F.B. Meyer emphasizes the importance of a man ruling his own household with love and respect, as this reflects the divine authority given by Christ. He argues that a man's ability to lead his family is crucial for his capability to care for the Church, highlighting that authority should not be exercised selfishly but rooted in love. Meyer warns that the decline of authority in homes is a sign of societal decay, and he encourages men to earn respect through their character and actions. Ultimately, love is the foundation of true authority, leading to mutual respect and obedience within the family.