You may have to distance your self from them. If you sense a degree of dependence on them you will in time become like them. I have seen that happen. Having said that be aware that Jesus said that following him would create rifts in families. I am not sure how successful a child can be in bringing about revival/repentance to one's parents who are professing Christians, especially if they are "ministers". Yes, I think it would be appropriate to ask the elders in your brotherhood to pray for you. That is what they are for.Sandra
_________________Sandra Miller