Dear Brothers and Sisters,I want to thank the community for the faithful service render to the body of Christ over the years. I know for me personally this is something that has benefited me during certain seasons in my life as a Christian. So I come to you the body of Christ for some advice.
Prov 15:22 Without consultation, plans are frustrated, But with many counsellors they succeed.
check out the book on courtship by Joshua Harris, also read some articles on: http://www.boundless.org/guysthose can give you some helpful Godly advice. Also listen to Joshuar Harris' sermon called "Courtship Schmourtship", it will put some perspective on some things.
Brother, I strongly recommend Zac Poonen's book on this subject:[url=http://www.cfcindia.com/web/books/zac/sex_love_and_marriage.html]Sex, Love and Marriage[/url]I am now closing this thread. Questions like these are best left to private discussions; I feel it is not wise to invite this sort of theme to an open forum of men and women, boys and girls of all ages and levels of Christian maturity...for obvious reasons. I hope you understand this.Brother Paul
_________________Paul Frederick West