Shane Idleman discusses how to handle hate through the lens of Nehemiah's experiences, emphasizing the reality of conspiracies and the importance of responding to hate with love rather than retaliation. He highlights Nehemiah's steadfastness in the face of threats and false accusations, encouraging believers to maintain their focus on God's work and to discern the intentions of those who oppose them. Idleman also stresses the necessity of humility and the power of prayer in overcoming adversity, reminding the congregation that God ultimately has the final word in every situation.