Can someone help me? Isn't there a thread out there that is about: Is there a Mr. or Mrs. Right? I really cant remember what its called, thats why i cant find it. I think it was about if there was a single person that God has for you or if it was your choice. I don't really even know that for sure, I just remember seeing a title of something like that once and cannot remember where it was. Or maybe I'm just dreaming and need to start a thread?
_________________Josh Parsley
jesus first, Jesus second and jesus thirdI want jesus to be my matchmaker as the father is the heavenly matchmaker and that doesnt mean staying passively waiting around for god to drop a girl out of the sky. It is weird to think that I used to think that God would provide these things on a nice platter such as a church and all these things but I think it come under seek and you will find knock and the door will be open to you. Greater love has no man than this but to lay down his life for his friends. What are we looking for in a relationship,I find that to me that is important the ratio of girls to guys is something like a ratio of 7:1 one thing that i didnt realise is that some girls want to get married because they have a limited amount of time to produce children. I know nothing about this. Is singleness a disease in church, I mean pastors do not take you seriously if you are a student or single. Charles Spurgeon was young, Hudson Taylor was 23 and others. I find that in church people do not seem to take you seriously. Sorry for the dyametric ufamisms. I also find in church that there is a few clever christian girls but not many. That is what I want someone that I can talk to and be friends with and it is hard to find someone.There are a few. Sometimes I find in church it is like a manhunt. Coming from a housechurch which was mainly masculine and a youth group which had only guys and I grew up in a school which was very small and only had a few girls. It was scary to be brought into churches where men are few. We have a mens group in are Cu because the amount of girls to guys is immense, I also have done mainly guy related subjects like computing physics and chemistry. Business and Art there have been exceptions. The guy that I mosy want to be like was a prayer warrior like david not the guy who used to smash giants but the guy who used to be on his knees in prayer and to be sensitive to peoples needs. I want to be caring and loving. I know without god I cannot do this and if I have to be single all my life I will bles god in being single. What is important is that I want to love and be loved and I want to cuddle every living person out there in Jesus names from the Homeless guy on the street to the Homosexual. I want to show Jesus's love. I want to be balanced . I want to be single the Lords way
_________________Dominic Shiells
I am also not looking for misses Right to come along because I know that Jesus is my true love and marriage is only a shadow of what are realationship will be like with Jesus
