Whenever we lead others into a place of agreeing with ourselves it is called self justification. This is a form of self exaltation that is diametrically opposed to justification through the shed blood of Jesus Christ.
That is true sister, we need to have the mind-set of the Apostle Paul that pleased God and not men and did not seek the approval of men.Many who believe a strange doctrine or interoperation try immediately to share it with a few others to get that validation. That is the wrong way we must go to God Himself first.
_________________SI Moderator - Greg Gordon