Friends

"This is my commandment, that you love one

another as I have loved you. Greater love

has no man than this, that a man lay down

his life for his friends. You are my friends

if you do what I command you. No longer do

I call you servants, for the servant does not

know what his master is doing; but I have

called you friends, for all that I have heard

from my Father I have made known to you...."

John 15:12-15

All of us who at some point turned from our old life

and followed Jesus into the Kingdom are aware that we

have now been brought into a set of new relationships

...Jesus is now our Lord....God is our Father...We're

brothers and sisters. To put it another way, we've

been brought into a family relationship with God who

is our Father, with Jesus who is our Elder Brother, and

with each other.

But for most of us, most of the time, our family re-

lationship with God and with each other is like many

family relationships.

- A father and son may be father and son

and yet have never become friends

...really friends.

- A husband and wife may be married for

twenty years...they may have been faith-

ful to each other as husband and wife

for those twenty years,

live in the same house,

sleep in the same bed,

eat at the same table,

and yet they have never become friends

...really friends,

In the same way, I may think of Jesus as my Lord....

but do I really see him as my friend?

Our Father who art in heaven,

Hallowed be thy name,

- God is my Father....but

is he my friend?

Here are my brothers and sisters,

- washed in the same blood,

- anointed in the same Spirit,

I belong to them and they belong to me forever. But

do I see then as friends?

If I can't see Jesus as my friend it becomes very hard

to commune with him through the day...to practice his

presence, to walk with him and talk with him. If I

can't see the heavenly Father truly as my friend,

prayer becomes a difficult thing. How can I pray if

in my mind he seems to be indifferent, looking the

other way?

What kind of fellowship can I have in this assembly

if I can't see these brothers and sisters as friends?

They may be hardheaded.....like I am,

a little crazy....like me,

irritating,

vain, unstable....like me. But how can

I serve the Lord with gladness, together with them,

unless I see them as my friends?

And if I'm having trouble thinking of these brothers

and sisters as friends, how can I help but be para-

noid when some needy soul comes in out of that storm

out there and asks for help? How can I possibly be

a friend to the poor,

the maimed,

the lame,

the blind, who live in the streets of the

cities of this world?

What a change will come over our lives when we begin

to see Jesus not only as our Lord, but also as our

Friend.

"This is my commandment, that you love one

another as I have loved you. Greater love

has no man than this, that a man lay down

his life for his friends. You are my friends

if you do what I command you...."

And what has he commanded us?

- To love one another.

- To lay down our lives for each other as he

laid down his life for us.

As we do this, we experience Jesus' presence in our

midst as our friend.

- He eats with us.

- He manifests himself to us in the breaking of bread.

- He gives us his own body for food and his

blood for drink.

No longer do I call you servants, for

the servant does not know what his master

is doing; but I have called you friends,

for all that I have heard from my Father

I have made known to you.

Even now as we hold fellowship with him, Jesus takes

everything the Father gives him and passes it on to

us through the Holy Spirit. We're not just Jesus'

servants who really don't know what he's up to....

we're his friends. He makes known to us what he's

doing in heaven and on earth right now.

- He gives us his peace.

- He imparts to us his life.

- He opens our eyes to see things as he sees

them.

God help us to see Jesus today as our friend who

- knows us by name,

- walks by our side,

- guides our steps,

- lives within us.

What a change will come over our lives when we begin

to see the heavenly Father as our friend.

And he said to them, "Which of you who has

a friend will go to him at midnight and say

to him, 'Friend, lend me three loaves; for

a friend of mine has arrived on a journey,

and I have nothing to set before him'; and

he will answer from within, 'Do not bother

me; the door is now shut, and my children

are with me in bed; I cannot get up and give

you anything'? I tell you, though he will

not get up and give him anything because he

is his friend, yet because of his importunity

he will rise and give him whatever he needs.

And I tell you, Ask, and it will be given

you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it

will be opened to you. For every one who asks

receives, and he who seeks finds, and to him

who knocks it will be opened. What father among

you, if his son asks for a fish, will instead of

a fish give him a serpent; or if he asks for an

egg, will give him a scorpion? If you then, who

are evil, know how to give good gifts to your

children, how much more will the heavenly Father

give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him!"

Luke 11:5-13

The friend we go to at midnight to ask for bread is our

heavenly Father who does give because he is our friend.

It's because we don't see the Father as our friend

that we're afraid to ask. We're not sure how he feels

about us...we've been rejected so often, maybe the

Lord will reject us too.

- "No he won't, he's your friend!"

We're afraid that if we knock on that door and the

Father looks out and sees it's us, he'll slam the door

and tell us to get lost.

- "No he won't."

In this age of mercy...every one who asks receives,

he who seeks finds,

to him who knocks it will be

opened. The Father is our friend. He wants to give

us more than we could ask or think.

"....if you who are evil know how to give good

gifts to your children, how much more will

the heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to

those who ask him!"

What a change will come over our lives when we begin

to see our brothers and sisters, for all their short-

comings, as friends.

"Truly, I say to you, whatever you bind on

earth shall be bound in heaven, and what-

ever you loose on earth shall be loosed

in heaven. Again I say to you, if two of

you agree on earth about anything they

ask, it will be done for them by my Father

in heaven. For where two or three are

gathered in my name, there am I in the

midst of them."

Then Peter came up and said to him, "Lord,

how often shall my brother sin against me,

and I forgive him? As many as seven times?"

Jesus said to him, "I do not say to you

seven times, but seventy times seven...."

Matthew 18:18-22

The power to bind on earth and it shall be bound in

heaven, to loose on earth and it shall be loosed in

heaven, is contingent on a unity of friendship that

is so real it is willing to forgive seventy times

seven.

The privilege of being able to gather in Jesus' name

and know that he is here as our friend, is contingent

on a unity of friendship that is true and faithful

and forgiving in his name. How can we be gathered

in his name and stay at odds with each other? It's

a thing of attitude. It's looking around at these

faces and choosing to see that these brothers and

sisters...for all their shortcomings, and all my

shortcomings... are my friends.

It has nothing to do with how many hobbies we have

in common, how much time we spend with each other,

whether we have the same political views. It's an

act of the heart that I make in the spirit of the

Lord. I look at these people and know that they're

not just my spiritual brothers and sisters...they're

my friends.

What a change will come over our lives when we begin

to see those needy ones out there as friends.

...for a friend of mine has arrived on a

journey, and I have nothing to set before

him;... Luke 11:6

The friend who has come on a journey and needs some

hospitality is a person who has not yet tasted the

goodness of God. He's still outside the Kingdom, but

he's a friend.

Jesus was deridingly called a friend of tax collectors

and sinners, as if that were a bad thing. But he was

a friend of tax collectors and sinners, and he still

is. And if we're his friends, we are their friends too.

These walls we build between ourselves and the "people

of the world", as we so often call them,

- as if they were our enemies,

- as if we were superior,

- as if we must somehow keep ourselves spiritually

sanitary by avoiding these people,

these walls of isolation and self-righteousness have

to come down. We have only one enemy...Satan and his

kingdom. Those people who are victims of Satan's

lies are not our enemies ----

("We wrestle not against flesh and blood...")

---they're our friends!

"This is my commandment, that you love one

another as I have loved you. Greater love

has no man than this, that a man lay down

his life for his friends. You are my friends

if you do what I command you. No longer do

I call you servants, for the servant does not

know what his master is doing; but I have

called you friends, for all that I have heard

from my Father I have made known to you..."

Today the Spirit of the Lord is calling us to put

away our paranoia and see Jesus for what he is:

our friend, and let him draw us to himself and make

us, through his shed blood,

friends of God,

friends of each other,

friends of those wounded who are still

staggering around out there in the world.

At this table we commune with Jesus, our crucified

and risen Friend. And as we do he tears away the

veil anew making God our Friend. We become members

one of another. One loaf,

one cup,

one body... .friends.

And after we commune we become broken bread and

poured out wine for the world...friends of the lost ones.

As we eat his body and drink his blood, may the Lamb

Of God who takes away our sin warm our hearts and

make us friends of God,

friends of each other.

friends of the lost.