Judges 14:16
Judges 14:16 in Multiple Translations
Then Samson’s wife came to him, weeping, and said, “You hate me! You do not really love me! You have posed to my people a riddle, but have not explained it to me.” “Look,” he said, “I have not even explained it to my father or mother, so why should I explain it to you?”
And Samson’s wife wept before him, and said, Thou dost but hate me, and lovest me not: thou hast put forth a riddle unto the children of my people, and hast not told it me. And he said unto her, Behold, I have not told it my father nor my mother, and shall I tell it thee?
And Samson’s wife wept before him, and said, Thou dost but hate me, and lovest me not: thou hast put forth a riddle unto the children of my people, and hast not told it me. And he said unto her, Behold, I have not told it my father nor my mother, and shall I tell thee?
Then Samson's wife, weeping over him, said, Truly you have no love for me but only hate; you have put a hard question to the children of my people and have not given me the answer. And he said to her, See, I have not given the answer even to my father or my mother; am I to give it to you?
So Samson's wife went crying to him, saying, “You really do hate me, don't you! You don't love me at all! You have posed a riddle to my people, but haven't even explained it to me.” “So?” he replied. “I haven't even explained it to my father or mother! Why should I explain it to you?”
And Samsons wife wept before him, and said, Surely thou hatest mee and louest mee not: for thou hast put forth a riddle vnto the children of my people, and hast not told it mee. And hee sayd vnto her, Beholde, I haue not told it my father, nor my mother, and shall I tell it thee?
And Samson's wife weepeth for it, and saith, 'Thou hast only hated me, and hast not loved me; the riddle thou hast put forth to the sons of my people — and to me thou hast not declared it;' and he saith to her, 'Lo, to my father and to my mother I have not declared [it] — and to thee I declare [it]!'
Samson’s wife wept before him, and said, “You just hate me, and don’t love me. You’ve told a riddle to the children of my people, and haven’t told it to me.” He said to her, “Behold, I haven’t told my father or my mother, so why should I tell you?”
And Samson's wife wept before him, and said, Thou dost but hate me, and lovest me not: thou hast proposed a riddle to the children of my people, and hast not told it to me. And he said to her, Behold, I have not told it to my father nor to my mother, and shall I tell it to thee?
So she wept before Samson and complained, saying: Thou hatest me, and dost not love me: therefore thou wilt not expound to me the riddle which thou hast proposed to the sons of my people. But he answered: I would not tell it to my father and mother, and how can I tell it to thee?
So Samson’s wife came to him, crying, and said to him, “You do not really love me. You hate me! You have told a riddle to my friends, but you have not told me the meaning of the riddle!” He replied, “I have not told the meaning of the riddle even to my mother and father, so why should I tell it to you?”
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Study Notes — Judges 14:16
- Context
- Cross References
- Judges 14:16 Summary
- Frequently Asked Questions
- Reflection Questions
- Gill's Exposition on Judges 14:16
- Jamieson-Fausset-Brown on Judges 14:16
- Matthew Poole's Commentary on Judges 14:16
- Trapp's Commentary on Judges 14:16
- Ellicott's Commentary on Judges 14:16
- Cambridge Bible on Judges 14:16
- Whedon's Commentary on Judges 14:16
- Sermons on Judges 14:16
Context — Samson’s Riddle
16Then Samson’s wife came to him, weeping, and said, “You hate me! You do not really love me! You have posed to my people a riddle, but have not explained it to me.” “Look,” he said, “I have not even explained it to my father or mother, so why should I explain it to you?”
17She wept the whole seven days of the feast, and finally on the seventh day, because she had pressed him so much, he told her the answer. And in turn she explained the riddle to her people. 18Before sunset on the seventh day, the men of the city said to Samson: “What is sweeter than honey? And what is stronger than a lion?” So he said to them: “If you had not plowed with my heifer, you would not have solved my riddle!”Cross References
| Reference | Text (BSB) | |
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| 1 | Judges 16:15 | “How can you say, ‘I love you,’” she asked, “when your heart is not with me? This is the third time you have mocked me and failed to reveal to me the source of your great strength!” |
| 2 | Genesis 2:24 | For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh. |
Judges 14:16 Summary
In this verse, Samson's wife feels unloved because he hasn't shared the answer to his riddle with her. Samson explains that he hasn't even told his parents, so why should he tell her? This shows that Samson is trying to keep his word and set boundaries, which is an important lesson for us today. As seen in Matthew 5:33-37, keeping our word and being truthful is essential for building trust and strong relationships, and we can learn from Samson's example by prioritizing honesty and communication in our own lives.
Frequently Asked Questions
Why did Samson's wife think he hated her?
Samson's wife felt unloved because he had not shared the answer to his riddle with her, as seen in Judges 14:16, even though he had not told his parents either, which shows his commitment to keeping his word, similar to the importance of keeping vows in Ecclesiastes 5:4-5.
Was it wrong for Samson to not tell his wife the answer to the riddle?
In this context, Samson had made a commitment to his people, and sharing the answer would have broken that commitment, so he was trying to remain faithful to his word, as encouraged in Psalm 15:4.
How does this verse relate to marriage and communication?
This verse highlights the importance of communication and trust in marriage, as seen in Ephesians 5:25-33, where husbands are called to love their wives, and wives are called to respect their husbands, demonstrating that open and honest communication is essential for a healthy marriage.
What can we learn from Samson's response to his wife?
Samson's response shows that he is trying to set boundaries and prioritize his commitments, which is a valuable lesson for believers, as seen in Luke 14:25-33, where Jesus teaches about the importance of counting the cost and being committed to following Him.
Reflection Questions
- What are some areas in my life where I struggle to set boundaries or keep my word, and how can I improve in these areas?
- How can I prioritize open and honest communication in my relationships, especially in my marriage or with close friends and family?
- What are some ways I can demonstrate my love and commitment to those around me, as Samson's wife was seeking from him?
- How can I balance the need to keep confidences and commitments with the need to be transparent and honest with those I trust?
Gill's Exposition on Judges 14:16
Jamieson-Fausset-Brown on Judges 14:16
Matthew Poole's Commentary on Judges 14:16
Trapp's Commentary on Judges 14:16
Ellicott's Commentary on Judges 14:16
Cambridge Bible on Judges 14:16
Whedon's Commentary on Judges 14:16
Sermons on Judges 14:16
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The Church's Strength and Secret by Leonard Ravenhill | In this sermon, the speaker discusses the story of Samson from the Bible and uses it as a metaphor for the spiritual condition of some believers. He describes how Samson, a powerfu |
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(The Chief End of Man - Part 6): The Entireness of Worship by A.W. Tozer | In this sermon, the preacher emphasizes the importance of honoring God in every aspect of our lives. He reminds the audience that their time, spending, and living should all be don |
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The New Creation - Part 1 by T. Austin-Sparks | In this sermon, the speaker tells a story about a man who was captured by a Roman general. Initially, the man was rebellious, but as he observed the general's way of life, he began |
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(Genesis) Genesis 4:16-26 by J. Vernon McGee | In this sermon, the preacher discusses the descendants of Cain and their contributions to civilization. He mentions Jable, who was the father of those who dwelled in tents, and his |
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A Vision of My Mission (Field)—part 1 by Aaron Hurst | In this sermon, the speaker emphasizes the importance of having a clear mission and vision in life. He asks thought-provoking questions about the purpose of our existence and the g |
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Godliness in the Home by Keith Daniel | In this sermon, the preacher emphasizes the importance of clear guidance for young people in these end times. He expresses a deep desire for God to visit and meet the needs of ever |
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(The Missing Messages in Today's Christianity) Godly Husbands and Wives by Zac Poonen | In this sermon, the speaker emphasizes the importance of wisdom in relationships, particularly in the context of marriage. He shares a story about the sun and the wind competing to |







