“For godly sorrow worketh repentance to salvation not to be repented of: but the sorrow of the world worketh death. For behold this selfsame thing, that ye sorrowed after a godly sort, what carefulness it wrought in you, yea, what clearing of yourselves, yea, what indignation, yea, what fear, yea, what vehement desire, yea, what zeal, yea, what revenge! In all things ye have approved yourselves to be clear in this matter.” (2 Cor. 7:9-11)
In our last article [see HolwickID #35984] I dealt with repentance and stated that repentance is necessary for one to be saved. I also stated that repentance was worked by godly sorrow. Therefore, if repentance is necessary for one to be saved, then you can be sure that godly sorrow is necessary also, for godly sorrow works repentance unto salvation. (2 Cor. 7:10)
We sometimes use the terms godly sorrow, reproval, and Holy Ghost conviction synonymously for they are so closely connected it is hard to separate them. But, in this article, I would like to make a distinction and separate these three terms.
Holy Ghost conviction is a phrase used by old time preachers and saints who knew what real salvation was. Nowhere in the Bible can we find the words “Holy Ghost conviction” but the principle is found in the Bible. Holy Ghost conviction is the umbrella that includes both reproval (John 16:8) and godly sorrow. (2 Cor. 7:10) That is why we have used these terms interchangeably.
When we break it down, we find godly sorrow is the emotional part of Holy Ghost conviction while reproval is the fact producing part of Holy Ghost conviction, and you must have both for salvation to be a reality. Reproval, which means conviction, can come in facts only and there be no emotions involved. For example: Have you ever heard of a man sentenced (convicted) to life in prison and the news media says, “He showed no emotion?” You can have your emotions stirred and not have understanding. This results in a false profession because there must be some understanding in the areas of sin, righteousness, and judgment before one is saved. (John 16:8-11) A person is not saved by just an emotional experience, but your emotions will be involved when you are saved because of godly sorrow.
JUST WHAT IS GODLY SORROW?
Godly sorrow is a deep God caused grief and when that occurs you will grieve outwardly and inwardly. In 2 Cor. 7:9 Paul said, “Ye were made sorry after a godly manner.” This means “ye were grieved according to God” because godly sorrow is a work of God. I know that 2 Cor. 7:10 is dealing with a saved man in context but the principle for repentance to be worked is the same in a sinner; therefore, this verse can be used for doctrine as 2 Tim. 3:16 bears out.
Worldly sorrow worketh death. (2 Cor. 7:10) This is all Judas had in Matt. 27:3. “Repented” in this verse means little or nothing more than a selfish dread of the consequences of what one has done. A lot of sorrowfulness in our altars today is really just sorry that they were caught up with -- a regret because of the consequences of one’s act or acts. Worldly sorrow worketh death, which is exactly what Judas did -- hanged himself. A lot of people had rather commit suicide than allow godly sorrow to work repentance in their heart.
Just what is godly sorrow? To answer this question we can look at the final product worked by godly sorrow in 2 Cor. 7:11. “Wrought” in this verse is the same Greek word as “worketh” in verse 10 and means result in, accomplish, or achieve. There are seven things listed in verse 11 that are a result of a person being grieved according to God -- godly sorrow.
1. Carefulness.
Carefulness means diligent, watchful earnestness, or moving in the right direction with a careful, steady effort. It means to give serious attention to detail. Godly sorrow working in a person before they are saved will cause that one to look at what is working in him in detail. The Bible says, “try the spirits.” (1 John 4:1) If it is godly sorrow it will bring a disgust for sin and it will cause you to give serious attention to detail. If it is not godly sorrow, it is not of God and it will come to naught.
When godly sorrow is finished or complete and a person is saved, it will cause him to examine with a careful, steady effort as he searches out the ingredients of salvation. (2 Cor. 13:5)
2. Clearing of yourselves.
Clearing means verbal defense or apology. Before one is saved he will put up a verbal defense with God, saying “I am not guilty.” He will try to settle the account by doing -- works. (Eph. 2:9) As he looks at the balance sheet of his life, all he sees is liabilities -- sins -- because of the sin of unbelief. Then when conviction (means to prove guilty; condemned; sentenced: John 3:18) comes he sees himself as a sinner for the first time and realizes his lostness (separation from God). Why is this? Because he adds everything up, sees himself as a sinner, gets backed into a corner, and ask the question, “How is this debt going to be taken care of?” Thus, he states, “I am guilty” -- apology. But when saved he is cleared -- the account is settled -- justified -- no longer condemned. (John 5:24)
3. Indignation.
Indignation means anger or scorn resulting from injustice, ingratitude, or meanness. It also means righteous anger. Before a person is saved, when godly sorrow starts working, he has a tendency to get angry at God and then others. He usually gets frustrated and blames everyone else, especially the preacher who preached specifics about real salvation. Then he gets mad at his sin and then, himself. Godly sorrow is working. After he is saved, he will experience righteous anger -- hatred for evil. (Eph. 4:26)
4. Fear.
The word fear means to be afraid, alarmed, scared, reverence, or respect. When godly sorrow begins to work on an unsaved person, he usually becomes afraid and trembles in his soul over judgment -- fear of hell. But as godly sorrow continues to work it will produce a reverence and awe toward God with a hatred for evil in that person. When one is afraid of their dad and the discipline he administers, that fear will cause him to respect and reverence him. The same is true with God. First, there will be a fear of divine wrath (the Lord does not save you just to keep you out of hell but for His glory) then a fear of sinning against the Lord again.
5. Vehement desire.
The word vehement means hot, strong, intense, and earnest. When coupled with desire it means a longing. For what? When godly sorrow begins working in a person it begins with being awakened which is more than just being made aware. His heart is stirred or pricked which causes him to begin to seek the Lord Jesus. The reason for this is because the Lord sought him first. As the Holy Spirit convinces of sin and righteousness -- which is a person -- Jesus (1 Cor. 1:30), there comes a longing (vehement desire) in his heart for Jesus. The longing is not just to be saved to escape hell but a longing for Him. (1 John 5:12) After one is saved there is a longing to love Him, which causes you to desire to be what you should, do what you should, and go where you should.
6. Zeal.
The word zeal means intense enthusiasm and, or devotion. Before a person is saved, while godly sorrow is working, when he recognizes his condition, he has an eagerness to do something about it, even though he is helpless because salvation is of the Lord. Therefore he meets his responsibility by actively seeking the Lord Jesus. This is actively waiting (Luke 13:24), not passive waiting, for godly sorrow to have a complete work. After one is saved he has a zeal in immediately taking a right course and in seeking a remedy for the effects of sin and for God’s honor. Also there will be an eagerness to worship the Lord, come to church, and serve the Lord in whatever capacity He sees fit.
7. Revenge.
The word revenge means punishment or vengeance. Before a person is saved godly sorrow passes sentence on your sin. (Rom. 6:23) He will say, “I deserve hell.” But through the working of godly sorrow by the Holy Spirit he sees God punishing His Son for his sin on the cross. God took vengeance on His Son instead of him. When saved he can say, “I’m vindicated, justified, and righteous because He imputed His righteousness upon me at the instant I believed.”
These seven things are a work of godly sorrow. Notice the phrase, “ye have approved yourselves to be clear in this matter” in 2 Cor. 7:11. The “matter” referred to is godly sorrow working repentance to salvation. The word “approved” means to prove, to show, and to establish without doubt -- to yourself and others. (2 Cor. 13:5)
Your actions, attitudes, and speech will prove to others you are a work of God -- godly sorrow worketh repentance to salvation. How long does it take for godly sorrow to complete its work in you? Just as long as it takes. How much godly sorrow do you need? Enough to produce repentance.
Godly sorrow will work when it works, and when it works, you do not have to work because you are the work. When godly sorrow is finished, repentance will be worked, faith will be given, then and only then you can and will believe unto salvation.