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110 Sermon Illustrations on Christian Love

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Christian love is a selfless, practical expression of God's grace that embraces others' differences, forgives faults, and rejoices in their spiritual growth (1 Corinthians 13:4-7). It is demonstrated through compassionate actions, peacemaking, and encouragement, reflecting Christ's love in both deed and truth (1 John 3:18). Illustrations often use everyday acts of kindness, parental care, and friendship to depict this transformative love.

Romans 12:10; Hebrews 13:1

Romans 12:10

True Christian love shows by preferring others and giving up personal rights for their good.

Some time ago I read in one of the daily papers a thing that pleased me very much. When the new administration of President McKinley went into office some clerks in one of the departments were promoted. One young lady was offered a promotion, but she went to see the secretary, General Butterworth, and said that there was a girl sitting next to her that had a family to support. A brother who had been supporting the family had died, or sickened, and it had fallen upon her, and she asked the general to let her friend that sat next to her have the promotion in her place.

The general said that he had heard of such things in other generations, but he didn’t know that it would ever happen in his generation. He was amazed to find a person on duty in Washington that was willing to give up her position and take a lower one, and let someone else have it that she might be able to help her family.

In Colorado the superintendent of some works told me of a miner that was promoted, who came to the superintendent, and said:

“There is a man that has seven children, and I have only three, and he is having a hard struggle. Don’t promote me, but promote him.”

I know of nothing that speaks louder for Christ and Christianity than to see a man or woman giving up what you call your rights for others, and “in honor preferring one another.”

Altruism

Like a tree refreshing the air, Christians should continually bless others selflessly.

There is in Cambridge, Mass., an elm-tree of moderate size, which has, according to the estimates of Professor Gray, a leaf surface of 200,000 square feet. This tree exhales seven and three-quarter tons of water every twelve hours. A forest of 500 such trees would return to the atmosphere nearly 4,000 tons in the same time.

Our lives should be like this tree, shedding their refreshment continually. (Text.)

from Cyclopedia of Illustrations for Public Speakers · Robert Scott and William C. Stiles generosity

Altruism

Good men should influence others positively, like trees that heal and refresh their surroundings.

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Good men are not meant to be simply like trees planted by rivers of waters, flourishing in their own pride and for their own sake. They ought to be like the eucalyptus trees which have been set out in the marshes of the Campagna, from which a healthful, tonic influence is said to be diffused to countervail the malaria. They ought to be like the Tree of Paradise, “whose leaves are for the healing of nations.”

— HENRY VAN DYKE

from Cyclopedia of Illustrations for Public Speakers · Robert Scott and William C. Stiles generosity

Charity

Kindness means looking for the good in others, even when flaws are evident.

Don’t look for the flaws as you go through life, And, even when you find them, It’s wise and kind to be somewhat blind, And search for the light behind them.

from Cyclopedia of Illustrations for Public Speakers · Robert Scott and William C. Stiles character of a believer

Jesus, Supremacy Of

Jesus’ supreme love compels genuine love for others as the essence of true Christianity.

On Chinese Gordon’s monument in St. Paul’s Cathedral, proud England has inscribed this epitaph, “Who at all times and everywhere gave his strength to the weak, his substance to the poor, his sympathy to the suffering, and his heart to God.” Well may old England gather young England about the monument of her dead hero who gave Jesus Christ supremacy over both life and relations. Henry George and Cardinal Manning were talking together. “I love men because Jesus loved them,” said the Cardinal. “And I love Jesus because he loved men,” was Mr. George’s quick reply. It does not matter which way you go to it, only that you do actually go to the real love of men. This kind of Christianity is not outgrown; this kind has not yet been tried.--WM. F. MCDOWELL, “Student Volunteer Movement,” 1906.

from Cyclopedia of Illustrations for Public Speakers · Robert Scott and William C. Stiles

Witness Of Service

Christian love and care can soften even the hardest hearts toward faith.

On one of the battle-fields of South Africa a young chaplain found a Highlander sorely wounded and with life ebbing quickly away. He asked him to allow him to pray, but the soldier said gruffly, “No, I don’t want prayers. I want water.” The chaplain secured, with great difficulty, some water, and then asked the refreshed man if he might read a psalm. “No,” said the soldier again. “I am too cold to listen to a psalm.” The chaplain instantly stript off his coat and wrapt it tenderly round the wounded soldier. And then, touched by the chaplain’s sympathy, the man turned and said, “Chaplain, if religion makes men like you, let’s have that psalm.” When Christians prove themselves loving and considerate for the sick and suffering, even the hardest heart melts.

from Cyclopedia of Illustrations for Public Speakers · Robert Scott and William C. Stiles compassionwitnessing

The Second Greatest

Matthew 5:43

Sam Harris is one of a recent band of atheists whose vitriolic rantings and button-pushing avowals seem to draw audiences like reality television. His observations are shouted angrily; his ideas are often inflammatory. His frustration with Christians is spouted with sarcasm, antagonism, and resentment. And something in his most recent work made me wonder how I might have contributed to it. In an open letter to American Christians, Harris begins, “Thousands of people have written to me to tell me that I am wrong not to believe in God. The most hostile of these communications have come from Christians. This is ironic, as Christians believe that no faith imparts the virtues of love and forgiveness more effectively than their own.”(1)

When one understands apologetics as a defense of the Christian faith, voices like Harris, who attack Christianity and its morality with fluent hostility, easily put us on the defensive. How can one respond to those who readily earn and live up to titles like “Darwin’s Rottweiler” without barking a few hostile lines of our own? Is it ever Christ-like to respond to Harris in the manner that Harris responds to Christ?

There is no doubt that Jesus frustrated more than a view scribes; he was fairly harsh on the rich, and he responded angrily to the commercialization of the temple. Yet while these are the scenes we might summon to substantiate hostile words when the God we love is debased with insult, Harris is right. Jesus told anyone who would listen that the greatest commandment is to love God with everything that is in us, and the second greatest commandment is to love our neighbors as we would ourselves.

In fact, in this scene it is interesting that Jesus noted the second greatest commandment at all. No one had asked this question (we generally are not interested in runner ups), and yet he willingly offered the information. He made note of the second commandment as if it was so near to the greatest commandment to warrant formal connection. Elsewhere, Jesus furthered these instructions so that we would be sure that “neighbor” was not a word with which we could take creative license. “You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you: Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you” (Matthew 5:43-44).

As in many of Jesus’s instructions for being a disciple, his approach hardly seems reasonable. Here we seem to be told that we must accord the Harris’s and Dawkins’ of the world a respect which they deny others. In fact, we are told that their disrespect is not something that should bring defensiveness but blessing. “Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you, and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me. Rejoice and be glad, because great is your reward in heaven, for in the same way they persecuted the prophets who were before you” (Matthew 5:11-12).

Of course, this is not to say that we do not gently point out the poverty of their arguments and bias of their sources, their blatant double standards, willful inconsistencies, and altogether unwarranted optimism for a world rid of faith. But this we do with respect, with humility, and with some real degree of the love we claim to know. “Since God so loved us,” writes John “we ought also to love one another. No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us” (1 John 4:11-12).

Obeying the greatest commandment must never be the motivation for disobeying the second greatest. If the bombastic detractors of the Christian faith refuse to see its God, might they at the very least encounter the reality of God’s command to love them in spite of it.

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1. Sam Harris, LETTER TO A CHRISTIAN NATION: A CHALLENGE TO THE FAITH OF AMERICA (New York: Bantam Books, 2007), vii.

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Copyright © 2007 Ravi Zacharias International Ministries (RZIM). Reprinted with permission. "A Slice of Infinity" is a radio ministry of Ravi Zacharias International Ministries.

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When Christians Love

John 13:1

Frances Mason died a few days ago.

I realize fully that very few who will read this article will know anything about Frances Mason.

But I did.

You see, Frances Mason made a powerful impact on my life for one very simple reason: She loved me.

I became the pastor of Green Valley Baptist Church in Birmingham, Alabama, in 1990. It was my second church out of seminary, and I was a 35-year-old “kid.” Frances Mason had seen neophytes like me come and go, but this senior citizen made a decision the day I came to Green Valley.

“Pastor,” she said with enthusiasm, “you will have some good and bad days here, but I want to promise you two things. First, I will pray for you every day and, second, I will love you no matter what.”

When I think of people who have made significant positive differences in my life, Frances Mason is near the top. Even after I left Green Valley, she continued to call and write with a simple message: She loved me.

Maybe it is because I am in a position today to see a broader view of evangelical Christianity. I hope it is not because I have become cynical. But it just seems to me that Christians are showing less love and more judgmental behavior.

I can hear possible sighs: “Oh no, Rainer is talking about this love thing. He is going soft on doctrine.” But the foundation of Christian doctrine is the love of Christ manifest on the cross. And the Apostle John tells us that this love is most evident when Christians love one another: “Dear friends, let us love one another, because love is from God, and everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God” (1 John 4:7).

Indeed my doctrine drives me to love others. And when I do not, I am nothing less than disobedient to this doctrine I say I believe.

Coach Joe Hendrickson loved me, too. Again, few of you will know his name. He was my high school football coach. In the two short years he coached at Bullock County High School in Union Springs, Ala., he made a profound impact on the team. He was tough, but we players never doubted that he loved us.

Coach Joe was a follower of Christ, and the love of Christ was so very evident in his attitude and behavior. So when he shared the Gospel of Christ with me, I listened. He had already won my trust and my heart by his love. And on that same day he shared with me, I became a follower of Christ.

I was surprised to feel the lump in my throat when I received the call that Frances had died. Indeed it has been years since I have seen her. It is simply amazing how love transcends barriers and years. She knew how to pray. And she knew how to love.

One person led me to Christ by demonstrating Christian love. Another person’s Christian love and prayers strengthened me in some challenging times.

This morning in my quiet time, I reflected on lives like Frances’ and Coach Joe’s. And I began to pray. May I share with you portions of my prayer?

“Lord, teach me to pray for someone before I criticize them.”

“Lord, help me to see others through Your love, and to treat them as You would.”

“God, remind me of the brevity of life, so that I will spend more time loving and less time judging.”

“Father, teach me to love those who do not love me.”

“Lord, may Your love be so apparent in my life that I will have ongoing opportunities to share that love with those who do not know You.”

Frances Mason died a few days ago. But she leaves behind a legacy of love.

“We love because He first loved us” (1 John 4:19).

Lord, teach me to love.

from Baptist Press · Thom S. Rainer via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

The Ultimate Standard of Authority (part 5 of 5)

2 Timothy 3:16

The Bible is to be seen as the ultimate standard of authority for God’s people. The Bible derives its authority from the self-revealing and self-authenticating God. The Bible’s authority can and does communicate across cultural, geographical and temporal differences between the biblical world and our setting. Scripture is authoritative as it is rightly and faithfully interpreted in its historical setting. The Holy Spirit illumines our minds and hearts to understand the biblical message. Likewise, the Spirit leads us to recognize the authority of Scripture and to respond and obey its message today.[7]

The Bible calls for an obedience to the authority of God revealed in His Word, not in reaction to authority or in an authoritarian sense but from a true freedom that belongs to the children of God. We must avoid a concept of freedom that loses a sense of oughtness and responsibility. Simultaneously, we must avoid a swing toward authoritarianism so that our commitment to Scripture’s authority is misplaced in a church leader or in a societal trend.

Many people confuse a desire to obey Scripture’s authority with a personal insecurity that calls for a leader to tell them constantly what to do or think. More troubling is that some leaders encourage this confusion by commingling a commitment to biblical authority with the authority of certain positions in church leadership. What is needed more than ever is a clear-cut distinction between human and divine authority, so that the authority of the Bible is not undercut or lost through a false equation with human structures.

We demonstrate our concern for biblical authority not only by careful biblical interpretation but also by repentance and prayer. A commitment to the complete truthfulness and trustworthiness of Scripture is important because it is the foundation that establishes the full extent of Scripture’s authority.

Living with a Holy Spirit-prompted desire to respond to the message and authority of the Bible brings reproof and correction (2 Timothy 3:16), which result in contrition, discipleship and enablement for worship and service (2 Timothy 3:17). It results in training in righteousness that bears on Christian businesspeople and the integrity of their practice. It bears on Christians, who must speak to matters of injustice in society and in the church. Biblical authority addresses families and their commitments to one another. It speaks to preachers and teachers to handle carefully the Word of God (2 Timothy 2:15).

The authority of the Bible calls on us to recognize God’s desire for unity (through variety) in the church (Ephesians 4:1-16; John 17; 1 Corinthians 12) and the need to love one another (John 13:34-35), even when we disagree over the interpretation of Scripture itself. Thus, we need a renewed commitment to biblical authority that enables us to relate to one another in love and humility, bringing about true fellowship and community and resulting in not only right doctrine but also right practice before a watching, unbelieving world. We need a renewed commitment to biblical authority that will transform our performance-oriented church meetings into authentic worship and praise -- that will turn our church programs into service that is pleasing to God. The Holy Spirit, through the Scripture, illumines our appreciation of grace and motivates us toward faithful evangelism, social ministry and worldwide missions.[8]

We confess that God has revealed Himself to us. His revelation has been preserved for us in Holy Scripture by the Holy Spirit’s work of inspiration. We confess our belief in the divine inspiration, total truthfulness and complete authority of the Bible. Even beyond this affirmation, with willing spirits and open minds and hearts, we must dedicate ourselves anew to the authority of Holy Scripture, assured that we can place our complete confidence in God’s truthful and reliable Word.

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This is the fifth of five articles by David S. Dockery, president of Union University in Jackson, Tenn., on the authority of the Bible. The four articles were published as one article in the February 2008 issue of SBC Life, journal of the Southern Baptist Convention (www.sbclife.org).

FOOTNOTES

7. James Leo Garrett. Jr., Systematic Theology, Volume 1, (Grand Rapids: William B. Eerdmans Publishing Company, 1990), pp. 181-82.

8. Geoffrey W. Bromiley, “Authority,” International Standard Bible Encyclopedia, Volume 1, ed. Geoffrey W. Bromiley, (Grand Rapids: William B. Eerdmans Publishing Company, 1979), pp. 346-371 and D. A. Carson. “Recent Developments in the Doctrine of Scripture,” Hermeneutics, Authority and Canon, ed. D. A. Carson and John D. Woodbridge (Grand Rapids: Zondervan Publishing House, 1986), pp. 46-48. Also see “Authority” in Evangelical Dictionary of Theology, edited by Walter Elwell (Grand Rapids: Baker, 1984). Much of this article has been drawn from David S. Dockery, Christian Scripture (Nashville: Broadman & Holman, 1995).

This series of articles originally appeared as one article in the Union University Bulletin, Volume IV, Issue 2, http://www.uu.edu/unionbulletin/pdfs/vol4-issue2.pdf. Reprinted with permission.

Walk In Love

John 13:35

Turn on any form of media today and you’ll find people labeling each other with pejorative terms, political epithets, and personal insults. Social media actually emboldens individuals to criticize and characterize others without regard for truth in their analysis. This is the world we live in today. But as the disciples of Christ, we have His words to follow when He said, “By this all will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another” (John 13:35). How do we demonstrate that we are His disciples? We walk in love.

Walk in love

Throughout history, Christians who have followed our Lord’s words in John 13 have stood out like candles in the night. About nine hundred years ago, the Italian hillside town of Assisi was ensnared in the frenzy of fighting. The young Francis took part in the war and was captured and imprisoned, where he ultimately became quite ill.

The Lord, however, had other plans for this young man and as his health returned, he developed a zeal to follow in the steps of Christ. In his devotion to Christ, his heart was drawn to the needy, the outcast, the poor, the beggarly, and the scorned of society. The change in him changed his community. For the rest of his life, Francis of Assisi preached Christ not just with words but with deeds of kindness. He never passed beggars without a burden for their needs. He never met the sick without praying for their strength. He embodied the love of God as he rejected the riches of this world for a life devoted to helping the impoverished in the name of Christ.

How do we walk in love?

Centuries later, we are still drawn to Francis of Assisi because of his demonstration of Christ’s love. He fulfilled John 13:35. Here are nine suggestions on ways to walk in love.

1. Be patient with others. When someone irritates you, look for something good in them. When a situation frustrates you, remember that your patience displays the patience of our Lord within us.

2. Be kind. Demonstrate kindness to others wherever you go. Even the smallest act can brighten the day of someone who will be blessed and encouraged by an unexpected act of kindness in their lives.

3. Don’t envy others. When you hear of someone’s good fortune, remember to instantly thank God for it. If you find yourself feeling frustrated that something good happened to someone else, confess it quietly as a sin and ask the Lord to give you a thankful heart for the blessing your friend has received.

4. Don’t brag about your own abilities. Learn to listen to your own words and to stop yourself whenever you find yourself boasting about your accomplishments. Let another person praise you and not your own lips.

5. Deliberately resist being prideful. A pride-filled person has their focused misplaced. Instead, focus on the Lord. Remember that every good gift comes from God, including your intellect and any talents you may possess. It all belongs to Him.

6. Never be rude. When you have a conflict with anyone — your spouse, a stranger, or a someone who is being belligerent to you — endeavor to stay pleasant. Rudeness damages not only your reputation but it also reflects negatively on your testimony.

7. Look out for the needs of others rather than your own. Practice putting others first. Don’t complain when you don’t get your way, but instead seek to serve others in His name.

8. Don’t give in to provocation. Under-react to others when they are upset with you, knowing that a soft answer turns away wrath.

9. Don’t think the worst of others. Assume the best of others whenever possible. Seek to become a positive influence in the lives of those around you. The culture is filled with negativity; be a positive light in the darkness.

By now I am sure you realize that these nine points aren’t my invention. They’re from 1 Corinthians 13:4-5: “Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil.” This is the Lord’s prescription, His definition of love, and it’s the attitude that paves the way for the Gospel in a time of rancor. Be a vessel of God’s love in a world filled with hatred and strife. Practice these nine rules for walking in love — God’s love always makes a difference!

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Originally titled "The Disciple's Path."

David Jeremiah is the founder and host of Turning Point for God and senior pastor of Shadow Mountain Community Church in El Cajon, California.

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