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Favell Lee Mortimer

Matthew 12:46 to End. He Describes Who Are His Mother and His Brethren.

Jesus teaches us that those united to him in spirit are nearer to him than those related to him in the flesh, and that He loves those who do the will of His Father in heaven.
Favell Lee Mortimer reflects on the profound privilege of being considered family by Jesus, emphasizing that spiritual connection to Him is more significant than physical relationships. Jesus prioritized fulfilling His Father's will over personal desires, setting an example for believers to seek God's will earnestly. Despite the inward struggles and failures experienced by God's children, they find comfort in knowing that Jesus loves them unconditionally and welcomes them into His family.

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Such were the gentle words which our Savior added to a discourse containing many severe reproofs and dreadful warnings. The former discourse, recorded in Matthew 11, also ended with sweet encouragement--"Come unto me, all you that are weary and heavy laden." But the passage we have just read is still more condescending! Who can value enough the honor of being mother, brother, and sister of the Lord of heaven and earth! How wonderful it is that sinners like ourselves should be raised to the enjoyment of such a privilege!

What was the occasion on which the Savior uttered the blessing to which we have just alluded? His mother and brethren desired to speak with him, but were unable to approach on account of the crowd that surrounded him. By the term "brethren," we must understand not only those whom we call brethren, but also more distant relations. It is probable that they wished from motives of affection to interrupt his labors, which appeared too severe for his strength. Why would not Jesus comply with their request? Because he saw multitudes of precious souls thronging around him, eager to hear the words of eternal life. Instead of admitting his relations immediately to his presence, he pronounced a blessing on his own disciples; saying, "Behold my mother and my brethren."

We must not suppose that he felt no regard for his mother, or for any of his relations, for we know that he bore to his mother such affection, that when hanging on the cross, he commended her with his expiring breath to the care of his beloved disciple. But by this expression, "Who is my mother? and who are my brethren?" he taught us, that those united to him in spirit are nearer to him than those related to him in the flesh. His mother, indeed, was spiritually connected with him, for she was a true believer. Before the birth of her divine Son, she said, "My spirit has rejoiced in God my Savior;" therefore he loved her both as his mother, and as his own redeemed. But he did not love her alone; he loved all those who did the will of his Father in heaven.

It was to do his Father's will that he came down from heaven; as he said, "I came down from heaven, not to do mine own will, but the will of him that sent me;" (John 6:38;) and he always did it perfectly. On one occasion he declared, "I have kept my Father's commandments, and abide in his love." How different is the state of the world! Every one by nature does his own will. Children soon betray their evil nature by striving to do their own, and not their parents' will. When they grow older, and hear the commandments of God, naturally they show no inclination to obey.

As soon as a person is converted, he begins to desire to do God's will. The 119th Psalm shows us how earnestly David sought to please his heavenly Father--"O that my ways were directed to keep your statutes," (verse 5.) "Behold I have longed after your precepts; quicken me in your righteousness," (verse 40.) But why did David utter these prayers? Because he felt that he could not of himself do God's will; therefore he prayed for grace from on high.

The holy apostle Paul could say, "I delight in the law of God after the inward man." Yet the sin of his nature troubled him. He said, "I see a law in my members, warring against the law of my mind." All the children of God endure the same inward struggles that Paul and David endured. Each of them can say, "Though I fail, I weep;

Though I halt in pace,

Yet I creep

To the throne of grace."

But though they do not keep the Father's commandments perfectly, as Jesus did, they are comforted by knowing that He loves them.

It must have been delightful to hear him say on earth, "Behold my mother and my brethren!" How endearing was his attitude when he stretched forth his hands, to point out the objects of his love! The day will come when he will enclose his redeemed family in his everlasting arms, and declare, "Behold my mother and my brethren."

Sermon Outline

  1. I. Introduction
  2. A. The Savior's gentle words in Matthew 12:46-50
  3. B. The occasion of the Savior's blessing on his disciples
  4. II. The Savior's Family
  5. A. Who are his mother and brethren?
  6. B. Those united to him in spirit are nearer to him than those related to him in the flesh
  7. III. Doing the Will of the Father
  8. A. Jesus came down from heaven to do the will of his Father
  9. B. The will of the Father is to love and obey Him
  10. IV. The State of the World
  11. A. Every one by nature does his own will
  12. B. Children and adults alike struggle to obey God's commandments
  13. V. The Converted Heart
  14. A. A person begins to desire to do God's will after conversion
  15. B. The need for prayer and grace to obey God's will
  16. VI. Conclusion
  17. A. The Savior's love and blessing on his redeemed family
  18. B. The comfort of knowing He loves us

Key Quotes

“Who can value enough the honor of being mother, brother, and sister of the Lord of heaven and earth!” — Favell Lee Mortimer
“Behold my mother and my brethren!” — Favell Lee Mortimer
“Though I fail, I weep; Though I halt in pace, Yet I creep To the throne of grace.” — Favell Lee Mortimer

Application Points

  • We should prioritize our relationship with Jesus over our relationships with our family and friends.
  • We need to pray for the grace and strength to do the will of God in our lives.
  • We should strive to obey God's commandments and do His will, even when it's difficult.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the significance of Jesus' words 'Behold my mother and my brethren'?
Jesus' words teach us that those united to him in spirit are nearer to him than those related to him in the flesh.
Why did Jesus not immediately comply with his relations' request to speak with him?
Jesus saw multitudes of precious souls thronging around him, eager to hear the words of eternal life.
What is the difference between doing one's own will and doing the will of the Father?
Doing one's own will is natural, but doing the will of the Father requires prayer, grace, and obedience.
How can we know that Jesus loves us?
We know that Jesus loves us because He loves those who do the will of His Father in heaven.

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