Proverbs 14:21 He who despises his neighbour SINS. We can not look down on with disdain or think scornfully of some one that has fallen the bible calls this sin. Because you who pass judgement is well capable of doing the same thing. God's kindness will lead them to repentance. Our job is only to love on them as God loves them. May God pour his love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, to love, strengthen, heal, bind up and care for the broken hearted.