Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. (Prov. 31:10What are some of the things that a Christian husband desires in his wife? The following is a suggested list. Hopefully no one will be so immature as to expect all this in any one woman.First of all, she should be a godly woman-one who is not only born again but spiritually minded as well. This woman puts Christ first in her life. She is a woman of prayer and active in the service of the Lord. A woman of Christian character and integrity whom he can respect spiritually; and who respects him in return.She is a woman who takes her God-given place of subjection and who actively assists her husband to take his proper place as head
She is faithful to her marriage vows She is a good wife and mother of her children She is personally neat and attractive, one who does not go to extremes in dress, one who is feminine and ladylike but not prissy.This ideal wife is a good homemaker, who keeps the place neat and clean and who manages its affairs efficiently. She serves good meals on a regular schedule and loves to show hospitality to others
It goes without saying that she should share the same goals and interests as her husband.When differences arise, she is willing to bring her problems to the surface rather than clam up, pout or sulk. She is willing to negotiate differences and is able to apologize and confess if necessary.She is not a gossip nor a busybody, meddling in other peoples affairs. She has a meek and a quiet spirit and is not contentious or a nagger.This wife cooperates in living within the family income. She is not obsessed with a desire for fancy things, and does not strive to keep up with the Joneses.She is willing to accept adversity, if necessary.She renders her husband his conjugal rights joyfully, not passively nor disinterestedly.She has a good temperament, is a good sport, is not a social climber, and is entirely trustworthy.Husbands should be grateful when they find a majority of these traits in their wives, and wives can use these as a checklist to help them climb higher.
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