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Carl Friedrich Keil and Franz Delitzsch Old Testament Commentary
24 He that spareth his rod hateth his son, And he who loveth him visits him early with correction. The paedagogic rule of God, Pro 3:12, avails also for men, Pro 23:13., Pro 29:15. The rod represents here the means of punishment, the patria potestas. He who spareth or avoideth this, and who does this even from love, has yet no true right love for his son; he who loveth him correcteth him early. With ἐπιμελῶς παιδεύει of the lxx (cf. Sir. 30:1, ἐνδελεχήσει μάστιγας) the thought is in general indicated, but the expression is not explained. Many erroneously regard the suffix of שׁחרו as referring to the object immediately following (de Dieu, Ewald, Bertheau, Zckler); Hitzig, on the contrary, rightly remarks, that in this case we should expect the words to be, after Pro 5:22 (cf. Exo 2:6), את־המּוּסר. He himself, without any necessity, takes שׁחר in the sense of the Arab. skhar, compescere. Hofmann (Schriftbew. ii. 2. 402) is right in saying that "שׁחר is connected with a double accusative as elsewhere קדּם occurs; and the meaning is, that one ought much more to anticipate correction than restrain it where it is necessary." שׁחר means to go out early to anything, according to which a Greek rendering is ὀρθρίζει (Venet. ὀρθριεῖ) αὐτῷ παιδείαν: maturat ei castigationem = mature eum castigat (Fl.). שׁחר does not denote the early morning of the day (as Rashi, לבקרים), but the morning of life (as Euchel, בשׁחר ימיו). "The earlier the fruit, the better the training." A father who truly wishes well to his son keeps him betimes under strict discipline, to give him while he is yet capable of being influenced the right direction, and to allow no errors to root themselves in him; but he who is indulgent toward his child when he ought to be strict, acts as if he really wished his ruin.
Jamieson-Fausset-Brown Bible Commentary
spareth--or, "withholds." rod--of correction. hateth--or, acts as if he hated him (compare Pro 3:12; Pro 8:36). chasteneth . . . betimes--or, "diligently seeks for him all useful discipline."
John Gill Bible Commentary
He that spareth his rod hateth his son,.... Who withholds or withdraws his rod of correction, which is in his hand, which he has power to use, and ought to exercise at proper times; he, instead of loving his son, may be said to hate him; for such fond love is no better than hatred; and, if he really hated him, he could scarcely do a more ill thing by him than not to correct him for a fault; which was the sin of good old Eli, and both he and his sons suffered for it; but he that loveth him; that has a true love for his son, and a hearty concern for his welfare and future good; he will regulate his affections by his judgment, and not give way to a fond passion, to the prejudice of his child: but he chasteneth him betimes, or "in the morning" (x); in the morning of his infancy, before vicious habits are contracted, or he is accustomed to sinning, and hardened in it; or as soon as a crime is perpetrated, before it is forgot or repeated: or every morning, as Jarchi and Aben Ezra; that is, continually, as often as it is necessary, or as faults are committed. (x) "mane castigat eum", Munster; "matutinat ei disciplinam", Michaelis.
Matthew Henry Bible Commentary
Note, 1. To the education of children in that which is good there is necessary a due correction of them for what is amiss; every child of ours is a child of Adam, and therefore has that foolishness bound up in its heart which calls for rebuke, more or less, the rod and reproof which give wisdom. Observe, It is his rod that must be used, the rod of a parent, directed by wisdom and love, and designed for good, not the rod of a servant. 2. It is good to begin betimes with the necessary restraints of children from that which is evil, before vicious habits are confirmed. The branch is easily bent when it is tender. 3. Those really hate their children, though they pretend to be fond of them, that do not keep them under a strict discipline, and by all proper methods, severe ones when gentle ones will not serve, make them sensible of their faults and afraid of offending. They abandon them to their worst enemy, to the most dangerous disease, and therefore hate them. Let this reconcile children to the correction their good parents give them; it is from love, and for their good, Heb 12:7-9.
Tyndale Open Study Notes
13:24 Punishment is sometimes necessary to motivate instruction. Discipline is a product of love, whereas refusal to discipline one’s child is a sign of laziness (see also 19:18; 23:13-14; 29:17).
Proverbs 13:24
A Father’s Discipline
23Abundant food is in the fallow ground of the poor, but without justice it is swept away. 24He who spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him disciplines him diligently.
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(Biblical Family) Child Training
By Voddie Baucham5.7K49:20DEU 6:6PRO 13:24PRO 22:15PRO 23:13PRO 29:15MAT 6:33EPH 6:4In this video, the speaker emphasizes the importance of training and teaching others to preach the word of God effectively. He encourages a hands-on approach, where the speaker acts as a stranger and the trainee practices greeting and engaging with them. The speaker also discusses the concept of delayed obedience, highlighting the need for immediate obedience to God's commands. He shares a personal anecdote about confronting someone who was being disobedient and the impact it had on his son. Overall, the video emphasizes the importance of training and obedience in spreading the message of God.
(Godly Home) Part 11 - the Rod Is Love
By Denny Kenaston4.1K41:18Godly Home SeriesPSA 119:32PRO 13:24PRO 19:18PRO 22:6MAT 6:33EPH 6:4HEB 12:6In this sermon, Brother Denny discusses the importance of disciplining children through spanking. He shares a story of a family who struggled to control their children's behavior and eventually decided to implement spanking as a form of discipline. The mother followed Brother Denny's advice and prepared to spank her son, but he pleaded with her to wait. Brother Denny emphasizes the biblical principle of using the rod of discipline to show love and guide children towards obedience. He also highlights the promise of God being our loving father in the new covenant.
(Godly Home) Part 12 - a Sacred Exercise
By Denny Kenaston3.5K40:37Godly Home SeriesPRO 13:24PRO 22:6PRO 29:17MAT 6:33EPH 6:4COL 3:21HEB 12:11In this sermon, Brother Denny discusses the topic of discipline and its importance in raising children. He emphasizes the need to approach discipline with a spirit of love and compassion, rather than anger. Brother Denny encourages parents to take the time to properly discipline their children, even if it may seem like a lengthy process. He also emphasizes the importance of seeking guidance from God and allowing Him to lead in the discipline process. After the spanking, Brother Denny emphasizes the need for affirmation and comforting the child, showing them love and understanding.
God's Truth: Authority and Discipline
By Russell Kelfer1.9K34:01DisciplinePRO 6:20PRO 13:24PRO 15:5PRO 17:25PRO 19:18In this sermon, the preacher emphasizes the importance of God's word and the need for consistency in following through with what is said. He shares a personal anecdote about his son expressing the desire for his father to do what he says. The preacher also discusses the different ways in which God disciplines His people, sometimes withholding blessings or rewards. He highlights the influence of various societal institutions, such as the media, education, counseling, and entertainment, in promoting worldly standards. The sermon concludes with a reminder that God has a purpose for every individual and that discipline is a crucial aspect of spiritual growth.
(Through the Bible) Proverbs 26-31
By Chuck Smith1.6K1:26:06PRO 13:24PRO 29:17REV 22:18In this sermon, the preacher emphasizes that there are several things in life that never say they are enough. He mentions the examples of people dying every day, the barren womb, the dry earth, and fire. The preacher also discusses the consequences of mocking one's parents and disobeying them, using the imagery of ravens and eagles. He then reflects on three things that he finds wonderful but cannot fully understand: the way of an eagle in the air, the way of a serpent on a rock, and the way of a ship in the sea. The sermon concludes with the preacher discussing various aspects of life, including the behavior of an adulterous woman, the disquietude of the earth, the wisdom of small creatures like ants and locusts, the dangers of seeking quick wealth, the importance of rebuking rather than flattering, and the consequences of robbing one's parents and having a proud heart. Throughout the sermon, the preacher references biblical verses to support his points.
12 the Rod Is Love
By Denny Kenaston1.2K46:06PRO 13:24PRO 19:18PRO 22:15PRO 23:13PRO 29:15PRO 29:17EPH 6:4COL 3:21HEB 12:5HEB 12:11This sermon emphasizes the importance of balancing love and discipline in parenting, focusing on the biblical perspective of using the rod to correct children with love. It highlights the significance of not sparing the rod out of love for the child's well-being, the need to start discipline early while there is hope, and the impact of proper correction on shaping children's character and understanding of God's love.
The Christian Home - Part 3 of 5
By John R. Rice1.1K10:04GEN 3:161SA 2:22PRO 13:24EPH 6:4HEB 12:61PE 3:1This sermon emphasizes the importance of authority and responsibility in various aspects of life, drawing parallels between roles like a teacher in a classroom, a judge in a court, and a husband in a family. It discusses the biblical perspective on the roles of husbands and wives, highlighting the husband's leadership and the wife's submission. The sermon also delves into the significance of disciplining children according to biblical principles, stressing the importance of nurturing, admonishing, and chastening them in love.
15. the Bondage of Foolishness
By Denny Kenaston1.1K43:36PRO 3:11PRO 13:24PRO 20:30PRO 22:15PRO 23:13PRO 29:15PRO 29:17EPH 6:4COL 3:21HEB 12:11This sermon delves into the concept of the 'bondage of foolishness' as described in Proverbs 22:15, emphasizing the importance of understanding and addressing the root causes of children's wrong behavior. It highlights the need for parents to discern and address silliness and foolishness in their children, guiding them towards righteousness and obedience through loving discipline. The sermon explores the impact of foolishness on children's conscience and the role of discipline in bringing clarity and revival to their hearts, ultimately leading to peace and joy.
Deferred Obedience 2 - Part 2
By Joshua Daniel1.1K08:44DEU 6:6PRO 13:24PRO 22:6PRO 29:15MAT 21:28EPH 6:1COL 3:20HEB 12:11This sermon emphasizes the importance of obedience, both in the family and in our relationship with God. It highlights the consequences of deferred obedience, irresponsible parenting, and the need for correction and discipline. The story of the two sons in Matthew 21:28-32 is used to illustrate the significance of repentance and obedience in doing the will of the Father.
A Spiritual Life
By Joshua Daniel1.0K14:30Spiritual LifePRO 6:16PRO 11:1PRO 13:24MAT 7:7MRK 4:16In this sermon, the speaker emphasizes the importance of not acquiring money through evil means such as deceit and false balance. He shares a heartbreaking story of a girl whose mother earned money through abortions, highlighting the lack of blessing that comes from such wealth. The speaker then discusses the condition of the heart when receiving the word of God, cautioning against being like those who receive it with gladness but have no root and are easily offended when faced with affliction or persecution. He also addresses the issue of shallow and insincere prayer, urging believers to engage in secret prayer led by the Holy Spirit.
13 a Sacred Exercise
By Denny Kenaston97145:03DEU 6:6PSA 127:3PRO 13:24PRO 22:6PRO 22:15PRO 29:15EPH 6:4COL 3:21HEB 12:11This sermon emphasizes the importance of loving discipline in parenting, highlighting the need for parents to approach spanking as a sacred exercise done in love and compassion. It addresses the dangers of spanking in anger and the significance of instructing, affirming, and praying with the child during the discipline process. The speaker encourages parents to follow God's example of discipline, focusing on building a close relationship with their children through correction and guidance.
I Love You
By Jack Hyles93336:58PRO 13:24HOS 11:4ROM 6:231CO 9:22EPH 5:192TI 4:2In this sermon, the preacher emphasizes the importance of preachers who love their people enough to discipline them when they are in sin. He uses the metaphor of taking cords and whipping the people to correct their behavior. He also mentions the idea of tying the cords to the muzzle and pulling the people towards God's will. The preacher acknowledges the challenges of belonging to a big church and not being able to personally visit everyone. He also mentions a sweet memory of shaking hands with an elderly woman who never thought she would have the opportunity. The sermon is based on a verse from the book of Hosea where God speaks to his people and uses the metaphor of whipping them to correct their behavior. The preacher warns against using worldly language or music and encourages the congregation to speak and sing like Christians should. Overall, the sermon emphasizes the need for discipline and obedience in the Christian life.
Fatherly Exhortation Part 1
By Chuck Smith84225:05ExhortationPRO 13:24PRO 22:14PRO 23:1PRO 23:15PRO 23:17PRO 23:19COL 3:16In this sermon, Pastor Chuck Smith gives fatherly exhortations and advice to his son. He emphasizes the importance of not getting caught up in the crowd of drinkers and gluttons, as it can lead to poverty and clouded judgment. Solomon's instructions to his son also include etiquette when dining with a ruler, cautioning against overindulgence. Pastor Chuck encourages listeners to follow after the things of the Spirit, walk in holiness, and experience the love and power of Christ in their lives.
Crash Course to a Wonderful Family - Part 3
By David Servant53756:59DEU 6:6PRO 13:24PRO 14:1PRO 22:6PRO 31:27EPH 6:4This sermon emphasizes the importance of diligently raising children in the ways of the Lord, highlighting the impact of parental influence on children's faith and righteousness. It stresses the need for parents to prioritize their children over other commitments, to teach God's word consistently, and to model repentance and humility. The sermon also addresses the significance of homeschooling as a means to instill godly values and the importance of setting a godly example for children to follow.
Why Kids Go Wrong?
By David Wilkerson8647:24Parental ResponsibilityDiscipline and LoveDEU 6:6PRO 13:24PRO 22:6PRO 29:15EPH 6:4COL 3:21HEB 12:11David Wilkerson addresses the reasons why children go astray, drawing from his experiences with troubled youth and his own parenting. He emphasizes the lack of parental involvement and discipline, highlighting stories of young people who feel neglected by their parents, leading them to seek acceptance elsewhere. Wilkerson argues that many parents are overwhelmed by their own issues and fail to provide the guidance and love their children need, resulting in rebellion and emotional turmoil. He calls for parents to take responsibility, establish boundaries, and foster open communication with their children, while also urging a return to biblical principles of discipline and love. Ultimately, he stresses the importance of parents being present and engaged in their children's lives to prevent them from falling into destructive behaviors.
Parenting: Raising Up Godly Leaders
By Shane Idleman141:01:30ParentingSpiritual LeadershipPSA 139:23PRO 3:11PRO 4:1PRO 13:24PRO 22:6PRO 22:15PRO 23:13MAT 11:28JHN 14:1COL 3:21Shane Idleman emphasizes the vital role of parenting in raising godly leaders, asserting that everyone influences someone, regardless of their parental status. He encourages listeners to embrace their roles as spiritual leaders, make tough decisions, and discipline their children with love and intention. Idleman highlights the importance of perseverance in parenting, leading by example, and the necessity of prayer in nurturing a godly family. He reassures those who feel regret about past parenting choices that God can restore and redeem their influence. Ultimately, he calls for a commitment to prioritize spiritual growth and character development in the home.
If a Brother Is Found to Be Obstinate
By St. Benedict of Nursia0PRO 13:24MAT 18:151CO 5:11GAL 6:1TIT 3:10HEB 12:6St. Benedict of Nursia emphasizes the importance of discipline and obedience within the community, outlining a process for dealing with a brother who displays obstinance, disobedience, pride, murmuring, or habitual transgression of the Holy Rule. Following the steps laid out by Our Lord in Matthew 18:15, the brother is to be privately admonished twice before facing public rebuke in front of the entire community if he does not amend his ways. If the brother remains unrepentant, he is to be excommunicated, with the option of corporal punishment for those who persist in their defiance.
But the Great Question Remains: How Shall We Win Our Loved Ones to Christ?
By Arthur Vess0PRO 13:24PRO 22:6PRO 22:15MAT 6:331CO 7:16EPH 6:4COL 3:201TI 5:8HEB 12:111PE 3:1Arthur Vess emphasizes the importance of ensuring our own right relationship with Christ before guiding others. He stresses the need for a vibrant Christian life to influence loved ones positively and lead them to Christ through prayer, fasting, and a radiant trust in God. Vess highlights the significance of spiritual instruction, discipline, and restraint in nurturing children's faith. He urges parents to prioritize their children's spiritual well-being, starting early, and continuing to lead them to Christ and keep them saved. Vess also addresses the challenges faced by Christian companions living with unsaved partners, encouraging perseverance and strategic efforts to win them over.
He Comes to His Garden
By Erlo Stegen0Spiritual GrowthIntimacy With GodPRO 13:24SNG 5:1ISA 35:1GAL 5:19Erlo Stegen emphasizes the intimate relationship between Jesus, the Bridegroom, and His people, urging believers to cultivate their spiritual gardens filled with the fruits of the Spirit. He warns against misinterpreting God's love and the consequences of neglecting spiritual growth, using examples of parenting and personal experiences to illustrate the importance of discipline and correction. Stegen highlights that true love for God is reflected in our actions and the fruits we bear, contrasting it with the dangers of living in sin. He challenges listeners to examine their own hearts and gardens, ensuring they are producing the sweet fruits of love, joy, and peace, rather than the thorns of the flesh. Ultimately, he calls for a life that glorifies God, as He seeks to find delight in our spiritual offerings.
Every Age and Degree of Understanding
By St. Benedict of Nursia0PRO 13:24PRO 22:15EPH 6:4HEB 12:11St. Benedict of Nursia emphasizes the importance of discipline tailored to different ages and levels of understanding. He suggests that for individuals like boys, adolescents, or those who may not grasp the severity of excommunication, severe fasts or harsh beatings may be necessary to correct their behavior and bring about a change.
If a Sister Who Has Been Frequently Corrected for Some Fault
By St. Benedict of Nursia0PRO 13:24MAT 18:151CO 5:131CO 7:15JAS 5:16St. Benedict of Nursia emphasizes the importance of discipline and correction within the community, particularly when dealing with a sister who repeatedly fails to amend her ways. He advises escalating measures of correction, starting with exhortation and the Scriptures, then moving to excommunication and physical discipline if necessary. If all efforts fail, he suggests resorting to the powerful remedy of prayer for the sister's restoration. Ultimately, if the sister remains unhealed and disruptive, St. Benedict advocates for the drastic measure of expulsion to protect the community from contamination.
The Guilt and Consequences of Parental Unfaithfulness.
By Edward Payson0DEU 6:61SA 3:13PSA 127:3PRO 13:24PRO 22:6PRO 29:15EPH 6:4COL 3:21HEB 12:7Edward Payson preaches on the consequences of neglecting the moral and religious education of children, using the story of Eli and his sons as a warning. He emphasizes the importance of parents restraining their children from sinful behaviors and providing proper guidance to prevent future ruin. Payson highlights the severe punishments God inflicted on Eli's house for this neglect, including premature death, familial strife, poverty, and eternal damnation. He urges parents to repent for their failures and seek forgiveness through Christ's atoning blood, while warning children of the dire consequences of disobedience and sinful living.
Letters to Parents No. 3
By Charles Finney0ObedienceParentingDEU 6:6PSA 127:3PRO 13:24PRO 22:6PRO 29:15EPH 6:4COL 3:211TI 4:72TI 3:15HEB 12:11Charles Finney emphasizes the critical role of parents in shaping their children's will and character through proper physical and moral training. He argues that parents must first address their children's bodily appetites to prevent the formation of harmful habits and ensure a foundation for temperance. Finney stresses the importance of early intervention to master the child's will, advocating for consistent and firm guidance to instill obedience and submission. He warns against relying solely on reasoning with children, asserting that parental authority must be established first to prepare them for moral truths later in life. Ultimately, he highlights that the effectiveness of moral training is directly linked to the strength of parental influence over the child's will.
Divine Chastening
By James Smith0DEU 8:5JOB 5:17PSA 94:12PSA 119:67PRO 3:11PRO 13:241CO 11:32HEB 12:6HEB 12:10REV 3:19James Smith preaches on the loving discipline of God towards His children, emphasizing that believers are chastened out of love, not punishment, as they are under grace, not the law. God corrects His children for their willfulness, negligence, inattention, rebellions, and worldliness, all to form their character and draw them closer to Him. The Lord chastens His children through various means, such as frowning upon the soul, refusing to answer prayer, leaving them to themselves in ordinances, and through the dispensations of Providence, always with the intention of benefiting them and leading them to holiness.
The Humanity of Jesus Christ
By Erlo Stegen0Obedience to GodThe Value of ChildrenPRO 13:24PRO 23:13MAT 18:6LUK 2:41LUK 19:40Erlo Stegen emphasizes the humanity of Jesus Christ, particularly His childhood and obedience, while addressing the grave issue of abortion in South Africa. He condemns the hypocrisy of those who claim to care for children yet allow the murder of the unborn, urging the congregation to recognize the value of every child. Stegen highlights Jesus' love for children and the importance of teaching them obedience and reverence for God, as exemplified by Jesus' own behavior in the temple. He warns against treating God's house lightly, as this sets a poor example for future generations. Ultimately, he calls for a commitment to instill godly values in children, emphasizing that obedience is paramount.
- Keil-Delitzsch
- Jamieson-Fausset-Brown
- John Gill
- Matthew Henry
- Tyndale
Carl Friedrich Keil and Franz Delitzsch Old Testament Commentary
24 He that spareth his rod hateth his son, And he who loveth him visits him early with correction. The paedagogic rule of God, Pro 3:12, avails also for men, Pro 23:13., Pro 29:15. The rod represents here the means of punishment, the patria potestas. He who spareth or avoideth this, and who does this even from love, has yet no true right love for his son; he who loveth him correcteth him early. With ἐπιμελῶς παιδεύει of the lxx (cf. Sir. 30:1, ἐνδελεχήσει μάστιγας) the thought is in general indicated, but the expression is not explained. Many erroneously regard the suffix of שׁחרו as referring to the object immediately following (de Dieu, Ewald, Bertheau, Zckler); Hitzig, on the contrary, rightly remarks, that in this case we should expect the words to be, after Pro 5:22 (cf. Exo 2:6), את־המּוּסר. He himself, without any necessity, takes שׁחר in the sense of the Arab. skhar, compescere. Hofmann (Schriftbew. ii. 2. 402) is right in saying that "שׁחר is connected with a double accusative as elsewhere קדּם occurs; and the meaning is, that one ought much more to anticipate correction than restrain it where it is necessary." שׁחר means to go out early to anything, according to which a Greek rendering is ὀρθρίζει (Venet. ὀρθριεῖ) αὐτῷ παιδείαν: maturat ei castigationem = mature eum castigat (Fl.). שׁחר does not denote the early morning of the day (as Rashi, לבקרים), but the morning of life (as Euchel, בשׁחר ימיו). "The earlier the fruit, the better the training." A father who truly wishes well to his son keeps him betimes under strict discipline, to give him while he is yet capable of being influenced the right direction, and to allow no errors to root themselves in him; but he who is indulgent toward his child when he ought to be strict, acts as if he really wished his ruin.
Jamieson-Fausset-Brown Bible Commentary
spareth--or, "withholds." rod--of correction. hateth--or, acts as if he hated him (compare Pro 3:12; Pro 8:36). chasteneth . . . betimes--or, "diligently seeks for him all useful discipline."
John Gill Bible Commentary
He that spareth his rod hateth his son,.... Who withholds or withdraws his rod of correction, which is in his hand, which he has power to use, and ought to exercise at proper times; he, instead of loving his son, may be said to hate him; for such fond love is no better than hatred; and, if he really hated him, he could scarcely do a more ill thing by him than not to correct him for a fault; which was the sin of good old Eli, and both he and his sons suffered for it; but he that loveth him; that has a true love for his son, and a hearty concern for his welfare and future good; he will regulate his affections by his judgment, and not give way to a fond passion, to the prejudice of his child: but he chasteneth him betimes, or "in the morning" (x); in the morning of his infancy, before vicious habits are contracted, or he is accustomed to sinning, and hardened in it; or as soon as a crime is perpetrated, before it is forgot or repeated: or every morning, as Jarchi and Aben Ezra; that is, continually, as often as it is necessary, or as faults are committed. (x) "mane castigat eum", Munster; "matutinat ei disciplinam", Michaelis.
Matthew Henry Bible Commentary
Note, 1. To the education of children in that which is good there is necessary a due correction of them for what is amiss; every child of ours is a child of Adam, and therefore has that foolishness bound up in its heart which calls for rebuke, more or less, the rod and reproof which give wisdom. Observe, It is his rod that must be used, the rod of a parent, directed by wisdom and love, and designed for good, not the rod of a servant. 2. It is good to begin betimes with the necessary restraints of children from that which is evil, before vicious habits are confirmed. The branch is easily bent when it is tender. 3. Those really hate their children, though they pretend to be fond of them, that do not keep them under a strict discipline, and by all proper methods, severe ones when gentle ones will not serve, make them sensible of their faults and afraid of offending. They abandon them to their worst enemy, to the most dangerous disease, and therefore hate them. Let this reconcile children to the correction their good parents give them; it is from love, and for their good, Heb 12:7-9.
Tyndale Open Study Notes
13:24 Punishment is sometimes necessary to motivate instruction. Discipline is a product of love, whereas refusal to discipline one’s child is a sign of laziness (see also 19:18; 23:13-14; 29:17).