Peril in Life
J.R. Miller teaches that life's inevitable changes carry peril, but with wisdom and grace, each transition can lead to growth and a richer, stronger life.
In 'Peril in Life,' J.R. Miller explores the challenges and dangers inherent in life's many transitions. He emphasizes the importance of wisdom, a nurturing home environment, and balanced care to ensure growth is healthy and fruitful. Miller encourages believers to view change not as loss but as an opportunity for spiritual and personal development.
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There is always peril in change. The more suddenly the change comes, and the greater it is, the more is the danger that hurt will result. There is danger in the ordinary changes of life, from infancy to childhood, from childhood to youth, from youth to manhood and womanhood. Many do not make the transition safely. There always are certain things that must be left behind, as each period is abandoned for the one that follows it. The mother does not like to see her boy lose his curls and his boyish looks and ways. She wishes she could keep her baby always. But it would be a sad thing if he kept his childish manners, his immature development, his baby face and looks. This would be abnormal, an arrested growth, becoming a lasting grief. The transition must be made, and there is not meant to be any loss in it—but rather a gain.
As the blossom fades and falls off—but leaves its secret of life behind for the beginning of the fruit, so the change from boyhood is not intended to be the losing of anything—but an unfolding, a development. The true avails of childish sweetness and beauty, stay in the heart and life of youth, and become its strength. The change is safely passed, when the new emerges from the old in healthful grace and vigor.
But there is always danger in the transition, and not always is it safely passed. There is need of great wisdom in those who care for the child, for its education, for its health, for the directing of the influences which affect Its growth. Many careers are wrecked in the early formative periods. It is the mission of the ideal home—to be in every way a wholesome place for children to grow up in, a place of love, of joy and of cheer, not of over-kindness or over-indulgence, not of forcing processes or excessive stimulation, not of dullness, dreariness, or lack of vitalizing and energizing influences. The true education in this educational period is that which insures wholesome outcome, developing into richer, stronger, more beautiful life.
There is peril also in the changes that come through life\
Sermon Outline
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- Peril inherent in sudden and great changes
- Ordinary life changes from infancy to adulthood
- Necessity of leaving behind the old for the new
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- The beauty and sweetness of childhood as a foundation
- Change as unfolding and development, not loss
- Healthy transitions preserve strength and grace
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- The role of wisdom in guiding growth
- Importance of a wholesome home environment
- Avoiding extremes in care and stimulation
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- Danger in transitions and potential for wrecked careers
- Mission of the ideal home to nurture growth
- Education that ensures wholesome outcomes
Key Quotes
“There is always peril in change.” — J.R. Miller
“The change is safely passed, when the new emerges from the old in healthful grace and vigor.” — J.R. Miller
“It is the mission of the ideal home to be in every way a wholesome place for children to grow up in, a place of love, of joy and of cheer.” — J.R. Miller
Application Points
- Embrace life's changes as opportunities for growth rather than fearing loss.
- Cultivate a balanced and loving environment to support healthy development.
- Seek wisdom and guidance during periods of transition to navigate challenges safely.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is the main danger in life's changes according to the sermon?
The main danger is that sudden or poorly managed changes can cause hurt or arrested development.
How should parents and caregivers approach a child's growth?
They should provide a loving, joyful, and balanced environment that avoids over-indulgence or dullness.
Does the sermon view change as loss or gain?
Change is viewed as an unfolding and development that leads to gain, not loss.
What is the mission of the ideal home in this context?
To be a wholesome place that nurtures children’s growth into richer, stronger, and more beautiful lives.
Why is wisdom important during transitions?
Because it helps guide growth safely and prevents the dangers that can come with change.