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- Adam Clarke
- Jamieson-Fausset-Brown
- John Gill
Adam Clarke Bible Commentary
Fathers, provoke not - See the notes on Eph 6:4.
Jamieson-Fausset-Brown Bible Commentary
(Eph 6:4.) It is a different Greek verb, therefore translate here, "irritate not." By perpetual fault-finding "children" are "discouraged" or "disheartened." A broken-down spirit is fatal to youth [BENGEL].
John Gill Bible Commentary
Fathers, provoke not your children to anger,.... See Gill on Eph 6:4. lest they be discouraged; or disheartened and dispirited; their spirits be broke through grief and trouble, and they become indolent, sluggish, and unfit for business; or, despairing of having any share in the affections of their parents, disregard their commands, instructions, and corrections, and grow obdurate, stubborn, and rebellious.
Christian Households
20Children, obey your parents in everything, for this is pleasing to the Lord.21Fathers, do not provoke your children, so they will not become discouraged.
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Children
By Charles Stanley6.4K06:00ChildrenDEU 6:6PSA 127:3PRO 1:8PRO 22:6EPH 6:4COL 3:21JAS 1:19In this sermon, the speaker emphasizes that while parents have a responsibility to teach and guide their children in their faith, ultimately each child must develop their own belief system and relationship with God. The speaker highlights the importance of providing a loving and supportive environment for children to grow in their faith, tailoring their expressions of love to meet each child's unique needs. The speaker also addresses the guilt that parents may feel when their children do not turn out as expected, reminding them that children are individuals with their own struggles and challenges. The sermon concludes with the reminder that training a child in the way they should go requires individualized attention and patient listening.
(Godly Home) Part 10 - the Hearts of the Fathers Must Turn
By Denny Kenaston4.1K42:49Godly Home SeriesEXO 20:12PSA 127:3PRO 22:6MAL 4:5MAT 6:33EPH 6:4COL 3:21In this sermon, Brother Denny emphasizes the importance of relationships, particularly the relationship between fathers and their children. He shares a story about a father who neglects his child's desire for attention and approval, causing the child to turn to other influences. Brother Denny then references Malachi 4:5-6, which speaks of the coming of Elijah to turn the hearts of fathers to their children and vice versa. He highlights the need for a heart change and repentance in order to truly nurture and raise children for God.
(Godly Home) Part 16 - Train Up a Child
By Denny Kenaston3.9K41:10Godly Home SeriesDEU 6:6PRO 3:11PRO 22:6PRO 29:17EPH 6:4COL 3:21HEB 12:6In this sermon, the preacher emphasizes the importance of teaching and training children in the ways of God. He uses examples from everyday life, such as fixing fences and building lofts, to illustrate the learning experiences that children can go through. The preacher also highlights the significance of instilling virtues and a sense of duty in children, which can develop their character over time. He shares a personal story of his son milking goats at a young age, demonstrating the value of responsibility and commitment. Overall, the sermon encourages parents to actively engage in teaching and training their children, using the Bible as their guide.
(Godly Home) Part 17 - a Quiet, Ordered Life
By Denny Kenaston3.8K40:30Godly Home SeriesPSA 23:1PRO 22:6ISA 32:15ISA 32:17MAT 6:33EPH 6:4COL 3:21In this sermon, the speaker emphasizes the importance of building a strong relationship with one's children in order to establish authority. He highlights the need for parents to earn the respect and obedience of their children by walking with God and sacrificing for them. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of consistency in directing and disciplining children, as they are discerning and quickly learn where the boundaries are. He contrasts the correction and spanking mode of parenting with the leadership and guidance approach, emphasizing that God our Father is primarily a leader and not just a corrector.
(Godly Home) Part 12 - a Sacred Exercise
By Denny Kenaston3.5K40:37Godly Home SeriesPRO 13:24PRO 22:6PRO 29:17MAT 6:33EPH 6:4COL 3:21HEB 12:11In this sermon, Brother Denny discusses the topic of discipline and its importance in raising children. He emphasizes the need to approach discipline with a spirit of love and compassion, rather than anger. Brother Denny encourages parents to take the time to properly discipline their children, even if it may seem like a lengthy process. He also emphasizes the importance of seeking guidance from God and allowing Him to lead in the discipline process. After the spanking, Brother Denny emphasizes the need for affirmation and comforting the child, showing them love and understanding.
Missions and Your Family
By Paul Washer1.8K1:06:00MAT 6:331CO 16:14EPH 5:25COL 3:211TI 3:22TI 3:16HEB 10:25In this sermon, the speaker shares a story set in first century Christianity, where an elder is thrown into prison by the Roman guard. The speaker then reflects on his experiences in the third world, where prisons were harsh and survival depended on receiving basic necessities from the outside. The speaker also mentions his own mission work and emphasizes the importance of prioritizing family and children over worldly achievements. He urges the audience to have a mission-minded mindset and to seek truth, as it is the only thing that can fix broken lives.
The Defeated Father
By Emanuel Esh1.7K1:38:42Father2SA 3:27MAT 6:33EPH 6:4COL 3:21In this sermon, the speaker addresses the issue of defeat in our homes and provides guidance on how to overcome it. He shares his own experience of raising four daughters and how they were initially losing them until his wife took a firmer approach. He emphasizes the importance of establishing children in the ways of God to withstand the trials and challenges of the world. The speaker also references a biblical passage in which David advises his son Solomon on walking with God and taking care of details.
10. the Key to Obedience Is Blessing
By Denny Kenaston1.3K45:36GEN 27:27PSA 127:3PRO 22:6EPH 6:4COL 3:21This sermon emphasizes the importance of blessing our children with love and affirmation as a foundation for obedience and respect. It highlights the power of a continuous flow of blessings in a child's life, not just as a ritual but as a way of living. The speaker stresses the need for parents to spend quality time with their children, showering them with blessings throughout the day, and creating a nurturing atmosphere of love and acceptance.
12 the Rod Is Love
By Denny Kenaston1.2K46:06PRO 13:24PRO 19:18PRO 22:15PRO 23:13PRO 29:15PRO 29:17EPH 6:4COL 3:21HEB 12:5HEB 12:11This sermon emphasizes the importance of balancing love and discipline in parenting, focusing on the biblical perspective of using the rod to correct children with love. It highlights the significance of not sparing the rod out of love for the child's well-being, the need to start discipline early while there is hope, and the impact of proper correction on shaping children's character and understanding of God's love.
15. the Bondage of Foolishness
By Denny Kenaston1.1K43:36PRO 3:11PRO 13:24PRO 20:30PRO 22:15PRO 23:13PRO 29:15PRO 29:17EPH 6:4COL 3:21HEB 12:11This sermon delves into the concept of the 'bondage of foolishness' as described in Proverbs 22:15, emphasizing the importance of understanding and addressing the root causes of children's wrong behavior. It highlights the need for parents to discern and address silliness and foolishness in their children, guiding them towards righteousness and obedience through loving discipline. The sermon explores the impact of foolishness on children's conscience and the role of discipline in bringing clarity and revival to their hearts, ultimately leading to peace and joy.
11 the Hearts of the Fathers Must Turn
By Denny Kenaston1.0K46:57PSA 127:3PRO 22:6AMO 6:1MAL 4:5MAT 3:2LUK 15:20EPH 6:4COL 3:21This sermon emphasizes the importance of repairing and nurturing relationships within families, particularly focusing on the role of fathers in turning their hearts towards their children. It highlights the need for repentance, radical heart transformation, and the powerful impact of a father's love and involvement in the lives of their children. The message warns against the curse of disconnected fathers and the detrimental effects it has on families and society, urging a return to God's design for family relationships.
13 a Sacred Exercise
By Denny Kenaston97145:03DEU 6:6PSA 127:3PRO 13:24PRO 22:6PRO 22:15PRO 29:15EPH 6:4COL 3:21HEB 12:11This sermon emphasizes the importance of loving discipline in parenting, highlighting the need for parents to approach spanking as a sacred exercise done in love and compassion. It addresses the dangers of spanking in anger and the significance of instructing, affirming, and praying with the child during the discipline process. The speaker encourages parents to follow God's example of discipline, focusing on building a close relationship with their children through correction and guidance.
18. a Quite Ordered Life
By Denny Kenaston79345:10PSA 23:1PRO 22:6EPH 6:4COL 3:21TIT 2:7This sermon emphasizes the importance of proactive parenting and guiding children in a positive direction, focusing on leading with love and direction rather than correction. It highlights the benefits of establishing a quiet, ordered life for children, drawing parallels to God's leadership and authority. The speaker encourages parents to take control of their environment, establish authority calmly and confidently, and lead their families in a peaceful and orderly manner.
20. Children a Dwelling Place for God
By Denny Kenaston72945:50DEU 6:6PSA 127:3PRO 22:6EPH 6:4COL 3:21This sermon emphasizes the importance of raising children as vessels for the living God, focusing on nurturing their minds, wills, emotions, and bodies to prepare them for God's dwelling. It highlights the significance of guiding children in the right path, filling their minds with the Word of God, training their wills to yield, directing their emotions towards love for God, and disciplining their bodies to be in subjection. The ultimate goal is to raise children who, when converted, can walk with God, listen to His voice, and live as solid disciples of Jesus Christ.
Setting Standards in the Home
By Rick Leibee6511:04:33MAT 22:37JHN 3:16ROM 4:15ROM 5:13EPH 6:1EPH 6:4COL 3:21In this sermon, the speaker discusses the importance of setting and maintaining standards in our homes. He emphasizes the need for clear communication and understanding between parents and children. The speaker highlights four key aspects of obedience: doing what is asked immediately, doing it completely, doing it with a cheerful attitude, and doing it in accordance with the child's level of understanding. He also encourages parents to consider the delivery and reception of their instructions, taking into account the individual abilities and maturity of each child.
Old Testament Survey - Part 21
By Dick Woodward52727:34DEU 6:4DEU 11:19PSA 78:4PSA 127:3PRO 1:8PRO 22:6ISA 38:19EPH 6:4COL 3:21The sermon focuses on the Book of Deuteronomy, highlighting the transition of the second generation of God's people entering the promised land of Canaan after the first generation perished due to unbelief. Moses preaches important sermons to prepare the new generation, emphasizing the need to love and obey God's Word with all their being and pass these values on to their children. The core message is about nurturing a generation that loves and obeys God, with a key emphasis on the foundational aspects of revelation, responsibility, relationship, and reality in the educational process.
Parenting - Is It Controlled Chaos?
By Shane Idleman50750:45PSA 127:3PRO 22:6MAT 6:34EPH 6:4COL 3:212TI 3:15This sermon emphasizes the importance of parenting, highlighting the need for intentional and consistent guidance based on biblical principles. It addresses the challenges parents face in a chaotic world, the significance of disciplining children with love and wisdom, and the impact of parental influence on children's well-being and future. The message encourages parents to prioritize their relationship with God, invest time in teaching their children the ways of the Lord, and make necessary changes to strengthen family bonds.
On Eagles' Wings Pt 300
By Don Courville34539:25Radio ShowDEU 6:6PSA 127:3PRO 22:6MAT 6:33MRK 9:14EPH 6:4COL 3:21In this sermon, the preacher focuses on the importance of fathers in the family and the role they play in shaping their children's lives. He emphasizes the need for fathers to be watchful and attentive to their children, acknowledging their flaws and using them as an opportunity for personal growth. The preacher also highlights the need for spiritual preparation and reliance on God's power to overcome the strongholds of the enemy. He shares a poem about a part-time father to illustrate the impact of a father's presence and promises to his child.
Why Kids Go Wrong?
By David Wilkerson8647:24Parental ResponsibilityDiscipline and LoveDEU 6:6PRO 13:24PRO 22:6PRO 29:15EPH 6:4COL 3:21HEB 12:11David Wilkerson addresses the reasons why children go astray, drawing from his experiences with troubled youth and his own parenting. He emphasizes the lack of parental involvement and discipline, highlighting stories of young people who feel neglected by their parents, leading them to seek acceptance elsewhere. Wilkerson argues that many parents are overwhelmed by their own issues and fail to provide the guidance and love their children need, resulting in rebellion and emotional turmoil. He calls for parents to take responsibility, establish boundaries, and foster open communication with their children, while also urging a return to biblical principles of discipline and love. Ultimately, he stresses the importance of parents being present and engaged in their children's lives to prevent them from falling into destructive behaviors.
Marriage Q&a Part 2
By Shane Idleman141:11:50ParentingMarriagePRO 22:6PRO 27:17ECC 4:91CO 13:4GAL 6:1EPH 6:4PHP 4:13COL 3:21JAS 1:191PE 4:8Shane Idleman and his wife Morgan discuss the complexities of marriage, parenting, and pastoring in their sermon 'Marriage Q&A Part 2.' They address the challenges of handling criticism, the importance of communication in their relationship, and the need for transparency with their children about past struggles. They emphasize the significance of setting boundaries, maintaining a strong spiritual foundation, and the necessity of teaching their children about responsibility and the consequences of their actions. The couple shares their insights on navigating the chaos of family life while fostering a loving and supportive environment.
Parenting: Raising Up Godly Leaders
By Shane Idleman141:01:30ParentingSpiritual LeadershipPSA 139:23PRO 3:11PRO 4:1PRO 13:24PRO 22:6PRO 22:15PRO 23:13MAT 11:28JHN 14:1COL 3:21Shane Idleman emphasizes the vital role of parenting in raising godly leaders, asserting that everyone influences someone, regardless of their parental status. He encourages listeners to embrace their roles as spiritual leaders, make tough decisions, and discipline their children with love and intention. Idleman highlights the importance of perseverance in parenting, leading by example, and the necessity of prayer in nurturing a godly family. He reassures those who feel regret about past parenting choices that God can restore and redeem their influence. Ultimately, he calls for a commitment to prioritize spiritual growth and character development in the home.
A Wake-Up Call to Men
By Shane Idleman938:01Responsibility of MenSpiritual LeadershipJOS 24:151SA 15:23PSA 139:23PRO 27:8MAT 5:141CO 16:13EPH 5:23COL 3:21JAS 4:101PE 5:6Shane Idleman delivers a powerful sermon titled 'A Wake-Up Call to Men,' emphasizing the tendency of men to wander from their God-given roles and responsibilities. He draws parallels between a wandering bird and men straying from their spiritual nests, urging them to recognize the dangers of disobedience and pride. Idleman stresses the importance of honest self-examination and the need for men to lead their families with humility and strength, rather than succumbing to passivity and societal pressures. He challenges men to take responsibility for their actions and to seek God's guidance in their lives, highlighting the consequences of neglecting their roles as spiritual leaders. The sermon serves as a call to awaken the hearts of men to their vital responsibilities in the family and society.
Letters to Parents [#2]
By Charles Finney4Child DisciplineParentingPSA 34:14PRO 15:1PRO 22:6PRO 29:17EPH 6:4PHP 4:7COL 3:211TH 5:142TI 3:15JAS 1:19Charles Finney emphasizes the critical role of parents in the moral and emotional training of their children, urging them to avoid insincerity, impatience, and scolding. He advocates for a calm and deliberate approach to discipline, encouraging parents to model honesty and regularity in their own lives to maintain their influence. Finney warns against fostering fears and bad tempers in children, advising parents to be mindful of their words and actions. He stresses the importance of creating a structured environment and maintaining a peaceful spirit to positively impact their children's development.
A Bad Boy
By D.L. Moody2Prodigal SonParental LovePSA 127:3PRO 22:6LUK 15:11EPH 6:1COL 3:21D.L. Moody shares a poignant story of a father and his prodigal son, illustrating the deep pain caused by the son's reckless choices that led to his mother's death and now threatened his father's life. The father, filled with love and desperation, pleads with his son to stay home, but the son, consumed by his vices, chooses to leave, trampling over his father's love and sacrifice. This powerful narrative highlights the heartache of a parent witnessing their child's self-destructive path and the profound impact of sin on family relationships.
Children to Be Educated for God.
By Edward Payson2GEN 18:19DEU 6:6PSA 78:4PSA 127:3PRO 22:6MAT 19:14EPH 6:4COL 3:212TI 3:15Edward Payson preaches on the importance of educating children for God, drawing parallels from the story of Moses being nursed by his own mother at the request of Pharaoh's daughter. He emphasizes the need for parents to realize that their children belong to God, to dedicate them to Him, to have right motives in their upbringing, and to prepare them for God's service. Payson highlights the joy and reward parents receive when they see their children walking in the truth and serving God, urging all parents to prioritize their children's spiritual education for eternal purposes.
- Adam Clarke
- Jamieson-Fausset-Brown
- John Gill
Adam Clarke Bible Commentary
Fathers, provoke not - See the notes on Eph 6:4.
Jamieson-Fausset-Brown Bible Commentary
(Eph 6:4.) It is a different Greek verb, therefore translate here, "irritate not." By perpetual fault-finding "children" are "discouraged" or "disheartened." A broken-down spirit is fatal to youth [BENGEL].
John Gill Bible Commentary
Fathers, provoke not your children to anger,.... See Gill on Eph 6:4. lest they be discouraged; or disheartened and dispirited; their spirits be broke through grief and trouble, and they become indolent, sluggish, and unfit for business; or, despairing of having any share in the affections of their parents, disregard their commands, instructions, and corrections, and grow obdurate, stubborn, and rebellious.