2 Samuel 13:12
2 Samuel 13:12 in Multiple Translations
“No, my brother!” she cried. “Do not humiliate me, for such a thing should never be done in Israel. Do not do this disgraceful thing!
And she answered him, Nay, my brother, do not force me; for no such thing ought to be done in Israel: do not thou this folly.
And she answered him, Nay, my brother, do not force me; for no such thing ought to be done in Israel: do not thou this folly.
And answering him, she said, O my brother, do not put shame on me; it is not right for such a thing to be done in Israel: do not this evil thing.
“No, you're my brother!” she exclaimed. “Don't rape me! That's not what we do in Israel! Don't do something so shameful!
But shee answered him, Nay, my brother, doe not force me: for no such thing ought to be done in Israel: commit not this follie.
And she saith to him, 'Nay, my brother, do not humble me, for it is not done so in Israel; do not this folly.
She answered him, “No, my brother, do not force me! For no such thing ought to be done in Israel. Don’t you do this folly!
And she answered him, Nay, my brother, do not force me; for no such thing ought to be done in Israel: do not thou this folly.
She answered him: Do not so, my brother, do not force me: for no such thing must be done in Israel. Do not thou this folly.
She replied, “No, do not force me to do such a disgraceful thing! We never do things like that in Israel! That would be awful/terrible!
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Study Notes — 2 Samuel 13:12
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- 2 Samuel 13:12 Summary
- Frequently Asked Questions
- Reflection Questions
- Gill's Exposition on 2 Samuel 13:12
- Jamieson-Fausset-Brown on 2 Samuel 13:12
- Matthew Poole's Commentary on 2 Samuel 13:12
- Trapp's Commentary on 2 Samuel 13:12
- Ellicott's Commentary on 2 Samuel 13:12
- Adam Clarke's Commentary on 2 Samuel 13:12
- Cambridge Bible on 2 Samuel 13:12
- Barnes' Notes on 2 Samuel 13:12
- Whedon's Commentary on 2 Samuel 13:12
- Sermons on 2 Samuel 13:12
Context — Amnon and Tamar
12“No, my brother!” she cried. “Do not violate me, for such a thing should never be done in Israel. Do not do this disgraceful thing!
13Where could I ever take my shame? And you would be like one of the fools in Israel! Please speak to the king, for he will not withhold me from you.” 14But Amnon refused to listen to her, and being stronger, he violated her and lay with her.Cross References
| Reference | Text (BSB) | |
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| 1 | Judges 19:23 | The owner of the house went out and said to them, “No, my brothers, do not do this wicked thing! After all, this man is a guest in my house. Do not commit this outrage. |
| 2 | Leviticus 20:17 | If a man marries his sister, whether the daughter of his father or of his mother, and they have sexual relations, it is a disgrace. They must be cut off in the sight of their people. He has uncovered the nakedness of his sister; he shall bear his iniquity. |
| 3 | Judges 20:6 | Then I took my concubine, cut her into pieces, and sent her throughout the land of Israel’s inheritance, because they had committed a lewd and disgraceful act in Israel. |
| 4 | Genesis 34:7 | When Jacob’s sons heard what had happened, they returned from the field. They were filled with grief and fury, because Shechem had committed an outrage in Israel by lying with Jacob’s daughter—a thing that should not be done. |
| 5 | Leviticus 18:11 | You must not have sexual relations with the daughter of your father’s wife, born to your father; she is your sister. |
| 6 | Leviticus 18:9 | You must not have sexual relations with your sister, either your father’s daughter or your mother’s daughter, whether she was born in the same home or elsewhere. |
| 7 | Proverbs 7:7 | I saw among the simple, I noticed among the youths, a young man lacking judgment, |
| 8 | Proverbs 5:22–23 | The iniquities of a wicked man entrap him; the cords of his sin entangle him. He dies for lack of discipline, led astray by his own great folly. |
| 9 | Genesis 34:2 | When Shechem son of Hamor the Hivite, the prince of the region, saw her, he took her and lay with her by force. |
| 10 | Deuteronomy 22:29 | then the man who lay with her must pay the young woman’s father fifty shekels of silver, and she must become his wife because he has violated her. He must not divorce her as long as he lives. |
2 Samuel 13:12 Summary
In this verse, Tamar is trying to tell her brother Amnon that what he is asking her to do is wrong and against God's laws. She is standing up for what is right, even though it is hard, and appealing to Amnon's sense of decency and respect for their family and community. This is similar to what the Bible teaches in Proverbs 10:9, which says that the man of integrity walks securely, but he who makes his ways crooked will be found out. Tamar's bravery and conviction can be an example to us of how to stand up for what is right, even in difficult situations, and trust in God's sovereignty and care, as seen in Psalm 23:4 and Romans 8:28.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is Tamar trying to say to Amnon in this verse?
Tamar is trying to reason with Amnon, telling him that what he is asking her to do is wrong and against the laws and customs of Israel, as seen in similar situations in the Bible such as Genesis 19:30-38 and Leviticus 18:9-11.
Why does Tamar mention shame in her plea to Amnon?
Tamar mentions shame because she knows that if Amnon were to violate her, she would be left to bear the shame and consequences of the act, which would be a heavy burden for her to carry, as seen in Deuteronomy 22:29 and 2 Samuel 13:13.
Is Tamar's response to Amnon a model for how we should respond to similar situations today?
While the specific circumstances may be different, Tamar's response to Amnon can be a model for how we should respond to situations where someone is trying to coerce or force us into doing something that is wrong, by standing firm and appealing to a higher authority, as seen in Psalm 119:134 and Acts 5:29.
What can we learn from Tamar's use of the phrase 'in Israel' in this verse?
Tamar's use of the phrase 'in Israel' highlights the importance of considering the cultural and societal norms of the time, and how they relate to God's laws and commands, as seen in Exodus 20:1-17 and Deuteronomy 5:1-22.
Reflection Questions
- What are some ways that I can stand up for what is right, even when it is difficult or unpopular, like Tamar did in this verse?
- How can I use scripture to inform my decisions and actions, like Tamar used her knowledge of Israel's laws and customs to try to persuade Amnon?
- What are some ways that I can support and care for those who have been victimized or hurt, like Tamar was in this situation?
- How can I use my voice and influence to speak out against injustice and wrongdoing, like Tamar tried to do in this verse?
Gill's Exposition on 2 Samuel 13:12
Jamieson-Fausset-Brown on 2 Samuel 13:12
Matthew Poole's Commentary on 2 Samuel 13:12
Trapp's Commentary on 2 Samuel 13:12
Ellicott's Commentary on 2 Samuel 13:12
Adam Clarke's Commentary on 2 Samuel 13:12
Cambridge Bible on 2 Samuel 13:12
Barnes' Notes on 2 Samuel 13:12
Whedon's Commentary on 2 Samuel 13:12
Sermons on 2 Samuel 13:12
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Anger, Danger, Dreams and Destiny by Shane Idleman | Shane Idleman explores the themes of anger, danger, dreams, and destiny in his sermon, drawing from Genesis 34-36. He emphasizes the destructive nature of unchecked anger, urging l |
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Righteousness Imputed and Imparted by Bill McLeod | In this sermon, the speaker shares a personal story about a woman who felt restless and missed her husband when he was gone. She couldn't sleep and in her desperation, she knelt by |
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It’s Tempting by Ed Wrather | Ed Wrather emphasizes the importance of resisting temptation by drawing parallels to the story of Cain and Abel, highlighting how giving in to temptation can lead to destructive co |
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(Genesis) Genesis 34:1-9 by J. Vernon McGee | In this sermon, the preacher discusses the story of Dinah, the daughter of Jacob, and how she was defiled by Sheikham, the son of Hamor. The preacher emphasizes the importance of u |
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Some More Particular Directions for Maintaining Continual Communion With God by Philip Doddridge | Philip Doddridge preaches about the importance of maintaining a devout, spiritual, and heavenly character in daily life, emphasizing the need for self-examination, prayer, and devo |






