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Jamieson-Fausset-Brown Bible Commentary
A man . . . friendly--better, "A man . . . (is) to, or, may triumph (Psa 108:9), or, shout for joy (Psa 5:11), that is, may congratulate himself." Indeed, there is a Friend who is better than a brother; such is the "Friend of sinners" [Mat 11:19; Luk 7:34], who may have been before the writer's mind. Next: Proverbs Chapter 19
John Gill Bible Commentary
A man that hath friends must show himself friendly,.... Friendship ought to be mutual and reciprocal, as between David and Jonathan; a man that receives friendship ought to return it, or otherwise he is guilty of great ingratitude. This may be spiritually applied; a believer is "a man of friends" (b), as it may be rendered; he has many friends: God is his friend, as appears by his early love to him, his choice of him, and provisions of grace for him; by sending his son to save him; by visiting him, not only in a way of providence, but of grace; by disclosing his secrets, showing his covenant to him, and by making him his heir, and a joint heir with Christ. Christ is his friend, as is evident from his visiting him at his incarnation; and in a spiritual way, by the communication of his secrets to him; by his hearty counsel and faithful reproofs; by his undertaking and doing for him what he has; and especially by suffering and dying in his room and stead. The Holy Spirit is his friend, which he has shown by discovering to him his woeful estate by nature, and the way of salvation by Christ; by working all his works in him; by acting the part of a Comforter to him; by revealing divine things to him, by helping him under all his infirmities; by making intercession for him according to the will of God; and by making him meet for eternal glory and happiness: angels are his friends, as is plain by their well pleasedness with the incarnation of Christ for men; and which they express at their conversion; by their ministering to them, their protection of them, and the good offices they do them both in life and at death; and saints are friends to one another: and such should show themselves friendly to God, their covenant God and Father; by frequently visiting him at the throne of grace; by trusting in him; by a carefulness not to offend, but please him; and by a close and faithful adherence to his cause and interest: to Jesus Christ their Redeemer, by a ready obedience to his commands; by owning and using him as their friend; by taking notice of his friends, and showing them respect, his ministers and poor saints; by cleaving to him, and renouncing the friendship of his enemies: and likewise to the Holy Spirit, by not grieving, quenching, and despising him; but by making use of him, and giving up themselves to his influence and direction; and by acknowledging him as the author of all their grace: also to angels, by speaking well of them, owning their good offices, and reckoning it an honour that they are come and joined to such a company; and to the saints, by Christian conversation with them, by sympathizing with them in all conditions, by hearty counsel, faithful reproofs and admonitions, and by helping them in every distress, inward and outward; and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother; who is to a man as his own soul, Deu 13:6; and so are of one heart and soul, as Jonathan and David, and the first Christians, were; this is true of Christ, and may be expressive of the close union between him and his people; and of his close adherence to their cause and interest; and of his constancy and continuance as a friend at all times; and of his faithfulness and unchangeableness as such; see Pro 17:17. The Heathens had a deity which presided over friendship, which they called Jupiter Philios (c): the character best agrees with the true God, who is a friend to men himself, and loves friendship among them. (b) "vir amicorum", Montanus, Vatablus, Baynus, Mercerus, Gejerus, Michaelis; "vir sodalium", Cocceius, Schultens. (c) Aristoph. Acharn. Act. 3. Sc. 2. v. 2. Pausan. Arcadica sive, l. 8. p. 506. Next: Proverbs Chapter 19
Matthew Henry Bible Commentary
Solomon here recommends friendship to us, and shows, 1. What we must do that we may contract and cultivate friendship; we must show ourselves friendly. Would we have friends and keep them, we must not only not affront them, or quarrel with them, but we must love them, and make it appear that we do so by all expressions that are endearing, by being free with them, pleasing to them, visiting them and bidding them welcome, and especially by doing all the good offices we can and serving them in every thing that lies in our power; that is showing ourselves friendly. Si vis amari, ama - If you wish to gain affection, bestow it. - Sen. Ut ameris, amabilis esto - The way to be beloved is to be lovely. - Ovid. 2. That it is worth while to do so, for we may promise ourselves a great deal of comfort in a true friend. A brother indeed is born for adversity, as he had said, Pro 17:17. In our troubles we expect comfort and relief from our relations, but sometimes there is a friend, that is nothing akin to us, the bonds of whose esteem and love prove stronger than those of nature, and, when it comes to the trial, will do more for us than a brother will. Christ is a friend to all believers that sticks closer than a brother; to him therefore let them show themselves friendly.
Tyndale Open Study Notes
18:24 Some people who present themselves as “friends” are not. The wise see beyond pretense, discerning a real friend from false friends by how they act in adverse circumstances.
Proverbs 18:24
The Selfishness of the Unfriendly
23The poor man pleads for mercy, but the rich man answers harshly. 24A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there is a friend who stays closer than a brother.
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When You Would Rather Die Then Live
By Carter Conlon1.3K31:26Faith1KI 19:18PRO 18:24JER 1:5MAT 11:28ROM 3:23HEB 10:25JAS 4:8In this sermon, the preacher emphasizes the importance of surrendering to God and leaving behind our old ways. He encourages the audience to recognize that without God, they are limited and fall short of His glory. However, by allowing God to take over, they can receive the strength and guidance needed to fulfill their purpose and have a profound influence on others. The preacher also addresses the loneliness that many people feel, particularly in a bustling city like New York, and offers the message of hope and love that comes from a relationship with God.
Receiving All Things Through Faith (Kannada)
By Zac Poonen1.1K1:01:35PRO 18:24JER 32:17MAT 5:8MAT 6:33MRK 9:23JHN 1:12JAS 1:6This sermon emphasizes the importance of faith, belief, and trust in Jesus Christ, highlighting the need to fully surrender our problems and desires to Him. It encourages seeking holiness and righteousness first, trusting that God will provide for all other needs. The speaker shares examples from the Bible to illustrate how faith and belief in Jesus can lead to miraculous solutions and blessings in our lives.
A Series of Proverbs Part 1
By Chuck Smith1.0K25:04ProverbsPRO 17:9PRO 18:24PRO 20:19PRO 25:9PRO 26:17ECC 7:21MAT 27:46In this sermon, Pastor Chuck Smith emphasizes the inevitability of death and the inability to escape it. He also discusses the misuse of authority and how those in power often suffer the consequences of their actions. Pastor Chuck encourages listeners to surrender to the Son of God and allow His Spirit to fill their hearts and bring wholeness. He concludes by urging believers to commit themselves to God and trust in His plan, even when faced with difficult circumstances.
Separated From Our Loved Ones
By Keith Daniel7771:27:04PSA 27:10PRO 18:19PRO 18:24ISA 49:15ISA 58:7MAT 5:10MAT 10:21EPH 6:42TH 1:81TI 4:1HEB 13:5This sermon delves into the fearful possibility of separation from loved ones, both in this life and for eternity, emphasizing the consequences of rejecting God and the need for sincere repentance and reconciliation. It warns against doctrinal differences, exclusivity in religion, and the tragic outcomes of pride, folly, and un-Christlike behavior that can lead to alienation from family members. The urgency of seeking God's salvation and living in righteousness is highlighted to avoid eternal separation and to mend broken relationships on Earth.
The Way Forward
By John Gowans75154:40PRO 18:24MAT 5:48ACT 1:8ROM 12:1EPH 1:71TH 5:191JN 3:18In this sermon, the speaker emphasizes the importance of reaching out to those who are suffering and in need. He suggests that in today's world, every other door represents someone in trouble, whether it be a family dealing with drug addiction, a person facing imprisonment, or someone battling depression or cancer. The speaker also highlights the need for the Salvation Army to utilize their creative gifts and develop a variety of approaches to reach different individuals. He emphasizes the importance of catching people's attention and building relationships through friendship and love in times of need. Ultimately, the sermon encourages listeners to recognize the sadness and pain in the world and to actively seek opportunities to minister to those who are hurting.
Crutches
By Jim Cymbala50727:20Christian LifePRO 18:24JER 6:16JOL 2:12JAS 4:8In this sermon, the speaker expresses gratitude for the people in his life who have helped him grow in his faith. He shares a personal story of a minister who took the time to mentor him when he was a college student. The speaker emphasizes the importance of being kind to those who have shown kindness to us, rather than being mean in return. He also encourages the audience to draw near to God, make positive changes in their lives, and actively participate in the church community.
Unreached Peoples: The Tajik People of Central Asia
By Paul Hattaway48000:00PSA 34:18PRO 18:24ROM 12:13HEB 13:21PE 4:9This sermon focuses on the history, culture, and people of the Tajik community in Central Asia, highlighting their resilience, unique heritage, and warm hospitality. It explores their ancient roots, cultural expressions through poetry, music, and art, as well as the diversity within the Tajik population across different countries. The sermon emphasizes the importance of friendship, hospitality, and unity among the Tajik people despite their varied political, religious, and economic circumstances.
The Best Friend
By Newman Hall1PRO 18:24ISA 49:15JHN 14:3JHN 15:131TH 4:16HEB 13:81JN 4:19Newman Hall preaches about the profound friendship and brotherhood found in Jesus, who exemplifies the truest form of friendship that surpasses all earthly relationships. Jesus, the Elder Brother, demonstrates a friendship that is unselfish, tender, and faithful, seeking reciprocity, communion, and mutual love. His love is individualizing, appreciative, and ever-present, offering unchanging and everlasting companionship. Jesus desires a deep, intimate relationship with His friends, requiring trust, communion, and zeal for His glory, preparing for His return with joyful anticipation. The friendship with Jesus is a model for believers to reciprocate love, trust, communion, endeavors to please Him, zeal for His glory, and readiness for His return, fostering a true brotherhood among believers.
True Friendships Are Founded Only in God
By Francois Fenelon1PSA 133:1PRO 18:24MAT 6:10JHN 15:13JAS 4:8Francois Fenelon emphasizes the importance of true friendships being founded in God, highlighting the need to be content with God's will over our own desires, and to fully surrender to His plans without reservation. He stresses the unity and closeness that comes from being united in God, where true friends are found. Fenelon encourages seeking companionship and solace in God, who is the ultimate source of eternal friendship and fulfillment, surpassing any imperfections found in human relationships.
The Advantage of Keeping One's Temper
By J.R. Miller0Self-ControlThe Importance of Good TemperPRO 15:1PRO 18:24ECC 7:9MAT 5:5ROM 12:181CO 13:4GAL 5:22EPH 4:31COL 3:8JAS 1:19J.R. Miller emphasizes the sinful nature of bad temper, arguing that it is an infirmity that should not be excused or tolerated. He highlights the practical advantages of maintaining good temper, such as improving one's reputation, enhancing personal comfort, and fostering meaningful friendships. Miller asserts that good temper is essential for true manliness, aligning with Christ's example of meekness and self-control. He encourages striving for self-mastery, as it leads to a more fulfilling and noble life. Ultimately, he reminds us that with Christ's help, we can achieve victory over our tempers and embody the qualities of love and patience.
My Heavenly Friend
By George Mueller0Comfort in LonelinessFriendship with ChristPSA 23:4PRO 18:24ISA 41:10MAT 28:20JHN 14:3JHN 15:15ROM 8:38HEB 13:51PE 5:7REV 21:4George Mueller emphasizes the profound truth that Jesus Christ is our true friend, who is always present and supportive in our lives. He encourages believers to recognize this relationship, especially in times of loneliness, pain, and need, reminding us that Jesus is there to comfort and strengthen us. Mueller reflects on his own experiences of loss and solitude, finding solace in the companionship of Christ, who never leaves us. He urges us to cultivate a habitual awareness of Jesus as our friend, who walks with us through all circumstances, and to look forward to the eternal joy of being with Him in heaven. The sermon concludes with the hope of Christ's return, assuring us that our heavenly friendship will last forever.
Find Your Best Friend in Books (Part 1)
By K.P. Yohannan0Influence of ReadingFriendshipPRO 18:24EPH 4:29PHP 2:3COL 3:12JAS 1:19K.P. Yohannan shares his transformative journey of friendship and personal growth while serving in North India, where cultural differences often led to arguments and misunderstandings. A pivotal moment came when a friend recommended Dale Carnegie's 'How to Win Friends and Influence People,' which opened his eyes to the power of loving communication over criticism. This book, along with others like 'The Calvary Road' and 'True Discipleship,' profoundly changed his attitude and approach to relationships, steering him away from loneliness and towards a life focused on pleasing Jesus and influencing others positively. Yohannan emphasizes that while he has mingled with many people, the impact of these books has been far greater in shaping his life and purpose.
But Now It Is Come Unto Thee,
By F.B. Meyer0The Presence of ChristComfort in SufferingJOB 4:5PSA 91:1PRO 18:24F.B. Meyer emphasizes the difficulty of enduring personal trials, even for those who often provide comfort to others. He reflects on the loneliness that can accompany suffering, as those who typically offer support may feel isolated in their own pain. Meyer reminds us that true solace comes from a personal relationship with Jesus, who is a steadfast companion in times of trouble. He encourages believers to seek refuge in Christ, who offers peace and understanding during life's challenges. Ultimately, the sermon highlights the importance of experiencing Jesus' love and presence as a source of strength in our darkest moments.
Earnest Desires for Christ
By Thomas Reade0PSA 73:25PRO 18:24ISA 26:9JHN 15:13ROM 5:12CO 3:18GAL 5:22PHP 3:13PHP 4:7Thomas Reade preaches about the earnest desires for Christ, emphasizing the importance of Christian friendship as a true source of happiness and the unwavering love and faithfulness of Jesus as the ultimate Friend who brings peace, comfort, and strength. He highlights the necessity of holiness for true happiness, pointing out that peace and joy can only be found in Christ through the work of the Holy Spirit. Reade encourages a longing for immortality and a transformation into the image of Christ, urging believers to rise above earthly desires and seek a higher standard of excellence in God.
This Is My Beloved, and This Is My Friend
By A.B. Simpson0Intimacy With GodFriendship with GodPSA 25:14PRO 18:24ISA 41:8MAT 7:7LUK 11:5JHN 15:15PHP 4:6JAS 2:23A.B. Simpson emphasizes the profound significance of God as our friend, inviting us to reflect on the deep bonds of friendship we have experienced in our lives. He encourages us to recognize that God is not only a friend but infinitely more, being personally invested in our lives and offering unwavering support and love. Simpson highlights the importance of prayer as a means to connect with our heavenly Friend, who is always ready to assist us in our times of need. By recalling the acts of love from our earthly friends, we can better appreciate the depth of God's friendship and His promises to us. Ultimately, God desires an intimate fellowship with each of us, making Him our most trusted companion.
Find Your Best Friend in Books (Part 2)
By K.P. Yohannan0Friendship in LiteratureThe Value of ReadingPSA 119:105PRO 18:24ECC 12:12PHP 4:82TI 4:13K.P. Yohannan emphasizes the importance of reading good books that inspire and uplift, rather than those that lead to negativity. He references St. Paul's request for books in his final days, highlighting how even in solitude, literature can provide comfort and strength. Yohannan encourages the audience to cultivate a habit of reading as a vital ritual in their lives, suggesting that good books can serve as loyal companions during difficult times. He quotes a French writer who likens authors to travelers who guide us through loneliness, reinforcing the idea that books can be our best friends.
Such a Friend
By Thomas Brooks0The Nature of God's LoveFriendship with ChristPRO 18:24JHN 13:1ROM 8:38Thomas Brooks emphasizes that Christ is the ultimate friend, one who is closer than a brother, embodying qualities such as omnipotence, omniscience, and omnipresence. He reassures believers that Christ is a constant and faithful companion, loving them to the very end. This friendship is characterized by compassion, watchfulness, and unwavering support in all circumstances. Brooks encourages the congregation to recognize and cherish this profound relationship with Christ, who is always present and attentive to their needs.
On the Choice of Friends
By J.R. Miller0IntegrityFriendshipPRO 13:20PRO 18:24PRO 27:17ECC 4:9JHN 15:131CO 15:332CO 6:14GAL 6:21TH 5:11JAS 4:4J.R. Miller emphasizes the critical importance of choosing friends wisely, as they can either uplift us or lead us astray. He highlights that true friendship is built on trust, integrity, and the ability to accept each other's flaws without judgment. Miller encourages seeking friends who will support us through life's challenges and remain loyal regardless of circumstances. He also stresses the need for friendships that endure beyond this life, advocating for connections with those who share a faith in God. Ultimately, he warns against taking friendships for granted and urges us to cherish and nurture these valuable relationships.
Shunning Over-Familiarity
By Thomas a Kempis0PRO 13:20PRO 18:241CO 15:33JAS 4:41PE 3:3Thomas a Kempis emphasizes the importance of seeking wisdom and guidance from those who fear God, advising against sharing personal matters with everyone. He cautions against seeking the company of the rich and powerful, instead encouraging association with the humble, devout, and virtuous. Kempis stresses the need to focus on God and His angels, avoiding excessive intimacy with people. While advocating for charity towards all, he warns against becoming too familiar with everyone, as it may lead to misunderstandings and displeasure.
Travelling--Nonconformists
By John Newton0PSA 34:19PRO 17:17PRO 18:241CO 10:131PE 5:7John Newton reflects on the various trials and calamities in the world caused by sin, expressing gratitude for God's protection over him and his loved ones. He acknowledges the pain of seeing a loved one suffer and the challenges that come with caring deeply for others. Newton emphasizes the tendency for our most valued comforts to bring about our sharpest trials, highlighting the potential idolatry and dependence that can be present in our relationships. He also touches on the importance of being open-minded and not prejudiced when encountering different perspectives or beliefs.
The Intimate Friendship of Jesus
By Thomas a Kempis0PSA 16:11PSA 51:10PRO 18:24MAT 16:26JHN 15:5ROM 8:312CO 12:9PHP 4:13JAS 4:8Thomas a Kempis emphasizes the profound impact of having Jesus in our lives, highlighting the joy and consolation that comes when Jesus is near, and the emptiness and hardship experienced in His absence. He stresses the importance of keeping Jesus as our special love above all else, as living without Him is like a relentless hell, while living with Him is a sweet paradise. Kempis teaches that conversing with Jesus and keeping Him close requires humility, peace, and devotion, as losing His grace is a greater loss than losing the whole world.
The Sorrows of the Bereaved Spread Before Jesus
By Jonathan Edwards0PRO 18:24ISA 63:9MAT 15:32LUK 7:13JHN 11:33JHN 14:18EPH 4:8PHP 4:19HEB 4:15REV 21:4Jonathan Edwards preaches about the importance of spreading sorrows before Jesus when faced with the death of an eminent minister in the work of the gospel ministry. Using the account of John the Baptist's disciples as an example, he emphasizes the disciples' actions of burying John's body with respect and then going to tell Jesus of their sorrow. Edwards highlights the compassion, pity, and all-sufficiency of Christ in comforting the bereaved, pointing to Jesus as the ultimate source of wisdom, guidance, and support in times of loss and affliction.
God Can Give You Wisdom to Handle Any Problem
By Zac Poonen0PRO 18:24MAT 7:11JAS 1:5Zac Poonen preaches about the intimate relationship we can have with God as our heavenly Father, emphasizing that knowing God in this way eliminates loneliness and insecurity, as we can always approach Him with our needs and problems. He compares having God as a Father to having a secure connection where we can seek wisdom and solutions for any situation we face, highlighting the importance of faith in receiving God's generous blessings without any scolding or rebuke.
- Jamieson-Fausset-Brown
- John Gill
- Matthew Henry
- Tyndale
Jamieson-Fausset-Brown Bible Commentary
A man . . . friendly--better, "A man . . . (is) to, or, may triumph (Psa 108:9), or, shout for joy (Psa 5:11), that is, may congratulate himself." Indeed, there is a Friend who is better than a brother; such is the "Friend of sinners" [Mat 11:19; Luk 7:34], who may have been before the writer's mind. Next: Proverbs Chapter 19
John Gill Bible Commentary
A man that hath friends must show himself friendly,.... Friendship ought to be mutual and reciprocal, as between David and Jonathan; a man that receives friendship ought to return it, or otherwise he is guilty of great ingratitude. This may be spiritually applied; a believer is "a man of friends" (b), as it may be rendered; he has many friends: God is his friend, as appears by his early love to him, his choice of him, and provisions of grace for him; by sending his son to save him; by visiting him, not only in a way of providence, but of grace; by disclosing his secrets, showing his covenant to him, and by making him his heir, and a joint heir with Christ. Christ is his friend, as is evident from his visiting him at his incarnation; and in a spiritual way, by the communication of his secrets to him; by his hearty counsel and faithful reproofs; by his undertaking and doing for him what he has; and especially by suffering and dying in his room and stead. The Holy Spirit is his friend, which he has shown by discovering to him his woeful estate by nature, and the way of salvation by Christ; by working all his works in him; by acting the part of a Comforter to him; by revealing divine things to him, by helping him under all his infirmities; by making intercession for him according to the will of God; and by making him meet for eternal glory and happiness: angels are his friends, as is plain by their well pleasedness with the incarnation of Christ for men; and which they express at their conversion; by their ministering to them, their protection of them, and the good offices they do them both in life and at death; and saints are friends to one another: and such should show themselves friendly to God, their covenant God and Father; by frequently visiting him at the throne of grace; by trusting in him; by a carefulness not to offend, but please him; and by a close and faithful adherence to his cause and interest: to Jesus Christ their Redeemer, by a ready obedience to his commands; by owning and using him as their friend; by taking notice of his friends, and showing them respect, his ministers and poor saints; by cleaving to him, and renouncing the friendship of his enemies: and likewise to the Holy Spirit, by not grieving, quenching, and despising him; but by making use of him, and giving up themselves to his influence and direction; and by acknowledging him as the author of all their grace: also to angels, by speaking well of them, owning their good offices, and reckoning it an honour that they are come and joined to such a company; and to the saints, by Christian conversation with them, by sympathizing with them in all conditions, by hearty counsel, faithful reproofs and admonitions, and by helping them in every distress, inward and outward; and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother; who is to a man as his own soul, Deu 13:6; and so are of one heart and soul, as Jonathan and David, and the first Christians, were; this is true of Christ, and may be expressive of the close union between him and his people; and of his close adherence to their cause and interest; and of his constancy and continuance as a friend at all times; and of his faithfulness and unchangeableness as such; see Pro 17:17. The Heathens had a deity which presided over friendship, which they called Jupiter Philios (c): the character best agrees with the true God, who is a friend to men himself, and loves friendship among them. (b) "vir amicorum", Montanus, Vatablus, Baynus, Mercerus, Gejerus, Michaelis; "vir sodalium", Cocceius, Schultens. (c) Aristoph. Acharn. Act. 3. Sc. 2. v. 2. Pausan. Arcadica sive, l. 8. p. 506. Next: Proverbs Chapter 19
Matthew Henry Bible Commentary
Solomon here recommends friendship to us, and shows, 1. What we must do that we may contract and cultivate friendship; we must show ourselves friendly. Would we have friends and keep them, we must not only not affront them, or quarrel with them, but we must love them, and make it appear that we do so by all expressions that are endearing, by being free with them, pleasing to them, visiting them and bidding them welcome, and especially by doing all the good offices we can and serving them in every thing that lies in our power; that is showing ourselves friendly. Si vis amari, ama - If you wish to gain affection, bestow it. - Sen. Ut ameris, amabilis esto - The way to be beloved is to be lovely. - Ovid. 2. That it is worth while to do so, for we may promise ourselves a great deal of comfort in a true friend. A brother indeed is born for adversity, as he had said, Pro 17:17. In our troubles we expect comfort and relief from our relations, but sometimes there is a friend, that is nothing akin to us, the bonds of whose esteem and love prove stronger than those of nature, and, when it comes to the trial, will do more for us than a brother will. Christ is a friend to all believers that sticks closer than a brother; to him therefore let them show themselves friendly.
Tyndale Open Study Notes
18:24 Some people who present themselves as “friends” are not. The wise see beyond pretense, discerning a real friend from false friends by how they act in adverse circumstances.