A.W. Tozer discusses how personal interests dictate relationships between individuals and nations, emphasizing that harmony exists only when interests align. He argues that human society is structured to serve the majority's interests, and conflicts arise when these interests clash, leading to hostility and war. Tozer highlights that all wars stem from a collision of interests, which he identifies as a manifestation of sin, referencing the biblical inquiry from James about the origins of conflicts.

J. Vernon McGee discusses the confrontation between Jacob and Laban, highlighting Laban's diplomatic approach and emotional manipulation as he questions Jacob about his secret departure. Laban feigns hurt over not being able to bid farewell to his daughters and grandchildren, while Jacob explains his fear of Laban's potential refusal to let them go. The sermon emphasizes the tension between Laban's words and intentions, revealing the underlying conflict and God's intervention in the situation. Ultimately, Jacob's response reflects his desire for freedom and protection for his family amidst Laban's accusations.

Shane Idleman addresses the challenges of conflict and pride within the church, emphasizing that while hurt can accompany growth, it is essential to confront pride and seek humility. He explains that divisions in a healthy church can reveal spiritual maturity and encourages believers to handle conflict with grace and understanding. Idleman highlights the importance of taking thoughts captive, embracing grace, and recognizing that some relationships may never mend, urging the congregation to focus on their own spiritual growth and responses. Ultimately, he calls for humility and the willingness to forgive, reminding everyone that the message of the cross is both powerful and offensive to those who resist it.

Mike Bickle emphasizes the critical importance of resolving conflicts and fostering unity within the community, especially as it prepares for significant growth. He highlights that internal strife is the primary vulnerability that can hinder progress and emphasizes the need for godly wisdom and intentionality in addressing conflicts. Bickle encourages individuals to approach one another with humility, patience, and a spirit of reconciliation, following biblical principles for conflict resolution. He stresses the necessity of clear communication and the importance of being of one mind to prevent division and promote harmony. Ultimately, Bickle calls for a proactive approach to maintaining unity as the community expands.

Shane Idleman addresses the issue of hurt within the church in his sermon 'I'm Hurt - Now What?', emphasizing the importance of resolving conflicts among believers without resorting to secular courts. He highlights Paul's message to the Corinthians about the need for Christians to seek arbitration from fellow believers rather than airing grievances publicly, which can harm the church's witness. Idleman encourages forgiveness and the release of bitterness, reminding the congregation that true maturity in faith is demonstrated by how one handles wrongs done to them. He also discusses the significance of being washed, sanctified, and justified through Christ, urging believers to let go of past hurts and embrace their new identity in Him.

Mike Bickle emphasizes the importance of addressing wounded relationships, particularly in marriage and close friendships, using James chapter 3 as a foundational text. He highlights that conflicts often arise from unfulfilled expectations and self-seeking behaviors, urging individuals to take responsibility for their part in relational wounds. Bickle encourages believers to make direct appeals to one another rather than waiting for the other party to initiate reconciliation, emphasizing that healing begins with personal accountability and humility. He outlines eight characteristics of heavenly wisdom that can guide responses to conflict, ultimately leading to healing and restoration in relationships.

Shane Idleman emphasizes the role of a peacemaker in resolving conflicts, highlighting that while truth may bring division, our attitudes should reflect grace and love. He stresses the importance of actively pursuing peace in our homes and workplaces, as conflict is a natural part of life. Idleman encourages individuals to take the initiative in peacemaking, reminding us that forgiveness and grace are essential in overcoming bitterness and anger. He also points out that true peace requires effort and cannot be achieved passively. Ultimately, he calls for a commitment to fight for peace and embody the character of Christ in our interactions.