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In all things "doubtful" [the gray areas], that He would please give us the grace and peace to simply CEASE doing them, unless and until we receive more light from His Word in the matter.
Good point!! I merely address the unfortunate flip side, which, no doubt you are already know. Im being the devils advocate here, Im afraid.
We run into problesm whenever the doubtful areas get turned into heavy burdens on the conscience. In produces self-absorption - an obsession with ones behavior and a need to defend ones choices. Or it tempts Gods people to condemn others for their choices. This is exactly what happened in the holiness movement. It ultimately made wrecks out of people. It happened because of a shift from Christs holiness working freely to human holiness attained through endless strivings.
This topic, I think, begs us to consider the sad fact that the church has often taken on the role of dictating what is grey and therefore, by necessity, dictating who is to be suspected. Its been a way to control people and keep the church pure. However, the individuals conscience is put in bondage to human authorities: The brother then tries to do what pleases those whose approval he depends on for his sense of righteousness. Its immature morality even if its VERY GOOD behavior. Ive been there, and it derailed me (thankfully!). You can see why I tend to be adamant about protecting the conscience and keeping it free for Gods Spirit. God takes a whole lifetime to work in people. That's why patience is important. We can't go around extracting sin - as if it's merely an outer garment to remove.
Heres a thought: What if we shift this idea of doubtful to the area of the conscience. Isnt that what Romans 14 is addressing. If a certain behavior is going to violate the conscience of a believer (the one who is still wavering on whats right and wrong on the matter), you submit to that person and you avoid that behavior. Thats why you might not eat sacrificed meat or whatever. You are zealous to protect your brothers conscience.
A clear conscience is crucial in victorious living. Thats why unacknowledged sin is such a serious problem. It distances us from Christ. Christ has come to cleanse our consciences of guilt. But if we turn around and put guilt on peoples consciences, as a means to control behavior we are the ones in sin. Thats a sin that often gets overlooked that is, unacknowledged.
I wonder to what extent, in the revival of Wales, the call to abandon all grey activities was left to the consciences of the people. Im sure each person eagerly sacrificed compromised habits out of obedience to the Spirit, not for self-righteous purposes. If they were reasoning like the Pharisees did in Jesus day or like some in the later holiness movement, they would have actually resisted revival.
There is another factor that gets overlooked when thinking only about grey areas: God often calls his people to sacrifice what is perfectly acceptable in itself. Its surrendering the good for the better. And conversely God has used significantly flawed people to advance his kingdom.
Grace is so messy isnt it! Conversely law is so clear: black or white.
Diane
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| 2011/12/22 11:37 | Profile | Lysa Member
Joined: 2008/10/25 Posts: 3699 East TN for now!
| Re: What are "gray" areas when it comes to our walk? | | Quote:
MaryJane wrote: I have heard other believers say that not everything is "black and white" that there are a lot of gray areas? This is confusing to me especially when the topic is about sin...what "gray" areas are there according to the Bible? Didn't Jesus have very strong words to say about those who were neither "hot" or "cold" but rather lukewarm??? I always thought being lukewarm was rather like being in a "gray" area?
There are so many variables to a gray area as you call it and yet you cant call these gray areas being lukewarm either because sometimes its a knowledge issue. We are accountable for what we know; can a five year old be expected to balance a check book before they even know arithmetic? It might help if we try to look at each other as trees that are at different stages. Jesus gave examples to us about this and not just for our reading pleasure but for a purpose...
Apple trees, depending on the type, from seed take 4 to 6 years to bear good fruit. When we look at someone who is not as far along as we think they should be Christ, maybe we should ask ourselves: when was this person planted? Were they planted in good ground? When did they take root? Did a storm come along and damage the tree? When were they fertilized? Watered? Pruned? Do you see all the variables that affect a trees bearing fruit? There is no telling what has caused a gray area in a persons life, only if we have compassion on them and ask the Lord will He share with us what is going on.
And another variable is that not every person (Christian) has had a good teacher of the Spirit and of the word to help them bear good fruit. What I find is that more than not are the people (Christians), who are more quick to judge someones state of grace or gray area than they are to help them grow in grace so that one day they can help and love others too.
God bless, Lisa _________________ Lisa
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| 2011/12/22 12:18 | Profile | dietolive Member
Joined: 2007/6/29 Posts: 342
| Re: roadsign and Lysa | | Insightful points Sister Lisa :O)
And insightful points as well Sister Diane. :O)
I wonder in particular about the meaning and application of your response Maam... In particular, the danger you warn of: that men may try to usurp the place of the Holy Ghost over other believers and then require more than God does.
This is a DEEP topic... and this particular danger is one of a great many that threaten the Christian, as he or she "shoves off" from the "safety" of the doomed land, and sails into the rough waters that lead the Christian to Eternal Life.
Yet sail on he must, come what may.
I too have suffered under those who have demanded more than God does. I have also suffered under those who fail to even mention what God clearly does say to do.
Yet even now, I attend a local church that teaches some standards that arent even in the Old Testament, let alone in the New. And they teach against other standards of living that are plainly written in the New Testament for Christians, because those standards go against the recent artificial Hollywood culture we are forced to live in here in the West.
But what do I do? I abide by their standards, so as to not give offense to their consciences. And where I appear to do more than they do, I suffer the little stings that come with doing so. Some will avoid any mention of the difference. Others preach openly and publically against my differing practice. Yet I have learned to love both kinds. As Sister Lisa pointed out so well, I am aware that we are all in different places in our walks, with different experiences, both them and I.
Some may not do what I do, but have more inward grace than I have. - I am humbled, as I submit to and learn from them anyway. Some may do more than I see the Scriptures commanding us to do. - I am humbled, as I submit to their standard for their conscience sake anyway.
Let us be brave then! Let us put aside the doubts and worries and pain of past hurts from our minds. Simple gospel truths have great efficacy, IF we can somehow cast all else beside and simply BELIEVE them.
We may yet cast aside all doubtful things, yes EVEN the doubtful things of others. And at the same time, we can be perfectly FREE in doing so.
Be encouraged dear Sister. Be encouraged in Him all. :O) Doug |
| 2011/12/22 13:09 | Profile | Elibeth Member
Joined: 2011/8/14 Posts: 1148
| Re: | | Good morning,..a blessed morning ,
Mary Jane,
As I read / read what you were asking and meditating on this, I was Remembering a time when I was desperateley trying to make a devideing line, between what was Right and what was Wrong...( the Lord had already been bringing thing to my attention and bringing about a change ) But I was very dilagent wanting more of what God would have me be / do...in other words...How would the Lord ' judgements be in this / that be...Because , my whole heart wanted to do God' will. I know,by experience, this is not easy....I was consulting Him in every thing....it is not easy to determine the devideing line.
I know now,that we are are to keep our ear tuned to the Spirit, to be 'led by the Spirit' .
I was very young then, and just starting out with the Lord. Looking back now, I know that it was like when Paul first started out with the Lord, and he asked 'What would Thou have for me to do,Lord' I believe Paul continued to ask the Lord this, always...because he realized He was not ' his own' .That he now belonged to the Lord....and He was now Lord over his life.
I was thinking about this ,....would this be the only way that we too, could stay out of the gray erea ? Please note, I am not trying to be a ,know-it all ,but this is what happened to me. Much love, Elizabeth
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| 2011/12/22 13:54 | Profile | MaryJane Member
Joined: 2006/7/31 Posts: 3057
| Re: | | Thank you for the insightful replies. You have given me much to consider and pray on. I do look to the Lord for better understanding and pray it will help me with some things I find myself struggling with.
Doug you mentioned that, "Some may not do what I do, but have more inward grace than I have. - I am humbled, as I submit to and learn from them anyway. Some may do more than I see the Scriptures commanding us to do. - I am humbled, as I submit to their standard for their conscience sake anyway." ______________
when you say that "you submit to their standard" what exactly do you mean by that? I just wonder because something has been brought up to me as being sinful and I guess it is one of those areas that one would say is "gray" area. Do you submit to those around you and what they command even though you feel no personal conviction to do on the matter from the Holy Spirit?
God bless mj
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| 2011/12/22 14:02 | Profile | MaryJane Member
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| Re: | | Elizabeth wrote : 'What would Thou have for me to do,Lord' I believe Paul continued to ask the Lord this, always...because he realized He was not ' his own' .That he now belonged to the Lord....and He was now Lord over his life.
I was thinking about this ,....would this be the only way that we too, could stay out of the gray erea ?
Please note, I am not trying to be a ,know-it all ,but this is what happened to me. Much love, Elizabeth ___________________
This is probably the best way to handle things. Thank you for sharing with me. I did not feel like you where trying to be a know it all (smile) I appreciate everyone taking the time to help me sort through this and sharing what the Lord has laid on your heart.
God Bless mj |
| 2011/12/22 14:07 | Profile | dietolive Member
Joined: 2007/6/29 Posts: 342
| Re: MaryJane | | Dear Sister,
You said: "when you say that "you submit to their standard" what exactly do you mean by that?"
And: "Do you submit to those around you and what they command even though you feel no personal conviction to do on the matter from the Holy Spirit?"
Yes, I submit to standards of the Church even though I do not believe they are necessarily biblical. (They are good things, nothing bad. They just aren't literally commanded in Scripture.)
While I do submit, my conviction for doing so lies in something else altogether. The practical doctrine I am trying to convey is seen the most clearly in Romans 14. Here Paul says:
I know, and am persuaded by the Lord Jesus, that there is nothing unclean of itself: but to him that esteemeth any thing to be unclean, to him it is unclean. Romans 14:14
Using the then current issue of clean vs. unclean meats in the early churches, Paul lays out the general principle of how the strong are to walk with the weak.
Paul is strong: he knows that the mere partaking of certain kinds of food or drink is not a moral issue in Christ. Yet, he said there existed some in the church, real saved Brothers, who believed otherwise. Their consciences were offended by the practice of eating meat sold by gentiles. They believed it was sinful, and the consequences of deliberate sinning were seen to be very serious in those days:
But if thy brother be grieved with thy meat, now walkest thou not charitably. Destroy not him with thy meat, for whom Christ died. Romans 14:15
For meat destroy not the work of God. All things indeed are pure; but it is evil for that man who eateth with offence. Romans 14:20
"Destroy not him...", "destroy not the work of God...", Paul warned. This was why it was so important not to offend the weaker brothers in Pauls mind. They would be lost, perhaps irrevocably. That is why this is so important.
What is the solution then, if we are really willing to love our brothers as our own soul? Simply this, avoid even the doubtful thing, the "gray area" thing, if necessary:
It is good neither to eat flesh, nor to drink wine, nor any thing whereby thy brother stumbleth, or is offended, or is made weak.
Hast thou faith? have it to thyself before God. Happy is he that condemneth not himself in that thing which he alloweth. Romans 14:21-22
Dear MaryJane Consider the situation you find yourself in: I assume you believe the people telling you something is sin are truly saved. Are you in church fellowship with these people? Would God have you continue with them? Is this particular issue one that they feel would damn you or others who did it? Could some of the people who believe as they do also be offended from Christ (and therefore fall away), by your not going along? If the answer is yes to all these questions, then you face a similar situation to what Paul faced.
In this way, I myself try to weigh every conviction or standard of others by the final Standard: Is it biblical? If it is, I want to do it.
If it isnt, I begin asking myself the questions I asked you above. The Spirit and my conscience both then bare witness as to what I need to do in each case.
We then that are strong ought to bear the infirmities of the weak, and not to please ourselves. Romans 15:1
Just some thoughts regarding applying this early Christian practice of maintaining peace and unity in the churches.
In any and all cases, be guided by the Lord Ma'am. And,
Be well. Doug :O) |
| 2011/12/22 15:47 | Profile | mama27 Member
Joined: 2010/11/20 Posts: 1482
| Re: | | I heard a message by John MacArthur some time ago on gray areas that was helpful to me since we are parenting teens and young adults....Hope this helps....I believe you could find the longer version of the message on his website, gty.org
Glorifying God in Gray Areas
Selected Scriptures A165
John MacArthur
Making Decisions in Gray Areas
If the issue you are wondering about is not specifically addressed in the Bible, then it's helpful to ask these questions from 1 Corinthians to help you in deciding what to do. Asking these questions (and others like them) will help you make a wise decision based on sound biblical principles.
1. Will it benefit me spiritually? First Corinthians 10:23 says, "All things are lawful, but not all things are profitable. All things are lawful, but not all things edify."
2. Will it put me in bondage? First Corinthians 6:12 says, "All things are lawful for me, but I will not be mastered by anything." Any questionable practice that can be habit-forming is not wise to pursue.
3. Will it defile God's temple? First Corinthians 6:19-20 says, "Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and that you are not your own? For you have been bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body."We should not do anything with our bodies that would dishonor the Lord.
4. Will it cause others to stumble? First Corinthians 8:8-9 says, "Food will not commend us to God; we are neither the worse if we do not eat, nor the better if we do eat. But take care lest this liberty of yours somehow become a stumbling block to the weak." One should refrain from using his freedom in an area which might cause others to sin. For "by sinning against the brethren and wounding their conscience when it is weak, you sin against Christ. Therefore," Paul said, "if food causes my brother to stumble, I will never eat meat again, that I might not cause my brother to stumble."
5. Will it help the cause of evangelism? First Corinthians 10:32-33 says, "Give no offense either to Jews or to Greeks or to the church of God; just as I also please all men in all things, not seeking my own profit, but the profit of the many, that they may be saved." We must think of the effect any practice might have on our testimony to the lost.
6. Will it violate my conscience? First Corinthians 10:25-29 contains three references to abstaining from a certain practice "for conscience' sake." And Romans 14:23 says, "He who doubts is condemned if he eats, because his eating is not from faith; and whatever is not from faith is sin." If we are not sure whether an action is pleasing to God, we should not do it. That way our conscience will remain clear and our relationship to God will not be hindered.
7. Will it bring glory to God? First Corinthians 10:31 summarizes all these principles by saying, "Therefore, whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God."
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| 2011/12/22 17:03 | Profile | Sree Member
Joined: 2011/8/20 Posts: 1953
| Re: | | First of all Luke worm and Gray areas (as described my many here) are not same. Luke worm is to have a stagnated Christian life.
If Gray area is definied as things in which the Bible is not clear, then I feel there cannot be such an area in a persons life if he is filled with Holy Spirit.
1 John 3 20:- Beloved, if our heart does not condemn us, we have confidence [k]before God; 22 and whatever we ask we receive from Him, because we keep His commandments and do the things that are pleasing in His sight
I am hundred precent sure our heart will condemn us if we are doing something against the will of God, even though the scripture is silent about that subject we are dealing with. It is a promise given in scripture.
The reason some still believe in Gray areas because they expect scripture to prove everything as black and white. If there is no clear scripture then they think it is Gray. Actually Scripture cannot cover all things, that is why we have Holy Spirit.
_________________ Sreeram
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| 2011/12/22 17:27 | Profile | ginnyrose Member
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