It all began when Leah questioned the validity of excommunication of people, a source said of her decision. She is stepping back from a regime she thinks is corrupt. She thinks no religion should tear apart a family or abuse someone under the umbrella of religion. Former Sea Org member Mike Rinder blogged this week that at Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes 2006 wedding, Remini innocently asked where Miscaviges wife, Shelly, was. Former Scientology Celebrity Centre head Tommy Davis scolded her, You dont have the [bleeping] rank to ask about Shelly. Mrs. Miscavige reportedly hasnt been seen in public since 2007.As a result, Remini was put through interrogations and blacklisted within the church that she donated millions to and that her family has spent their lives in. She was put through thought modification for five years, our source said.The source added that church friends Remini had for 25 to 30 years wrote internal reports about her that caused an investigation on her family.Someone close to Remini said shes weighing going public when she sees what the church tries to do. She has heard they use people to scare you into silence.The source added, Shes from Brooklyn. The church cant hurt her . . . they dont have her family, thats all that matters to her. And, Its not about wanting or not wanting to do Scientology . . . The issue is that [Miscavige] is taking down this church and hurting people and families.A Scientology rep denied all allegations.Personal observation: Spiritual abuse and mind control can happen in any religious organization. "No religion should tear apart a family or abuse someone under the umbrella of "religion.""