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Mary Wilder Tileston

Keep Your Judgements in Check

The sermon emphasizes the importance of refraining from judgment and cultivating kindness and empathy towards others.
Mary Wilder Tileston, in her sermon, emphasizes the importance of refraining from judging others and instead focusing on self-improvement. She highlights the need to address our own faults before pointing out those of others, urging us to seek purity in our souls before criticizing our neighbors. Tileston stresses the significance of developing a kind and charitable mindset, rather than indulging in sharp criticism and analysis of others' characters, which can lead to uncharitable behavior.

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Let us not therefore judge one another any more.

ROMANS 14:13

TELL not abroad another's faults

Till thou hast cured thine own;

Nor whisper of thy neighbor's sin

Till thou art perfect grown:

Then, when thy soul is pure enough

To bear My searching eye

Unshrinking, then may come the time

Thy brother to decry.

"Jesu, Saviour, pitying be;

Parce mihi, Domine!"

LYRA MYSTICA

THE habit of judging is so nearly incurable, and its cure is such an almost interminable process, that we must concentrate ourselves for a long while on keeping it in check, and this check is to be found in kind interpretations. We must come to esteem very lightly our sharp eye for evil, on which perhaps we once prided ourselves as cleverness. We must look at our talent for analysis of character as a dreadful possibility of huge uncharitableness. We are sure to continue to say clever things, so long as we continue to indulge in this analysis; and clever things are equally sure to be sharp and acid. We must grow to something higher, and something truer, than a quickness in detecting evil.

FREDERICK WM. FABER

Sermon Outline

  1. I points: - Understanding Judgment - '{''A'': ''The biblical basis for refraining from judgment (Romans 14:13)'', ''B'': ''The impact of judgment on community and relationships''}'
  2. II points: - The Nature of Human Judgment - '{''A'': ''Judgment as an incurable habit'', ''B'': ''The dangers of a critical spirit''}'
  3. III points: - Cultivating Kind Interpretations - '{''A'': ''The importance of seeing the good in others'', ''B'': ''Transforming judgment into compassion''}'
  4. IV points: - Personal Reflection and Growth - '{''A'': ''Self-examination before judging others'', ''B'': ''The journey towards personal purity''}'
  5. V points: - Practical Steps to Reduce Judgment - '{''A'': ''Practicing empathy and understanding'', ''B'': ''Engaging in constructive dialogue''}'

Key Quotes

“Let us not therefore judge one another any more.” — Mary Wilder Tileston
“The habit of judging is so nearly incurable, and its cure is such an almost interminable process.” — Mary Wilder Tileston
“We must grow to something higher, and something truer, than a quickness in detecting evil.” — Mary Wilder Tileston

Application Points

  • Engage in self-reflection to identify your own faults before judging others.
  • Practice empathy by actively looking for the good in those around you.
  • Transform critical thoughts into compassionate actions in your daily interactions.

Frequently Asked Questions

What does Romans 14:13 teach us?
It encourages us to refrain from judging one another, emphasizing the importance of self-reflection.
Why is judgment considered a habit?
Judgment is seen as an incurable habit because it often becomes a default response to others' actions.
How can we cultivate kind interpretations?
By consciously choosing to focus on the positive aspects of others and practicing empathy.
What is the first step in reducing judgment?
The first step is self-examination, ensuring we address our own faults before critiquing others.

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