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Proverbs 19:14
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Carl Friedrich Keil and Franz Delitzsch Old Testament Commentary
14 House and riches are a paternal inheritance, But from Jahve cometh a prudent wife. House and riches (opulentia), which in themselves do not make men happy, one may receive according to the law of inheritance; but a prudent wife is God's gracious gift, Pro 18:22. There is not a more suitable word than משׂכּלת (fem. of משׂכּיל) to characterize a wife as a divine gift, making her husband happy. שׂכל (השׂכּל) is the property which says: "I am named modesty, which wears the crown of all virtues." (Note: The lxx translates: παρὰ δὲ ἁρμόζεται γυνὴ ἀνδοί. Here as often (vid., my Jesurun) The Arab. usus loquendi makes itself felt in the idiom of the lxx, for shâkl means ἁρμόζειν.)
Jamieson-Fausset-Brown Bible Commentary
A contrast of men's gifts and God's, who, though author of both blessings, confers the latter by His more special providence. and--or, "but," implying that the evils of Pro 19:13 are only avoided by His care.
John Gill Bible Commentary
Houses and riches are the inheritance of fathers,.... Which they are careful to provide and leave to their children. This they may and often do, build or purchase houses, and procure great riches, and put their children into the possession of them; and, or but, a prudent wife is from the Lord; one that behaves well to her husband, massages the affairs of her house with wisdom, and brings up her children in all orderly manner: such a wife no man has from the care and provision of his parents; nor so much from his own good choice and industry as from the kind providence of God, to which he should ascribe it; his parents may give him houses and lands, but it is God that gives him a wise and discreet woman to be an helpmeet to him; see Pro 18:22.
Matthew Henry Bible Commentary
Note, 1. A discreet and virtuous wife is a choice gift of God's providence to a man - a wife that is prudent, in opposition to one that is contentious, Pro 19:13. For, though a wife that is continually finding fault may think it is her wit and wisdom to be so, it is really her folly; a prudent wife is meek and quiet, and makes the best of every thing. If a man has such a wife, let him not ascribe it to the wisdom of his own choice or his own management (for the wisest have been deceived both in and by a woman), but let him ascribe it to the goodness of God, who made him a help meet for him, and perhaps by some hits and turns of providence that seemed casual brought her to him. Every creature is what he makes it. Happy marriages, we are sure, are made in heaven; Abraham's servant prayed in the belief of this, Gen 24:12. 2. It is a more valuable gift than house and riches, contributes more to the comfort and credit of a man's life and the welfare of his family, is a greater token of God's favour, and about which the divine providence is in a more especial manner conversant. A good estate may be the inheritance of fathers, which, by the common direction of Providence, comes in course to a man; but no man has a good wife by descent or entail. Parents that are worldly, in disposing of their children, look no further than to match them to house and riches, but, if withal it be to a prudent wife, let God have the glory.
Proverbs 19:14
The Man of Integrity
13A foolish son is his father’s ruin, and a quarrelsome wife is like a constant dripping. 14Houses and wealth are inherited from fathers, but a prudent wife is from the LORD.
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Do Not Fear to Take Mary
By Erlo Stegen1.5K59:42EngagementGEN 2:18GEN 24:4PRO 18:22PRO 19:14MAT 1:20MAT 6:331CO 7:9In this sermon, the speaker shares a personal story about his search for a wife. He emphasizes the importance of seeking God's guidance in relationships and shares how God spoke to him through a Bible verse. The speaker encourages the audience to pray and seek God's will when considering engagement and marriage. He also highlights the potential challenges and pitfalls in relationships and advises caution.
A Gift From God
By Ed Wrather0PRO 12:4PRO 19:14PRO 31:10EPH 5:25COL 3:18Ed Wrather reflects on the importance of having a prudent spouse, highlighting the wisdom and guidance that comes from the Lord in relationships. He contrasts a prudent wife with a reckless individual, emphasizing the impact of having Godly wisdom in one's life. Through a personal story and reflection on his own marriage, Ed emphasizes the transformative power of God in shaping character and values. He encourages listeners to seek God's guidance to develop inner beauty and prudence in their own lives, becoming a gift to others.
Homily 23 on Romans
By St. John Chrysostom0GEN 2:24PSA 34:8PSA 37:4PRO 19:14ROM 13:1COL 3:31TI 2:1John Chrysostom preaches on the importance of being subject to higher powers, emphasizing that God has ordained rulers for the better ordering of society and to prevent unnecessary conflicts. He highlights that all power is of God, and resisting authorities is akin to resisting God's ordinance. Chrysostom encourages believers to pay tribute, honor, and love one another, as love fulfills the Law and works no ill towards neighbors. He stresses that love is the foundation of virtue and the key to experiencing God's Kingdom and eternal joy.
(Practical Discipleship) 2. Discipleship and the Home
By Zac Poonen0DiscipleshipFamily RelationshipsGEN 2:24PRO 19:14MAL 2:15MAT 11:29MAT 18:18LUK 2:51LUK 14:26ROM 12:2EPH 5:22Zac Poonen emphasizes that true discipleship begins at home, where honoring parents is foundational to following Jesus. He explains that while Jesus taught to 'hate' one's parents, this must be understood in the context of honoring them first, as demonstrated by Jesus' own life. Poonen highlights the importance of unity between spouses in raising godly children and warns against the dangers of prioritizing parental or societal expectations over God's commands. He encourages young people to seek God's will in marriage, emphasizing that discipleship should take precedence over romantic pursuits. Ultimately, Poonen calls for homes that reflect the values of discipleship, as the strength of the church is rooted in the godliness of its families.
Precious Purity - Engagement
By Erlo Stegen0Spiritual FidelityPurity in RelationshipsPSA 51:10PRO 19:14MAT 6:24JHN 4:182CO 11:2GAL 6:7HEB 12:14JAS 4:41JN 1:6REV 1:14Erlo Stegen emphasizes the importance of purity and holiness in engagements, urging young people to seek God's guidance in choosing a spouse rather than succumbing to worldly standards of beauty and indulgence. He warns against the consequences of unfaithfulness and the inevitability of sin being revealed, using the example of a young man who married a beautiful woman only to discover her infidelity. Stegen stresses that true faith requires a complete separation from sin and a sincere commitment to Jesus, as unrepentant hearts will face dire consequences. He calls for self-examination and repentance, reminding listeners that God despises wickedness and that one cannot claim to know Christ while living in sin. The sermon serves as a powerful reminder of the seriousness of spiritual fidelity and the need for a pure heart before the Lord.
(Secrets of Victory) 10. Faith in God - or Faith in Money?
By Zac Poonen01SA 2:302CH 16:9PSA 37:25PRO 19:14MAT 6:33MRK 10:27LUK 16:13HEB 6:121JN 5:4Zac Poonen preaches about the power struggle between serving God and serving money (Mammon), emphasizing the need for believers to have more faith in God than the world has in money. He shares personal experiences of relying on God's provision and timing, highlighting the importance of faith and patience in receiving God's blessings. Poonen stresses the significance of aligning our desires with God's will to avoid unnecessary problems and to experience God's faithfulness in all areas of life, including finances and relationships.
- Keil-Delitzsch
- Jamieson-Fausset-Brown
- John Gill
- Matthew Henry
Carl Friedrich Keil and Franz Delitzsch Old Testament Commentary
14 House and riches are a paternal inheritance, But from Jahve cometh a prudent wife. House and riches (opulentia), which in themselves do not make men happy, one may receive according to the law of inheritance; but a prudent wife is God's gracious gift, Pro 18:22. There is not a more suitable word than משׂכּלת (fem. of משׂכּיל) to characterize a wife as a divine gift, making her husband happy. שׂכל (השׂכּל) is the property which says: "I am named modesty, which wears the crown of all virtues." (Note: The lxx translates: παρὰ δὲ ἁρμόζεται γυνὴ ἀνδοί. Here as often (vid., my Jesurun) The Arab. usus loquendi makes itself felt in the idiom of the lxx, for shâkl means ἁρμόζειν.)
Jamieson-Fausset-Brown Bible Commentary
A contrast of men's gifts and God's, who, though author of both blessings, confers the latter by His more special providence. and--or, "but," implying that the evils of Pro 19:13 are only avoided by His care.
John Gill Bible Commentary
Houses and riches are the inheritance of fathers,.... Which they are careful to provide and leave to their children. This they may and often do, build or purchase houses, and procure great riches, and put their children into the possession of them; and, or but, a prudent wife is from the Lord; one that behaves well to her husband, massages the affairs of her house with wisdom, and brings up her children in all orderly manner: such a wife no man has from the care and provision of his parents; nor so much from his own good choice and industry as from the kind providence of God, to which he should ascribe it; his parents may give him houses and lands, but it is God that gives him a wise and discreet woman to be an helpmeet to him; see Pro 18:22.
Matthew Henry Bible Commentary
Note, 1. A discreet and virtuous wife is a choice gift of God's providence to a man - a wife that is prudent, in opposition to one that is contentious, Pro 19:13. For, though a wife that is continually finding fault may think it is her wit and wisdom to be so, it is really her folly; a prudent wife is meek and quiet, and makes the best of every thing. If a man has such a wife, let him not ascribe it to the wisdom of his own choice or his own management (for the wisest have been deceived both in and by a woman), but let him ascribe it to the goodness of God, who made him a help meet for him, and perhaps by some hits and turns of providence that seemed casual brought her to him. Every creature is what he makes it. Happy marriages, we are sure, are made in heaven; Abraham's servant prayed in the belief of this, Gen 24:12. 2. It is a more valuable gift than house and riches, contributes more to the comfort and credit of a man's life and the welfare of his family, is a greater token of God's favour, and about which the divine providence is in a more especial manner conversant. A good estate may be the inheritance of fathers, which, by the common direction of Providence, comes in course to a man; but no man has a good wife by descent or entail. Parents that are worldly, in disposing of their children, look no further than to match them to house and riches, but, if withal it be to a prudent wife, let God have the glory.