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- Jamieson-Fausset-Brown
- John Gill
- Matthew Henry
Jamieson-Fausset-Brown Bible Commentary
The old versions supply "good" before the "wife," as the last clause and Pro 19:14 imply (compare Pro 31:10).
John Gill Bible Commentary
Whoso findeth a wife,.... A good one; so the Septuagint, Vulgate Latin, Syriac, and Arabic versions, supply it; and so the Targum, though it leaves out the word good in the last clause; and no other can be meant, even a good natured one, wise, prudent, careful, and industrious; a proper helpmeet, a virtuous woman, as in Pro 31:10; whoso seeks after such an one, and finds one, especially one that has the grace of God, which he should seek after among his friends, and by their assistance, and by prayer to God: findeth a good thing; that will be good for him, both upon a civil and spiritual account; the Septuagint version adds, "he that casts out a good wife casts out good things, but he that retains a whore is foolish and ungodly;'' which is followed by the Vulgate Latin, Syriac, and Arabic versions, but is not in the Hebrew text. Jarchi interprets it of the law in a mystic sense, but, according to the literal sense, of a good wife; and obtaineth favour of the Lord; it is from the Lord, and under his direction and guidance in seeking, that he finds a good wife; and which he ought to esteem as a favour from the Lord, and as an evidence of his favour to him, and may encourage himself to hope for others of him (z) Hesiod says, a man cannot obtain anything better than a good wife. (z) Opera & Dies, l. 2. v. 323.
Matthew Henry Bible Commentary
Note, 1. A good wife is a great blessing to a man. He that finds a wife (that is, a wife indeed; a bad wife does not deserve to be called by a name of so much honour), that finds a help meet for him (that is a wife in the original acceptation of the word), that sought such a one with care and prayer and has found what he sought, he has found a good thing, a jewel of great value, a rare jewel; he has found that which will not only contribute more than any thing to his comfort in this life, but will forward him in the way to heaven. 2. God is to be acknowledged in it with thankfulness; it is a token of his favour, and a happy pledge of further favours; it is a sign that God delights in a man to do him good and has mercy in store for him; for this, therefore, God must be sought unto.
Proverbs 18:22
The Selfishness of the Unfriendly
21Life and death are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruit. 22He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the LORD.
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(Godly Courtship) 04 Testimonies of Courtship
By Denny Kenaston2.4K1:18:35CourtshipPRO 18:22MAT 22:37In this sermon, the speaker emphasizes the importance of cause and effect in our lives, both positively and negatively. He encourages the audience to strive for spiritual maturity and to seek God's guidance in their relationships and courtships. The speaker shares a personal story of emotional involvement with someone when she was younger and reflects on how her life would have been different if she had married him. The sermon also includes testimonies from two young couples who share their experiences and how they have applied the principles of God's word in their marriages.
Do Not Fear to Take Mary
By Erlo Stegen1.5K59:42EngagementGEN 2:18GEN 24:4PRO 18:22PRO 19:14MAT 1:20MAT 6:331CO 7:9In this sermon, the speaker shares a personal story about his search for a wife. He emphasizes the importance of seeking God's guidance in relationships and shares how God spoke to him through a Bible verse. The speaker encourages the audience to pray and seek God's will when considering engagement and marriage. He also highlights the potential challenges and pitfalls in relationships and advises caution.
Talk on Marriage and Courting
By Keith Daniel1.5K1:23:30GEN 2:24PRO 18:22MAT 19:61CO 13:4EPH 5:25COL 3:191PE 3:71JN 4:71JN 4:19This sermon emphasizes the importance of maintaining love, tenderness, and respect in marriage, highlighting the need for forgiveness, grace, and a renewal of love through God's intervention. It challenges individuals to seek God's help in restoring and strengthening their marriages, urging them to prioritize their relationship with God and their spouse above all else.
Pilate's Wife - Part 3
By John Piper1.1K17:04PSA 23:4PRO 18:22MAT 26:39MAT 27:19MAT 27:24MAT 27:26MAT 27:54In this sermon, the preacher focuses on the story of Pilate's wife, Claudia, and her encounter with Jesus. The sermon begins by emphasizing the power of God and how nothing can stand against it, not even death. The preacher then describes how Pilate heard a voice from the dungeon door, indicating that the king was eager for a head of state. Pilate reflects on his past encounter with Jesus, where Claudia tenderly laid Jesus' bloody head on the palace floor. The sermon concludes by mentioning the historical context of Pilate's deposition and his appeal to Tiberius, but notes that we never hear from Pilate again in history.
Church Live Re-Visited: Session Seven - Part 2
By Ron Bailey1.0K24:37GEN 2:23PRO 18:22MAT 19:6MRK 10:91CO 7:21CO 7:9EPH 5:31COL 3:19HEB 13:4This sermon delves into the significance of the phrase 'bone of my bones, flesh of my flesh' in Genesis chapter 2, highlighting how it symbolizes family and belonging rather than ownership. It explores the mutuality of marriage as intended by God, emphasizing the shared sense of belonging between a husband and wife. The sermon also touches on the historical and cultural aspects of marriage, discussing the concept of sexual immorality and the importance of understanding one's own will before seeking God's will.
(Spiritual Guidelines for Courtship) Practical Courtship Issues
By Rick Leibee6871:12:45RUT 2:9PRO 18:221CO 7:12CO 11:2REV 14:4In this sermon, the speaker discusses the principles and indicators of God's work in young people's lives. He emphasizes the importance of seeking God's guidance in courtship and making decisions based on biblical principles. The speaker highlights the significance of the last month before the wedding in a courtship and the need to filter everything through the lens of the Word of God. He emphasizes that the Bible is not just a book of knowledge, but a tool to transform and change the way we think and live.
Audio Sermon: Marriage, Courtship and Marriage
By Denny Kenaston5521:11:10PRO 18:221CO 6:181CO 7:391CO 13:4EPH 5:251TH 4:3This sermon emphasizes the importance of being married to the Lord first, followed by courtship within the right standards of the Word of God, and then entering into marriage. It highlights the blessings of uniting two dedicated Christians in marriage, cautioning against weak courtship standards and the need for maturity and dedication in relationships. The sermon encourages seeking God's will, seeking counsel, and maintaining holy courtship practices to build a strong foundation for a blessed marriage.
Don't Miss God's Will in Your Marriage
By Zac Poonen0GEN 24:14GEN 24:27PSA 32:8PRO 3:5PRO 18:22PRO 19:21MAT 19:6ROM 8:281CO 7:39EPH 2:10Zac Poonen emphasizes the importance of seeking God's guidance in choosing a life partner, highlighting that God has a specific plan for each of His children, including in the area of marriage. Poonen warns against entering into a marriage outside of God's will, stressing that it is better to remain single than to make such a crucial decision without God's leading. He uses the example of Abraham's servant seeking a bride for Isaac to illustrate the concept of God's direct involvement in bringing two people together for marriage.
Discipleship and Marriage
By William MacDonald0MarriageDiscipleshipGEN 1:28GEN 2:18PRO 18:22ECC 4:9MAT 5:13MAT 19:12LUK 14:281CO 7:21CO 7:32HEB 13:4William MacDonald addresses the complex relationship between discipleship and marriage, emphasizing that while marriage is a divine institution meant for companionship, procreation, and purity, it is not a universal calling for every disciple. He highlights that some may choose celibacy to serve Christ more fully, underscoring the importance of individual guidance from God in this decision. MacDonald warns against the distractions that marriage can bring, urging believers to prioritize their commitment to Christ above all else. He encourages counting the cost of discipleship, reminding that true followers must be willing to forsake everything for the sake of the Gospel. Ultimately, he calls for a life dedicated to glorifying God, free from the entanglements of worldly desires.
Courtship Testimonies
By Denny Kenaston0PRO 3:5PRO 18:22EPH 5:251TH 4:31PE 3:7Brother Myron Stolzfus reflects on the mistakes made in his courtship and marriage, emphasizing the importance of being married to Christ first before pursuing a relationship. He shares how lack of self-control, improper vision of marriage, and not seeking proper authority led to defrauding his wife and causing lasting effects. Sister Lisa Stolzfus shares the guilt and regrets of not keeping affections pure, leading to emotional involvement and defrauding. Brother David Mast highlights the importance of seeking God's will, seeking parental approval, and building a spiritual foundation in courtship to avoid temptations and defrauding. Sister Melinda Mast shares the blessing of hiding affections, constant surrender to God, and the importance of respect, submission, and spiritual leadership in a courtship and marriage.
Courtship by Principle
By Catherine Booth0PRO 18:222CO 6:14GAL 6:2EPH 5:33COL 3:13Catherine Booth emphasizes the importance of intentional courtship and marriage based on specific principles to avoid failure and misery. She highlights the significance of taking time to truly know each other's character, disposition, and beliefs before committing to an engagement. Booth stresses the necessity of seeking compatibility, shared religious views, mental strength, and mutual respect in a partner to ensure a harmonious and lasting relationship. She also shares personal resolutions and rules for a successful marriage, including transparency, unity in decision-making, and avoiding arguments in front of children.
The Duties of Husbands and Wives
By Ignatius of Antioch0PRO 18:221CO 10:31EPH 5:251TI 5:141PE 3:7Ignatius of Antioch emphasizes the importance of fleeing evil practices while openly discussing them in public. He urges sisters to love the Lord and be content with their husbands both physically and spiritually. Similarly, he exhorts brothers to love their wives as Christ loves the Church. Ignatius stresses the purity and honor in relationships, warning against boasting and seeking undue prominence. He advises that marriages should be approved by the bishop to align with God's will and not personal desires, ultimately emphasizing that all actions should bring glory to God.
1 Peter 3:7
By John Gill0MarriageSpiritual LeadershipPRO 18:22MAL 2:141CO 7:3GAL 3:28EPH 5:25COL 3:191TH 4:41TI 5:8HEB 13:41PE 3:7John Gill emphasizes the importance of husbands dwelling with their wives in a manner that honors and respects them, highlighting the need for understanding and fulfilling marital duties according to knowledge of both the Gospel and natural law. He explains that husbands should treat their wives as the 'weaker vessel,' providing care and support, and recognizing their equal status as heirs of grace and eternal life. Gill warns that neglecting these responsibilities can hinder prayers and spiritual unity within the family, urging husbands to foster a loving and respectful environment to ensure their prayers are effective.
To Friends, Concerning Marriages
By George Fox0MarriageUnity in ChristGEN 2:24PRO 18:22MAT 5:161CO 7:392CO 6:14EPH 5:31COL 3:14HEB 13:41PE 3:71JN 1:7George Fox emphasizes that true and honorable marriages are those joined by God in the Light, which represents unity and the Covenant of Life and Peace. He asserts that any marriage not rooted in the Lord is not honorable, and those who oppose marriage are not in the Light. Fox encourages the Children of Light to let their Light shine, ensuring that honorable marriages are recognized and anything contrary is condemned. He calls for transparency in marriage proceedings, urging that they be examined in the Light to maintain unity and purity among believers. Ultimately, he prays for the God of Peace and Love to guide them in wisdom and purity.
The Folly of Drifting Into Marriage
By J.R. Miller0Responsibilities in MarriageMarriage PreparationPRO 18:22EPH 5:25J.R. Miller emphasizes the dangers of drifting into marriage without serious consideration, highlighting that many young people enter this significant commitment without understanding its responsibilities and implications. He argues that unlike other life decisions, marriage should not be approached lightly or as a game of chance, but rather with thoughtful preparation and guidance. Miller calls for parents to educate their children about the true nature of marriage, encouraging young men and women to reflect on their readiness and compatibility before making such a profound commitment. He stresses the importance of mutual respect, selflessness, and the ability to provide for one another in a marriage. Ultimately, he warns that drifting into marriage can lead to unforeseen hardships and regrets, urging young people to be deliberate in their choices.
The Choice of Your Life Companion
By Arthur Vess0PRO 18:22PRO 22:6PRO 31:10MAT 19:61CO 13:42CO 6:14EPH 5:22EPH 5:25COL 3:181TI 5:8Arthur Vess preaches on the importance of choosing a life companion wisely, emphasizing the need for a kindred and harmonious relationship with common goals and values. He highlights the significance of being equally yoked with a Christian companion to avoid conflicts and maintain a peaceful home. Vess also discusses the considerations of financial standing, cultural backgrounds, age levels, church relationships, and temperaments in choosing a life partner. He concludes by stressing the essential role of love as the foundation of a lasting and fulfilling marriage.
Courtship #5
By Denny Kenaston0PRO 18:221CO 7:32EPH 5:22COL 3:51TH 4:3Denny Kenaston preaches about the importance of being married to the Lord first before considering marriage, emphasizing the need for a strong relationship with God as the foundation for a successful marriage. He discusses the significance of courtship in preparing for marriage, highlighting the importance of seeking wisdom, guidance, and maturity before entering into a relationship. Kenaston advises young people to establish holy standards in courtship, maintain purity, seek counsel, and involve parents in the decision-making process. He stresses the need for a godly character, overcoming struggles, and being under authority when choosing a life partner, encouraging a marriage that is blessed by God and built on agape love, phileo love, and eros love in the right order.
Why I Wanted My Wife to Be My Wife
By Samuel Logan Brengle0MarriageSacrificial LoveGEN 2:18PRO 18:22PRO 31:10ECC 4:9SNG 8:61CO 13:4EPH 5:25COL 3:141PE 4:81JN 4:19Samuel Logan Brengle shares a heartfelt reflection on the qualities he sought in a wife, inspired by the loving example of his mother and the sacrificial love he witnessed in a Swedish family's marriage. He emphasizes the importance of character, spiritual devotion, and the willingness to nurture and support one another in a marriage. Brengle recounts his journey of seeking a partner who embodies sweet womanly virtues, education, and a deep love for God, ultimately leading him to the woman who became his wife. He highlights that true love is selfless and sacrificial, and that a divine connection is essential for a lasting marriage. Through prayer and faith, he found the woman who fulfilled his vision of a loving and devoted partner.
- Jamieson-Fausset-Brown
- John Gill
- Matthew Henry
Jamieson-Fausset-Brown Bible Commentary
The old versions supply "good" before the "wife," as the last clause and Pro 19:14 imply (compare Pro 31:10).
John Gill Bible Commentary
Whoso findeth a wife,.... A good one; so the Septuagint, Vulgate Latin, Syriac, and Arabic versions, supply it; and so the Targum, though it leaves out the word good in the last clause; and no other can be meant, even a good natured one, wise, prudent, careful, and industrious; a proper helpmeet, a virtuous woman, as in Pro 31:10; whoso seeks after such an one, and finds one, especially one that has the grace of God, which he should seek after among his friends, and by their assistance, and by prayer to God: findeth a good thing; that will be good for him, both upon a civil and spiritual account; the Septuagint version adds, "he that casts out a good wife casts out good things, but he that retains a whore is foolish and ungodly;'' which is followed by the Vulgate Latin, Syriac, and Arabic versions, but is not in the Hebrew text. Jarchi interprets it of the law in a mystic sense, but, according to the literal sense, of a good wife; and obtaineth favour of the Lord; it is from the Lord, and under his direction and guidance in seeking, that he finds a good wife; and which he ought to esteem as a favour from the Lord, and as an evidence of his favour to him, and may encourage himself to hope for others of him (z) Hesiod says, a man cannot obtain anything better than a good wife. (z) Opera & Dies, l. 2. v. 323.
Matthew Henry Bible Commentary
Note, 1. A good wife is a great blessing to a man. He that finds a wife (that is, a wife indeed; a bad wife does not deserve to be called by a name of so much honour), that finds a help meet for him (that is a wife in the original acceptation of the word), that sought such a one with care and prayer and has found what he sought, he has found a good thing, a jewel of great value, a rare jewel; he has found that which will not only contribute more than any thing to his comfort in this life, but will forward him in the way to heaven. 2. God is to be acknowledged in it with thankfulness; it is a token of his favour, and a happy pledge of further favours; it is a sign that God delights in a man to do him good and has mercy in store for him; for this, therefore, God must be sought unto.