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Jamieson-Fausset-Brown Bible Commentary
(Compare Pro 13:24; Pro 23:13). let not . . . spare--literally, "do not lift up thy soul" (Psa 24:4; Psa 25:1), that is, do not desire to his death; a caution to passionate parents against angry chastisement.
John Gill Bible Commentary
Chasten thy son while there is hope,.... Of guiding and keeping him in the right way, as long as corrections are or can be hoped to be of use; while in a state of infancy, childhood, and youth; while under parental government; and before habits in sin are grown strong, and the case become desperate, and he is hardened, and proof against all instruction and discipline; and let not thy soul spare for his crying; the noise he makes, the tears he sheds, the entreaties he uses to keep off the rod; let not a foolish pity and tenderness prevail to lay it aside on that account the consequence of which may be bad to parent and child; see Pro 13:24. The Targum is, "but unto his death do not lift up thy soul;'' or to the slaying of him (t), as the Vulgate Latin version; and this sense Jarchi gives into: and then the meaning is, that though parents should be careful to give due correction to their children, so long as there is hope of doing them good, yet not in a brutal and barbarous manner, to the endangering of their lives: as some parents are too indolent, mild, and gentle, as Eli was; others are too wrathful and furious and use no moderation in their corrections, but unmercifully beat their children; such extremes ought to be avoided. Gersom interprets the word of crying, as we do. (t) "ad interficiendum cum", Pagninus, Vatablus, Mercerus, Gejerus; "ad occidendum sum", Piscator, Cocceius, Tigurine version, Michaelis, Schultens, Gussetius, p. 534.
Matthew Henry Bible Commentary
Parents are here cautioned against a foolish indulgence of their children that are untoward and viciously inclined, and that discover such an ill temper of mind as is not likely to be cured but by severity. 1. Do not say that it is all in good time to correct them; no, as soon as ever there appears a corrupt disposition in them check it immediately, before it gets head, and takes root, and is hardened into a habit: Chasten thy son while there is hope, for perhaps, if he be let alone awhile, he will be past hope, and a much greater chastening will not do that which now a less would effect. It is easiest plucking up weeds as soon as they spring up, and the bullock that is designed for the yoke should be betimes accustomed to it. 2. Do not say that it is a pity to correct them, and that, because they cry and beg to be forgiven, you cannot find in your heart to do it. If the point can be gained without correction, well and good; but if you find, as it often proves, that your forgiving them once, upon a dissembled repentance and promise of amendment, does but embolden them to offend again, especially if it be a thing that is in itself sinful (as lying, swearing, ribaldry, stealing, or the like), in such a case put on resolution, and let not thy soul spare for his crying. It is better that he should cry under thy rod than under the sword of the magistrate, or, which is more fearful, that of divine vengeance.
Tyndale Open Study Notes
19:18 Growing in wisdom requires discipline for everyone, including children (see 10:17; 13:1, 10; 15:31-32; 17:10). The temporary grief that accompanies discipline is worth the protection from ruin.
Proverbs 19:18
The Man of Integrity
17Kindness to the poor is a loan to the LORD, and He will repay the lender. 18Discipline your son, for in that there is hope; do not be party to his death.
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(Godly Home) Part 11 - the Rod Is Love
By Denny Kenaston4.1K41:18Godly Home SeriesPSA 119:32PRO 13:24PRO 19:18PRO 22:6MAT 6:33EPH 6:4HEB 12:6In this sermon, Brother Denny discusses the importance of disciplining children through spanking. He shares a story of a family who struggled to control their children's behavior and eventually decided to implement spanking as a form of discipline. The mother followed Brother Denny's advice and prepared to spank her son, but he pleaded with her to wait. Brother Denny emphasizes the biblical principle of using the rod of discipline to show love and guide children towards obedience. He also highlights the promise of God being our loving father in the new covenant.
God's Truth: Authority and Discipline
By Russell Kelfer1.9K34:01DisciplinePRO 6:20PRO 13:24PRO 15:5PRO 17:25PRO 19:18In this sermon, the preacher emphasizes the importance of God's word and the need for consistency in following through with what is said. He shares a personal anecdote about his son expressing the desire for his father to do what he says. The preacher also discusses the different ways in which God disciplines His people, sometimes withholding blessings or rewards. He highlights the influence of various societal institutions, such as the media, education, counseling, and entertainment, in promoting worldly standards. The sermon concludes with a reminder that God has a purpose for every individual and that discipline is a crucial aspect of spiritual growth.
The Christian Home - Part 4 of 5
By John R. Rice1.3K10:03DEU 6:6PRO 19:18PRO 22:6EPH 6:4COL 3:20This sermon emphasizes the importance of disciplining and training children according to biblical principles, highlighting the need for parents to chasten their children with love and firmness to prevent them from straying. It stresses the significance of family worship, Bible reading, and prayer in the home, encouraging parents to diligently teach their children the Word of God and incorporate it into their daily lives.
12 the Rod Is Love
By Denny Kenaston1.2K46:06PRO 13:24PRO 19:18PRO 22:15PRO 23:13PRO 29:15PRO 29:17EPH 6:4COL 3:21HEB 12:5HEB 12:11This sermon emphasizes the importance of balancing love and discipline in parenting, focusing on the biblical perspective of using the rod to correct children with love. It highlights the significance of not sparing the rod out of love for the child's well-being, the need to start discipline early while there is hope, and the impact of proper correction on shaping children's character and understanding of God's love.
3. the Rod of Discipline
By Denny Kenaston0ParentingDisciplinePRO 13:24PRO 19:18PRO 20:30PRO 22:15PRO 23:13PRO 29:15Denny Kenaston emphasizes the necessity of discipline in child-rearing, arguing that using the rod is a loving act that fosters respect and obedience in children. He asserts that failing to discipline is a form of hatred towards one's child, as it neglects their need for guidance and correction. Kenaston shares personal anecdotes to illustrate how proper discipline can lead to a loving and respectful relationship between parents and children. He encourages parents to view discipline as a means to instill wisdom and righteousness, ultimately leading to a harmonious home. The message calls for a reevaluation of societal views on discipline, urging parents to embrace biblical principles for raising godly children.
Letters to Parents. No. 5.
By Charles Finney0ParentingSpiritual EducationDEU 6:7PRO 19:18PRO 23:13Charles Finney emphasizes the vital role of parents in cultivating affection and moral understanding among their children. He urges parents to encourage their children's inquiries and to provide truthful answers, while also being vigilant about the influences of external environments like schools. Finney stresses the importance of teaching children the law of God and the plan of salvation, alongside appropriate discipline. He highlights the necessity of demonstrating a joyful and sincere faith, as well as the power of prayer in parenting. Ultimately, he calls parents to rely on God's promises for their children and to actively engage in their spiritual upbringing.
Being a Christian at Home
By Melody Green0DEU 32:46PRO 13:24PRO 19:18PRO 22:6PRO 23:13PRO 29:15EPH 6:4PHP 2:3REV 3:19Melody Green addresses the challenge of practicing love within families, emphasizing the importance of demonstrating Christian love at home before spreading it to others. She highlights the struggles parents face with rebellious teenagers and the need for genuine repentance and forgiveness within families. Melody stresses the significance of humility, selflessness, and genuine love in all family relationships, urging both parents and teenagers to reflect Christ's love in their actions and words.
- Jamieson-Fausset-Brown
- John Gill
- Matthew Henry
- Tyndale
Jamieson-Fausset-Brown Bible Commentary
(Compare Pro 13:24; Pro 23:13). let not . . . spare--literally, "do not lift up thy soul" (Psa 24:4; Psa 25:1), that is, do not desire to his death; a caution to passionate parents against angry chastisement.
John Gill Bible Commentary
Chasten thy son while there is hope,.... Of guiding and keeping him in the right way, as long as corrections are or can be hoped to be of use; while in a state of infancy, childhood, and youth; while under parental government; and before habits in sin are grown strong, and the case become desperate, and he is hardened, and proof against all instruction and discipline; and let not thy soul spare for his crying; the noise he makes, the tears he sheds, the entreaties he uses to keep off the rod; let not a foolish pity and tenderness prevail to lay it aside on that account the consequence of which may be bad to parent and child; see Pro 13:24. The Targum is, "but unto his death do not lift up thy soul;'' or to the slaying of him (t), as the Vulgate Latin version; and this sense Jarchi gives into: and then the meaning is, that though parents should be careful to give due correction to their children, so long as there is hope of doing them good, yet not in a brutal and barbarous manner, to the endangering of their lives: as some parents are too indolent, mild, and gentle, as Eli was; others are too wrathful and furious and use no moderation in their corrections, but unmercifully beat their children; such extremes ought to be avoided. Gersom interprets the word of crying, as we do. (t) "ad interficiendum cum", Pagninus, Vatablus, Mercerus, Gejerus; "ad occidendum sum", Piscator, Cocceius, Tigurine version, Michaelis, Schultens, Gussetius, p. 534.
Matthew Henry Bible Commentary
Parents are here cautioned against a foolish indulgence of their children that are untoward and viciously inclined, and that discover such an ill temper of mind as is not likely to be cured but by severity. 1. Do not say that it is all in good time to correct them; no, as soon as ever there appears a corrupt disposition in them check it immediately, before it gets head, and takes root, and is hardened into a habit: Chasten thy son while there is hope, for perhaps, if he be let alone awhile, he will be past hope, and a much greater chastening will not do that which now a less would effect. It is easiest plucking up weeds as soon as they spring up, and the bullock that is designed for the yoke should be betimes accustomed to it. 2. Do not say that it is a pity to correct them, and that, because they cry and beg to be forgiven, you cannot find in your heart to do it. If the point can be gained without correction, well and good; but if you find, as it often proves, that your forgiving them once, upon a dissembled repentance and promise of amendment, does but embolden them to offend again, especially if it be a thing that is in itself sinful (as lying, swearing, ribaldry, stealing, or the like), in such a case put on resolution, and let not thy soul spare for his crying. It is better that he should cry under thy rod than under the sword of the magistrate, or, which is more fearful, that of divine vengeance.
Tyndale Open Study Notes
19:18 Growing in wisdom requires discipline for everyone, including children (see 10:17; 13:1, 10; 15:31-32; 17:10). The temporary grief that accompanies discipline is worth the protection from ruin.