the saddest thing is to wake up in heaven with a "part" of you burning in hell: [family members,friends, all love ones, those you talked with, or seen,or heard, even your enemies.]
I strongly believe the Lord Jesus Christ will ask each and every believer on that glorious day "whom did you bring with you into my Kingdom?" How then will you answer Him if all you did was "lived for yourself?"
So you see you don't want any of your love ones to perish, and with trembling, crying, prayer and fasting you would that they come to know The LORD JESUS CHRIST, that is the burden of Love, not to let anyone perish, that is the burden of Love, and can you compare this little burden you have with the burden of the Lord Jesus Christ, who loves the world so much that He shed His precious Blood for our sake,
yet still are we rebellious,
yet still will we not come to Him,
yet still we run away from salvation.
You see the Burden that the Lord Jesus has? it's for the whole world not just a few people but the whole earth. the burden of Love, to send but they will not come, to call but they will not answer and many more others which we still will not heed.
if you Love the Lord Jesus Christ you will share in His precious burden. He said my yoke is light and my burden easy. yes, that is the burden of Love, it's to save and not condemn even the vilest soul.