i find it really is "how much are you prepared to give up" to have him. how much will you die to self,tv,computer, friends, these are all good but in light of jesus christ the only God who ever died for me then i must die to live.i find the overwhelming thing the Holy Spirit is saying to me is "intimacy" he looks for a people to share his burdens.he wants to be our only love, my first love he is & if this brings me a label from friends, family , church, whoever i dont care as intimacy is what i desire his presence more than life, him my only love
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