Not at all. We would expect the intimacy of a spouse from a spouse. We would expect the intimacy of brotherhood from a brother. The intimacy with share with Christ is so much more. In the times when we feel alone, we can press into Him and experience intimacy on a level above all other relationships. We can experience His love, His strength, His companionship. And we can seek Him to lead us to the earthly relationships that we desire. In the meantime, and at all times really, patience and rest in Him.