Reproof, Advantage of
Good reproof cleanses character like fuller’s earth removes spots when dry.
The reproof of a good man resembles fuller's earth: it not only removes the spots from our character, but it rubs off when it is dry. Wilkinson.
Reproof in Christian preaching emphasizes the loving correction meant to guide believers toward holiness and growth (Proverbs 27:5-6). It often uses images of cleansing and healing to illustrate how reproof removes moral stains and exposes hidden faults, encouraging a humble and grateful reception rather than resentment (Hebrews 12:11).
Reproof, Giving
Reprove minor faults gently, not with excessive harshness or force.
To reprove small faults with undue vehemence is as absurd as if a man should take a great hammer because he saw a fly on his friend's forehead.
Reproof, Hating
Hating reproof reveals deeper hidden spiritual sores needing healing.
If you cannot bear to be handled, it is a proof you have ugly sores, which are not the less dangerous for being skinned over. Henry.
Reproof, Obligation for
Appreciate friends who overcome difficulties to lovingly reprove you.
Considering how many difficulties a friend has to surmount before he can bring himself to reprove me, I ought to be very much obliged to him. J. Foster.
Reproof, Receiving
People often resent reproof instead of resenting the faults revealed.
Lais broke her looking-glass because it showed the wrinkles on her face. Many men are angry with them that tell them their faults; when they should be angry only with the faults that are told them. Venning.