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Christian community represents the God-ordained fellowship where believers grow together in love and service, reflecting the unity Christ prayed for (John 17:21). Illustrations often draw on natural images like geese flying in formation or porcupines huddling for warmth to show mutual support, dependence, and harmony essential to the body of Christ (Acts 2:44). This community nurtures spiritual growth, encouragement, and collective mission.

Being Part of Something Bigger

Mark 3:24

James Mattis, a former Marine general who had been recently appointed Secretary of Defense, was being interviewed by reporter Dexter Filkins. The reporter asked Mattis what worried him most in his new position. Filkins expected him to say ISIS or Russia or the defense budget. Instead, Mattis said, “The lack of political unity in America. The lack of a fundamental friendliness. It seems like an awful lot of people in America and around the world feel spiritually and personally alienated, whether it be from organized religion or from local community school districts or from their governments. ... If you lose any sense of being part of something bigger, then why should you care about your fellow-man?”

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The Inner Disintegration of Our Society

Job 4:5

America remains a rich and powerful nation, but millions of our citizens are “wracked with grief and despair,” said David French in NationalReview.com. Stark evidence of that paradox was provided by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention’s latest annual report on American life expectancy, which showed our average span either falling or stagnating for the third consecutive year. The last time we saw a downward trend in life expectancy, America was fighting World War I and suffering through a flu pandemic that killed 675,000. Now drugs and suicide are mostly to blame. The overdose rate is up 356 percent since 1999, and the 2017 death toll — 70,237 — ”far outstrips the total American fatalities in Vietnam.”

For a large swath of our population, the family structure has broken down, amid rampant divorce, children being raised out of wedlock, and young men unable to find jobs that support a family. “We’re facing not so much a drug problem as a heartbreak problem,” said Mona Charen, also in NationalReview.com. With families and social bonds crumbling, an AARP study found one-third of Americans reported chronic loneliness. Isolation is a state “about as deadly as smoking.”

Our country’s problems go deeper than economics, said David Brooks in the New York Times. We’ve had 10 years of economic expansion, and the GDP is currently growing at a robust 3.5 percent a year. Yet many employers can’t find workers with necessary skills, and jobs that provide dignity, and middle-class wages are dwindling. Millions of people suffer "a crisis of connection." In many rural and working-class communities, people are no longer involved in churches and community organizations; they’re less likely to know their neighbors and less likely to get married. It’s not jobs, jobs, jobs or better welfare programs that will save us from this ongoing social catastrophe. It’s human relationships, and a society that cares about people more than money.

Why ‘Being Christian Without The Church’ Fails The Good Friday Test

John 2:4

According to the gospel of John, the cross casts us into community.

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We Americans tend to be a sentimental people. This makes it difficult for us to look directly into the horror, shame, and degradation of a death by crucifixion. When Jesus says to Mary, “Woman, behold thy son” and to John “Behold thy Mother,” we often interpret this saying of our Lord as a sentimental invitation to take good care of your mother. I am a mother, and I definitely want to be taken care of! But this is not what the Fourth Evangelist, John, wants us to understand. In the Fourth Gospel, the mother of our Lord plays a quite different role.

In the side aisle of the chapel where I often worship, there’s a beautiful, unusual altarpiece. It depicts one of John’s memorable stories, the marriage feast at Cana where Jesus says to his mother, “Woman, what have you to do with me? My hour is not yet come” (John 2:4, RSV throughout). In English, this sounds very rude. In Greek it is more respectful, but we notice that Jesus does not call her “Mother,” and she responds to him not as his mother but as one of his followers — one who is beginning to have a glimmer of an idea about who he is.

She says to the servant, “Do whatever he tells you” (v. 5). She is learning to be his disciple. That’s what Mary represents in the Gospel of John. She does not appear again in the Fourth Gospel — except in passing and in company with others — until his hour actually does come and he is crucified. From the cross, once again Jesus calls her “woman” rather than “Mother.” Her identity as Jesus’ mother is not important to John.

In John’s gospel, Mary stands out as a particularly faithful disciple, one who follows Jesus through his ministry from the beginning even to its ghastly end at Golgotha. So when he speaks to her and to the beloved disciple (traditionally John himself) from the cross, he is giving two unrelated believers to one another. He gives his mother to him and him to her in a completely new kinship that infinitely transcends blood kinship. Mary, along with others, becomes a beloved member of the new family brought into being through the power of Christ’s death.

When the time of the Lord’s death approaches, Pilate, not knowing what he is doing, orders an inscription to be nailed up on Jesus’ cross: “The King of the Jews.” It is written in Hebrew, Latin, and Greek (John 19:20). Hebrew is the language of the Jewish nation, but now — in this hour of crucifixion — the King of the Jews is revealed as the King of the empire, the true Ruler of the world and all the people in it. This is the hour of the remaking of the cosmos and the reconciliation of human relationships.

At the same time that his universal kingship is announced, Jesus turns his failing eyesight down to the people standing on the trash-strewn ground covered with blood and human waste and gives these two disciples to one another. These two who remain at the cross represent to us the beginning of the church in the moment of her Lord’s degradation and suffering unto death.

Taking the Gospel and the Epistles of John together, no writings in the New Testament are more concerned with the church than John. You wouldn’t necessarily notice this, however, if you read the Gospel of John without looking for it. Our typical American individualism tends always to focus on the single, supposedly autonomous person, so we typically read the Bible through that lens.

It’s true that for the first two-thirds of the gospel, John features a striking number of personal, intimate conversations between Jesus and single individuals: the Samaritan woman, Nicodemus, the man born blind, Thomas, Martha of Bethany, Mary Magdalene. These stories stand out because they are beautifully crafted by John, a master dramatist. So, most people tend to read the Fourth Gospel that way. But the overwhelming emphasis in John is not on individuals but on the organic connection that Jesus creates among those who put their trust in him.

This theme reaches its apex in chapters 15 and 16, during the last hours of his life on earth, when he teaches, “I am the vine, you are the branches” (John 15:5). There is no other way to be a disciple of Jesus than to be in communion with other disciples of Jesus.

The night before he died, he washed his disciples’ feet and told them, “A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another; even as I have loved you. ... By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another” (John 13:34–35).

He prayed long and earnestly for them, the “high-priestly” prayer of chapter 17: “Holy Father, keep them in thy name, which thou hast given me, that they may be one, even as [you and I] are one” (John 17:11). The love that breaks down barriers, the love that “endures all things” (1 Cor. 13:7), the love that forgets self and focuses entirely on the well-being of the beloved community — that is the love of the Father and the Son for each other and the love of the Son for us.

A beloved British play called “Journey’s End,” about soldiers in World War I, was recently made into a film. It’s an ensemble play with several actors and no stars. Each actor has his own individuality but each has more or less the same time on stage and each is equally important to the whole. In an interview about the now-past Broadway production of the play, one actor remarked: “[Our director] said again and again that everything you do onstage is for someone else, it’s never about you. That was such a wonderful thing to think of.” Isn’t that remarkable?

In American culture, we are urged on a daily basis to be good to ourselves, develop ourselves, believe in ourselves, and yet this actor understands how wonderful it is to think of participating in something that was never just about you, always for the good of the whole. That’s the church when it’s working the way it’s supposed to. This is why Cyprian of Carthage said 1,800 years ago, “You cannot have God as your Father unless you have the Church as your mother.”

These days, especially, it’s easy to dismiss the church out of hand. It can break your heart with its sin. It’s broken my heart a few times. Every day brings some new revelation about the awful things that have been done by the church. It’s much easier to say, as many do, “I can be a Christian without the church.” But this renounces a most basic and fundamental message of Jesus throughout his ministry, one that — as John dramatizes it — shows forth most of all in his death on the cross: He is giving you to me and me to you.

The disciples of Christ today as 2,000 years ago are drawn together in mutual love of our Lord. For all its sins, though they be many, the church is still the body of Christ himself. And there is no limit to the love of Christ that overcomes the sin within his body.

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Fleming Rutledge, an Episcopal priest, spent 21 years in parish ministry before becoming a lecturer, writer, and teacher of other preachers. She is the author of The Crucifixion: Understanding the Death of Jesus Christ (Eerdmans)

Are We Missing The Point of Matthew 18?

Matthew 18

Matthew 18 is about more than church discipline. It’s about flourishing community.

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A pastor learns that a married man is having an affair with a married woman in the same small group Bible study. The fallout is only just beginning. According to Scripture, how should the pastor address this?

Or imagine this: A copastor of a church plant has been increasingly erratic. He’s showing signs of classic narcissism, leaving a wake of damaged people who’ve run afoul of his overbearing leadership. How should his co-pastor handle this?

Or bring it down a level: Two high schoolers in the youth group began showing romantic interest in each other. The boy’s parents were anxious about the situation, so they worked hard to shut it down. As a result, the girl’s parents were hurt and upset. Now there’s escalating tension between the parents, and accusations of wrongdoing are flying from both sides. The pastor is brought in to negotiate. What steps should the pastor take?

Those who’ve been in ministry any length of time don’t have to use much imagination to recognize these scenarios; most pastors have experienced some version of these circumstances. The varieties of sin are infinite but also predictable. It’s not only the poor we will always have with us, as Jesus reminds us, but it’s also humans doing bad stuff — including Christian humans.

A matter of discipline?

Over the past 25 years, I’ve been privileged to serve as both a pastor and a professor — and currently as both at once. In my experience, it’s much more difficult to be a pastor than a professor, largely because of the complexity of interpersonal relationships in the church.

Though conflicts come and go in a congregation, they never go away forever. In just the past year, I can recall multiple instances of hurt feelings, misunderstandings, explosive anxiety, and conflict between Christians in our church — including within the staff. I’ve been brought in to help with some situations, I’ve been aware of others, and I’ve been personally involved in and affected by some.

I shouldn’t be surprised. We shouldn’t be surprised. This is real, regular life together in Christ’s church. Our lives together are conflicted because we’re limited and broken humans but we still must live in community.

Throughout history, the church has used a number of approaches to address these sorts of situations, spanning from excommunication to restoration processes to destructive cover-ups. In many American churches today, great emphasis is put on the need for “church discipline” to deal with sin and its effects. To protect the purity of the church, disciplinary procedures are established to address egregious or ongoing sin.

Central to most teachings on church discipline is one key passage: Matthew 18:15–20. These few verses have become the church discipline text. They’re used as the North Star and map, guiding pastors in the steps necessary to handle moral failure. This is understandable and not completely misguided.

But a careful reading of Matthew 18 gives us a different vision for what Jesus is teaching in these few verses. Rather than viewing this passage strictly in terms of discipline, we can see it as one part of Jesus’ practical and constructive instructions for our normal, conflicted life together in the Christian community. Matthew 18 is about creating flourishing communities far more than it is about handling church problems.

The great book of discipleship

“Context is king, but Jesus is Lord” my son likes to quip, somewhat snarkily quoting one of his professors. The old chestnut of the necessity of literary context is true when it comes to understanding Matthew 18. This famous chapter does not stand alone. It is but one part of what many scholars consider to be the most highly structured book in the entire Bible: the Gospel according to Matthew.

One of the many reasons Matthew has long stood at the head of the New Testament canon is because it provides such a clear and powerful program for shaping people into followers of Jesus. Matthew is the great book of discipleship. This is accomplished through a sophisticated literary structure that’s clearly designed for its disciple-making goal.

In the ancient world, people wrote biographies of great teachers and philosophers to commend their teachings and the models of their lives. This is in essence what our Gospels are: narratives peppered with teaching discourses, inviting people to become disciples of Jesus.

To accomplish his disciple-making goal, Matthew groups the bulk of Jesus’ teaching into five major blocks of instruction (chapters 5–7, 10, 13, 18, and 23–25). Each of these famous discourses is organized around a theme, providing disciple-shaping lessons that are easily memorizable. Jesus’ goal through his teachings is to retrain the sensibilities, loves, habits, behaviors, and thoughts of his followers in accord with God’s coming kingdom as revealed through himself. This is what it means to be a disciple, taking Jesus’ yoke of wisdom on ourselves and learning his very different way of inhabiting the world (11:25–30).

When we recognize that Matthew 18 is but one part of the Gospel’s disciple-making instructions and that the overarching goal of the book is disciple formation, we can read Jesus’ sayings in chapter 18 with greater clarity. Though disciplining erring church members can be an application of Jesus’ instructions, this reading is narrow at best and potentially wrong-headed. The most important thing to understand about Matthew 18:15–20 is that it is not primarily an instruction manual for church discipline but rather a small part of a larger, constructive program meant to shape how Christian disciples live in community.

A household code

My learned and very avuncular uncle always joked that a day is never wasted when you can use a German word. Here’s a good one, from the mind of Martin Luther himself, that aptly describes Matthew’s purpose in chapters 18–20: haustafel, or “household table or code.” A household code gives instructions for how the various members of a larger family unit should relate to each other and what attitudes should be valued and practiced. Other biblical examples of a household code include Ephesians 5:22–6:9 and Colossians 3:18–4:1.

Matthew 18–20 serves the same purpose for the “household” or “family” of the church — for newly formed people of God in Jesus Christ. It explores a variety of interpersonal situations to instruct Christ’s people on who and what they should hold in honor. In this section, we see the value of children and the vulnerable (18:1–14; 19:13–15), the importance of Christian brothers and sisters forgiving each other (18:15–35), God’s high regard for marriage (19:1–12), and the exaltation of those who follow in Christ’s way of suffering over those who are wealthy and externally righteous (19:16–30).

Taken together, these chapters provide a vision for a new way of inhabiting the world together, explained through descriptions of what our relationships should look like. This is the integrated context of Matthew 18:15–20, and we miss it when we view these few verses alone. Jesus’ teaching here is but one example of the unique tenor of relationships within Christ’s church.

The primary mark

This supposed “church discipline” text is really part of the great theme of forgiveness as the primary mark of the Christian community. The central ethical exhortation in Matthew is the call to be merciful. Through modeling merciful action (such as the mercy shown to Mary by Joseph in 1:19) and through Jesus’ direct teachings, Matthew emphasizes Jesus’ calls for his disciples to be people of mercy.

Showing mercy is a two-sided virtue: merciful compassion toward those in need (6:2–4; 9:12–13; 12:7) and merciful forgiveness toward those who have wronged us (5:7, 9; 6:14–15; 18:21–35). And it’s this sense of mercy as forgiving others that’s the primary marker indicating who the followers of Christ are and who are not. In fact, lack of forgiveness is one reason why some might be removed from the church via the outlined steps of 18:15–20 — because they are unwilling to be reconciled to another believer, despite the church body’s exhortation to do so.

This theme of mercy as forgiveness is doubly emphasized by the lengthy parable Jesus tells immediately after 18:15–20. The parable of the unforgiving servant (in vv. 21–35) is one of Jesus’ most heart-convicting and strongly worded teachings. It illustrates and drives home his point: Christians must forgive one another.

It’s not that Matthew 18:15–20 doesn’t address practical ways to deal with sin in Christian community — it does. But when we broaden our reading to take in the full context, we see that discipline is not the driving focus; growing as a community characterized by Christ’s mercy and grace is.

The long game

Throughout Matthew 18–20, we also see the persistent and unavoidable reality of conflict within the Christian community. This passage creates appropriate expectations for our conflicted life together. Jesus’ instructions are necessary because of humans acting badly: disregarding children, causing harm to the vulnerable, divorcing without cause, fighting over who is the greatest, and — most centrally — sinning against each other and failing to forgive each other.

It’s important to note that Jesus does not indicate shock or surprise at these situations. Nor does he expect them not to happen. Rather, Jesus knows this is the normal human experience and, therefore, the normal Christian experience in community.

A flourishing community is not one free of conflict but one where Christians value and practice Jesus’ very different way of being in the world. And this is the main purpose and disciple-making goal of Matthew 18:15–20.

Church health does not mean lack of conflict. Church health looks like Christians corporately handling conflict as a serious and communal matter with the goal of reconciliation. This is Christ’s way.

Thus, pastors can learn to take conflict as given and inevitable. As we all know well, sooner or later, situations needing the wisdom of Matthew 18–20 will occur. The function of these texts is to normalize such experiences within a church community and to give practical steps for living together in the way of love. This driving principle applies to the adulterous affair, the narcissistic pastor, and the fighting parents.

As pastors, we’re called to play the long game of teaching Christ’s people what he values from Matthew 18–20. When conflicts and moral failures of all sorts occur — and they will — we need not be surprised. Instead, we can see these situations as an opportunity to teach Christ’s way.

A pastor can utilize Jesus’ community-oriented steps to seek reconciled relationships. By doing so, we help our people grow as a beautiful alternative community. We model his way of being in the world, serving as the light that shines in the darkness.

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Jonathan T. Pennington is professor of New Testament at Southern Seminary and pastor of spiritual formation at Sojourn East Church in Louisville, Kentucky. He is the author of several books, including Jesus the Great Philosopher.

Why In-Person Church Will Never Go Out of Style

Mark 12:28

Despite more online church options, Philip Yancey says, embodied gathering will always be relevant.

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An Associated Press poll last year reported that three-quarters of churchgoers in the US plan to resume regular in-person attendance as the pandemic subsides.

The pastors I know are looking out at the empty seats with their fingers crossed, hoping that prediction will eventually come true.

I confess that during the lockdown I rather enjoyed watching church services online while lounging in my bathrobe, sipping coffee, and controlling the pace with a remote. If something failed to hold my interest, I could surf the web in search of better music or a more engaging sermon.

I’m not alone. In the United Kingdom, for example, a small percent of the population attends church on average. (The late poet R. S. Thomas, a priest in the Church of Wales, called himself “a vicar of large things in a small parish.”)

Yet a quarter of British adults watched or listened to a religious service during the coronavirus lockdown, and one in 20 said they started praying during the crisis.

As my memoir, Where the Light Fell, recounts, I’ve had a checkered history with the church. As a child, I sat through hellfire-and-brimstone sermons in my Southern fundamentalist congregation — which barred Black congregants from entering and warned against electing a Catholic president (Kennedy).

To recover, I spent a few years away from church before sampling a ‘60s-style house church that substituted the Communion elements of bread and wine for Coke and potato chips.

Eventually, I settled into a more traditional church in Chicago that combined a spirit of grace with an emphasis on social justice. Moving to a small town in Colorado, however, limited my options. The church I now attend once attracted a thousand regulars — but after church splits and attrition, it currently averages less than 30.

With so many good reasons to tune in remotely, I ask myself why I have returned to the rented hall we use on Sundays.

The most important reason, of course, is to worship God. The weekly gathering underscores my creaturely status as one in need of a higher moral authority. Great souls like Martin Luther King Jr., Václav Havel, and Simone Weil have reminded us that what we believe about a Creator can largely determine how we treat fellow humans — especially the marginalized — as well as our planet.

Jesus summarized the entire law in two commands: Love God and love your neighbor. I may fulfill the first one in the privacy of my home, but what about the second? “If you want to grow in love, the way to do it is not likely going to be by attending more Bible studies or prayer meetings; it will happen by getting close to people who are not like you,” writes the Canadian pastor Lee Beach.

When I walk into a new church, the more its members resemble me and each other, the more uncomfortable I feel. One Sunday I sat sandwiched between an older man hooked up to a puffing oxygen tank and a breastfeeding baby who grunted loudly and contentedly throughout the sermon.

Church offers a place where infants and grandparents, unemployed and executives, immigrants and blue bloods can all assemble together. Where else can we find that unique mixture? Certainly not online.

Not only that, but healthy congregations look beyond their walls to address the social needs around them. For all its flaws, the church still mobilizes workers to feed and shelter homeless people, adopt foster children, visit prisoners, and resettle refugees.

In Bowling Alone, Harvard political scientist Robert Putnam noted that “Nearly half of all associational memberships in America are church-related, half of all personal philanthropy is religious in character, and half of all volunteering occurs in a religious context.”

Rather than providing an entertainment venue, the church’s real task is to equip a community to serve others — and that task becomes more challenging for those who no longer meet in person. I’ve noticed that sharp divisions over politics tend to fade in the background when believers join together in acts of service. Indeed, a true community can begin to take shape.

As I worked on my memoir, I came to view church like a family — a dysfunctional cluster of needy people. I think back to members of my childhood church, who showed up each Sunday to hear the pastor threaten them with hell, punishment for sins, and imminent Armageddon. They came in part from fear, but also because, like a family, they needed each other to withstand the assaults of life.

Many of them were members of the working class. They didn’t sit at home evenings fretting over the fine points of theology; they worried about how to pay bills and feed the kids. When a family’s house burned down, or a drunken husband locked his wife out, or a widow couldn’t afford her groceries, they had nowhere to turn but their local church.

Since those childhood days, I have encountered many grace-dispensing churches that serve needs beyond those of their members. Admittedly, the pews are less comfortable than the chairs in my living room, and the quality of the worship service can’t match the slick productions I watched during the pandemic’s lockdown periods.

What they do tend to have, though, is a strong sense of community — something all too rare in our individualistic society.

A Different Discipleship

Luke 7

Biblical discipleship breaks out of the spiritual realm and transforms the world around it.

1. Making a Difference Through Active Discipleship

2. Being a Difference Through a Life of Prayer

3. Being a Difference Through Life-Transforming Community

4. Living Out Lordship

5. Transforming Our Values

6. A New Year, A New Discipleship

from Discipleship Journal · Tom Sine via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database communityprayerchange

No Greater Connection

Acts 2:44

There are some communities that tragically seem to miss something in their communing. A support group can be a place where a person can delve deeper into the behavior that isolates them. Websites are reportedly linking strangers together who are, in turn, simultaneously committing suicide. Moreover, the sheer number of online confessionals reveals the need for a community where one can be real about plaguing guilt, failures, and offenses. Members express a need for the fellow humanness of a flawed community, and at the same time a need to remain, in some ways, inhuman — unknown, nameless, faceless.

Brandon's is a name and a story to pause over. The 21-year-old died in the privacy of a chat room full of people who watched by web-cam as he killed himself with drugs and alcohol. Their conversation was disquieting, left behind in a hauntingly silent script. Voices cheered him to pass out on screen. Brandon responded with his phone number. “Call if I look dead,” he said. But even after he passed out, they spoke as if he was something less than real. “He's dead,” said someone. “Happy trails,” said another. “Should I call 911?” “No!” they agreed in unison.

After this tragedy, columnist Leonard Pitts, Jr. wrote in shock of Brandon's story and what seemed to be the telltale signs of yet another failed community: the virtual community. The very community, he reminded, we were promised at “the dawn of the Internet Age, the one that would link all humankind in brotherhood, sisterhood, enlightenment.”(1) Such connectedness clearly failed Brandon. Even if his friends had called for help, they didn't know his real name.

Beneath the promises of our successfully linked world, a poignant undertow of despair is noticeably emerging. We are living in a lonely world, in a very needy world, and the need for true community and meaningful connectedness has never been more piercingly heard and severely felt. When the diaries of the famed atheist, Madeline Murray O'Hare were auctioned off several years ago, they found three times punctuated in her journals the words: “Will somebody somewhere please love me? Will somebody somewhere please love me?”

What heart is not stirred at those words? Our longing for meaningful connections is real, and it is a longing that runs deeper than any one area of our lives. We are looking for connections of the heart, soul, and mind.

The same teacher who said the greatest commandment on earth is to love God with all of our strength and our being, once held a child in front of him and said, “I tell you the truth, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Therefore, whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven. And whoever welcomes a little child like this in my name welcomes me” (Matthew 18:2-5).

Little children love readily with all of themselves. Perhaps their connections and unity are most genuine because the mind has not yet been deterred by suspicion, disappointment, and pride. Their hearts grasp something about communing we often do not. G.K. Chesterton, who said he learned more by watching children than any philosophy book, once observed that children have in their ownership the obscure idea of loyalty even to a thing. The child who has gone to bed without his toy does not only feel that he is sad without it. He also feels in some transcendental way that the toy is sad without him.

Christ urges us to see that those who will be like children, like men and women aware that the love we seek also seeks us, will find the kingdom of God. The very community we long for is governed by one who longs for us to be there. His pursuit of our hearts, minds, and souls is the reality that brings meaning into every area of life.

The most meaningful connection we can understand is the connection between the living God and his created children. If He is the shepherd willing to leave the flock to go out searching for the one who has strayed, there is nowhere we can flee from his presence; there is never a time we won't belong. The arms of Christ were out-stretched with you in mind. There is no greater love, no greater connection.

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1. Detroit Free Press, “Another link to connect us doesn't work.” Feb. 12, 2003.

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Copyright © 2005 Ravi Zacharias International Ministries (RZIM). Reprinted with permission. "A Slice of Infinity" is a radio ministry of Ravi Zacharias International Ministries.

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The Bible In A POW Camp

John 3:15

Where Jesus Christ is believed and trusted a profound change takes place in the individual, and ultimately, the community.

One of the most moving illustrations of this is told by Ernest Gordon, a former chaplain at Princeton University. During World War II he was captured by the Japanese and sent to a POW camp in Malaysia. The American prisoners of the camp came to the point where they were reduced almost to animals. They were starving, and they stole food from their buddies who were starving.

In their desperation the prisoners decided it would be good to read the New Testament. Because Gordon was a college graduate, they asked him to lead. By his own admission he was a skeptic, an agnostic. Those who asked him to lead were unbelievers as well.

As he read to them from the New Testament, these men were converted to the living God through Jesus Christ. This community of animals was changed into a community of love, because God lives, and he lives in Jesus Christ.

[see also HolwickID #1795 and #6131]

from Rev. David Holwick, Old Sermon (originally Christianity Today?) · Serm690h.pco via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database lovecommunity

The Dog, the Cock, and the Fox

A DOG and a Cock being great friends, agreed to travel together. At

nightfall they took shelter in a thick wood. The Cock flying up,

perched himself on the branches of a tree, while the Dog found a bed

beneath in the hollow trunk. When the morning dawned, the Cock, as

usual, crowed very loudly several times. A Fox heard the sound, and

wishing to make a breakfast on him, came and stood under the branches,

saying how earnestly he desired to make the acquaintance of the owner

of so magnificent a voice. The Cock, suspecting his civilities, said:

"Sir, I wish you would do me the favor of going around to the hollow

trunk below me, and waking my porter, so that he may open the door and

let you in." When the Fox approached the tree, the Dog sprang out and

caught him, and tore him to pieces.

When Christians work and worship together, they will be far more

capable to defeat the snares of Satan.

The Lion and the Three Bulls

THREE BULLS for a long time pastured together. A Lion lay in ambush

in the hope of making them his prey, but was afraid to attack them

while they kept together. Having at last by guileful speeches

succeeded in separating them, he attacked them without fear as they

fed alone, and feasted on them one by one at his own leisure.

Where there is union, there is strength. For this reason, Christians

should remain united so that Satan won't succeed in attacking them or

the Church.

How Big Is Your Family?

Acts 17:28

Sermon in Family series. Importance of community and wider relationships.

Acts 17:28

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HOW BIG IS YOUR FAMILY?

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I. Genuine "Family Values."

A. Modern life reduces us to tiny bits.

B. We need a wider sense of family.

C. How big is your family?

II. Nuclear family.

A. Very basic unit.

B. Never meant to stand alone.

C. Parents and In-laws. Gen 2:24

III. Neighborhood / community / world. Acts 17:28

A. Christians are often "us against them."

B. Unity of humanity is desirable and God's will. 1 Tim 4:10,

Lev 19:33-34

IV. Christians should be "world people." John 3:16

A. Have the broadest concept of who can be in your family.

B. Christians should set example of service.

C. Recent example in our church.

V. The best family of all is the family of God.

A. Jesus says God's family is more important than human family.

B. People come to church for relationships.

C. Are you part of family of God? John 1:12-13

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A 'Religion For Atheists'?

For many atheists, a belief in a supreme being is not only foolhardy, but it also is dangerous. According to these disciples of unbelief, the religious doctrines that flow from the idea of God -- particularly from the adherents of Christianity -- are chiefly responsible for most of the ills on earth.

Alain de Botton does not agree with many of his fellow atheists on the subject of religion. In fact, the Swiss-born, London-dwelling author believes many teachings found in religion hold the keys to a better world.

In his most recent book, “Religion for Atheists: A Non-Believer’s Guide to the Uses of Religion,” de Botton, “suggests that rather than mocking religion, agnostics and atheists should instead steal from it -- because the world’s religions are packed with good ideas on how we might live and arrange our societies,” according to a description on Amazon.com.

In de Botton’s view, religion was “invented to serve two central needs which continue to this day and which secular society has not been able to solve with any particular skill....”

The first of the two needs de Botton acknowledges is “the need to live together in communities in harmony, despite our deeply rooted selfish and violent impulses.”

De Botton believes the second necessity of mankind is “the need to cope with the terrifying degrees of pain which arise from our vulnerability to professional failure, to troubled relationships, to the death of loved ones and to our decay and demise.”

In grappling with these needs, de Botton attempts to deal with age-old questions for which the belief system known as atheism has no real answers.

“The real issue is not whether or not God exists,” he writes, “but where to take the argument once one decides that he evidently doesn’t.”

“Religion for Atheists” is de Botton’s attempt to create a moral construct for a society where God does not exist -- amorality that he believes is a necessity based on human need.

“The premise of this book,” writes de Botton, “is that it must be possible to remain a committed atheist and nevertheless find religions sporadically useful, interesting and consoling -- and be curious as to the possibilities of importing certain of their ideas and practices into the secular realm.”

Apart from “Religion For Atheists” and perhaps because of the book, de Botton has authored a brief “Manifesto for Atheists” where he espouses 10 virtues that would help better society,: Resilience, Empathy, Patience, Sacrifice, Politeness, Humor, Self-Awareness, Forgiveness, Hope and Confidence.

De Botton’s list is far from original. The Bible exhorts us to embrace theses virtues. However, I find one articulated by de Botton particular interesting, especially against the backdrop of atheism. In explaining the reason for hope, de Botton writes, “Pessimism isn’t necessarily deep, nor optimism shallow.” Remember, according to de Botton, one of the needs of humans is to cope with the many pains of life, such as the death of a loved one and the realization of one’s own demise.

I commend de Botton’s attempt to be respectful to religion -- Christianity in particular. However, it is precisely here that I believe his ideas hit a snag.

When one rejects the existence of God, the reality of a Creator is utter nonsense. Hence, all that is in the earth, including human beings, is the product of matter or energy shaped by chance. There is no other explanation for the atheist.

So, if man is nothing more than a creature that has won the “evolutionary lottery,” why does he need hope? More precisely, how does one convey hope to a being that has come into existence purely by evolutionary chance?

What hope does atheism offer the parents who find their infant lifeless in its crib, a victim of SIDS? What hope does it offer a person dying of cancer?

For hope to have any meaning at all it must be anchored in something. For the Christian, hope is rooted in a God who loves fallen mankind and offers eternal redemption. The visible manifestation of this hope is found in Jesus’ righteous life, sacrificial death and subsequent resurrection.

A creature shaped by chance really has no hope or meaning, other than to live life the way he or she sees fit.

If there is no God, why should I care about someone’s subjective list? Why should I be polite or patient? Why should I forgive? If life is short and it is all I have, then why should I care about anybody but myself? After all, we live in a world that insists truth and virtue are subjective and relativistic. Hence, one man’s virtue can well be seen by another as weakness. So if I can get what I want by being rude, why be polite?

This is not to say there are not good and moral atheists by a society’s standard. There are. This also is not to say there are those who claim belief in God and who do not follow the virtues articulated in the Bible. However, for the followers of Christ, there is a constant standard and accountably.

The ultimate “why” for the follower of Christ for seeking virtue lies in the fact that he or she has been redeemed. The sincere Christian understands that he or she has been transformed by God’s love. Gratitude for this transformation results in a desire to live out the divine virtues articulated in the Bible.

In de Botton’s view, it seems we might well be devolving. By “inventing” God and the virtues so helpful to the individual and society, it would seem our more “primitive” ancestors had a greater insight into human psychology and sociology than do we in sophisticated modern society. Either that, or they knew God.

One For All, and All For One

Job 5:17

Mike Strank, one of the famous Iwo Jima flagraisers, was brought up by a strict Czechoslovakian father in the mining districts of Pennsylvania. Vasil abided by a strict Old World value system. Discipline was paramount. When one of the boys had misbehaved, the mother would report it to Vasil upon his return home at night, and he would wake up a few hours later, along with the boys, to administer punishment.

Vasil insisted on a special rule for this punishment: No matter which boy had committed the offense, all three would be disciplined equally. In this way, Vasil thought, he could transfer the burden of discipline from himself to the boys; make them see that they had a shared interest in the good behavior of each.

Vasil probably did not know that he had intuited one the fundamental principles of military training; in particular, Marine training. Roughly fifty percent of procedure in a Marine basic-training program is about disconnecting the young American boy from his concept of himself as a unique individual, a lone operator. He is remolded into an integer in a team. Share responsibility - an abiding sense of the unit - is essential to survival in combat. Thus, if a recruit should faint from exhaustion during a forced march, the rest of this unit is trained to run in circles around his body until he comes to. Equal discipline.

A 'Religion For Atheists'?

For many atheists, a belief in a supreme being is not only foolhardy, but it also is dangerous. According to these disciples of unbelief, the religious doctrines that flow from the idea of God -- particularly from the adherents of Christianity -- are chiefly responsible for most of the ills on earth.

Alain de Botton does not agree with many of his fellow atheists on the subject of religion. In fact, the Swiss-born, London-dwelling author believes many teachings found in religion hold the keys to a better world.

In his most recent book, “Religion for Atheists: A Non-Believer’s Guide to the Uses of Religion,” de Botton, “suggests that rather than mocking religion, agnostics and atheists should instead steal from it -- because the world’s religions are packed with good ideas on how we might live and arrange our societies,” according to a description on Amazon.com.

In de Botton’s view, religion was “invented to serve two central needs which continue to this day and which secular society has not been able to solve with any particular skill....”

The first of the two needs de Botton acknowledges is “the need to live together in communities in harmony, despite our deeply rooted selfish and violent impulses.”

De Botton believes the second necessity of mankind is “the need to cope with the terrifying degrees of pain which arise from our vulnerability to professional failure, to troubled relationships, to the death of loved ones and to our decay and demise.”

In grappling with these needs, de Botton attempts to deal with age-old questions for which the belief system known as atheism has no real answers.

“The real issue is not whether or not God exists,” he writes, “but where to take the argument once one decides that he evidently doesn’t.”

“Religion for Atheists” is de Botton’s attempt to create a moral construct for a society where God does not exist -- amorality that he believes is a necessity based on human need.

“The premise of this book,” writes de Botton, “is that it must be possible to remain a committed atheist and nevertheless find religions sporadically useful, interesting and consoling -- and be curious as to the possibilities of importing certain of their ideas and practices into the secular realm.”

Apart from “Religion For Atheists” and perhaps because of the book, de Botton has authored a brief “Manifesto for Atheists” where he espouses 10 virtues that would help better society,: Resilience, Empathy, Patience, Sacrifice, Politeness, Humor, Self-Awareness, Forgiveness, Hope and Confidence.

De Botton’s list is far from original. The Bible exhorts us to embrace theses virtues. However, I find one articulated by de Botton particular interesting, especially against the backdrop of atheism. In explaining the reason for hope, de Botton writes, “Pessimism isn’t necessarily deep, nor optimism shallow.” Remember, according to de Botton, one of the needs of humans is to cope with the many pains of life, such as the death of a loved one and the realization of one’s own demise.

I commend de Botton’s attempt to be respectful to religion -- Christianity in particular. However, it is precisely here that I believe his ideas hit a snag.

When one rejects the existence of God, the reality of a Creator is utter nonsense. Hence, all that is in the earth, including human beings, is the product of matter or energy shaped by chance. There is no other explanation for the atheist.

So, if man is nothing more than a creature that has won the “evolutionary lottery,” why does he need hope? More precisely, how does one convey hope to a being that has come into existence purely by evolutionary chance?

What hope does atheism offer the parents who find their infant lifeless in its crib, a victim of SIDS? What hope does it offer a person dying of cancer?

For hope to have any meaning at all it must be anchored in something. For the Christian, hope is rooted in a God who loves fallen mankind and offers eternal redemption. The visible manifestation of this hope is found in Jesus’ righteous life, sacrificial death and subsequent resurrection.

A creature shaped by chance really has no hope or meaning, other than to live life the way he or she sees fit.

If there is no God, why should I care about someone’s subjective list? Why should I be polite or patient? Why should I forgive? If life is short and it is all I have, then why should I care about anybody but myself? After all, we live in a world that insists truth and virtue are subjective and relativistic. Hence, one man’s virtue can well be seen by another as weakness. So if I can get what I want by being rude, why be polite?

This is not to say there are not good and moral atheists by a society’s standard. There are. This also is not to say there are those who claim belief in God and who do not follow the virtues articulated in the Bible. However, for the followers of Christ, there is a constant standard and accountably.

The ultimate “why” for the follower of Christ for seeking virtue lies in the fact that he or she has been redeemed. The sincere Christian understands that he or she has been transformed by God’s love. Gratitude for this transformation results in a desire to live out the divine virtues articulated in the Bible.

In de Botton’s view, it seems we might well be devolving. By “inventing” God and the virtues so helpful to the individual and society, it would seem our more “primitive” ancestors had a greater insight into human psychology and sociology than do we in sophisticated modern society. Either that, or they knew God.

The Dangers of Online Escapism

The irony could not possibly be crueler. A South Korean couple let their 3-month-old baby starve to death at home while they spent all their time at Internet cafes — raising a virtual child.

The British Telegraph reports, “Leaving their real daughter at their home in a suburb of Seoul to fend for herself, the pair, who were unemployed, spent hours role-playing in [a] virtual reality game, which allows users to choose a career and friends, granting them offspring as a reward for passing a certain level.”

Kim Yoo-chul and Choi Mi-Sun would go home once a day to give their real baby powdered milk, and then go back to lavish care and attention on their online child. The virtual daughter was named Anima; the real daughter was never given a name.

Finally, they came home one day after a 12-hour session to find their baby dead. They were arrested after an autopsy showed that the unnamed little girl had died of prolonged malnutrition.

Tragically, on the other hand, the virtual girl is probably doing just fine.

Like me, you’re probably feeling a little sick to your stomach and outraged, and wondering what on earth could possess parents to do such a crazy thing. It’s tempting to write them off as just plain crazy, or some kind of extreme example of Internet addiction or other mental illness. But the disturbing fact is that every one of us who has ever indulged in any kind of prolonged escape from reality carries the seeds of this kind of addiction inside us.

William Saletan puts it this way in the online magazine, Slate: “Look in the mirror. Every time you answer your cell phone in traffic, squander your work day on YouTube, text a colleague during dinner, or turn on the TV to escape your kids, you’re leaving this world. You’re neglecting the people around you, sometimes at the risk of killing them.”

Saletan explains that gaming websites aren’t just games, they’re worlds — and those worlds “are becoming ever more compelling.” When real life gets to be too much to take, we can now log on to a world where everything goes smoothly and circumstances are easy to control. So we become more and more susceptible to being lured out of the real world into the artificial ones.

And this latest story isn’t the only example of the tragic results of that kind of escapism. Saletan notes, “At least two Korean men have died of exhaustion after round-the-clock video-game marathons. Another man, nagged by his real-world mother, allegedly resolved the dilemma by killing her. The dead baby is just another casualty of this war between the worlds.”

Virtual community is no substitute for real community — the kind of community we’re called on to help create in our families, churches, and neighborhoods.

These examples just show how dangerous it can be when we forget that responsibility. If it’s true that we’re facing a war of the worlds, Christians must take a stand for real life and real community. Reality may be messy and uncontrollable, but it’s a priceless gift given to us by our Creator — and so much more fulfilling than any fake world, or fake family, ever could be.

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Copyright (c) 2010 Prison Fellowship Ministries. Reprinted with permission. "BreakPoint with Chuck Colson" is a radio ministry of Prison Fellowship Ministries.

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Random Acts of Civility: More Than Just Polite Talk

Luke 1:58

If you think “civility” means behaving nicely in the public square, well, you’re only half-right.

Chuck Colson knew how to throw sharp elbows at his opponents back when he worked for the Nixon White House. But after his conversion to Christ, he quickly grasped the imperative to reach across the aisle to people of good will in order to get things done for the kingdom.

That’s how Nixon’s one-time “hatchet man” became known as a champion of civility, of speaking gently and leaving the big stick at home. As he said, “One condition necessary for living together as a people is to treat one another with a certain level of respect ... To attack people verbally or to threaten them with violence for their reasoned opinions runs counter to maintaining a healthy society. It makes rational discourse impossible. It’s knocking at the door of barbarism.”

But Chuck also knew that barbarism overtakes a society not just because of the bad things that are done, but because of good things left undone. Civility means the building up of a civil culture, and it can’t become a reality without intentionally doing the many small, positive acts too. Edmund Burke famously said “To be attached to the subdivision, to love the little platoon we belong to in society, is the first principle ... of public affections. It is the first link in the series by which we proceed toward a love to our country and to mankind.”

Unfortunately, that sense of attachment is withering among many young people today, who are largely connected to rectangles instead, or more specifically, the small virtual communities of friends and family members. As a result, more than eight in ten don’t trust other people or social institutions.

Andrew Reiner, who teaches at Towson University, wants to help his students break out of these “hyperconnected cocoons.” So he gave them two unusual class assignments: (1) Consciously commit civil acts over five days. (2) Have dinner with a stranger. Reiner said that these requirements downright scared and offended some of his young scholars.

As he wrote in the Washington Post, “This is a generation terrified of looking up from the cellphone for fear of appearing out of the loop or having a real conversation where the muck of real emotions can’t be sterilized. If they continue to hide in fiber-optic fortresses, how will they ever build real community with strangers?”

How high are the walls of these fiber-optic fortresses? Reiner notes that 30 percent of millennials are on the Web up to 18 hours a day. And he quotes a 2009 Pew study which reports that “users of social networking services are 30 percent less likely to know at least some of their neighbors.”

So how did Reiner’s students do? Well, it’s complicated! One encouraged a complete stranger who was having a roommate problem. Another gave out “free hugs” but was surprised at how few people actually wanted them. Many students just simply resented the assignments. Some even said Reiner was crazy. One verbalized what so many were unwilling to say about why they were holding back: “Honestly? We’re just terrified of being rejected and looking uncool,” he said.

Reiner offers an example of what building community and civility should look like: the late Fred Rogers, of “Mr. Rogers’ Neighborhood.” Rogers said that a commitment to building community is an act of heroism. “We live in a world in which it’s easy to say, ‘It’s not my child, not my community, not my world, not my problem’ “ he said. But “then there are those who see the need and respond. Those people are my heroes.”

What would you do if you were sitting in Professor Reiner’s class? What “random acts of civility” would you commit? Are we stuck in our own fiber-optic fortresses?

We know now, thanks to research from Byron Johnson and others, that prison inmates who are engaged in Bible studies and religious services are less likely to get in trouble when they get out. These activities take volunteers — like you and me.

Or how about looking after the elderly neighbor across the street? Maybe the stay-at-home mom next door could use a babysitter every now and again. The possibilities to practice well-rounded civility are nearly endless.

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Copyright (c) 2014 Prison Fellowship Ministries. Reprinted with permission. "BreakPoint" is a radio ministry of Prison Fellowship Ministries.

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Look Who's Talking

Luke 12:29

The Amish are famous for shunning technology. But their secret love affair with the cell phone is causing an uproar.

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Technology is my native tongue. I’m online six hours a day. I have a cell phone, voicemail, fax, laptop, and palmtop. I’m connected - and lately, I’ve been wondering where all this equipment is leading me. I’ve found myself asking a question that’s both disquieting and intriguing: What kind of person am I becoming as a result of all this stuff?

Of course, I’m not the only one asking. And a while ago it occurred to me that, in addition to measuring my reactions against those of others in comparable circumstances, I might learn something entirely new by looking at a civilization of which I am not a member. The Amish communities of Pennsylvania, despite the retro image of horse-drawn buggies and straw hats, have long been engaged in a productive debate about the consequences of technology. So I turned to them for a glimpse of the future.

Amish settlements have become a cliché for refusing technology. Tens of thousands of people wear identical, plain, homemade clothing, cultivate their rich fields with horse-drawn machinery, and live in houses lacking that basic modern spirit called electricity. But the Amish do use such 20th-century consumer technologies as disposable diapers, in-line skates, and gas barbecue grills. Some might call this combination paradoxical, even contradictory. But it could also be called sophisticated, because the Amish have an elaborate system by which they evaluate the tools they use; their tentative, at times reluctant use of technology is more complex than a simple rejection or a whole-hearted embrace. What if modern Americans could possibly agree upon criteria for acceptance, as the Amish have? Might we find better ways to wield technological power, other than simply unleashing it and seeing what happens? What can we learn from a culture that habitually negotiates the rules for new tools?

Last summer, armed with these questions and in the company of an acquaintance with Amish contacts, I traveled around the countryside of Lancaster County, Pennsylvania. Everywhere, there were freshly planted fields, farmhouses with handsome, immaculate barns and outbuildings. At one farm we passed, a woman was sitting a hundred yards from her house on the edge of a kitchen garden. She wore the traditional garb of the conservative Old Order - a long, unadorned dress sheathed by an apron, her hair covered by a prayer bonnet. She was sitting in the middle of the garden, alone, the very image of technology-free simplicity. But she was holding her hand up to her ear. She appeared to be intent on something, strangely engaged.

“Whenever you see an Amish woman sitting in the field like that,” my guide said, “she’s probably talking on a cell phone.”

“It’s a controversy in the making,” he continued. A rather large one, it turns out - yet part of the continuum of determining whether a particular technology belongs in Amish life. They’ve adopted horses, kerosene lamps, and propane refrigerators; should they add cell phones?

Collective negotiations over the use of telephones have ignited intense controversies in the Amish community since the beginning of the 20th century. In fact, a dispute over the role of the phone was the principal issue behind the 1920s division of the Amish church, wherein one-fifth of the membership broke away to form their own church.

Eventually, certain Amish communities accepted the telephone for its aid in summoning doctors and veterinarians, and in calling suppliers. But even these Amish did not allow the telephone into the home. Rather, they required that phones be used communally. Typically, a neighborhood of two or three extended families shares a telephone housed in a wooden shanty, located either at the intersection of several fields or at the end of a common lane. These structures look like small bus shelters or privies; indeed, some phones are in outhouses. Sometimes the telephone shanties have answering machines in them. (After all, who wants to wait in the privy on the off chance someone will call?)

The first Amish person I contacted, I reached by answering machine. He was a woodworker who, unlike some of his brethren, occasionally talked to outsiders. I left a message on his phone, which I later learned was located in a shanty in his neighbor’s pasture. The next day the man, whom I’ll call Amos, returned my call. We agreed to meet at his farmstead a few days later.

I couldn’t help thinking it was awfully complicated to have a phone you used only for calling back - from a booth in a meadow. Why not make life easier and just put one in the house?

“What would that lead to?” another Amish man asked me. “We don’t want to be the kind of people who will interrupt a conversation at home to answer a telephone. It’s not just how you use the technology that concerns us. We’re also concerned about what kind of person you become when you use it.”

The Amish are famously shy. Their commitment to “plain” living is most obvious in their unadorned clothing - Old Order Amish even eschew buttons, requiring humble hooks instead. Any sign of individuality is cause for concern. Until fairly recently, Amish teachers would reprimand the student who raised his or her hand as being too individualistic. Calling attention to oneself, or being “prideful,” is one of the cardinal Amish worries. Having your name or photo in the papers, even talking to the press, is almost a sin.

Like most modern Americans, I assume individuality is not only a fundamental value, but a goal in life, an art form. The garish technicolor shirts and hand-painted shoes I usually wear sometimes startle business audiences who show up for my speaking engagements. My reasoning: If I think for myself, why not dress for myself? Dye technology has given us all these colors, so let’s use ‘em! Still, I didn’t want to make my idiosyncrasies the focus of my visit to Amish country. So I bought a plain blue work shirt, dark blue gabardine pants, and brown shoes. I hadn’t traveled so drably in many years.

Amos runs a factory of sorts in the vicinity of three memorably named Pennsylvania towns: Bird-in-Hand, Paradise, and Intercourse. The sun was setting as I drove slowly down his unpaved driveway. I found myself inside a tableau that must have looked almost exactly the same 200 years ago. Several men and young boys in identical black trousers, suspenders, and straw hats were operating horse-drawn equipment in the fields beyond. One of Amos’s grandsons pointed me to a plain wooden building beside the barn.

The aroma of cows gave way to the pungent smell of diesel fuel and wood chips as I entered the workshop. The whine of a wood-milling machine made it futile to talk. This was not the serene place the words “Amish woodshop” conjure up. My host finished cutting a 12-foot-long plank before we greeted each other. He then lit a kerosene lamp in the small office next to his workshop and invited me in. The office had no modern technology in it, but railroad posters were tacked on the walls, and wooden locomotive models sat on the shelves.

Amos had sawdust and hydraulic fluid in his beard. His blue-gray eyes fastened on me as he bounced back his own questions in reply to my queries. He had received the same eighth-grade education that all Amish youth are given, but it was obvious that Amos did some outside reading. When I asked him to describe his sense of community, he started out, “Hmm, how do you pronounce s-c-e-n-a-r-i-o?”

Amos runs a successful business crafting wooden furniture, which he sells throughout Pennsylvania and beyond - primarily to the “English” (the Amish term for non-Amish). It’s a trade more and more Amish are getting into. Inside Amos’s home there are no telephones, radios, televisions, vacuum cleaners, dishwashers, or other electrical appliances. In his shop, routers, mills, and sanders are powered by specially adapted hydraulic mechanisms connected to a diesel engine located near a large open door, exhausting outside the building.

This was a good case study in Amish reasoning: Far from knee-jerk technophobes, these are very adaptive techno-selectives who devise remarkable technologies that fit within their self-imposed limits. The price of good farmland and the number of Amish families are both increasing so rapidly that in recent decades they have adopted nonagricultural enterprises for livelihood - woodworking, construction, light factory work. This, in turn, has forced the Amish to adopt technologies that can enhance their productivity. And the interface with the English brings its own set of demands: When the State of Pennsylvania refused to certify Amish-produced milk unless it was stirred mechanically and refrigerated according to state health codes, the Amish installed stirring machines and refrigeration - operated by batteries or propane gas.

Amos, like many other Amish craftsmen, uses electricity in his workshop for certain tools. But the electricity does not come from public utility lines. Amos runs a diesel generator to charge a bank of 12-volt batteries. The batteries’ DC charge is then sent through a converter to create homegrown 110-volt “Amish electricity.” To generate more, he has to haul the diesel fuel in from town on his horse-drawn buggy.

To the obvious question why allow Amish electricity but not public electricity, Amos answered slowly and deliberately, “The Bible teaches us not to conform to the world, to keep a separation. Connecting to the electric lines would make too many things too easy. Pretty soon, people would start plugging in radios and televisions, and that’s like a hot line to the modern world. We use batteries and generators because you can use the batteries for only a short time and because you have to fuel and maintain the generator yourself. It’s a way of controlling our use of electricity. We try to restrict things that would lead to us losing that sense of being separate, to put the brakes on how fast we change.”

Despite the reputation today’s Amish have as old-fashioned diehards, their departure from Europe several centuries ago was driven by their success as innovators. They started out as radical religious libertarians - at a time when the price of religious radicalism was martyrdom. Catholics and Protestants were killing each other in a major religious war, but both sides took a serious dislike to these defiant theological purists, known at the time as Anabaptists, for their emphasis on adult baptism. (Today, every Amish household has a copy of MARTYRS’ MIRROR, a text of more than 1,000 pages that details the excruciating and humiliating public executions suffered by Anabaptist martyrs in Switzerland, Germany, and Holland.) The Anabaptists developed a soil technology based on crop rotation, planting clover in their pastures, and sweetening their earth with lime and gypsum; they dramatically increased the yield of their land, and some of them became wealthy.

Ironically, those same Anabaptists helped set the stage for the fast-paced changes of modern life that today’s Amish reject. It was the widespread adoption of Anabaptist practices that eventually produced enough food to free other agricultural laborers, creating the workforce that would be needed for the industrial revolution.

Toward the end of the 17th century, one of the Anabaptist leaders, Jakob Ammann, decided that his Swiss brethren had not been radical enough. Ammann and his followers, who came to be known as “Amish,” broke with traditional Anabaptists, moved to the New World, and started farming in Lancaster County in 1710.

In today’s Pennsylvania Amish country, a group of 20 to 30 families who live near one another constitute a “district.” Each district has a bishop, and the bishops get together twice a year to discuss church matters. This includes raising the recurring questions about which technologies should be permitted in the community, and which banned or regulated.

While the say of the bishops is binding, the Amish come to their decisions quite consensually. New things are not outright forbidden, nor is there a rush to judgment. Rather, technologies filter in when one of the more daring members of the community starts to use, or even purchases, something new. Then others try it. Then reports circulate about the results. What happens with daily use? Does it bring people together? Or have the opposite effect?

Despite the almost organic ebb and flow of this evaluation process, the common goal is constant submission to the judgment of one’s peers. On my visit, I was constantly struck by what seemed an alien conception of community. As a kid I was encouraged to “do my thing” while being nice to others; I’ve lived in five states and dozens of neighborhoods. Amish communities are not just tightly knit and immobile, they’re authoritarian.

Yet there is some room for disagreement; consider how the bishops judged the automobile in the 1960s. Typically, the Amish have large extended families; most have dozens of cousins within walking or buggy distance. Every other Sunday, instead of attending church, the Amish are encouraged to visit relatives and the sick. Over time, it was felt that the automobile was enlarging people’s traveling radius too far beyond their extended family, to diversions and recreations not related to the community, decreasing the social cohesion and personal connection the Amish so cherish. Some bishops accepted the use of the automobile under certain conditions, while others rejected it outright. The Amish are now split into traditional “Old Order” Amish who still stick to horse and buggy, “New Order” Amish who approve use of telephones and powered farm equipment but shun public electricity, and “Beachy Amish,” named for the ‘20s liberal leader Moses Beachy, who permit both public electricity and automobiles.

While all orders now allow diesel engines in the barn to blow silage, their use is still resisted in the fields - the bishops don’t want increased efficiency to interfere with the practice of fathers and sons, mothers and daughters, working together with horse-drawn machinery and handheld implements. Notably, some Old Order Amish allow some diesel-powered equipment in the fields - if it’s hauled by animals. “Does it bring us together, or draw us apart?” is the primary question the bishops ask in considering whether to permit or put away a technology.

The bishops’ rulings can take decades. In daily life, the Amish take their directions in dress, thought, behavior, and custom from a body of unwritten but detailed rules known as the “Ordnung.” Individuals and communities maintain a separation from the world (by not connecting their houses to telephones or electricity), a closeness to one another (through regular meetings), and an attitude of humility so specific they have a name for it (“Gelassenheit”). Decisions about technology hinge on these collective criteria. If a telephone in the home interferes with face-to-face visiting, or an electrical hookup fosters unthinking dependence on the outside world, or a new pickup truck in the driveway elevates one person above his neighbors, then people start to talk about it. The talk reaches the bishops’ ears.

“The Amish employ an intuitive sense about what will build solidarity and what will pull them apart,” says Donald Kraybill, author of THE RIDDLE OF AMISH CULTURE. “You find state-of-the-art barbecues on some Amish porches. Here is a tool they see as increasing family coherence: Barbecues bring people together.” Asked what kinds of questions the bishops will likely raise about cell phones, Kraybill replies, “Are cell phones being used ‘to make a living’ or just for gossip and frivolous chatter? Will permitting cell phones lead to having phones in homes, and where will that lead ... to fax machines and the Internet?”

“We don’t want to stop progress, we just want to slow it down,” several Amish told me. Conversations about technology often turn on where to “hold the line” against the too-rapid advance of innovation. Riding in automobiles to work, but not owning them, putting telephone shanties in fields, requiring battery power instead of electrical lines are all ways of holding the line.

And clearly a lot could be learned about the Amish hold-the-line philosophy by looking at those who either crossed the line or pushed it further out. So I sought out several of the more boldly experimental members of the greater Plain community (Amish and Mennonites and other religious groups sharing a kindred commitment to plain living). In ranging from farmers who ran small enterprises in barnside sheds to well-equipped machine workshops and multimillion-dollar crafts factories, I soon was directed to Moses Smucker, who runs a harness shop in Churchtown, Pennsylvania.

Moses is an early adopter. He didn’t mind if I used his real name, a liberty that has made him the subject of a few other journalists’ stories. When I arrived at his manufacturing headquarters, I took a look at some of the harnesses on display - one of them had a price tag of $12,000. If you’ve ever seen the Budweiser Clydesdales Christmas commercials, you’ve seen harness bells from Moses Smucker’s Churchtown workshop.

In the back of the store, more than a dozen young Amish men were working at modern machinery powered by hydraulics and diesel-generated electricity. Upstairs, I saw a woman in traditional plain clothing seated in front of a personal computer.

Moses Smucker might look like Abe Lincoln, in his black suit and mustache-free beard, but he bore the same time-is-money air of any factory manager taking a few minutes out of a busy day to talk to the press. Where Amos was rough-hewn and wry, Moses seemed shrewd and slick. His office was certainly in a different century from Amos’s. An electronic rolodex and an electric calculator sat atop an old roll-top desk. I noticed a clock in the shape of a horse and buggy. The whip ticked back and forth.

“When I started this business in 1970,” Moses said, “it wasn’t accepted to have a telephone in the building, even in a business. But the telephone began to be accepted through popular disobedience. More businesses put them in and the bishops didn’t stop them.”

Will the bishops also eventually allow phones in the home? I asked.

“When the telephone first came out here, people put them in their homes,” explained Moses. “But they were party lines. One time a woman overheard two other women gossiping about her. She objected. That wasn’t what we wanted for our families or our community, so the bishops met and home telephones were banned.”

I had heard the same story from several other Amish - in fact, this story seemed to be a key part of community mythology. A writer named Diane Zimmerman Umble, who grew up in Lancaster County and had family roots in the Plain orders, traced the story to its origin, a 1986 memoir written by an Old Order Amishman born in 1897. As a graduate student, Zimmerman Umble started investigating Amish community telephones for a course on contemporary social theory, and ended up writing a book on the subject, HOLDING THE LINE: THE TELEPHONE IN OLD ORDER MENNONITE AND AMISH LIFE. Among her findings was the power of anecdote in the Amish decisionmaking process.

Anecdote, of course, is a key currency on the Internet, so I asked Moses if he’d heard stories about it. Although he used a computer in his business, he didn’t believe the Internet as currently constituted would ever be permitted. Based on anecdotal evidence, he said, “It’s too unregulated, there’s too much trash, and there’s a worry people will use it for purposes unrelated to work.”

I asked another Amish workshop owner whom I’ll call Caleb what he thought about technology. He pulled some papers out of a file cabinet, handed them to me, and said, “I share some of this fellow’s opinions,” pointing to a magazine interview with virtual reality pioneer Jaron Lanier. Asked for an opinion he shared with the dreadlocked-and-dashikied Jaron, he replied, “I agree with his statement that you can’t design foolproof machines, because fools are so clever.”

Caleb also discussed the Amish resistance to becoming “modern.” They’re not worried about becoming people without religion or people who use lots of technology, he explained; rather, the Amish fear assimilating the far more dangerous ideas that “progress” and new technologies are usually beneficial, that individuality is a precious value, that the goal of life is to “get ahead.” This mind-set, not specific technologies, is what the Amish most object to.

“The thing I noticed about the telephone is the way it invades who you are,” Caleb said. “We’re all losing who we are because of the telephone and other machines - not just the Amish.”

In HOLDING THE LINE, Zimmerman Umble writes: “Some Old Order people feel that relaxation of telephone rules reflects a movement toward an ‘uncontrollable drift’ which must be halted. Others see these steps as pragmatic choices necessary to hold the community together economically. The paradox in the Old Order story is that the telephone does both: It holds people together by making communication among community members possible, and it separates them from the world and from each other. The telephone is both evil and good.”

Donald Kraybill, who is also provost of Messiah College, on the outskirts of Amish country, believes taboos about telephones are “a symbolic way of keeping the technology at a distance and making it your servant, rather than the other way around.”

Can they make the cell phone a servant? My questions on this score were answered mostly with anecdote. I heard of one Amish man who was going to be late to a chiropractor appointment, so he pulled out his cell phone and called the receptionist from the bus he was on. Zimmerman Umble heard of a Plain order businessman who called his stockbroker from his company car phone, pushing three taboos at once past their boundaries.

Zimmerman Umble pointed out that part of what makes cell phones so handy - the lack of a wire - also poses a special challenge for the Amish. “In the early part of the community discussion, electrical and telephone lines carried substantial symbolic freight,” she said. The wires meant that anyone in the community could easily see who was using electricity and phones. “But now, in the absence of the line, behavior can’t be monitored in the same way. It is harder to maintain separation between home and business when you have a cell phone in your pocket. In that sense it tests the community consensus about what is allowable.”

Calling around cell phone outlets in the Lancaster area, I found a merchant who has been selling cell phones to Plain folk for years. “A great percentage of my customer base is Amish and Mennonite,” the merchant told me. “More Amish than Mennonite. We opened our cellular system 12 years ago. Within the first year, I had an Amish customer. He first called from his neighbor’s house. He owned a painting business and told me he wasn’t allowed to have a cell phone personally, but his bishop said he could buy one for his foreman to use in the company truck. It didn’t take too long before I started getting quite a lot of telephone calls from the Amish.”

This raised quite a few interesting consumer technology questions. Ordinarily, for example, one needs a credit card (and good credit) to secure a cell phone. “The Amish pay in cash,” explained the merchant, who, along with most Amish-friendly shopkeepers, didn’t want his name used. “We normally ask for a driver’s license for the purpose of identification when we activate cellular service - of course, the Amish don’t have driver’s licenses. They weren’t able to get phones for several months, since we weren’t allowed to open accounts without driver’s licenses. So we had to make a policy change to accommodate them. We ended up asking for another form of identification. But the Amish don’t believe in photography, so we couldn’t get a photo ID. Eventually we told them to get Pennsylvania state IDs without photographs.

“I’ve sold hundreds of cell phones to them, primarily business phones,” the merchant continued, adding a few details about how the phones were used. “Some Old Order Amish leave their cell phones in their shanty. Some leave the phone overnight with an English neighbor, who recharges it for them; then the Amish pick up the phone in the morning.”

It’s a pretty safe prediction that when the bishops get around to their formal ruling, cell phones will not be deemed appropriate for personal use. In the 1910s, when the telephone was only beginning to change the world at large, the Old Order Amish recognized that the caller at the other end of the line was an interloper, someone who presumed to take precedence over the family’s normal, sacred, communications. Keeping the telephone in an unheated shanty in a field, or even an outhouse, was keeping the phone in its proper place.

Though the Amish determination to allow phones at work but ban them at home might seem hard to accept, I appreciate the deliberation put into their decision. In fact, similar reflection might highlight conflicts between our own practices and values. How often do we interrupt a conversation with someone who is physically present in order to answer the telephone? Is the family meal enhanced by a beeper? Who exactly is benefiting from call waiting? Is automated voicemail a dark hint about the way our institutions value human time and life? Can pagers and cell phones that vibrate instead of ring solve the problem? Does the enjoyment of virtual communities by growing numbers of people enhance or erode citizen participation in the civic life of geographic communities?

“What does the Old Order story have to say to members of postmodern society?” asks Diane Zimmerman Umble. “The struggle of Old Order groups to mold technology in the service of community provides a provocative model of resistance for those who have come to recognize that technology brings both benefits and costs.... Their example invites reflection on a modern dilemma: how to balance the rights of the individual with the needs of the community. For them, community comes first.”

Indeed, what does one’s use of a tool say to other people, particularly loved ones, about where they stand in our priorities? In my own house, we decided to get a rollover to voicemail instead of call waiting - experiences on the receiving end of call waiting convinced us that both parties on the other end of the line get irritated when you interrupt the conversation. And I’ve come to believe that face-to-face conversation should outrank disembodied conversation via cell phone or email.

I never expected the Amish to provide precise philosophical yardsticks that could guide the use of technological power. What drew me in was their long conversation with their tools. We technology-enmeshed “English” don’t have much of this sort of discussion. And yet we’ll need many such conversations, because a modern heterogeneous society is going to have different values, different trade-offs, and different discourses. It’s time we start talking about the most important influence on our lives today.

I came away from my journey with a question to contribute to these conversations: If we decided that community came first, how would we use our tools differently?

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Howard Rheingold (hlr@well.com) is the author of VIRTUAL REALITY AND THE VIRTUAL COMMUNITY and editor of the MILLENNIUM WHOLE EARTH CATALOG.

Bonhoeffer Still Speaking

Mark 8:34

In the 50 years since he was hanged by Hitler’s henchmen outside Flossenbürg prison, Dietrich Bonhoeffer has achieved impressive crossover appeal among strikingly diverse Christian traditions and has drawn the attention and praise of ethicists -- both secular and religious. Bonhoeffer’s “The Cost of Discipleship” continues to sell at an amazing clip, finding readership on every continent.

But why? What accounts for such sustained and widespread appeal?

The clue may lie in perhaps the most widely know Bonhoeffer quote: “When Christ calls a man, he bids him come and die.” Penned almost three years before his fateful decision to abandon the safety of Manhattan and wade into the murderous vortex of Hitler’s Germany, Bonhoeffer seems to have taken Jesus’ call for self-denial to heart, and succeeding generations of believers continue to take notice.

I suspect that there is something deeply imbedded in the believing soul that must celebrate the offering of a kind of obedience to our Lord that perhaps we ourselves have withheld. We long to see our Savior receive the response His call deserves, even if offered by another. Bonhoeffer seems to meet the yearning in some way. And when we turn to his published writings, Bonhoeffer offers help for 21st century disciples on numerous fronts:

• Authentic discipleship.

First, Bonhoeffer not only lived boldly, but also wrote boldly -- calling for a rediscovery of costly grace, genuine Christian community, self-sacrificing service to the world, and death-defying witness to Jesus Christ. And since he made good on his audacious vision of discipleship by knowingly exposing himself to death and then actually suffering execution, discerning Christians should sit up and take notice. The secret of Bonhoeffer’s continuing appeal can be summarized in one word -- authenticity. He talked the talk and then when the fateful moment came, he walked the walk. Such things do not make a man right every time he writes or speaks on a subject -- but agonized exposure to martyrdom does demand a hearing, and Christians appropriately continue to give Bonhoeffer just that.

• Bible-driven discipleship.

His rediscovery of the Bible out of the fog of pretentious, unbelieving, and eventually abortive higher-critical abuse of the biblical text has borne impressive fruit. Against the hankering after daily divine guidance so prevalent among evangelicals, Bonhoeffer calls us back to the concrete divine instruction in the Bible itself and simple obedience to the clear will of God. Perhaps God is not playing hide-and-seek with His will for our lives after all.

• Discipleship in community.

In a culture increasingly hospitable to isolation and anonymity, Bonhoeffer reminds us that God’s purposes center not on the Christian alone but on the Christian within the church, the body of Christ. Whereas churches compete in a Christian-consumer, winner-take-all landscape that affirms and rewards the spiritual shopper for spiritual products, promising to make him holy, Bonhoeffer proclaims an intrinsically relational discipleship where mutual interdependency between covenant-bound brothers and sisters defines the path to holiness and indeed to Jesus Himself.

• Discipleship, truth and heaven

Finally, at a time when the achievement of felt-relevance stops the mouths of many who detect seeker-sensitive compromise of the Gospel message, Bonhoeffer insists that the issue is not how to make the Gospel relevant to the world but rather to expose how irrelevant we have all become in our rebellion against the living God. Although born to privilege and aristocratic escape hatches of safety and comfort, Bonhoeffer plunges himself into the trials of his people, taking seriously his own status as a pilgrim and stranger on the earth, longing for a city not made by human hands.

We cannot make Bonhoeffer walk and talk like an evangelical -- he was not one. But what Bonhoeffer got right belongs to the entire Church and, I suspect, has special application to evangelicals who point to Scripture as the sole authority for their faith and practice.

When a man risks and then sacrifices his life because of his commitment to Jesus Christ, it does not make him a saint or even right, but it does seize our attention and demand a fair hearing. Bonhoeffer does not disappoint. His life and work continue to stand as welcome challenges to obedient discipleship for us today.

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Mark DeVine is associate professor of Christian Theology at Midwestern Baptist Seminary in Kansas City, Missouri.

Are We Missing The Point of Matthew 18?

Matthew 18

Matthew 18 is about more than church discipline. It’s about flourishing community.

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A pastor learns that a married man is having an affair with a married woman in the same small group Bible study. The fallout is only just beginning. According to Scripture, how should the pastor address this?

Or imagine this: A copastor of a church plant has been increasingly erratic. He’s showing signs of classic narcissism, leaving a wake of damaged people who’ve run afoul of his overbearing leadership. How should his co-pastor handle this?

Or bring it down a level: Two high schoolers in the youth group began showing romantic interest in each other. The boy’s parents were anxious about the situation, so they worked hard to shut it down. As a result, the girl’s parents were hurt and upset. Now there’s escalating tension between the parents, and accusations of wrongdoing are flying from both sides. The pastor is brought in to negotiate. What steps should the pastor take?

Those who’ve been in ministry any length of time don’t have to use much imagination to recognize these scenarios; most pastors have experienced some version of these circumstances. The varieties of sin are infinite but also predictable. It’s not only the poor we will always have with us, as Jesus reminds us, but it’s also humans doing bad stuff — including Christian humans.

A matter of discipline?

Over the past 25 years, I’ve been privileged to serve as both a pastor and a professor — and currently as both at once. In my experience, it’s much more difficult to be a pastor than a professor, largely because of the complexity of interpersonal relationships in the church.

Though conflicts come and go in a congregation, they never go away forever. In just the past year, I can recall multiple instances of hurt feelings, misunderstandings, explosive anxiety, and conflict between Christians in our church — including within the staff. I’ve been brought in to help with some situations, I’ve been aware of others, and I’ve been personally involved in and affected by some.

I shouldn’t be surprised. We shouldn’t be surprised. This is real, regular life together in Christ’s church. Our lives together are conflicted because we’re limited and broken humans but we still must live in community.

Throughout history, the church has used a number of approaches to address these sorts of situations, spanning from excommunication to restoration processes to destructive cover-ups. In many American churches today, great emphasis is put on the need for “church discipline” to deal with sin and its effects. To protect the purity of the church, disciplinary procedures are established to address egregious or ongoing sin.

Central to most teachings on church discipline is one key passage: Matthew 18:15–20. These few verses have become the church discipline text. They’re used as the North Star and map, guiding pastors in the steps necessary to handle moral failure. This is understandable and not completely misguided.

But a careful reading of Matthew 18 gives us a different vision for what Jesus is teaching in these few verses. Rather than viewing this passage strictly in terms of discipline, we can see it as one part of Jesus’ practical and constructive instructions for our normal, conflicted life together in the Christian community. Matthew 18 is about creating flourishing communities far more than it is about handling church problems.

The great book of discipleship

“Context is king, but Jesus is Lord” my son likes to quip, somewhat snarkily quoting one of his professors. The old chestnut of the necessity of literary context is true when it comes to understanding Matthew 18. This famous chapter does not stand alone. It is but one part of what many scholars consider to be the most highly structured book in the entire Bible: the Gospel according to Matthew.

One of the many reasons Matthew has long stood at the head of the New Testament canon is because it provides such a clear and powerful program for shaping people into followers of Jesus. Matthew is the great book of discipleship. This is accomplished through a sophisticated literary structure that’s clearly designed for its disciple-making goal.

In the ancient world, people wrote biographies of great teachers and philosophers to commend their teachings and the models of their lives. This is in essence what our Gospels are: narratives peppered with teaching discourses, inviting people to become disciples of Jesus.

To accomplish his disciple-making goal, Matthew groups the bulk of Jesus’ teaching into five major blocks of instruction (chapters 5–7, 10, 13, 18, and 23–25). Each of these famous discourses is organized around a theme, providing disciple-shaping lessons that are easily memorizable. Jesus’ goal through his teachings is to retrain the sensibilities, loves, habits, behaviors, and thoughts of his followers in accord with God’s coming kingdom as revealed through himself. This is what it means to be a disciple, taking Jesus’ yoke of wisdom on ourselves and learning his very different way of inhabiting the world (11:25–30).

When we recognize that Matthew 18 is but one part of the Gospel’s disciple-making instructions and that the overarching goal of the book is disciple formation, we can read Jesus’ sayings in chapter 18 with greater clarity. Though disciplining erring church members can be an application of Jesus’ instructions, this reading is narrow at best and potentially wrong-headed. The most important thing to understand about Matthew 18:15–20 is that it is not primarily an instruction manual for church discipline but rather a small part of a larger, constructive program meant to shape how Christian disciples live in community.

A household code

My learned and very avuncular uncle always joked that a day is never wasted when you can use a German word. Here’s a good one, from the mind of Martin Luther himself, that aptly describes Matthew’s purpose in chapters 18–20: haustafel, or “household table or code.” A household code gives instructions for how the various members of a larger family unit should relate to each other and what attitudes should be valued and practiced. Other biblical examples of a household code include Ephesians 5:22–6:9 and Colossians 3:18–4:1.

Matthew 18–20 serves the same purpose for the “household” or “family” of the church — for newly formed people of God in Jesus Christ. It explores a variety of interpersonal situations to instruct Christ’s people on who and what they should hold in honor. In this section, we see the value of children and the vulnerable (18:1–14; 19:13–15), the importance of Christian brothers and sisters forgiving each other (18:15–35), God’s high regard for marriage (19:1–12), and the exaltation of those who follow in Christ’s way of suffering over those who are wealthy and externally righteous (19:16–30).

Taken together, these chapters provide a vision for a new way of inhabiting the world together, explained through descriptions of what our relationships should look like. This is the integrated context of Matthew 18:15–20, and we miss it when we view these few verses alone. Jesus’ teaching here is but one example of the unique tenor of relationships within Christ’s church.

The primary mark

This supposed “church discipline” text is really part of the great theme of forgiveness as the primary mark of the Christian community. The central ethical exhortation in Matthew is the call to be merciful. Through modeling merciful action (such as the mercy shown to Mary by Joseph in 1:19) and through Jesus’ direct teachings, Matthew emphasizes Jesus’ calls for his disciples to be people of mercy.

Showing mercy is a two-sided virtue: merciful compassion toward those in need (6:2–4; 9:12–13; 12:7) and merciful forgiveness toward those who have wronged us (5:7, 9; 6:14–15; 18:21–35). And it’s this sense of mercy as forgiving others that’s the primary marker indicating who the followers of Christ are and who are not. In fact, lack of forgiveness is one reason why some might be removed from the church via the outlined steps of 18:15–20 — because they are unwilling to be reconciled to another believer, despite the church body’s exhortation to do so.

This theme of mercy as forgiveness is doubly emphasized by the lengthy parable Jesus tells immediately after 18:15–20. The parable of the unforgiving servant (in vv. 21–35) is one of Jesus’ most heart-convicting and strongly worded teachings. It illustrates and drives home his point: Christians must forgive one another.

It’s not that Matthew 18:15–20 doesn’t address practical ways to deal with sin in Christian community — it does. But when we broaden our reading to take in the full context, we see that discipline is not the driving focus; growing as a community characterized by Christ’s mercy and grace is.

The long game

Throughout Matthew 18–20, we also see the persistent and unavoidable reality of conflict within the Christian community. This passage creates appropriate expectations for our conflicted life together. Jesus’ instructions are necessary because of humans acting badly: disregarding children, causing harm to the vulnerable, divorcing without cause, fighting over who is the greatest, and — most centrally — sinning against each other and failing to forgive each other.

It’s important to note that Jesus does not indicate shock or surprise at these situations. Nor does he expect them not to happen. Rather, Jesus knows this is the normal human experience and, therefore, the normal Christian experience in community.

A flourishing community is not one free of conflict but one where Christians value and practice Jesus’ very different way of being in the world. And this is the main purpose and disciple-making goal of Matthew 18:15–20.

Church health does not mean lack of conflict. Church health looks like Christians corporately handling conflict as a serious and communal matter with the goal of reconciliation. This is Christ’s way.

Thus, pastors can learn to take conflict as given and inevitable. As we all know well, sooner or later, situations needing the wisdom of Matthew 18–20 will occur. The function of these texts is to normalize such experiences within a church community and to give practical steps for living together in the way of love. This driving principle applies to the adulterous affair, the narcissistic pastor, and the fighting parents.

As pastors, we’re called to play the long game of teaching Christ’s people what he values from Matthew 18–20. When conflicts and moral failures of all sorts occur — and they will — we need not be surprised. Instead, we can see these situations as an opportunity to teach Christ’s way.

A pastor can utilize Jesus’ community-oriented steps to seek reconciled relationships. By doing so, we help our people grow as a beautiful alternative community. We model his way of being in the world, serving as the light that shines in the darkness.

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Jonathan T. Pennington is professor of New Testament at Southern Seminary and pastor of spiritual formation at Sojourn East Church in Louisville, Kentucky. He is the author of several books, including Jesus the Great Philosopher.

Why In-Person Church Will Never Go Out of Style

Mark 12:28

Despite more online church options, Philip Yancey says, embodied gathering will always be relevant.

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An Associated Press poll last year reported that three-quarters of churchgoers in the US plan to resume regular in-person attendance as the pandemic subsides.

The pastors I know are looking out at the empty seats with their fingers crossed, hoping that prediction will eventually come true.

I confess that during the lockdown I rather enjoyed watching church services online while lounging in my bathrobe, sipping coffee, and controlling the pace with a remote. If something failed to hold my interest, I could surf the web in search of better music or a more engaging sermon.

I’m not alone. In the United Kingdom, for example, a small percent of the population attends church on average. (The late poet R. S. Thomas, a priest in the Church of Wales, called himself “a vicar of large things in a small parish.”)

Yet a quarter of British adults watched or listened to a religious service during the coronavirus lockdown, and one in 20 said they started praying during the crisis.

As my memoir, Where the Light Fell, recounts, I’ve had a checkered history with the church. As a child, I sat through hellfire-and-brimstone sermons in my Southern fundamentalist congregation — which barred Black congregants from entering and warned against electing a Catholic president (Kennedy).

To recover, I spent a few years away from church before sampling a ‘60s-style house church that substituted the Communion elements of bread and wine for Coke and potato chips.

Eventually, I settled into a more traditional church in Chicago that combined a spirit of grace with an emphasis on social justice. Moving to a small town in Colorado, however, limited my options. The church I now attend once attracted a thousand regulars — but after church splits and attrition, it currently averages less than 30.

With so many good reasons to tune in remotely, I ask myself why I have returned to the rented hall we use on Sundays.

The most important reason, of course, is to worship God. The weekly gathering underscores my creaturely status as one in need of a higher moral authority. Great souls like Martin Luther King Jr., Václav Havel, and Simone Weil have reminded us that what we believe about a Creator can largely determine how we treat fellow humans — especially the marginalized — as well as our planet.

Jesus summarized the entire law in two commands: Love God and love your neighbor. I may fulfill the first one in the privacy of my home, but what about the second? “If you want to grow in love, the way to do it is not likely going to be by attending more Bible studies or prayer meetings; it will happen by getting close to people who are not like you,” writes the Canadian pastor Lee Beach.

When I walk into a new church, the more its members resemble me and each other, the more uncomfortable I feel. One Sunday I sat sandwiched between an older man hooked up to a puffing oxygen tank and a breastfeeding baby who grunted loudly and contentedly throughout the sermon.

Church offers a place where infants and grandparents, unemployed and executives, immigrants and blue bloods can all assemble together. Where else can we find that unique mixture? Certainly not online.

Not only that, but healthy congregations look beyond their walls to address the social needs around them. For all its flaws, the church still mobilizes workers to feed and shelter homeless people, adopt foster children, visit prisoners, and resettle refugees.

In Bowling Alone, Harvard political scientist Robert Putnam noted that “Nearly half of all associational memberships in America are church-related, half of all personal philanthropy is religious in character, and half of all volunteering occurs in a religious context.”

Rather than providing an entertainment venue, the church’s real task is to equip a community to serve others — and that task becomes more challenging for those who no longer meet in person. I’ve noticed that sharp divisions over politics tend to fade in the background when believers join together in acts of service. Indeed, a true community can begin to take shape.

As I worked on my memoir, I came to view church like a family — a dysfunctional cluster of needy people. I think back to members of my childhood church, who showed up each Sunday to hear the pastor threaten them with hell, punishment for sins, and imminent Armageddon. They came in part from fear, but also because, like a family, they needed each other to withstand the assaults of life.

Many of them were members of the working class. They didn’t sit at home evenings fretting over the fine points of theology; they worried about how to pay bills and feed the kids. When a family’s house burned down, or a drunken husband locked his wife out, or a widow couldn’t afford her groceries, they had nowhere to turn but their local church.

Since those childhood days, I have encountered many grace-dispensing churches that serve needs beyond those of their members. Admittedly, the pews are less comfortable than the chairs in my living room, and the quality of the worship service can’t match the slick productions I watched during the pandemic’s lockdown periods.

What they do tend to have, though, is a strong sense of community — something all too rare in our individualistic society.

Nashville Secular Group Celebrates Faith-Free Christmas

[Holwick: An example of the trend to have Christmas without Christ]

The sounds of the season filled the halls of the Scarritt Bennett Center at Vanderbilt University on a recent Sunday morning.

In the chapel, a congregation of about 80 people gathered, while the band launched into a holiday classic: “You’re a Mean One, Mr. Grinch.”

They followed up with a cover of Tim Minchin’s “White Wine in the Sun.”

“I really like Christmas. It’s sentimental, I know, but I just really like it,” sang Adam Newton, host for the Sunday service. “I am hardly religious. I’d rather break bread with Dawkins than Desmond Tutu, to be honest.”

Welcome to the “Heathen Holidays,” a Christmas celebration for the nonreligious, hosted by the local chapter of the Sunday Assembly.

It’s a way to celebrate the joy of the Christmas season “without the discomfort of paying homage to any particular religion,” said Nicole Dittrich, one of the attendees.

Many of the people attending the service were in the holiday spirit, decked out in tacky Christmas sweaters. One person was even wearing a red blazer and a red and green Christmas hat to match, complete with pointed elf ears.

The service began with a singalong version of “A Hazy Shade of Winter” by Simon & Garfunkel.

Patrick Horst, who regularly attends the monthly Sunday Assembly Nashville gatherings and serves on the board, said SAN offers what he felt was missing once he left the Christian church.

Especially at the holidays.

“For a lot of people, religion or faith is for a sense of community, for being around people who are like-minded. SAN provides community and a space for us to think about what makes for better living,” he said.

Nashville’s Sunday Assembly is one of several in the Bible Belt, all inspired by the first assembly, which began meeting in London five years ago. The secular congregation celebrates life, according to the organization’s website.

Its sister congregations are also celebrating the secular side of Christmas. The Sunday Assembly in Knoxvillle is planning a Winter Solstice Party on Dec. 22, while an Atlanta group held a Yule-Rock, with live holiday music, singalongs and holiday stories.

A 2017 study by the Pew Research Center found that just over half of Americans (55 percent) celebrate Christmas as a religious holiday, down from 59 percent in 2013.

Thirty-three percent celebrate Christmas as a cultural holiday. Nine percent celebrate it as both religious and cultural.

Eight percent skip Christmas altogether.

Laurel Schneider, professor of religious studies, religion and culture at Vanderbilt, isn’t surprised to see the Sunday Assembly holding a Christmas service — or regular services on Sundays.

“There’s a long tradition in America of this kind of thing. This is just a new form of it,” she said. “You bring the feeling of what you’re missing, and that may be similar to what you left.”

Schneider said groups like the Sunday Assembly fill a need, especially for people who used to be part of a church or other religious community but have since left.

“The goods of religion are real. The social cohesion, the inspiration to do better, a space to form connection with people, intergenerational exposure, a place to sing — where else do you get to sing?” she said. “Some of those really basic things really get lost when you leave church. But there is this desire to have those goods without what has become burdensome for whatever reason.”

Dittrich agreed.

Christmas is supposed to be a happy time, filled with friends and family.

“And yet,” she said, “sometimes people feel more lost and lonely than any other time of the year. And I think that can hold especially true for those of us who have left the religious aspects of the holiday behind and who might now feel a great loss this time of year, losing the family traditions and the sense of joy and nostalgia that is wrapped up with Christmases past.”

Linda Mercadante, professor of theology at The Methodist Theological School in Ohio, said people who are spiritual but not religious — abbreviated as SBNRs — are still searching for meaning.

“There is this stereotype that SBNRs are shallow and eclectic and that they don’t care about belief — that they just reject it,” said Mercadante, author of “Belief without Borders: Inside the Minds of the Spiritual but not Religious.”

“But I found that they actually cared so much about belief that if they objected to even one belief in a religious context, they would feel honor-bound to leave that religious group.”

Mercadante believes groups like the Sunday Assembly can be a force for good in their communities.

Horst agrees. The motto of Sunday Assembly is to “Live Better. Help Often. Wonder More,” and he believes those tenets can make the world a better place.

“We all just kind of strive to learn about the world we live in and figure out what a better life looks like. With us being social animals, living in an inclusive community is part of that,” he said. “Unlike some secular groups, we don’t try to tell people what’s wrong with a certain belief. We’d rather focus our energies on what makes life better and what it means to be a good person.”

That theme was echoed in the closing song at the Heathen Holidays service.

“Light a candle, a candle for hope, and wherever you go, let it glow,” sang band members. “Light a candle, a candle for compassion, and let kindness and love be enough to warm every heart. Light a candle for reason, let it show you the way. One more for humanity, and let them shine on all the world today.”

Why In-Person Church Will Never Go Out of Style

Mark 12:28

Despite more online church options, Philip Yancey says, embodied gathering will always be relevant.

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An Associated Press poll last year reported that three-quarters of churchgoers in the US plan to resume regular in-person attendance as the pandemic subsides.

The pastors I know are looking out at the empty seats with their fingers crossed, hoping that prediction will eventually come true.

I confess that during the lockdown I rather enjoyed watching church services online while lounging in my bathrobe, sipping coffee, and controlling the pace with a remote. If something failed to hold my interest, I could surf the web in search of better music or a more engaging sermon.

I’m not alone. In the United Kingdom, for example, a small percent of the population attends church on average. (The late poet R. S. Thomas, a priest in the Church of Wales, called himself “a vicar of large things in a small parish.”)

Yet a quarter of British adults watched or listened to a religious service during the coronavirus lockdown, and one in 20 said they started praying during the crisis.

As my memoir, Where the Light Fell, recounts, I’ve had a checkered history with the church. As a child, I sat through hellfire-and-brimstone sermons in my Southern fundamentalist congregation — which barred Black congregants from entering and warned against electing a Catholic president (Kennedy).

To recover, I spent a few years away from church before sampling a ‘60s-style house church that substituted the Communion elements of bread and wine for Coke and potato chips.

Eventually, I settled into a more traditional church in Chicago that combined a spirit of grace with an emphasis on social justice. Moving to a small town in Colorado, however, limited my options. The church I now attend once attracted a thousand regulars — but after church splits and attrition, it currently averages less than 30.

With so many good reasons to tune in remotely, I ask myself why I have returned to the rented hall we use on Sundays.

The most important reason, of course, is to worship God. The weekly gathering underscores my creaturely status as one in need of a higher moral authority. Great souls like Martin Luther King Jr., Václav Havel, and Simone Weil have reminded us that what we believe about a Creator can largely determine how we treat fellow humans — especially the marginalized — as well as our planet.

Jesus summarized the entire law in two commands: Love God and love your neighbor. I may fulfill the first one in the privacy of my home, but what about the second? “If you want to grow in love, the way to do it is not likely going to be by attending more Bible studies or prayer meetings; it will happen by getting close to people who are not like you,” writes the Canadian pastor Lee Beach.

When I walk into a new church, the more its members resemble me and each other, the more uncomfortable I feel. One Sunday I sat sandwiched between an older man hooked up to a puffing oxygen tank and a breastfeeding baby who grunted loudly and contentedly throughout the sermon.

Church offers a place where infants and grandparents, unemployed and executives, immigrants and blue bloods can all assemble together. Where else can we find that unique mixture? Certainly not online.

Not only that, but healthy congregations look beyond their walls to address the social needs around them. For all its flaws, the church still mobilizes workers to feed and shelter homeless people, adopt foster children, visit prisoners, and resettle refugees.

In Bowling Alone, Harvard political scientist Robert Putnam noted that “Nearly half of all associational memberships in America are church-related, half of all personal philanthropy is religious in character, and half of all volunteering occurs in a religious context.”

Rather than providing an entertainment venue, the church’s real task is to equip a community to serve others — and that task becomes more challenging for those who no longer meet in person. I’ve noticed that sharp divisions over politics tend to fade in the background when believers join together in acts of service. Indeed, a true community can begin to take shape.

As I worked on my memoir, I came to view church like a family — a dysfunctional cluster of needy people. I think back to members of my childhood church, who showed up each Sunday to hear the pastor threaten them with hell, punishment for sins, and imminent Armageddon. They came in part from fear, but also because, like a family, they needed each other to withstand the assaults of life.

Many of them were members of the working class. They didn’t sit at home evenings fretting over the fine points of theology; they worried about how to pay bills and feed the kids. When a family’s house burned down, or a drunken husband locked his wife out, or a widow couldn’t afford her groceries, they had nowhere to turn but their local church.

Since those childhood days, I have encountered many grace-dispensing churches that serve needs beyond those of their members. Admittedly, the pews are less comfortable than the chairs in my living room, and the quality of the worship service can’t match the slick productions I watched during the pandemic’s lockdown periods.

What they do tend to have, though, is a strong sense of community — something all too rare in our individualistic society.

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