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 Be Ye Separate - J.C. Ryle (must read...this will change you)

Come Out, and Be Ye Separate

J C Ryle

“Come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord” (2 COR. vi. 17).

THE words that head this page touch a subject of vast importance in religion. That subject is the great duty of separation from the world.
This is the point which St. Paul had in view when he wrote to the Corinthians, “Come out - be separate.”

The subject is one that demands the best attention of all who profess and call themselves Christians. In every age of the Church
separation from the world has always been one of the grand evidences of a work of grace in the heart. He that has been really born of the
Spirit, and made a new creature in Christ Jesus, has always endeavoured to “come out from the world,” and live a separate life. They who
have only had the name of Christian without the reality, have always refused to “come out and be separate” from the world.

The subject perhaps was never more important than it is, at the present day. There is a widely-spread desire to make things pleasant in
religion—to saw off the corners and edges of the cross, and to avoid, as far as possible, self-denial. On every side we hear professing
Christians declaring loudly that we must not be “narrow and exclusive,” and that there is no harm in many things which the holiest saints
of old thought bad for their souls. That we may go anywhere, and do anything, and spend our time in anything, and read anything, and
keep any company, and plunge into anything, and all the while may be very good Christians—this, this is the maxim of thousands. In a
day like this I think it good to raise a warning voice, and invite attention to the teaching of God’s Word. It is written in that Word, “Come out,
and be separate.”

There are four points which I shall try to show my readers in examining this mighty subject.

I. First, I shall try to show that the world is a source of great danger to the soul.

II. Secondly, I shall try to show what is not meant by separation from the world.

III. Thirdly, I shall try to show in what real separation from the world consists.

IV. Fourthly, I shall try to show the secret of victory over the world.

And now, before I go a single step further, let me warn every reader of this paper that he will never understand this subject unless he first
understands what a true Christian is. If you are one of those unhappy people who think everybody is a Christian who goes to a place of
worship, no matter how he lives, or what he believes, I fear you will care little about separation from the world. But if you read your Bible,
and are in earnest about your soul, you will know that there are two classes of Christians—converted and unconverted. You will know that
what the Jews were among the nations under the Old Testament, the true Christian is meant to be under the New. You will understand
what I mean when I say that true Christians are meant, in like manner, to be a “peculiar people” under the Gospel, and that there must be
a difference between believers and unbelievers. To you, therefore, I make a special appeal this day. While many avoid the subject of
separation from the world, and many positively hate it, and many are puzzled by it, give me your attention while I try to show you the thing
as it is.

I. First of all, let me show that the world is a source of great danger to the soul.

By the world, be it remembered, I do not mean the material world on the face of which we are living and moving. He that pretends to say
that anything which God has created in the heavens above, or the earth beneath, is in itself harmful to man’s soul, says that which is
unreasonable and absurd. On the contrary, the sun, moon, and stars,—the mountains, the valleys, and the plains,—the seas, lakes, and
rivers,—the animal and vegetable creation,—all are in themselves very good. All are full of lessons of God’s wisdom and power, and all
proclaim daily, “The hand that made us is divine.” The idea that “matter” is in itself sinful and corrupt is a foolish heresy.

When I speak of “the world” in this paper, I mean those people who think only, or chiefly, of this world’s things, and neglect the world to
come,—the people who are always thinking more of earth than of heaven, more of time than of eternity, more of the body than of the soul,
more of pleasing man than of pleasing God. It is of them and their ways, habits, customs, opinions, practices, tastes, aims, spirit, and
tone, that I am speaking when I speak of “the world.” This is the world from which St. Paul tells us to “Come out and be separate.”

Now that the world, in this sense, is an enemy to the soul, the well-known Church Catechism teaches us at its very beginning. It tells us
that there are three things which a baptized Christian is bound to renounce and give up, and three enemies which he ought to fight with
and resiSt. These three are the flesh, the devil, and the world. All three are terrible foes, and all three must be overcome, if we would be

But, whatever men please to think about the Catechism, we shall do well to turn to the testimony of Holy Scripture. If the texts I am about to
quote do not prove that the world is a source of danger to the soul, there is no meaning in words.

(a) Let us hear what St. Paul says :— “Be not conformed to this world : but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind” (Rom. xii. 2).
“We have received, not the spirit of the world, but the spirit which is of God” (1 Cor. ii.12). Christ “gave Himself for our sins, that He might
deliver us from this present evil world” (Gal. i. 4).

“In time past ye walked according to the course of this world” (Eph. ii. 2).

“Demas hath forsaken me, having loved this present world” (2 Tim. iv. 10).

(b) Let us hear what St. James says:—“Pure religion and undefiled before God and the Father, is this, To visit the fatherless and widows
in their affliction, and to keep himself unspotted from the world” (James i. 27).

“Know ye not that the friendship of the world is enmity with God? Whosoever therefore will be a friend of the world, is the enemy of God”
(James iv. 4).

(c) Let us hear what St. John says:— “Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the
Father is not in him.

“For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world.

“And the world passeth away, and the lust thereof; but he that doeth the will of God abideth for ever” (1 John ii. 15-17),

“The world knoweth us not, because it knew Him not” (1 John iii. 1).

“They are of the world: therefore speak they of the world, and the world heareth them” (1 John iv. 5).

“Whatsoever is born of God overcometh the world” (1 John v. 4).

“We know that we are of God, and the whole world lieth in wickedness” (1 John v. 19).

(d) Let us hear lastly what the Lord Jesus Christ says:—“The care of this world. . . choke the word, and he becometh unfruitful” (Matt. xiii.

“Ye are of this world: I am not of this world” (John viii. 28).

“The Spirit of truth; whom the world cannot receive, because it seeth Him not, neither knoweth Him” (John xiv. 17).

“If the world hate you, ye know that it hated Me before it hated you” (John xv. 18).

“If ye were of the world, the world would love his own: but because ye are not of the world, but I have chosen you out of the world, therefore
the world hated you” (John xv. 19).

“In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world” (John xvi. 33).

“They are not of the world, even as I am not of the world” (John xvii. 16).

I make no comment on these twenty-two texts. They speak for themselves. If any one can read them carefully, and fail to see that the
world is an enemy to the Christian, and that there is an utter opposition between the friendship of the world and the friendship of Christ,
he is past the reach of argument, and it is waste of time to reason with him.

To my eyes they contain a lesson as clear as the sun at noonday.

I turn from Scripture to matters of fact and experience. I appeal to any old Christian who keeps his eyes open, and knows what is going on
in the churches. I ask him whether it be not true that nothing damages the cause of religion so much as “the world!” It is not open sin, or
open unbelief, which robs Christ of His professing servants, so much as the love of the world, the fear of the world, the cares of the world,
the business of the world, the money of the world, the pleasures of the world, and the desire to keep in with the world. This is the great
rock on which thousands of young people are continually making shipwreck. They do not object to any article of the Christian faith. They
do not deliberately choose evil, and openly rebel against God. They hope somehow to get to heaven at last; and they think it proper to
have some religion. But they cannot give up their idol: they must have the world. And so, after running well and bidding fair for heaven
while boys and girls, they turn aside when they become men and women, and go down the broad way which leads to destruction. They
begin with Abraham and Moses, and end with Demas and Lot’s wife.

The last day alone will prove how many souls the world has slain. Hundreds will be found to have been trained in religious families, and
to have known the Gospel from their very childhood, and yet missed heaven. They left the harbour of home with bright prospects, and
launched forth on the ocean of life with a father’s blessing and a mother’s prayers, and then got out of the right course through the
seductions of the world, and ended their voyage in shallows and in misery. It is a sorrowful story to tell; but, alas, it is only too common! I
cannot wonder that St. Paul says, “Come out and be separate.”

II. Let me now try to show what does not constitute separation from the world.

The point is one which requires clearing up. There are many mistakes made about it. You will sometimes see sincere and well-meaning
Christians doing things which God never intended them to do, in the matter of separation from the world, and honestly believing that they
are in the path of duty. Their mistakes often do great harm. They give occasion to the wicked to ridicule all religion and supply them with
an excuse for having none. They cause the way of truth to be evil spoken of, and add to the offence of the cross. I think it a plain duty to
make a few remarks on the subject. We must never forget that it is possible to be very much in earnest, and to think we are “doing God
service,” when in reality we are making some great mistake. There is such a thing as “zeal not according to knowledge.” There are few
things on which it is so important to pray for a right judgment and Christian common sense, as about separation from the world.

(a) When St. Paul said, “Come out and be separate,” he did not mean that Christians ought to give up all callings, trades, professions,
and worldly business. He did not forbid men to be soldiers, sailors, lawyers, doctors, merchants, bankers, shopkeepers, or tradesmen.
There is not a word in the New Testament to justify such a line of conduct. Cornelius the centurion, Luke the physician, Zenas the lawyer,
are examples to the contrary. Idleness is in itself a sin. A lawful calling is a remedy against temptation. “If any man will not work, neither
shall he eat” (2 Thess. iii. 10). To give up any business of life, which is not necessarily sinful, to the wicked and the devil, from fear of
getting harm from it, is lazy cowardly conduct. The right plan is to carry our religion into our business, and not to give up business under
the specious pretence that it interferes with our religion.

(b) When St. Paul said, “Come out and be separate;’ he did not mean that Christians ought to decline all intercourse with unconverted
people, and refuse to go into their society. There is no warrant for such conduct in the New Testament. Our Lord and His disciples did not
refuse to go to a marriage feast, or to sit at meat at a Pharisee’s table. St. Paul does not say, “If any of them that believe not bid you to a
feast,” you must not go, but only tells us how to behave if we do go (1 Cor. x. 27). Moreover, it is a dangerous thing to begin judging people
too closely, and settling who are converted and who are not, and what society is godly and what ungodly. We are sure to make mistakes.
Above all, such a course of life would cut us off from many opportunities of doing good. If we carry our Master with us wherever we go,
who can tell but we may save some, and get no harm?

(c) When St. Paul says, “Come out and be separate” he does not mean that Christians ought to take no interest in anything on earth
except religion. To neglect science, art, literature, and politics,—to read nothing which is not directly spiritual,—to know nothing about
what is going on among mankind, and never to look at a newspaper,—to care nothing about the government of one’s country, and to be
utterly indifferent as to the persons who guide its counsels and make its laws,—all this may seem very right and proper in the eyes of
some people. But I take leave to think that it is an idle, selfish neglect of duty. St. Paul knew the value of good government, as one of the
main helps to our “living a quiet and peaceable life in all godliness and honesty “(1 Tim. ii. 2). St. Paul was not ashamed to read heathen
writers, and to quote their words in his speeches and writing. St. Paul did not think it beneath him to show an acquaintance with the laws
and customs and callings of the world, in the illustrations he gave from them. Christians who plume themselves on their ignorance of
secular things are precisely the Christians who bring religion into contempt. I knew the case of a blacksmith who would not come to hear
his clergyman preach the Gospel, until he found out that he knew the properties of iron. Then he came.

(d) When St. Paul said, “Come out and be separate,” he did not mean that Christians should be singular, eccentric, and peculiar in their
dress, manners, demeanour and voice. Anything which attracts notice in these matters is most objectionable, and ought to be carefully
avoided. To wear clothes of such a colour, or made in such a fashion, that when you go into company every eye is fixed on you, and you
are the object of general observation, is an enormous mistake. It gives occasion to the wicked to ridicule religion, and looks self-
righteous and affected. There is not the slightest proof that our Lord and His apostles, and Priscilla, and Persis, and their companions,
did not dress and behave just like others in their own ranks of life. On the other hand, one of the many charges our Lord brings against
the Pharisees was that of making broad their phylacteries, and enlarging the borders of their garments, so as to be “seen of men” (Matt.
xxiii. 5). True sanctity and sanctimoniousness are entirely different things. Those who try to show their unworldliness by wearing
conspicuously ugly clothes, or by speaking in a whining, snuffling voice, or by affecting an unnatural slavishness, humility, and gravity of
manner, miss their mark altogether, and only give occasion to the enemies of the Lord to blaspheme.

(e) When St. Paul said “Come out and be separate,” he did not mean that Christians ought to retire from the company of mankind, and
shut themselves up in solitude. It is one of the crying errors of the Church of Rome to suppose that eminent holiness is to be attained by
such practices. It is the unhappy delusion of the whole army of monks, nuns, and hermits. Separation of this kind is not according to the
mind of ChriSt. He says distinctly in His last prayer, “I pray not that Thou shouldest take them out of the world, but that Thou shouldest
keep them from the evil” (John xvii. 15). There is not a word in the Acts or Epistles to recommend such a separation. True believers are
always represented as mixing in the world, doing their duty in it, and glorifying God by patience, meekness, purity, and courage in their
several positions, and not by cowardly desertion of them. Moreover, it is foolish to suppose that we can keep the world and the devil out of
our hearts by going into holes and corners. True religion and unworldliness are best seen, not in timidly forsaking the post which God
has allotted to us, but in manfully standing our ground, and showing the power of grace to overcome evil.

(f) Last, but not least, when St. Paul said, “Come out and be separate,” he did not mean that Christians ought to withdraw from every
Church in which there are unconverted members, or to refuse to worship in company with any who are not believers, or to keep away from
the Lord’s table if any ungodly people go up to it. This is a very common but a very grievous mistake. There is not a text in the New
Testament to justify it, and it ought to be condemned as a pure invention of man. Our Lord Jesus Christ Himself deliberately allowed
Judas Iscariot to be an apostle for three years, and gave him the Lord’s Supper. He has taught us in the parable of the wheat and tares
that converted and unconverted will be together till the harvest, and cannot be divided. In his Epistles to the Seven Churches, and in all St.
Paul’s Epistles, we often see faults and corruptions mentioned and reproved, but we are never told that they justify desertion of the
assembly, or neglect of ordinances. In short, we must not look for a perfect Church, a perfect congregation, and a perfect company of
communicants until the marriage supper of the Lamb. If others are unworthy Churchmen, or unworthy partakers of the Lord’s Supper, the
sin is theirs and not ours: we are not their judges. But to separate ourselves from Church assemblies, and deprive ourselves of Christian
ordinances, because others use them unworthily, is to take up a foolish, unreasonable, and unscriptural position. It is not the mind of
Christ, and it certainly is not St. Paul’s idea of separation from the world.

I commend these six points to the calm consideration of all who wish to understand the subject of separation from the world. About each
and all of them far more might be said than I have space to say in this paper. About each and all of them I have seen so many mistakes
made, and so much misery and unhappiness caused by those mistakes, that I want to put Christians on their guard. I want them not to
take up positions hastily, in the zeal of their first love, which they will afterwards be obliged to give up.

I leave this part of my subject with two pieces of advice, which I offer especially to young Christians.

I advise them, for one thing, if they really desire to come out from the world, to remember that the shortest path is not always the path of
duty. To quarrel with all our unconverted relatives, to cut all our old friends, to withdraw entirely from mixed society, to live an exclusive life,
to give up every act of courtesy and civility for the direct work of Christ—all this may seem very right, and may satisfy our consciences and
save us trouble. But I venture a doubt whether it is not often a selfish, lazy, self-pleasing line of conduct, and whether the true cross and
the true line of duty may not be to deny ourselves, and adopt a very different course of action. I advise them, for another thing, if they want
to come out from the world, to watch against a sour, morose, ungenial, gloomy, unpleasant, bearish demeanour, and never to forget that
there is such a thing as “winning without the Word” (1 Peter iii.1). Let them strive to show unconverted people that their principles,
whatever may be thought of them, make them cheerful, amiable, good-tempered, unselfish, considerate for others, and ready to take an
interest in everything that is innocent and of good report. In short, let there be no needless separation between us and the world. In many
things, as I shall soon show, we must be separate; but let us take care that it is separation of the right sort. If the world is offended by
such separation we cannot help it. But let us never give the world occasion to say that our separation is foolish, senseless, ridiculous,
unreasonable, uncharitable, and unscriptural.

III. In the third place I shall try to show what true separation from the world really is.

I take up this branch of my subject with a very deep sense of its difficulty, That there is a certain line of conduct which all true Christians
ought to pursue with respect to “the world, and the things of the world,” is very evident. The texts already quoted make that plain. The key
to the solution of that question lies in the word “separation.” But in what separation consists it is not easy to show. On some points it is
not hard to lay down particular rules; on others it is impossible to do more than state general principles, and leave every one to apply
them according to his position in life. This is what I shall now attempt to do.

(a) First and foremost, he that desires to “come out from the world, and be separate,” must steadily and habitually refuse to be guided by
the world’s standard of right and wrong.

The rule of the bulk of mankind is to go with the stream, to do as others, to follow the fashion, to keep in with the common opinion, and to
set your watch by the town clock. The true Christian will never be content with such a rule as that. He will simply ask, What saith the
Scripture? What is written in the Word of God? He will maintain firmly that nothing can be right which God says is wrong, and that the
custom and opinion of his neighbours can never make that to be a trifle which God calls serious, or that to be no sin which God calls sin.
He will never think lightly of such sins as drinking, swearing, gambling, lying, cheating, swindling, or breach of the seventh
commandment, because they are common, and many say, Where is the mighty harm? That miserable argument—“Everybody thinks so,
everybody says so, everybody does it, everybody will be there,” goes for nothing with him. Is it condemned or approved by the Bible? That
is his only question. If he stands alone in the parish, or town, or congregation, he will not go against the Bible. If he has to come out from
the crowd, and take a position by himself, he will not flinch from it rather than disobey the Bible. This is genuine Scriptural separation.

(b) He that desires to “come out from the world, and be separate,” must be very careful how he spends his leisure time.

This is a point which at first sight appears of little importance. But the longer I live the more I am persuaded that it deserves most serious
attention. Honourable occupation and lawful business are a great safeguard to the soul, and the time that is spent upon them is
comparatively the time of our least danger. The devil finds it hard to get a hearing from a busy man. But when the day’s work is over, and
the time of leisure arrives, then comes the hour of temptation.

I do not hesitate to warn every man who wants to live a Christian life, to be very careful how he spends his evenings. Evening is the time
when we are naturally disposed to unbend after the labours of the day; and evening is the time when the Christian is too often tempted to
lay aside his armour, and consequently gets trouble on his soul. “Then cometh the devil,” and with the devil the world. Evening is the time
when the poor man is tempted to go to the public-house, and fall into sin. Evening is the time when the tradesman too often goes to the
inn parlour, and sits for hours hearing and seeing things which do him no good. Evening is the time which the higher classes choose for
dancing, card playing, and the like; and consequently never get to bed till late at night. If we love our souls, and would not become worldly,
let us mind how we spend our evenings. Tell me how a man spends his evenings, and I can generally tell what his character is.

The true Christian will do well to make it a settled rule never to waste his evenings. Whatever others may do, let him resolve always to
make time for quiet, calm thought—for Bible-reading and prayer. The rule will prove a hard one to keep. It may bring on him the charge of
being unsocial and over-strict. Let him not mind this. Anything of this kind is better than habitual late hours in company, hurried prayers,
slovenly Bible-reading, and a bad conscience. Even if he stands alone in his parish or town, let him not depart from his rule. He will find
himself in a minority, and be thought a peculiar man. But this is genuine Scriptural separation.

(c) He that desires to “come out from the world, and be separate,” must steadily and habitually determine not to be swallowed up and
absorbed in the business of the world.

A true Christian will strive to do his duty in whatever station or position he finds himself, and to do it well. Whether statesman, or
merchant, or banker, or lawyer, or doctor, or tradesman, or farmer, he will try to do his work so that no one can find occasion for fault in
him. But he will not allow it to get between him and ChriSt. If he finds his business beginning to eat up his Sundays, his Bible-reading,
his private prayer, and to bring clouds between him and heaven, he will say, “Stand back! There is a limit. Hitherto thou mayest go, but no
further. I cannot sell my soul for place, fame, or gold.” Like Daniel, he will make time for his communion with God, whatever the cost may
be. Like Havelock, he will deny himself anything rather than lose his Bible-reading and his prayers. In all this he will find he stands
almost alone. Many will laugh at him, and tell him they get on well enough without being so strict and particular. He will heed it not. He will
resolutely hold the world at arm’s length, whatever present loss or sacrifice it may seen to entail. He will choose rather to be less rich and
prosperous in this world, than not to prosper about his soul. To stand alone in this way, to run counter to the ways of others, requires
immense self-denial. But this is genuine Scriptural separation.

(d) He that desires to “come out from the world, and be separate” must steadily abstain from all amusements and recreations which are
inseparably connected with sin.

This is a hard subject to handle, and I approach it with pain. But I do not think I should be faithful to Christ, and faithful to my office as a
minister, if I did not speak very plainly about it, in considering such a matter as separation from the world.

Let me, then, say honestly, that I cannot understand how any one who makes any pretence to real vital religion, can allow himself to
attend races and theatres. Conscience, no doubt, is a strange thing, and every man must judge for himself and use his liberty. One man
sees no harm in things which another regards with abhorrence as evil. I can only give my own opinion for what it is worth, and entreat my
readers to consider seriously what I say.

That to look at horses running at full speed is in itself perfectly harmless, no sensible man will pretend to deny. That many plays, such as
Shakespeare’s, are among the finest productions of the human intellect, is equally undeniable. But all this is beside the question. The
question is whether horse-racing and theatres in England are not inseparably bound up with things that are downright wicked. I assert
without hesitation that they are so bound up. I assert that the breach of God’s commandments so invariably accompanies the race and
the play, that you cannot go to the amusement without helping sin.

I entreat all professing Christians to remember this, and to take heed what they do. I warn them plainly that they have no right to shut their
eyes to facts which every intelligent person knows, for the mere. pleasure of seeing a horse-race, or listening to good actors or
actresses. I warn them that they must not talk of separation from the world, if they can lend their sanction to amusements which are
invariably connected with gambling, betting, drunkenness, and fornication. These are the things which God will judge. The end of these
things is death.

Hard words these, no doubt! But are they not true? It may seem to your relatives and friends very strait-laced, strict, and narrow, if you tell
them you cannot go to the races or the theatre with them. But we must fall back on first principles. Is the world a danger to the soul or is it
not? Are we to come out from the world or are we not? These are questions which can only be answered in one way.

If we love our souls we must have nothing to do with amusements which are bound up with sin. Nothing short of this can be called
genuine Scriptural separation from the world.

(e) He that desires to “come out from the world, and be separate,” must be moderate in the use of lawful and innocent recreations.

No sensible Christian will ever think of condemning all recreations. In a world of wear and tear like that we live in, occasional unbending
and relaxation are good. For the body and mind alike require seasons of lighter occupation, and opportunities of letting off high spirits,
and especially when they are young. Exercise itself is a positive necessity for the preservation of mental and bodily health. I see no harm
in cricket, rowing, running, and other manly athletic recreations. I find no fault with those who play at chess and such like games of skill.
We are all fearfully and wonderfully made. No wonder the poet says—

“Strange that a harp of thousand strings
Should keep in tune so long.”

Anything which strengthens nerves, and brain, and digestion, and lungs, and muscles, and makes us more fit for Christ’s work, so long
as it is not in itself sinful, is a blessing, and ought to be thankfully used. Any thing which will occasionally divert our thoughts from their
usual grinding channel in a healthy manner, is a good and not an evil.

But it is the excess of these innocent things which a true Christian must watch against, if he wants to be separate from the world. He
must not devote his whole heart, and soul, and mind, and strength, and time to them, as many do, if he wishes to serve ChriSt. There are
hundreds of lawful things which are good in moderation, but bad when taken in excess: healthful medicine in small quantities—
downright poison when swallowed down in huge doses. In nothing is this so true as it is in the matter of recreations. The use of them is
one thing, and the abuse of them is another. The Christian who uses them must know when to stop, and how to say Hold! enough! Do
they interfere with his private religion? Do they take up too much of his thoughts and attention? Have they a secularizing effect on his
soul? Have they a tendency to pull him down to earth? Then let him hold hard and take care. All this will require courage, self-denial, and
firmness. It is a line of conduct which will often bring on us the ridicule and contempt of those who know not what moderation is, and who
spend their lives in making trifles serious things and serious things trifles. But if we mean to come out from the world we must not mind
this. We must be “temperate” even in lawful things, whatever others may think of us. This is genuine Scriptural separation.

(f) Last, but not least, he that desires to “come out from the world, and be separate” must be careful how he allows himself in friendships,
intimacies, and close relationships with worldly people.

We cannot help meeting many unconverted people as long as we live. We cannot avoid having intercourse with them, and doing
business with them, unless “we go out of the world” (1 Cor. v. 10). To treat them with the utmost courtesy, kindness, and charity,
whenever we do meet them, is a positive duty. But acquaintance is one thing, and intimate friendship is quite another. To seek their
society without cause, to choose their company, to cultivate intimacy with them, is very dangerous to the soul. Human nature is so
constituted that we cannot be much with other people without effect on our own character. The old proverb will never fail to prove true: “Tell
me with whom a man chooses to live, and I will tell you what he is.”

The Scripture says expressly, “He that walketh with wise men shall be wise; but a companion of fools shall be destroyed” (Prov. xiii. 20).
If, then, a Christian, who desires to live consistently, chooses as his friends those who either do not care for their souls, or the Bible, or
God, or Christ, or holiness, or regard them as of secondary importanceit seems to me impossible for him to prosper in his religion. He
will soon find that their ways are not his ways, nor their thoughts his thoughts, nor their tastes his tastes; and that, unless they change, he
must give up intimacy with them. In short, there must be separation. Of course such separation will be painful. But if we have to choose
between the loss of a friend and the injury of our souls, there ought to be no doubt in our minds. If friends will not walk in the narrow way
with us, we must not walk in the broad way to please them. But let us distinctly understand that to attempt to keep up close intimacy
between a converted and an unconverted person, if both are consistent with their natures, is to attempt an impossibility.

The principle here laid down ought to be carefully remembered by all unmarried Christians in the choice of a husband or wife. I fear it is
too often entirely forgotten. Too many seem to think of everything except religion in choosing a partner for life, or to suppose that it will
come somehow as a matter of course. Yet when a praying, Bible-reading, God-fearing, Christ-loving, Sabbath-keeping Christian marries
a person who takes no interest whatever in serious religion, what can the result be but injury to the Christian, or immense unhappiness?
Health is not infectious, but disease is. As a general rule in such cases, the good go down to the level of the bad, and the bad do not
come up to the level of the good. The subject is a delicate one, and I do not care to dwell upon it. But this I say confidently to every
unmarried Christian man or woman—if you love your soul, if you do not want to fall away and backslide, if you do not want to destroy your
own peace and comfort for life, resolve never to marry any person who is not a thorough Christian, whatever the resolution may cost you.
You had better die than marry an unbeliever. Stand to this resolution, and let no one ever persuade you out of it. Depart from this
resolution, and you will find it almost impossible to “come out and be separate.” You will find you have tied a mill-stone round your own
neck in running the race towards heaven; and if saved at last it will be “so as by fire.” (1 Cor. iii. 15.)

I offer these six general hints to all who wish to follow St. Paul’s advice, and to come out from the world and be separate. In giving them, I
lay no claim to infallibility; but I believe they deserve consideration and attention. I do not forget that the subject is full of difficulties, and
that scores of doubtful cases are continually arising in a Christian’s course, in which it is very hard to say what is the path of duty, and
how to behave. Perhaps the following bits of advice may be found useful.—In all doubtful cases we should first pray for wisdom and
sound judgment. If prayer is worth anything, it must be specially valuable when we desire to do right, but do not see our way. In all
doubtful cases let us often try ourselves by recollecting the eye of God. Should I go to such and such a place, or do such and such a thing,
if I really thought God was looking at me? In all doubtful cases let us never forget the second advent of Christ and the day of judgment.
Should I like to be found in such and such company, or employed in such and such ways? Finally, in all doubtful cases let us find out
what the conduct of the holiest and best Christians has been under similar circumstances. If we do not clearly see our own way, we need
not be ashamed to follow good examples. I throw out these suggestions for the use of all who are in difficulties about disputable points,
in the matter of separation from the world. I cannot help thinking that they may help to untie many knots, and solve many problems.

IV. I shall now conclude the whole subject by trying to show the secrets of real victory over the world.

To come out from the world of course is not an easy thing. It cannot be easy so long as human nature is what it is, and a busy devil is
always near us. It requires a constant struggle and exertion; it entails incessant conflict and self-denial; it often places us in exact
opposition to members of our own families, to relations and neighbours; it sometimes obliges us to do things which give great offence,
and bring on us ridicule and petty persecution. It is precisely this which makes many hang back and shrink from decided religion. They
know they are not right ; they know that they are not so “thorough” in Christ’s service as they ought to be, and they feel uncomfortable and
ill at ease. But the fear of man keeps them back. And so they linger on through life with aching, dissatisfied hearts—with too much
religion to be happy in the world, and too much of the world to be happy in their religion. I fear this is a very common case, if the truth were

Yet there are some in every age who seem to get the victory over the world. They come out decidedly from its ways, and are unmistakably
separate. They are independent of its opinions, and unshaken by its opposition. They move on like planets in an orbit of their own, and
seem to rise equally above the world’s smiles and frowns. And what are the secrets of their victory? I will set them down.

(a) The first secret of victory over the world is a right heart. By that I mean a heart renewed, changed, and sanctified by the Holy Ghost—a
heart in which Christ dwells, a heart in which old things have passed away, and all things become new. The grand mark of such a heart
is the bias of its tastes and affections. The owner of such a heart no longer likes the world, and the things of the world, and therefore finds
it no trial or sacrifice to give them up. He has no longer any appetite for the company, the conversation, the amusements, the occupations,
the books which he once loved, and to “come out” from them seems natural to him. Great indeed is the expulsive power of a new
principle! Just as the new spring-buds in a beech hedge push off the old leaves, and make them quietly fall to the ground, so does the
new heart of a believer invariably effect his tastes and likings, and make him drop many things which he once loved and lived in, because
he now likes them no more. Let him that wants to “come out from the world, and be separate,” make sure first and foremost that he has
got a new heart. If the heart is really right, everything else will be right in time. “If thine eye be single, thy whole body shall be full of light”
(Matt. vi. 22.) If the affections are not right, there never will be right action.

(b) The second secret of victory over the world is a lively practical faith in unseen things. What saith the Scripture : “This is the victory that
overcometh the world, even our faith”? (1 John v. 4). To attain and keep up the habit of looking steadily at invisible things, as if they were
visible—to set before our minds every day, as grand realities, our souls, God, Christ, heaven, hell, judgment, eternity—to cherish an
abiding conviction that what we do not see is just as real as what we do see, and ten thousand times more important—this, this is one
way to be conquerors over the world. This was the faith which made the noble army of saints, described in the eleventh chapter of
Hebrews, obtain such a glorious testimony from the Holy GhoSt. They all acted under a firm persuasion that they had a real God, a real
Saviour, and a real home in heaven, though unseen by mortal eyes. Armed with this faith a man regards this world as a shadow
compared to the world to come, and cares little for its praise or blame, its enmity or its rewards. Let him that wants to come out from the
world and be separate, but shrinks and hangs back for fear of the things seen, pray and strive to have this faith. “All things are possible to
him that believeth” (Mark ix. 23). Like Moses, he will find it possible to forsake Egypt, seeing Him that is invisible. Like Moses, he will not
care what he loses and who is displeased, because he sees afar off, like one looking though a telescope, a substantial recompense of
reward. (Heb. i. 26).

(c) The third and last secret of victory over the world, is to attain and cultivate the habit of boldly confessing Christ on all proper occasions.
In saying this I would not be mistaken. I want no one to blow a trumpet before him, and thrust his religion on others at all seasons. But I
do wish to encourage all who strive to come out from the world to show their colours, and to act and speak out like men who are not
ashamed to serve ChriSt. A steady, quiet assertion of our own principles, as Christians—an habitual readiness to let the children of the
world see that we are guided by other rules than they are, and do not mean to swerve from them—a calm, firm, courteous maintenance of
our own standard of things in every company—all this will insensibly form a habit within us, and make it comparatively easy to be a
separate man. It will be hard at first, no doubt, and cost us many a struggle; but the longer we go on, the easier will it be. Repeated acts of
confessing Christ will produce habits. Habits once formed will produce a settled character. Our characters once known, we shall be
saved much trouble. Men will know what to expect from us, and will count it no strange thing if they see us living the lives of separate
peculiar people. He that grasps the nettle most firmly will always be less hurt than the man who touches it with a trembling hand. It as a
great thing to be able to say “No” decidedly, but courteously, when asked to do anything which conscience says is wrong. He that shows
his colours boldly from the first, and is never ashamed to let men see “whose he is and whom he serves,” will soon find that he has
overcome the world, and will be let alone. Bold confession is a long step towards victory.

It only remains for me now to conclude the whole subject with a few short words of application. The danger of the world ruining the soul,
the nature of true separation from the world, the secrets of victory over the world, are all before the reader of this paper. I now ask him to
give me his attention for the last time, while I try to say something directly for his personal benefit.

(1) My first word shall be a question. Reader, are you overcoming the world, or are you overcome by it? Do you know what it is to come out
from the world and be separate, or are you yet entangled by it, and conform to it? If you have any desire to be saved, I entreat you to
answer this question.

If you know nothing of “separation,” I warn you affectionately that your soul is in great danger. The world passeth away; and they who cling
to the world, and think only of the world, will pass away with it to everlasting ruin. Awake to know your peril before it be too late. Awake and
flee from the wrath to come. The time is short. The end of all things is at hand. The shadows are lengthening. The sun is going down,
The night cometh when no man can work. The great white throne will soon be set. The judgment will begin. The books will be opened.
Awake, and come out from the world while it is called to-day.

Yet a little while, and there will be no more worldly occupations and worldly amusements—no more getting money and spending
money—no more eating, and drinking, and feasting, and dressing, and ball-going, and theatres, and races, and cards, and gambling.
Reader, what will you do when all these things have passed away for ever? How can you possibly be happy in an eternal heaven, where
holiness is all in all, and worldliness has no place? Oh, consider these things, and be wise! Awake, and break the chains which the
world has thrown around you. Awake and flee from the wrath to come.

(2) My second word shall be a counsel. Reader, if you want to come out from the world, but know not what to do, take the advice which I
give you this day. Begin by applying direct, as a penitent sinner, to our Lord Jesus Christ, and put your case in his hands. Pour out your
heart before Him. Tell Him your whole story, and keep nothing back. Tell Him that you are a sinner wanting to be saved from the world, the
flesh, and the devil, and entreat Him to save you.

That blessed Saviour “gave Himself for our sins, that He might deliver us from this present evil world” (Gal. i. 2). He knows what the world
is, for He lived in it thirty and three years. He knows what the difficulties of a man are, for He was made man for our sakes, and dwelt
among men. High in heaven, at the right hand of God, He is able to save to the uttermost all who come to God by Him—able to keep us
from the evil of the world while we are still living in it—able to give us power to become the Sons of God—able to keep us from falling—
able to make us more than conquerors. Reader, once more I say, Go direct to Christ with the prayer of faith, and put yourself wholly and
unreservedly in His hands. Hard as it may seem to you now to come out from the world and be separate, you shall find that with Jesus
nothing is impossible. You, even you, shall overcome the world.

(3) My third and last word shall be encouragement. Reader, if you have learned by experience what it is to come out from the world, I can
only say to you, Take comfort, and persevere. You are in the right road; you have no cause to be afraid. The everlasting hills are in sight.
Your salvation is nearer than when you believed. Take comfort and press on.

No doubt you have had many a battle, and made many a false step. You have sometimes felt ready to faint, and been half disposed to go
back to Egypt. But your Master has never entirely left you, and He will never suffer you to be tempted above that you are able to bear. Then
persevere steadily in your separation from the world, and never be ashamed of standing alone. Settle it firmly in your mind that the most
decided Christians are always the happiest, and remember that no one ever said at the end of his course that he had been too holy, and
lived too near to God.

Hear, last of all, what is written in the Scriptures of truth:

“Whosoever shall confess Me before men, him shall the Son of man also confess before the angels of God” (Luke xii. 8).

“There is no man that hath left house, or brethren, or sisters, or father, or mother, or wife, or children, or lands, for my sake, and the

“But he shall receive an hundredfold now in this time, houses, and brethren, and sisters, and mothers; and children, and lands, with
persecutions; and in the world to come eternal life” (Mark x. 29, 30).

“Cast not away therefore your confidence, which hath great recompense of reward.

“For ye have need of patience, that, after ye have done the will of God, ye might receive the promise.

“For yet a little while, and He that shall come will come, and will not tarry” (Heb. x. 35—37).

Christian reader, those words were written and spoken for your sake. Lay hold on them, and never forget them. Persevere to the end, and
never be ashamed of coming out from the world, and being separate. Be sure it brings its own reward.


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 Re: Be Ye Separate - J.C. Ryle (must read...this will change you)

This is a wonderful article. I thought I would bump it up…just in case some folks missed it.

For those that are not familiar with J.C. Ryle…start anywhere…you will be blessed.


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