Of Patience by Tertullian
Chapter XII.--Certain Other Divine Precepts The Apostolic Description of Charity. Their Connection with Patience.
As regards the rule of peace, which is so pleasing to God, who in the world that is prone to impatience will even once forgive his brother, I will not say |seven times,| or |seventy-seven times?| Who that is contemplating a suit against his adversary will compose the matter by agreement, unless he first begin by lopping off chagrin, hardheartedness, and bitterness, which are in fact the poisonous outgrowths of impatience? How will you |remit, and remission shall be granted| you if the absence of patience makes you tenacious of a wrong? No one who is at variance with his brother in his mind, will finish offering his |duteous gift at the altar,| unless he first, with intent to |reconciliate his brother,| return to patience. If |the sun go down over our wrath,| we are in jeopardy: we are not allowed to remain one day without patience. But, however, since Patience takes the lead in every species of salutary discipline, what wonder that she likewise ministers to Repentance, (accustomed as Repentance is to come to the rescue of such as have fallen,) when, on a disjunction of wedlock (for that cause, I mean, which makes it lawful, whether for husband or wife, to persist in the perpetual observance of widowhood), she waits for, she yearns for, she persuades by her entreaties, repentance in all who are one day to enter salvation? How great a blessing she confers on each! The one she prevents from becoming an adulterer; the other she amends. So, too, she is found in those holy examples touching patience in the Lord's parables. The shepherd's patience seeks and finds the straying ewe: for Impatience would easily despise one ewe; but Patience undertakes the labour of the quest, and the patient burden-bearer carries home on his shoulders the forsaken sinner. That prodigal son also the father's patience receives, and clothes, and feeds, and makes excuses for, in the presence of the angry brother's impatience. He, therefore, who |had perished| is saved, because he entered on the way of repentance. Repentance perishes not, because it finds Patience (to welcome it). For by whose teachings but those of Patience is Charity -- the highest sacrament of the faith, the treasure-house of the Christian name, which the apostle commends with the whole strength of the Holy Spirit -- trained? |Charity,| he says, |is long suffering;| thus she applies patience: |is beneficent;| Patience does no evil: |is not emulous;| that certainly is a peculiar mark of patience: |savours not of violence:| she has drawn her self-restraint from patience: |is not puffed up; is not violent;| for that pertains not unto patience: |nor does she seek her own| if, she offers her own, provided she may benefit her neighbours: |nor is irritable;| if she were, what would she have left to Impatience? Accordingly he says, |Charity endures all things; tolerates all things;| of course because she is patient. Justly, then, |will she never fail;| for all other things will be cancelled, will have their consummation. |Tongues, sciences, prophecies, become exhausted; faith, hope, charity, are permanent:| Faith, which Christ's patience introduced; hope, which man's patience waits for; charity, which Patience accompanies, with God as Master.