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The Grace of Thoughtfulness
By J.R. Miller0PHP 2:3J.R. Miller emphasizes the importance of thoughtfulness in our interactions with others, arguing that many people cause unintentional pain through heedless words and actions. He encourages cultivating a spirit of consideration that prioritizes the feelings and needs of others, rather than acting solely on personal impulses. Miller illustrates this with the example of a child who sacrifices his beloved canary to spare his sick mother distress, highlighting that true love involves selflessness and attentiveness. He warns against the dangers of thoughtlessness, which can lead to a lack of harmony in family and community life, and calls for proactive kindness and support. Ultimately, Miller asserts that thoughtfulness is a reflection of noble Christian character and a vital aspect of living out our faith.
Thoughtfulness and Tact
By J.R. Miller0PRO 15:1MAT 5:16ROM 12:101CO 13:4GAL 5:22EPH 4:15PHP 2:4COL 4:6JAS 1:191PE 3:15J.R. Miller emphasizes the significance of thoughtfulness and tact in our interactions, illustrating how a kind word or action at the right moment can profoundly impact others. He contrasts those who, despite good intentions, fail to be effective due to a lack of tact, often causing more harm than good. Miller highlights that true tact is rooted in love and understanding, as exemplified by Christ, who always spoke the truth with gentleness and consideration. He argues that tact is essential for effective ministry and relationships, as it fosters goodwill and opens hearts to the message of Christ. Ultimately, Miller calls for a cultivation of this gift, which can be developed through a heart filled with Christ's love.
Learning to Be Thoughtful.
By J.R. Miller0EPH 4:32PHP 2:4COL 3:12J.R. Miller emphasizes the significance of thoughtfulness in a complete Christian character, illustrating how it transforms one's life into a blessing for others. He explains that a thoughtful person instinctively helps others, respects their individuality, and avoids intrusiveness, especially in times of sorrow. Miller highlights that true thoughtfulness is not just about actions but also about refraining from causing pain or discomfort to others. He encourages self-reflection on our own thoughtfulness and stresses that a Christian life should be marked by sweetness and kindness, as modeled by Christ. Ultimately, he calls for believers to cultivate this grace in their interactions with others.