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100 Sermon Illustrations on Revenge

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Revenge in Christian preaching highlights the destructive cycle of retaliation and the call to trust God's justice rather than taking matters into one’s own hands (Romans 12:19). Illustrations often contrast human anger and violence with Christ’s example of forgiveness and love, using vivid images like feuds, legalistic eye-for-an-eye justice, and personal vendettas to underscore the futility and cost of revenge.

Here, Have A Popsicle!

The Chicago police have a recurring problem every winter. Usually somebody will park in a nearby parking lot, then slave away for how ever many hours it takes to shovel out a car-sized space in front of his house, naturally so he can park his car there. Then he goes back to the lot to get his car. When he returns home, he finds that the space has been taken by some - other - car. He is, well, very upset.

What most people do is write nasty notes etc., and place them on the windshield of the offending vehicle. Where the police get involved, however, is the occasional case where the individual vents his wrath in somewhat more violent means. Tires and throats have been slashed over this.

One time a fellow got creative. Instead of doing the usual vindictiveness, he got out his garden hose and watered the automobile down, real well. I mean, very, very thoroughly. The water, of course, froze solid. When the owner returned, instead of a car, he found one car-sized Popsicle. The note on the car read: “You wanted this space? Here, it's yours until spring! Have a nice winter.”

from RM-Bible (12/14/99) via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

People I'm Going To Bite

A lady was sick, so she went to the doctor. He examined her, did a number of tests and told her the bad news. “I'm sorry to have to tell you this, but I'm afraid you've contracted rabies.”

The doctor left the room for a minute, and when he returned the woman was busy writing on a piece of paper. He asked, “What are you doing, writing your will?”

She said, “No, I'm making a list of all the people I'm going to bite.”

from Fredericksburg Bible Illustrator Supplements via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

The BURNING BARN

There was difficulty between two neighbor farmers relative to the boundary between lands. The one who held a terrible grudge. against the other, upon leaving home for some days, gave instructions to his small son to burn the neighbor's barn while he was away. He told the boy to slip up to the barn late at night, fire it, and then run back home quickly and no one would ever know, and he would get even with his enemy. The father left and the boy carried out the instructions, The barn was burned. No one could imagine how. Soon the man returned, terribly surprised! Oh, the deceitfulness of the human heart. Soon the boy, who burned the barn, was taken ill. He was very nervous. He could not eat nor sleep. Finally he said, “Father, all I can see is the burning barn.” The father assured him that he had done right; that they had gotten even with their neighbor. But the boy grew worse and worse. Finally he was dying, and the neighbors were there. In a delirious condition, he told of burning the barn. His sin had “found him out.”

from Fredericksburg Bible Illustrator Supplements via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database revengedeathsin

The Farmer and the Fox

A FARMER, who bore a grudge against a Fox for robbing his poultry yard, caught him at last, and being determined to take an ample revenge, tied some rope well soaked in oil to his tail, and set it on fire. The Fox by a strange fatality rushed to the fields of the Farmer who had captured him. It was the time of the wheat harvest; but the Farmer reaped nothing that year and returned home grieving sorely.

For this reason, Christians should never attempt revenge upon another (no matter how much harm was done to them). Forgiveness is the best solution and it was the path that Christ taught us.

The Horse and the Stag

AT ONE TIME the Horse had the plain entirely to himself. Then a Stag intruded into his domain and shared his pasture. The Horse, desiring to revenge himself on the stranger, asked a man if he were willing to help him in punishing the Stag. The man replied that if the Horse would receive a bit in his mouth and agree to carry him, he would contrive effective weapons against the Stag. The Horse consented and allowed the man to mount him. From that hour he found that instead of obtaining revenge on the Stag, he had enslaved himself to the service of man.

When we allow the spirit of anger or revenge consume our heart, we allow ourselves to become enslaved.

A Gown For A Gun

From the Business Farmer News, Scottsbluff, Nebraska: In the column under For Sale or Trade it says:

Will trade one white wedding gown size 16 -- never worn.

Will trade for 38 caliber revolver.

from Fredericksburg Bible Illustrator Supplements via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

He Made Himself Look Bad

I have no little admiration for William Tecumseh Sherman. I think the wreath, that the sculptor represents as resting on his brow in that noble statue at the entrance to Central Park in New York, rests there deservedly. He was not only the planner and executor of remarkable campaigns but a man of quick and scintillating intellect, not only a prophet of the times but a principal actor. But there is one incident in his life that I always read with sorrow.

On May 24, 1865, the victorious Union armies paraded through Washington. After Sherman, attended by Howard and all his staff, had ridden past the reviewing stand, Sherman dismounted and went upon the stand. He shook hands with the President Grant and each member of the Cabinet, save one. When he approached, Stanton, the secretary of war, extended his hand and Sherman publicly refused it. And worse than that, he records the incident with evident delight in his Memoirs. He had been aggrieved at Stanton's treatment of him after the surrender of Johnston. In this way, he sought to humiliate him, but the only person he really humiliated was General Sherman.

-- McCartney

from Fredericksburg Bible Illustrator Supplements via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

Pardon Instead of Revenge

Governor Stewart of Missouri recognized, in a convict he was about to pardon, a steamboat mate under whom he served as cabin boy. Stewart said, “I want you to promise that you will never again take a stick of wood and drive a sick boy out of his berth on a stormy night, because some day that boy may be governor, and you may want him to pardon you for another crime. I was that boy. Here is your pardon.”

-- John F. Cowan

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Sunk by Own Attack

During World War II the U.S. submarine Tang surfaced under the cover of darkness to fire upon a large Japanese convoy off the coast of China. Since previous raids had left the American vessel with only eight torpedoes, the accuracy of every shot was absolutely essential. The first seven missiles were right on target; but when the eighth was launched, it suddenly deviated and headed right back at their own ship. The emergency alarm to submerge rang out, but it was too late. Within a matter of seconds, the U.S. sub received a direct hit and sank almost instantly.

In much the same way we can destroy ourselves by hostility toward others. The effects of holding a grudge are very serious. Modern medicine has shown that emotions like bitterness and anger can cause problems such as headaches, backaches, allergic disorders, ulcers, high blood pressure, and heart attacks, to name just a few. When we do not love our enemies but strike back at them, we are usurping Gods's prerogative to mete out justice. We read in the Bible, “Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord!” By seeking revenge, we really inflict great harm on ourselves.

from Fredericksburg Bible Illustrator Supplements via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

The Irate Plaintiff Was Satisfied

When he was an attorney, Abraham Lincoln was once approached by a man who passionately insisted on bringing a suit for $2.50 against an impoverished debtor. Lincoln tried to discourage him, but the man was bent on revenge. When he saw that the man would not be put off, Lincoln agreed to take the case and asked for a legal fee of $10, which the plaintiff paid. Lincoln then gave half of the money to the defendant, who willingly confessed to the debt and paid the $2.50! But even more amazing than Lincoln's ingenuous settlement was the fact that the irate plaintiff was satisfied with it.

-- Brown Book of Anecdotes

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Resisting the Revenge Reflex

There’s something psychologically enticing about the revenge plot. From THE GODFATHER to HAMLET to WUTHERING HEIGHTS, the characters may change but the lure is something so seemingly built in to human nature that we find ourselves inextricably drawn like Narcissus to the reflecting pool. That’s probably why I unintentionally know the opening line to Edgar Allen Poe’s THE CASK OF AMONTILLADO: “The thousand injuries of Fortunato I had borne as best I could, but when he ventured upon insult, I vowed revenge.”

Revenge feels so natural; it rolls so nicely off the tongue. Perhaps because it feels like a reflex, when a story breaks the cycle of bloodshed, we stop. We sit up. We pay attention.

When Jean Valjean in LES MISÉRABLES uses the knife to cut the cords and not the throat of his arch-enemy and captive, Javert, we swallow hard. Perhaps we raise an eyebrow. Or when Edmund Dantes in THE COUNT OF MONTE CRISTO lets go of the fourteen-year-old hatred of Mondego that he has caressed both day and night in the lonely dungeons of Chateau d’If while Mondego has caressed the woman who would have been Dantes’ wife, we may feel a bit lightheaded, like someone just pulled the rug out from under the universe.

If the sight of mercy and grace unsettles us so in fiction, it is no wonder that when a TRUE story like End of the Spear comes along, a disbelieving hush falls over an audience. And perhaps even angels bow their heads as they recall what they saw unfold in a remote jungle in Ecuador in 1956.

Most who know this tale of five missionaries — Jim Elliot, Nate Saint, Roger Youderian, Pete Fleming, and Ed McCulley — brutally killed in the jungle by the tribe with whom they had “dared to make contact,” know the story from the vantage point of Jim Elliot or his widow, Elisabeth. Inevitably, a pastor has slipped their story into a sermon illustration, and we scrawled the words, “He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain that which he cannot lose” on the back of a program. Or we read THROUGH GATES OF SPLENDOR over a summer break or at the bidding of an older Christian friend.

But strikingly, this re-telling of the story comes from the perspective not of Jim or Elisabeth Elliot but of Steve Saint, who was only a child when his father Nate found a martyr’s crown at the end of a spear. The choice to tell the story though Steve’s eyes is undoubtedly one of the best that Every Tribe Entertainment, a brand new production company, could have made, for it allows the audience not only to internalize the pain of the loss, but also to feel the great gravitational pull toward revenge that is thwarted in the return to the tribe, and later on in Steve’s own face-to-face and highly charged encounter with his father’s killer, Mincayani.

As the impulse toward revenge is broken on the micro-level of the individual when the missionary widows, Nate Saint’s sister Rachel, and a young Steve Saint venture into the tribe and begin to live among them, slowly the drive toward revenge is broken down on the macro-level of the warring tribe itself. The Auca Indians, now called Waodani because their name had meant NAKED SAVAGE, had only known the way of revenge. Now they learn of the One who was speared without spearing back.

Because the film does a good job of touching on the spiritual themes without hammering the audience with them, it is a film that I’d quickly recommend to friends. Where the film could have left a little less to the audience’s imagination, however, was in the opening development of the missionaries’ motivation for contacting the tribe. With the yearning to reach the Waodani that we find in the journals and documented conversations of these young missionaries, the screenwriters missed a real opportunity to connect the audience with a stronger sense of the burning passion that led these men to lay down their lives in the first place. Though understandably, writers walk a fine line between the need to thrust the audience into the middle of the action right away and the need to develop character.

Viewers will not be disappointed, however, in the minor miracle that casting director Mark Fincannon accomplished in finding the Embera tribe to portray the Waodani. Director Jim Hanon comments, “There is an overall authenticity among the Embera people.... Ninabet, who played Gimade, has this incredible scene where Mincayani is over her with a machete and pulling her hair and she’s pleading for her life. You can’t watch that scene and not be hit by the fact that there’s a young Indian girl that lives in the rain forest and has never seen a motion picture before.” In fact, all but three of the actors cast to play the Waodani are native Panamanians who had never before entered a movie theater, much less had any acting experience.

Yet the true story of the sacrifice of five young missionaries, of reconciliation, and of the end of the cycle of revenge as a way of life for the Waodani, so electrified the Embera that the tribe wholeheartedly agreed to take part in the making of the film. Apparently, whenever real life echoes the story of the Gospel, its reverberations are heard with similar power.

Perhaps that’s why this film pulls off creating a captivating true-life story of the incarnation of Christianity without becoming overly pedantic. We cannot help but be curious when the revenge cycle is broken. Something in us realizes, as Cornelius Plantinga notes in his BREVIARY OF SIN, that THINGS ARE NOT THE WAY THEY ARE SUPPOSED TO BE. Five young men at the beginning of their lives are not supposed to die so pointlessly, nor so violently. Revenge is our human way of fixing what seems broken, of restoring the precarious balance of justice, of SHALOM, to the universe. But the problem is that revenge doesn’t work to restore SHALOM. Revenge moves a victim to the place of perpetrator and begins a whole new chapter of life not the way it’s supposed to be. The Waodani, once the most violent society ever documented by anthropologists, know this experientially. Maybe that’s why when they break their spears and lay them down, we stop to listen.

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A version of this article appeared at Common Grounds Online. Catherine Claire is a writer at Prison Fellowship.

FOR FURTHER READING

“Embracing Enemies,” BreakPoint Commentary, 17 January 2006.

“FOR THE LOVE OF A TRIBE: A CONVERSATION WITH STEVE SAINT,” Billy Graham Evangelistic Association.

“STEVE SAINT: THE LEGACY OF THE MARTYRS,” 700 Club.

Ryan Zempel, “END OF THE SPEAR,” Townhall.com, 22 December 2005.

Greg Wright, REVIEW OF END OF THE SPEAR, HollywoodJesus.com, 13 December 2005.

Cornelius Plantinga, NOT THE WAY IT'S SUPPOSED TO BE: A BREVIARY OF SIN (Eerdmans, 1995).

Alex Wainer, “LIGHT OF THE WORLD, CAMERA, ACTION,” BreakPoint Online, 6 January 2006.

Cher Smith, “BOOK REVIEW — BEHIND THE SCREEN,” CULTURE BEAT, 11 January 2006.

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from Breakpoint.org · Catherine Claire via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

Grizzly Bears and Skunks

Few creatures in all of God’s vast creation inspire the awe, and even fear, that is generated by the mighty grizzly bear. This huge carnivore, with its long, razor-sharp claws, can rise to a towering height of 9 feet and may weigh as much as 1500 pounds! It has a fiercely aggressive nature, and will rarely tolerate the presence of other creatures...especially man. Many men have paid with their lives for venturing too close to the grizzly.

Nevertheless, there is one creature who seemingly has absolutely no fear of the grizzly. When Dale Carnegie was visiting Yellowstone National Park he had the opportunity to observe a grizzly bear for a time. As he and the other tourists watched from a safe distance, they saw the bear emerge from the woods to eat. What amazed Carnegie, however, was that foraging alongside of the bear, seemingly oblivious to its presence, was a skunk. Even more amazing was the fact that the bear made no move to discourage the little striped creature from sharing the same eating space.

Even a smaller, younger grizzly could easily have killed the skunk with a single swipe of its deadly paw. And yet this large bear never reacted to its presence. Why? Perhaps it is because of what Dr. S.I. McMillen (in his book None of These Diseases) calls, “The high cost of getting even.” A grizzly bear can easily destroy a skunk, but he will pay a very high price for doing so.

Our world is filled with skunks–not just the animal variety, but the people variety as well. There may be times when we might like nothing better than to take a swipe at these foul, offensive critters who feed fearlessly among us. However, when you tangle with a skunk the skunk always wins! Perhaps we need to learn a valuable lesson from the grizzly bear: Some critters are best left completely alone, even if you possess the power to utterly destroy them!

Al Maxey

The Aloha Spirit

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Another version collected by Gerald Rodgers:

Dale Carnegie tells of a visit to Yellowstone Park in earlier days when tourists could watch the rangers feed the grizzly bears. One night the ranger brought garbage to attract the huge creatures, which, it is said, can whip any animal in the West except perhaps the buffalo and the Kodiak bear. But Carnegie noticed that while eating, the bears would growl and send other little animals scurrying, but they would allow one little creature to eat with them-the skunk! Though it was obvious that the grizzlies resented the skunk for its brazen impudence and would have loved to have their revenge, they didn't. And you can guess why. The cost of getting even was just too high!

from Source not recorded · Rev. David Lemmons; http://lemmonsaid.net/ via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database revenge

A Lawn Mower Cd Can Help Get Even With Neighbors

Apartment dwellers have a new weapon to use on noisy neighbors, with a New Zealand man recording a compact disc of 64 minutes of lawnmower noise.

"If your neighbors have a party Saturday night fairly late...what you do is you get up at seven o'clock in the morning, put the hour of lawnmowing sound on and go out to a cafe," Wellington noise man and cafe owner Geoff Marsland told Reuters Monday.

The astro-turf covered CD offers listeners general lawnmower sounds along with feature moments such as the emptying of the catcher and stones hitting the blades.

Five thousand of the CDs are on the market, of which more than 4,000 have been snapped up by local retailers, Marsland said.

The album is his second. He previously sold around 4,200 copies of an album of urban noise such as a car alarm sounding off and a revving motorcycle.

That album -- entitled Urban Assault -- also featured three minutes of a baby crying, which Marsland described as the ultimate contraceptive.

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Why Revenge Isn't the Right Answer

Long ago, my uncle saw his loved ones killed in cold blood - then joined a quest for vengeance.

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Since my childhood, I have heard horrifying stories of suffering from my family elders. On Aug. 14,1947, British colonizers divided colonial India into a majority Hindu nation, India, and a majority Muslim nation, Pakistan. The partition resulted in an eruption of violence on an unprecedented scale - almost 2 million people were killed in an orgy of murder, arson and rape that lasted until November of that year. Seventeen million people became refugees - including my clan.

By a twist of fate, the ancestral village where my family had lived and farmed for five centuries, Kanjrur-Duttan, was located seven miles west of the Ravi River, where the Boundary Commission had drawn an invisible border line. Suddenly my family members were minority Hindus living in an Islamic nation, caught in the middle of a holocaust. Scores of uncles and granduncles were butchered by Muslim mobs. My aunts were raped and abducted. Not even my elderly relatives were spared; my octogenarian granduncle Pooran Chand's throat was slit by Muslim killers. Those who were lucky enough to survive had to flee.

The chaos and violence sent family members scattering in different directions. While growing up in a refugee colony in India, I felt the effect of the violence my elders had witnessed. I sensed the deep hatred my family felt toward Muslims. We considered them to be bloodthirsty animals who had preyed on us, killing our loved ones and driving us from our homes, turning us into destitute refugees.

In September 2001, 16 years after I had moved to the United States, I returned to India for a visit and was confronted with an ugly family secret, a shocking truth that opened my eyes to the dual lives we had been living. My father took me to meet my granduncle, a family elder he'd seen only once since the partition 54 years before. Old age had failed to diminish his spirit.

He spoke in a fierce, deep voice, reciting couplets from poetry books he had written. He talked about seeing his uncles and two sisters killed while trying to flee a Muslim mob in Kanjrur-Duttan and told me how he had narrowly escaped by swimming across the flooded Ravi to the Indian side. When he got there, he had to walk over fields of dead refugees on the way to the town of Dera Baba Nanak.

Once he had made it to Dera Baba Nanak, he did something that was inexcusable and repulsive. He joined a group of young men who were attacking Muslim refugees in caravans going west to Pakistan. When I heard the story, I asked him in disbelief, “Do you even know how many people you killed?”

“I don't know, son, there were many. You cannot even imagine what was going on at that time. Muslims were butchering entire trains of Hindu refugees; we were just retaliating..."

I was still in shock. “Our family members were killed by Muslims in Pakistan. They were desperately trying to escape, leaving behind their homes and land. Don't you think that the people you killed were also innocent refugees who were trying to escape to Pakistan?”

My granduncle was quiet for a few moments before he spoke. “Yes, those were also poor, innocent people. But there must have been some sinners among them, too..."

I tried to argue, to show him how twisted his reasoning was, but he was unrepentant. Suddenly the moral certainty I felt about my family's legacy as victims and survivors of a brutal massacre was gone. I had never imagined that they were killers too. My granduncle was probably not the only member of my family to wander Punjab with vigilantes. Like thousands of other killers who roamed the countryside - killers who lived respectably after the carnage as husbands, fathers, uncles - he never had to face the law for what he had done.

For a long time after our meeting, I thought about how easily victims of crime can lose their moral bearings and turn into criminals themselves. As a police officer, I know how often we focus on punishing the guilty while leaving the victims to suffer alone with no support. Perhaps that is one reason the cycle of violence continues.

I also know how much pain my family has endured. Even so, I feel strongly that revenge-based justice is no justice at all. Nothing came out of the killings my granduncle perpetrated in 1947. They did not bring satisfaction to my family, we were never able to return to our ancestral homes and our dead relatives did not reappear because he and other Hindus had killed Muslim refugees to even the score. It is time that we learned from our blood-soaked histories. Only forgiveness and compassion can put an end to violence.

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from Newsweek Magazine: My Turn · Sunil Dutta; Los Angeles, California via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database retaliationatrocityjustice

Of Revenge (excerpt)

Luke 17:4

Cosmus, [Cosmo de’Medici (1389-1464) a banker and statesmen of Florence who was a famous patron of the arts] Duke of Florence, had a desperate saying against perfidious and neglecting friends, as if these wrongs were unpardonable:

“You shall read (saith he) that we are commanded to forgive our

enemies, [Matthew 6:12] but you never read that we are commanded

to forgive our friends.” [!!!] … This is certain, that a man that

studieth revenge keeps his own wounds green, which otherwise would

heal and do well.

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from English Writers (2nd Edition); Ginn & Company, 1951 · Francis Bacon (1561-1626) via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database revenge

Rethinking Pacifism

Luke 6:27

Many peace-church leaders, shaken by attacks, reexamine their beliefs.

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John Paul Lederach was on his way home from Colombia on September 10, 2001. Instead, like thousands of others, he spent the next few days stranded at an airport, and reflecting on pacifism after the September 11 terrorist attacks.

Lederach was due in class at Notre Dame, where he teaches international peacebuilding. Lederach has worked with Colombians for more than ten years, addressing that nation's bloody conflict. While stranded, Lederach pulled out his laptop computer and began to write.

A Mennonite and a pacifist, he drafted a wide-ranging proposal to treat the terrorists as criminals and to erode their networks from within their own cultures.

By the time Lederach arrived home, his piece had been posted online (www.mediate.com) and had gained wide readership among pacifists.

Global terrorism has provided a new challenge to the commitments of Lederach and other members of historic peace churches (mainly Quakers, Brethren, and Mennonites).

Lederach and others remain committed to pacifism. But many Christian pacifists have been shaken by the events of September 11.

Scott Simon, a National Public Radio reporter and a Quaker, said during a September 25 lecture that he had seen the “fatal flaw” of his former pacifism: “All the best people could be killed by all the worst ones.”

In confronting terrorists, “the United States has no sane alternative but to wage war with.... unflinching resolution,” he said. Simon repeated this declaration in a Wall Street Journal column.

Echoes of Simon's perspective rattled through many peace-church congregations. But in the weeks since, many activists have regained their footing. Largely drowned out by widespread support for the war on terrorism, they have begun carrying on an equally persistent alternative witness.

Disappointed Christian pacifist scholars acknowledge that members of their churches have joined military efforts in the last 150 years. Many, in fact, signed up for duty in both world wars.

“Simon's conclusions are disappointing but not surprising,” says Patrick Nugent, director of the Center for Quaker Thought and Practice at Earlham College in Richmond, Indiana. “Pacifists whose convictions are the fruit of secular strategic reasoning tend to collapse when confronted with the strategic weaknesses of pacifism. Quaker pacifism was originally, and at its best still is, a response of discipleship, an attempt to be faithful to Jesus' clear instructions to love our enemies, pray for those who persecute us, be peacemakers, suffer for righteousness' sake, and not resist the evildoer.”

Simon told Christianity Today that a key to his own change was reporting on the wars in Bosnia and Kosovo: “I could not figure out any effective pacifist response. I could figure out one that would be morally impeccable, but not one that would work.”

Ruth Krall directs the Peace, Justice, and Conflict Studies program at Goshen College, a Mennonite school in Indiana. “Yes, my initial reaction [on September 11] was complete shock,” she says. “But I still affirm the Mennonite position that the call of Christ is to nonparticipation in violence and war.”

Krall's pacifism is not only a matter of doctrine; her program sends students into war zones. While there, they work on long-term projects aimed at building peace. And she has been in war zones herself. Students at Goshen have gathered more than a thousand signatures on an antiwar statement. They have organized vigils and forums.

The Long Haul Ron Kraybill teaches peacebuilding at Eastern Mennonite University in Harrisonburg, Virginia. “I have had flashes — moments — in recent weeks when my feeling has been, BOMB THE HELL OUT OF THEM!” he says. “Other Christian pacifists I know have had the same feelings. But we have other commitments, and I believe these also align with pragmatic alternatives to war.” Kraybill is well aware that views like his are in the minority.

For his part, John Paul Lederach is in for the long haul. “Peacebuilding is tough, complex work,” he says. “I don't expect to have overnight accomplishments. Many of the conflicts we face have been going on for generations and may take generations to resolve.”

But terrorist assaults on civilians are different from attacking standing armies in battle. Ron Mock, director of the Peace Learning Center at George Fox University, an evangelical Quaker school in Newberg, Oregon, has reexamined his own commitments, because a terrorist attack may happen anywhere, anyplace.

“For instance, if I had been on Flight 93 over Pennsylvania, I believe I would have joined the assault on the hijackers,” Mock says. “But I think that would have been a Christian pacifist thing to do — though it's hard for me to explain exactly why, and I'm not fully comfortable with it.”

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Copyright © 2001 Christianity Today. December 3, 2001, Vol. 45, No. 15, Page 17

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Magazine Revenge

When attorney Theresa McConville sold her vacant lot in Ventura Country in 1985, a losing bidder was Reynaldo Fong, a local anesthesiologist. Fong, embittered by the loss, devised a novel form of revenge. Over ten years he took out nearly 100,000 magazine subscriptions in her name, asking in each case that the magazine bill McConville. He also sent McConville a refrigerator - C.O.D. McConville spent $50,000 to straighten out the mess.

from Forbes Magazine · (unknown) via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database bitterness

Razor-Sharp Buckles

In November 1996 Sports Illustrated reported a bizarre story of competitiveness gone too far. According to the magazine, in a New Mexico high school football game between Albuquerque Academy and St. Pius X on October 12, 1996, several of the Academy players found themselves with strange cuts, slashes, and scratches on their arms and hands. One boy was bleeding freely from three cuts that later required ten stitches to close. Another boy told his coaches, "It feels like they've got razor blades out there."

Well, almost. Referee Steve Fuller inspected the equipment of the opposing team. What he found on the helmet of the offensive center were two chin-strap buckles sharpened to a razor's edge. In the investigation that followed, the offending player's father, a pediatric dentist, admitted to milling the buckles. He had been angered in the previous game by what he thought was excessive head-slapping against his son by opposing linemen. This was his solution.

Sports Illustrated reported, "Several observers describe the father, who was working on the sideline chain gang during the Albuquerque Academy-St. Pius game, as a hothead. He was so vocal in his criticism of the officiating during St. Pius's game against Capital High on Sept. 28 that he was asked to leave the sideline crew."

Hatred and anger-they're as ugly and violent as those razor-sharp buckles.

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Choice Contemporary Stories & Illustrations For Preachers, Teachers, & Writers

Craig Brian Larson, Baker Books, p. 115.

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The Death Penalty Is Based On Bible

Luke 23:39

Southern Baptists support capital punishment because it is a "biblical position" that remains applicable, said Barrett Duke of the Ethics & Religious Liberty Commission at a panel discussion on religious views of the death penalty.

The discussion featured a variety of perspectives from panelists representing Jewish and different Christian backgrounds. It was held June 5 in Washington as the execution date for Oklahoma City bomber Timothy McVeigh neared.

Duke, vice president for research of the ERLC, was the only panelist to favor capital punishment and not favor a moratorium on the practice. He referred to a resolution adopted at last year's Southern Baptist Convention in outlining his position.

"Southern Baptists believe all people are conceived with the right to life," Duke said. "Some people forfeit that right."

In support of the death penalty, he cited Genesis 9, in which God commanded Noah to use the death penalty prior to the establishment of Israel, and Romans 13, in which Paul says it is "still a valid exercise of government to use capital punishment," Duke said.

The government should not use execution "for its own ends," but because the "image of God" has been violated and the state has the responsibility to protect the weak, Duke said. "In a sense, civil government is making a statement about the sanctity of life," he said.

Southern Baptists have concerns about capital punishment's use, however, the greatest of which is that an innocent person could be executed, Duke said. That is why last year's resolution called for the death penalty to be used only when there is "clear and overwhelming evidence," he said.

Capital punishment "should never be a simple thing; it should never be a vindictive activity," Duke said. "If there is any possibility of doubt," the death penalty should be avoided, he said.

There are "racial and economic inequities" that need to be remedied, Duke said. The 2000 SBC resolution urged capital punishment be applied "without reference to the race, class or status of the guilty."

While calls for a moratorium on the death penalty have increased in recent years, Southern Baptists have not addressed that issue, Duke said. He would not favor it out of concern it would be a first step to abolition of capital punishment, Duke said.

Orthodox Jewish panelist Nathan Diament said, "We're not abolitionists, but we are for a moratorium."

Capital punishment was appropriate for murder, according to rabbinic teaching, said Diament, public-policy director for the Union of Orthodox Jewish Congregations of America. Orthodox Jews have concerns about the "accuracy" and "fairness" of the practice, he said.

John Carr of the U.S. Catholic Conference acknowledged government has the right to use capital punishment but said it "should forgo that right."

Although there are a range of views held by Catholics, the bishops in the United States have opposed the death penalty since the 1970s, said Carr, the USCC's director of social development and world peace.

This opposition, Carr said, is based on:

-- Capital punishment's "uncertainty and its finality;"

-- "Questions of [its] fairness;"

-- "Its coarsening effect on culture;"

-- Its "contribution to a growing disrespect for human life."

Carr said, "We cannot defend life by taking life."

Joseph Lowery denied the government has the authority to use capital punishment. Lowery is chairman of the Black Leadership Forum and president emeritus of the Southern Christian Leadership Conference.

Lowery said the death penalty is used disproportionately in the South and on black and poor people. The Bible also was used to defend slavery in the South, Lowery said.

"Capital punishment is for people who have no capital," Lowery said. "The poor are richly prosecuted but poorly defended."

He supports a moratorium and confesses he sees it "as a first step," Lowery said.

A USA Today poll showed even people who oppose capital punishment think McVeigh should be executed, Duke said. "I think the American public is going to continue to say there are some crimes that are too vicious" not to punish with the death penalty, he said.

The Pew Forum on Religion and Public Life, which is based in Washington, sponsored the event.

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Checking Your Cargo

Matthew 12:34

It was the end of World War II. The city of Berlin was being divided, with West Berlin, of course, given to the Allies, and East Berlin given to the Russians. The East Berliners decided they wanted to send a message of some kind by driving this big truck full of garbage on to the west side of the line and dumping it all over the place. Well, the West Berliners weren't going to let that insult go. They were planning to truck that garbage right back and dump it where it had come from. Until someone offered a better idea. The West Berliners instead filled the dump truck, but not with garbage. They filled it with canned goods and non-perishable food items. And they delivered it to the east side, all stacked neatly, and with a sign beside it. The sign simply said, "EACH GIVES WHAT HE HAS TO GIVE." [see #2208 for another version]

Well, I'm Ron Hutchcraft and I want to have A WORD WITH YOU today about "Checking Your Cargo."

Our word for today from the Word of God comes from Matthew 12:34-35. Here's what Jesus says. "Out of the overflow of the heart the mouth speaks. The good man brings good things out of the good stored up in him, and the evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in him." Jesus suggests sort of a spiritual EKG here, to show what's going on in your heart. Just listen to how you talk, what you talk about. Your words continually betray what your heart is really full of. We unload verbally whatever cargo we have to give.

It might be revealing to hear taped excerpts of your conversations the last few days. Would we hear a lot of complaining? Or picking people apart? Is that what's in there? Some of us put out a lot of dark talk - negative things, depressing things, discouraging things. And then there's dirty talk - the little innuendoes, the quickness to pick up a double meaning, bedroom humor, bathroom humor. Delivering garbage to the people around us.

Or maybe the tape would reveal a lot talk about money or stress or anger or bitterness or just a lot of talk about yourself. We're all dumping one of two things on people - either garbage or goodies.

One good question to check ourselves with is this: How do people feel after they're been around me? Do they feel lighter or heavier? Do they feel bigger or smaller? Do they feel uplifted or dragged down? Now, according to Jesus, your talk is all about whatever you've been storing up in your heart - what you read, what to watch, what you listen to, what you laugh at, what you talk about on the phone, who you hang out with. And our conversation really matters to Jesus. He says, in fact, in Matthew 12:37, "By your words you will be acquitted and by your words you will be condemned." Man, your words will be the basis for your judgment!

Maybe it's time to evaluate your mental and emotional diet. If your talk is too much trash, commit yourself to positive music, books, friends, media. And above all, be sure you have a non-negotiable time in the presence of Jesus Christ before you drive your truck out of your garage. Leave the garbage with Him each new day. And let Jesus Christ fill you up with cargo that will be a blessing for people today.

The people around you get enough garbage dumped on them. Why don't you leave them with a stack of goodies instead after they've been around you? After all, each one gives what he has to give.

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Copyright © Ron Hutchcraft Ministries, Inc., PO Box 400, Harrison, AR 72602. Used by permission. Written by Ron Hutchcraft. "Practical Answers to Real Life Issues"

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On the Brink of War: Finding A Distinctive Christian Voice

Joel 3:9

The New Republic, a major national newsweekly, arrived in my mailbox the other day. Its cover offered an evening-time picture of New York City. In the foreground was the Statue of Liberty. In the background, framing that famous statue, were the Twin Towers of the World Trade Center in all their vastness and solidity. The headline read: "It Happened Here."

Two weeks after the most devastating attack ever launched on the U.S. mainland by foreign enemies, the shock has just begun to wear off. Flags are back at the top of flagpoles. Football games and baseball games go on as scheduled. People go about their daily lives. But this does not mean we have even begun to assimilate what happened on Sept. 11.

Meanwhile, our forces mass in the East for what may turn out to be a ferocious military strike on the nation of Afghanistan. The full attention and power of the U.S. government is now directed to finding and destroying the terrorist network believed responsible for the slaughter that was visited upon our nation two weeks ago. The nation stands behind these efforts in almost total unanimity.

Is there a distinctive Christian voice at a time like this? We are Americans, and we are Christians. Does the latter mark us off as in any way different from the former? Does the church, as church, have anything unique to say?

Many American Christian leaders are making strong just war arguments at this time. That is, we are arguing from Romans 13 and other texts, as well as from the broader Christian tradition, for the legitimacy of the resort to force on the part of our government in order to defend our nation and its way of life from the terrorist network that so viciously attacked us. The fundamental role of the government is to serve God by ordering public affairs, advancing the common good, and deterring and punishing evildoers both domestic and foreign. Those who would fly civilian jetliners into buildings and take thousands of lives certainly qualify as dangerous evildoers, and the government is certainly justified in responding to the threat they pose. Thus we argue, as Christians, and thus others argue, on the basis of other commitments and perspectives. Different paths, same outcome.

The Christian just war tradition also imposes constraints upon governments even as they undertake their legitimate function of deterring and punishing offenses against public order and justice. The tradition requires the right intention (not vengeance, but peace), the right goals (not mere mayhem, but justice and security), the right means (sufficient and proportionate force, not more) and the right spirit (not pleasure at a positive good, but mournfulness about a necessary evil). Here the Christian voice is indeed distinctive from the general public voice; that is, if we follow the just war tradition with fidelity. There can be no holy war, no crusade, no thirst for revenge, no pleasure in killing, no indiscriminate attacks, within the framework just war theory offers. If this kind of just war thinking is effectively communicated by Christians to government leaders, and it has an impact, then a distinctive Christian voice has been heard and has made a difference.

And yet a nagging question remains: Is this all there is to the Christian witness at a time like this? As we contemplate the horror just visited upon us, and the violence our nation is about to visit upon others, is there nothing more to be said? Are we as Christians content merely to bring out the just war theory, run through the categories, see that our nation is justified in making war, and then sit back and watch the bombs fall?

We do have a Savior and Lord who undertook his mission without recourse to violence. Who said that those who live by the sword will die by the sword. Who argued that peacemakers are blessed, and taught ways to be a peacemaker. Whose presence in the world was not as a partisan ready to kill for a cause but instead a suffering servant ready to die for one. Who taught love of enemies and overcoming evil not with evil but good. Who wept over Jerusalem and lamented that she did not know the things that make for peace. Who was captured by the vision of another kingdom coming, in and through himself, to replace the sad and sorry kingdom we now live in.

If the witness of Jesus is anything more than dreamy idealism, or a vague future hope of a better world, then his followers must be marked by the impact of his words and witness even now, even in the cauldron of grief and anger that now grips our nation.

Christians will think differently than others. We will be aware that violent hatred is rarely eliminated by force; it may be prevented from harming us for a while, but ultimately a more radical kind of treatment is needed -- that which in the long run can turn those inclined to be enemies into friends. Christians will dare to ask unpopular questions about how to make life better for the very civilization in which hatred of our nation currently breeds. We will propose initiatives to reduce tensions and enhance mutual understanding between the Muslim world and the West, including our own nation. We will follow Jesus' teaching about removing the log from our own eye and actually listen to those who can offer insights about how we are perceived by those who hate us.

We will not assume that the only way to respond to what has happened is exactly the way our nation decides to respond, but instead be willing to offer fresh insight and alternative solutions as an expression of our loyalty both to our nation and to Jesus. We will remember that every human being is made in the image of God and will respect the dignity that this imputes to all, even those whose evil deeds are beyond description. We will pray for our nation's enemies, weep over the destruction that all warfare causes, and yearn for the coming in fullness of the reign of God, when every tear is finally wiped away, and no one -- at last -- shall hurt or destroy anyone else.

Come, Lord Jesus. Do not tarry long. May you find your church faithful, O merciful Lord, until you come.

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Gushee is the Graves Associate Professor of Moral Philosophy and senior fellow with the Carl F.H. Henry Center for Christian Leadership at Union University, Jackson, Tennessee.

He Killed Ten For Every Finger

Luke 9:54

Lamech said to his wives, “Adah and Zillah, listen to me; wives

of Lamech, hear my words. I have killed a man for wounding me, a

young man for injuring me. If Cain is avenged seven times, then

Lamech seventy-seven times.” (Genesis 4:23-24)

Baghdad, Iraq. Amar was a lifelong friend of Karim’s. Three months earlier, Amar and his older brother, Jafaar, had been riding in the van of a friend, Sayeed, when a group of gunmen hailed them. Amar recognized them as men from the Mahdi Army [a Shiite militia], and assumed that they were coming to say hello. As Sayeed braked, the car was riddled with gunfire. Amar crouched as low as he could, as the Mahdi Army men emptied their Kalashnikov automatic rifles. He was unhurt, but Jafaar and Sayeed were dead.

That night, Amar told Karim that, at the morgue, he had sworn over his brother’s body to take revenge. He had vowed to kill a hundred Mahdi men — ten for each of Jafaar’s fingers. His mother, Um Jafaar, supported him, and begged Karim to help her son. He agreed.

Their first concern was to make sure that the Mahdi militiamen didn’t suspect them. During Jafaar’s funeral procession, they shouted angry denunciations of a Sunni tribe that lived nearby. Word soon spread that Jafaar’s family and friends blamed the Sunnis for his death.

Karim and Amar also decided that it would be easier to carry out the killings if they had help from the American army. Karim volunteered to be an informer and even refused their money: “If I take it, it makes me a spy, and I am a gentleman, not a spy.’”

Karim directed the Americans to a house where two of the gunmen were staying. One of gunmen was only 15 or 16, but had killed five or six people. “He was just starting out,” Karim said. They were imprisoned by the Americans.

“Then the killing started,” Karim told investigative reporter Jon Lee Anderson. Their first victim was the father of the younger gunman. When Anderson asked him whether the father had anything to do with Jafaar’s killing, he looked nonplussed, and said no, but that the man had been an intelligence officer under Saddam, and had probably killed people, too. (In Iraq’s tribal vendettas, male relatives are often seen as legitimate targets.) The father was now working as a taxi-driver. A relative hailed his cab and asked to be taken to a remote area. Karim and Amar ambushed him there. Amar had a pistol with five exploding bullets (dumdums) and four normal bullets. A single dumdum would have been enough to do the job, and Karim warned him to save some bullets in case they got in trouble. Amar emptied the pistol into him, using every last bullet. Afterward, he apologized. “I couldn’t help it. I became crazy.”

Next, they went to a Sunni sheikh whom Karim knew, whose brother was in the insurgency. The brother and his men kidnapped six Mahdi militiamen, including four who had been in the group that killed Jafaar. They took the militiamen to a house in a Sunni district where Karim and Amar beat them severely. (Karim said that Amar got out of control but Karim did not.) Under torture, the men said the brother, Jafaar, had been killed inadvertently and that Sayeed was the main target because he was with a rival militia and cooperated with Americans. Amar didn’t believe it - their real motive was that that they were jealous of Sayeed because he was rich, and he didn’t respect the Mahdi militia.

The next day, Amar greeted Karim with a kiss and told him he had left three bodies near the train track, and two in Canal Street. When Karim asked about the sixth one, Amar said the Sunni sheikh’s brother took him because he thought he killed his cousin.

The killing continued. After fifteen days, they went to Um Jafaar, Amar’s mother. “I told her who was dead and who was in jail. She was very happy,” Karim said. “Then she said, ‘Do you want me to be completely comforted?’” Um Jafaar asked them to bring her parts of the dead men’s bodies. Amar did what she asked. “One man, he cut off his ear when he was still alive,” Karim said. “But I swear that Amar has never killed anyone who was innocent.”

Karim said that Amar had killed eighteen or twenty men. “After a while, I told Amar to stop this. My wife, also, was angry with me. I didn’t like to do this, either, but we had to. We had to kill these guys, because they were killing too many people. When some of them were killed, my neighbors celebrated — sometimes even the Mahdi Army guys did.” The Americans suspected nothing.

Amar told Karim that he would not stop killing until he reached his goal of a hundred victims. “He is hungry for killing now,” Karim said. “Sometimes I think maybe he HAS gone a little crazy.”

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Adapted from the article "Letter From Iraq: Inside The Surge” by Jon Lee Anderson, The New Yorker magazine, Nov. 19, 2007, pp. 64-65. The names of the Iraqis had been changed for the article.

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Loving Our (muslim) Neighbors: Islam Series 5 -- the Christian Response

Luke 6:27

The conversation in the online chat room was both vicious and violent. "For every American killed in the terrorist attacks," one man raged, "we ought to kill a hundred Muslims."

Emotions have been running high since September 11 -- but even so, there's no excuse for such vitriol. Yes, we want those responsible to be pursued and punished -- but we should not confuse the innocent with the guilty. And among the innocent are over 6 million Muslims who live in American neighborhoods -- and now live there in fear.

As Christians, we know that God often brings good out of evil. And one great good he may bring out of this unwanted war is a greater openness by Muslims to Christianity -- but only if we attack hatred with love.

One man who believes this is Ashton "Tat" Stewart, director of the Colorado-based Persian Ministries for World Witness. Stewart has spent a lifetime ministering to Muslims. As we battle bin Laden, Stewart says, the entire Muslim world is watching to see how we treat the Muslims among us. Instead of joining the Internet animosity and radio ranting, he says, Christians ought to seize the moment: We have a tremendous opportunity to model Christian love to Muslim neighbors.

How do we go about this?

First, Stewart says, we need to reach out in friendship. In the current climate, this might mean crossing the street to ask how a Muslim family is doing or visiting a mosque to express friendship. We might invite Muslim friends into our home for a meal. "What many Christians don't realize," Stewart says, "Is that just being a normal Christian is a radical witness to many Muslims." Their law is oppressive; they aren't used to love.

After building a bridge of friendship, the next step is to expose Muslims to what Stewart calls "kingdom realities." This might include praying in their presence, inviting them to a Bible study, or giving them a New Testament in their own language.

We should also be prepared to explain basic Christian beliefs, and familiarize ourselves with Islamic teachings. Moderate peace-loving Muslims are horrified by bin Laden's horrific attacks. They can easily be turned against him and perhaps they will then question how Islamic teaching could condone such violence. They need to see in us the love of Christ.

According to Stewart, many Muslims lack inner peace, and do not experience genuine, unconditional love; they don't understand true spiritual freedom. This means we might present Christ as the peace-giver who truly loves them and brings them freedom.

Finally, before we invite a Muslim to follow Christ, we must understand the cost we are asking him to pay. Conversion may mean a complete loss of family, friends, career, and culture.

Stewart is right. As America embarks on what may be a lengthy war, we must seize the opportunity of the moment. The faith of many Muslims is crumbling as they see the horrors some radical elements in Islam are capable of. If Christians offer unconditional love to their supposed enemies, Stewart predicts, "In the next few years we may see mass turnings to Christ."

But it won't happen if we respond to hatred with even more hatred. Instead, we overcome evil with good -- as Paul commanded. We must out-shout angry American threats with quiet Christian compassion. And we must meet terrorist lies with the transforming love of Christ.

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Copyright (c) 2001 Prison Fellowship Ministries. Reprinted with permission. "BreakPoint with Chuck Colson" is a radio ministry of Prison Fellowship Ministries.

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Voice From the Past

Ephesians 4:26

Terry Anderson thought he had conquered his anger at the terrorists who locked him away for 2,545 days.

The Associated Press veteran had traveled back to Lebanon to make a documentary. He met with officials of Hezbollah. It was hard, but he did it.

Then an image on his giant-screen television brought it all back. Anderson was watching a routine news interview with a politician in Beirut, when he recognized his voice. This was the man the hostages called “the boss,” in their shadowy world of blindfolds and secret prisons.

“I knew that voice.... We had to listen to him day after day. He was in charge,” Anderson said, speaking this week at St. Andrews School in Boca Raton, Fla. “And there he was in my living room, larger than life on my television screen in Ohio. I'm watching him and listening to him and I'm thinking, `You b------! I am still angry, because you did that to me.'

“That surprised me. It surprised me that it was still buried in there someplace.”

On Sept. 11, he was stunned and horrified all over again.

Anderson has paid his dues. He knows all about terrorism, nationalism, religious fanaticism and the other “isms” that haunt the Middle East. He knows more than anyone could want to know about the agonizing path that broken people will have to walk after the events in New York City, Washington, D.C, and rural Pennsylvania.

But Anderson isn't sure that he can grasp the pain felt by those who lost loved ones on Sept 11, even after his years as a hostage and as a war correspondent. Anderson said he isn't even sure what to call what happened on that day. “Terrorism” is being radically redefined.

“These terrorists are not asking for anything. There are no demands. They simply want to destroy,” he said. “There is no question of negotiation. ... They are anarchists. It used to be that terror had political aims. They can't really have any expectations that they can damage us in any lasting way. This is terror for the sake of terrorizing people.”

Anderson's testimony on faith and forgiveness was scheduled before the bombings. Above all, he said he considers himself blessed. He is thankful for his life, marriage, family and work as a writer and teacher. He said he is thankful for the faith that helped him stay sane in his chains, locked away with a circle of brothers that included a Catholic priest and a biblical scholar.

But this is a hard time to preach about the power of forgiveness.

“I don't think the people who lost loved ones at the World Trade Center even want to HEAR the word `forgiveness,' right now. ... They are still grieving, as we all are, as a nation,” he said. “When I speak about forgiveness, I am speaking totally about my personal experience, my own feelings and my own search. I cannot speak for anyone else.”

During the decade since his release, the tenets of his faith have brought him pain as well as comfort. It's hard to get past the words that are “right there on the very first page of our contract” with God, he said. “That's the place where it says, `Forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.’ “

Anderson said his wife once described the lessons they have learned this way: “If you want the joy, you can't have the anger.”

What does this mean for the nation? Anderson said he is convinced America can seek security, without surrendering its values of freedom. The free world can demand justice for Osama bin Laden, without making decisions rooted in a thirst for revenge.

“The people that kidnapped me, just like the people who committed this terrible atrocity, are not sorry today. They are not asking for forgiveness,” he said. “No, forgiveness is about what is in me. Hatred and anger are terribly debilitating. They are soul destroying even, I think, when they are righteous.

“We have every reason to be terribly anger at those people. They need to be punished. But anger will lead us, I think, into places where we do not want to go.”

[`In your anger do not sin': Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry and do not give the devil a foothold. Ephesians 4:26,27 NIV]

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This comes to us by way of the Church Growth Ideas List. Terry Mattingly (www.tmatt.net) teaches at Palm Beach Atlantic College and is senior fellow for journalism at the Council for Christian Colleges & Universities. He writes a weekly column for the Scripps Howard News Service.

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Capital Punishment: A Matter of Life and Death

Luke 23:39

As the number of executions surges, Christians remain divided on the death penalty's morality and purpose.

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One might think Sue Norton would be among the most ardent supporters of the death penalty in light of the 1990 double murder of her parents. Yet today, as the man convicted of killing her parents sits on Oklahoma's death row, she is among those working hardest to have his death sentence commuted.

"If our world is going to change," she says, "we have to move past hate and learn to love with the unconditional love displayed by Jesus." Norton, a member of an American Baptist church in Arkansas City, Missouri, says the man who killed her parents has converted to Christianity through her witness. She regularly visits and writes to him in prison and talks to him weekly by telephone.

Norton is among the nearly 3,000 members of the Atlantic, Virginia-based Murder Victims Families for Reconciliation (mvfr), which opposes the death penalty and advocates programs and policies aimed at crime prevention. "Our society places an expectation on families to seek vengeance," says mvfr executive director Pat Bane. "One parent told me that people made her feel like she was betraying her son because she did not want to kill the person who murdered him. Our goal is to break the cycle of violence rather than escalate it."

CAPITAL COMEBACK: Though not an mvfr member, Aldona DeVetsco opposed the May 2 lethal injection of Keith Zettlemoyer, the first person to be executed in Pennsylvania since 1962. Zettlemoyer shot and killed Charles DeVetsco, Aldona's son, in 1980. She signed a petition appealing for a stay of execution, calling capital punishment "senseless vengeance."

Pennsylvania is the latest in the growing list of states to administer the death penalty for the first time in decades. Last year, Idaho, Maryland, and Nebraska carried out their first executions in more than 30 years. Earlier this year, Montana did the same. Across the nation, during the first six months of the year, 33 people were executed, surpassing the total for all of last year.

The resurgence of the death penalty has given rise to a more fervent opposition. Challengers of capital punishment point out that most other countries that permit the death penalty-such as Iraq and China-are infamous for human-rights violations.

Nevertheless, those in the United States who oppose the death penalty are waging what appears to be an uphill battle. From the common citizen to the Supreme Court, sentiment runs solidly in favor of capital punishment both in principle and in practice. Among politicians, a tough-on-crime posture crosses party barriers. That posture almost always translates into support for the death penalty, even if it means flip-flopping on the issue, as has happened with many officeholders, including President Clinton.

Standing against this tide, all major Protestant denominations, with the exception of Southern Baptists, officially oppose the death penalty. And the pope, in his March encyclical, stated that conditions that would justify the death penalty "are practically non-existent." Observers note this is the closest the Roman Catholic Church has ever come to supporting an outright ban on capital punishment.

PUBLIC SUPPORT: Most surveys, however, indicate that, on this issue, church leaders are out of step not only with the general public, but also with those in their pews. According to a May Gallup Poll, 77 percent of Americans support the death penalty while only 13 percent oppose it, with the remaining 10 percent undecided or saying it depends on circumstances.

According to the survey, Republicans favor the death penalty by a margin of 89 percent to 7 percent, while Democrats support it 67 to 20 percent. Those in mainline denominations support it 81 to 9 percent. Eighty percent of those identifying themselves as "born again" favor the death penalty, while only 12 percent oppose it. And despite statistics establishing that the death penalty is administered with a racial bias, according to the survey, 55 percent of black Protestants support capital punishment, while 30 percent oppose it.

According to the Washington, D.C.-based Death Penalty Information Center (dpic), when people are asked for a yes or no response, most favor the death penalty because the "myth persists that even the most dangerous murderers will be released in seven years if they are not executed."

dpic executive director Richard Dieter cites a 1993 bipartisan study conducted by the Democratic polling firm of Greenberg/Lake and the Republican Tarrance Group as being more reflective of public opinion. In that survey, when asked for a yes-or-no response, 77 percent-identical to the Gallup survey-said they favored the death penalty.

However, when people were asked, "If it were possible to sentence a person convicted of murder to life in prison with no possibility of parole ever, and require their earnings from prison industries to go to the victim's family," 44 percent said they favored that option, while 41 percent favored the death penalty.

Dieter maintains that fewer Americans would favor the death penalty if they realized that "45 states and the federal government now employ sentences in which no parole is possible for at least 25 years for their most serious murder cases."

DETERRENCE DETERRED: The prevalence of violence in American society despite the legality of the death penalty in 38 states has in the minds of many diminished the argument that capital punishment is a deterrent, except insofar as it prevents convicted murderers from killing again. "There is no empirical evidence of any compelling nature to support [the death penalty] on the grounds of deterrence," says Joshua Dressler, a professor at McGeorge School of Law in Sacramento, California, and author of three books on criminal law and procedure.

Bryan Stevenson, a Christian attorney and executive director of the Montgomery, Alabama-based Equal Justice Initiative, notes that Texas, despite being the leading execution state since the Supreme Court's 7-to-2 Gregg V. Georgia decision affirming the death penalty in 1976, has seen its violent crime rate rise 46 percent. "I believe that people are increasingly realizing that the more we resort to killing as a legitimate response to our frustration and anger with violent crime, the more violent our society becomes," says Stevenson, who has represented more than 100 death row prisoners during the past decade. "We could execute all three thousand people on death row today, and most people would not feel any safer tomorrow."

CITING SCRIPTURE: As with many other issues, Christians on both sides of the capital punishment debate cite scriptural support for their contrasting positions.

Prison Fellowship Ministries (pfm), in which volunteers share the gospel with inmates, does not take an official stand because its own board is divided. pfm encourages Christians to weigh the biblical arguments for themselves.

pfm says there are three biblically based positions on capital punishment: One claims the Bible prohibits it; a second holds that the Bible mandates it; a third view is that Scripture permits but does not require capital punishment.

Those who oppose capital punishment maintain generally that the New Testament, especially the example set by Jesus, supersedes any such teaching in the Old Testament. "I believe that the meaning of Christ's death and resurrection is redemption for everyone," says Church of the Brethren member Bob Gross of Indianapolis, active for nearly a decade in the National Coalition to Abolish the Death Penalty. "To say that some people's sins are not covered is hypocritical. That's not an excuse to murder; but Jesus said if we are not willing to forgive, we place ourselves outside of God's forgiveness."

But renowned theologian Carl Henry says such an outlook "tends to subordinate the justice of God to the love of God." Henry favors the death penalty, citing Genesis 9:6, which states, "Whoever sheds the blood of a human, by a human shall that person's blood be shed" (nrsv). He also maintains that Peter, by cutting off Malchus's ear in an effort to prevent Christ's arrest (John 18:10), was most likely trying to kill the soldier. According to Henry, Christ's statement that those who kill by the sword are subject to die by the sword implicitly recognizes the government's right to exercise the death penalty.

Those who maintain that Scripture neither mandates nor prohibits capital punishment are most likely to focus on the question of whether the administration of the death penalty is consistent with biblical principles and practices. Among these concerns are the requirement that witnesses participate in the execution, that the intent of the offender be taken into consideration, and that justice be administered without regard to social or economic status.

Charles Colson, who founded pfm in 1976 after serving a seven-month Watergate-related prison term, says he has grave reservations about the way in which capital punishment is administered. "I remain convinced that it is not a general deterrent," Colson says. "But I must say that my views have changed, and I now favor capital punishment, at least in principle, but only in extreme cases when no other punishment can satisfy the demands of justice." Colson says a visit he had with Illinois mass murderer John Wayne Gacy, who was executed last year for killing 33 young men and boys during the 1970s, pushed him over the edge to a pro-death penalty view. From a theological perspective, Colson argues that "justice in God's eyes requires that the response to an offense ... be proportionate."

Although the thief on the cross alongside Christ was included in Christ's merciful action, this criminal did not have "the consequences of his crime" eliminated, Colson asserts. "Nowhere does Jesus set aside the requirements of civil law."

Likewise, Colson favors the death penalty for the perpetrators of April's Oklahoma City bombing. "No other punishment [is] sufficient for the deliberate savagery of the crime."

EQUAL JUSTICE ISSUES: Many hold anti-death penalty views primarily out of a concern for fairness. According to one frequently cited study by researchers Hugo Bedau and Michael Radelet, 23 people have been executed in the United States this century whose guilt was later either clearly disproven or cast in doubt. Others-48 according to the dpic-have been able to prove their innocence while still on death row, establishing the possibility of receiving the death penalty despite what many would consider reasonable doubt.

Rob Dunham, executive director of the Pennsylvania Post-Conviction Defender Organization in Philadelphia, says, "If we are going, as a matter of public policy, to have a death penalty, then we must, as a matter of public policy, ensure procedural fairness."

Dunham says that despite the clear conclusion five years ago of a joint federal and Pennsylvania court task force that the state does not provide adequate representation to indigent defendants, the legislature has enacted a law intended to hasten the rate at which death warrants are signed. "Legislators see the issue as a politically popular one," Dunham says, "and they are taking measures that enable them to claim they are tough on crime without regard for the actual legal or moral consequences."

McGeorge Law School professor Dressler adds, "The amount of money many states-especially in the South-give attorneys to take on postconviction appeals is laughable. Lawyers either have to work for $5 an hour or do a shoddy job." According to Dressler, not only do these conditions increase the risk that innocent people will be executed, but they also result in the failure to recognize mitigating circumstances under which those who are guilty of murder should by law be spared the death penalty.

Dressler maintains that a counterterrorism bill under consideration in Congress represents a greater interest in efficiency than in truth and administrative fairness. The proposed bill would limit most death row inmates to one federal court appeal.

Death penalty opponents have thoroughly documented a racial bias in the administration of capital punishment. Roughly half of all murder victims are black, but in executions, 85 percent of those they had murdered were white. "I think it is clear that the death penalty is reserved primarily for the poor and for people of color," Stevenson says. "As we say in our circles, 'Capital punishment means them without the capital get the punishment.' "

Stevenson believes that the death penalty has a subconscious attraction to the middle class "by symbolically communicating to poor people and racial minorities, 'We will not let you terrify us. We will strike back at you.'" He believes that if the death penalty were administered fairly, it would lose this symbolic value and as a result be abolished. "I don't believe our society is capable of making the judgment that the life of any person, even a guilty person, no longer has purpose or value."

Christians who favor the death penalty, however, believe the answer lies not in eliminating a punishment whose purpose is to recognize the value of human life, but in advocating legal remedies to ensure fair application.

Given the current mood of the country, laws supporting the death penalty are not likely to disappear anytime soon. Then again, neither will those committed to opposing those laws.

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Copyright (c) 1995 Christianity Today, Inc./CHRISTIANITY TODAY Magazine

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Schwartzkopf On Forgiving Terrorists

Amos 4:12

In a recent interview, General Norman Schwartzkopf was asked if he didn't think there was room for forgiveness toward the people who have harbored and abetted the terrorists who perpetrated the 9/11 attacks on America.

His answer was classic Schwartzkopf. He said, "I believe that forgiving them is God's function. Our job is simply to arrange the meeting."

Road Rage

Mark 3:5

In 1999 on Halloween night a girl driving a Volkswagen Jetta with several passengers in it pulled out onto highway 114 right in front of Steven Kolhonen, who was driving a large Ford Expedition. Kolhonen hit the brakes and avoided ramming into the back of the Volkswagen but it made him angry. So when the Volkswagen slowed for a stoplight, Kolhonen did ram into the back of the Volkswagen Jetta pushing it through the intersection. He continued to pursue the Volkswagen down the highway ramming it again and again. At one point it was reportedly pushing the Volkswagen down the highway at 55mph, with the Volkswagen’s brakes fully applied. It was about as flagrant and frightening an act of road rage as I could imagine short of using other weapons.

Eventually both cars pulled off the road. There was much screaming and yelling at Kolhonen who sat in his vehicle and just stared straight ahead. The police were called and charges were filed. Five days later, someone set fire to Kolhonen’s Ford Expedition and it burned up in his driveway.

What do you think about that? I had been thinking that he ought to lose his drivers license for the rest of his life or twenty years or something, but I must admit that I chuckled because I didn’t think that burning his car was a bad alternative. However, when his house was burned down two days later, it became apparent that revenge is no solution. The anticlimactic postscript to the story was that revenge had nothing to do with it, as some months later, Kolhonen was found guilty of burning his own car and his own house, hoping to collect the insurance money.

Suckled On Revenge: Child Soldiers

For thirteen weeks, former child soldier Ishmael Beah has seen his memoir, A LONG WAY GONE, hover in the top ranks of the NEW YORK TIMES bestsellers list. For a young man whose village and family were burned, who evaded capture amidst the war-torn landscape of Sierra Leone, and finally was given an AK-47 and coerced to join the government army, a bestselling book comes as quite a twist in the road.

As a child soldier, Ishmael heard his commanding officer frequently tell him and his comrades, “Visualize the enemy, the rebels who killed your parents, your family, and those who are responsible for everything that has happened to you.” In their drills when they did not properly bayonet a banana tree, the officer reprimanded them by saying: “Is that how you stab someone who had killed your family?”

As Beah’s story unfolds, one cannot help but wonder about the fate of such children, suckled on revenge from such a tender age. What is strong enough to overcome that kind of past? The answer does not come as a surprise. It is the power of forgiveness and unconditional love.

When UNICEF forces showed up one day and negotiated with Beah’s commander for the release of the children soldiers in his command, Ishmael and others found themselves suddenly transported to a rehabilitation camp. One would think that these children would be grateful for release and embrace these workers for their role in their redemption. But, you’re wrong. It would take months for these children to lose their appetite for brown-brown (cocaine mixed with gun-powder), for violence, and for revenge. Day after day these young kids would lash out at the workers and the other children. Day after day, the workers would respond with forgiveness and love.

Beah recounts the story of one of the workers in the rehabilitation compound named Poppay, whom the children beat, stabbed and left unconscious. Several days later, Poppay returned from the hospital, limping, but with a smile on his face. “It is not your fault that you did such a thing to me,” he said. As Beah recalls, “Most of the staff members were like that; they returned smiling after we hurt them. It was as if they had made a pact not to give up on us.” Wittingly or unwittingly, they were displaying the turn-the-other-cheek kind of love that Christ taught. And through their display of grace, they sent a powerful message: Revenge stops here.

But Beah’s horrific tale is, sadly, too common. There are an estimated 250,000 child soldiers in the world today. Ishmael Beah has a lesson worth learning for all of us. As he says, “To forgive is not to forget but to transform all that happened into something positive because the other route can only bring more suffering to [ourselves] and to those around [us].”

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Copyright (c) 2007 Prison Fellowship Ministries. Reprinted with permission. "BreakPoint with Chuck Colson" is a radio ministry of Prison Fellowship Ministries.

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[Original illustration at this number was a duplicate of HolwickID #24070]

Revenge In Afghanistan

Dr. Pennel stepped out of the door of the hospital. A group of men were coming down the hill toward him with a stretcher. “Who are you bringing?” he asked them as they lowered the stretcher in front of him. The men shrugged. “We don't know. We found him lying by the side of the road. He is seriously hurt. Do you have room for him, Sahib?” The doctor bent over the man on the stretcher. He could tell from his clothing that he was an Afghani, a member of the Patau tribe, which was always at war with the surrounding population.

“Bring him in,” the doctor said. “For him, we have a bed.” After the patient was settled, Dr. Pennel came to examine him. “Sahib,” the patient moaned, trying to tear the bandage off his eyes. “Give me back my sight. Help me to see. Then I can go find the man who did this to me and kill him. I want revenge. After that I do not care whether I can see or not. I just want revenge. My enemy took my eyes. He will pay with his life. There is nothing more powerful than revenge.”

The doctor sat down beside him and said, “My friend, let me tell you a story. Many years ago the British government sent as an envoy to Afghanistan by the name of Captain Connoly. However, he never reached the capital. On a lonely stretch of road, he was seized by a group of outlaws. They took away his baggage, bound him, accused him of espionage and threw him in prison. He had no idea what would happen to him.”

“Weeks and months passed. The guards routinely mistreated him. He was given very little to eat. The only light in his cell came from a hole in the ceiling. In his misery, he had only one comfort. It was a little prayer book the guards allowed Captain Connoly to keep. He had received it as a farewell gift from his sister when he left England. The prayers and songs comforted him, for in them he felt the presence of Jesus in his cell with him.”

The prayer book also did something else. For you see, Captain Connoly was able to persuade the guards to give him a pen and he filled the margins of that little book with reports of his experience as a prisoner. He wrote of the mistreatment, the beatings and the starvation. And he also wrote of his faith that God would see him through.

“A whole year went by. The last entry in the book was made by someone else. It said that Captain Connoly had been brought out of the prison, publicly flogged and then forced to dig his own grave. He was never seen again after that. No one except his captors knew of his execution. In vain his family and friends and the government of England searched for news of him, all to no avail.

“Twenty-one years passed. Then one day, a British officer was sauntering along the streets of Buchara, a city in central Afghanistan, when he stopped in a second-hand store. Among the odds and ends, he discovered an English prayer book with all kinds of entries in the margins. There was also a name written in the back of that book, with an address in England. The officer thought that perhaps that little book might be of some importance to someone, so he sent it back home.

And that is how Captain Connoly's sister learned of his fate. With great anguish, she read the account of his imprisonment and was moved by his faith in God. “What should I do?” she asked herself. The terrible injustice done to her brother cried out for revenge. For holy revenge. She was not a wealthy person, but she sent all the money that she could to this very hospital with these instructions, “Please keep a bed free at all times for a sick or wounded Afghani and use the money to take care of him until he regains his health. I am doing this in the memory of my brother who suffered at the hands of the Afghans and who died in their country."

As you might expect, when the doctor finished his story, there was a heavy silence. The doctor put his hand on the shoulder of the blind man and said to him, “You, my friend, are now lying in that bed. That you are being cared for is the Christian revenge for the death of Captain Connoly.” For the first time in his life, that Afghan soldier who so passionately desired revenge and who throughout his life had so resolutely rejected the message of Christ, sensed a power stronger than hate. It is the power of Christian love - love made real through faith in Christ.

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from Sermon #16715 by Rev. Lee Griess via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

Impartiality, Pride, Revenge, Honesty

Romans 12:16

”Be of the same mind toward one another. Do not set your mind on high things, but associate with the humble. Do not be wise in your own opinion. Repay no one evil for evil. Have regard for good things in the sight of all men.” (Romans 12:16-17 NKJV)

Impartiality, Pride, Revenge, Honesty

• same mind — Rom 15:5-6, 1 Cor 1:10, Phil 1:27, 2:2, 4:2, 1 Pet 3:8 — the same hospitable, kind, sympathising mind; even in temper, impartial in treatment

• mind…things — Matt 20:26-28, Phil 2:3-8, Jer 45:5, Psalm 131:1-2, Jam 2:1-5 — do not seek especial favour of rich alone. Be not proud, ambitious

• condescend {associate…humble} — come down in conduct, speech

• men…estate {humble} — to the poor or illiterate, that you may lift them up

• be…conceits {opinion} — Prov 3:7, 26:12, Isa 5:21, 1 Cor 8:2, 3:18-20 — those who are puffed up with an opinion of their own wisdom are apt to despise instruction

• recompense {repay}…evil — guard against spirit of retaliation

• provide…honest {have…things} — 1 Tim 5:14, 1 Pet 2:12-13 — Gk., premeditate things comely — “The meaning of the precept is, that we should, by proper consideration, take care to render our actions beautiful and good, even in the eyes of men” (Macknight).

• in…men — to encourage the good, and silence gainsayers

Be not wise in your own conceits — Bp Beveridge

I. As to rational wisdom or knowledge. Knowledge of –

1. Natural causes;

2. Future events;

3. God’s providences;

4. The intrigues of State;

5. The spiritual estate of others;

6. The interpretation of Scripture.

II. As to practical wisdom. We must not conceit ourselves –

1. To be saints;

2. To be holier than others;

3. That we perform duties aright;

4. That we exercise graces aright.

Application:

1. Have low thoughts of your own knowledge;

2. Oft consult your own hearts;

3. Compare your actions with God’s laws;

4. Labour to know more of God and of Christ.

Retaliation — During the revolutionary war lived Peter Miller, the leading member of a humble community of Baptists located in the state of Pennsylvania. In this community lived a man who distinguished himself for very base conduct towards the society to which Mr. Miller belonged, and treason to his country. On the latter charge he was sentenced to death. No sooner was the sentence pronounced than Peter Miller set out on foot to visit General Washington, at Philadelphia, to intercede for the man’s life. But he was told his prayer could not be granted “for his unfortunate friend.” “My friend!” exclaimed Miller, “I have not a worse enemy living than that same man.” “What,” rejoined Washington, “you have walked sixty miles to save the life of your enemy? That in my judgment puts the matter in a different light; I will grant you his pardon.” The pardon was made out, and, without losing a moment’s delay, Miller proceeded on foot to a place fifteen miles distant, where the execution was to take place on the afternoon of the same day. He arrived just as the man was being conducted to the scaffold, who, seeing Miller in the crowd, remarked, “There is old Peter Miller; he has walked all the way from Ephrata to have his revenge gratified today by seeing me hung.” These words had scarcely been spokrn, when he was made acquainted with the very different nature of Miller’s visit, and that his life was spared. — Family Treasures [see HolwickID #1862]

“It is not possible to preserve peace, when we cannot do it without offending God, and wounding conscience. Peace without purity is the peace of the devils palace.” — Henry

“To be deprived of the person we love is a happiness in comparison of living with one we hate.” — La Bruyère

from The Biblical Museum (1883) - A Compendium of Quotations and Illustrations · James Comper Gray, Editor via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database revengehonesty

He Never Forgave Him

Mark 6:19

Over 20 years ago an 11-year old boy named Timothy Jordon stole some cassettes from a 17-year old named Lawrenz Pillow. In order to teach him a lesson, Lawrenz told Timothy’s parents what happened and he got in big trouble. Timothy was so mad that, 8 years later, he tracked Lawrenz down and shot him in the face, leaving him with a glass eye and a bullet lodged in his head. Timothy Jordon served 18 months for assault.

Several years ago, at a chance reunion in a Detroit barbershop, Lawrenz Pillow returned the favor by shooting Timothy Jordon in the head. Jordon is now dead and Pillow is serving time in prison. When his wife was asked for her reaction, she said, “The boy never forgave him.”

from Rev. Brian Bill, Kerux Sermon #19780 via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database revenge

Getting Along - When It Is Hard

Romans 12:14

Sermon in Romans series, #17 Romans 12:14,17-21

GETTING ALONG - WHEN IT IS HARD

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I. It's a hard, cruel world out there.

A. Conflict abounds.

B. Christians live in this same world.

II. How people wrong us.

A. Persecution is always a possibility. 12:14

B. Evil happens.

C. Revenge is a growth industry.

III. Christians are different.

A. Don't curse, but bless. 12:14

B. Do what is right. 12:17

C. Live at peace. 12:18

D. Feed your enemy. 12:20

IV. Burning coals.

A. A reference to eternal punishment?

B. More likely a reference to enemy's sense of shame.

V. Overcome evil with good.

from Condensed sermon outline (handout) by Rev. David Holwick · Rev. David Holwick, Serm05zg.pco via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database love your enemy

Open Arms and No Closed Door

2 Samuel 9

Rwanda. A lot of Americans had never heard of that African country until, a few years ago, it became the scene of horrific bloodshed and a tribal war that left thousands of Rwandans brutally slaughtered. With this awful season of attempted genocide, Rwanda became a word written in blood. And now the challenge is to attempt to heal the nation. Leaders who helped South Africa reconcile its years of apartheid violence have come to Rwanda to help them find a healing road. Out of this struggle has come a story I will not soon forget. The son of a lady named Deborah was murdered in an act of ethnic vengeance. Months after the killing, a young man visited Deborah with this amazing confession - and request: “I killed your son. So take me to the authorities and let them deal with me as they will. I have not slept since I shot your son. Every time I lie down, I see you praying, and I know you are praying for me.” As extraordinary as that young man's words were, Deborah's response was even more amazing. She said, “I do want you to restore justice by replacing the son you killed. I'm asking you to become my son. When you visit me, I will care for you.” Today that young man is an adopted member of her household.

I'm Ron Hutchcraft and I want to have A Word With You today about “Open Arms and No Closed Door.”

I know a little bit of how that young man must feel. I've been accepted as part of the family by someone from whom I deserved only punishment and rejection. After all, I had a part in the death of His Son. But, then, so have you. The Son's name is Jesus - who was nailed to a cross for your sins and mine. God has every reason to throw the book at us. But this very day, He's offering you instead a chance to join His family and live with Him forever.

God gives us a beautiful picture of this amazing possibility in a story from the life of King David, the one from whom Jesus was descended. In 2 Samuel 9, our word for today from the Word of God, David has become the king after the previous King Saul's all-out attempts to have him killed. It was the custom of kings then to exile or execute the families of those who wanted them dead, so they wouldn't become part of a future rebellion or plot. But there was one man left of Saul's family. His name was Mephibosheth, and he was crippled in both feet. King David had Mephibosheth brought to him, and Saul's grandson was scared to death.

“'Don't be afraid,' David said to him, 'for I will surely show you kindness for the sake of your father Jonathan (who was Saul's son and David's friend) ... I will restore to you all the land that belonged to your grandfather Saul, and you will always eat at my table.’ ... and Mephibosheth ate at the king's table like one of the king's sons.”

That's what God wants to do for you even though you have, like all of us, rebelled against His kingship and run your own life. It's that rebellion that could be paid for only with the blood of God's Son. Which means you and I were part of the reason God's Son died. But He stands ready, no matter what you've done, to throw open the door and welcome you into His family and into His heaven when you die.

The only way you'll ever be allowed into God's heaven is on the basis of your personal relationship with the person God loves most - His one and only Son, Jesus. So where you stand with God and where you'll spend eternity depends totally on whether or not you have welcomed the Son of God into your life as your Savior from your sin. You can do that today and God will cancel the hell you deserve and give you instead the heaven you could never deserve.

Like me, you deserve the punishment for your sins against the King of all kings. But He's ready to welcome you into His family today and you will “eat at the king's table like one of the king's sons” because He wants you with Him forever!

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Copyright © Ron Hutchcraft Ministries, Inc., PO Box 400, Harrison, AR 72602. Used by permission. Written by Ron Hutchcraft. "Practical Answers to Real Life Issues"

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from A Word With You by Ron Hutchcraft #4564 · Ron Hutchcraft via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database forgivenessrevenge

Revenge Is Indeed Sweet

Dirty Harry had it right: Brain scans show revenge really might make your day. Planning revenge sparks enough satisfaction to motivate getting even - and the amount of satisfaction actually predicts who will go to greater lengths to do so, report Swiss researchers who monitored people's brain activity during an elaborate game of double-cross.

That may not sound too surprising. Just consider the old saying, “Revenge is sweet.”

The new study chips “yet another sliver from the rational model of economic man,” said Stanford University psychologist Brian Knutson, who reviewed the Swiss research. “Instead of cold, calculated reason, it is passion that may plant the seeds of revenge,” he said.

People often are eager to punish wrongdoers even if the revenge brings them no personal gain or actually costs them something. From a practical standpoint, that may seem irrational.

In research reported in Friday's edition of the journal Science, University of Zurich scientists used PET scans to monitor the brain activity of game players to determine what motivates that type of revenge.

Two players could either trust and cooperate with each other so they both earned money. Or one could double-cross the other and keep an unfair share. Sometimes the double-cross was deliberate; other times, rules of the game dictated it. The victim could retaliate by fining the double-crosser different amounts, but sometimes had to spend his own money to impose that fine.

All 14 players chose revenge whenever the double-cross was deliberate and the retaliation free. Only three retaliated when the double-cross wasn't deliberate. Twelve of 14 players punished a deliberate double-cross even if it cost them additional money.

The PET scans showed a brain region known to be important for enjoyment and satisfaction - the dorsal striatum - became active in those players who decided to retaliate. It wasn't an afterglow from revenge, but satisfaction from anticipating it.

When the retaliation cost them money, a second brain region that helps weigh costs and benefits got involved, too, but the striatum remained key. The level of activity actually predicted which players would spend more money to get revenge.

“Their behavior does not reflect blind revenge that follows from overwhelming emotions,” cautioned study co-author Ernst Fehr, director of the University of Zurich's economic research institute. “They reduce punishment if it is costly for them in the same way as they reduce buying goods if the goods become more expensive.”

Moreover, that same satisfaction-causing brain circuitry seems to be involved in the evolution of human cooperation, providing incentive to get along with strangers in setting social norms, the researchers write in Science. Punishing violators of those norms even if you personally don't stand to gain may be the flip side.

The study involved only men, and more work is needed to see if women and people of varying social and income groups react similarly, Stanford's Knutson said.

But the research is important as scientists try to dissect how emotion interacts with analytical decision-making, he stressed.

“For a long time, sociologists and economists have not paid a lot of attention to people's feelings, especially before an event,” Knutson explained. “It's almost like your mind imagines the outcome before it happens. That's a lot of what motivates behavior.”

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The Sweetest Revenge Is Mercy

Romans 12:19

In the 1970s, Zhou Enlai, communist China's elder statesman and foreign minister, was asked to assess the historical impact of the French Revolution of 1789.

Zhou paused, rubbing his chin thoughtfully.

“Too soon to tell,” he replied.

When you're part of a 4,000-year-old culture, you take the long view. That's an alien concept to Americans; we have a hard time remembering who won the last Super Bowl -- or waiting for the next one. Regardless of the issue or task at hand, we like to deal with it and “move on.”

Problem is, the world won't “move on” with us.

Only recently did China and South Korea tentatively settle a dispute over the borders of the kingdom of Koguryo, which ruled parts of both lands –- from 37 B.C. to A.D. 668. In the heart of modern Europe, the Balkan wars of the 1990s resulted in part from religious and ethnic hatreds spawned a millennium ago.

After surviving ideologies born in the 19th and 20th centuries (communism, fascism), the West now finds itself under sustained attack by medieval warriors with modern weapons. One of their aims: to re-establish a grand Islamic empire that went into decline centuries before Karl Marx was born.

These warriors also want revenge -– not just for current U.S support of Israel or foreign military presence in the land of Mecca, but for the expulsion of Muslims from Spain by Ferdinand and Isabella in 1492. They aren't likely to win, but they could heavily damage the delicate machinery of international order before they're defeated.

Revenge has a long shelf life.

The desire for revenge grips people –- from the driver who gets cut off in traffic to the victims of great injustice. It becomes part of the historical memory of whole nations. Unchecked, it becomes obsession. Over time, its exact origins become distorted, expanded into mythologies of grievance, perhaps even forgotten –- but seldom abandoned. The branches of the tree of bitterness keep blooming.

Revenge is in no hurry. If you can't get it in this generation, there's always the next. “We ain't forgettin,'“ some Confederate diehards still say, nearly 140 years after the Civil War. Avenging agents abound in literature and pop culture: Iago, Shylock, Dirty Harry, Rambo, “Kill Bill.”

“Revenge is a dish best served cold,” the saying goes.

One of Bill Cosby's best childhood stories recounts his detailed plan for getting even with a kid who hit him in the head with a big snowball. Before winter ended, Cosby painstakingly sculpted a monster snowball and hid it in the back of the family freezer. His fiendish intention: to deliver it at high speed to his rival's head on the hottest day of the following summer. Cosby's mom ruined the plot by thawing his snowball in the sink before he got a chance to use it.

But he enjoyed thinking about sweet revenge for months.

According to new findings by scientists at the University of Zurich, the impulse for revenge actually stimulates the dorsal striatum -- a part of the brain that plays a key role in the emotions of enjoyment and satisfaction.

Forgiveness really is divine; it sure isn't human.

No wonder loving enemies is so hard. But it's the way of the Lord, who has a very long memory. He, being righteous, chooses to forgive those who seek His mercy. And He commands His people to proclaim the offer of mercy to all –- even enemies. He sent Jonah to preach to the wicked Ninevites, who repented in sackcloth in ashes. Jonah wanted God to destroy them; God wanted to redeem them. He sent Jesus Christ to save those who had already betrayed Him many times.

In a time of war and terror, American Christians must remember mercy. We're citizens of a great democracy -- second. First, we're subjects of an absolute monarchy: the Kingdom of God.

“Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord. Therefore if thine enemy hunger, feed him; if he thirst, give him a drink: for in so doing thou shalt heap coals of fire on his head. Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good” (Romans 12:19-21).

His justice will come in His time. Until then, mercy triumphs over our justice.

“Living well is the best revenge,” wrote George Herbert, the 17th-century Anglican poet and priest. For the follower of Christ, living well is living in forgiveness –- and showing mercy as it has been shown to us.

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The Peace of Death Settles All Scores

The port of Aden in what is now Yemen was an important port for the British navy up to the 20th century. The British attempted to pacify and “civilize” the people with limited success. Lord Belhaven, a British official in Aden, believed that “if we did not make peace among these people sunk in hopeless anarchy, the only peace in the land would be the peace of death.”

An hour's drive east of Aden is a river delta called Abyan. In the rainy season, a wall of red water roars down the dusty riverbed. The flash flood carries with it uprooted trees, rocks and soil, rubbish, fish, and sometimes the bloated corpse of a cow or a human, the whole lot of it as wide as the Nile and thundering down toward the ocean. Most of Abyan was a howling desert. The floods passed uselessly down to the sea, leaving little behind for the delta's inhabitants except fevers bred in puddles of water. Abyan's clan feuds were over who among the tribes should harness the floods to irrigate their farms. But the quarrels had become impossibly tangled and complicated. One chieftain had a remembrancer, whose sole job was to recall if such-and-such a man was friend or foe and, if so, what was his debt in blood [from blood feuds].

Nobody, in fact, could properly remember why or when the first shot had been fired. And nobody among the British knew what to do about it. In the fat political file on Abyan held at the British Secretariat in Aden was a note that observed, “There is no way in which any of the disputes can be settled, until everyone in the district is dead.”

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from Book: The Zanzibar Chest - A Story Of Life, Love, And Death In Foreign Lands; Atlantic Monthly Press · Aidan Hartley via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database reconciliation

Bernhard Goetz Didn't Turn the Other Cheek

Luke 6:29

December 1984. Four black youths in a crowded New York subway surrounded a thin white man. They asked him for five dollars so they could play video games. Without saying a word, Bernhard Goetz pulled out a .38 revolver and shot each one in rapid succession. He then checked the first three to see that they were "taken care of," in his words. When he came to the fourth one, Goetz didn't see any blood. So he said, "You don't look too bad, here's another." The bullet struck nineteen year old Darrell Cabey in the spinal cord, which has paralyzed him and left him in a coma to this day.

What should you, as a Christian, do in such a situation?

Apparently many people can justify everything. Goetz did. Before he turned himself in, police put up wanted posters with a sketch of him on it. Subway passengers drew halos on the posters. More thoughtful people have said they can see his need to defend himself, but the last shot seems to have been nothing but brutal vengeance.

Still others would argue, on the basis of what Jesus says in the Sermon on the Mount, that Goetz should not even have defended himself. He should have turned the other cheek and given them the five dollars. Then given them the shirt off his back, and anything else they wanted (Luke 6:29).

This passage from the Sermon on the Mount is very well known. We all know it's in the Bible, but we don't know what to do with it. If Jesus is saying what we think he is saying, it doesn't seem very practical. What does it really mean to turn the other cheek?

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from Sermon #20781 by Rev. David Holwick · (original Source Unknown) via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database violence

Revenge For A Wrong Number

Leola Starling of Ribrock, Tennessee, had a serious telephone problem.

The brand-new $10 million Ribrock Plaza Motel opened nearby and had acquired almost the same telephone number as Leola.

From the moment the motel opened, Leola was besieged by calls for the Plaza. Since she had the same phone number for years, she felt that she had a case to persuade the motel management to change its number.

Naturally, the management refused claiming that it could not change its stationary. The phone company was not helpful either. After her pleas fell on deaf ears, Leola decided to take matters into her own hands.

At 9:00 the phone rang. Someone from Memphis was calling the motel and asked for a room for the following Tuesday. Leola said, “No problem. How many nights?”

A few hours later Dallas checked in. A secretary wanted a suite with two bedrooms for a week. Emboldened, Leola said the Presidential Suite on the 10th floor was available for $600 a night. The secretary said that she would take it and asked if the Plaza wanted a deposit. “No, that won't be necessary,” Leola said. “We trust you.”

The next day was a busy one for Leola. In the morning, she booked an electric appliance manufacturer's convention for Memorial Day weekend, a college prom and a reunion of the 82nd Airborne Veterans from World War II. But her biggest challenge came in the afternoon when a mother called to book the ballroom for her daughter's wedding in June.

Leola assured the woman that it would be no problem and asked if she would be providing the flowers or did she want the hotel to take care of it. The mother said that she would prefer the hotel to handle the floral arrangements. Then the question of valet parking came up. Once again, Leola was helpful. “There's no charge for valet parking, but we always recommend that the client tips the drivers.”

Within a few months, the Ribrock Plaza was a disaster area. People kept showing up for weddings, bar mitzvahs, and sweet sixteen parties and were all told there were no such events.

Leola had her final revenge when she read in the local paper that the motel might go bankrupt. Her phone rang, and an executive from Marriott said, “We're prepared to offer you $200,000 for the motel.”

Leola replied. “We'll take it. But only if you change the telephone number.”

Revenge! Sweet revenge. Who here has not fantasized about getting even — even if it's something as petty as showing up at a 25th High School Reunion to show all those jerks that you made it. Hoping that they are all fat, bald and drive Yugos. In the words of Frederich Nietzche, “Revenge is the greatest instinct in the human race.”

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from Kerux Sermon #21562 by Rev. Dave Wilkinson: Forgiveness via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

He Forgave His Attackers

Luke 6:27

Many years ago two young men with long records of crime and delinquency robbed the YMCA on the Lower East Side of New York City. On their way out of the door they noticed a man at the telephone switchboard. Fearing that he would call the police, the young men grabbed him and beat him savagely with brass knuckles and a black jack. Thinking that he was dead, they then stuffed him behind a radiator near the swimming pool and left.

Later that evening Gertrude Ederle, the famous swimmer, was walking near the pool and stepped in some blood, slipped, screamed, and then found Donald Tippet's body. Tippet was rushed to the hospital where for days he lingered between life and death. Eventually he lived, but one eye had been so badly damaged that it could not be saved.

Meanwhile the two young men were caught and brought to trial. Their past record assured they would get a long sentence. At this point, Donald Tippet did an amazing thing. He asked that the two young men be put in his custody. He believed in them, believed they could be changed.

One of the boys refused to change and was soon caught for another crime. The other boy however was more receptive. He went on to college. Eventually he went to medical school and became a surgeon, an eye surgeon. The late Bishop Everett Palmer wrote of this surgeon, “I wonder if he ever performs one of those delicate operations without stopping to think of that night in the YMCA and of a young man, who later became Bishop Donald Tippet of the San Francisco area, whose confidence changed his life.”

There is something life changing about that kind of love. Who could help but be touched by it? What we need today is not a revival that would bring more people into church. What we need is a revival that would motivate us to take Christ's redemptive love out into the world.

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Collected Sermons, King Duncan, http://www.eSermons.com; source: Illustrations, http://www.cybersaltlists.org

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His Desperate To-Do List

Luke 12:16

A man was bitten by rabid dog. The doctor said it had a rare form of incurable rabies – so you have only an hour to live. The doctor left the room and returned shortly to find the man furiously making a list.

“Well I'm glad you are taking this so well. Trying to put your affairs in order?”

“No!” the man snapped, “I'm making out a list of people to bite!”

Embracing Enemies: End of the Spear

Fifty years ago, Nate Saint, Jim Elliot, and the three other American missionaries dared to make contact with the most violent society ever documented by anthropologists. This week END OF THE SPEAR, the story of their martyrdoms, hits the theaters, and the film makers hope contact will be made with another violent and spiritually blind society -- our own. It is a story that should be told in this age of ethnic cleansings, gulags, holocausts, genocide, and riots.

When the film's director, Jim Hanon, traveled to Ecuador to get permission from the Waodani (formerly Auca) Indians to make the movie, the tribe initially refused. But when Steve Saint, Ned Saint's son, told them stories about situations like the Columbine shootings, the Waodani were electrified. “If this story will help your culture not live so violently,” they said, “then we [want you to] tell our story.”

For those unfamiliar with the five men who risked and gave their lives to make contact with this remote and violent tribe in Ecuador, END OF THE SPEAR brings their story to life. But while the story of their deaths is important, what emerges more powerfully from this film is the life of those who carried on. Rachel Saint, Nate's sister; Steve Saint, his son; and the widows all risked their lives to travel into the Amazon basin and finish their loved ones' work.

In the movie, Steve Saint meets his father's killer, a Waodani named Mincayani and fights an internal battle. Revenge is at the heart of the generations of conflict in places like the primitive jungles of Ecuador -- or the Middle East, or Croatia, or Africa, for that matter. Will he spear the one who speared his father? Or will he be able to conquer the impulse for revenge? Miroslav Volf, a Croatian theologian who was teaching seminary students while Serbians were establishing rape camps in and around his hometown, wrestled with this question in his 1996 book EXCLUSION AND EMBRACE.

Volf comes to the same powerful conclusion that is portrayed in the film END OF THE SPEAR. The only way to break the cycle of revenge is through the triumph of the cross of Christ. Volf writes this: “Forgiveness flounders because I exclude the enemy from the community of humans even as I exclude myself from the community of sinners. But no one,” he writes, “can be in the presence of the God of the crucified Messiah for long without ... transposing the enemy from the sphere of monstrous inhumanity into the sphere of shared humanity and herself from the sphere of proud innocence into the sphere of common sinfulness.”

As Steve Saint and his father's killer embrace at the film's close, Steve recalls, “For years, many people would tell me that they could identify with our loss, but they never could imagine how we'd experienced gain.” This is the gain of the cross, and here, of course, is the real message of the movie: The Bible provides the only worldview that provides for reconciliation. No other religion does -- not the Hindus, who know no salvation, not Muslims, no philosophy.

I hope you will get out and see this film and bring your neighbors with you. Let them see in a vivid drama the one belief system, the one hope for mankind, is found at the cross.

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Copyright (c) 2006 Prison Fellowship Ministries. Reprinted with permission. "BreakPoint with Chuck Colson" is a radio ministry of Prison Fellowship Ministries.

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The Best Way To Get Back At Him

“Cash, check or charge?” I asked, after folding items the woman wished to purchase. As she fumbled for her wallet I noticed a remote control for a television set in her purse. “So, do you always carry your TV remote?” I asked. “No,” she replied, “ but my husband refused to come shopping with me, and I figured this was the most evil thing I could do to him legally.”

The Crueler Sex

Job 31:29

Men take pleasure from revenge, while women do not. That's the conclusion of a British study in which researchers used an MRI to examine the brains of men and women as they watched an enemy suffering punishment. In the study, a planted group of “selfish” players cheated the others out of money in a game, and deliberately made themselves seem obnoxious and unlikable.

At the end of the game, the selfish players were subjected to a series of apparent electric shocks, while the study subjects looked on. When a male volunteer saw one of the “bad” players being punished, the primitive reward centers of his brain lit up with pleasure. The scan of his compassion centers, meanwhile, showed no surge of sympathy. When women viewed the villains being shocked, on the other hand, they experienced no pleasure at all. In fact, they felt empathetic.

The results were a surprise for researchers, who expected that women would experience some level of schadenfreude [getting pleasure from the misfortunes of others]. They speculate that there's an evolutionary advantage in men taking pleasure from others' pain; it may have enabled alpha males to subdue rivals and rule-breakers without hesitation or guilt. Researcher Tania Singer tells THE NEW YORK TIMES that the study “would seem to indicate there is a predominant role for men in maintaining justice and issuing punishment.”

from The Week (magazine) via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database justicebrain

She Asked the Judge To Be Lenient

Victoria Ruvolo, 45, of Lake Ronkonkoma, New York, was selected as the “Most Inspiring Person of 2005” by Beliefnet, and for good reason. Victoria was driving to her niece's voice recital when she passed another car driven by 19-year-old Ryan Cushing. Cushing was riding with five other teens, and had just used a stolen credit card to go on a spending spree. One of their purchases was a frozen turkey, which Cushing decided to toss into oncoming traffic. The 20-pound projectile smashed through Ruvolo's windshield, crushing her face.

Amazingly, Ruvolo survived, although she spent 10 hours in an operating room while doctors repaired her face. When she finally went home, she brought a tracheotomy tube and endured months of painful rehabilitation.

On October 17, 2005, Ruvolo attended Cushing's sentencing and asked his judge for leniency. Part of her statement read:

“Despite all the fear and the pain, I have learned from this

horrific experience, and I have much to be thankful for.. Each

day when I wake up, I thank God simply because I'm alive. I

sincerely hope you have also learned from this awful experience,

Ryan. There is no room for vengeance in my life, and I do not

believe a long, hard prison term would do you, me, or society any

good.” Cushing, who wept and expressed remorse for his action,

was sentenced to six months in jail. He could have gotten a 25-

year prison sentence if Ruvolo, his victim, had not intervened.

Ruvolo added:

“I truly hope that by demonstrating compassion and leniency I

have encouraged you to seek an honorable life. If my generosity

will help you mature into a responsible, honest man whose

graciousness is a source of pride to your loved ones and your

community, then I will be truly gratified, and my suffering will

not have been in vain.. Ryan, prove me right.”

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Source: Preaching Today, http://www.preachingtoday.com/33967

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The Amish: A Lesson In Faith? [2 versions]

Luke 6:27

If there is anything harder to comprehend than 2006’s massacre of Amish schoolgirls in Pennsylvania, said the LOS ANGELES TIMES in an editorial, “it is the Amish community’s reaction to the tragedy. “No one would blame the Amish for feeling revulsion and rage toward Charles Roberts IV, the madman who took over the one-room Nickel Mines school and shot 10 little girls in the head, killing five. Instead, said Steven Gimbel in THE PHILADELPHIA INQUIRER, the tight-knit Amish community publicly forgave Roberts and “opened their hearts” to his family, setting up a fund for his children and inviting his widow to a funeral service for four of the victims. Amid the all-too-familiar horror of a school shooting, we saw “a glimmer of the best part of humanity.”

Why is their forgiveness so mysterious? asked religious history professor David Weaver-Zercher in the PITTSBURGH POST-GAZETTE. The Amish, after all, are a Christian sect, and Jesus Christ was unambiguous about the importance of forgiving those who trespass against you. “Bless them that curse you,” Christ said, “and pray for them which despitefully use you.” In fact, if anything needs explaining, said Bruce Kluger in USA TODAY, it’s why other communities of faith find it so hard to practice the compassion their religions preach. Islamic fundamentalists have twisted the Koran into a “global death warrant.” Lebanese Shiites and Israeli Jews spent the summer of 2006 ignoring their respective holy book’s commandments that they treat all human beings with “decency and forgiveness and love.” In the U.S., a “small but rabid band of evangelicals” is trying to turn its judgmental and divisive reading of scripture into the law of the land. As the Amish laid their little girls to rest last week with dignity and grace, these gentle people have shown the world what genuine faith really means.

Forgive me for saying so, said Cristina Odone in the London OBSERVER, but I find the Amish readiness to forgive Charles Roberts “disturbing.” What’s being praised as Christian love is actually more like bleak fatalism. The Amish solution to the problems of the world is first denial -- in the self-imposed exile of their closed communities -- and, when that proves impossible, passive resignation. It’s one thing to forgive those who have wounded you, said Jeff Jacoby in THE BOSTON GLOBE, and quite another to forgive a man who slaughtered innocent children. What Charles Roberts did was simply evil, and shrugging off such atrocities as the will of God does not make the world a better place. “Hatred is not always wrong, and forgiveness is not always deserved.”

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THE CONTEXT OF FORGIVENESS: GRACE IN AMISH COUNTRY

Breakpoint commentary by Charles Colson, October 3, 2007

With the massacre at Virginia Tech and the chilling execution-style murder of four Delaware State students, it is not surprising that many Americans have almost forgotten an equally horrifying event that took place one year ago yesterday.

A demented gunman, Charles Roberts, took a school-room full of Amish girls hostage in Nickel Mines, Pennsylvania. Before he killed himself, Roberts had murdered five girls in cold blood.

But as shocking as this senseless act of violence was, it was what followed that sent the real shock waves through the nation.

Within hours of the shooting, several members of the Amish community visited Mrs. Roberts and her family, to express their sorrow over her loss and to say they did not hold anything against them. Another Amish man visited the killer’s father. A Roberts family spokesperson said, “He stood there for an hour, and he held [Mr. Roberts] in his arms and said, ‘We forgive you.’”

Four days later at the killer’s burial, some 70 people in attendance were Amish. And when funds began pouring in for victims after the shooting, the Nickel Mines community established a fund for the shooter’s wife and children.

Reactions to the news of this forgiveness ran the gamut from awestruck to disgust. Detractors like Jeff Jacoby opined in the BOSTON GLOBE, “I cannot see how the world is made a better place by assuring someone who would do terrible things that he will be readily forgiven afterward.”

But what Jacoby and others missed was the broader context of the forgiveness. It was not a cheap forgiveness that denied the pain and wrong of what had happened. From amazing grief through amazing faith came amazing grace.

In a new book titled AMISH GRACE, three experts on the Amish explain, “Our actions are rarely random. We all embrace patterns of behavior and habits of mind that shape what we do in a given situation.” As the authors note, there are “habits of forgiveness” in the Amish culture, Christian habits that come into clear focus. For instance, the Amish celebrate communion only twice a year, but they go through a month-long season of preparation. During that season of preparation, the Amish take seriously the admonition that if anyone holds a grudge against his brother, he is not to partake in the communion until he has put things right. A council meeting two weeks prior to communion is a time of admonishment, then there is a season of fasting, and sometimes the communion service is even delayed for weeks if there is more widespread disharmony among the community.

There is much more we could say about the wave of forgiveness that startled the world last October. Get the book AMISH GRACE, and read about it. You can even order it from our website, BreakPoint.org.

But the question is, how are we working in our own communities to build cultures of grace? Do we teach our children to forgive? Are we actively working to restore offenders and to reach out in aid to victims? And are we overcoming the evil in the world by good, as we are commanded to?

The Amish have given us a great lesson in the way to defeat hatred and alienation. It is the Christian worldview — the only one that makes such a magnificent response to such a horrible tragedy possible.

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[Original illustration at this number was a duplicate of HolwickID #12911]

How A Crime Reporter Was Talked Out of Getting Revenge

Veteran crime reporter Dominick Dunne has the misfortune to know about murder firsthand: His daughter, Dominique, was strangled by her former boyfriend in 1982. Her killer, John Thomas Sweeney, was released from prison after serving only two and a half years.

It goes without saying that her father was enraged when Sweeney got off so lightly. Dunne hired a investigator to keep track of Sweeney. But Dunne didn’t initially intend simply to keep tabs on Sweeney. He reached out to the private detective to help him put a contract out on Sweeney’s life.

“I was nuts at that time with rage and hate that the guy who strangled my daughter for five minutes until she was dead got out in two and a half years,” Dunne says. “I truly went through a period of wanting to hire somebody. I know, it seems absurd now.... But I worshipped my daughter. I just became obsessed with this guy getting out of prison. I wanted harm to come to him.”

The private eye had a sympathetic ear but talked Dunne out of it, saying, “Dominick, you don’t want to do this.” Dunne was willing to be talked out of it.

In retrospect, Dunne thinks he simply had a fantasy common to parents who have lost a child to violent crime.

As for Sweeney, Dunne lost track of him some time back. “I don’t know where he is,” he says. “I don’t want to know where he is.... I just hope something terrible happens to him before he dies.”

Lessons on Forgiveness

In the Old Testament I like the story of Joseph, particularly its outcome. Joseph is the favored one. The older brothers say, “Dad always liked you best.” In this case it was true. The brothers go out and fake Joseph’s death. They bring back some bloodied clothes and say to their father, “He is dead.” In actuality they have sold him into slavery in Egypt. Time passes. Famine comes to Israel. These brothers are forced to go to Egypt and ask the king for food. Traditionally, the king has been their enemy. Can you imagine the drama of that moment when they lift up their eyes and see their brother? There is an exchange and the very last line is the most important. Joseph looks upon them with the eyes of forgiveness and says, “You intended what you did to me as something that would create evil, but God and I were able to bend it into something good.” You see, the noblest revenge is to forgive your enemy, and it is perhaps the last of the lessons that we learn from Jesus.

The words of Jesus that we would like to duck most are the ones in front of us, the ones about forgiving enemies. They are so difficult. Fred Craddock, a good teacher of New Testament and preaching, was teaching an undergraduate course in Oklahoma on the Gospels of Jesus. He was taking the simple writings of Jesus and putting them plainly in front of his students. There was a girl sitting in the back of the class, and as he came to the part about loving your enemies, she stood up and started slamming her books all around. She started mumbling, “Jesus and the losers. I hate Jesus and the losers. I can’t stand this.” She stuffed her bag and went out still mumbling, “Jesus and a bunch of losers, forgiving their enemies.”

Frederick Buechner said: When somebody you have wronged forgives you, you are spared the dull and self-diminishing throb of a guilty conscience. When you forgive someone who has wronged you, you are spared the dismal corrosion of bitterness and wounded pride for both parties. Forgiveness means the freedom again to be at peace inside your own skin and to be glad in each other’s presence.

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There was a Zen school in Japan. They were training young boys in the discipline of meditation. The boys had been taken into seclusion. Among the boys there was one who kept stealing. So the boys finally put together a petition and brought he thief to the headmaster and stood there and said, “We are threatening right now to leave because we can’t stand this kid any longer.” With wisdom the Zen master approached them, looked at them, and said, “You are wise brothers. You are very wise. You are wise because you know the difference between right and wrong. You may go somewhere else to study if you wish, but this poor brother does not even know right from wrong. Who will teach him if I do not? I am going to keep him here even if all the rest of you leave.” The story goes that a torrent of tears cleansed the face of that boy who had stolen, and the desire to steal was banished from him forever in that decisive moment.

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Resisting Revenge

When we are wronged in some way, our natural inclination is to fight back, to get even. Needless to say, this reaction, though thoroughly human, is almost always in error. “Forgiveness,” said Epictetus, “is better than revenge, for forgiveness is the sign of a gentle nature, but revenge is the sign of a savage nature.”

A dramatic example is the experience of a Hungarian refugee — to protect his privacy we’ll call him Joseph Kudar. Kudar was a successful young lawyer in Hungary before the uprisings in that country in 1956. A strong believer in freedom for his country, he fought Soviet tanks in the streets of Budapest with his friends. When the uprising failed, he was forced to flee the country.

When Kudar arrived in the U.S. he had no money, no job, no friends. He was, however, well educated; he spoke and wrote several languages, including English. For several months he tried to get a job in a law office, but because of his lack of familiarity with American law, he received only polite refusals.

Finally, it occurred to him that with his knowledge of language he might be able to get a job with an import-export company. He selected one such company and wrote a letter to the owner.

Two weeks later he received an answer, but was hardly prepared for the vindictiveness of the man’s reply. Among other things, it said that even if they did need someone, they wouldn’t hire him because he couldn’t even write good English.

Crushed, Kudar’s hurt quickly turned to anger. What right did this rude, arrogant man have to tell him he couldn’t write the language! The man was obviously crude and uneducated — his letter was chock-full of grammatical errors!

Kudar sat down and, in the white heat of anger, wrote a scathing reply, calculated to rip the man to shreds. When he’d finished, however, as he was reading it over, his anger began to drain away. Then he remembered the biblical admonition, “A soft answer turneth away wrath.”

No, he wouldn’t mail the letter. Maybe the man was right. English was not his native tongue. Maybe he did need further study in it. Possibly this man had done him a favor by making him realize he did need to work harder on perfecting his English.

Kudar tore up the letter and wrote another. This time he apologized for the previous letter, explained his situation, and thanked the man for pointing out his need for further study.

Two days later he received a phone call inviting him to New York for an interview. A week later he went to work for them as a correspondent. Later, Joseph Kudar became vice president and executive officer of the company, destined to succeed the man he had hated and sought revenge against for a fleeting moment — and then resisted.

Bits & Pieces, March 31, 1994, pp. 12-15

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Prayer for Enemies

Almighty and tender Lord Jesus Christ,

Just as I have asked you to love my friends

So I ask you to love my enemies.

You alone, Lord, are mighty.

You alone are merciful.

Whatever you make me desire for my enemies,

Give it to them.

And give the same back to me.

If I ever ask for them anything

Which is outside your perfect rule of love,

Whether through weakness, ignorance or malice,

Good Lord, do not give it to them

And do not give it back to me.

You who are the whole truth, correct their errors.

You who are the incarnate word, give life to their souls.

Tender Lord Jesus.

Let me not be a stumbling block to them

Nor a rock of offence.

My sin is sufficient to me, without harming others.

I, a slave to sin,

Beg your mercy on my fellow slaves.

let them, be reconciled with you,

And through you reconciled to me.

Anselm of Canterbury

from Deep Joy For A Shallow World - CSS Publishing, Lima, Ohio, 2010 · Richard A. Wing via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database revenge

A Hissy Fit With A Hammer

Mona Shaw says she has no regrets about using a hammer to vent her frustration at a cable television company. A lot of other people have supported her actions as well.

Shaw, 75, and her husband, Don, say they had an appointment in August for a Comcast technician to come to their Virginia home to install the company’s heavily advertised Triple Play phone, Internet and cable service. The Shaws say no one came all day, and the technician who showed up two days later left without finishing the setup.

Two days after that, Comcast cut off all their service. At the Comcast office in Manassas later that day, they waited for a manager for two hours before being told the manager had left for the day, the Shaws say.

Shaw, a churchgoing secretary of the local American Association of Retired People (AARP) branch, returned the next Monday - with a hammer.

“I smashed a keyboard, knocked over a monitor ... and I went to hit the telephone,” Shaw said. “I figured, ‘Hey, my telephone is screwed up, so is yours.”‘

Comcast Corp., the nation’s largest cable company, disputes Shaw’s version of its customer service record and calls Shaw’s hammer fit an “inappropriate situation.”

“Nothing justifies this sort of dangerous behavior,” Comcast spokeswoman Beth Bacha said.

Police arrested Shaw for disorderly conduct. She received a three-month suspended sentence, was fined $345 and is barred from going near the Comcast offices for a year.

The Shaws did eventually get phone and television service - with Verizon and DirecTV.

She said many people have called her a hero. “But no, I’m just an old lady who got mad. I had a hissy fit,” she said.

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Copyright 2007 The Associated Press.

from America Online via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database revenge

He Engineered His Revenge Against Thieves

Luke 12:39

If you’ve ever had a delivery stolen from the front of your house then you understand the desire for revenge.

That’s exactly the situation YouTuber and former NASA engineer Mark Rober found himself in when a package was swiped from outside of his home. But despite his security cameras catching the thief red-handed, he was told by police that the crime wasn’t worth their time to investigate.

So Rober took matters into his own hands, engineering a package that would shower a future thief with glitter when opened. But while this could have been accomplished with a couple of loaded springs, Rober wanted to be able to film the entire incident as it unfolded. The result is an over-engineered bait package that took six months to develop, and used motion sensors, a GPS tracker, and the combined wide-angle cameras of four mobile phones. It even used [flatulence] spray to ensure the thief would throw it away, so that Rober could recover and reuse it.

Like his other work, which includes giant Super Soakers, self-tracking dart-boards, and techie halloween costumes, Rober’s latest invention is meant primarily as a bit of lighthearted fun. Unfortunately, so-called “porch pirates” have turned into enough of a problem that police have started targeting them in sting operations. Although various solutions such as Amazon Key, have been proposed, the problem is unlikely to go away anytime soon.

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Former NASA engineer designs ‘glitter bomb’ to get revenge on porch pirates who stole his package

By Ryan Gaydos | Fox News

A former NASA engineer took matters into his own hands after he had a package stolen off of the porch of his California home in the middle of the day seven months ago.

Mark Rober attempted to get the police involved and even caught the thieves on camera, but he said authorities told him that it wasn’t “worth their time” to check into, he said in a YouTube video posted Monday.

Rober explained in the video that his “revenge bait” was an inspiration from the movie “Home Alone.” He disguised the package as an Apple HomePod Box, which would also be GPS-enabled. He would also record the theft with cellphones.

And once the thief picked up the package, a glitter bomb attached to the package would go off.

“Ultimately, when they opened the package, I wanted to celebrate their choice of profession with a cloud of glitter,” Rober said in the video clip.

He also programmed a can of “[flatulence] spray” to go off on top of the glitter, adding insult to injury.

Rober, who helped design hardware being used on the Mars Curiosity Rover, said it took six months to put the special package together.

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[Rober's video, with outtakes from the box's camera, went viral. Multiple people stole the box. His video was edited after he found out some of his friends staged a few of the incidents.]

An Eye For An Eye, A Spine For a Spine

Saudi Arabia was urged by a human rights group not to deliberately paralyze a man as punishment for injuries he inflicted during a fight.

Saudi Arabia media reports indicate that authorities have contacted several hospitals to ask if they would be able to sever the man’s spinal cord. One of the hospitals has indicated it is able to perform the operation.

The authorities are seeking the punishment at the request of the man’s victim in the fight. The victim, Abdul-Aziz al-Mutairi, is able to make a request under sharia law, since he himself was left paralyzed by the fight. The man, whose name has not been public, reportedly stabbed his victim in the back with a large knife in a fight more than two years ago. The injuries he inflicted paralyzed his victim, who later lost a foot as well, BBC NEWS reported.

Such cases of qisas (retribution) are not unusual in Saudi Arabia. Other sentences that have been passed include gouging a convict’s eyes, extracting their teeth and even death sentences as punishment for murder.

Human rights groups say such a punishment would amount to torture and is illegal.

Though few details of the case are known publicly, it appears that the court has not decided if it will seek to paralyze the man. Instead, it may impose a sentence of flogging, financial compensation or imprisonment.

Still, the victim’s family is pushing for a harsher sentence. “We are asking for our legal right under Islamic law,” his brother Khaled said, according to SKY NEWS. “There is no better word than God’s word -- an eye for an eye.”

from America Online News · Hugh Collins via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database justiceislam

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