I believe this is what we are missing- a living testimony within our own lives! We can preach/teach want we want until the cows come home, but people look at our lives before they listen to our words. Our words should be a direct reflection of our lives.
"Holiness, Truth, and the Presence of God" was one of the first books I read that started to turn my lukewarm Christian life around. This article is adapted from this book.
-The Converting Power of True Holiness-
One of the most common verses in the New Testament reads, "and great
multitudes followed Jesus." The gospel of Matthew alone mentions over
twenty distinct instances when vast numbers of people traveled great
distances to be with Christ. People saw in Jesus meekness, unlimited
power, and perfect love. If we would win souls, people must see in us
this same Jesus.
When People Saw Jesus
"And Jesus called His disciples to Him, and said, 'I feel compassion for
the multitude, because they have remained with Me now three days and have
nothing to eat.'" Matthew 15:32
There were two occasions when Jesus fed the multitudes. The first event
occurred in a desolate region of the Judean wilderness, and it lasted one
day. During the second event, the multitudes had been with Jesus for
three days without food on a hillside near the Sea of Galilee.
The impact Christ had upon the local Jewish society was unprecedented!
Their entire economy stopped. No one picked over or sold vegetables in
the marketplaces, goats were not milked, gardens were left untended, and
relatives watching little children did not know when the parents would
return! For three days nothing at all was normal.
They Left All
These local communities left all when they heard Jesus was near. Without
forethought, without packing a donkey, without so much as taking extra
food or telling those who remained at home when to expect them, four
thousand men, plus additional thousands of women and children,
spontaneously followed Christ to a "desolate place." Perhaps ten thousand
or more people left their villages, but we read of no one complaining
that "the service was too long," or "the weather too hot" or "the message
was boring." Whatever they lacked in comfort and convenience was
overshadowed by the glory of being with Jesus!
How wonderful it must have been to be with Jesus! The first time Christ
fed the multitudes, the people were so overwhelmed they conspired
together to "take Him by force, to make Him king" (John 6:15).
Such was Jesus. But a problem exists among many of us. People who do not
really know God's Son seek to represent Him to others. Instead of
testifying of His wonderful works, they testify only of their religion.
The unsaved do not see Jesus. They hear about church, they are told sin
is wrong, lusts are evil, and drunkenness a terrible shame, but they do
not see the wonder of the love of Jesus. Yes, these things are wrong, but
people must meet the love of Jesus before they will abandon their love of
Called to Silence
Plainly, Jesus called a number of people to silence concerning Himself.
There were some whom He told, "See that you tell no one" (Matt. 8:4, also
9:30, 12:16). Others He outright forbade to speak, even though what they
spoke was truth (Mark 3:11-12). Still others He warned would be doing
great works, yet He neither sent them nor spoke to them, nor did He ever
know them (Matt. 7:22-23). Indeed, there were even those of whom He
warned whose zeal for converts took them over "sea and land," yet their
proselytes became "twice as much a son of hell" as they themselves were
It is not our goal to discourage any from witnessing, especially when the
need is so great in our society. Still, we must realize that what we are
routinely - in attitude and deed - is a living testimony that, without
our premeditation, is "known and read by all men" (2 Cor. 3:2). A
"witness" is not just that which is "said"; it is that which is seen. If
we will draw men to Christ in heaven, they must be eyewitnesses of Christ
in us. But, if we have flagrant sin or self-righteousness, our witness is
Let Your Light So Shine
Light, in the Scriptures, symbolizes the out-raying purity of the Holy
God. When our hearts and subsequent actions are pure, the light of God's
Presence shines through us into this world. It is with this in mind that
Jesus tells us to let our light shine before men in such a way that they
see our good works and glorify the Father (Matt. 5:16).
If good works glorify the Father, then bad works bring Him dishonor. Paul
tells us that the "name of God is blasphemed among the Gentiles" because
of the sins of those who fail to represent Him (Rom. 2:24).
King David was a great witness of the Living God to his generation, but
when David sinned his witness became a reproach. In the 51st Psalm,
David's prayer reveals the right attitudes necessary to truly witness for
God. He prayed, "Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a steadfast
spirit within me. ...Then I will teach transgressors Thy ways, and
sinners will be converted to Thee" (Ps. 51:10-13).
You see, the credibility of our witness is lost when sin rules in our
lives. The world has heard too many Christians give testimony to a life
they are not living. They cause multitudes of people to think
Christianity does not work.
How to Know When to Witness
"But sanctify Christ as Lord in your hearts, always being ready to make a
defense to everyone who asks you...for the hope that is in you, yet with
gentleness and reverence." 1 Peter 3:15
Many Christians are told to witness for Jesus. Again, we would not
discourage your witness for Jesus; rather we seek to encourage you to
live for Him as well! Let people see Him in you before you testify. There
are Christians who publicly sin in the work place: they lose their
tempers and do bad work, they are often late or heard complaining about
management and job conditions. Yet, they feel compelled to give their
testimony. They profess to know God, but by their deeds they deny Him
(Titus 1:16). A "voice" in their minds compels them to "witness for
Jesus." Sometimes that voice is the Holy Spirit, but more often it is
not. Undaunted, they are sure it is from heaven, since they feel "guilty"
until they witness and feel "good" afterward.
There is one sure way to know if the voice urging you to witness is from
God: If the voice speaking to you is the audible voice of someone who has
seen your good works and is asking about your way of life, that voice has
been inspired by God. When people see Christ in you - in your patience
when wronged, your peace in adversity, your forgiveness amidst cruelty -
they will ask about your hope.
The Seed of Reproduction is in Your Fruit
If your conversion is genuine, you found a love for Jesus that is, in
itself, a witness of His life. Unfortunately, we often seek to lead
people into our religion instead of to Christ. How often we seek to
convert our family and friends into a particular church structure. People
must be led to Jesus, not merely to church.
Let us always remember, Jesus wants to reach people, not drive them away.
How does God expect us to do that? First, let us make sure our conversion
is real, that we have truly given over our lives to Jesus Christ. Then,
determine to bear the spiritual fruit of love and humility in your life.
In the Garden of Eden the Lord placed trees with "seed in the fruit."
Remember, beloved, the seed that has power to reproduce life is in the
fruit. If you would like to see the life of Christ reproduced in your
loved ones or friends, walk in the fruit of the Spirit, for the power of
reproduction is in the seed and the seed is in your fruit. The fruit we
must display comes from the Tree of Life, which brings "healing of the
nations" (Rev. 22:2). It is not in the tree of knowledge of good and evil
- legalistic laws, judging what is wrong in people.
A Sure Sign
Should you sin or stumble before them, which we all do at times, repent
both to God and to those you have sinned against. A sincere repentance to
an unsaved person is a sure sign that God is both real and in control of
Parents: do you want your children raised for Christ? Do you want your
words to impart eternal life? Walk in the fruit of the Holy Spirit. As
your children are nourished by the fruit in your life, the seeds within
your fruitfulness will reproduce in your family the same qualities. Would
you convert your spouse? Your parents? Your friends? Walk in the fruit of
the Spirit, in love, joy, peace, patience, and kindness. Those who know
you will find your life very attractive, for through your life they will
see the holy life of Jesus.
Adapted from Holiness, Truth and the Presence of God -By Francis Frangipane