Ephesians 5:22
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- Adam Clarke
- Jamieson-Fausset-Brown
- John Gill
- Tyndale
Adam Clarke Bible Commentary
Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands - As the Lord, viz. Christ, is the head or governor of the Church, and the head of the man, so is the man the head or governor of the woman. This is God's ordinance, and should not be transgressed. The husband should not be a tyrant, and the wife should not be the governor. Old Francis Quarles, in his homely rhymes, alluding to the superstitious notion, that the crowing of a hen bodes ill luck to the family, has said: - "Ill thrives the hapless family that shows A cock that's silent, and a hen that crows: I know not which live most unnatural lives, Obeying husbands or commanding wives." As unto the Lord - The word Church seems to be necessarily understood here; that is: Act under the authority of your husbands, as the Church acts under the authority of Christ. As the Church submits to the Lord, so let wives submit to their husbands.
Jamieson-Fausset-Brown Bible Commentary
(Eph 6:9.) The Church's relation to Christ in His everlasting purpose, is the foundation and archetype of the three greatest of earthly relations, that of husband and wife (Eph 5:22-33), parent and child (Eph 6:1-4), master and servant (Eph 6:4-9). The oldest manuscripts omit "submit yourselves"; supplying it from Eph 5:21, "Ye wives (submitting yourselves) unto your own husbands." "Your own" is an argument for submissiveness on the part of the wives; it is not a stranger, but your own husbands whom you are called on to submit unto (compare Gen 3:16; Co1 7:2; Co1 14:34; Col 3:18; Tit 2:5; Pe1 3:1-7). Those subject ought to submit themselves, of whatever kind their superiors are. "Submit" is the term used of wives: "obey," of children (Eph 6:1), as there is a greater equality between wives and husbands, than between children and parents. as unto the Lord--Submissiveness is rendered by the wife to the husband under the eye of Christ, and so is rendered to Christ Himself. The husband stands to the wife in the relation that the Lord does to the Church, and this is to be the ground of her submission: though that submission is inferior in kind and degree to that which she owes Christ (Eph 5:24).
John Gill Bible Commentary
Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ,.... Her head, being wholly dependent upon him, and entirely resigned to him, and receiving all from him; from whom alone is all her expectation of provision, protection, comfort, and happiness; wherefore she has respect to all his commands, and esteems all his precepts concerning all things to be right; and yields a cheerful, voluntary, sincere, and hearty obedience to them; arising from a principle of love to him, and joined with honour, fear, and reverence of him: so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything: political, domestic, and ecclesiastic; that is consistent with the laws of God, and the Gospel of Christ.
Tyndale Open Study Notes
5:22-33 Christian wives are to submit to their husbands, showing them respect. Equally important, Christian husbands are to love their wives (see Col 3:18-19). Christian marriages become a reflection of the union and relationship between the Lord and the church. 5:22 Submission is part of the life to which the wives’ Christian commitment calls them (see 1 Cor 11:3-10; 14:34-35; Col 3:18; 1 Tim 2:11-12; Titus 2:5; 1 Pet 3:1-6).
Ephesians 5:22
Wives and Husbands
21Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.22Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord.23For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, His body, of which He is the Savior.
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夫妻之道 - Husbands and Wives
By Paul Washer8.9K1:16:41MarriageGEN 2:23ISA 1:18MAT 6:33EPH 5:22EPH 5:261PE 3:7In this sermon, the preacher discusses the judgment of God on the nation of Israel and how it manifests itself. He explains that God will remove the supply of bread and water from Jerusalem and Judah due to their rebellion against Him. The preacher also talks about the importance of following God's pattern in marriage and the responsibility of husbands to show tenderness and leadership. He emphasizes the need for husbands and wives to communicate and make decisions together, while also highlighting the importance of treating one's mother-in-law with tenderness and respect.
How to Be Faithful to God
By David Wilkerson5.9K45:05FaithfulnessMAT 6:33EPH 5:22HEB 3:2HEB 4:1HEB 4:6In this sermon, the preacher addresses the feelings of condemnation, fear, and doubt that many people experience. He emphasizes that these negative emotions are a result of the lies of the enemy that have been implanted in our minds. The preacher then focuses on the concept of finding rest in God and encourages the listeners to labor to enter into that rest, avoiding the example of unbelief. He concludes by highlighting the importance of understanding and believing in God's love for His children as a source of strength and faithfulness.
Marriage
By Keith Daniel5.2K1:19:58MarriageEPH 5:22In this sermon, the preacher recounts a personal experience where he encountered a man who had lost everything and was filled with sorrow. The man expressed his regret for not staying connected to God and losing the best things in life. The preacher then shares another story of a woman who, after reading the Bible, cried out to God for salvation and experienced a profound joy and peace. The sermon also includes a powerful story of a man who endured 23 years of imprisonment for his faith in Christ and the shocking reason behind his wife's suffering. Throughout the sermon, the preacher emphasizes the importance of staying connected to God and cherishing the relationships and blessings in our lives.
New Life Baptist Church - Part 7
By Paul Washer3.2K1:11:59MAT 6:33ROM 8:281CO 15:58EPH 5:221TI 5:8In this sermon, the preacher shares a personal story about a boy who disrespects his mother and the consequences he faces. The preacher emphasizes the importance of treating women, particularly wives, with respect and not as "weaker vessels." He uses the analogy of breaking ice in buckets to illustrate how over time, the special treatment and love for one's spouse can diminish if not nurtured. The preacher also highlights the need for balance between family and church responsibilities, emphasizing the importance of Sabbath rest. Ultimately, the sermon emphasizes that everything in life is meant to shape believers into the image of Jesus Christ.
What Should Headship Look Like: Caesar or Christ?
By Paul Washer2.4K1:52:49HeadshipEPH 5:222TI 2:15In this sermon, the speaker reflects on the role of a father as the head of the family from a biblical perspective. He emphasizes the importance of fathers teaching their children in the ways of God and morality, rather than leaving their education solely to schools. The speaker also discusses the negative impact that a lack of knowledge and instruction can have on future generations. He uses the example of a seminary student who becomes angry upon hearing about a celebrity's childbirth, highlighting the need for parents to prioritize teaching and guiding their children. The sermon emphasizes the importance of learning from God's wisdom and living according to His teachings.
Don't Forsake Your Godly Heritage
By Keith Daniel2.0K1:07:49Godly HeritageMAL 2:14EPH 5:18EPH 5:22EPH 5:25In this sermon, the preacher emphasizes the importance of being cautious about the entertainment choices we make, as they can lead to spiritual defilement. He warns young Christians to be careful about the friends they choose, the books they read, the music they listen to, and the media they consume. The preacher argues that 99% of entertainment today is defiling and urges listeners to flee from worldly influences. He also highlights the significance of parental guidance and the love of a father, using a powerful illustration to convey the depth of a father's love. The sermon concludes with a discussion on the importance of maintaining a positive mindset and offering praise to God, as well as the biblical principles of submission and sacrificial love in marriage.
(Ephesians) Ephesians 5:21-6:11
By Zac Poonen1.9K47:03EPH 1:3EPH 4:1EPH 5:22EPH 6:10In this sermon, the speaker emphasizes the importance of building a strong foundation in our personal walk with God. This foundation is built on God's perfect love for us and is the basis for our relationship with Him. The speaker then discusses the three stories or levels that we should build upon this foundation: our personal walk with God, our home life, and our ministry. The sermon also highlights the significance of living in purity, humility, and love, both in our homes and in our workplaces, as a reflection of being filled with the Holy Spirit.
Walk of the New Man 06
By Rick Bovey1.7K29:33New ManEPH 5:22In this sermon, the preacher begins by discussing the concept of freedom mentioned in the 8th chapter of the Gospel of John. He highlights the importance of truth in experiencing true freedom. The preacher then digresses into various unrelated topics, such as a recent sports event and personal anecdotes. He briefly mentions the challenges of life and how believers should respond to them. The sermon concludes with a call to wake up from spiritual slumber and an invitation to attend another session later in the day.
(Ephesians) Christian Parenting, Part 1
By Jeff Noblit1.7K1:02:26Christian ParentingDEU 6:5DEU 6:7MAT 6:33EPH 5:22EPH 6:4In this sermon, the speaker emphasizes the responsibility of fathers, including grandfathers and great-grandfathers, in teaching their children about God's glory. The speaker encourages fathers to lift their eyes to heaven and ask God for the opportunity to teach their children about His wonderfulness. The speaker refers to Deuteronomy 6-7, which instructs fathers to love the Lord with all their heart, soul, and might, and to diligently teach their children about God's commandments. The speaker emphasizes the importance of incorporating biblical teachings into everyday life, such as during mealtime, while walking together, and before bedtime and in the morning.
Babylonian Pattern - Part 2
By Winkie Pratney1.6K1:00:51GEN 10:8GEN 11:1JHN 2:1EPH 5:22EPH 5:25This sermon delves into the ancient Babylonian pattern of the queen mother and child, highlighting the demonic attack on the family structure when the king is cut off, leading to guilt, nagging, and manipulation. It explores how this pattern manifests in various religions and cultures, emphasizing the importance of reversing this destructive cycle through honesty and the opposite spirit.
How Satan Destroys a Church - Part 1 (Guard Your Garden)
By Don Courville1.6K41:31Spiritual WarfareGEN 2:15PSA 121:5MAT 6:332CO 11:32CO 11:14EPH 5:22EPH 5:25In this sermon, the preacher shares a story about a hunter encountering a bear and how they negotiate their desires. He then goes on to talk about his experiences and travels, which have given him insights into the most important things he has learned in 42 years. He briefly touches on the submission of the wife, referring to Genesis chapter 2, and emphasizes the importance of following God's commands. The sermon concludes with a lesson about the dangers of being in places we shouldn't be, using a humorous anecdote about a child carrying swimming trunks to school.
Heavenly Comfort
By Erlo Stegen1.6K42:33ComfortMAT 6:33EPH 4:32EPH 5:22EPH 5:25EPH 5:33PHP 2:1In this sermon, the preacher emphasizes the importance of finding joy and peace in all circumstances, whether they are good or bad. He refers to a letter from Paul, who wrote about being happy at all times, even in the midst of terrible circumstances. The preacher shares a story about a black man who escaped from a trunk and sought comfort and forgiveness from God. He highlights the need for comfort in difficult times and the role of the Holy Spirit as a comforter.
Great Truths From Ephesians - Part 3
By Zac Poonen1.3K1:00:57EphesiansPSA 4:4EPH 4:26EPH 5:18EPH 5:22In this sermon, the speaker emphasizes the importance of unity in the church, using the analogy of a well-coordinated piano player. He highlights the areas in which believers are united and encourages them to grow in unity. The speaker also discusses the gifts that God gives to His church, emphasizing that every believer has a role to fulfill. He warns against wasting time on unproductive activities and encourages the study of Ephesians chapters one to three to combat discouragement and self-condemnation. The sermon concludes with a call to treat others as God has treated us and to meditate on God's treatment of us.
Submission
By Dennis Kinlaw1.2K1:11:20SubmissionMAT 6:33EPH 5:22In this sermon, the preacher discusses the concept of beauty and how it is a manifestation of God's creation. He emphasizes the importance of understanding the larger context of Bible verses to avoid misinterpretation. The preacher also explores the idea of submission in marriage, explaining how wives and husbands should prioritize the well-being of each other. Additionally, he shares his amazement at the accessibility of classical documents through technology, highlighting the ability to have personal correspondence between influential figures like Augustine and Jerome.
The Christian Home - Part 2 of 5
By John R. Rice1.2K10:06EPH 5:22This sermon emphasizes the importance of men taking responsibility as leaders in their families, being examples, and guiding their households in faith. It also highlights the significance of wives being in subjection to their husbands as part of God's plan for the home.
Godly Marriages - 2.following Godly Principles in Marriage
By Zac Poonen1.2K1:50:31PRO 24:3EPH 5:22EPH 5:25This sermon emphasizes the importance of building a strong foundation in marriage, likening it to constructing a house without cracks. It delves into the significance of having a spirit-filled marriage, not just for personal happiness but for accomplishing God's purpose. The speaker shares personal struggles and highlights the need for humility, selflessness, and perseverance in nurturing a marriage that reflects God's love and unity.
Understanding Marriage - Reasons for a Wife's Submission
By David Guzik1.1K43:51EPH 5:22In this sermon, Pastor David Guzik discusses the concept of submission in marriage, focusing on the passage in Ephesians chapter 5. He emphasizes that submission is not about one person having power over another, but rather about following the pattern set by God. He explains that God often gives reasons for His commands because He loves us and wants us to understand the purpose behind them. Pastor Guzik also clarifies that the principle of submission applies not only to wives in their relationship with their husbands, but also to the church's relationship with Christ.
Understanding Marriage - Submission in Marriage
By David Guzik1.1K43:51EPH 5:22In this sermon, Pastor David Guzik discusses the concept of submission in marriage, focusing on the passage in Ephesians chapter 5. He emphasizes that submission is not about one person having power over another, but rather about following the pattern set by Christ. God gives us reasons for His commands because He loves us and wants us to understand the purpose behind them. The principle of male headship in the home and church is highlighted, but it is important to remember that this does not imply a general subjugation of women. Overall, the sermon emphasizes the importance of understanding and embracing God's design for marriage.
Message 2 of 5 - New Zealand
By Keith Daniel1.1K1:11:20New ZealandJER 32:10MAL 2:14MAT 5:39MAT 19:6ROM 12:21EPH 5:221PE 2:23In this sermon, the speaker shares a personal story about a couple who defused a potential argument by showing love and kindness to one another. He then transitions to another story about a young boy who realizes the value of education and regrets not knowing more about God earlier in life. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of finding happiness in marriage through a relationship with Christ. He concludes by discussing the need to respond to mistreatment with grace and love, in order to win others over to Christ.
Message 3 of 5 - New Zealand
By Keith Daniel1.1K1:12:24New ZealandPRO 22:6EPH 5:22In this sermon, the speaker shares a touching story about meeting an elderly woman named Virginia Johnson at a convention. Despite her age, Virginia had traveled a long way to attend the event, accompanied by her missionary son. The speaker reflects on the brevity and challenges of life, quoting verses from the book of Job and Proverbs. He emphasizes that everyone will face troubles in life, but God has given us a spirit that can sustain us through these difficulties. The sermon also mentions the speaker's upcoming task of editing over a thousand messages for various websites. Additionally, the speaker recounts a heartbreaking conversation with Virginia's son, who reveals that her mental decline was caused by the distress caused by her children.
Sexual Complementarity - Lesson 2a
By John Piper1.1K46:33GEN 3:7EPH 5:22In this sermon, the preacher emphasizes the importance of men taking responsibility for their homes and relationships. He highlights how God created man first and gave him moral instructions, implying that men are responsible for ensuring everyone else knows these guidelines. The preacher also discusses how woman was created from man to be a helper for him. He then delves into the story of Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden, emphasizing how God called out to Adam when they sinned, showing the importance of men taking the lead in their families. The preacher encourages men to fulfill their role with the heart of Jesus, as this would solve many problems between men and women.
Family God's Way #4 - Husbands and Wives
By Bob Hoekstra1.0K1:01:16GEN 2:24MAT 6:33ACT 5:27EPH 5:22EPH 5:28In this sermon, the preacher emphasizes the importance of living up to the heavenly pattern in marriage. He explains that marriage is a great mystery because it is meant to reflect the relationship between Christ and His bride, the church. The preacher highlights the excitement of John the Baptist when he spoke of Jesus as the bridegroom and his followers as the bride. The sermon concludes with the command for husbands to love their wives, following the example of Christ's love for the church. The preacher also mentions the importance of submission to both family and governmental authorities.
Rejoice With the Wife of Thy Youth
By Denny Kenaston9771:09:36MarriagePRO 5:15EPH 5:22EPH 5:25In this sermon, the preacher emphasizes the importance of renewing one's commitment to building a strong marriage. He acknowledges that over time, distractions and other responsibilities can cause couples to lose focus on their relationship. The preacher encourages listeners to reflect on their wedding day and the love they had for each other, reminding them of the need to rekindle that love and prioritize their marriage. He also references Proverbs 5, emphasizing the importance of staying faithful to one's spouse and nurturing a strong relationship for the sake of future generations.
23. the Hidden Woman (Part 2)
By Denny Kenaston97544:45JER 9:17EPH 5:22This sermon emphasizes the importance of honoring and respecting husbands, highlighting the impact of a wife's reverence on her husband's growth and the generational consequences of dishonoring husbands. It calls for wives to adopt a submissive and supportive spirit, drawing parallels between honoring husbands and honoring authority figures like police officers. The message urges women to break the cycle of disrespect and instead pray and weep for their husbands, trusting in God's transformative power.
(Ephesians) Order of Creation (In Marriage)
By Brian Brodersen96156:08EPH 5:22In this sermon, the speaker addresses the importance of husbands taking the lead in creating a godly environment in their homes. He emphasizes that it is the husband's role to bring the standard into the home and that wives should submit to their husbands in this matter. The speaker also mentions the potential challenges that may arise, such as resistance from the wife or materialism. He encourages couples to obey what God has called them to do in their roles, as this can lead to a blessed and fulfilling marriage.
- Adam Clarke
- Jamieson-Fausset-Brown
- John Gill
- Tyndale
Adam Clarke Bible Commentary
Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands - As the Lord, viz. Christ, is the head or governor of the Church, and the head of the man, so is the man the head or governor of the woman. This is God's ordinance, and should not be transgressed. The husband should not be a tyrant, and the wife should not be the governor. Old Francis Quarles, in his homely rhymes, alluding to the superstitious notion, that the crowing of a hen bodes ill luck to the family, has said: - "Ill thrives the hapless family that shows A cock that's silent, and a hen that crows: I know not which live most unnatural lives, Obeying husbands or commanding wives." As unto the Lord - The word Church seems to be necessarily understood here; that is: Act under the authority of your husbands, as the Church acts under the authority of Christ. As the Church submits to the Lord, so let wives submit to their husbands.
Jamieson-Fausset-Brown Bible Commentary
(Eph 6:9.) The Church's relation to Christ in His everlasting purpose, is the foundation and archetype of the three greatest of earthly relations, that of husband and wife (Eph 5:22-33), parent and child (Eph 6:1-4), master and servant (Eph 6:4-9). The oldest manuscripts omit "submit yourselves"; supplying it from Eph 5:21, "Ye wives (submitting yourselves) unto your own husbands." "Your own" is an argument for submissiveness on the part of the wives; it is not a stranger, but your own husbands whom you are called on to submit unto (compare Gen 3:16; Co1 7:2; Co1 14:34; Col 3:18; Tit 2:5; Pe1 3:1-7). Those subject ought to submit themselves, of whatever kind their superiors are. "Submit" is the term used of wives: "obey," of children (Eph 6:1), as there is a greater equality between wives and husbands, than between children and parents. as unto the Lord--Submissiveness is rendered by the wife to the husband under the eye of Christ, and so is rendered to Christ Himself. The husband stands to the wife in the relation that the Lord does to the Church, and this is to be the ground of her submission: though that submission is inferior in kind and degree to that which she owes Christ (Eph 5:24).
John Gill Bible Commentary
Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ,.... Her head, being wholly dependent upon him, and entirely resigned to him, and receiving all from him; from whom alone is all her expectation of provision, protection, comfort, and happiness; wherefore she has respect to all his commands, and esteems all his precepts concerning all things to be right; and yields a cheerful, voluntary, sincere, and hearty obedience to them; arising from a principle of love to him, and joined with honour, fear, and reverence of him: so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything: political, domestic, and ecclesiastic; that is consistent with the laws of God, and the Gospel of Christ.
Tyndale Open Study Notes
5:22-33 Christian wives are to submit to their husbands, showing them respect. Equally important, Christian husbands are to love their wives (see Col 3:18-19). Christian marriages become a reflection of the union and relationship between the Lord and the church. 5:22 Submission is part of the life to which the wives’ Christian commitment calls them (see 1 Cor 11:3-10; 14:34-35; Col 3:18; 1 Tim 2:11-12; Titus 2:5; 1 Pet 3:1-6).