EDIT --- darn it ! this is the second time I've accidentally created a new thread .... this post should be on the thread about "Our Most Treasured Idol" ..... talking to granny Annie, to alleviate any potential misunderstandings on our meanings of "being heard"----------------------for clarification, just in case ....about "being heard" ... I hope you don't hear me ( or the speaker I quoted ) meaning that when we need to bring our heartaches, pains, past griefs, puzzlements about the Church life, etc .....that this should not be "heard"but to what this thread's about - Being Right ...and our needing to be heard in our "right opinions"that must go to the CrossBaruch