Matthew 19
BSB1 When Jesus had finished saying these things, He left Galilee and went into the region of Judea beyond the Jordan. 2 Large crowds followed Him, and He healed them there. 3 Then some Pharisees came and tested Him by asking, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any reason?" 4 Jesus answered, “Have you not read that from the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’ 5 and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’ ? 6 So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate." 7 “Why then,” they asked, “did Moses order a man to give his wife a certificate of divorce and send her away? “ 8 Jesus replied, “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because of your hardness of heart; but it was not this way from the beginning. 9 Now I tell you that whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman, commits adultery. “ 10 His disciples said to Him, “If this is the case between a man and his wife, it is better not to marry." 11 “Not everyone can accept this word,” He replied, “but only those to whom it has been given. 12 For there are eunuchs who were born that way; others were made that way by men; and still others live like eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. The one who can accept this should accept it." 13 Then the little children were brought to Jesus for Him to place His hands on them and pray for them. And the disciples rebuked those who brought them. 14 But Jesus said, “Let the little children come to Me, and do not hinder them! For the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these." 15 And after He had placed His hands on them, He went on from there. 16 Just then a man came up to Jesus and inquired, “Teacher, what good thing must I do to obtain eternal life?" 17 “Why do you ask Me about what is good?” Jesus replied. “There is only One who is good. If you want to enter life, keep the commandments." 18 “Which ones?” the man asked. Jesus answered, “‘Do not murder, do not commit adultery, do not steal, do not bear false witness, 19 honor your father and mother, and love your neighbor as yourself.’ “ 20 “All these I have kept,” said the young man. “What do I still lack?" 21 Jesus told him, “If you want to be perfect, go, sell your possessions and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow Me." 22 When the young man heard this, he went away in sorrow, because he had great wealth. 23 Then Jesus said to His disciples, “Truly I tell you, it is hard for a rich man to enter the kingdom of heaven. 24 Again I tell you, it is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God." 25 When the disciples heard this, they were greatly astonished and asked, “Who then can be saved?" 26 Jesus looked at them and said, “With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible." 27 “Look,” Peter replied, “we have left everything to follow You. What then will there be for us?" 28 Jesus said to them, “Truly I tell you, in the renewal of all things, when the Son of Man sits on His glorious throne, you who have followed Me will also sit on twelve thrones, judging the twelve tribes of Israel. 29 And everyone who has left houses or brothers or sisters or father or mother or wife or children or fields for the sake of My name will receive a hundredfold and will inherit eternal life. 30 But many who are first will be last, and the last will be first.
Study Notes — Matthew 19
- Chapter Summary
- Context for the Chapter
- Heart Application
- What Does This Chapter Mean?
- Voices from the Church
- Outline for Preaching
- Core Doctrines
- Lessons from Matthew 19
- Themes from Matthew 19
- Questions for Meditation
- Detailed Chapter Outline
- Frequently Asked Questions
- Top Cross References
- Sermons on Matthew 19
- Matthew Henry Commentary
- What Do You Notice?
Chapter Summary
Matthew 19 begins with Jesus teaching on marriage and divorce, citing Genesis 1:27 and 2:24 to emphasize the sacred nature of marriage (Matthew 19:3-12). The Pharisees then test Jesus on the issue, but He redirects their attention to the heart of the matter: the hardness of their hearts (Matthew 19:8). Jesus then blesses the children, teaching that the kingdom of heaven belongs to those who become like them (Matthew 19:13-15). A rich young man approaches Jesus, seeking eternal life, but is unwilling to give up his wealth (Matthew 19:16-22). Jesus teaches that it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of heaven (Matthew 19:24). The chapter concludes with Jesus reassuring the disciples that they will be rewarded for their sacrifices, but also warning them that many who are first will be last, and the last will be first (Matthew 19:27-30).
Context for the Chapter
Matthew 19 is situated in the larger narrative of Jesus' ministry, as He journeys towards Jerusalem and the cross. The chapter follows Jesus' teachings on community and forgiveness in Matthew 18, and precedes His triumphal entry into Jerusalem in Matthew 21. The Pharisees' attempts to test Jesus and the disciples' misconceptions about the kingdom of heaven reflect the growing tensions between Jesus and the religious leaders, which will ultimately lead to His crucifixion.
Heart Application
As we reflect on Jesus' teachings in Matthew 19, we are reminded of the importance of humility, faith, and obedience in following Him. We are called to trust in God's power, even when faced with seemingly impossible challenges, and to prioritize our relationship with Him above all else. May we, like the disciples, be willing to surrender our attachments and ambitions, and may we, like the children, receive the kingdom of heaven with humility and wonder.
What Does This Chapter Mean?
Matthew 19 teaches us that following Jesus requires humility, faith, and obedience. Jesus emphasizes the importance of marriage, the dangers of wealth, and the need to trust in God's power. As we read this chapter, we are reminded that the kingdom of heaven belongs to those who become like children, humble and dependent on God (Matthew 19:14). We are also warned that it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of heaven (Matthew 19:24).
Voices from the Church
“The kingdom of heaven is not a place where the proud and mighty reign, but where the humble and lowly are exalted.”
— John Calvin
“The greatest miracle of all is not the creation of the world, but the creation of a new heart in a sinner, and this is the work of God's almighty power.”
— Charles Spurgeon
Outline for Preaching
- Jesus Teaches on Marriage and Divorce (Matthew 19:1-12) — Jesus emphasizes the sacred nature of marriage, citing Genesis 1:27 and 2:24, and warns against the hardness of heart that leads to divorce.
- Jesus Blesses the Children (Matthew 19:13-15) — Jesus teaches that the kingdom of heaven belongs to those who become like children, humble and dependent on God.
- The Rich Young Man (Matthew 19:16-22) — Jesus teaches that wealth can be a hindrance to entering the kingdom of heaven, but also emphasizes that God's power can overcome even the greatest obstacles.
- Jesus Teaches on Discipleship (Matthew 19:23-30) — Jesus emphasizes the importance of humility, faith, and obedience in following Him, and promises great rewards to those who surrender their attachments and ambitions.
- Conclusion (Matthew 19:27-30) — Jesus reassures the disciples that they will be rewarded for their sacrifices, but also warns them that many who are first will be last, and the last will be first.
Core Doctrines
- The Sacrament of Marriage
- Matthew 19 teaches that marriage is a sacred institution, ordained by God, and emphasizes the importance of faithfulness and commitment in marriage.
- The Dangers of Wealth
- Jesus warns that wealth can be a hindrance to entering the kingdom of heaven, and emphasizes the importance of trusting in God's power rather than material possessions.
- The Importance of Humility
- Jesus teaches that the kingdom of heaven belongs to those who become like children, humble and dependent on God.
- The Power of God
- Jesus emphasizes that God's power can overcome even the greatest obstacles, and that with God all things are possible.
Lessons from Matthew 19
- The Importance of Faithfulness in Marriage — Jesus teaches that marriage is a sacred institution, and emphasizes the importance of faithfulness and commitment in marriage.
- The Dangers of Wealth and Materialism — Jesus warns that wealth can be a hindrance to entering the kingdom of heaven, and emphasizes the importance of trusting in God's power rather than material possessions.
- The Importance of Humility and Dependence on God — Jesus teaches that the kingdom of heaven belongs to those who become like children, humble and dependent on God.
- The Power of God to Overcome Obstacles — Jesus emphasizes that God's power can overcome even the greatest obstacles, and that with God all things are possible.
- The Cost of Discipleship — Jesus teaches that following Him requires sacrifice, humility, and trust in God's power, but also promises great rewards to those who surrender their attachments and ambitions.
Themes from Matthew 19
- Marriage and Divorce — Jesus teaches that marriage is a sacred institution, and emphasizes the importance of faithfulness and commitment in marriage.
- Wealth and Materialism — Jesus warns that wealth can be a hindrance to entering the kingdom of heaven, and emphasizes the importance of trusting in God's power rather than material possessions.
- Humility and Dependence on God — Jesus teaches that the kingdom of heaven belongs to those who become like children, humble and dependent on God.
- The Power of God — Jesus emphasizes that God's power can overcome even the greatest obstacles, and that with God all things are possible.
- Discipleship and the Cost of Following Jesus — Jesus teaches that following Him requires sacrifice, humility, and trust in God's power, but also promises great rewards to those who surrender their attachments and ambitions.
Questions for Meditation
- What does Jesus teach about the nature of marriage, and how does this relate to our understanding of God's character?
- How does Jesus' interaction with the rich young man challenge our own attitudes towards wealth and material possessions?
- What does Jesus mean by saying that the kingdom of heaven belongs to those who become like children, and how can we apply this teaching in our own lives?
- How does Jesus' emphasis on the power of God challenge our own limitations and weaknesses, and what does this teach us about the nature of faith and trust?
- What does Jesus' teaching on discipleship reveal about the cost of following Him, and how can we apply this teaching in our own lives?
Detailed Chapter Outline
1. Jesus Teaches on Marriage and Divorce (Matthew 19:1-12)
| 19:1 | Jesus teaches on marriage and divorce, citing Genesis 1:27 and 2:24 to emphasize the sacred nature of marriage. |
| 19:2 | The Pharisees test Jesus on the issue of divorce, asking if it is lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any reason. |
| 19:3 | Jesus redirects their attention to the heart of the matter: the hardness of their hearts. |
| 19:4 | Jesus quotes Genesis 1:27, emphasizing that God created man and woman to be joined together in marriage. |
| 19:5 | Jesus teaches that a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh. |
| 19:6 | Jesus warns that what God has joined together, let no man separate. |
| 19:7 | The Pharisees ask why Moses commanded a man to give his wife a certificate of divorce and send her away. |
| 19:8 | Jesus replies that Moses permitted divorce because of the hardness of their hearts, but emphasizes that this was not God's original intention. |
| 19:9 | Jesus teaches that anyone who divorces his wife, except for immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery. |
| 19:10 | The disciples ask if it is better not to marry, given the difficulties and challenges of marriage. |
| 19:11 | Jesus replies that not everyone can accept this teaching, but only those to whom it has been given. |
| 19:12 | Jesus teaches that there are eunuchs who have made themselves eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven, and that whoever can accept this teaching should accept it. |
2. Jesus Blesses the Children (Matthew 19:13-15)
| 19:13 | The disciples rebuke the people for bringing their children to Jesus, but Jesus is indignant and says, 'Let the children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.' |
| 19:14 | Jesus takes the children in His arms and blesses them, teaching that the kingdom of heaven belongs to those who become like children, humble and dependent on God. |
| 19:15 | Jesus lays His hands on the children and prays for them, demonstrating His love and care for them. |
3. The Rich Young Man (Matthew 19:16-22)
| 19:16 | A rich young man approaches Jesus, asking what good thing he must do to get eternal life. |
| 19:17 | Jesus replies that he should keep the commandments, citing the commandments to love God and love his neighbor as himself. |
| 19:18 | The young man asks which commandments he should keep, and Jesus replies that he should not murder, not commit adultery, not steal, not bear false witness, and honor his father and mother. |
| 19:19 | The young man says that he has kept all these commandments, and Jesus tells him that if he wants to be perfect, he should sell his possessions and give to the poor, and then come and follow Him. |
| 19:20 | The young man is sad, because he has many possessions, and Jesus teaches that it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of heaven. |
| 19:21 | Jesus says that with man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible. |
| 19:22 | The young man goes away sad, because he has many possessions, and Jesus teaches that many who are first will be last, and the last will be first. |
4. Jesus Teaches on Discipleship (Matthew 19:23-30)
| 19:23 | Jesus teaches that it is hard for a rich man to enter the kingdom of heaven, because wealth can be a hindrance to faith and trust in God. |
| 19:24 | Jesus says that it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of heaven. |
| 19:25 | The disciples are amazed, and ask who can be saved if it is so difficult for a rich man to enter the kingdom of heaven. |
| 19:26 | Jesus replies that with man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible. |
| 19:27 | Peter says that the disciples have left everything to follow Jesus, and Jesus replies that they will be rewarded for their sacrifices. |
| 19:28 | Jesus teaches that in the regeneration, when the Son of Man sits on His glorious throne, the disciples will also sit on twelve thrones, judging the twelve tribes of Israel. |
| 19:29 | Jesus says that everyone who has left houses or brothers or sisters or father or mother or children or fields for His sake will receive a hundred times as much and will inherit eternal life. |
| 19:30 | Jesus teaches that many who are first will be last, and the last will be first. |
Frequently Asked Questions
What does Jesus teach about marriage and divorce in Matthew 19?
Jesus teaches that marriage is a sacred institution, and emphasizes the importance of faithfulness and commitment in marriage. He also warns against the hardness of heart that leads to divorce, citing God's original intention in creating man and woman (Matthew 19:3-12).
What is the significance of Jesus' interaction with the rich young man in Matthew 19?
Jesus' interaction with the rich young man highlights the dangers of wealth and materialism, and emphasizes the importance of trusting in God's power rather than material possessions. The young man's inability to give up his wealth serves as a warning to the disciples and to us about the challenges of following Jesus (Matthew 19:16-22).
What does Jesus mean by saying that the kingdom of heaven belongs to those who become like children?
Jesus teaches that the kingdom of heaven belongs to those who become like children, humble and dependent on God. This means that we must approach God with a sense of wonder, humility, and dependence, recognizing our need for His grace and mercy (Matthew 19:14).
Top Cross References
| Reference | Connection | |
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| 1 | Matthew 19:4 → Genesis 1:27 | Jesus cites Genesis 1:27 to emphasize the sacred nature of marriage, highlighting God's original intention in creating man and woman. |
| 2 | Matthew 19:5 → Genesis 2:24 | Jesus quotes Genesis 2:24 to teach that a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh. |
| 3 | Matthew 19:7 → Deuteronomy 24:1-4 | The Pharisees ask why Moses commanded a man to give his wife a certificate of divorce and send her away, citing Deuteronomy 24:1-4. |
| 4 | Matthew 19:17 → Leviticus 19:18 | Jesus replies that the young man should keep the commandments, citing Leviticus 19:18 to emphasize the importance of loving his neighbor as himself. |
| 5 | Matthew 19:21 → Mark 10:21 | Jesus tells the young man that if he wants to be perfect, he should sell his possessions and give to the poor, and then come and follow Him, as recorded in Mark 10:21. |
| 6 | Matthew 19:24 → Mark 10:25 | Jesus says that it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of heaven, as recorded in Mark 10:25. |
| 7 | Matthew 19:26 → Jeremiah 32:17 | Jesus replies that with man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible, citing Jeremiah 32:17 to emphasize God's power and sovereignty. |
| 8 | Matthew 19:28 → Luke 22:30 | Jesus teaches that in the regeneration, when the Son of Man sits on His glorious throne, the disciples will also sit on twelve thrones, judging the twelve tribes of Israel, as recorded in Luke 22:30. |
| 9 | Matthew 19:29 → Mark 10:30 | Jesus says that everyone who has left houses or brothers or sisters or father or mother or children or fields for His sake will receive a hundred times as much and will inherit eternal life, as recorded in Mark 10:30. |
| 10 | Matthew 19:30 → Mark 10:31 | Jesus teaches that many who are first will be last, and the last will be first, as recorded in Mark 10:31. |
Sermons on Matthew 19
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A Jug of Water by Richard Wurmbrand | In this sermon, the preacher shares a story of a man who had forgotten his purpose in life and became consumed by worldly desires. The man had a happy life with a wealthy wife and |
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Please Sir Save Me! by William Booth | In this sermon, the preacher tells a story about a gold miner on a ship that gets caught in a storm and starts sinking. A little girl asks the miner if he can swim, and he realizes |
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Heart to Heart Talk on Marriage by Jim Cymbala | In this sermon, the speaker starts by sharing a personal anecdote about watching a nature channel and being disturbed by the aggressive behavior of wild dogs in South Africa. He th |
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(Revelation) 09 Revelation 20 - the Millennium by David Pawson | In this sermon, the speaker shares about his experiences preaching to prisoners for several hours at a time. He tells the prisoners that if they remain faithful to Jesus and overco |
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(The Testimony of Jesus Is the Spirit of Prophecy) Selling All Your Possessions by Art Katz | In this sermon, the speaker addresses the issues he sees in the foundation of life and reality. He criticizes the impersonal and materialistic nature of modern universities, where |
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The Spirit and the Bride Say Come by R.G. Lee | In this sermon, the preacher emphasizes the urgency of accepting Jesus Christ as one's Savior. He warns that if someone were to die without accepting Christ, they would be consider |
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Pride by David Wilkerson | In this sermon, the preacher addresses the issue of divorce and the breaking up of families, stating that it is a plague that is sweeping the church. The preacher emphasizes the im |
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K-048 One Thing You Lack by Art Katz | In this sermon, the speaker reflects on the deep attachment and love we can have for animals, which may ultimately be a love of self. He emphasizes the need to cut the cord on this |
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Our God Can Fix Anything by David Wilkerson | In this sermon, the preacher emphasizes that no matter how far gone someone may seem, they are never too far gone for God to fix. He shares a story of a father who went to great le |
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Husbands Love Your Wifes! by Keith Daniel | Keith Daniel emphasizes the biblical command for husbands to love their wives, drawing from Matthew 19:5 and Ephesians 5:25. He highlights the importance of 'cleaving' to one's spo |
Summary of Matthew Henry Commentary on Matthew 19
In Matthew 19, Jesus teaches on the sacred institution of marriage, emphasizing the importance of faithfulness and commitment. He also warns against the hardness of heart that leads to divorce, citing God's original intention in creating man and woman. Jesus' interaction with the rich young man highlights the dangers of wealth and materialism, and emphasizes the importance of trusting in God's power rather than material possessions. As we reflect on Jesus' teachings in this chapter, we are reminded of the importance of humility, faith, and obedience in following Him. May we, like the disciples, be willing to surrender our attachments and ambitions, and may we, like the children, receive the kingdom of heaven with humility and wonder. As Matthew Henry notes, 'The kingdom of heaven is not a place where the proud and mighty reign, but where the humble and lowly are exalted.' Read the full unabridged Matthew Henry Commentary →
What Do You Notice?
Jesus' Authority
Throughout the chapter, Jesus demonstrates His authority as a teacher, interpreting Scripture and speaking with divine wisdom. The Pharisees and the disciples are amazed by His teachings, and the rich young man is convicted by Jesus' words.
The Importance of Humility
Jesus emphasizes the importance of humility, teaching that the kingdom of heaven belongs to those who become like children (Matthew 19:14). This theme is reinforced by Jesus' interactions with the rich young man, who is unwilling to give up his wealth and status.
The Paradox of Discipleship
Jesus' teachings on marriage, divorce, and wealth highlight the paradoxes of discipleship. Following Jesus requires sacrifice, humility, and trust in God's power, but also promises great rewards and eternal life (Matthew 19:27-30).








