Tim Conway teaches that answered prayer is closely linked to living a righteous life and maintaining self-control, emphasizing that God responds to those who honor Him in their conduct.
This sermon emphasizes the connection between righteousness and answered prayers, highlighting the importance of living in a right way, especially in relationships, to avoid hindrances in our prayer lives. The speaker urges believers to seek answered prayers and not waste time in prayer without expecting God's response, emphasizing the need for self-control and righteousness for effective prayers that please God.
Full Transcript
Now, I want to ask you, when you pray, do you see this reality? I'm asking you, do you have a pattern of answered prayer in your life? Is there a reality? Does God say, here I am, when you pray? Have you seen that reality? You cry out to the Lord for something, he says, here I am. And you know, he's saying that because of how fast sometimes, I mean, sometimes maybe he makes you wait a little longer to answering the prayer, but you see just a consistent pattern. Look up just a few verses at chapter 3, verse 7. Husbands, likewise husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of life.
Here's what I want you to see, so that your prayers may not be hindered. If you don't think that as Christians, unrighteousness hinders your prayers, you better read that right there. Men, you want to hinder your prayer life? Just don't live in the right way with your wife.
Righteousness and prayer are connected. Go down to 1 Peter 4, go one chapter later to 1 Peter 4, 7. The end of all things is at hand, therefore, here's righteousness in the life. Be self-controlled, which is what we were talking about the other night.
Denying self, self-control, buffeting the body, be self-controlled, sober-minded. Why? For the sake of your prayers. See brethren, this isn't just me arguing this way.
This is the way scripture argues, for the sake of your prayers. What is that? You know what that means? It means for the sake of answered prayers. Do any of you pray just because you want to pray? Do any of you find your great delight in praying, no matter whether there's an answer to it or not? Do you come to prayer meeting just because, well, that's what you're supposed to do? And prayers, you know, you got to put a notch on your belt every time you do it, because after all, that's part of just what, brethren, I don't know about you, but I pray because I want answers to my prayers.
I don't want to waste my breath. I don't want to waste my time. I want God to answer.
In fact, I get kind of desperate when I get into a stretch where it feels like, Lord, why aren't you answering? Brethren, that ought to be what we want. That's what Peter's saying to us. Men, live with your wives in the right way for the sake of your prayers.
All of us, be sober, be self-controlled. Why? For the sake of your prayers. Because you have a God who his eyes are going to and fro throughout this world, and you know what he's looking for? He's looking for righteous people.
He's looking for people like Elijah. And when he finds men with powerful prayers, you can say, oh, I know somebody in the church. It seems like God's always answering their prayers.
You know, they have that gift. No, uh-uh. Don't go there.
I know some people have unusual amounts of faith. That is, there is a gift. But if you see somebody else in the church that it seems like their prayers are being answered, I suspect what you'll really find is not that they have a greater gift, but they have greater righteousness in their life.
Brethren, there is a correlation you cannot get away from in Scripture at all. Our prayers only become effectually threatening to the devil when God is pleased to answer our prayers. And it pleases God to answer them when he's pleased with the one who is praying them.
That is the reality.
Sermon Outline
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I. The Reality of Answered Prayer
- Do you see a pattern of answered prayer in your life?
- God says 'here I am' when you pray
- Sometimes answers require waiting but are consistent
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II. Righteousness and Prayer
- Unrighteousness hinders prayer
- Men must live honorably with their wives
- Righteous living is essential for effective prayer
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III. Self-Control and Prayer
- Be self-controlled and sober-minded
- Denying self strengthens prayer life
- Pray with expectation for answers
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IV. God's Pleasure and Prayer Effectiveness
- God looks for righteous people to answer
- Answered prayers reflect God's pleasure
- Greater righteousness correlates with answered prayers
Key Quotes
“Righteousness and prayer are connected.” — Tim Conway
“Men, live with your wives in the right way for the sake of your prayers.” — Tim Conway
“Our prayers only become effectually threatening to the devil when God is pleased to answer our prayers.” — Tim Conway
Application Points
- Examine your life for areas of unrighteousness that may hinder your prayers.
- Cultivate self-control and sobriety to strengthen your prayer life.
- Pray with expectation and seek to live in a way that pleases God for effective answers.
Frequently Asked Questions
Does God always answer prayers immediately?
No, sometimes God makes you wait, but He consistently responds to those who pray with righteousness.
How does unrighteousness affect prayer?
Unrighteousness hinders prayers, as living in sin can block the effectiveness of your communication with God.
What role does self-control play in prayer?
Self-control and sobriety help maintain a righteous life, which is necessary for prayers to be effective.
Is answered prayer a sign of spiritual gifting?
Not necessarily; answered prayers often reflect greater righteousness rather than a special spiritual gift.
Why should men live honorably with their wives in relation to prayer?
Because living rightly with one's spouse is directly connected to the effectiveness and acceptance of a man's prayers.
