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Adam Clarke Bible Commentary
Be kindly affectioned one to another with brotherly love - It is difficult to give a simple translation of the original: τῃ φιλαδελφιᾳ εις αλληλους φιλοστοργοι. The word φιλαδελφια signifies that affectionate regard which every Christian should feel for another, as being members of the same mystical body: hence it is emphatically termed the love of the brethren. When William Penn, of deservedly famous memory, made a treaty with the Indians in North America, and purchased from them a large woody tract, which, after its own nature and his name, he called Pennsylvania, he built a city on it, and peopled it with Christians of his own denomination, and called the city from the word in the text, φιλαδελφια, Philadelphia; an appellation which it then bore with strict propriety: and still it bears the name. The word φιλοστοργος, which we translate kindly affectioned, from φιλος and στοργη, signifies that tender and indescribable affection which a mother bears to her child, and which almost all creatures manifest towards their young; and the word φιλος, or φιλεω, joined to it, signifies a delight in it. Feel the tenderest affection towards each other, and delight to feel it. "Love a brother Christian with the affection of a natural brother." In honor preferring one another - The meaning appears to be this: Consider all your brethren as more worthy than yourself; and let neither grief nor envy affect your mind at seeing another honored and yourself neglected. This is a hard lesson, and very few persons learn it thoroughly. If we wish to see our brethren honored, still it is with the secret condition in our own minds that we be honored more than they. We have no objection to the elevation of others, providing we may be at the head. But who can bear even to be what he calls neglected? I once heard the following conversation between two persons, which the reader will pardon my relating in this place, as it appears to be rather in point, and is worthy of regard. "I know not," said one, "that I neglect to do any thing in my power to promote the interest of true religion in this place, and yet I seem to be held in very little repute, scarcely any person even noticing me." To which the other replied: "My good friend, set yourself down for nothing, and if any person takes you for something it will be all clear gain." I thought this a queer saying: but how full of meaning and common sense! Whether the object of this good counsel was profited by it I cannot tell; but I looked on it and received instruction.
Jamieson-Fausset-Brown Bible Commentary
Be, &c.--better, "In brotherly love be affectionate one to another; in [giving, or showing] honor, outdoing each other." The word rendered "prefer" means rather "to go before," "take the lead," that is, "show an example." How opposite is this to the reigning morality of the heathen world! and though Christianity has so changed the spirit of society, that a certain beautiful disinterestedness and self-sacrifice shines in the character of not a few who are but partially, if at all under the transforming power of the Gospel, it is only those whom "the love of Christ constrains to live not unto themselves," who are capable of thoroughly acting in the spirit of this precept.
John Gill Bible Commentary
Be kindly affectioned one to another with brotherly love,.... This is one branch of that love, before advised to, which should be unfeigned, and without guile and deceit. The objects of this grace are "brethren", not in such sense as all the descendants of Adam are, or men of the same country be, or as such who are born of the same parents in a natural sense are; to each of whom love is due under their respective characters and relations: but such who are so in a spiritual sense, who are born of God, are of his household, belong to his family, are the brethren of Christ, and one another; and are either members of the same church, incorporated together in the same church state, or at least members of Christ, and of the church universal. Now love to these should be kind, tender, and affectionate, reciprocal and mutual; such should love one another; there should be no love wanting on either side; and it ought to be universal, and reach to all the saints, though of different gifts, light, knowledge and experience, or whether high or low, rich or poor; and should show itself by bearing one another's burdens, bearing with, and forbearing each other, forgiving one another, and by edifying one another in their most holy faith, and praying with, and for one another. In honour preferring one another; saints should think honourably of one another, and entertain an honourable esteem of each other; yea, should esteem each other better thou themselves; and not indulge evil surmises, and groundless jealousies of one another, which is contrary to that love that thinks no evil. They should speak honourably of each other in Christian company, and discourage that evil practice of whisperings, backbitings, and innuendos; they should treat each other with honour and respect in their common conversation, and especially when met together as a church of Christ. They should go before each other in giving honour, and showing respect, as the word signifies: they should set each other an example; and which also may be taken into the sense of the word, should prevent one another, not waiting until respect is shown on one side to return it again. Nor does this rule at all break in upon that order that should subsist, and be maintained in bodies civil and ecclesiastical, which requires superior honour to be given to persons according to their character, office, and station in which they are.
Tyndale Open Study Notes
12:10 genuine affection: Literally brotherly love. Christians are to love each other with the mutual love and commitment that are found within a healthy family.
Romans 12:10
Love, Zeal, Hope, Hospitality
9Love must be sincere. Detest what is evil; cling to what is good.10Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Outdo yourselves in honoring one another.
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By Denny Kenaston3.5K59:55Loving OthersROM 12:10ROM 15:7GAL 5:13EPH 4:2EPH 5:21COL 3:161TH 5:11HEB 10:24JAS 5:161PE 3:81PE 4:91JN 1:71JN 3:161JN 3:181JN 3:23In this sermon, the speaker reflects on his experience of preaching to children on a bus route and how it changed his life. He emphasizes the importance of using simple illustrations to hold the attention of young listeners and share the message of Jesus. The speaker also mentions the impact of sending young people on missions trips, hoping they will become addicted to serving others and make it a guiding principle in their lives. The sermon concludes with a reflection on the profound words spoken by Jesus on the cross, specifically his plea for forgiveness for those who crucified him.
(1 John #26) the Love That Casts Out Fear
By J. Glyn Owen3.2K37:54FearMAT 6:33JHN 13:34ROM 12:101CO 13:4HEB 4:131JN 4:17In this sermon, the preacher focuses on 1 John chapter 4 verses 17 and 18. He emphasizes that our love is made perfect through our relationship with God. He explains that because God is love, there is no fear in love, and perfect love casts out fear. The preacher also discusses the concept of judgment and how God's love allows sinners to live on and saints who are sinning to continue living. He concludes by challenging the listeners to examine their own lives and see if their love for God and His people is being perfected.
The New Covenant - Slovakia Conference 2003 (Slovakian/english)
By Gary Wilkerson2.4K1:28:07New CovenantMAT 6:33JHN 17:17JHN 17:21ROM 12:101CO 11:29EPH 4:321JN 4:7In this sermon, the speaker encourages the congregation to gather in small groups and pray for one another. He emphasizes the importance of unity in the body of Christ and the need to love one another. The speaker shares his personal struggles as a pastor and his desire to see his church grow. He also mentions attending a conference on seeker-sensitive churches and being impressed by their methods, but realizing that his own church was not experiencing the same growth.
Are You Backsliding? (Part 2)
By Michael L. Brown2.3K58:24BackslidingPRO 15:1MAT 6:33MAT 22:37ROM 12:10In this sermon, the speaker addresses the prevalence of easily accessible and explicit content in today's society. He shares personal experiences of encountering inappropriate material and emphasizes the need to treat it as an enemy. The speaker also discusses the consequences of indulging in sexual sin, whether through watching explicit movies or engaging in online activities. He highlights the importance of recognizing the aftereffects or "acharit" of such actions and warns against the dangers of sexual sin, citing the book of Proverbs as a source of wisdom and guidance.
Who Is the Cult?
By Francis Chan2.0K50:13ACT 2:42ACT 2:44ROM 12:101CO 1:101CO 1:23GAL 6:2EPH 4:21TH 5:11HEB 10:24JAS 2:141PE 4:8This sermon emphasizes the importance of true commitment to following Jesus, challenging the congregation to reflect on their level of dedication and action in living out the teachings of the Bible. It addresses the need for believers to love one another, pray for boldness, and be willing to sacrificially serve and care for those in need, drawing inspiration from the early church in Acts. The speaker encourages a shift from mere attendance to active participation in the mission of spreading the message of Jesus, highlighting the power of the Holy Spirit to enable believers to live out their faith.
From Babylon to Jerusalem - (Zechariah) ch.5:5 - 8:13
By Zac Poonen1.8K59:41From Babylon To JerusalemISA 1:11ZEC 7:1ZEC 8:2ZEC 8:13MAT 6:33ROM 12:10EPH 4:3In this sermon, the preacher discusses the four spirits of heaven mentioned in Revelation 7. These spirits are sent forth by God to execute tasks of judgment. The preacher emphasizes the importance of not engaging in empty rituals and instead focusing on building the body of Christ. The sermon also highlights God's special care for the widow, orphan, stranger, and poor, warning against mistreating them. Additionally, the preacher mentions the visions in the book of Zechariah, including the protection of God's people, the defeat of powers seeking to destroy the church, and the ministry of the Holy Spirit.
Knowing the Love of God
By Zac Poonen1.7K56:03Love Of GodMAT 6:3MAT 6:33JHN 13:34ROM 12:10PHP 2:3JAS 1:51JN 4:16In this sermon, the speaker focuses on the importance of living a selfless life based on the teachings of 1 John 4:16-19. He emphasizes that true acts of kindness and giving should be done in such a way that they are quickly forgotten, without any expectation of recognition or reward. The speaker shares his personal testimony of finding joy and blessings in helping the poor and needy without expecting anything in return. He encourages listeners to live a worthwhile life by being free from selfishness and living for God and others, just as Jesus did. The speaker also reflects on the challenging verse of Matthew 6:3-4, where Jesus instructs believers not only to give in secret but also to not let their left hand know what their right hand is doing, suggesting that true selflessness can be understood and practiced through action rather than mere study or meditation.
A Living Sacrifice Part I
By George Verwer1.7K59:51Living SacrificeGEN 22:1MAT 6:33ACT 4:12ROM 12:1ROM 12:102TI 2:2In this sermon, the speaker emphasizes the importance of sharing the message of total commitment to Jesus Christ. He refers to 2 Timothy 2:2, which encourages believers to pass on what they have learned to faithful men who can teach others. The speaker then focuses on Romans 12:1, which calls for believers to present their bodies as living sacrifices to God. He compares this to Abraham's willingness to sacrifice his son Isaac and highlights the need for believers to have a 100% total commitment and surrender to Christ. The message concludes with a challenge to live out this commitment and to praise God for salvation from sin and judgment.
The Moravian Revival
By Andrew Davies1.6K47:41Moravian RevivalMAT 16:28MRK 9:1LUK 9:27ROM 12:10EPH 4:32PHP 2:21TH 5:11In this sermon, the preacher discusses the joy and happiness that comes from the presence of the Holy Spirit. He references a hymn by Bishop Gambold that expresses the deep love and connection between Jesus and his followers. The preacher also mentions Jesus' promise that some of his disciples would see him coming in his kingdom before they taste death. He emphasizes the importance of preaching about Christ and his sacrifice to bring blessings to the heathen. The sermon includes stories about a countess who found true joy in the Savior and a preacher who found solace in repeating verses from Bishop Gambold's hymn.
Fellowship - Part 5 (Organic)
By Lance Lambert1.6K1:13:08FellowshipROM 12:1ROM 12:10ROM 12:12In this sermon, the speaker addresses the issue of dullness and lack of ministry in church meetings. They suggest that instead of trying to fix these problems through human efforts, believers should humble themselves and seek the Lord's intervention. The speaker emphasizes the importance of genuine fellowship and unity among believers, highlighting the concept of being one body in Christ. They also mention the need for different gifts and ministries within the church, encouraging believers to use their unique gifts according to the grace given to them. The sermon references Romans 12:4-5 to support these points.
Philosophy of Revival Part 2
By Ralph Sutera1.4K45:13MAT 22:39ACT 2:46ROM 12:10In this sermon, the speaker emphasizes the importance of prayer and unity within the church. He encourages believers to pray for and support one another, particularly those who may be struggling or in need. The speaker also highlights the significance of personal spiritual growth and obedience to God's word, which will ultimately lead to a burden for evangelism and a love for the lost. He concludes by discussing the importance of a holistic approach to revival, addressing the needs of pastors, church leaders, and the congregation as a whole.
The Importance of Friendship
By David Hocking1.3K49:39PRO 18:1ECC 4:8ROM 12:101TH 4:181TH 5:11HEB 10:25In this sermon, the speaker shares a personal story about his son getting stuck in an irrigation ditch and needing help to get out. From this experience, he emphasizes the importance of having a friend who can support and pick us up when we fall. The speaker relates this to the need for friendship and support in all aspects of life, not just physical falls. He also highlights the strength that comes from having a friend, as two can withstand challenges better than one. The sermon references Ecclesiastes 4, which emphasizes the value of companionship and the strength that comes from unity.
Tactics of Satan
By Gareth Evans1.2K40:49SatanROM 12:6ROM 12:101CO 12:41CO 12:7GAL 6:5EPH 4:4EPH 4:7In this sermon, the speaker shares his experience of seeing over 100 young adults come to Christ in his small town. He emphasizes the joy of serving God and witnessing His anointing in ministry. The speaker also encourages the audience to focus on their own calling from God and not try to be something else. He then tells a story about a man he met at a men's retreat who later organized a car repair day at his church, highlighting the importance of using one's gifts to serve others and build unity in the body of Christ. The sermon references Ephesians 4:4-11, which speaks about the different gifts given by Christ to equip the saints for ministry.
Beware of Peoples Pet Doctrines
By George Verwer1.2K1:16:48Pet DoctrinesPRO 3:5MAT 6:33MAT 22:39ACT 1:8ROM 12:101TI 4:122TI 4:2In this sermon, the speaker emphasizes the importance of building and helping others, even in the face of potential destruction or opposition. The speaker shares Alfie Frank's testimony about a fire, highlighting the need to continue building despite setbacks. The sermon also addresses the challenges of living in a pluralistic society and the need to adapt the message to different cultural contexts. The speaker mentions a book on inductive preaching that has influenced pastors to change their preaching style, emphasizing the importance of effective communication in spreading the vision of God.
Life of Robert L. Dabney
By Ian Murray1.1K1:07:19EXO 20:8MAT 9:37ACT 2:41ROM 12:10JAS 1:27The sermon transcript discusses the degradation of the savior, comparing him to various objects like a life preserver or a fire extinguisher. It emphasizes the importance of having faith in Jesus in his three offices of prophet, priest, and king. The transcript also mentions the author's foresight of the changing structure of evangelism and the defense of observing the Sabbath day. It concludes with a mention of a rich outpouring of the Holy Spirit in the army, leading to conversions and growing piety.
Stepping Into Alignment With God's Will
By Michael Howard1.1K1:13:29Gods Will1SA 14:6PSA 37:4PRO 27:17MAT 6:33ROM 12:10EPH 3:20In this sermon, the speaker emphasizes the importance of aligning oneself with God's will and purpose. They share their experience of building a school that was specifically instructed by God to change the leadership of nations. Despite facing challenges and doubts, they trusted in God's provision and saw miraculous results. The speaker also highlights the need for individuals to have a personal word from God and a clear purpose in order to avoid aimless living.
How to Get Along With God's Family
By Jack Hyles98456:00PSA 133:1JHN 10:27ROM 12:101CO 4:6EPH 4:2JAS 5:91JN 4:7In this sermon, the preacher tells a story about a boy named Johnny who struggles to understand basic math concepts. Through this story, the preacher highlights the lack of cooperation and understanding in the world. The sermon then shifts to a personal anecdote about the preacher's friend, Bob Keyes, who suffered a heart attack and needed open heart surgery. The preacher emphasizes the importance of loyalty and friendship, urging the congregation to support and help those in need. The sermon concludes with a call for unity and a prayer for the congregation to learn to dwell together in harmony.
The Way of a True Child
By Basilea Schlink86104:35Children Of GodMAT 7:7ROM 12:10EPH 4:32HEB 12:6In this sermon, Basile Shlink shares a personal experience of encountering obstacles while building a mother house and chapel. They faced difficulties with a dump cart repeatedly jumping off the tracks. After seeking God's guidance, they realized that their judgment and criticism of each other was hindering their unity and love. Once they asked for forgiveness and recommitted to working together, the obstacles ceased. Shlink emphasizes the importance of surrendering to God's discipline and training, praying with faith, and expecting miracles from a loving Father.
Servanthood - the True Ministry
By Chuck Smith83936:00ServanthoodPSA 126:5MAT 6:33MAT 23:12ACT 20:19ROM 12:102CO 1:3PHP 3:12In this sermon, the speaker emphasizes the importance of humility in serving the Lord. He shares personal experiences of humbling moments, such as slipping and falling on his face and having his zipper down while greeting people. The speaker references biblical teachings on humility, such as the verse that says "he that exalted himself shall be abased" and the instruction to esteem others better than oneself. He also highlights the need for ministers to be sensitive to the needs of others and to genuinely share in their sorrows and trials. The speaker concludes by emphasizing the importance of having the right attitude when going out to do the work of the Lord and shares a story of a young pastor who learned the lesson of humility.
20 - a Trip to North Korea
By Ben Torrey81908:45North KoreaPSA 23:1PRO 16:9MAT 5:16MAT 28:19ROM 12:10GAL 6:9JAS 1:27In this video, the speaker shares his recent trip to North Korea and his observations of the country's landscape and people. He describes how the once beautiful hills are now covered with buildings and concrete. The speaker also mentions seeing people preparing fields for planting and using oxen and tractors for farming. Despite not being able to interact with the locals, the speaker believes that their friendliness and the presence of a cross on one of their vehicles conveyed a sense of friendliness as Americans and Christians. The speaker also highlights meeting the director of a remote rest home, whom he considers a hero.
Send the Message - Session 6
By K.P. Yohannan7701:01:58MissionsMAT 6:33MAT 16:24ROM 12:101CO 1:101JN 4:7In this sermon, the speaker emphasizes the importance of having a genuine relationship with Jesus and living a life of love. He expresses doubt about someone's salvation if they claim to be born again but show no concern for those who do not know Jesus. The speaker highlights the significance of missions and the impact that can be made through the grace of God. He encourages believers to deny themselves, carry their cross, and follow Jesus' example of saying no to their own desires in order to fulfill God's call.
Letting It Go and Forgive
By K.P. Yohannan76914:12ForgivenessPRO 19:17MAT 5:44LUK 6:31ROM 12:10GAL 5:22EPH 4:32COL 3:12In this sermon, the speaker emphasizes the importance of treating others with kindness and love, as they are immortal beings who will be with us for eternity. The speaker encourages the audience to forgive and let go of grudges, as this leads to peace within oneself. The sermon includes a story about a man with dementia who can't remember anything except for the name of a student who showed him kindness. The speaker acknowledges their own shortcomings in practicing kindness but urges the audience to be kind to their family, neighbors, and those less fortunate.
Philosophies of Leadership
By George Verwer62058:18MAT 5:7MAT 22:37ROM 12:10In this sermon, the speaker emphasizes the importance of spiritual growth for every member of the team. They express their commitment to seeing people grow and discourage quick-fix solutions to spiritual problems. The speaker also discusses the increased expectations placed on their team by the movement worldwide, expecting double the results compared to three years ago. They mention the shift towards a modified democracy and the challenges that come with it. The sermon concludes with a prayer for understanding, discussion, and the incorporation of their ministry philosophy into the heart of the organization.
The Church: How Jesus Builds It #4 - Ministry to the Church
By Bob Hoekstra54638:55ISA 9:6MAT 6:33ROM 12:10ROM 15:14GAL 6:2In this sermon, the speaker emphasizes the importance of ministering to one another in the body of Christ. He highlights the need for grace, humility, and a desire to seek and please God. The speaker encourages believers to seek counsel from God and pass it on to others, whether it be confronting or consoling. The sermon also emphasizes the importance of showing kindness and love to fellow believers, even those who may seem unlovable, as a powerful ministry in the body of Christ.
Ex Omers
By George Verwer53454:37MissionsMAT 6:33ROM 12:10EPH 4:21TI 6:101PE 4:81JN 4:7In this sermon, the speaker shares his experience of preaching in different churches and the importance of prayer partners. He mentions that he had a successful meeting in Bournemouth where many people signed up for his prayer letter. The speaker also talks about the challenges faced in the ministry, such as difficulties in recruiting and financial support. He emphasizes the faithfulness of God in sustaining the ministry and mentions the new challenge of reaching northern Spain.
- Adam Clarke
- Jamieson-Fausset-Brown
- John Gill
- Tyndale
Adam Clarke Bible Commentary
Be kindly affectioned one to another with brotherly love - It is difficult to give a simple translation of the original: τῃ φιλαδελφιᾳ εις αλληλους φιλοστοργοι. The word φιλαδελφια signifies that affectionate regard which every Christian should feel for another, as being members of the same mystical body: hence it is emphatically termed the love of the brethren. When William Penn, of deservedly famous memory, made a treaty with the Indians in North America, and purchased from them a large woody tract, which, after its own nature and his name, he called Pennsylvania, he built a city on it, and peopled it with Christians of his own denomination, and called the city from the word in the text, φιλαδελφια, Philadelphia; an appellation which it then bore with strict propriety: and still it bears the name. The word φιλοστοργος, which we translate kindly affectioned, from φιλος and στοργη, signifies that tender and indescribable affection which a mother bears to her child, and which almost all creatures manifest towards their young; and the word φιλος, or φιλεω, joined to it, signifies a delight in it. Feel the tenderest affection towards each other, and delight to feel it. "Love a brother Christian with the affection of a natural brother." In honor preferring one another - The meaning appears to be this: Consider all your brethren as more worthy than yourself; and let neither grief nor envy affect your mind at seeing another honored and yourself neglected. This is a hard lesson, and very few persons learn it thoroughly. If we wish to see our brethren honored, still it is with the secret condition in our own minds that we be honored more than they. We have no objection to the elevation of others, providing we may be at the head. But who can bear even to be what he calls neglected? I once heard the following conversation between two persons, which the reader will pardon my relating in this place, as it appears to be rather in point, and is worthy of regard. "I know not," said one, "that I neglect to do any thing in my power to promote the interest of true religion in this place, and yet I seem to be held in very little repute, scarcely any person even noticing me." To which the other replied: "My good friend, set yourself down for nothing, and if any person takes you for something it will be all clear gain." I thought this a queer saying: but how full of meaning and common sense! Whether the object of this good counsel was profited by it I cannot tell; but I looked on it and received instruction.
Jamieson-Fausset-Brown Bible Commentary
Be, &c.--better, "In brotherly love be affectionate one to another; in [giving, or showing] honor, outdoing each other." The word rendered "prefer" means rather "to go before," "take the lead," that is, "show an example." How opposite is this to the reigning morality of the heathen world! and though Christianity has so changed the spirit of society, that a certain beautiful disinterestedness and self-sacrifice shines in the character of not a few who are but partially, if at all under the transforming power of the Gospel, it is only those whom "the love of Christ constrains to live not unto themselves," who are capable of thoroughly acting in the spirit of this precept.
John Gill Bible Commentary
Be kindly affectioned one to another with brotherly love,.... This is one branch of that love, before advised to, which should be unfeigned, and without guile and deceit. The objects of this grace are "brethren", not in such sense as all the descendants of Adam are, or men of the same country be, or as such who are born of the same parents in a natural sense are; to each of whom love is due under their respective characters and relations: but such who are so in a spiritual sense, who are born of God, are of his household, belong to his family, are the brethren of Christ, and one another; and are either members of the same church, incorporated together in the same church state, or at least members of Christ, and of the church universal. Now love to these should be kind, tender, and affectionate, reciprocal and mutual; such should love one another; there should be no love wanting on either side; and it ought to be universal, and reach to all the saints, though of different gifts, light, knowledge and experience, or whether high or low, rich or poor; and should show itself by bearing one another's burdens, bearing with, and forbearing each other, forgiving one another, and by edifying one another in their most holy faith, and praying with, and for one another. In honour preferring one another; saints should think honourably of one another, and entertain an honourable esteem of each other; yea, should esteem each other better thou themselves; and not indulge evil surmises, and groundless jealousies of one another, which is contrary to that love that thinks no evil. They should speak honourably of each other in Christian company, and discourage that evil practice of whisperings, backbitings, and innuendos; they should treat each other with honour and respect in their common conversation, and especially when met together as a church of Christ. They should go before each other in giving honour, and showing respect, as the word signifies: they should set each other an example; and which also may be taken into the sense of the word, should prevent one another, not waiting until respect is shown on one side to return it again. Nor does this rule at all break in upon that order that should subsist, and be maintained in bodies civil and ecclesiastical, which requires superior honour to be given to persons according to their character, office, and station in which they are.
Tyndale Open Study Notes
12:10 genuine affection: Literally brotherly love. Christians are to love each other with the mutual love and commitment that are found within a healthy family.