1. love and pray for your marriage that prayers not hindered.1 Pet. 3:7 I find that the more I open up to her intimately and share my heart she is more interested than I would think. just like being thankful for all God does for me, she is his hand in good and favor that comes to me through her. we don't always agree, but I respect her for that. we all like blessings so does she. I have to humble myself when she may forget and give orders, I also see that she may be reminding me of what I forgot to do, alot of our relationship with our mate has to do with atitude. bottom line she is a gift, and I know her life is in my hands as well as mine in hers. God bless all with revival in marriage.