Sure, we all have had the same attitude.
I can tell You our story about: We started to pray for revival in the church. Prayed for some month.
In that summer, it had been turned out the pastor's daughter will have a baby with Dawn syndrome. We prayed for healing, but nothing happened. One week later, the mother of my pastor's wife died.
Next week, I married my wife, and went to honeymoons. BAck to home, we had a car crash. It was not my fault, but because of a crazy hungarian regulation, I had to take the responsibility: to pay the damages.
We had no injuries, but cost a lot a money to repair the car. Moreover, it was my sister-in-law's car.
7 month later after her birth, the baby died.
Since a time, I can not find a job, only I worked 5-6 month in the past one year, with a diploma of civil engineering (because the financial crisis).
God made with us, that removed all other supports.
We have lost a lot of things: all our supports of religion, money, etc.
Our faith went through burning fire. Almost lost my faith.
First, I was angry for God. I guess, we all were angry and bitter, when He removes our support, and destroys our theology: "if You bless me..."
Our faith went through cleansing fire, and all was burned, what is not faith in Him, but only in His blessings.
But in this state, if You hav no other choice, just to call on the name of the Lord, as the only one, that can help. You'll be broken: never be the same as before. Just like Jacob, at Penuel. This is one of my favourite verse:
Hos 12:4 Yea, he had power over the angel, and prevailed: he wept, and made supplication unto him: he found him in Bethel, and there he spake with us;
This is the secret:)
But I must tell, everyone is winner, if vanquished by God. If You are serious, God will ensure the fire for Your sacrifice.
Since that time, God gave another baby for the precious brothers, healthy. The church got fire. But now, we are standing on Christ, not on His blessings.