not long ago. I reminded our daughter that she has just joined that much-talked about tribe called “soccer moms.” Well, our grandson had never played soccer before, and he doesn't have an older brother or sister to learn from. So his first game was a great learning experience. And he did a good job. But not good enough for the kind of performance most firstborns expect of themselves. Though he got the ball several times for his team and moved it down the field, he didn't score any goals - and he was bothered that he missed one. Right after the game, he gave his mom his two word summary of how he thought he did. He just said, “I tried.”
I'm Ron Hutchcraft and I want to have A Word With You today about “It Really Is 'How You Play The Game.'“
Well, at least on God's team. That's why Jesus' finish line commendation for His players will be, “Well done, good and faithful servant” (Matthew 25:21), not “Well done, good and successful servant.” What God cares about - what God rewards - is an all-out effort. The results are in His hands. The effort is in yours.
What impresses God about His players is clear in our word for today from the Word of God. He says in Colossians 3:23 and 24: “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving.” You're not playing for the applause of the crowd or even the approval of your teammates. As far as you're concerned, there's only one Person in that stadium - Jesus, your Coach. If you've got His smile, you're winning - not if you're winning, you've got His smile. He wants you to be able to honestly say, “Coach, I really tried.”
If you're playing your position with all your heart, you are pleasing Jesus. Your wholehearted effort may mean you get A's or it may mean you get C's, that you're the best one they've got or just considered average, or that you get amazing results or you seldom see results. You can't give any more than all your heart. And though we live in a world that cares only if you score, only if you look good, only if you win, you can be free inside knowing you're playing for the One who gives the biggest rewards. And Jesus rewards relentless faithfulness. That means you're still in there fighting when everybody else has dropped out.
Maybe God has assigned you to play a position on His team that's behind the scenes, doing things for Him that few people notice or value. And even you feel like what you do doesn't matter much - even to God. Surely, it doesn't matter as much as the big, public things some of your brothers and sisters are doing for God. But remember who gets the Super Bowl ring - every member of the team, not just the guys who scored the points. That's how God looks at all of us. Your part, your reward, matters just as much to Him as that of some great pastor or evangelist. In fact, the less glory you get on earth, the more He will give you in heaven for your all-out effort for Him.
So hold your head high, no matter what position you play. Don't let that discouragement wear you down any more - not if you're giving it all you've got. If you are, then in God's eyes - the only opinion that ultimately matters - you are a champion. Earth may not have many rewards for you. But God's gold medal will one day hang around your neck!
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Copyright © Ron Hutchcraft Ministries, Inc., PO Box 400, Harrison, AR 72602. Used by permission. Written by Ron Hutchcraft. "Practical Answers to Real Life Issues"
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My wife Margaret and I are big history buffs. So, when the Berlin Wall was coming down in 1989, we talked about going to Germany to watch it fall in person. What an opportunity to see one of the greatest historical events of the twentieth century unfold right before our eyes! It would have just taken a few days out of my calendar to experience a bit of history in the making, but we didn't do it. With a little extra effort, I could have made a memory with my family that I would have cherished for the rest of my life. Instead, all I have is regret that we didn't go. If I took a survey, I'm sure most of you would be able to think of a time when you could have experienced something wonderful if you had only put forth a little extra effort. You'd probably also be able to recall a time when you could have excelled in some area if you had only tried a bit harder. Perhaps your example would have to do with physical fitness, academics, your golf game, a personal relationship, or your career. Whatever the case, a little extra effort is all it would have taken for you to reach the next level of success. I'm not trying to discourage you by reminding you of past regrets. Far from it. I'm hoping that reading this will prompt you to work a little smarter, listen a little better, push a little harder, or persevere a little longer when it comes to current and future projects, responsibilities, and relationships. Is doing a little bit more really that important? Well, look at it this way. How do people at the top get there? Do they take an elevator? Does a helicopter drop them off at the peak? Of course not. People at the top get there by going the extra mile, working the extra hours, and investing the extra time. They realize that nobody's going to come along and carry them to the pinnacle; they have to get there themselves through their own hard work. The same is true for you. If you want to get to the top in any segment of life, a little extra effort is essential. In his book, Leadership When the Heat is On, Danny Cox advises leaders who want to achieve great things to ask themselves four questions: What do I really want? What will it cost? Am I willing to pay the price? When should I start paying the price? "If you don't answer the last question and make a commitment to a start date, the first three questions don't really matter," Cox writes. "The best answer [to the last question], of course, is 'now.' Achievers choose what losers won't and pay the price that others don't." In other words, achievers are willing to put forth a little extra effort in order to accomplish their goals. What does it take to have a better marriage? A little extra effort. What does it take to be a better friend, team member, mentor or parent? A little extra effort. What does it take to become a better leader? You guessed it-a little extra effort. Don't wait until tomorrow to start putting forth that extra effort. Do it now, while you still can. I assure you-you won't regret it.
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John Glenn said this about space: “You don’t need a cane or walker or wheelchair — you just float.” I could like that. Truth is — some folks just sort of float through life anyway — no direction, no goal.
In Psalm 118:16 (NIV) we read: “The Lord’s right hand is lifted high; the Lord’s right hand has done many things.” Some may flippantly say, “See, that proves that the Lord is right handed” and then totally miss the impact of that verse which is, the awesome power and majesty of our God.
You may be facing a difficult day. You may even be one of those who is drifting through life without focused goals. Read thast verse again and realize that the same all-powerful God who created “space” for people like John Glenn to explore is available to help you through today. As Christians, we have an extra resource to help us face each day with renewed courage. Tap into that resource as you face today with your head held high.
In a recent edition of his TIPS newsletter, Philip Humbert writes, “Harry Truman didn't find a career until late in life. He didn't marry until well into his thirties, and before that he tried a variety of jobs and ventures, including farming and selling men's clothing. His clothing store went bankrupt and he referred to himself as a 'failed haberdasher' for the rest of his life. Because of poor eyesight, he barely made it into the Army, but served with distinction and courage in World War I. In his 40's and 50's he drifted into politics and served as a county commissioner, mainly dealing with road repair.
“He never had money and he and his wife spend most of their married life living upstairs in his mother-in-law's home. When he was elected to the U.S. Senate, he was seen as a party hack and given little respect. In 1944, Franklin Roosevelt selected him to run for Vice President after the 'better' candidates were all rejected. FDR thought so little of him, they never had a serious conversation and Truman was told nothing about the atomic bomb until several days after he was sworn in as the new President.
“And yet this 'common man' is often viewed as one of the greatest Presidents of the 20th century. How can this be? Truman himself often said that there 'are probably a million people more qualified than me to be President, but I'm the one with the job, and I'll do my best.’ Throughout his life, he was always known for doing his best, and often astonished people by exceeding their expectations....”
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When we’ve dedicated our bodies as living sacrifices to Christ, we don’t just sit around and enjoy the experience. We constructively go out and serve.
One Sunday in Copenhagen, Corrie ten Boom, 80, spoke from Romans 12:1, urging her audience to present their bodies to Christ as living sacrifices. After church, two nurses invited her to their apartment for lunch, and Corrie went with them — only to discover they lived on the tenth floor, and there was no elevator. The task of mounting those stairs was almost more than she could stand, and she wondered if she might die en route. “Perhaps I am leaving earth to go to heaven,” she complained to herself.
Finally arriving in the apartment, Corrie found the parents of one of the girls waiting there, wanting to be saved, and both gloriously received Christ as their Savior.
On her way down the steps, Corrie said, “Thank you, Lord, for making me walk up all these steps. And next time, Lord, help Corrie ten Boom listen to her own sermon about being willing to go anywhere You tell me to go — even up ten flights of stairs.”
Lord, make me willing, get me going, and take me higher!
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Source: Turning Point Daily Devotional
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[Original illustration at this number was a duplicate of HolwickID #20888]
I have often used an illustration taken from a person who teaches the art of growing taller. I do not believe in that art: we shall not add a cubit to our stature just yet. But part of this professor's exercise is that in the morning, when you get up, you are to reach as high as ever you can, and aim a little higher every morning, though it be only the hundredth part of an inch. By that means you are to grow.
This is so with faith. Do all you can, and then do a little more; and when you can do that, then do a little more than you can. Always have something in hand that is greater than your present capacity. Grow up to it, and when you have grown up to it, grow more. By many little additions a great house is built. Brick by brick up rose the pyramid. Believe and yet believe. Trust and have further trust. Hope shall become faith, and faith shall ripen to full assurance and perfect confidence in God Most High.
David’s victory over Goliath, in the Biblical account, is held to be an anomaly. It was not. Davids win all the time. The political scientist Ivan Arreguín-Toft recently looked at every war fought in the past two hundred years between strong and weak combatants. The Goliaths, he found, won in 71.5 per cent of the cases. That is a remarkable fact. Arreguín-Toft was analyzing conflicts in which one side was at least ten times as powerful — in terms of armed might and population — as its opponent, and even in those lopsided contests the underdog won almost a third of the time.
In the Biblical story of David and Goliath, David initially put on a coat of mail and a brass helmet and girded himself with a sword: he prepared to wage a conventional battle of swords against Goliath. But then he stopped. “I cannot walk in these, for I am unused to it,” he said (in Robert Alter’s translation), and picked up those five smooth stones. What happened, Arreguín-Toft wondered, when the underdogs likewise acknowledged their weakness and chose an unconventional strategy? He went back and re-analyzed his data. In those cases, David’s winning percentage went from 28.5 to 63.6. When underdogs choose not to play by Goliath’s rules, they win, Arreguín-Toft concluded, “EVEN WHEN EVERYTHING WE THINK WE KNOW ABOUT POWER SAYS THEY SHOULDN’T.”
Consider the way T. E. Lawrence (or, as he is better known, Lawrence of Arabia) led the revolt against the Ottoman Army occupying Arabia near the end of the First World War. The British were helping the Arabs in their uprising, and the initial focus was Medina, the city at the end of a long railroad that the Turks had built, running south from Damascus and down through the Hejaz desert. The Turks had amassed a large force in Medina, and the British leadership wanted Lawrence to gather the Arabs and destroy the Turkish garrison there, before the Turks could threaten the entire region.
But when Lawrence looked at his ragtag band of Bedouin fighters he realized that a direct attack on Medina would never succeed. And why did taking the city matter, anyway? The Turks sat in Medina “on the defensive, immobile.” There were so many of them, consuming so much food and fuel and water, that they could hardly make a major move across the desert. Instead of attacking the Turks at their point of strength, Lawrence reasoned, he ought to attack them where they were weak — along the vast, largely unguarded length of railway line that was their connection to Damascus. Instead of focussing his attention on Medina, he should wage war over the broadest territory possible.
The Bedouins under Lawrence’s command were not, in conventional terms, skilled troops. They were nomads. Sir Reginald Wingate, one of the British commanders in the region, called them “an untrained rabble, most of whom have never fired a rifle.” But they were tough and they were mobile. The typical Bedouin soldier carried no more than a rifle, a hundred rounds of ammunition, forty-five pounds of flour, and a pint of drinking water, which meant that he could travel as much as a hundred and ten miles a day across the desert, even in summer. “Our cards were speed and time, not hitting power,” Lawrence wrote. “Our largest available resources were the tribesmen, men quite unused to formal warfare, whose assets were movement, endurance, individual intelligence, knowledge of the country, courage.” The eighteenth-century general Maurice de Saxe famously said that the art of war was about legs, not arms, and Lawrence’s troops were ALL legs. In one typical stretch, in the spring of 1917, his men dynamited sixty rails and cut a telegraph line at Buair on March 24th, sabotaged a train and twenty-five rails at Abu al-Naam on March 25th, dynamited fifteen rails and cut a telegraph line at Istabl Antar on March 27th, raided a Turkish garrison and derailed a train on March 29th, returned to Buair and sabotaged the railway line again on March 31st, dynamited eleven rails at Hediah on April 3rd, raided the train line in the area of Wadi Dhaiji on April 4th and 5th, and attacked twice on April 6th.
Lawrence’s masterstroke was an assault on the port town of Aqaba. The Turks expected an attack from British ships patrolling the waters of the Gulf of Aqaba to the west. Lawrence decided to attack from the east instead, coming at the city from the unprotected desert, and to do that he led his men on an audacious, six-hundred-mile loop — up from the Hejaz, north into the Syrian desert, and then back down toward Aqaba. When they finally arrived at Aqaba, Lawrence’s band of several hundred warriors killed or captured twelve hundred Turks, and lost only two men. The Turks simply did not think that their opponent would be mad enough to come at them from the desert. This was Lawrence’s great insight. David can beat Goliath by substituting effort for ability — and substituting effort for ability turns out to be a winning formula for underdogs in all walks of life. You need to be relentless.
Insurgents also need to operate in real time, not ploddingly and methodically like the powerful. Lawrence hit the Turks, in that stretch in the spring of 1917, nearly every day, because he knew that the more he accelerated the pace of combat the more the war became a battle of endurance — and endurance battles favor the insurgent. “And it happened as the Philistine arose and was drawing near David that David hastened and ran out from the lines toward the Philistine,” the Bible says. “And he reached his hand into the pouch and took from there a stone and slung it and struck the Philistine in his forehead.” The second sentence — the slingshot part — is what made David famous. But the first sentence matters just as much. David broke the rhythm of the encounter. He speeded it up. “The sudden astonishment when David sprints forward must have frozen Goliath, making him a better target,” the poet and critic Robert Pinsky writes in “The Life of David.” Pinsky calls David a “point guard ready to flick the basketball here or there.” David PRESSED. That’s what Davids do when they want to beat Goliaths.
Lawrence attacked the Turks where they were weak — the railroad — and not where they were strong, Medina. Lawrence extended the battlefield over as large an area as possible. It is an exhausting strategy. It is based on a willingness to try harder than anyone else.
Arreguín-Toft found the same puzzling pattern. When an underdog fought like David, he usually won. But most of the time underdogs DIDN’T fight like David. Of the two hundred and two lopsided conflicts in Arreguín-Toft’s database, the underdog chose to go toe to toe with Goliath the conventional way a hundred and fifty-two times — and lost a hundred and nineteen times. In 1809, the Peruvians fought the Spanish straight up and lost; in 1816, the Georgians fought the Russians straight up and lost; in 1817, the Pindaris fought the British straight up and lost; in the Kandyan rebellion of 1817, the Sri Lankans fought the British straight up and lost; in 1823, the Burmese chose to fight the British straight up and lost. The list of failures was endless. In the nineteen-forties, the Communist insurgency in Vietnam bedevilled the French until, in 1951, the Viet Minh strategist Vo Nguyen Giap switched to conventional warfare — and promptly suffered a series of defeats. George Washington did the same in the American Revolution, abandoning the guerrilla tactics that had served the colonists so well in the conflict’s early stages. “As quickly as he could,” William Polk writes in “Violent Politics,” a history of unconventional warfare, Washington “devoted his energies to creating a British-type army, the Continental Line. As a result, he was defeated time after time and almost lost the war.”
It makes no sense, unless you think back to Lawrence’s long march across the desert to Aqaba. It is easier to dress soldiers in bright uniforms and have them march to the sound of a fife-and-drum corps than it is to have them ride six hundred miles through the desert on the back of a camel. We tell ourselves that skill is the precious resource and effort is the commodity. It’s the other way around. Effort can trump ability because relentless effort is in fact something rarer than the ability to engage in some finely tuned act of motor coördination.
There is a second half of the insurgent’s creed. Insurgents work harder than Goliath. But their other advantage is that they will challenge the conventions about how battles are supposed to be fought. You have to be outside the establishment to have the audacity to play it that way. George Washington couldn’t do it. His dream, before the war, was to be a British Army officer, finely turned out in a red coat and brass buttons. He found the guerrillas who had served the American Revolution so well to be “an exceeding dirty and nasty people.” He couldn’t fight the establishment, because he WAS the establishment.
T. E. Lawrence, by contrast, was the farthest thing from a proper British Army officer. He did not graduate with honors from Sandhurst. He was an archeologist by trade, a dreamy poet. He wore sandals and full Bedouin dress when he went to see his military superiors. He spoke Arabic like a native, and handled a camel as if he had been riding one all his life. And David, let’s not forget, was a shepherd. He came at Goliath with a slingshot and staff because those were the tools of his trade. He didn’t know that duels with Philistines were supposed to proceed formally, with the crossing of swords. “When the lion or the bear would come and carry off a sheep from the herd, I would go out after him and strike him down and rescue it from his clutches,” David explained to Saul. He brought a shepherd’s rules to the battlefield.
“I have fought a good fight. I have finished the course. I have kept the faith.” 2 Timothy 4:7
HERE is the Christian life in three metaphors — a fight, a race, a trust. It is a fight, for there is a foe to quell. It is a race, for there is a goal to reach. It is a trust, for there is a truth to guard. It is a fight; we must be brave. It is a race; we must be keen. It is a trust: we must be true. It is a light; we are to be “strong in the Lord.” It is a race; we are to “run with patience.” It is a trust; we are to be “faithful unto death.” It is a fight; and there is a palm of victory for the overcomer. It is a race; and there is the prize of the high calling for those who endure. It is a trust; and there is the Master’s “Well done!” for the faithful steward.
Each of these three metaphors is true to fact. Each describes one aspect of the Christian life. Each is in a sense independent; yet all three go together and are necessary to each other. They are a trinity in unity, and we should keep all three well in mind. Predominantly, they tell us that the Christian life demands bravery, perseverance, fidelity. They “sweep the deck” of all loose and lazy notions. There is nothing here of being “carried to the skies on flowery beds of ease!” All these three figures imply godly effort and earnest tenacity. If we let the apostle’s own life be our commentary on his words, there is “blood and sweat and toil” in these three metaphors: a fight, a race, a trust. Possibly this occasions some perplexity, especially in younger disciples. Many of us, at our conversion to Christ, thought that the Christian life would be altogether one of peace and heart-rest. Did not Jesus say, “I will give you rest”? Does not the Gospel offer “joy and peace in believing”? Yet here Paul makes the Christian life a fight which is to be fought, a race which is to be run, and a faith which is to be guarded; something demanding an unremitting striving. How are we to reconcile the seeming contradiction?
The answer is that there are two kinds of rest. There is the rest which comes after; and there is the rest which comes in. There is the rest which comes after the fight is over; after the race is won; after the march is ended; after the hill is climbed; after the goal is reached; after the toil is done. And there is that other kind of rest; that inward calm and quiet repose which may be ours in Christ while the fight, the race, the march, the climb, the exertion, and the toil are still in progress. That is rest in and during it all, here and now. It is the rest which is ours when we are completely consecrated to Christ.
Strange as this may sound to some ears, in the Christian life it is possible to be at rest while at war! — to be relaxed while on stretch in the race! — to have heart’s ease during all the exacting vigil. Indeed, although it sounds strangely paradoxical, it is part of the Christian fight and race and trust to get to that place of inward rest, and then keep there. That is why Hebrews 4:11 says “Let us labour therefore to enter into that rest!”
Oh, it is wonderful, this rest in and during the fight and the race and the vigil; but our point of emphasis at the moment is the fact that the Christian life is indeed a “fight.” Our conversion was our enlistment. Every new blessing is meant to be new ammunition. Dear heavenly Captain, help us to keep fighting sin wherever we find it — especially in ourselves!
A lesson in “heart” is my little, 10 year old daughter, Sarah, who was born with a muscle missing in her foot and wears a brace all the time.
She came home one beautiful spring day to tell me she had competed in “field day” – that’s where they have lots of races and other competitive events.
Because of her leg support, my mind raced as I tried to think of encouragement for my Sarah, things I could say to her about not letting this get her down – but before I could get a word out, she said “Daddy, I won two of the races!”
I couldn’t believe it!
And then Sarah said, “I had an advantage.”
Ah. I knew it. I thought she must have been given a head start… some kind of physical advantage.
But again, before I could say anything, she said, “Daddy, I didn’t get a head start… My advantage was I had to try harder!”
Robert Garrett came from a wealthy family and studied at Princeton University. He was a good student but an even better athlete and was the captain of the Princeton track team in both his junior and senior years. One of his classics courses was taught by professor William Milligan Sloane, who was also one of the planners for the first modern Olympics to be held in Athens, Greece, in 1896. Sloane suggested that Garrett take part, and the student decided to go because he was basically just a curious guy looking for a fun adventure.
Garrett had seen images of the Olympic games on ancient Greek vases and was especially intrigued by the discus. The ancient sport did not exist in America so Garrett and Sloane studied ancient depictions and guessed on the size, then hired a New Jersey blacksmith to make one. It weighed nearly 30 pounds (14 kg) and looked like a manhole cover. On the boat to Greece he practiced with the discus and unsurprisingly found he couldn’t throw it very far.
At Athens, he was not entered in the event until the night before (they didn’t realize Greece used the Julian calendar and the Olympics was two weeks earlier than they thought). Fortunately a Greek competitor showed him a real discus: wood with a brass core and an iron rim, weighing just four-and-a-half pounds. Garrett decided to try it.
The Greek discus throwers were true stylists. Each throw, as they spun and rose from a classical Discobolus stance, was more beautiful than the last. Garrett’s first two throws were embarrassingly clumsy. His final throw, however, punctuated with a loud grunt, sent the discus sailing - 19 centimeters beyond the best Greek competitor’s mark. He won the gold medal.
Wrote American spectator Burton Holmes, “All were stupefied. The Greeks had been defeated at their own classic exercise. They were overwhelmed by the superior skill and daring of the Americans, to whom they ascribed a supernatural invincibility enabling them to dispense with training and to win at games which they had never before seen.”
It is amazing what people can do when they don’t realize it is supposed to be impossible!
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Adapted from these sources:
“Immortality Wasn’t In His Plan: 1896 Olympic Hero Robert Garrett Was Just Looking For Fun,” by Frank Fitzpatrick, Philadelphia Inquirer, August 19, 2004;
“The Unexpected Olympians: How Harvard Dominated the First Modern Games - In Spite of Itself,” by Jonathan Shaw, Harvard Magazine,
Here is another version found on Pulpit Today. It gets the following wrong: his nationality, the length of time he practiced, the composition of the competitive discus, and the location of the Games. It has a nice ending, however.
Olympic Perseverance
The story is told of a Scottish discus thrower from the 1800’s. The Scotsman had never entered competition or even seen a discus but he determined he would make a name for himself and become a champion. He found a book that described a discus and from that diagram he constructed his own solid iron discus. For one year he practiced and struggled to match the world record, but despite all his practice he never came close to the record. You can imagine the disappointment his practice sessions brought. But when the Olympics arrived, a year later, he traveled to England for his competition anyway. And when he arrived at the field of play he couldn’t believe his eyes. He was handed an official “wooden” discus. The Scotsman had misread the diagram in that Encyclopedia and discovered an Olympic discus was made of wood with only an outer rim of iron. The discus the Scotsman practiced with weighed nearly four times more than those his challengers were using. He promptly stepped into the box and threw that thing like a Frisbee. None of the competitors came close to matching his distance and he went home the champion.
God knows how to take adversity and make it work for your benefit! God doesn’t forget about you when you’re tested; He’s preparing you for your divinely appointed moment to shine. When you believe God during dark hours there is no way Satan can prevent your fruitfulness — no setback, betrayal, delay or disappointment can prevent you from flourishing — God knows how to cause “all things to work for good”!
Hey sports fans, it’s quiz time. Who broke Muhammad Ali’s jaw during one of the biggest boxing upsets ever?
Ken Norton did. And there’s a truth behind his victory we need to remember.
Norton, who died Sept. 18 [2103] at age 70, was a heavyweight fighter during the sport’s last golden era. He wasn’t as famous as Ali or “Smokin’ Joe” Frazier. But Norton, a three-time boxing champion in the Marine Corps before he turned pro, was for real. In his prime, he was a 6-foot-3-inch, 210-pound, one-man wrecking crew who kept coming at you. He won 42 fights, including 33 knockouts, and lost only seven over a 14-year pro career.
Marines don’t go down easy. Norton sure didn’t.
The first time he fought Ali, in 1973, he was a 5-to-1 underdog. Ali, who was looking ahead to a big title shot at then-champ George Foreman, expected the upstart Norton to be a punching bag. Big mistake.
Norton came out firing, pounded Ali and took over the fight. Ali might have been “the greatest of all time,” but he didn’t see Norton’s determined assault coming.
“Godzilla couldn’t have beaten me that night,” Norton said in an interview years later.
How did he do it? Simple: work, work and more work. Norton trained relentlessly for the fight. He allowed no distractions. He believed he could win and prepared for battle. Once the bell rang, he didn’t listen or respond to his opponent’s legendary trash talk. Norton talked with his fists. Chastened by that painful wakeup call, Ali won two later fights against Norton by razor-thin decisions, but never knocked Norton out in the 39 total rounds they fought.
Hard work doesn’t always triumph over hype. But it wins more often than you might think.
“Success depends on effects,” observes James McIntosh, who coaches leaders and executive teams in the business world. “Do you do things for effect or do you do things for effect? To help you to decide, I’ll ask the question differently. Do you do things mainly to impress others or do you do things to accomplish something of consequence? ... Your choice of effect determines whether your success is flash-in-the-pan or sustainable.”
We live in a flash-in-the-pan culture. Commitments and loyalties shift like the wind. People want something for nothing. Short-term profit rules. Make a splash, take the money and run. Let somebody else clean up the inevitable mess.
Children raised to believe they are extra-special expect straight A’s in school just for showing up. They think they’ll breeze through college and into great careers, without years of hard work and despite all economic indicators. Psychologists call this “magical thinking.” It flies in the face of reality, experience and common sense.
Tragically, this mentality has seeped into our spiritual lives. We want closeness to God without prayer, Bible knowledge without study, church growth without missions, and blessings without obedience.
God’s economy doesn’t work that way. Grace is free, but it isn’t cheap. Dietrich Bonhoeffer, who died at the hands of the Nazis because he refused to submit to their evil, regarded cheap grace as the “deadly enemy” of the church.
“Cheap grace is grace without discipleship, grace without the cross, grace without Jesus Christ living and incarnate,” Bonhoeffer wrote in “The Cost of Discipleship.” “Costly grace,” on the other hand, “is costly because it costs a man his life, and it is grace because it gives a man the only true life. It is costly because it condemns sin, and grace because it justifies the sinner. Above all, it is costly because it cost God the life of His Son ... and what has cost God much cannot be cheap for us. ... Costly grace is the incarnation of God.”
There are no shortcuts to becoming a disciple. Don’t get me wrong; it’s not the spiritual equivalent of an exercise or weight-loss plan. God provides the power and brings the results -- not our puny efforts. But He requires commitment and obedience.
The apostle Paul, master missionary and disciple maker, put it this way:
“So then, my beloved, just as you have always obeyed, not as in my presence only, but now much more in my absence, work out your salvation with fear and trembling; for it is God who is at work in you, both to will and to work for His good pleasure. Do all things without grumbling or disputing; so that you will prove yourselves to be blameless and innocent, children of God above reproach in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation, among whom you appear as lights in the world” (Philippians 2:12-15, NASB).
Paul turned the world upside down, one disciple and one church at a time, through relentless work, prayer, teaching and missionary activity, even in his last days in Roman chains when he wrote the above words.
If you’re looking for flash-in-the-pan success, Christian discipleship isn’t for you.
If, on the other hand, you want to participate in the only enterprise that will produce eternal results, get to work.
What do you do when your son’s football team is defeated by a score of 91-0? One thing I would not recommend is filing a bullying complaint against the other team.
To say that Fort Worth Western Hills was outscored by the undefeated Aledo High School Bearcats would be an understatement. The No. 1 team in Texas’ 4A classification crossed the goal line 13 times during the Oct. 18 contest.
It is worth noting that in seven games this season Aledo has outscored its opponents 485 to 47, which averages to a score of 69-6 per game. The Bearcats have two games where they scored 84 points and one in which they scored 77.
According to everyone involved, including the head coach of Western Hills, Aledo did everything it could to keep the score down. The Bearcats’ first team only ran 21 plays in the game.
Yet one Western Hills parent took umbrage to the defeat and promptly filed a bullying complaint against the Bearcats coaching staff.
The CBS affiliate for Dallas/Fort Worth, Channel 11, obtained a copy of the compliant and included it in a story on the station’s website. The perturbed parent wrote:
“My son plays for western hills football team on friday night we all witnessed bullying first hand, it is not a pretty sight. Picking up my son from the field house after the game and taking him home was tough, I did not know what to say on the ride home to explain the behavior of the aledo coach for not easing up when the game was in hand.... During the game the aledo players showed respect to my son and I thank them for their good sportsmanship....”
I feel for the parent who wrote the complaint. I, too, have had to console my children after lopsided losses. One of my daughter’s soccer games was a 13-0 defeat. If the game were scored according to the rules of football, it would have been a 91-0 loss.
So how does a parent address a sports loss, especially a lopsided one? Allow me to suggest some ways to approach a defeat in such a way as to mitigate the humiliation factor.
First, you need to be prepared. What happened to Western Hills was not unexpected. After all, Aledo had twice scored 84 points. As a parent, I would remind my son that Aledo is a formidable opponent and encourage him to play his best.
“But each one must examine his own work,” the apostle Paul wrote in his letter to the church at Galatia, “and then he will have reason for boasting in regard to himself alone, and not in regard to another.”
The best is all a player can ever give. Sometimes an opponent is just better. When this is the case, I would look for any positive and point it out.
Next, I would I want to help put things in perspective to lessen the impact of the loss as much as possible. A quick Google search will reveal that in 1927 a football game between two Kansas high schools resulted in Haven defeating Sylvia 256-0.
In a 2007 baseball game, Dallas Lake Highlands defeated Samuel High 53-0. The game was called after the fifth inning due to a Texas high school baseball mercy rule.
I would use these examples to lighten the mood a bit and indicate, with a smile, others have been beat by bigger margins. I would also point out that my son’s team had fared about as well as others had.
I would also remain positive. I would make sure my child understood that in life a person’s self-worth is not determined by athletic performance. Character counts more than winning a game.
“Therefore, encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing,” Paul told the Thessalonian believers. If ever someone needed encouraging, it would be a child after a lopsided sports loss.
I would point out that a person’s character is revealed by how one reacts after a loss. I would encourage my son to pick himself up and look to the next opponent, which is likely to be more mortal than the team he just played.
Finally, I would practice patience. I would allow a good night’s sleep to take away some of the sting of the lopsided loss. I would certainly wait until the morning after the defeat before deciding to file a bullying complaint, which I would refrain from doing.
Everyone must be “quick to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger,” the Bible says in the book of James, “for man’s anger does not accomplish God’s righteousness.”
The complaining parent was upset after his son’s team was drubbed. However, his complaint did not help the situation. Some would argue it made it worse by calling undo attention to the loss.
What do you do when your child’s team is defeated 91-0? You do everything you can to mitigate the sting of defeat and point them to the future. One loss, no matter how lopsided, does not define a person’s life.
William Carey is well known for saying “Expect great things from God. Attempt great things for God.” Is that biblical?
Yes. Here’s one passage that gives the foundations for Carey’s words:
Now to him who is able to do far more abundantly than all that we ask or think, according to the power at work within us [the same power that raised Christ from the dead — Eph 1:19], to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, forever and ever. Amen. (Ephesians 3:20-21)
There are two noteworthy things about this passage in regard to Carey’s statement: who said it, and what it says.
First, what does this passage say? It says that God can do far more than we can ask or think of. And he can do this abundantly. So God is able to do great things.
But is he willing to do them? That seems to be Paul’s reason for pointing out that God is able to do this “according to the power at work within us.” Note also the connection here to prayer. God is able to do “more abundantly than all that we ask.” His point is: Pray and ask for God to work — and he will do far more than what you ask!
So it seems biblical that we should indeed expect great things from God, just like Carey said. But should we therefore also attempt great things for God?
This takes us to a second observation about this — namely, who said it.
The one who penned this passage, of course, was the apostle Paul. And Paul accomplished far-reaching and incredible things for the gospel — to the point where he was even able to say that “from Jerusalem and all the way around to Illlyricum I have fulfilled the ministry of the gospel of Christ” (Romans 15:19). In other words, he attempted great things for God (and accomplished them!).
So, Paul’s words and example demonstrate the truth of William Carey’s statement. His words affirm that we should indeed expect great things from God, because God is “able to do far more abundantly than we ask or imagine.” And his example affirms that, from this expectation, we should indeed attempt great things for God.
The most important thing is to get the order right. Notice that Carey did not say: “Attempt great things for God. Expect great things from God.” He said the reverse. So, attempt great things for God — grounding all of your efforts and labor and dreams in God’s grace, supported by prayer, just like Ephesians 3:20 says.
AVOIDING TEMPTATIONS
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AVOID THE TEMPTATION to get rich quick.
Everybody wants everything instantly - instant rice, instant pudding, instant success - served in pabulum form. My father was from Germany, and he said, "Always take time to be an apprentice and learn the whole job." I did this ... and it worked!
AVOID THE TEMPTATION to take shortcuts.
Taking shortcuts cutting corners is a character flaw. You will be building on sand, and it will surely collapse. It always has. It always will.
AVOID THE TEMPTATION to believe that "The grass is greener on the other side of the fence."
We need to stay focused on where we are now, what we are doing now, our present opportunity, our present job, our present activity. We need to be able to make our present responsibilities work, whatever price we have to pay.
AVOID THE TEMPTATION to quit too soon.
History books, story books, and movies are filled with illustrations and parables of people who quit "three feet too soon digging for gold." Just one more try to complete an invention; just one more call to make a sale.
COLLECTIVELY WHAT DO ALL THESE TEMPTATIONS CAUSE?
They cause you to ...
Lose sight of your goals,
Develop a lack of confidence, and
Suffer from an eroding self-esteem.
HOW DO YOU AVOID THIS?
1. Commit to a singleness of purpose.
2. Set and put into writing specific and clearly defined goals.
3. Outline exact action steps you must take to achieve your goals.
4. Repeat daily affirmations to support your goals.
5. Form a support group of your spouse, friends, associates, and
work partners.
6. Create an accountability factor.
I don't have enough paper to write or tell you the thousand sad stories I know about from my lifetime of all the educated, gifted, and talented people who fell into the temptation to get rich quick, looked for something for nothing, ceased to persist and do, believed false promises, and took a shortcut.
It is very sad to watch people chase false dreams - or their tails, the wind, and rainbows.
A solid life of personal success, family success, and business success is built more like climbing stairs than by mounting a rocket ship.
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Paul J. Meyer Copyright (r) 1999 Paul J. Meyer ALL RIGHTS
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A lesson in “heart” is my little, 10 year old daughter, Sarah, who was born with a muscle missing in her foot and wears a brace all the time.
She came home one beautiful spring day to tell me she had competed in “field day” – that’s where they have lots of races and other competitive events.
Because of her leg support, my mind raced as I tried to think of encouragement for my Sarah, things I could say to her about not letting this get her down – but before I could get a word out, she said “Daddy, I won two of the races!”
I couldn’t believe it!
And then Sarah said, “I had an advantage.”
Ah. I knew it. I thought she must have been given a head start… some kind of physical advantage.
But again, before I could say anything, she said, “Daddy, I didn’t get a head start… My advantage was I had to try harder!”
A lesson in “heart” is my little, 10 year old daughter, Sarah, who was born with a muscle missing in her foot and wears a brace all the time.
She came home one beautiful spring day to tell me she had competed in “field day” – that’s where they have lots of races and other competitive events.
Because of her leg support, my mind raced as I tried to think of encouragement for my Sarah, things I could say to her about not letting this get her down – but before I could get a word out, she said “Daddy, I won two of the races!”
I couldn’t believe it!
And then Sarah said, “I had an advantage.”
Ah. I knew it. I thought she must have been given a head start… some kind of physical advantage.
But again, before I could say anything, she said, “Daddy, I didn’t get a head start… My advantage was I had to try harder!”
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