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Loving your enemy challenges believers to extend grace and forgiveness beyond natural inclinations, embodying Christ's command to love even those who oppose us (Matthew 5:44). This subject often uses vivid contrasts between hostility and compassion, illustrating how love disarms vengeance and transforms relationships, reflecting the power of divine love to overcome enmity (Romans 12:20-21).

Can Christians Kill?

Campolo asked an army colonel, Do you think Jesus would drop a bomb? Of course he wouldn't. Campolo - so why should Christians? OT laws limit retribution; NT goes further. Jesus has a "new" law of love, even for enemies. Non-violent resistance of Gandhi. How it worked against Nazis in Denmark.

Matt 25:40 - we meet Jesus in the person of every one we meet. War and capital punishment become wrong.

Story of monk [Telemachus] given [see #3078], who went to Rome, was appalled at gladiators in coliseum, stepped down among them and shouted, "In the name of God, stop!" They ran him through, then were horrified. One by one the spectators left, and gladiator fights ended. Our age needs the same command - "In the name of God, stop!" [used by Jimmy Hull on September 23, 1990]

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Version in Leadership, Fall 1983, "Courage," Randy Roth, Portland, Oregon:

President Reagan recently retold the story of Telemachus, the fourth-century Christian whose boldness has been recounted in Charles Colson's "Loving God."

The Asian hermit lived in a remote village, tending his garden and spending much of his time in prayer. One day he thought he heard the voice of God telling him to go to Rome, so he obeyed, setting out on foot. Weary weeks later, he arrived in the city at the time of a great festival. The little monk followed the crowd surging down the streets into the Coliseum. He saw the gladiators stand before the emperor and say, "We who are about to die salute you." Then he realized these men were going to fight to the death for the entertainment of the crowd. He cried out, "In the name of Christ, stop!"

As the games began, he pushed his way through the crowd, climbed over the wall, and dropped to the floor of the arena. When the crowd saw this tiny figure rushing to the gladiators saying, "In the name of Christ, stop!" they thought it was part of the show and began laughing.

When they realized it wasn't, the laughter turned to anger. As he was pleading with the gladiators to stop, one of them plunged a sword into his body. He fell to the sand. As he was dying, his last words were, "In the name of Christ, stop!"

Then a strange thing happened. The gladiators stood looking at the tiny figure lying there. A hush fell over the Coliseum. Way up in the upper rows, a man stood and made his way to the exit. Other began to follow. In dead silence, everyone left the Coliseum.

The year was A.D. 391, and that was the last battle to the death between gladiators in the Roman Coliseum. Never again in the great stadium did men kill each other for the entertainment of the crowd, all because of one tiny voice - one life - that spoke the truth in God's name.

[see also Charles Swindoll, "Living on the Ragged Edge," pp. 109-110.]

[see also #3078]

German Christians Help Their Persecutor

Luke 21:12

In The Northwestern Lutheran, Joel C. Gerlach writes: "Eight times the Ministry of Education in East Germany said no to Uwe Holmer's children when they tried to enroll at the university in East Berlin. The Ministry of Education doesn't usually give reasons for its rejection of applications for enrollment. But in this case the reason wasn't hard to guess. Uwe Holmer, the father of the eight applicants, is a Lutheran pastor at Lobetal, a suburb of East Berlin.

"For 26 years the Ministry of Education was headed by Margot Honecker, wife of East Germany's premier, Erich Honecker... (then) when the Berlin wall cracked... Honecker and his wife were unceremoniously dismissed from office. He is now under indictment for criminal activities during his tenure as premier.

"At the end of January the Honeckers were evicted from their luxurious palace in Vandlitz, and exclusive suburb of palatial homes reserved for the VIPs in the party. The Honeckers suddenly found themselves friendless, without resources, and with no place to go. None of their former cronies showed them any of the humanitarianism Communists boast about. No one wanted to identify with the Honeckers...

"Enter Uwe Holmer. Remembering the words of Jesus, 'If someone strikes you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also,' Holmer extended an invitation to the Honeckers to stay with his family in the parsonage of the parish church in Lobetal...

"Pastor Holmer has not reported that the Honeckers have renounced their atheism and professed faith in Jesus as Savior and Lord. But at least they fold their hands and bow their heads when the family prays together. Who knows what the Holmer's faith-in-action plan will lead to before this extraordinary episode ends?

from Leadership · Gordon J. Peters, Bend, Oregon via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database love your enemy

Let Me Go Out and Reason With Them

As a child I remember seeing a western movie on TV. The cowboys were hiding in a house that was surrounded by hundreds of murderous Apaches. The Indians were racing their horses in a circle around the house while the palefaces blasted away at them.

Suddenly a black-robed preacher among them told them to stop firing. He said, “Let me go out and reason with them.” So he grabbed his Bible and headed out the door. All was silent, then the pacifist was riddled by a dozen arrows. The cowboys resumed firing and, of course, saved themselves.

As a little kid I remember thinking - boy, that guy was dumb!

from Old sermon by Rev. David Holwick via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database love your enemy

(Used In March 24, 1985, Sermon)

Tom Skinner was an angry black youth in New York City. Through violence and hatred he became the leader of the largest gang in the city, the Harlem Lords. Tom's conversion to Jesus Christ was so real he left the gang the next day and began preaching the gospel. He had an immediate victory over his past life.

Several weeks after he was saved, Tom was playing in a high school football game. During the game he blocked a member of the other team while his own halfback scored a touchdown. As Tom got off the ground and headed back to his huddle, the boy he had blocked slammed him in the stomach and threw him to the ground.

The white player kicked him and made racist remarks.

Under normal circumstances he would have pulverized the boy. But instead he got up, looked him in the eye and said, “You know, because of Jesus Christ I love you anyway.” As it turned out, the other boy later apologized. But even if he hadn't, Tom had honored Jesus Christ.

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No Longer An Enemy (3 versions)

Luke 6

In "The Grace of Giving," Stephen Olford tells of a Baptist pastor during the American Revolution, Peter Miller, who lived in Ephrata, Pennsylvania, and enjoyed the friendship of George Washington.

In Ephrata also lived Michael Wittman [other sources say "Widman"], an evil minded sort who did all he could to oppose and humiliate the pastor.

One day Michael Wittman was arrested for treason and sentenced to die. Peter Miller traveled seventy miles on foot to Philadelphia to plead for the life of the traitor.

"No, Peter," General Washington said. "I cannot grant you the life of your friend."

"My friend!" exclaimed the old preacher. "He's the bitterest enemy I have."

"What?" cried Washington. "You've walked seventy miles to save the life of an enemy? That puts the matter in a different light. I'll grant your pardon." And he did.

Peter Miller took Michael Wittman Back home to Ephrata - no longer an enemy but a friend.

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Another version from the Fredericksburg collection:

During the American Revolutionary War there was, living in Pennsylvania, Peter Miller, the pastor of a little Baptist church. Near the church, lived a man who secured an unenviable notoriety by his abuse of Miller and the Baptists. He also became guilty of treason and was sentenced to death. No sooner was the sentence pronounced, than Peter Miller set out on foot to visit George Washington at Philadelphia to intercede for the man's life. Washington told Miller that his plea for his friend could not be granted. "My friend!" exclaimed Miller, "I have not a worse enemy living than that man!" "What?" rejoined Washington, "you have walked sixty miles to save the life of your enemy? That, in my judgment, puts the matter in different light. I will grant you his pardon."

The pardon was made out and Miller at once proceeded on foot to a place fifteen miles distant where the execution was to take place on the afternoon of the same day. He arrived just as the man was being carried to the scaffold, who, seeing Miller in the crowd, remarked: "There is old Peter Miller. He has walked all the way from Ephrata to have his revenge gratified today by seeing me hung." These words were scarcely spoken before Miller gave him his pardon and his life was spared. –C. H. Spurgeon

Even thus, guilty, condemned men often wrongly judge the approach of Christ to their imperiled souls. He comes now not to delight in their just punishment, but to offer them a timely, and total, pardon --one that He has obtained for us all at great cost to Himself, and one which is completely undeserved, yet extended to us through His forgiving love. --D. V. M.

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Another version from the Fredericksburg collection:

Two boys were at the same school: George Washington and Peter Miller. Washington became the first president of the United States and Peter Miller became a preacher of the Gospel. Washington lived at Philadelphia, and Miller at Ephrata, a village seventy miles from the capital. For many years the preacher endured much persecution from a man named Michael Wittman, who did all in his power to distress the servant of God. He even inflicted personal violence, injured the building, and publicly denounced the preacher's testimony. At length Wittman was involved in treason, was arrested, and sentenced to death.

Upon this the old preacher walked the seventy miles to Philadelphia to plead for the life of his persecutor. "Well, Peter, What can I do for you?" "For our old acquaintance' sake, George, I have come to beg the life of the traitor Wittman." "No, Peter; this case is too black: I cannot give you the life of your friend." "My friend! he is the bitterest enemy any man ever had." And then he told the president what he had suffered from this man for over twenty years. "Ah, then, Peter; this puts another aspect upon the matter. I could not give you the life of your friend; but I will freely pardon your enemy." On the third day the preacher and the persecutor walked back the seventy miles to Ephrata, The man was melted by the pardon; he was soundly converted; Peter baptized him; and the criminal was brought into the joy of God's salvation. --Western Recorder

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from Leadership · Lynn Jost, Hesston, Kansas via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

It Is My Nature To Save

Luke 6:27

In “Context,” Martin Marty retells a parable from the “Eye of the Needle” newsletter:

“A holy man was engaged in his morning meditation under a tree whose roots stretched out over the riverbank. During his meditation he noticed that the river was rising, and a scorpion caught in the roots was about to drown. He crawled out on the roots and reached down to free the scorpion, but every time he did so, the scorpion struck back at him.

An observer came along and said to the holy man, ‘Don’t you know that’s a scorpion, and it’s in the nature of a scorpion to want to sting?’

“To which the holy man replied, ‘That may well be, but it is my nature to save, and must I change my nature because the scorpion does not change its nature?’”

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Version by Rev. Brett Blair, 9/16/01:

Henri Nouwen told a parable about an old man who used to meditate each day be the Ganges River in India.

One morning he saw a scorpion floating on the water. When the scorpion drifted near the old man he reached to rescue it but was stung by the scorpion. A bit later he tried again and was stung again, the bite swelling his hand painfully and giving him much pain. Another man passing by saw what was happening and yelled at the mediator, "Hey, stupid old man, what's wrong with you? Only a fool would risk his life for sake of an ugly, evil creature. Don't you know you could kill yourself trying to save that ungrateful scorpion?"

The old man calmly replied, "My friend, just because it is in the scorpion's nature to sting, does not change my nature to save."

It is in God's nature to save - because it is in God's nature to love. God seeks the lost, heals the wounded, forgives the offender, and gives hope to those who are in despair.

It is what God does.

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Adapted by Brett Blair from a sermon by Richard Fairchild.

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from Leadership · Joseph B. Modica, Elmhurst, N.y. via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database gracecharacter

Love Is the Most Durable Power In the World

John 13:34

Quote by Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.:

“Love is the most durable power in the world. Love is the only force capable of transforming an enemy into a friend.”

“Resistance and nonviolence are not in themselves good. There is another element in our struggle that then makes our resistance and nonviolence truly meaningful. That element is reconciliation. The tactics of nonviolence without the spirit of nonviolence may become a new kind of violence.”

“We are faced with the fact that tomorrow is today. We are confronted with the fierce urgency of now. In this unfolding conundrum of life and history there is such a thing as being too late. Procrastination is still the thief of time.”

[last two paragraphs from “The Christian Citizen,” Vol. 2, 2000]

The Rabbi and the Klansman

Luke 6

How about an angle on this Easter message from a Jew - a cantor at the Reform synagogue in Lincoln, Nebraska. His name is Michael Weisser.

When Michael moved to Lincoln a few years ago, he received numerous harassing phone calls from a man named Larry Trapp. Trapp was a neo-Nazi and the Grand dragon of the White Knights of the Ku Klux Klan. He was also a paraplegic who had lost both his legs to diabetes and was confined to a wheelchair... a man whose father had ridiculed him for his disabilities.

At a certain point, Cantor Weisser fought back. He said to Larry Trapp: "You know, Larry, with your physical disabilities, the Nazis would have made you the first to go." And then, "You know, Larry, one day you're going to have to answer to God for all this hatred."

Not too long after that, Larry Trapp called Michael Weisser back. This time it was not to spew his neo-Nazi racist rubbish, but to talk seriously. He wanted to talk to the cantor about the real things in life. From this a relationship sprouted. Unbelievably, the entire Weisser family began helping Larry Trapp. They went shopping for him. They took care of him. Eventually, he shed his hood and gave away his weapons. Finally he resigned from the Klan.

He decided that he owed it to himself to learn about the people he had despised, and to learn about their faith, and how they survived centuries of irrational hatred. Cantor Weisser taught him. In June, Larry Trapp, the ex- Grand Dragon of the Klan, converted to Judaism, and joined the Reform synagogue in Lincoln.

When Larry Trapp became too weak to take care of himself, the Weissers took him into their home. Julie Weisser quit her nursing job to take care of him. Trapp once sent Julie flowers with this note: "Thank you for changing me from a dragon to a butterfly." It takes eyes blessed of God to see the butterfly within the dragon.

On September 6, 1992, Larry Trapp died at home in Lincoln. The Weisser family was at his bedside when he departed. A eulogy was given at the funeral by Donna Polk, a black activist whom Larry had harassed in his previous life. She said, "I do not have to tell you what this story is about. This I do know: only God gives the power to sift through the ashes of a very mean world and to find spark of truly human."

(related in sermon "To Lift Up the Sparks," by Jeffrey Salkin, The American Rabbi, August 1993.

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A few years ago a story came out in the news about two men living in Lincoln, Nebraska.

One of them, a man named Larry Trapp, was, you might say, walking in darkness. It might be more accurate to say that he was sitting in darkness, for he was wheel-chair bound, and diagnosed with a fatal disease. The darkness he was in (or that was in him) was not caused by his disease, but was the result of hatred. Larry was a Grand Dragon in the Nebraska Ku Klux Klan.

The unfortunate focus of his hatred, the other man, happened to be a Jewish cantor named Michael Weisser. Larry harassed Michael with threatening phone calls and a barrage of hate mail. His goal was to get him out of the community.

Michael decided to take a bold approach; to confront his tormentor. He decided to call Larry on the telephone.

"I just kept leaving messages on his answering machine," says Michael, "until finally one day, Larry Trapp, in a fit of anger, picked up the phone. 'What do you want?' he said. 'You're harassing me! My phone's got a tap on it.'

"I was real quiet and calm" says Michael. "I said I knew he had a hard time getting around and thought he might need a ride to the grocery store.

He just got completely quiet, and all the anger went out of his voice, and he said, 'I've got that taken care of, but thanks for asking.'"

The remarkable end of the story is that the two men eventually became friends. The Weisser's, this Jewish couple, would have Larry, former grand dragon in the KKK, over for dinner. Amazing! Someone who was so full of hate.

Eventually, Larry decided to devote the time he had left to freeing others from the destructive power of hatred and bigotry.

And the people of Lincoln, Nebraska, and other places saw a great light, the light generated by a sudden reversal, a change of heart, which in turn was caused by someone reaching out, not responding in kind.

Both love, when it is practiced, and hatred, when it is destroyed, give off a great light.

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Philip S. Windsor, "This Little Light of Mine," January 21, 1996. Story taken from: Time, 2/17/92, as quoted in Word & Witness 1/21/96.

My Good Enemy

Luke 6

We can learn from people who oppose us. Enemies can be good for us.

1. Enemies can be right.

2. Enemies can clarify our beliefs.

3. Enemies can strengthen our faith.

4. Who can take care of enemies?

Jesus will do a better job with them than we can.

from Leadership · Robert Blair via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database oppositionrevenge

Vengeance and Love Square Off In Nigeria's Religious Conflict

Luke 9:54

Christians fled when they heard the chanting: "There is no God but Allah, and Muhammad is his Prophet!"

A mob of 200 young people marched toward Oore-ofe Baptist Church in Kaduna, Nigeria, where a Sunday morning worship service was in progress despite threats from Muslim leaders to burn Christian churches that day.

Clutching torches and cans of gasoline, the Muslim marchers stood at the gate of the church compound, crying: "Kill them! Burn down their church! Confiscate their property!"

Pastor Fola Lateju, now alone in the building, decided to face them. Walking to the gate, he told the crowd, "What you are about to do is against the will of God. You will incur his wrath. Go back and tell those who sent you that this is against God's will."

Taken aback, mob leaders paused to talk among themselves. Suddenly they seized the young pastor, drenched him in gasoline and torched his clothing.

Nothing happened.

Turning to a clump of grass, they poured out some of the gasoline and touched the torch to it. The grass exploded in flames.

Wheeling back on Lateju, they drenched him again, but for the second time the torch would not set him ablaze. A third try also failed.

Confusion spread among the Muslims, and Lateju retreated into the churchyard. The crowd followed, pelting him with stones. One attacker struck him with a weapon, and he fell, bleeding profusely from the forehead. The Muslims left without burning the church. Several deacons emerged from hiding and took their injured pastor to a nearby clinic.

God has intervened on several occasions to protect his people in the face of Muslim persecution, says Lateju, who now teaches world religions at the Nigerian Baptist seminary in Ogbomosho.

Northern Nigeria has endured 20 years of religious conflict. Clashes between rival Muslim groups, or attacks on Christians, often have degenerated into rioting and bloodshed, ending only with police or military intervention.

An upsurge in activity by militant Islamic groups -- some reportedly directed by agitators sent from radical Muslim nations -- has raised tensions in Nigeria's once-peaceful religious environment.

Groups like Izalah -- dedicated to "purifying" Islam of innovations -- clash with others like Jamatul Nasir Islam, a more politically minded council of Muslim emirs, imams and scholars. The mix becomes more volatile with the addition of factions like the Maitasine, a bizarre sect obsessed with blood. Their rites reportedly include drinking their enemies' blood -- especially of rival Muslim groups. The Nigerian government has used military action in its efforts to disband the sect.

Besides tensions between Muslims, a surge of growth among Nigerian Christian groups set the stage for more conflict.

Muslims reportedly have tried several strategies to slow Christian growth: blocking land allocations for church buildings; excluding Christians from political office, jobs and schools; shutting off the supply of gasoline or currency to stymie the economy in strong Christian areas; even encouraging Muslim men to impregnate Christian women. Failure of those tactics has led to threats, intimidation and often violence against Christians.

Persecution peaked in the late 1980s but has continued sporadically. Last September, a Baptist church building was burned and a pastor and deacon from an evangelical church killed in Potiskum, in northeastern Nigeria's Borno State. About 6,000 people -- mostly Christians -- have died in rioting since the 1980s. One result: the growing popularity of a militant Christian faction, the Christian Association of Nigeria, that pledges to retaliate for every instance of anti-Christian violence.

Lateju abhors such vengeance -- or violence from any side -- even though he himself has suffered at the hands of Muslim militants. Instead, he participates in PROCMURA (Project for Christian and Muslim Relations in Africa), an organization dedicated to winning Muslim to Christ.

Organized in 1959, PROCMURA conducts seminars to teach Christians the basic tenets of Islam. Understanding Muslim beliefs opens the door to friendships -- and opportunities to share God's love -- Lateju says.

Muslims revere Jesus as a prophet, virgin-born and sinless in life. This provides an important point of contact for Christian witness. When Christians show they understand the basic beliefs and customs of Islam, the door to friendship often opens.

"We emphasize witness through living the Christian faith before our Muslim friends: prayer, Scripture reading, attending Christian meetings, being kind to others," Lateju explains. "Muslims respond to such witness. Many converts have been won this way among both nominal Muslims and Muslim leaders."

Vengeance and retaliation will not defuse Nigeria's religious powder keg, Lateju says. Understanding, friendship and living a life of love will.

Some observers expect Muslim-Christian tensions to worsen over the next decade, culminating in the division of Nigeria into a Muslim north and Christian south. Others dismiss the idea as a myth.

While a northern Muslim oligarchy has controlled the country since independence in 1960, elections in 1993 demonstrated the power brokers hold little sway over the populace. Not only did a moderate Muslim from the south get the overwhelming majority of votes in presidential balloting, but non-Muslims prevailed in most local elections in many northern states.

When the military government annulled election results and arrested the self-declared presidential winner, riots and strikes swept Nigeria. A strike in the oil industry, which generates 90 percent of Nigeria's foreign earnings, paralyzed the country and sent an already-declining economy into a tailspin.

If rapid growth of Christian churches continues unabated in the north, the Muslim power base will continue to erode, observers say. Muslim political or religious leaders may feel driven to more desperate -- and violent -- measures to maintain control.

Should that happen, will Christians fight fire with fire, or respond with love and mercy -- like Fola Lateju?

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This story first appeared in the July-August 1995 issue of The Commission magazine, published by the Southern Baptist Foreign Mission Board. (BP)

Copyright (c) 1995 Baptist Press RNbp5928mrjB5928g6929

Fruit From Great Persecution

Luke 23:34

Pastor J. H. Crowell, when about sixteen, shipped on a sailing vessel, where he was the only Christian, in a crew of twelve. Before leaving his mother he promised to meet her three times a day at the throne of grace. So regularly he went below and prayed aloud. He thought he must. They threw wood at him and poured buckets of water over him, but could not put out the fire in his soul. Then they tied him to the mast and laid thirty-nine stripes on his back. Still he prayed. They tied a rope around his body and threw him overboard. He swam as best he could, and when he took hold of the side of the ship they pushed him off with a pole.

At last his strength gave way, and, supposing they meant to kill him, he prayed that God would forgive them, and called out: "Send my body to my mother and tell her that I died for Jesus." He was then pulled on deck unconscious, but after some time came to. Conviction began to seize the sailors. Before night two of them were gloriously converted. Inside of a week every one on board, including the captain, was blessedly saved.

--Sunday School Times

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It Really Didn't Matter

John 13

The young people at Shively Christian Church, led at the time by Youth Pastor Dave Stone, were fiercely competitive with their neighbor, Shively Baptist, in all things, especially softball. They were also serious about their Christianity, faithfully attending the summer Bible camp led by the youth pastor.

One week, the Bible lesson was about Jesus washing his disciples’ feet from John 13. To make the servanthood lesson stick, Pastor Stone divided the kids into groups and told them to go out and find a practical way to be servants. “I want you to be Jesus in the city for the next two hours,” he said. “If Jesus were here what would he do? Figure out how he would help people.”

Two hours later the kids reconvened in Pastor Stone’s living room to report what they had done.

One group had done two hours of yard work for an elderly man. Another group bought ice cream treats and delivered them to several widows in the church. A third group visited a church member in the hospital and gave him a card. Another group went to a nursing home and sang Christmas carols - yes, carols in the middle of August. One elderly resident remarked that it was the warmest Christmas she could remember.

But when the fifth group stood up and reported what they had done, everyone groaned. This group had made its way to none other than their archrival, Shively Baptist, where they had asked the pastor if he knew someone who needed help. The pastor sent them to the home of an elderly woman who needed yard work done. There, for two hours, they mowed grass, raked the yard and trimmed hedges. When they were getting ready to leave, the woman called the group together and thanked them for their hard work. “I don’t know how I could get along without you,” she told them. “You kids at Shively Baptist are always coming to my rescue.”

“Shively Baptist!” interrupted Pastor Stone. “I sure hope you set her straight and told her you were from Shively Christian Church.”

“Why, no, we didn’t,” the kids said. “We didn’t think it mattered.”

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I Hope To Have Some Enemies To Love Next Year

Luke 6:27

Dear Preacher,

I heard you say to love our enemies. I am only six and do not have any yet. I hope to have some when I am seven.

Your friend,

Love, Amy

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He Saved His Enemies

Luke 6:27

Some survivors from the march on Bataan were herded into a troop transport bound for Japan, then jammed into small, filthy holds, unable even to lie down.

A Japanese naval lieutenant, moved with sympathy, secretly kicked ajar the closed hatch cover to admit fresh air. He told the imprisoned men that he was a Christian, converted through some American missionaries.

Later an American torpedo ripped into the transport. The enemy crew battened down the hatch cover and swarmed into lifeboats. The Americans thought they were goners. Suddenly the hatch opened to reveal the face of the young Japanese lieutenant. The next moment a spray of bullets sent the Japanese crumbling to the deck. There he died, while some Americans escaped.

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Lincoln and Stanton (2 versions)

Luke 6:27

When Abraham Lincoln was campaigning for the presidency, one of his archenemies was Edwin McMasters Stanton. Stanton hated Lincoln, and used every ounce of his energy to degrade Lincoln in the eyes of the public, often using the bitterest diatribes in an attempt to embarrass him.

In the process of choosing his cabinet after his election, Lincoln selected various members and then faced a decision about the important post of Secretary of War. He chose Stanton! The president's inner circle erupted in an uproar when they heard his choice. Numerous advisors came to Lincoln saying, “Mr. President, you are making a mistake. Are you familiar with all the ugly things he has said about you? He is your enemy. He will sabotage your programs.”

Lincoln replied, “Yes, I know Mr. Stanton. But ... I find he is the best man for the job.”

As Secretary of War Stanton gave invaluable service to his nation and his president. After Lincoln was assassinated, many laudable statements were made about Abraham Lincoln, but the words of Stanton remain among the greatest. Standing near Lincoln's coffin, Stanton called Lincoln one of the greatest men who ever lived and said, “He now belongs to the ages.”

Jesus tells us to “love our enemies” (Mt. 5:44).

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God's Little Devotional Book

Honor Books, p. 47.

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Another version by Roddy Chestnut:

The contest between Stanton and Lincoln for the office of president began with Stanton treating Lincoln with contempt. He called Lincoln “a low cunning clown” and nicknamed him “the original gorilla.” A person was a fool, Stanton claimed, to wander about in Africa trying to capture a gorilla when he could find one so easily in Springfield, Illinois.

However, Lincoln did not respond in kind. And, when Lincoln was elected president, he appointed Stanton as his war minister because he was the best man for the job. He treated Stanton with every courtesy. On the night when the assassin's bullet murdered Lincoln in the theatre, in a little room where the President's body lie, there stood Stanton, looking down on the silent face of Lincoln in all its ruggedness. Stanton spoke through his tears, “There lies the greatest ruler of men the world has ever seen.”

The patience of love had conquered in the end. Beloved, “Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good” (Romans 12:21).

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Gary's List (7/1/99)

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Love Is Not A Cold Duty

Mark 1:41

We are sometimes told that Christian love is not a matter of LIKING people; after all, we are called upon to love "neighbors" with whom we have no natural ties of affection, and even enemies. And so we get a picture of Christian love as a kind of gritting your teeth and doing our cold duty toward people who mean nothing, or less than nothing, to us. You are supposed to love without having your heart in it, and if you care too much about people, there is even the suspicion that your love is not genuinely Christian.

But this picture is false to the New Testament. Jesus is said to have had compassion on a mixed crowd (Mark 6:34) and on a presumably unknown leper who came to him (Mark 1:41). His demeanor toward people is in general not that of a man doing his cold duty, but one of AFFECTION. And the apostle tells us to be "tender-hearted" to one another (Eph. 4:32).

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Loving Our (muslim) Neighbors: Islam Series 5 -- the Christian Response

Luke 6:27

The conversation in the online chat room was both vicious and violent. "For every American killed in the terrorist attacks," one man raged, "we ought to kill a hundred Muslims."

Emotions have been running high since September 11 -- but even so, there's no excuse for such vitriol. Yes, we want those responsible to be pursued and punished -- but we should not confuse the innocent with the guilty. And among the innocent are over 6 million Muslims who live in American neighborhoods -- and now live there in fear.

As Christians, we know that God often brings good out of evil. And one great good he may bring out of this unwanted war is a greater openness by Muslims to Christianity -- but only if we attack hatred with love.

One man who believes this is Ashton "Tat" Stewart, director of the Colorado-based Persian Ministries for World Witness. Stewart has spent a lifetime ministering to Muslims. As we battle bin Laden, Stewart says, the entire Muslim world is watching to see how we treat the Muslims among us. Instead of joining the Internet animosity and radio ranting, he says, Christians ought to seize the moment: We have a tremendous opportunity to model Christian love to Muslim neighbors.

How do we go about this?

First, Stewart says, we need to reach out in friendship. In the current climate, this might mean crossing the street to ask how a Muslim family is doing or visiting a mosque to express friendship. We might invite Muslim friends into our home for a meal. "What many Christians don't realize," Stewart says, "Is that just being a normal Christian is a radical witness to many Muslims." Their law is oppressive; they aren't used to love.

After building a bridge of friendship, the next step is to expose Muslims to what Stewart calls "kingdom realities." This might include praying in their presence, inviting them to a Bible study, or giving them a New Testament in their own language.

We should also be prepared to explain basic Christian beliefs, and familiarize ourselves with Islamic teachings. Moderate peace-loving Muslims are horrified by bin Laden's horrific attacks. They can easily be turned against him and perhaps they will then question how Islamic teaching could condone such violence. They need to see in us the love of Christ.

According to Stewart, many Muslims lack inner peace, and do not experience genuine, unconditional love; they don't understand true spiritual freedom. This means we might present Christ as the peace-giver who truly loves them and brings them freedom.

Finally, before we invite a Muslim to follow Christ, we must understand the cost we are asking him to pay. Conversion may mean a complete loss of family, friends, career, and culture.

Stewart is right. As America embarks on what may be a lengthy war, we must seize the opportunity of the moment. The faith of many Muslims is crumbling as they see the horrors some radical elements in Islam are capable of. If Christians offer unconditional love to their supposed enemies, Stewart predicts, "In the next few years we may see mass turnings to Christ."

But it won't happen if we respond to hatred with even more hatred. Instead, we overcome evil with good -- as Paul commanded. We must out-shout angry American threats with quiet Christian compassion. And we must meet terrorist lies with the transforming love of Christ.

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Copyright (c) 2001 Prison Fellowship Ministries. Reprinted with permission. "BreakPoint with Chuck Colson" is a radio ministry of Prison Fellowship Ministries.

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Getting Along - When It Is Hard

Romans 12:14

Sermon in Romans series, #17 Romans 12:14,17-21

GETTING ALONG - WHEN IT IS HARD

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I. It's a hard, cruel world out there.

A. Conflict abounds.

B. Christians live in this same world.

II. How people wrong us.

A. Persecution is always a possibility. 12:14

B. Evil happens.

C. Revenge is a growth industry.

III. Christians are different.

A. Don't curse, but bless. 12:14

B. Do what is right. 12:17

C. Live at peace. 12:18

D. Feed your enemy. 12:20

IV. Burning coals.

A. A reference to eternal punishment?

B. More likely a reference to enemy's sense of shame.

V. Overcome evil with good.

from Condensed sermon outline (handout) by Rev. David Holwick · Rev. David Holwick, Serm05zg.pco via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database love your enemy

Policeman's Forgiveness Yields Chapel To Change Inmates' Lives

Luke 6:37

The day started like any other that Oct. 23 in 1990. Gary Hobbs was working his usual Tuesday night 3-11 shift for the police department in Mansfield, Louisiana. At 9:20 p.m., Hobbs was accompanying a parole officer to issue a probation warrant for the arrest of Todd Bass.

Bass, however, resisted the arrest and fatally wounded the parole officer. Bass then fired six shots at Hobbs, who retaliated with nine rounds. Hobbs suffered only a minor wound to his wrist and missed a week of work.

The felon was sentenced to life in prison for first-degree murder.

Fourteen years later, Hobbs said he had come to a point of personal misery and emptiness in his life. He then visited Southside Baptist Church in Mansfield on June 16, 2004. It was the first time Hobbs had darkened the doors of a church building.

Four days later, during the Sunday morning service, Hobbs accepted Christ as his personal Lord and Savior.

“Everything changed from that point,” Hobbs said. “It’s amazing how you can walk into a building all depressed with no peace and come out a totally different person.”

Five months later, on Nov. 7, 2004, Hobbs heard then-Southside Baptist pastor Troy Terrell preach about forgiveness.

“The Lord spoke to me,” Hobbs said, “and after the service was over, I told the pastor that God was revealing lots of hatred that was built inside me.”

Two weeks later, Hobbs and Terrell visited the Louisiana State Penitentiary at Angola so that the police officer could sit face to face with Bass. “I told him of the change in my life and that I didn’t have a problem with him anymore,” Hobbs recounted. “He stared at the ground for a few moments and looked up at me with tears running down his eyes."

“I then heard the most sincere apology I had ever heard,” Hobbs said. “From then on, there were no hard feelings between us.”

After their meeting, Hobbs and Terrell toured Angola, which they knew had a reputation as a violent prison.

“Wherever I went on the tour, I experienced nothing but a friendly reception from the prisoners,” Hobbs said. “I didn’t feel threatened or hear any foul language. Moral rehabilitation has changed their lives.”

Once known as the bloodiest prison in the United States, the Angola prison has experienced a revival of sorts since warden Burl Cain instituted moral rehabilitation.

Moral rehabilitation is an approach that utilizes religious organizations to help inmates change.

New Orleans Baptist Theological Seminary has been a vital part of Cain’s moral rehabilitation philosophy. Since 1995, the Southern Baptist seminary has offered extension classes at the prison.

Cain attributes the seminary program as a primary reason for the drop in violence at Angola. The number of men involved in an assault within Angola’s walls has dropped from 10.4 percent of the inmates in 2001 to 7.4 percent in 2004, according to prison officials.

After the tour concluded, Hobbs and Terrell met with Cain. The warden asked why the men had traveled to Angola.

“During our talk, Warden Cain mentioned that while Angola had all the funds they needed for their religious programs, the Louisiana Correctional Institute for Women in St. Gabriel needed money to construct a chapel inside their prison. My pastor said we could raise $150,000.”

Within 45 days, Southside Baptist Church members and others from the community raised more than was needed.

Hobbs said $150,000 was presented in March 2005 to the Louisiana Prison Chapel Foundation for the construction of a 700-seat chapel inside the LCIW prison walls. Construction of the facility should be complete in six to eight months.

Twenty-one members from Southside Baptist Church traveled to the south Louisiana women’s prison for the chapel’s groundbreaking ceremony in January. The Shreveport Times reported that the members received a standing ovation for their fundraising efforts.

“While the labor to build the chapels is free due to prisoners building the facilities, the cost of materials can’t be done without help,” Hobbs said. “Throughout the years, we have seen rehabilitation programs that utilize the Bible can change prisoners.

“If you change the prisoners and they are released, then they may have a positive effect on the rest of their families,” the police officer continued. “In turn, those family members will not resort to a life a crime.”

Terrell, now in fulltime evangelism, echoed the thought.

“The only way to change a person is when Jesus enters his or her heart,” Terrell said. “By building the chapels in the women’s prisons, we are breaking lots of generational curses. Statistics show that children of prisoners have a higher chance of going to prison.

“If the bloodiest prison in America can become the most-evangelized prison, anything is possible,” Terrell said.

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Persecuted Pastor Forgives Hindu Man Who Attacked Sri Lankan Church

Luke 6:27

The four previous encounters between the Hindu man and the young Sri Lankan pastor had been violent. Each time, Balram [a pseudonym] led a mob attacking Vijyaraj, the young pastor. Each time Vijyaraj was tied up and severely beaten and his church set ablaze.

And each time, the congregation of Heavenly Mission Harvest Church rebuilt and Vijyaraj kept preaching about Jesus.

But when the two men met for a fifth time, in the horrific aftermath of Sri Lanka's tsunami, Vijyaraj lived out a sermon on forgiveness.

In four years since becoming the first Christian convert in his rural fishing village of 300 people, and despite the fierce persecution of the militant Hindus, Vijyaraj has led his church to grow to include 27 families. They all were worshiping on the morning of Dec. 26 when the tsunami swept onto the coast of Sri Lanka. While many church members lost homes and fishing boats, not a single Christian from the village drowned, though as many as 10 of their neighbors died.

When a disaster-relief team from Baptist Child and Family Services of San Antonio, Texas, arrived less than two weeks later, two volunteers -- medical doctor Andrew Bentley and psychologist Richard Brake -- went to the village to set up a clinic.

“We were told not to mention Gospel for Asia [the group Vijyaraj's church is part of] because of the hostility,” Bentley said. “And I imagine that's why the clinic was at the pastor's house instead of at the church. The idea was to help the entire community.”

“I noticed an old man with a glazed look,” explained Bentley, from Tyler, Texas. “...The translator told me the man had lost his entire family -- and that, by the way, he's the one who has been persecuting the pastor.”

When it was obvious the wait would be long, Vijyaraj invited the Hindu man into his house and fed him. “It was amazing that Vijyaraj was not making any difference” between Balram and the others seeking help, Bentley said.

“The man ... was already dazed, primarily from grief over losing his family,” Brake said. “But I think he was further stunned by the way he was welcomed and loved.”

Bentley agreed. “I don't think he even realized he was going to Vijyaraj's house. The word was just out that there was a medical clinic in the neighborhood. Then when he got there and was met with love instead of fear or animosity, he wasn't sure just what to do.”

Brake, the psychologist, counseled the man extensively while he waited to see Bentley. Then Bentley treated him “for some cuts and bruises that were already healing” and confirmed that the soreness in his chest was not life-threatening and likely “from being beaten up by the waves.”

The two Texans know they performed only “minor ministry” that afternoon when compared to Vijyaraj.

“I flew halfway around the world to share my faith and help needy people. And then, as I watched Vijyaraj do exactly what Jesus said and love his enemy and forgive those who persecuted him, I thought, 'Wow, I just got nailed,'“ Brake added. “In America we have trouble forgiving the jerk who cuts us off in traffic. And here this Sri Lankan pastor basically says, 'Jesus said to love, so I guess I have to do it.'

“When I told him how impressed I was, he just kind of looked down at the ground and didn't make a big deal out of it. And that's what Jesus told us to do too.”

“We never knew for sure that the man accepted Jesus because of that afternoon,” Bentley said. But he added he is confident Balram either became a Christian then or will in the near future.

“I just feel in the deepest part of my heart that the truth of the gospel reached him because of Vijyaraj's willingness to be faithful to his God and to God's Word.”

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Robert Marus contributed to this article

Saved By An Enemy

Proverbs 25:21

The weary medic turned away from his buddy who lay helpless on the army cot in the hospital tent in the jungle. It was no use. Only a transfusion could save his life, and no one could be found with the same rare type of blood. He walked away from the clearing to be alone, but soon he heard groans in the bush. Investigating, he discovered a soldier who was badly wounded. The man retained a few tattered rags of clothing that proclaimed him to be one of the enemy. The medic had been trained to save life. He called for help and had the man taken to camp.

Hours later, resigned to the loss of his pal, the medic reported to the surgeon.

“I suppose my buddy is gone,” he began sadly.

“Why, no. He's doing fine,” returned the surgeon. “And so is the other fellow you brought in.”

“But you said my buddy could live only an hour or so.”

“I know, son,” smiled the surgeon. “But that 'enemy' you brought in had the same type of blood - so they'll both live.”

“If thine enemy be hungry, give him bread to eat; and if he be thirsty, give him water to drink: for thou shalt heap coals of fire upon his head, and the Lord shall reward thee.” (Proverbs 25:21-22)

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Source: Our Times, Copyright (c) 1948, Pacific Press, http://www.signstimes.com

Embracing Enemies: End of the Spear

Fifty years ago, Nate Saint, Jim Elliot, and the three other American missionaries dared to make contact with the most violent society ever documented by anthropologists. This week END OF THE SPEAR, the story of their martyrdoms, hits the theaters, and the film makers hope contact will be made with another violent and spiritually blind society -- our own. It is a story that should be told in this age of ethnic cleansings, gulags, holocausts, genocide, and riots.

When the film's director, Jim Hanon, traveled to Ecuador to get permission from the Waodani (formerly Auca) Indians to make the movie, the tribe initially refused. But when Steve Saint, Ned Saint's son, told them stories about situations like the Columbine shootings, the Waodani were electrified. “If this story will help your culture not live so violently,” they said, “then we [want you to] tell our story.”

For those unfamiliar with the five men who risked and gave their lives to make contact with this remote and violent tribe in Ecuador, END OF THE SPEAR brings their story to life. But while the story of their deaths is important, what emerges more powerfully from this film is the life of those who carried on. Rachel Saint, Nate's sister; Steve Saint, his son; and the widows all risked their lives to travel into the Amazon basin and finish their loved ones' work.

In the movie, Steve Saint meets his father's killer, a Waodani named Mincayani and fights an internal battle. Revenge is at the heart of the generations of conflict in places like the primitive jungles of Ecuador -- or the Middle East, or Croatia, or Africa, for that matter. Will he spear the one who speared his father? Or will he be able to conquer the impulse for revenge? Miroslav Volf, a Croatian theologian who was teaching seminary students while Serbians were establishing rape camps in and around his hometown, wrestled with this question in his 1996 book EXCLUSION AND EMBRACE.

Volf comes to the same powerful conclusion that is portrayed in the film END OF THE SPEAR. The only way to break the cycle of revenge is through the triumph of the cross of Christ. Volf writes this: “Forgiveness flounders because I exclude the enemy from the community of humans even as I exclude myself from the community of sinners. But no one,” he writes, “can be in the presence of the God of the crucified Messiah for long without ... transposing the enemy from the sphere of monstrous inhumanity into the sphere of shared humanity and herself from the sphere of proud innocence into the sphere of common sinfulness.”

As Steve Saint and his father's killer embrace at the film's close, Steve recalls, “For years, many people would tell me that they could identify with our loss, but they never could imagine how we'd experienced gain.” This is the gain of the cross, and here, of course, is the real message of the movie: The Bible provides the only worldview that provides for reconciliation. No other religion does -- not the Hindus, who know no salvation, not Muslims, no philosophy.

I hope you will get out and see this film and bring your neighbors with you. Let them see in a vivid drama the one belief system, the one hope for mankind, is found at the cross.

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Copyright (c) 2006 Prison Fellowship Ministries. Reprinted with permission. "BreakPoint with Chuck Colson" is a radio ministry of Prison Fellowship Ministries.

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The Law of the Garbage Truck

How often do you let other people’s nonsense change your mood? Do you let a bad driver, rude waiter, curt boss, or an insensitive employee ruin your day? Unless you’re the Terminator, for an instant you’re probably set back on your heels. However, the mark of a successful person is how quickly you can get back your focus on what’s important.

I learned it in the back of a Harare City [Zimbabwe, Africa] taxi cab. Here’s what happened. I hopped in a taxi and we took off for Westgate. We were driving when all of a sudden a black car jumped out of a parking space right in front of us. My taxi driver slammed on his breaks, skidded, and missed the other car’s back end by just inches!

Here’s what happened next. The driver of the other car, the guy who almost caused a big accident, whipped his head around and he started yelling bad words at us. How do I know? Ask any Zimbabwean, some words in Harare come with a special face.

Now, here’s what blew me away. My taxi driver just smiled and waved at the guy. And I mean, he was friendly. So, I said, “Why did you just do that? This guy almost ruined your car and sent us to the hospital!”

And this is when my taxi driver told me about what I now call, “The Law of the Garbage Truck.” Many people are like garbage trucks. They run around full of garbage, full of frustration, full of anger, and full of disappointment. As their garbage piles up, they need a place to dump it. And if you let them, they’ll dump it on you. When someone wants to dump on you, don’t take it personally. You just smile, wave, wish them well, and move on. You’ll be happy you did. I guarantee it.

So this was it: The “Law of the Garbage Truck.” I started thinking, how often do I let “Garbage Trucks” run right over me? And how often do I take their garbage and spread it to other people: at work, at home, on the streets?

It was that very day I said, “I’m not going to do it anymore.” Well, now I have begun to see “Garbage Trucks.” I see the load they’re carrying. I see them coming to drop it off. And like my Taxi Driver, I don’t make it a personal thing; I just smile, wave, wish them well, and I move on.

Good leaders know they have to be ready for their next meeting. Good parents know that they have to welcome their children home from school with hugs and kisses. Leaders and parents know that they have to be fully present and at their best for the people they care about.

The bottom line is that successful people do not let “Garbage Trucks” take over their day. What about you? What would happen in your life, starting today, if you let more “Garbage Trucks” pass you by? I believe that you’ll be happier. I guarantee it.

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Converting A Hard Guard

Luke 6:27

In the mid-1930s, a German Protestant pastor was abducted from his church. Suspected of aiding and abetting Jews, he was thrown into prison without a hearing, a trial, or even a phone call to his family.

The prison guard outside his cell hated everyone associated with Jews and purposefully skipped the pastor’s cell when meals were handed out, made him go weeks without a shower, and gave him the most difficult job on the labor gang.

The pastor, on the other hand, prayed that he would be able to love this guard with God’s love. As the months went by, the pastor smiled at the guard, thanked him for the few meals he did receive, and even got to talk about Agape love.

The guard never said anything; but he heard it all, and one night he cracked a smile. The next day the pastor received two meals and was able to shower for as long as he wanted. Finally, one afternoon the guard personally made the long-awaited call to the pastor’s family, and a few months later, he was released.

It is against our human nature to love someone like that prison guard; but through His power, God can give us the ability to love the unlovables.

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Source: Turning Point Daily Devotional; http://www.turningpointonline.org

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The Amish: A Lesson In Faith? [2 versions]

Luke 6:27

If there is anything harder to comprehend than 2006’s massacre of Amish schoolgirls in Pennsylvania, said the LOS ANGELES TIMES in an editorial, “it is the Amish community’s reaction to the tragedy. “No one would blame the Amish for feeling revulsion and rage toward Charles Roberts IV, the madman who took over the one-room Nickel Mines school and shot 10 little girls in the head, killing five. Instead, said Steven Gimbel in THE PHILADELPHIA INQUIRER, the tight-knit Amish community publicly forgave Roberts and “opened their hearts” to his family, setting up a fund for his children and inviting his widow to a funeral service for four of the victims. Amid the all-too-familiar horror of a school shooting, we saw “a glimmer of the best part of humanity.”

Why is their forgiveness so mysterious? asked religious history professor David Weaver-Zercher in the PITTSBURGH POST-GAZETTE. The Amish, after all, are a Christian sect, and Jesus Christ was unambiguous about the importance of forgiving those who trespass against you. “Bless them that curse you,” Christ said, “and pray for them which despitefully use you.” In fact, if anything needs explaining, said Bruce Kluger in USA TODAY, it’s why other communities of faith find it so hard to practice the compassion their religions preach. Islamic fundamentalists have twisted the Koran into a “global death warrant.” Lebanese Shiites and Israeli Jews spent the summer of 2006 ignoring their respective holy book’s commandments that they treat all human beings with “decency and forgiveness and love.” In the U.S., a “small but rabid band of evangelicals” is trying to turn its judgmental and divisive reading of scripture into the law of the land. As the Amish laid their little girls to rest last week with dignity and grace, these gentle people have shown the world what genuine faith really means.

Forgive me for saying so, said Cristina Odone in the London OBSERVER, but I find the Amish readiness to forgive Charles Roberts “disturbing.” What’s being praised as Christian love is actually more like bleak fatalism. The Amish solution to the problems of the world is first denial -- in the self-imposed exile of their closed communities -- and, when that proves impossible, passive resignation. It’s one thing to forgive those who have wounded you, said Jeff Jacoby in THE BOSTON GLOBE, and quite another to forgive a man who slaughtered innocent children. What Charles Roberts did was simply evil, and shrugging off such atrocities as the will of God does not make the world a better place. “Hatred is not always wrong, and forgiveness is not always deserved.”

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THE CONTEXT OF FORGIVENESS: GRACE IN AMISH COUNTRY

Breakpoint commentary by Charles Colson, October 3, 2007

With the massacre at Virginia Tech and the chilling execution-style murder of four Delaware State students, it is not surprising that many Americans have almost forgotten an equally horrifying event that took place one year ago yesterday.

A demented gunman, Charles Roberts, took a school-room full of Amish girls hostage in Nickel Mines, Pennsylvania. Before he killed himself, Roberts had murdered five girls in cold blood.

But as shocking as this senseless act of violence was, it was what followed that sent the real shock waves through the nation.

Within hours of the shooting, several members of the Amish community visited Mrs. Roberts and her family, to express their sorrow over her loss and to say they did not hold anything against them. Another Amish man visited the killer’s father. A Roberts family spokesperson said, “He stood there for an hour, and he held [Mr. Roberts] in his arms and said, ‘We forgive you.’”

Four days later at the killer’s burial, some 70 people in attendance were Amish. And when funds began pouring in for victims after the shooting, the Nickel Mines community established a fund for the shooter’s wife and children.

Reactions to the news of this forgiveness ran the gamut from awestruck to disgust. Detractors like Jeff Jacoby opined in the BOSTON GLOBE, “I cannot see how the world is made a better place by assuring someone who would do terrible things that he will be readily forgiven afterward.”

But what Jacoby and others missed was the broader context of the forgiveness. It was not a cheap forgiveness that denied the pain and wrong of what had happened. From amazing grief through amazing faith came amazing grace.

In a new book titled AMISH GRACE, three experts on the Amish explain, “Our actions are rarely random. We all embrace patterns of behavior and habits of mind that shape what we do in a given situation.” As the authors note, there are “habits of forgiveness” in the Amish culture, Christian habits that come into clear focus. For instance, the Amish celebrate communion only twice a year, but they go through a month-long season of preparation. During that season of preparation, the Amish take seriously the admonition that if anyone holds a grudge against his brother, he is not to partake in the communion until he has put things right. A council meeting two weeks prior to communion is a time of admonishment, then there is a season of fasting, and sometimes the communion service is even delayed for weeks if there is more widespread disharmony among the community.

There is much more we could say about the wave of forgiveness that startled the world last October. Get the book AMISH GRACE, and read about it. You can even order it from our website, BreakPoint.org.

But the question is, how are we working in our own communities to build cultures of grace? Do we teach our children to forgive? Are we actively working to restore offenders and to reach out in aid to victims? And are we overcoming the evil in the world by good, as we are commanded to?

The Amish have given us a great lesson in the way to defeat hatred and alienation. It is the Christian worldview — the only one that makes such a magnificent response to such a horrible tragedy possible.

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I'll See You Right After the Resurrection!

Mark 11:15

Several years ago at a passion play, an incident took place during the scene where Jesus was carrying the cross. A man in the audience was heckling the character playing Jesus, throwing out jeers, taunts and dares.

Finally the character could no longer tolerate the heckler; he dropped the cross and went over and punched out the man. The director was aghast, and after the play pulled the actor aside and told him in no uncertain terms he was ever to do that again.

But the next night the same heckler was back and again did the same thing; this time, Jesus had to be restrained. The director called the actor in and gave him an ultimatum of either quitting or keeping his composure. The young actor assured the director he would keep himself under control.

The third night, the heckler was present again and taunted even more strongly than the two previous nights. The man playing Jesus rose to his full stature, gritted his teeth and told the heckler, “I’ll see you right after the resurrection!”

It is interesting how some people interpret differently, “What would Jesus do?”

[Holwick: I am pretty sure this is fictional.]

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Source: SermonCentral Weekly Newsletter

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Lincoln Was As Hard As Rock and As Soft As Fog

An unusual tribute was paid to Abraham Lincoln by Carl Sandburg. The poet wrote, “Not often in the story of mankind does a man arrive on earth who is both steel and velvet, who is as hard as rock and soft as drifting fog, who holds in his heart and mind the paradox of terrible storm and peace unspeakable and perfect.”

Lincoln demonstrated then and now how a person can possess both a will of iron and a heart of tenderness. Nothing deterred the president during the American Civil War from his “noble” cause, and few persons have ever endured more criticism and detractors than Lincoln. Yet he was no more a man of steel than one of velvet.

When General Robert E. Lee surrendered his army, Lincoln sent an unexpected message to the enemy commander. “Tell your men they may keep their horses; they’ll need them for plowing,” said the president. Then this: “Tell your men they may keep their rifles; they’ll need them for hunting.” When Lee read those words he wept.

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Steve Goodier is the editor of The Life Support System

Act Like You Love Them

Mark 12:31

In his book MERE CHRISTIANITY, C.S. Lewis wrote:

“Do not waste your time bothering whether you ‘love’ your neighbor -- act as if you did. As soon as we do this, we find one of the great secrets. When you are behaving as if you loved someone, you will presently come to love him. If you injure someone you dislike, you will find yourself disliking him more. If you do him a good turn, you will find yourself disliking him less.”

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A fuller quote from Lewis, by Roddy Chestnut:

The emphasis is not on feeling an emotion of love but on acting in love. C.S. Lewis has a helpful comment on what Christian love involves:

It would be quite wrong to think that the way to become “loving”

is to sit trying to manufacture affectionate feelings. Some

people are “cold” by temperament; that may be a misfortune for

them, but it is no more a sin than having a bad digestion is sin;

and it does not cut them off from the chance, or excuse them from

the duty, of learning “love.” The rule for us all is perfectly

simple. Do not waste time bothering whether you “love” your

neighbor; act as if you did. As soon as we do this, we learn one

of the great secrets. When you are behaving as if you loved

someone, you will presently come to love them. If you injure

someone you dislike, you will find yourself disliking him more.

If you do him a good turn, you will find yourself disliking him

less.

There is however one exception. If you do him a good turn, not

to please God and obey the law of love, but to show him what a

fine forgiving chap you are, and to put him in your debt, and

then sit down to wait for his “gratitude,” you will probably be

disappointed.... But whenever we do good to another self, just

because it is a self, made like us by God, and desiring its own

happiness as we desire ours, we shall have learned to love it a

little more or, at least, to dislike it less.

Loving Your Enemies: A Radical Solution To Chaos

Luke 6:27

Over the weekend, a truck bomb in a Shiite market in Baghdad killed at least 130 people. While it was horrible, it was only one of four such attacks against Iraqi Shiites in the past three weeks.

I support the president’s plan to send in more troops to stabilize Iraq, but it’s going to take more than troops to end the cycle of outrage and retaliation. It’s going to require a radical shift in the worldview of many Muslims.

Thomas Friedman of the NEW YORK TIMES agrees. In a recent column, he expressed dismay at the “deafening silence with which ... mass murders” like the one in Baghdad “are received in the Muslim world.”

He writes that the “only hope left for Iraq,” if there is one, lies not so much in a counter-insurgency strategy, but in a “a Muslim counter-nihilism strategy” — a shift in worldview that “delegitimizes the mass murder of Muslims by Muslims.” In a culture where the outrages in Iraq “[evoke] about as much reaction ... as the weather report,” Friedman writes, “decent politics” [is] impossible.

Friedman wondered where the Islamic Martin Luther King was. Where was the man who could lead the “shift away from the focus on power and glory” and toward an emphasis on “responsibility as a community for [its] own situation”?

By way of showing the gravity of the situation, Friedman quoted the Syrian poet Ali Ahmad Said. According to Said, compared with the rest of the world, “we Arabs are in a phase of extinction,” which results, he says, from the lack of a “creative capacity” necessary to “change [one’s] world” — precisely what Christianity provides, and Islam does not.

While reading Friedman’s column, I couldn’t help but think of another part of the world where the demise of an oppressive regime was supposed to have led to bloodshed and chaos: South Africa. South African blacks endured dreadful humiliation and brutality at the hands of the white minority.

Yet, not only was the transition from minority to majority rule relatively peaceful, there was no mass settling of scores either. Instead, South Africa created a “Truth and Reconciliation Commission” where, in exchange for confessing their offenses, people would receive amnesty — not only amnesty but also, in many cases, actual forgiveness from their victims.

Not coincidentally, the commission was headed by Archbishop Desmond Tutu. Like the Civil Rights movement led by King, the commission spoke to both perpetrators and victims, the oppressors and the oppressed in a moral language shaped by their common Christian heritage. This is why appeals for reconciliation and forgiveness succeeded in South Africa.

Now, it’s true that Islam speaks of forgiveness, just as it’s true that many Christians have not lived up to Christian teaching on the subject. But forgiveness and reconciliation are absolutely essential and central to the Gospel in a way that they are not in Islam. There is no Koranic equivalent to “turn the other cheek” and “love your enemies.”

And without this Gospel understanding, any response besides “an eye for an eye” comes off as weakness. What is hampering the Islamic world and creating bloodshed is the lack of the Christian concept of forgiving and loving one’s enemies.

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Copyright (c) 2007 Prison Fellowship Ministries. Reprinted with permission. "BreakPoint with Chuck Colson" is a radio ministry of Prison Fellowship Ministries.

Thirty Pints of Blood: A Contrast In Worldviews

Luke 6:27

What difference does a worldview make? Around the world, we are seeing the clash of civilizations in action. In recent days, that clash has given us a story of life, and stories of death.

In Baghdad yesterday, a terrorist blew himself up with a car bomb, killing at least twenty-eight people and wounding dozens more. One witness told the Associated Press that pieces of human flesh were scattered all around the marketplace.

In Afghanistan last month, another terrorist blew himself up near a crowd gathered for a ceremony to open a hospital emergency ward. A few days later, a Sunni Muslim blew herself up and forty others at a college in Baghdad.

In all three cases, Muslims blew up Muslims. The response of Europe and the Muslim world to the stories of death? Outrage? No. Silence. Did the Western press condemn them? No.

Last week, another story was told on NBC News — this time, a riveting story of life.

NBC has been running a gripping series on the emergency military triage facilities in Iraq. Last Thursday, NBC showed wounded Iraqi insurgents being brought to Camp Speicher near Tikrit. Two of them had been caught placing an explosive device on a nearby road, intending to kill Americans, when a U.S. helicopter opened fire on them.

The U.S. medical team moved heaven and earth to save their lives. One insurgent, however, was not going to survive unless he got thirty pints of blood.

But the base was low on blood. The call went out for volunteer donors; minutes later, dozens of G.I.s had lined up.

At the head of the line was a battle-hardened soldier named Brian Suam. Asked if it mattered that his blood was going to an insurgent, he smiled and said, no — ”A human life is a human life.”

I have never seen a more dramatic example of worldviews in contrast, nor have I been prouder of an American G.I. On one hand, we have the horrors of a civilization that values death — even the death of its own children — if by killing them they can hurt the INFIDELS. On the other side, we have a story that makes us realize just how deeply embedded within American life is our Judeo-Christian heritage. This heritage teaches that human life is sacred — even the life of an enemy who falls into our hands.

These stories make nonsense of the claim that there is no real difference between Christianity and Islam. The clash of civilizations is not only about a fundamental difference between ways of viewing God, reality, life, and life’s meaning; it’s also about good versus evil, life versus death.

Of course, this doesn’t apply to peace-loving Muslims, but to the radicals now surging in the Arab world.

It’s time for the West to wake up. As Thomas Friedman of the NEW YORK TIMES put it last week, there is no accepted source of Arab-Muslim authority today for peace-loving Muslims “to anchor their souls in.” We need, Friedman writes, “a counter-terrorism strategy that delegitimizes suicide bombers.” But that will happen only when Muslim leaders condemn violence.

Friedman is right. We ignore the horrors of radical Islam to our peril. If we do nothing, in time, the stories of life will be overwhelmed by the stories of death.

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Copyright (c) 2007 Prison Fellowship Ministries. Reprinted with permission. "BreakPoint with Chuck Colson" is a radio ministry of Prison Fellowship Ministries.

Gandhi On Loving Your Enemies

Luke 6:27

"It is easy enough to be friendly to one's friends. But to befriend the one who regards himself as your enemy is the quintessence of true religion. The other is mere business."

-- Mahatma Gandhi, 1869-1948

The Mirror of Christ's Love

Luke 6:27

“Can a country known for radical brutality become a country known for an even more radical forgiveness?” That’s the question BreakPoint’s own Catherine Claire Larson asks in her new book, As We Forgive.

Larson, whose book was inspired by the award-winning documentary film of the same name, paints a gripping picture of the Tutsi survivors of genocide, who in 1994 endured 100 days of unimaginable violence at the hands of their Hutu neighbors. In just three months, nearly a million people were shot, macheted, raped, and tortured. The survivors lost everything — homes, families, hope.

But that was only their first trial. Seven years after the storm, the Rwandan government started releasing from prison more than 70,000 perpetrators of genocide.

Larson vividly describes the dreadful decision the survivors had to make. The people who had destroyed their lives were returning. Would they choose fear and hate? Or forgiveness and reconciliation?

As Larson writes so beautifully, many are choosing forgiveness. Take the story of Rosaria. Her sister and her two children were pummeled to death by a group of Hutu men from their village. Among them was a man named Saveri.

While in prison Saveri heard the Gospel. He repented of his cruelty, and through a reconciliation program begun by Prison Fellowship Rwanda, asked Rosaria for forgiveness. After a series of painful meetings, she forgave him — freeing him from despair, and herself from the coils of hatred.

Later, Saveri, along with other repentant killers, built homes for Rosaria and other survivors. “Hands that had once swung machetes in violence,” Larson writes, “now smooth clay bricks in peace.”

Or take the stories of Devota and Monique, both of whom lost all of their children in the genocide. With the help of Christian volunteers, they came to understand that Christ not only bears their sin, but their pain. And once they gave their pain to Christ, they actually sought out their perpetrators — and forgave them.

One of the most poignant stories Larson tells is of the children of the Nyange School. These children, Hutus and Tutsis, had become close friends in the wake of the genocide. When Hutu militia invaded their classroom, their love for Christ and each other was put to the ultimate test. The Hutu militiamen ordered all the Tutsis to one side, all the Hutus to the other. The students refused to move. Many of them were shot because of their love and faithfulness to one another.

If that love, that forgiveness, can be so strong in such darkness, then it is possible for all of us. Possible for the husband who continues to put his heart on the line when his wife has grown cold to him. Possible for the church deacon who won’t ignore the growing rift in the congregation, but who seeks to be a mediator. Possible for the daughter who refuses to let her mother’s stinging criticisms keep her from loving her.

Ultimately, what Larson shows us in As We Forgive is that of all human actions, forgiveness is perhaps the most powerful mirror of Christ’s love.

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Copyright (c) 2009 Prison Fellowship Ministries. Reprinted with permission. "BreakPoint with Chuck Colson" is a radio ministry of Prison Fellowship Ministries.

They Knew Exactly What They Were Doing

Luke 23:34

At a “Seven Last Words” service for Good Friday, Reverend Dr. Eugene L. Gibson’s sermon came from Luke 23:34, which records the first words of Christ during the crucifixion: “Then said Jesus, Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do.” It’s one of the best-known lines in the New Testament, an eloquent expression of grace in extreme circumstances. But Gibson added his own rejoinder: “Yes, they do!” And, in case anyone missed the heresy, he spelled it out: “I. Dis-a-GREE. With Jesus.”

The momentum was building. Gibson talked about tormentors who knew exactly what they were doing. Only near the end did he draw back, admitting that – as usual – Jesus was right and he was wrong. “It’s not what they were doing,” he said. “It’s who they were doing the what to.” They knew exactly what a crucifixion was; they just didn’t know who Jesus was. Even so, his caustic reproach hung in the air all afternoon: “Yes, they do!”

from The New Yorker Magazine; article: Project Trinity, The Perilous Mission Of Obama's Church · Kelefa Sanneh; edited by David Holwick via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database love your enemycrosscrucifixion

Loving Your Enemies In Rwanda

Luke 6:27

In a large open area of a Rwandan prison, Anglican Bishop John Rucyahana spoke to a crowd of killers responsible for the 1994 genocide. “Close your eyes,” he instructed them. “Go back in your mind to 1994. What did you see?” he asked. “What did you smell? What did you hear?”

Many in the crowd began to weep. He told the men to see their victims’ faces. The sobs grew louder. “Now,” said Bishop John, “that which made you cry, that you must confess.”

It’s amazing enough that Bishop John, himself a Tutsi, would speak to the Hutu perpetrators of the genocide. It’s even more amazing when you consider that John’s own niece, Madu, was brutally raped and killed during the genocide. But Bishop John had a reason to reach out to these men in compassion — for he, too, had found forgiveness of his sins through Jesus Christ.

Bishop John found Christ while growing up as an exile from his native Rwanda. He puts it better than I’ve ever heard before: “I did not accept Jesus. Jesus graciously met me and accepted me.” This is a man who understands how we come empty-handed to Christ.

At a time when John wanted to pursue a degree, God led him and his wife, Beatrice, to start a school for 170 refugee children in Uganda. Today, some of those grown children serve in key posts in Rwanda.

Studying in the States during the 1994 genocide, Bishop John wanted desperately to go back to the ministry he had left behind in Uganda. But instead, he responded to God’s call to face the darkness by going back to his homeland — returning to Rwanda, finding bones bleached white by the sun littering the streets, open graves fouling the air. Still, Bishop John worked with others to establish Prison Fellowship Rwanda.

He helped start the Umuvumu Tree Project, which has brought together tens of thousands of perpetrators and victims of the genocide, offering offenders the opportunity to confess their crimes and victims the chance to forgive. Many have done so.

Most of all, Bishop John is a shining example of what it means to love our enemies — and to overcome evil with good.

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Copyright (c) 2009 Prison Fellowship Ministries. (Adapted by Rev. David Holwick) Reprinted with permission. "BreakPoint with Chuck Colson" is a radio ministry of Prison Fellowship Ministries.

He Wants the President To Die and Go To Hell

Luke 9:55

Pastor Steven Anderson of the Faithful Word Baptist Church in Tempe, Arizona, recently made the news by preaching a vitriolic message aimed at President Obama. According to a Fox News story, the sermon was bluntly titled, “Why I Hate Barack Obama.” In it the pastor revealed his deepest desire for President Obama: “I’m gonna pray that he dies and goes to hell when I go to bed tonight. That’s what I’m gonna pray.”

Not content to leave it at that, he added the colorful detail that he hoped the president would “melt like a snail” with salt on it. Given a chance to speak with reporters and perhaps retract these hate-filled words, the pastor instead retrenched in his position, telling a local television station: “I hope that God strikes Barack Obama with brain cancer so he can die like Ted Kennedy and I hope it happens today.” All Christians should be revolted at this pastor’s message and quickly repudiate the spirit it betrays. By way of a personal response, I believe several comments are in order.

First, pastor Anderson’s church is an independent Baptist church, affiliated with no denomination. The church website reveals that it is steeped in many of the things that are sadly typical of too many churches in the independent Baptist church movement, including various expressions of legalism and some dubious ministerial emphases. Still, when average Americans read about this pastor’s hateful sermon, they will not likely make fine distinctions between his type of Baptist Christianity and that which typifies Southern Baptist congregations. A large core of shared beliefs exists between Southern and independent Baptists, but we need to clarify that we have no affiliation with or sympathy for such views as were expressed about the president.

Second, many biblically oriented Christians from a variety of denominational backgrounds would readily agree that certain positions advocated by President Obama are reprehensible. Pastor Anderson is especially zealous for pro-life causes and seems to be reacting to the president’s well-known commitment to abortion rights. Believers can and should stand up for the rights of the unborn and strive to have a voice in the ongoing political debate surrounding this controversial issue. Yet any clear-thinking Christian can see that hating those who oppose our point of view does nothing to further the pro-life cause -- in fact, quite the opposite is true. Besides, when we are opposed for righteousness’ sake, Jesus does not authorize us to hate in return. Pastor Anderson would do well to go back and study Luke 9:51-56. In that passage, two of Jesus’ disciples were zealous to call down fire from Heaven against those who set themselves against Christ. The Lord’s rebuke to them is appropriate in this case as well: “You do not know what kind of spirit you are of; for the Son of Man did not come to destroy men’s lives, but to save them.” (Luke 9:55b-56).

Third, I shuddered when I read pastor Anderson’s prayer that President Obama would die and go to hell. According to the pastor’s church website, he prides himself on his commitment to soul-winning and on retaining a robust doctrine of hell. But of all people, soul-winners should live to see men delivered from judgment and not to condemn men to it. As one who believes I have escaped the wrath of God for my sins only because of the grace of God available by faith in Christ, I can take no delight in the thought of others who might perish. Beyond this, to think that we are in the position of pronouncing judgment over souls is to usurp authority that has not been delegated to us in this life. We are always called to warn people of the awful reality of hell, but with humility, tears, and aching hearts.

Many Southern Baptists are not likely to be counted as President Obama’s greatest political supporters, barring a change in his worldview, values and policies. But we dare not fail to extend to him the love and compassion of Christ. Pastor Anderson’s ill-intended prayers for the president’s destruction have prompted me to reevaluate my own faithfulness to carry out what is a clear biblical mandate: “First of all, then, I urge that entreaties and prayers, petitions and thanksgivings, be made on behalf of all men, for kings and all who are in authority, so that we may lead a tranquil and quiet life in all godliness and dignity. This is good and acceptable in the sight of God our Savior, who desires all men to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth”(1 Timothy 2:1-4).

In short, our prayers for the president must be directed for his ultimate spiritual good, not his condemnation. None of us are able to discern the heart condition of another person with accuracy. But when we do intercede for others, we are to pray compassionately for their spiritual advancement, not the consignment of souls to hell.

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Paul Brewster is pastor of Ryker’s Ridge Baptist Church in Madison, Indiana. The original title of this article was "How Shall We Pray For The President?"

from Baptist Press · Paul Brewster via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

150 Years After Appomattox: A Redemptive Surrender

Luke 6:27

Gen. Robert E. Lee arrived at the McLean House near Appomattox, Virginia, on April 9, 1865, to meet with Union commander Gen. Ulysses S. Grant (born Hiram Ulysses Grant). Nearly surrounded and with an undernourished army, Lee sought generous surrender terms from the Union army leader whose wartime nickname was “Unconditional Surrender Grant.” Both men knew that what they decided on here would set the tone for the nation after the grueling four-year Civil War.

The two men grew up in a United States that embraced a strong Christian worldview.

General Lee was a practicing Christian for most of his life and was confirmed in his Episcopal faith. He carried around a worn-out prayer book during the Civil War that was only replaced when he could no longer read the small print. He had freed his own slaves long before the war, retaining one of his freed slaves as his paid servant and confidant. Lee’s personal compassion for others as both a private citizen and an army commander was legendary. In addition, he later confessed to other Southerners after the war that he had prayed for his enemies during the conflict.

The faith of General Grant is harder to discern. At West Point, a youthful Grant revealed to others that he disliked attending chapel services. He was not a regular churchgoer, but did so occasionally at the request of his devout wife. Grant never publicly made his faith convictions known, although the Methodist pastor of his wife said that Grant had confessed Christ before his death. Grant eventually confessed to resigning his military commission prior to the Civil War in part because of drinking too much. After returning to the Army, his wartime record never included incidents of alcohol impacting his military performance, although the pre-war charge of insobriety resurfaced among his critics. Nevertheless, his memoirs reveal his Christian worldview and a desire to live a moral life. After the war when Grant was president, he signed the bill that made Christmas an official federal holiday.

Lee, dressed in his best uniform, arrived at the McLean residence first and waited for Grant to arrive. In a previous correspondence, Grant magnanimously told Lee to pick the meeting place and that he would meet him there. Grant entered the house in a mud-spattered field uniform that revealed his haste to get there. The two men exchanged pleasantries and discussed their common military service in the Mexican War.

Surprisingly, Grant could not bear to bring up the subject of surrender. He later related he was genuinely saddened by the plight of his Confederate enemies. It was Lee who gently nudged the Union general into that discussion.

In what must be described as one of the most Christ-like moments in American history, Grant then proceeded to propose a very gentle settlement for his enemies of the last four years.

Grant offered to parole Lee’s enlisted men only on their word not to take up arms against the United States ever again. Officers would have to sign a written parole vouching for their men. Enlisted men would have to give up their arms, but officers could keep their sidearms, horses and private property. Then the Union commander said each man could return home without fear of being imprisoned or prosecuted for treason.

In a brief discussion, Lee convinced Grant to let enlisted men keep the horses and mules they possessed to assist them in planting crops for that spring. Arrangements also were made for the hungry Confederates to be fed from Union storehouses. Lee, who realized that Grant’s terms were better than he had expected, conveyed his gratitude by saying to Grant, “This will have a very happy effect among the men and do much toward reconciling the country.”

Both men then shook hands and left. Lee rode back to Confederate lines; when Grant emerged from the McLean residence, Union troops began cheering, but the general rebuked them. “The Confederates are now our countrymen, and we do not want to exult over their downfall.”

Three days later, Lee’s entire army formally surrendered without incident. Each army showed the proper respect to each other; there is no record of a single Union soldier cheering for their victory or jeering their Confederate counterparts. Within two-and-a-half months, all other Confederate armies would surrender in like fashion. The Civil War was over.

For the rest of their lives, both Lee and Grant possessed a great respect for each other. Grant never spoke ill of Lee and later prevented federal authorities from charging Lee with treason as that would have violated the letter and spirit of the Appomattox peace.

Lee long remembered Grant’s generosity at Appomattox. Years later when a college faculty member at Washington College where Lee was the president spoke ill of Grant within hearing distance, Lee interjected, “Sir, if you dare presume to speak anything disrespectful of General Grant in my presence again, either you or I will sever your connection with this university.”

The spirit of Christ certainly had prevailed on that April day at Appomattox. It was on a Palm Sunday. As noted by an American historian, the men of both armies would all live to see Easter.

No Stone Throwing: Speaking About Human Sexuality

John 8:7

Sometimes we Christians demonize our opponents instead of loving them. We often forget that, apart from the grace of God, we might well be on the other side of the issue. This is especially true when it comes to the issue of human sexuality. To understand why, we must first remember that, for the Christian, truth is a person: Jesus Christ. We see the world and our place in it in light of the person and work of Jesus. So we should never forget that just as Jesus was the incarnation of God’s love, mercy, and compassion for us, we are called to model these for our neighbor.

Now this doesn’t mean that we should shy from calling sin by its name — on the contrary, sometimes this is exactly what loving our neighbor requires. But we should do this in sorrow rather than in anger and never out of a sense of condemnation — because we know that since none of us is without sin, none of us gets to cast the first stone.

So, when we address a hot-button issue like same-sex attraction or same-sex marriage, we should always keep in mind our own struggles and brokenness when it comes to sexuality.

If you are blessed not to have struggled in this area, then recall your struggles in other areas. If you can’t think of any, well, you might want to think about the sin of pride. I’m just saying.

We also need to avoid the mistake that some of our opponents make: treating sex as merely physical. As Christians know, sex is intended to serve a unitive purpose — it’s supposed to be the physical expression of the spiritual union between husband and wife. As the Bible puts it, “the two become one flesh.”

It may come as a surprise to many of us, but many people in same-sex relationships are seeking the same thing. The problem is that they can’t achieve what they are seeking, because they are seeking it in what Catholic moral theology calls a “disordered” manner. Likewise, many advocates of same-sex marriage aren’t out to subvert marriage, at least not consciously. They’re pursuing the goods of marriage, all be it, in a disordered fashion.

Thus when we rightly say that the Christian response to same-sex attraction is chastity, we must remember that chastity is difficult enough for heterosexual Christians — who at least have the hope of expressing their sexuality in marriage.

The same is true with same-sex marriage. As God said in Genesis 2, “it is not good for man to be alone.” We were designed for the deep kind of physical and spiritual connection that comes through marriage. So even while we insist that that kind of connection is only available between a man and a woman, we must empathize with and grieve for those who cannot achieve it.

If we can’t, then we should consider keeping our mouths shut. Because if we forget to offer love and support along with the truth, we aren’t much better than the scribes and Pharisees, whom Jesus rebuked for placing heavy loads on people’s shoulders while not lifting a finger to move them.

The world doesn’t need more Pharisees, it needs people who speak the truth in love — love that never forgets Who is the Truth.

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Copyright (c) 2012 Prison Fellowship Ministries. Reprinted with permission. "BreakPoint with Chuck Colson" is a radio ministry of Prison Fellowship Ministries.

from BreakPoint Commentary · Eric Metaxas via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database homosexuality

Christians Pay Medical Bills For An Atheist [2 Versions]

John 13:35

A Texas atheist who earlier this year fought to ban religious symbols on government property in his town is reportedly “flabbergasted” that Christians have offered to help him pay his bills. Christians in Henderson County have raised thousands of dollars to help Patrick Greene, an atheist who is at risk of going blind in one eye due to a detached retina.

Greene, a former Air Force officer and taxi driver who was forced to retire due to his eye condition, wrote a letter to members of the Henderson County Commissioner’s Court in February 2012 threatening a lawsuit if they did not move a Nativity scene from court property, the Malakoff News reported. The Nativity scene had been a source of controversy since it was erected in front of the courthouse last December, an ongoing battle between a variety of groups.

Greene eventually did file suit, but when doctors told him about his eye condition, he decided that he could no longer pursue the lawsuit and dropped the case. At that point, he had been forced to retire from his job driving a taxi and was facing mounting medical bills.

So when local Christians wrote him a check for $400 (further funds amounted to over $3,500) to help him pay his living expenses, Greene was more than surprised.

“They said they wanted to do what real Christians are supposed to do – love you – and they wanted to help,” Greene told the Tyler Morning Telegraph. He told reporters he plans to write about their gesture in a new book, tentatively titled “The Real Christians of Henderson County.”

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Another version from IllustrationExchange.com, 3/27/12

“Atheist activist Patrick Greene had plans to sue Henderson County, Texas, just a few months ago if the county did not move its nativity scene from the courthouse lawn to a private property. He eventually dropped his threats, however, after discovering he was quickly losing his vision. Not long after his decision was reported, donations began pouring in from Christians who wanted to lend the non-believer a helping hand, with no strings attached.

“‘No Christian has ever acted this way in the entire time we’ve been married,’ Greene told The Christian Post on Friday, referring to the donations from believers. ‘These are the first actual Christians we’ve ever met in our lives.’

“While his vision may be fading away, Greene says his view of at least some Christians has changed for the better.

“‘We don’t expect this kind of treatment from most Christians because most Christians don’t act this way,’ said Greene. ‘But because of the fact that Jesus said ‘Love your neighbor as yourself’...these people are acting like real Christians. Both my wife and I love them for that, because they’re actually putting their actions where their beliefs are.’”

“[Erik] Graham [pastor of a local church who is helping Greene] later added, ‘It goes back to what Jesus is saying in the Sermon on the Mount. If you do good to those who do good to you, what more is that than the rest of the world? But when the world sees that a Christian will do good to those who do evil toward them, it’s a much greater witness.’”

Go ahead. Exceed expectations. Be the first “real Christian” some unbeliever meets! Yours will be a message which speaks far louder than any publicly displayed nativity scene.

Murder, Justice … and Forgiveness: the Christian Calling Card

Luke 6:27

The New York Times Magazine recently ran a stunning, moving piece about murder, justice and forgiveness.

Three years ago, Kate and Andy Grosmaire received the kind of news that is every parent’s worst nightmare: Their daughter, Ann, had been shot in the head by her fiancée, Conor McBride.

When Andy Grosmaire arrived at the hospital, he realized that unless God did something “wondrous,” Ann would not survive.

Sadly, Ann ultimately died. But, nevertheless, before she did, something wondrous did happen. While he stood praying at his unconscious daughter’s bedside, Grosmaire felt he heard Ann say “Forgive him.” His initial response was to say “No way. That’s impossible.” But he continued to hear Ann say “Forgive him.”

When McBride’s father arrived at the hospital, Andy Grosmaire hugged him and thanked him for coming, adding “but I might hate you by the end of the week.”

For reasons Andy still doesn’t understand, Conor McBride listed Andy’s wife Kate as one of the people allowed to visit him in jail. As she left to visit him, she asked her husband if he had a message for the man who had shot their daughter. Andy replied “tell him I love him, and I forgive him.”

As extraordinary as that was, what Kate and Andy Grosmaire understood by forgiveness was not limited to words. After meeting the prosecutor prosecuting McBride, they realized that they had it in their power to affect the outcome of the trial. After meeting with Conor McBride, they asked that he receive a 10-to-15 year sentence.

The prosecutor, sympathetic to the family’s wishes but still representing the state’s and community’s interest, insisted that McBride serve twenty years -- under Florida law he could have served a life sentence and may have been sentenced to death.

The Grosmaire’s pursuit of what Christians call “restorative justice” was not limited to reaching out to Conor McBride. Andy Grosmaire didn’t wind up hating Conor’s father. On the contrary, the experience brought the two families closer.

The kind of forgiveness on display in this story is the antithesis of what Dietrich Bonhoeffer called “cheap grace.” The Grosmaires are all too aware of the damage McBride caused, and they still feel the pain that that damage inflicted. As Kate Grosmaire told the New York Times, “forgiving Conor doesn’t change the fact that Ann is not with us ... I walk by her empty bedroom at least twice a day.”

Andy Grosmaire is equally clear-eyed about what happened: he rejects talk about “God’s plan” and sentimental drivel about God “wanting another angel.”

So, why did they forgive their daughter’s murderer? Because Andy Grosmaire realized that “it was not just Ann asking [him] to forgive Conor, it was Jesus Christ.” As Andy put it, “I hadn’t said no to him before, and I wasn’t going to start then.”

Saying “yes” to forgiveness was the only way forward from this unimaginable loss. As Kate Grosmaire put it, “Conor owed us a debt he could never repay. And releasing him from that debt would release us from expecting that anything in this world could satisfy us.”

This kind of forgiveness is Christianity’s greatest calling card. To be able to love those who have done you unimaginable harm and seek their good is truly wondrous.

Other faiths speak about mercy and compassion. Some even urge you to “let go” of old wounds for your own sake. But Christians worship a savior who, even as he was unjustly executed, prayed for those who placed him on the cross and insists that those who profess his name love their enemies, not just their friends.

It’s what makes this kind of “yes” possible.

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Copyright (c) 2013 Prison Fellowship Ministries. Reprinted with permission. "BreakPoint" is a radio ministry of Prison Fellowship Ministries.

We Refuse To Be Enemies

Job 14:7

A Palestinian Christian family that preaches non-violence from a farm in the West Bank is battling to hold on to land it has owned for 98 years. Now surrounded by Israeli settlements, the family is a living example of the idea of peaceful resistance.

On his farm outside Bethlehem, Daher Nassar is picking apples from the ruins of the orchard he planted at least eight years ago. The fruit is scattered across ground freshly opened and imprinted with the tracks of a bulldozer. At the field’s edge, branches reach out from inside a mound of earth, the bark stripped and mangled, unripe almonds still clinging to the trees.

On May 19, 2014, a Palestinian shepherd from the village of Nahalin was out at first light and saw the bulldozer at work in the field, guarded by Israeli soldiers. By the time Nassar arrived the whole orchard - the best part of a decade’s work - was gone. His English is far from fluent, but there’s no mistaking the pain in his voice: “Why you broke the trees?”

A spokesperson for the Israeli military authorities in the West Bank said the trees were planted illegally on state land.

Nassar’s sister, Amal, has a different explanation. The government, together with the Israeli settlers who live around the farm, is “trying to push us to violence or push us to leave,” she says. Amal insists that her family will not move from the land, nor will they abandon their commitment to peaceful resistance.

“Nobody can force us to hate,” she says. “We refuse to be enemies.”

That phrase, which is painted on a stone at the entrance to the farm, was first used by her father, Bishara Nassar. Long before the concept became widely known among Palestinians, he taught his children a theory of non-violence that was rooted in his own Christian beliefs.

Bishara (“Gospel”) Nassar was a child when his father bought this land in 1916. Even at that time, as World War One transformed the Middle East and the Ottoman Empire limped to an end, Palestinian Christians were beginning to emigrate. After the war of 1948 the Christian exodus from the West Bank quickened, and Bishara, who was a gifted preacher and accordionist, began to travel round the nearby villages, singing songs and leading Bible study in family homes. Music and stories, he thought, might deepen the faith and lift the spirits of Bethlehem’s Christian children, encouraging them to stay.

Bishara also came to believe that the Christian community had a special role to play in building a more peaceful future.

“My father always said, ‘We will never achieve peace in Palestine and Israel just by shaking hands - we need to work on people, to start with the grassroots’,” says Amal Nassar. “So what we do now, as a family, is fulfilling the dream of my father that people can build bridges, for hope, for understanding, reconciliation, dialogue, to achieve peace. This is the idea.”

Guided by that vision, she and her brothers have transformed the farm into a centre for peace-building and non-violent resistance called the Tent of Nations.

For more than 20 years they have held workshops here, welcoming Israeli students, rabbis, and peace activists, as well as groups from across Europe and America. They run summer camps for local schools, teaching Palestinian children about non-violence and encouraging them to develop a love for the land by working and playing on the farm. This is especially important, says Amal Nassar, for a generation that has grown up in the refugee camps and urban sprawl behind Israel’s separation barrier. She also trains Palestinian women in non-violence, while her mother - Bishara’s widow, Milada - cooks traditional food for the day’s guests.

Milada Nassar says her husband would have been proud of what his children have created. But in the years since his death in 1976, the family’s commitment to non-violence has been tested in ways he could never have imagined.

At that time the West Bank had been under Israeli military rule for almost a decade, and Jewish settlers were just beginning to move into the area south of the farm. For the most part, though, the hills around Bishara’s land were still open countryside, farmed by Palestinian families or used as grazing by shepherds. In the 40 years since, Israeli settlements have been built on every one .

There are five settlements in total, the nearest so close that the settlers’ voices carry across the valley to the farm. The most recent, Netiv Ha’avot, is little more than a strip of houses encircled by coils of razor wire and festooned with Israeli flags. The largest, Beitar Illit, is a town of more than 40,000 people, a blaze of lights on the hillside at night. All of them are considered illegal under international law, though Israel disputes this.

As they watched the settlements rise around them in the 1980s, the Nassars began to worry. Their farm was in a prime location, close to the main north-south road through the West Bank and on high ground.

In 1991 their fears were confirmed. The military authorities declared that more than 90% of the farm now belonged to the State of Israel. Gush Etzion, one of the biggest settlement blocks in the West Bank, looked set to expand on to the Nassar farm.

The Nassars, though, refused to leave, or to see the land divided. And virtually alone among Palestinian farmers, they had the documents they needed to launch an appeal in the Israeli courts.

In 1924, realising that the Ottoman Empire was finished and worried by rising tensions between Arabs and Jews, Bishara Nassar’s father had registered his property with Palestine’s new imperial rulers. The British issued land deeds that specified the size and borders of the farm, and Bishara’s father, who was a literate man, held on to the documents. Almost 70 years later, those papers would form the basis of a legal case that has been in front of the Israeli courts for 23 years. It remains unresolved.

“They know very well that the Palestinians cannot afford to defend the land,” says Amal Nassar, “so they give up hope and leave.” But the family has somehow found the money and determination to keep their appeal alive.

When they were informed, after 10 years in the military courts, that their Palestinian lawyer was not eligible to contest the case in Israel’s supreme court - because he carried West Bank identity papers - they found an Israeli firm willing to take it on. When they were told to provide a land survey, they hired (at a cost of $70,000) an Israeli surveyor, and sent him to consult maps and documents in the imperial archives of London and Istanbul. When they were asked to bring witnesses in support of their claim to have farmed the land for three generations, they hired a bus to take more than 30 Palestinian villagers to the military court near Ramallah. “We had to wait five hours outside the court under the sun,” remembers Amal Nassar. “And then, after five hours, a soldier come out, they say, ‘We don’t want witnesses, go home.’

“Every time they see you are ready to meet their demands, they ask [for something] more and more difficult, [so] that you say ‘I am fed up, I cannot.’ Yes, this [is] always the process. We know it. It’s a game to push us to leave.”

The way Amal sees it, the Israeli military and the settlers, having failed to evict the family by legal means, are now trying to force them out. She remembers the settlers who uprooted 250 young olive trees in 2002, and who permanently closed the road to the farm with rubble. The demolition orders posted on the gate, threatening to destroy the Nassars’ home and water wells. The soldiers who, in 2009, forced her 72-year-old mother out of bed at gunpoint in the middle of the night and made her wait in the cold while they searched the farm.

The Israeli authorities in the West Bank insist that by destroying the Nassars’ orchard and posting demolition orders on the Tent of Nations, they are simply enforcing planning regulations. “We are not intimidating the family,” said a spokesperson for CoGAT, the body responsible for implementing Israeli policy in the West Bank. “We are not doing any of those steps in order to make the family leave. We are enforcing the law.”

The Israeli military did not respond to the specific allegations made by the Nassars, but they, too, denied that the family is subject to a campaign of harassment: “The assertion that the IDF seeks to intimidate as a means of eviction is farcical, and an absolute contradiction of the reality on the ground in Judea and Samaria [West Bank]. The reality of Judea and Samaria, in which acts of Palestinian terrorism and extreme violence continue to rise, presents a complex security challenge. Nonetheless, the IDF remains committed to fulfilling its mission of safeguarding security and stability in the region, in a highly professional manner based on the morals and code of ethics that stand as a pillar of all IDF activities.”

Amal Nassar’s younger brother, Daoud, is not impressed by the moral code of the men who uprooted his orchard. But neither is he angry: “We are willing to build up a better future in a non-violent way ... without hatred,” he says. “Our response to this injustice will never be with violence, and we will never give up and leave.”

Palestinians have a word that captures this refusal to be provoked or demoralized: sumud. Sometimes translated as ‘steadfastness’, sumud describes the stubborn, patient determination to stay on the land and to carry on in spite of all the difficulties of living under military occupation.

It is a quality embodied by Daher Nassar, who, even as he walks across a scarred and empty field, is imagining the orchard he’ll harvest 10 years from now.

“I will plant more trees,” he says. “Double trees.”

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Version used in sermon by David Holwick on 12/14/2014:

This summer the BBC reported on a Palestinian Christian family which is battling Israel to hold onto its land. It is outside Bethlehem and they have owned it for 98 years. Israelis have built settlements all around it and recently they bulldozed one of their orchards, saying it was on illegal land. The government wants to seize 90% of their property.

Unlike most Palestinians, the Nassar family has a deed for the land, registered in 1924 with the British overlords. They hired a surveyor for $70,000 but it did no good. The Israelis always demand something else. The Nassars know the Israelis just want them to pack up and leave.

But they won’t go. And they won’t hate. In their words, “We refuse to be enemies.” Their response to injustice will never be violence.

They have hosted Jews, Muslims and Christians at their farm, all because of their devout father. “What we do now, as a family, is fulfilling the dream of [our] father that people can build bridges, for hope, for understanding, reconciliation, dialogue, to achieve peace. This is the idea.”

Taking On Marilyn Manson

Luke 6:27

The shock-rocker and self-proclaimed priest of the church of Satan, Marilyn Manson, was scheduled for a concert in Cedar Rapids, Iowa, in 1999. This brought about a great uproar from the community because some had linked Manson’s music to the Columbine High School massacre which had happened only a week before. Law enforcement prepared for an ugly scene.

Then a group of pastors, youth pastors and other believers got together and organized prayer and praise services before and during the concert. Through the power of worship, these Christians decided to bless, not curse the concert-goers. They passed out over 100 pizzas and 1,200 soft drinks in the parking lot. They paid for the parking for many. Many Manson fans had a bewildered look as they took all this in.

The results? News reports said Manson went into an absolute rage when he saw a large smiley face put on his Nazi/antichrist pulpit stage prop -- placed there by one of his own crew members. He destroyed the set and stormed off the stage very early in the show, vowing never to return. The fans chanted his name but he didn’t come back. He never got to rip up a Bible like he does in many of his concerts. Instead, at least three people came to faith in Christ.

from Sermon #10533, "Worship And Spiritual Warfare" · Rev. Coy Wylie via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database love your enemy

Wearing A Muslim Hijab For Lent

Luke 4:24

Jessey Eagan, a married Christian mother of two, has decided to wear a hijab for Lent in an attempt to remind herself “what it feels like to be an outsider”.

“See, we lived in Amman, Jordan about 7 years ago where we ended up teaching at an Islamic school,” she told BuzzFeed News. “While we were there we met many Muslims and built great personal friendships with them. And living in a culture where I stuck out like a sore thumb, I personally know what it can feel like to be an outsider, and I wanted to remind myself of that, so that I can better love all people, no matter what they look like.”

In her blog, the children’s director at her church in Peoria, Illinois, wrote about a Muslim friend’s response to her idea to wear a hijab, and how it spurred her on:

Before I fully explain my reasoning, let me tell you how I came to the decision. I told my husband my idea and he encouraged me to do it, but I decided that I needed to ask a local Muslim friend her thoughts on it. She wears hijab for many reasons, I’m sure, but one is identification with her Muslim community. I wanted to make sure that I would not be disrespecting or offending the Muslim community, so I asked her opinion. Her response was this,

“You are a very thoughtful person full of great ideas ... I don’t see a reason why people get offended by a very thoughtful, nice, and peaceful act. Our role is teach and educate all people and I’m 100% in support of this idea ... My hijab drawer is yours come and pick what u like. If u don’t have time I can bring them to u, just let me know what colors.”

How great is that? I met her at the Islamic school this morning to pick up the scarves and she helped me put on my first hijab for the Lenten season.

“Jesus said to love our neighbors, strangers, and enemies. I think this is something that is not often taken seriously by many Christians,” she told BuzzFeed News. “We are so influenced by the media, that we allow fear to take over, and forget to love. Fear is the opposite of love.”

One thing Eagan says she hopes to do next is use make-up to “darken” her complexion and “go out into the community.”

“My friend told me that white Muslims and brown Muslims have different experiences, as do black Muslims, within the Islamic community as well as in the community at large,” she said. “This is all about helping my people, specifically white Christians, learn how to see difference, embrace it, and engage with it. That’s what hospitality does. It welcomes people who were once outsiders into a community with love and the desire to understand.”

“I wanted to see what my friends’ public lives are like, how they experience my community differently from me,” she said.

“It is likely, I think, that my friends would tell me many positive things and avoid speaking negatively, either about their experience or why they wear the hijab,” Eagan added. “I also wouldn’t get to understand my own prejudices towards people, which has come out at least twice.”

Eagan said she expected people “wearing cammo or driving big trucks” to threaten her, but that she’s been “proven wrong each time.”

She described one interaction she had with a friend in her local area: “Yesterday at church a woman, whom I have known for quite a long time, came up to me and said, ‘Jessey, I wanted to let you know that I have been reading your blog and I am so proud of you and what you are doing. Before reading your blog, I never would have even made eye contact with someone wearing hijab. But I was at an event the other day where I saw a Muslim woman and I did make eye contact with her’.

“How great is that? Such a small gesture for her to make, and at the same time it was a huge step for her.”

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Original title is: A Christian Woman Is Wearing A Hijab For Lent To See What It’s Like To Be An “Outsider”

Civility In the Public Square

Acts 18:4

Christianity has lost three important guide wires: integrity, credibility and, most pressingly, civility, said Os Guinness, co-founder of The Trinity Forum. Guinness believes that Christians must abandon political bitterness and fulfill Jesus’ commands to love one another. His approach to the intractable differences among world religions is to create a “political framework of rights, responsibilities and respect to which all agree.”

A great-great-great grandson of Arthur Guinness, the Dublin brewer and founder of the Guinness brewery, Guinness was born in China where his parents were missionaries during World War II. In childhood he witnessed the Communist takeover of China.

Guinness earned an undergraduate degree at the University of London and a doctorate in social sciences from Oriel College, Oxford. He has been a guest scholar at the Woodrow Wilson Center for International Studies and a visiting fellow at the Brookings Institution and he has published more than 20 books, including “The Case for Civility: And Why Our Future Depends on It.” In 1991 he co-founded The Trinity Forum, an organization that hosts forums for leaders in business and politics.

The edited transcript is from a conversation with Guinness in October 2009 at Convocation & Pastors’ School at Duke Divinity.

Q: What is important about civility?

How we live with our deep differences is at stake with civility. It’s the American way as described by James Madison, with no state church and no religious monopoly. The framers [of the U.S. Constitution] got religious liberty right with the First Amendment in 1791, long before they got race or women right.

However, the way the founders set the country up has been breaking down since the 1960s, or really since the Everson case in 1947. We have incessant cultural warring with, as Richard Neuhaus put it, the sacred public square on one side and the naked public square on the other. Both of the sides are well funded, both employ batteries of lawyers, both are nationally led and it’s a disaster for America. What Neuhaus and others call the “civil public square” is a key to the American future; Christians should be champions of that civil public square.

Q: Is there a tension between civility and the prophetic role of the minister in the pulpit?

Misunderstandings surround the idea of civility; it’s frequently mistaken for squeamishness about cultural differences, false tolerance or dinner-party etiquette. Classically, civility is a republican virtue, with a small “r,” and a democratic necessity, with a small “d.” It’s the only way you can have a diverse society, freely but civilly, peacefully.

As Christians, we have deeper motivations still [for championing civility]. Followers of Jesus are called to be peacemakers, with truth and grace; Paul asks us to speak the truth with love. We’re called to love our enemies and do good to those who wrong us. This is our Christian motivation for championing the classical virtue of civility.

Freedom of conscience [upholds] the right to believe anything, but the right to believe anything does not mean that anything anyone believes is right. That is nonsense. We have a right and a responsibility to disagree, to debate, to persuade someone that they’re out to lunch. They may be muddle-headed. They may be socially disastrous. They might even be morally evil, but we have a responsibility to disagree civilly.

Q: Much of the incivility in recent cultural debates has come from Christians, has it not?

With the election of President Obama, there was a distinct decline of the religious right. My hope was that good Christian leadership would swing us to a more responsible position, but there isn’t the leadership that there was in the past. The groundswell of populism has joined the bitter resentment we see bubbling up in the health care debates; it’s very dangerous.

It’s time for Christians to speak out, to follow our Lord clearly and differently. I boil [the difference] down to three words: integrity, credibility and civility. Integrity asks, “can we be 100 percent faithful to Jesus, following his teachings, growing like him and still engage with the modern world so that faith prevails?” That’s integrity. Much of the church lacks integrity.

The second difference is in credibility. Since the Enlightenment all Christians are what Richard Dawkins calls “faith heads,” anti-intellectuals, despite the fact that many of the greatest thinkers of Western history -- Augustine, Pascal and Newton among them -- loved Christ passionately. I knew Bertrand Russell when I was a student. He said Christians would sooner die than think. We need to be champions of truth, champions of thinking and love God with our minds in order to recover the great credibility of the gospel.

The third difference is with civility. That sounds very abstract, compared to addressing AIDS, or nuclear issues or terrorism. Actually, living with our deep differences underlies all the other issues. America once got it nearly right, but America is losing its way.

Q: Overall, what is your calling? What ties your work together?

I like to live between the church and the world, making sense of the church to the world and making sense of the world to the faithful. I love apologetics and I love analysis. I live between high-level knowledge and popular knowledge. Christian scholarship is magnificent today. The [communication] gap is with those in the middle, with intermediate knowledge. Much of the good scholarship in the church is unknown to ordinary folk. In my role, I read all that stuff to make it practicable to people. Otherwise the church is not united, it is paraplegic -- the head thinks one way and the body twitches another.

Q: How does your leadership academy, The Trinity Forum, help your intermediary role?

The Trinity Forum is Socratic [in form]. We have no lectures, no sermons, no teachings and no talks. Whatever the topic, we give people the readings on it two months ahead of the forum. Moderators lead the discussion. The leaders do the work for themselves and come to their own conclusions. As in the parables of our Lord, when you engage people, they participate and learn much more.

Our curricula cover many of the great issues of Western civilization, issues of philanthropy and character. Today’s leaders are the heirs to 3,000 years of Western civilization. We are the custodians of that in our time and we need to know what shaped us. Every issue is set in the context of the discussion that’s gone before ... we stand here today in the light of those 3,000 years of heritage.

In The Trinity Forum we’re talking about growing real leadership, not just politicians but statesmen. Often people use the word “intractable” to describe a problem. Intractable problems [indicate] a lack of courageous leadership. Christians should not be complaining and criticizing, but looking at the problems of the world and saying, “We’ve got Christian solutions to these problems.”

I’m working on a global declaration on freedom of conscience. It will [demonstrate] how we can live with deep differences in order to create a cosmopolitan civil public square. Christians should be in the forefront of constructive solutions, bringing Christian principles to bear on the world’s big problems; that’s real leadership.

Dialogue and friendship with Muslims, Buddhists, etc., is perfectly fine, but it’s a total failure as a solution to world peace. You cannot reach interfaith unity and still remain true to your own faith. The differences between various ideologies are deep, ultimate and irreducible. Compromise, not dialogue, is the only way we can reach a common denominator. My approach is to create a political framework of rights, responsibilities and respect to which all agree. Within that framework each faith engages peacefully, free to be itself and therefore different.

I don’t support a sacred public square (the religious right square) or a naked public square (from which the ACLU removes religion), but a civil public square. This is a vision of public life in which people of every faith -- Christian, Jewish, atheist, Muslim, Mormon, Scientologist, etc. -- are free to engage in public life on the basis of their faith, with freedom of conscience. We must engage publicly within a framework of what’s agreed to be fair for all. What is a right for Christians will be automatically a right for an atheist, a Jew or a Muslim. A right for one is a responsibility for the other; it’s very important to guard each other’s rights.

I use the example of the Queensberry rules from boxing. [With roots in] Roman gladiatorial games, boxing was pretty brutal up until the 19th century. In 1867 the Marquis of Queensberry lent his name to regulations that put boxing in a ring, under a referee, within [a framework of] rules. For instance: Touch gloves to begin and don’t punch below the belt. But boxing is not a love-in. Boxers fight until one loses.

That’s democratic civility. It’s not a “Kumbaya” moment in which we happily agree. The difference is that you are debating with words [rather than fists.]

Q: Can you give an example of civil debate along the lines of Queensberry rules that changed a society?

With an understanding that humans are made in the image of God, Christians and Jews know that every human is precious and has dignity. William Wilberforce entered the ring in 1787 when he argued for the abolition of slavery in the English House of Parliament. He was defeated, defeated, defeated and defeated. Every year he entered the ring again. It took him 20 years to win. He was prepared to enter the ring [as often as it took] to persuade and prevail. That’s democratic civility.

Wilberforce was gracious; he was humble and loving. Twice, opponents physically attacked him in the street. He remained gracious even when he was the most disparaged man in the world. He never vilified his opponents. A lot of reformers are fanatics, like William Lloyd Garrison in the United States. Wilberforce was never a fanatic. He was a follower of Jesus, humble, gracious and loving. That’s how we should be known, not as culture warriors.

The Last Testament of A Beheaded Christian

Luke 23:34

Christian de Chergé was a French Catholic monk and the Trappist prior of the Tibhirine monastery in Algeria. With the rise of radical Islam in 1993, Father Chergé knew that his life was in danger. But instead of leaving Algeria, Father Chergé chose to stay and continue his witness to the gospel of Jesus Christ. On May 24, 1996, Father Chergé was beheaded by Muslim radicals. Anticipating his death, Father Chergé had left a testament with his family to be read upon the event of his murder. The testament in part reads:

“If it should happen one day — and it could be today — that I become a victim of the terrorism which now seems ready to encompass all the foreigners living in Algeria, I would like my community, my Church, my family, to remember that my life was given to God and to this country. I ask them to accept that the One Master of all life was not a stranger to this brutal departure. I ask them to pray for me: for how could I be found worthy of such an offering? I ask them to be able to associate such a death with the many other deaths that were just as violent, but forgotten through indifference and anonymity.

My life has no more value than any other. Nor any less value. In any case, it has not the innocence of childhood. I have lived long enough to know that I share in the evil which seems, alas, to prevail in the world, even in that which would strike me blindly. I should like, when the time comes, to have a clear space which would allow me to beg forgiveness of God and of all my fellow human beings, and at the same time to forgive with all my heart the one who would strike me down.

Obviously, my death will justify the opinion of all those who dismissed me as naïve or idealistic: ‘Let him tell us what he thinks now.’ But such people should know that my death will satisfy my most burning curiosity. At last, I will be able — if God pleases — to see the children of Islam as He sees them, illuminated in the glory of Christ, sharing in the gift of God’s Passion and of the Spirit, whose secret joy will always be to bring forth our common humanity amidst our differences.

I give thanks to God for this life, completely mine yet completely theirs, too, to God, who wanted it for joy against, and in spite of, all odds. In this Thank You — which says everything about my life — I include you, my friends past and present, and those friends who will be here at the side of my mother and father, of my sisters and brothers — thank you a thousandfold.

And to you, too, my friend of the last moment, who will not know what you are doing. Yes, for you, too I wish this thank-you, this ‘Adieu,’ whose image is in you also, that we may meet in heaven, like happy thieves, if it pleases God, our common Father. Amen!”

– Father Christian de Chergé

Christian de Chergé lived as a citizen of the kingdom of God. The manner in which he died and the testament he left behind is the only Christian response to militant Islam I can think of which is faithful to Jesus Christ. Father de Chergé does not call for his blood to be avenged, but like his Savior, Father de Chergé prays for the forgiveness of his murderer and speaks of him as “my friend of the last moment, who will not know what you are doing.” In his martyr’s testament Father de Chergé bids his murder “Adieu” and hopes that they might meet in heaven “like happy thieves.” This is beautiful. The kind of beauty that can save the world. Father de Chergé lived a beautiful life and in his death overcame Satan by the blood of the Lamb and the word of his testimony. Christian Chergé would rather die following the way of the Lamb than follow the way of the Beast.

Christianity's Radical Challenge To Morality

Mark 10:28

One of the great scandals of Christianity is the radical challenge it poses to conventional morality. In the tradition of Kierkegaard and Dostoyevsky, French intellectual Emmanuel Carrère in his book "The Kingdom" emphasizes the punishing sacrifice of self that Jesus’ teaching enjoins. Classical and Jewish thinking had promoted the Golden Rule — Hillel said it was the essence of the Torah — but had never said, “Love your enemies.” And not only love your enemies but also Be perfect as your heavenly Father is perfect. This overriding command cannot be a worldly imperative; it is impossible. It is the shocking inversion of health that Nietzsche railed against, and perhaps the “hatred of humanity” with which, Tacitus says, Christian were charged. Everything natural and human is turned upside down. With only slight exaggeration, Carrère summarizes this outrageous benevolence:

Love your enemies, take joy in being unhappy, prefer being small to being big, poor to rich, sick to healthy. And whereas the Torah posits the elementary, evident, and verifiable truth that it’s not good for men to be alone, Jesus said: Don’t desire women, don’t take a wife, if you have one, keep her so as not to harm her, but it would be better if you didn’t have one.[*] Don’t have children either. Let them come to you, take inspiration from their innocence, but don’t have any. Love children in general, not in particular, not like men have loved their children since time began: more than those of others, because they’re their own. And even — no, above all — don’t love yourselves. It is human to want one’s own good: don’t.

You can feel both the attraction and the recoil in Carrère’s stridency. He fears what he deeply admires; he is repelled by an ideal he cannot quite dislodge.

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* Holwick: This attitude is more reflective of what Paul writes in 1 Corinthians 7:29-40 than anything Jesus says.

(Used In March 24, 1985, Sermon)

Tom Skinner was an angry black youth in New York City. Through violence and hatred he became the leader of the largest gang in the city, the Harlem Lords. Tom's conversion to Jesus Christ was so real he left the gang the next day and began preaching the gospel. He had an immediate victory over his past life.

Several weeks after he was saved, Tom was playing in a high school football game. During the game he blocked a member of the other team while his own halfback scored a touchdown. As Tom got off the ground and headed back to his huddle, the boy he had blocked slammed him in the stomach and threw him to the ground.

The white player kicked him and made racist remarks.

Under normal circumstances he would have pulverized the boy. But instead he got up, looked him in the eye and said, “You know, because of Jesus Christ I love you anyway.” As it turned out, the other boy later apologized. But even if he hadn't, Tom had honored Jesus Christ.

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One of the Most Violent Religious Extremists Actually Lived 2,000 Years Ago

Acts 9:1

Saul the Zealot was a religious extremist, bent on killing every Christian he encountered, so he could eradicate Christianity from the earth. But then, the unbelievable happened ... . He had an encounter with Christ on the road to Damascus in Syria. Jesus asked “Saul, why do you persecute me?” Saul was blinded and knew he had encountered the one true God. He dedicated his life to serve Jesus, and his name was forever changed to Paul.

It is pretty amazing to think that one of the most influential Christian leaders in history was one of the most violent religious extremists. Yet Paul encountered Christ, and then dedicated his life to serving Him and spreading the gospel message.

When we see the religious extremists of our time in the news, what is our first reaction? Is it to say how evil they are? Is it to note how evil our world is getting? Or is it to pray that these extremists come to Christ?

Paul was not the only example of a religious extremist becoming a follower of Christ. It is still happening today ... in fact it is still happening in Damascus!

A few church leaders have chosen to stay in Syria despite the enormous risks. Almost every day these leaders will open up their church to provide a meal, clothing and an opportunity to share the gospel.

One day, as these leaders were serving their fellow countrymen, a Muslim extremist came up to the church screaming threatening and fanatical religious statements. The leaders were fearful that this man would attack them, and so they decided to pray. When they finished praying, they sensed that God was telling them to invite him inside. They sat him near the door and kept an eye on him to make sure he wouldn’t do anything during the meal and sermon. The man listened to the message attentively, and at the end, dedicated his life to Christ!

If our brothers and sisters in Christ can risk their lives to share the gospel with religious extremists like this, the least we can do is pray for these people, rather than write them off as ‘evil’ and think that they are beyond hope. God has changed the hearts of zealots, leaders, movements and entire nations. He has and can do the same today!

As you pray for our persecuted brothers and sisters in places like Syria, please join with us in praying for their persecutors ... that God would have an encounter with each of them, just as He did with Paul on the road to Damascus.

Love Is Not A Cold Duty

Mark 1:41

We are sometimes told that Christian love is not a matter of LIKING people; after all, we are called upon to love "neighbors" with whom we have no natural ties of affection, and even enemies. And so we get a picture of Christian love as a kind of gritting your teeth and doing our cold duty toward people who mean nothing, or less than nothing, to us. You are supposed to love without having your heart in it, and if you care too much about people, there is even the suspicion that your love is not genuinely Christian.

But this picture is false to the New Testament. Jesus is said to have had compassion on a mixed crowd (Mark 6:34) and on a presumably unknown leper who came to him (Mark 1:41). His demeanor toward people is in general not that of a man doing his cold duty, but one of AFFECTION. And the apostle tells us to be "tender-hearted" to one another (Eph. 4:32).

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White African Farmer Faces Death and Forgives

Luke 6:27

Martin Fick almost died twice while living in Zimbabwe nearly a decade ago. Miraculously, he survived and learned firsthand about the power of grace and forgiveness.

Victims of the political strife that ravaged Zimbabwe in the 1990s, Fick and many other white farmers were beaten and forced off their land. Fick, a husband and father of three, almost lost his life after two severe beatings that culminated with his attackers trying to throw him down a well. Despite the attacks, he felt God leading him to stay on his property.

After police investigated the attacks, Fick had the opportunity to press charges against one of his assailants. But he felt the Lord urging him not to follow through with the charges.

“This was a very difficult thing to do,” he recalled. “But I knew that was what God was telling me to do, and I had to do it.”

Then came the most difficult challenge. Fick felt God leading him to confront the man who nearly took his life and offer him forgiveness. At first Fick resisted.

“God, if I go back to this man he will kill me,” Fick prayed. “I have a wife and a family. I will orphan my children. God, is that what You want?”

Still, Fick knew what he had to do and drove to where the man and a large group had gathered. Again, the man threatened to kill Fick. That’s when Fick told him he forgave him.

“He kept saying, ‘Tonight, you’re a dead man,’” Fick said. “I told him that he could be going to jail, but I refused to press charges and have forgiven him because that’s what God wanted me to do.”

Speechless, the man dropped to his knees, remaining on the ground as Fick drove off.

In 2002, Fick moved his family to South Africa to start a new life. Since then he has started an ostrich farm and a ministry among the poor that has received help from International Mission Board missionary Bob Morris.

Fick doesn’t know what happened to the man who nearly killed him. He hopes his testimony encourages others to be obedient to God.

“We are accountable before God,” he said.

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[Original illustration at this number was a duplicate of HolwickID #15003 and the second on "Living Dangerously" was a duplicate of HolwickID #7500]

Policeman's Forgiveness Yields Chapel To Change Inmates' Lives

Luke 6:37

The day started like any other that Oct. 23 in 1990. Gary Hobbs was working his usual Tuesday night 3-11 shift for the police department in Mansfield, Louisiana. At 9:20 p.m., Hobbs was accompanying a parole officer to issue a probation warrant for the arrest of Todd Bass.

Bass, however, resisted the arrest and fatally wounded the parole officer. Bass then fired six shots at Hobbs, who retaliated with nine rounds. Hobbs suffered only a minor wound to his wrist and missed a week of work.

The felon was sentenced to life in prison for first-degree murder.

Fourteen years later, Hobbs said he had come to a point of personal misery and emptiness in his life. He then visited Southside Baptist Church in Mansfield on June 16, 2004. It was the first time Hobbs had darkened the doors of a church building.

Four days later, during the Sunday morning service, Hobbs accepted Christ as his personal Lord and Savior.

“Everything changed from that point,” Hobbs said. “It’s amazing how you can walk into a building all depressed with no peace and come out a totally different person.”

Five months later, on Nov. 7, 2004, Hobbs heard then-Southside Baptist pastor Troy Terrell preach about forgiveness.

“The Lord spoke to me,” Hobbs said, “and after the service was over, I told the pastor that God was revealing lots of hatred that was built inside me.”

Two weeks later, Hobbs and Terrell visited the Louisiana State Penitentiary at Angola so that the police officer could sit face to face with Bass. “I told him of the change in my life and that I didn’t have a problem with him anymore,” Hobbs recounted. “He stared at the ground for a few moments and looked up at me with tears running down his eyes."

“I then heard the most sincere apology I had ever heard,” Hobbs said. “From then on, there were no hard feelings between us.”

After their meeting, Hobbs and Terrell toured Angola, which they knew had a reputation as a violent prison.

“Wherever I went on the tour, I experienced nothing but a friendly reception from the prisoners,” Hobbs said. “I didn’t feel threatened or hear any foul language. Moral rehabilitation has changed their lives.”

Once known as the bloodiest prison in the United States, the Angola prison has experienced a revival of sorts since warden Burl Cain instituted moral rehabilitation.

Moral rehabilitation is an approach that utilizes religious organizations to help inmates change.

New Orleans Baptist Theological Seminary has been a vital part of Cain’s moral rehabilitation philosophy. Since 1995, the Southern Baptist seminary has offered extension classes at the prison.

Cain attributes the seminary program as a primary reason for the drop in violence at Angola. The number of men involved in an assault within Angola’s walls has dropped from 10.4 percent of the inmates in 2001 to 7.4 percent in 2004, according to prison officials.

After the tour concluded, Hobbs and Terrell met with Cain. The warden asked why the men had traveled to Angola.

“During our talk, Warden Cain mentioned that while Angola had all the funds they needed for their religious programs, the Louisiana Correctional Institute for Women in St. Gabriel needed money to construct a chapel inside their prison. My pastor said we could raise $150,000.”

Within 45 days, Southside Baptist Church members and others from the community raised more than was needed.

Hobbs said $150,000 was presented in March 2005 to the Louisiana Prison Chapel Foundation for the construction of a 700-seat chapel inside the LCIW prison walls. Construction of the facility should be complete in six to eight months.

Twenty-one members from Southside Baptist Church traveled to the south Louisiana women’s prison for the chapel’s groundbreaking ceremony in January. The Shreveport Times reported that the members received a standing ovation for their fundraising efforts.

“While the labor to build the chapels is free due to prisoners building the facilities, the cost of materials can’t be done without help,” Hobbs said. “Throughout the years, we have seen rehabilitation programs that utilize the Bible can change prisoners.

“If you change the prisoners and they are released, then they may have a positive effect on the rest of their families,” the police officer continued. “In turn, those family members will not resort to a life a crime.”

Terrell, now in fulltime evangelism, echoed the thought.

“The only way to change a person is when Jesus enters his or her heart,” Terrell said. “By building the chapels in the women’s prisons, we are breaking lots of generational curses. Statistics show that children of prisoners have a higher chance of going to prison.

“If the bloodiest prison in America can become the most-evangelized prison, anything is possible,” Terrell said.

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